Pappy Hour

Ben Scott thought he could plan fatherhood. Then came years of infertility, loss, and a moment no parent is ready for.They stayed in it.From IVF to twins, NICU chaos, and a surprise third kid, this one is equal parts brutal and funny, including a story you won’t forget about silence, diapers, and a very bad idea. Listen now. Follow Pappy Hour and share it with a dad who needs it.

Tommy Serak comes in a little nervous and leaves proving how simple this can be. He shares how becoming a dad started with his stepson Daniel, a connection built over something as small as getting him to eat real food, and grew into a deep bond that shaped the kind of father he’d become. From there, Tommy walks through the shift from thinking he’d be a strict dad like his own father to realizing he’s actually a laid-back, loving one. He talks about the moment it all clicks, holding your kid and knowing you’ve got it, along with the chaos, humor, and everyday moments that come with raising three boys.It’s an easy, honest conversation about showing up, figuring it out as you go, and leaning into the kind of dad you actually are.

Solo Pappy is where Eric and I can share personal insights on raising kids and life. This episode I talk about raising mentally tough children, the importance of struggle, and developing resilience and self-awareness. I emphasize the value of allowing kids to experience lowercase "s" suffering to learn problem-solving and independence.

wo kids. Fifteen years apart. One dad trying to stay present through all of it.Dakota Coburn jumps in with both feet, from grinding in brutal New York kitchens to learning how to stay calm when a toddler melts down and a teenager won’t stop talking about the NBA. This one hits work ethic, pressure, discipline, and what actually matters when your kid wants your attention right now, not later.Real talk on:Raising kids at opposite ends of the spectrumHandling tantrums without losing your mindTeaching discipline without turning into a drill sergeantWhy “be there when it counts” beats being there all the timeAnd a reminder that stuck: you’ll spend most of your time with your kids before they hit 12. Let that land. Support the show and help us keep these conversations going: https://gofund.me/79a49d71dIf this episode hits, share it with a dad who needs it. Fresh pour every week.

We called up another one of my brothers Adam Budde and boy he has some stories.

If you missed it the first time, or just miss his voice, here he is again. This episode we revisit the conversation with Kenny Budde, Lucas' very own Pappy. Hospice was a real comfort to us through this process, consider donating to Sacred Journey

Michael is a mentor and friend of mine from the Atlanta comedy scene. He has been making "Content" since before it was called, content. This is a no holds barred Pappy Hour, Michael tells it like it is...for him. To support the show you can donate to our GoFundMe

Andy is a great friend of Eric’s from Middle school, we talk unapologetic boundaries, fire circles and talking sticks. Complications during the delivery of their twins didn’t throw Andy at all, he says "just keep your knees bent" and ride it out.  If you are a new parent and need help finding a community of other dads going through similar things, reach out. We can help point you in the right direction. To support the show you can donate to our GoFundMe

Eric and I give Will Amato a call. Will is a dear friend of mine from Atlanta. He is hilarious, talented, and now he is a dad. So excited for yall to hear this story. Will Amato is a writer, producer, and director in Atlanta, GA. Working with Fortune 500 clients such as The Home Depot, Newell, Petsmart, and Walmart he brings compassion, creativity and expertise to every project. Will holds a Masters Degree in professional writing from Kennesaw State University and is the founder of Draft Horse Productions.

This week on Pappy Hour Garrett Cole tells his story. We learn that the plan you make doesn't always work out, parenting is a team effort, and the magic of the moments in between. We are still running our GoFundMe $720 raised so far, help us reach our Goal and make this the best damn Dad Podcast it can be. GoFundMe

Scott Rodberg reminds the importance of a side ham and staying calm and connected during difficult times. Thanks for everyone that listens GoFundMe

Eric's family on this one. Tom Stratton talks about the hope for our kids to do better than us. His second kids was born sunny side up, listen to find out what that means. GoFundMe is live, help us create a space to share more of these stories.

Steve Gardner brings it this week. From meeting his wife, three kids later to present day this family is a beautiful story. Your heart will fill and overflow. "You don't know the end of the story and sometimes it's really hard". To help us keep this thing going take a second to donate to the GoFundMe. Every dollar gets us closer to our goal of bringing you video episodes and live events. GoFundUs

This week on Pappy Hour. It's a Two fathers episode. Stephen tells the story of his daughters birth and then we sit down with the man that married that daughter to hear about his journey into fatherhood. Eric joins by phone as we record our first ever episode in the woods. Remember if you love what we are doing take a second to make a donation. We don't currently get paid for this and it takes time and money to put these shows out every week. Here is the link and any amount gets us closer to our goals and a better show for everyone. GoFundUs

Rob’s been with Marcy since they were kids, sixth grade, and they’ve been doing life together ever since. He talks Air Force Reserve days, working overnights as a cop, and what it looked like to provide while Marcy held it down at home with the kids for years.He’s not out here claiming he did it perfectly. He admits to the tired, half-present days and the moments he wishes he could redo. The big takeaway is simple, your kids clock what you do, not what you say. And his other hard truth is solid too, your heart doesn’t run out of room. The love just expands.This Month, Pappy Cup CompetitionRob is competing in the Pappy Cup.2 points for every full listen.1 point for every comment.Each episode has a 30-day window after it drops.The winner gets a laser-engraved pint glass, a case of the beverage of their choice (up to $25 value), and bragging rights.Support the ShowIf you want to help us keep these stories coming, check out the GoFundMe link here.New episodes every Wednesday.Pappy Hour. Fatherhood On Tap.

From teenage love to a 27-year marriage, Truman Oetting never wavered on what he wanted, a wife, a family, and a life built on showing up. He talks becoming a dad young, learning love in real time, raising two competitive kids, and watching them grow into people he genuinely likes.It’s funny, honest, and full of big-brother perspective. The kind of episode that sneaks up on you.This Month, Pappy Cup CompetitionTruman is competing in the Pappy Cup.2 points for every full listen.1 point for every comment.Each episode has a 30-day window after it drops.The winner gets a laser-engraved pint glass, a case of the beverage of their choice (up to $25 value), and bragging rights.Support the ShowIf you want to help us keep these stories coming, check out the GoFundMe link here.New episodes every Wednesday.Pappy Hour. Fatherhood On Tap.

From small-town sweethearts to lifelong love, Matt and his wife share it all. Matt talks fast cars, long hours, and what it looks like to keep showing up when it’s hard. You’re going to want to hear this one all the way through.This Month, Pappy Cup CompetitionMatt is competing in the Pappy Cup.2 points for every full listen.1 point for every comment.Each episode has a 30-day window after it drops.The winner gets a laser-engraved pint glass, a case of the beverage of their choice (up to $25 value), and bragging rights.Support the ShowIf you want to help us keep these stories coming, check out the GoFundMe link here.New episodes every Wednesday.Pappy Hour. Fatherhood On Tap.

A very special episode. We invited a bunch of past guests to gather to celebrate the journey so far, and they showed up. Get ready for a lot of dad jokes, check back in with past Pappies, and soak up the atmosphere of Odd 13 Brewery. Thanks to everyone that makes this show possible and here's to a bright future full of fresh stories from a different dad every week. Cheers.

Jeremy Crane’s story starts calm and then really gets into it.A phone call. A timeline that jumps the plan. Fear, resolve, and a moment that flips everything.This episode moves between humor and weight without warning. It’s about becoming a dad before you feel ready, realizing that maybe you never will, and carrying that forward.Stay with it.This Month "Pappy Cup Competition"Jeremy is competing in the Pappy Cup.2 points for every full listen.1 point for every comment.Each episode has a 30-day window after it drops.Winner takes a laser-engraved pint glass, a case of the beverage of their choice (up to $25 Value), and bragging rights.Support the ShowIf you believe in these stories and want to help us keep building what’s next, check out the GoFundMe link right here.New episodes every Wednesday.Pappy Hour. Fatherhood On Tap.

This is a long one folks. Eric and I catch up and I talk about the challenge of Stella having her first cold, then we recap the last 10 episodes before our wives join us and you get to hear some birth stories. Breaking NewsWe're expanding in the new year and taking Pappy Hour to the next level. We are launching a GOFundMe campaign. Every donation takes us closer to the goal of sharing fatherhood origin stories everywhere. If you or someone you know has enjoyed the stories you hear here help us keep doing it. Thank you for your support. Lucas & Eric GoFundMe(us)

This week on Pappy Hour, another fresh pour.Pat Temmat stops by with a background that does not fit in a sentence. Oldest of three boys. Raised far from the usual reference points. Heavy belief system. Tight rules. A lot of self reliance.The conversation wanders in the best way. Strange details. Dry humor. Long pauses that say more than the punchlines. Pat has lived enough life to tell stories without trying to impress anyone.It feels less like an interview and more like sitting at a table while someone finally says the honest version.Pappy Hour. Fatherhood On Tap.https://www.halifaxsurfschool.com/

Matt Armbruster had a full life before kids and knew it. No alarms. No hard nos. Built a company. Moved fast. Then came the real conversation. Kids, yes or no. Once it was yes, it was go time.This birth story takes a left turn and keeps going. Sent home. Front door still drying. An online class taught through contractions. A quick errand that turns into a clock race. Snow starts falling. Cameras stay on. Until they don’t.Matt talks about thinking he could prepare, realizing he couldn’t, and the exact moment fatherhood stopped being an idea and became real.It’s funny. It moves. And it’s worth hearing all the way through.New episodes every Wednesday.Pappy Hour. Fatherhood On Tap.Don't forget to check out his website for all your adult Big Wheel needs. https://highrollerusa.com/

Scott Tibbitts shows up and immediately proves why people still tell stories about working for him. On day one at his company, every new hire had to tell a joke — and it had to land. No laugh, you came back the next day and tried again. That’s Scott in a nutshell: high standards, sharp wit, and zero wasted motion.He talks about parenting with that same edge and honesty. The wins, the misses, the pivots. The moments you nail it and the moments you hope your kid forgets. Scott built companies, led teams, and chased big ideas, but fatherhood forced a different level of truth: you can’t outsmart the work, and you can’t coast on charm.This one moves fast. It’s funny, blunt, and full of those lines you think about later.If the episode hits, drop a comment and leave a review. It helps more dads find these stories.Check out his book From the Garage to MarsAnd here is the parody of Piano Man that he wrote and performed for his son Ryan’s birthday

Danny Ghaeini walked into the studio as a stranger and left as one of the most honest dads we’ve had on the mic. He became a father later in life after years of chasing big goals, traveling constantly, and grinding as an amateur triathlete and entrepreneur — but none of that prepared him for the moment his daughter came out dark purple and still. Those ten seconds changed everything.Danny breaks down the early shock of fatherhood, the pressure of being a planner in a situation you can’t control, and the truth most dads won’t say out loud: “It’s mine, but I didn’t feel emotionally connected for months.” He also talks openly about the miscarriage he and his wife went through before their second child, and how isolating those appointments can feel. If you’ve been there, this one hits.Now he’s a dad of two, working in Health Care IT at a children’s hospital, acting on the side, and living in that rare window where the kids still think he’s cool. You can follow his work at:https://dannyactor.com/https://www.instagram.com/danny.ghaeini_actor/If the episode lands for you, leave a comment and a review. It helps more dads find these stories.

Chris Frank shows up fresh off a sleepless night — the kind that hits hard and reshapes you — and talks about how fatherhood has turned the volume down on his inner critic. Before June was born, Chris lived in a career-first, achievement-driven lane. After two miscarriages and the long road to becoming a dad, everything changed.He opens up about growing up in Alaska, a dad who praised accomplishments, and how becoming a father later in life forced a mindset shift: presence over promotion, gratitude over grind. From dancing with his infant daughter to watching her push through hip dysplasia with pure determination, this one hits every note — honest, grounded, and full of heart.If the episode lands for you, drop a comment and leave a review. It helps more dads find these stories.

This week, we sit down with Stephen Menyhart, a registered dietitian, educator, and father whose work bridges food, community, and mental health. Stephen talks about what it means to learn as you go in both parenting and life, and how being present—even when everything feels chaotic—can change the way we show up for ourselves and our families.He shares the wild stories of his two children’s births—one during a marathon of red lights, the other in the middle of a snowstorm—and opens up about the emotional weight many parents carry beneath the surface.Stephen’s expertise spans nutrition counseling, eating disorder recovery, culinary education, and community-based food programs. For listeners interested in resources mentioned in the episode, check out:CHOW – Culinary Hospitality Outreach and WellnessThe Eating Disorder FoundationIf you’d like to reach out to Stephen with nutrition-related questions, you can contact him at [email protected] the show: Venmo @pappyhourPappy Hour — where fatherhood is always on tap.

Episode 14 we talk siblings, making it up as we go along, and learning how to read your kids. Jason is a psychologist second and a dad first. Sit back, grab a cold one and listen to another origin story from a great dad. Drop us some love on Venmo, buy a dad a drink help us grow this thing. Track where the funds are going through our financial transparency sheet

This week on Pappy Hour we sit down with Daver Verdoner for a raw, no-holds-barred conversation about fatherhood, fermentation, and the slow art of creation.From how making mead mirrors raising a child — both requiring time, care, and patience — to the realities of what women’s bodies go through and how men can experience their own form of postpartum, this one goes deep. Honest, unfiltered, and full of heart.If you or your partner are navigating fertility, pregnancy, or postpartum, Daver recommends a few invaluable resources:Bodywork by DaverTaking Charge of Your FertilityPeriod Repair ManualHypnobabies Self-Study CourseListen at yourpappyhour.comSupport the show: Venmo @pappyhourPappy Hour — where fatherhood is always on tap.

Eric and I get my dad, Kenny Budde, on the phone for a conversation that spans generations. We talk about being both a dad and a granddad, the joy of watching your kids fall in love with their own children, and that invisible envelope of love that opens every time a new life joins the family. It’s tender, funny, and a reminder of what really matters when everyone’s together.If you love what we are doing here feel free to drop us some love in the comments or by way of a gift for all pappies through our venmo click here. Ever dollar is accounted for and we will be publishing a financial transperency sheet very soon.

We sit down with Brett Nickerson for a real talk about blended families, divorce, co-parenting, and the highs and lows of single parenting. We dig into what it means to have deep, honest conversations with your kids — and along the way, we laugh, get vulnerable, and find the heart in the hard stuff.

From dude to dad—Steve walks us through the moments that changed everything. Join Eric and me as we unpack the story behind the shift.

Every ten pours, Eric and I take a moment to reflect on the stories, laughs, and lessons we’ve shared along the way. Kick back, crack something cold, and get sappy with us.

A candid, funny, useful talk about early parenthood—communication with your partner, feeling useless in the newborn phase, switching to formula, and modeling behavior as your kid grows.

Join us for a jam packed episode. We cover topics from adoption to IVF and the benefits of having Dad friends. Rick goes in and we get deep, enjoy.

We talk with Mike about becoming a surprise Dad. As in surprise, you're gonna be a father. The choice to go through with it and the joys of raising three strong willed kiddos.

Join us for a conversation with David, we talk solo backpacking and how the lessons it teach translate to parenting. From perseverance to being willing to die for your kid.

Have you ever wondered what not to do ? We got you covered. On this episode of Pappy Hour we talk to Eric Boye, father of three and a life long learner. Eric recounts some less than ideal choices and gives some humble perspective that young dads might find useful. Enjoy another hilarious episode.

We talk with Steve Long, father of a blended family and we get into what it's like to be a step father versus a stepmother. He shares the story of losing his first wife and owns up to mistakes of the past. He gives tips on how he avoided changing poopy diapers and his dad joke had us rolling.

We talk with Trevor Hughes about chronicling the journey of parenthood, the alien baby effect, and cholestatis. We also get into the ins and outs of staying present with a new kid, small kid small problems -v- big kids big problems, and the purpose of Pappy Hour.

Lucas and Eric sit down with friend and Baby Neighbor Sam Patti. Sam's son was born the day before Lucas' daughter, and we talk pre-arranged dating and how to manage the fall out. Sam gets into what it's like to get thrown a curve ball in the 11th hour of delivery, and his dad joke goes right over Lucas' head.

In our first pour, we sit down with Miguel Hernández—dad of two and director of Flipside Theatre in Superior, Colorado. We talk patience, perspective, and why fatherhood has a way of testing both. From kids losing their shit (literally) to dads losing it (metaphorically), we laugh through the chaos and explore how the teenage years can make you nostalgic for the simpler days of the diaper genie.