My Best Ex

End of Year Wrap- Celebrating Growth and ChangeJoin Gloria and Zina as they wrap up 2025 with reflections, gratitude, and a look ahead to 2026. In this episode, they share personal rituals, discuss the journey of Gloria's show "Auntie Supreme" in development with CBS, and explore the power of surrender and listening as they prepare for the new year. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with laughter, insights, and a celebration of friendship and new beginnings.

Gloria and Zina explore the complexities of navigating grief and loss during the holiday season. They discuss personal experiences with loss, the importance of honoring loved ones, and the emotional fluctuations that come with grief. The conversation emphasizes the significance of kindness and connection, especially during difficult times, and how acts of generosity can serve as a tribute to those we've lost like Zina’s brother Brad. Through heartfelt stories and reflections, they provide insights into coping strategies and the importance of community support.

Gloria and Zina discuss their experiences surrounding Zina's recent wedding, touching on themes of friendship, life changes, and the emotional journey of planning and executing a wedding. They share personal anecdotes about the road trip to the wedding, unexpected weather challenges, and the magic of the ceremony. The conversation emphasizes the importance of being present during significant life events and offers advice for future couples planning their weddings.

Gloria and Zina discuss Zina's upcoming wedding, the excitement surrounding it, and the preparations involved. They delve into the significance of intimate weddings, the process of writing personal vows, and the deeper meaning of marriage beyond just the ceremony. They talk about the peak queerness of Gloria giving the toast at the wedding and the  conversation highlights the importance of support from friends and family, the challenges of finding the perfect wedding attire, and reflections on relationships and love.

In this episode of My Best Ex, Gloria and Zina go down a musical memory lane with a chat about the Lilith Fair documentary. They also check in about their personal assignments, the metaphor of trees shedding their baggage, and the significance of female artists in the 90s music scene. The conversation culminates in imagining a modern-day Lilith Fair, highlighting the ongoing need for spaces that celebrate women in music.

In this episode, Gloria and Zina check-in on the assignments that Glo gave to Zina. They discuss the importance of recognizing small miracles in daily life, and the challenges of journaling. They also explore the concept of artist dates as a form of self-care and reflect on Gloria's recent birthday trip to Banff, Canada, highlighting the beauty of nature and the joy of reconnecting with friends.

Zina weighs in on the life assignments she gave Gloria. They also discuss the challenges of navigating career paths and the power of positive thinking and manifestation. The conversation emphasizes the significance of joy in the creative process and the need to surrender to life's uncertainties while remaining open to new possibilities. Gloria gives Zina some life assignments that she needs to work on for the next time they chat. 

Gloria and Zina discuss the challenges and adjustments of moving from LA to Atlanta, including feelings of homesickness and the search for familiar comforts like food. They explore the importance of self-care routines, the excitement of new adventures, and the complexities of dating in a new city. Zina gives Gloria an assignment to get out of the house and try something new. We’ll see the next episode if that happens!

In this episode, Gloria and Zina explore themes of friendship, life transitions, and personal aspirations through a card game, “Scenario Cards,” a late night “I can’t sleep purchase,”  that Gloria purchased at 3am off of Instagram. They discuss their new living situations, reflect on their dreams of experiencing natural wonders, and share their thoughts on what they would wish for if given a miraculous opportunity. The episode concludes with insights on living a better life and announces a change in the podcast's release schedule.

Get ready for some Big Dana Energy as we welcome the absolutely incredible Dana Goldberg to the show! Dana brings her signature wit and warmth as she dishes on everything from her bartending days to navigating the wild world of maintaining friendships with exes.Dana, who’s raised over $70 million for causes close to her heart through organizations like GLAAD and the Human Rights Campaign, proves that comedy really can change the world – one laugh at a time. But today, we’re diving deep into the more personal side of this comedian’s life.From hilarious behind-the-scenes stories of her comedy career to the surprisingly sweet dynamics of staying close with former flames, Dana keeps us laughing while dropping some serious wisdom about authenticity, romance, and the art of meaningful connections. Plus, you’ll discover why she’s earned a permanent spot on our “favorite people” list and what makes her friendship with her best-ex so special.Trust us – Dana’s infectious personality and razor-sharp humor will leave you wanting more!

In this episode of My Best Ex, Gloria and Zina celebrate National Dog Day with a mix of laughs, love, and a few wild dog-mom confessions. From pampered pups to the outrageous things they’ve done in the name of canine devotion, it’s clear these two would do just about anything for their pets. The only thing they can’t agree on? Whether pet psychics are the real deal—or just a doggone scam.

In this hot topic and engaging conversation, Gloria and Zina explore the complexities of friendship, political discourse, and the challenges of navigating social interactions in today's world. A personal anecdote that Zina shares about a surprising encounter in Queens,  leads to a broader discussion about race, gender, and the nature of political conversations. Gloria talks about the latest trend in people creating homogeneous communities and towns.  The dialogue emphasizes the importance of understanding diverse perspectives and delves into what may be behind some of the polarization in today's political climate.

In this very special episode of My Best Ex, hosts Gloria and Zina welcome Bridget and Kyle from the hit Netflix reality series, Queer Ultimatum. Zina reminds everyone what led to her chance encounter with the couple and then Bridget and Kyle discuss their experiences on the show, and the pressures of reality TV. They also give some tea on some of the behind  the scenes happenings. They open up about what they learned about themselves from being on the show, and how they have grown both individually and as a couple. They let us in on some relationship updates with fellow castmates, which leads to the discussion about the importance of friendships, especially with exes. We also get an update on the couple's engagement and plans for a future wedding! The episode ends with a light-hearted game that highlights just how connected Bridget and Kyle really are.  Follow Kyle and Bridget-  @bridgetmatloff on insta and tiktok and bridgetmatloffofficial on cameo. kyle’s @inkybinky231 on insta and tiktok and her website is tinytoothtoad.net 

Gloria and Zina reflect on their recent interview with Sister Mary. They discuss the idea of living a life of service, and the ripple effect of positive actions. The conversation also touches on the hosts' musings about what it would be like to be a nun, the importance of radical love, and a chance encounter with stars from Queer Ultimatum, who will be guests on their next episode.

In this episode of My Best Ex, Gloria and Zina welcome Sister Mary, who shares her journey from a typical life to becoming a vowed religious sister. The conversation explores the differences between nuns and sisters, the challenges of family acceptance, and the importance of inclusivity in faith. Sister Mary discusses her daily life, the significance of community, and the rise of spiritual retreats as a response to modern stress. She emphasizes the power of small acts of kindness and the importance of thriving rather than just surviving in life.

In this episode, Gloria and Zina delve into the intersection of spirituality and identity, particularly within the LGBTQ community. They discuss personal experiences with faith, as Zina coins the term “closeted Christian,” and they talk about the challenges of identifying as LGBTQ, and being a person of faith, using the WNBA player Paige Bueckers as a reference. The conversation also touches on the importance of inclusive communities. Both Gloria and Zina share their own stories of tiny miracles. The episode concludes with Zina surprising Gloria with news that their next guest will be a nun, Sister Mary, who will share her insights on faith and acceptance.

Gloria and Zina  spread the gospel of Jewel as they honor the legacy of Jewel Thais- Williams, a trailblazer in the Black queer community in Los Angeles. They discuss her life, contributions, and the impact of her establishment, Catch One, as a safe space for Black LGBTQ+ people.  They each take a trip down memory lane as they remember their first experiences walking intoCatch One as baby dykes and how much the experience of going there meant to each of them. The conversation reflects on the importance of community, activism, and the nostalgia for dance and connection in queer spaces. Gloria shares some stories about some awkward fan girl run-ins with Jewel. They end the episode with a game where Zina’s lack of knowledge about disco music and DIana Ross causes Glo to blow a gasket. 

This week, Gloria and Zina discuss the reality show 'Queer Ultimatum,' exploring its premise, the relationships of various couples, and the emotional dynamics at play. They play armchair  therapists and analyze the couples' behaviors and they try to decide who in the cast they are most like.  

Gloria and Zina welcome the legendary Lynn Love- a former firefighter turned wine shop owner, and community leader in her own right. The conversation explores themes of  personal growth and the journey of transitioning careers. Lynn thoughtfully shares her experiences as one of the first Black female firefighters in Cincinnati, discussing the challenges and rewards of her 30-year career. We find out how she transitioned from fighting fires to owning her own wine shop, by taking her love of both wine and community and following her dreams. Zina goes down memory lane asking Lynn about her epic labor day parties she used to throw back in the day and why they were so important to so many women in the queer community. The episode ends with a fun game about what type of wine each of them would be. To learn more about Market Wines, check out below: https://marketwineswalnuthills.com

Gloria and Zina have their first guest… and in the spirit of “Deep Lez” they bring on one of Zina's exes, Sherry. Sherry and Zina talk about how they first met and Sherry shares her journey from the political arena in the US to finding her paradise in Mexico. They also talk about the importance of community, safety, and belonging for queer individuals, as well as Sherry's vision for creating an intentional community called Rancho Mariposa. The episode ends with Zinaisms- a fun game that tests the exes and their knowledge of Zina. Connect With Sherry Here:  www.where-we-gather.com.Learn About Rancho Mariposa:Rancho Mariposa will be an adults-only, LGBTQ+ affirming co-living community in Mexico, designed especially for adult (remote working or independently funded) and retired individuals who identify as women or nonbinary/gender expansive. Our mission is to offer a beautiful, affordable, and connected life for those who crave community, creativity, and peace as they age — all while honoring the land, local culture, and each other. You can come as you are, and we’d love it if you spend the rest of your days being a part of  this community. We are world travelers, international feminists, a little witchy, fiercely inclusive, and deeply grateful to live in harmony with Mexico. We’re building something revolutionary for ourselves and generations of queers to come.

In this episode of 'My Best Ex', hosts Gloria and Zina take questions from their listeners. They tell a ridiculous story of how you shouldn’t call the police for dog issues and they discuss the importance of allowing growth in friendships, the dynamics of long-lasting connections, and how humor can play a vital role in navigating challenges. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding and communication in maintaining strong bonds, while also addressing the quirks that can sometimes get on eachothers nerves. Gloria also forces Zina into another round of “guess that queer!”  Are they getting better at this game- listen to find out!

The conversation highlights the evolution of their identities and the importance of representation in the lesbian community. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into their past relationships, exploring the complexities of love, breakups, and family expectations.

Gloria and Zina kick-off Pride Month by sharing their personal experiences with Pride events and their coming out journeys. They reflect on the significance of Pride as a celebration of identity and community, while also acknowledging the activism that is integral to its history. They explore the complexities of coming out, the dynamics of family relationships, and the importance of grace within the LGBTQ+ community. They end the episode by playing a made up game of Name that Queer- that celebrates queer culture.

This episode of 'My Best Ex', opens with a shout out to the podcast, “We Can Do Hard Things,” as Zina unpacks her experience of going to the book tour in NYC. Inspired by a section in the book, Gloria and Zina dive deep into the concept of attachment styles because, “what could be more lesbian?” They explore secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles, sharing personal anecdotes and insights into each. The conversation also touches on how these styles manifest, particularly in characters from season three of the hit series, “White Lotus.” The episode wraps up with a discussion about the importance of self-worth and emotional health, along with a fun giveaway of Zina’s current favorite book recommendation, “We Can Do Hard Things,” for their listeners.Zina and Glo will be taking a two week break- but join them on June 3rd when they come back with their Big Gay Pride Episode. 

In this episode of 'My Best Ex', Gloria and Zina delve into the complexities of midlife shifts. The episode kicks off with a silly back and forth in which Gloria agrees to disagree about Zina’s real age. Zina explains the theory behind why she decided to change her birthday while Glo accuses Zina of being Benjamin Button. They discuss the physical and emotional changes that come with age and how they both deal with them. Zina shares some suspect aging remedies she discovered on Instagram, while Gloria embraces the changes that come with getting older. The conversation highlights the significance of having role models for aging gracefully and the necessity of creating supportive environments for one another as they navigate the later stages of life. The episode concludes with the two of them envisioning what their lesbian retirement utopia would look like.

In this episode of 'My Best Ex', Gloria and Zina celebrate Lesbian Visibility Week. They chat about cultural perceptions of lesbians, influential figures in lesbian history, and the need for a rebranding of lesbian identity. They also touch on lesbians who have been influential in their lives, and women they always thought were cool enough to be lesbians. The episode ends with a hypothetical 'lesbian draft' where they choose famous non- lesbian women to join their squad.

Join Gloria and Zina on this episode of 'My Best Ex' as they dive into the fun and vital world of self-care and mental health! They kick things off with a fresh take on the ice bucket challenge for mental health awareness and explore how attitudes have shifted across generations. Glo shares insights from her long-term therapist, while Zina reveals her must-haves for the perfect therapist. Hear about Zina's eye-opening experience at a spiritual retreat and discover Glo's daily mental health rituals. Plus, find out what Gloria's dream retreat looks like and who they'd nominate to throw water over their heads!  

WARNING: This episode deals with Pet LossIn this heartfelt episode,  Zina and Gloria explore the profound impact of pets on their lives. They share personal stories about their childhood pets and go down memory lane about the pets they adopted together. They talk about the emotional bonds formed with their animals, and the bittersweet experiences of saying goodbye.

In this episode of My Best Ex, Gloria and Zina share their mutual straight crush on Cory Booker and dive into the Kinsey scale, with Zina taking the Kinsey quiz for the first time—surprise! They chat about guys who earn a second look from a lesbian, dubbing them "Lesbian 10s," and reveal other straight cuties that they’d give a second look to. Glo has an  epiphany about her crush on  Boy George, while Zina finds queer inspiration in nuns. They dish on celebrity cuties as they explore the complexities of attraction and  offer a lighthearted and insightful peek into their past!Special Thank You to Shane Great for our new theme music. You can listen to more of his music at shanegreat.bandcamp.com

In this episode of My Best Ex, hosts Gloria and Zina discuss the significance of safe spaces, the stereotypes associated with lesbian culture, and the evolution of queer representation in the media. They also touch on personal experiences of coming out, the importance of community, and the role of pets in their lives. Through humor and storytelling, they reflect on their journeys and the societal perceptions of lesbian identity. This week's made up game by Gloria, Lil Gay, Mid-Gay, and Peek Gay challenges Zina’s opinion on how gay certain random objects are.

In this episode, Gloria and Zina discuss their favorite TV comfort shows, the concept of various types of love, and the idea of soulmates and twin flames. They delve into personal experiences and insights about love, including the theory that we only fall in love three times and the significance of past life connections. Zina shares a vivid dream she had about one of her past lives, while Gloria admits that the idea of a twin flame and sharing past lives sounds a bit stressful and overwhelming. Tune in for a little humor and introspection. 

In this episode, Gloria and Zina discuss the significance of connection, the importance of intentionality in dating, and the representations of lesbian relationships. The hosts also delve into creative date ideas, the role of humor in relationships, and the challenges of maintaining passion over time, including the dreaded (LBD) - Lesbian Bed Death. Plus don’t miss their made up game “Make It A Date,” where they whip up date ideas using random household items. Tune in for a fun chat that’s here to entertain and inspire! 

In this episode, Gloria and Zina delve into the significance of Lent and its connection to personal growth. They explore the importance of cultivating a positive mindset and silencing the inner critic, while also discussing the balance between solitude and isolation. Additionally, they tackle the challenges of finding community and forming friendships in your forties, especially in today's digital age.

In this episode, Gloria and Zina review the Enneagram personality test, and reflect on their thoughts about the Oscars-specifically how it relates to Wicked.  They discuss the importance of showing up for your significant other and share a memorable story about meeting Whoopi Goldberg. They talk about showing up for your partner's dreams and aspirations, including ways to  support your partner's creative endeavors and remind them of their worth. They explore how serving others can lift one's spirits and share a fun relationship quiz! The conversation concludes with a call to action to engage in acts of kindness, not just to your significant other, but to friends, and those outside of your immediate circle- emphasizing the positive impact being of service can have on your mental well-being. Take your enneagram test here:https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test

What happens when your ex becomes your best friend? Zina and Gloria share their journey from girlfriends to platonic pals in this refreshingly honest podcast. Episode 101 talks about the first time they met- surprisingly they don't have the same memory of this experience.