Lust in Translation

What if the beliefs you were taught about sex, purity, and relationships were never actually yours?In this episode, Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach Lauren Elise Rogers unpacks the hidden impact of purity culture and the long road back to personal agency, pleasure, and truth. She shares her story of growing up in a highly controlled religious environment, navigating a marriage shaped by repression and confusion, and ultimately reclaiming her identity and voice.Lauren takes us inside the emotional and psychological unraveling that comes with questioning everything you were taught about desire, gender roles, and partnership. From how sexual shame lives in the body to the deep rewiring required to build healthy, fulfilling relationships, this conversation is raw, honest, and deeply illuminating.Together, we explore the intersection of sexuality, faith, trauma, and healing—offering a nuanced, real-world look at what it takes to reconnect with your body, your desires, and your truth.Whether you're unpacking your upbringing, craving deeper intimacy in long-term relationships, or simply curious about how desire is shaped (and reshaped), this episode is a powerful invitation to rethink everything you thought you knew about sex and connection.00:00 – Introduction & Lauren’s background01:00 – Growing up in purity culture03:00 – Ownership of the body & early conditioning05:00 – Marriage expectations and gender roles07:00 – Trauma, loss, and a broken marriage08:30 – Feeling undesired & sexual confusion10:00 – Discovering desire and self-exploration12:00 – Shame, literature, and awakening sexuality14:00 – What actually turns people on16:00 – Eroticism vs long-term relationships18:00 – Reintroducing desire in partnerships20:00 – Role play, fantasy, and mental stimulation21:30 – Faith vs sexuality: can they coexist?24:00 – Rewriting harmful beliefs about sex26:00 – Biology, pleasure, and the body28:00 – Female desire and evolutionary dynamics30:00 – Owning sexuality without shame32:00 – Why sex education failed us34:00 – Coaching clients through sexual shame37:00 – Rewiring beliefs stored in the body39:00 – Cultural messaging and gender roles41:00 – Marriage, obligation, and sexual expectations43:00 – Toys, pleasure, and removing stigma46:00 – Expanding pleasure in real life48:00 – Monogamy, safety, and desire50:00 – Rethinking marriage and fulfillment52:00 – Dating scripts and societal conditioning53:30 – Sexual health and overall well-being55:00 – Parenting and breaking the cycle57:00 – Comprehensive sex education vs abstinence59:00 – Raising confident, informed kids01:01:00 – Final thoughts & closing⸻Couple's Intimacy Card Deck - https://www.wonderlust.co/intimacy-card-deckCode LUST15 for 15% off⸻Lauren Elise Rogers is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach to her coaching, podcasts, and speaking engagements, offering practical tools that empower her clients and audiences to take ownership of their pleasure and grow in confidence and connection. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like long-term partnerships, consensual non-monogamy, life transitions, purity culture and LGBTQIA+ issues.Follow Lauren here: instagram.com/sex_ed_for_youLauren's website: https://sexedforyou.com/⸻Lust in Translation PodcastDesire, Decoded.Subscribe to the Lust in Translation newsletter: lustintranslation.comFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lustintranslationpod/Follow Natassia on on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/natassiamiller/