Random Candace Thoughts

Today, we’re rating the most common (and honestly, exhausting) advice creators hear when starting out; from niche pressure to algorithm paranoia.If you’ve ever felt stuck, burned out, or overwhelmed by content “rules,” this episode will feel like a deep breath.I’m breaking down what actually works, what’s not worth your energy, and how to build a personal brand that’s rooted in you.💡 Includes this week’s Oliver’s Light on sharing real life in your content—even when it’s painful.💡 Tools & Resources:Repurpose.io 👉 https://repurpose.io?fpr=311209&fp_sid=tsc Beacons - https://beacons.ai/signup?c=candace.wells🔗 Join The Social Circle: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/aboutThanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsiHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/268858041/  YouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justtheblendedwells/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale.  This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

Being Multi-Passionate Isn’t the Problem, This Is…How ADHD brains, big ideas, and content creation can actually work together.If you’ve ever been told to “just pick one thing,” felt guilty for changing your mind, or wondered why you can’t stay focused on one niche—this episode is for you.I was a full-grown adult in the military when I found out I had ADHD. Before that, I thought I was just lazy or all over the place. Turns out, I’m just multi-passionate. I get excited about a lot of things and that’s not a problem. The real issue? Trying to force ourselves into one box when we were never meant to live in one.In this episode, we talk about:What it really means to be multi-passionateWhy ADHD brains need freedom, not more pressureThe truth about “niching down” and why it doesn’t work for everyoneMy favorite ADHD content creation hacksHow to pivot without feeling like a failureIf you’re a content creator, entrepreneur, or just someone with a creative brain and too many ideas—this is your reminder: you’re not behind, and you’re not broken.Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsiHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/268858041/  YouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justtheblendedwells/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale.  This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

We’ve all had those days; smiling, nodding, doing all the “right” things on the outside, while inside we’re just trying to keep it together.In this episode, I open up about what people don’t see behind the smile. The grief. The exhaustion. The late-night crying after content creation. The parenting breakdowns. The pressure to be the strong one. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s something so many of us carry in silence.This isn’t about pretending to be okay. It’s about honoring the truth: that strength isn’t always loud, and sometimes the bravest thing we do is just show up.We’ll also talk about what it means to be layered and how you can be joyful and grieving, healing and hurting, all at once. And I’ll share how navigating Oliver’s loss shifted the way I approach content, community, and honesty.If your strength feels like survival right now, I see you. You’re not alone...and you don’t have to explain what people never bothered to ask about in the first place.Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsiHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/268858041/  YouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justtheblendedwells/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale.  This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

At some point, I stopped auditioning for rooms I didn’t even want to be in...and that’s when everything changed.In this episode, I’m sharing what it really means to step into your grown woman energy. No more over-explaining. No more apologizing for being too loud, too sensitive, too much. From parenting and partnerships to boundaries and grief, I talk about the messy, misunderstood, and powerful moments that shaped me and how I finally stopped seeking permission to be myself.I’ll also share an honest story about co-parenting with my ex, why I stopped defending how I grieve, and what peace over performance actually looks like in my life.We wrap with a special Oliver’s Light tribute—because today is the 29th, and every 29th, we wear blue for Ollie. 💙This episode is for every woman who’s tired of shrinking to fit. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for how you survive, how you love, or how you show up.

Someone once told me I’d go further if I just “toned it down.” Less opinions. Less visibility. Less… me. And for a minute? I believed them.In this episode, I’m sharing the moment that planted self-doubt, how it almost made me walk away from everything I’ve built, and the community that reminded me my “too much” was never the problem.If you’ve ever been told to shrink yourself, this one’s for you.We’ll talk about:– The early advice that hit the hardest– Crying over content and almost quitting– How mentorship went wrong—and what saved me– Why the world doesn’t need a quieter version of you– And the power of being unapologetically seenPlus, in this week’s Oliver’s Light segment, I share the messages that keep pouring in from other grieving families—and why saying his name matters.Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsiHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/268858041/  YouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justtheblendedwells/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale.  This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

It’s my birthday, baby, 44 years young. And in true Random Candace Thoughts fashion, I’m not here for the sugar-coated, Pinterest-perfect version. I’m here to keep it honest.This episode is a birthday reflection on what I’ve learned (and what I’m still learning) about life, grief, parenting, aging, and starting over. We’re talking:• Why red flags don’t turn green with time• Why growth feels lonelier than rock bottom• The price of peace• And how grief never expires—but neither does your power to rebuildPlus, I share this week’s Oliver’s Light segment to honor my grandson, and why this birthday feels both beautiful and bittersweet.If you’ve ever felt like it’s too late to pivot, too hard to keep going, or too messy to start again, this one’s for you.Grab a seltzer, sit in the sun, and let’s talk real life.Cheers to 44!🔗 Listen on Your Favorite Platform:🎧 Spotify: Listen here🍎 Apple Podcasts: Listen here📦 Amazon Music: Listen here❤️ iHeartRadio: Listen here▶️ YouTube Playlist: Watch here📲 Follow Me Online:• Instagram (Main): @justtheblendedwells• Instagram (Gardening): @gardening.with.charlie• TikTok: @justaflchick• Facebook: Candace Monica🌱 Want to learn how we built our digital business?👉 justaflchick.com🌐 Join The Social Circle VIP!A free space for creators to grow with real support & real strategy:👉 Join HereThis podcast was not created for children under the age of 13.Some links may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase. No extra cost to you.FTC: This episode is not sponsored.

Is AI helping us or hurting us? In this episode of Random Candace Thoughts, I’m diving into the hot topic of artificial intelligence, specifically ChatGPT, and whether using it in your business or life is a creative power move or straight-up cheating.I break down:Why AI isn’t new (we’ve been using it for years)The difference between using AI as a tool vs. a shortcut5 real-world tips to use AI without losing your voicePlus, in this week’s Oliver’s Light segment, I share a deeply personal story about how AI helped me process emotions after losing my grandson Oliver and why no machine can replace real human connection.✨ Thanks for tuning in!🎧 Make sure you listen on your favorite platform:SpotifyApple PodcastsAmazon MusiciHeart RadioYouTube Playlist👋 Connect with me:Main IG: @justamarketingchickGardening IG: @gardening.with.charlieTikTok: @justaflchickFacebook: Candace Monica Wells📚 Learn what we do:→ Start here: https://justaflchick.com→ Join the VIP creator community: The Social CircleDisclaimer:This episode was not created for children under the age of 13.Some links may be affiliate links. Using them supports the show at no extra cost to you.This episode is not sponsored.

Failure in business. Failure in motherhood. Failure in life. Or at least... that’s how it feels sometimes.In this episode of Random Candace Thoughts, I’m talking about the moments that looked like failure; losing my military career, rebuilding from scratch, flopping online and how those moments became the foundation for something better.We’ll unpack how to reframe failure, why social media gets it all wrong, and how to know if you’re actually growing (even when it feels like you’re falling apart).If you’re a content creator, entrepreneur, or just a human going through it, this one’s for you.Plus: a special Oliver’s Light tribute for grieving families and anyone who’s learning how to keep showing up.Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Random Candace Thoughts!If it hit home, make sure to follow and subscribe on your favorite platform 🎧👇📍 Listen here:Spotify: Click to listenApple Podcasts: Click to listenAmazon Music: Click to listeniHeart Radio: Click to listenYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts—📲 Connect with me online:Main Instagram: @justamarketingchickGardening & DIY: @gardening.with.charlieTikTok: @justaflchickFacebook: Candace Monica Wells🌐 How we learned the skills to build our business:https://justaflchick.com💬 Want support growing as a creator?Join The Social Circle VIP:https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about—⚠️ Disclosure:This video is not intended for children under 13.Some links may be affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission — at no extra cost to you. This content is not sponsored.

I Tried All The Side Hustles So You Don’t Have To (The Truth About Online Income)I didn’t try 5,768 different side hustles because I was curious or “finding myself”.I did it because I was broke, burned out, and sick of getting ghosted by mentors who only showed up to sell me something.From dropshipping to OnlyFans, TikTok Shop, and affiliate marketing; I’ve tested the side hustles all over your For You page. Some worked. Some flopped. And some made me question my entire life.In this episode, I’m sharing:What I’d never recommend (unless you love chaos)The side hustles I still use in my business todayWhat to look out for before buying another courseWhy trying unconventional things doesn’t make you desperate—it makes you resourceful💬 Real talk, real receipts, and zero fluff. If you’re tired of getting scammed by shiny strategies and want to know what actually works, this one’s for you.🕯 Oliver’s Light: A reminder about the value of time and building what matters.✨ Want help figuring out your next move? Join The Social Circle for support, strategy, and real mentorship.DM me on IG @justamarketingchick or check the links below.🎧 Listen on your favorite platform:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsiHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/268858041/YouTube Playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHn📲 Let’s connect:Main IG: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Gardening IG: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaa💻 Learn how I built my business:https://justaflchick.com👯‍♀️ Join The Social Circle VIP:Real support. Real strategy. Zero BS.https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/aboutDisclaimers:– Not created for children under 13– Some links may be affiliate links (I may earn a small commission)– This episode is not sponsored

After everything I’ve been through—grief, betrayal, the military, motherhood—one thing I’ve learned?Sugarcoating is a lie in a cute outfit.In this episode, I’m sharing:Why I stopped watering down the truthWhat it’s cost me (including a friendship)Why I still think it’s the kindest thing I doWe talk about grief, military regrets, cheating, parenting, and the moment I realized I could never lie to my kids—or myself—again.💙 Oliver’s LightThis week, I’m honoring two incredible organizations helping families through the unthinkable:Sailor’s StoryInstagram: @sailorsstory✨ They create personalized comfort bags for families who’ve experienced stillbirth or infant loss. Donations and request forms are available in their bio.Still Here MinistryInstagram: @stillhereministry💜 A nonprofit sending free comfort boxes to grieving moms, crafted with love to honor their babies. Support and request info are linked in their bio.This one’s not polished. It’s personal. But it’s real.And if you’re tired of pretending, this episode is for you.🎧 Listen on your favorite platform:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsiHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/268858041/YouTube: @RandomCandaceThoughts🌐 OFFICIAL LINKS:YouTube: @justtheblendedwellsInstagram: @justamarketingchickInstagram (Gardening): @gardening.with.charlieTikTok: @justaflchickFacebook: Candace Monica Wells🧠 Want to know how we learned the skills to start our business?Check it out here: https://justaflchick.com👥 Join The Social Circle VIP Community:A space for creators to get real support, tools, and strategies that actually work.https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/aboutFollow @thesocialcirclevip for more.⚠️ This video was not created for children under the age of 13Affiliate Disclaimer: Some links may be affiliate links, meaning we may earn a small commission if you purchase. It won’t cost you anything extra.FTC: This video is not sponsored.

What if the story you thought you made up… was actually your soul remembering it?In this episode of Random Candace Thoughts, I’m sharing the wild moment when a past life reading confirmed everything I wrote in my upcoming book, Revenge is Forever (But So is Love)...a story I thought was fiction, but now feels like something much deeper!We dive into reincarnation, soul contracts, divine partnerships, intuitive creativity, and the emotional echoes that follow us from lifetime to lifetime. If you’ve ever felt a connection you couldn’t explain—or written something that felt too real—this one’s for you.I also close with this week’s Oliver’s Light, honoring the idea that some stories don’t come from imagination… they come from remembrance.✨ Topics in this episode:Past life reading experienceWitch trial lifetime + soul lessonsDivine partnership vs. controlThe amulet metaphor + breaking cyclesCreative intuition and healing through writingThe power of trusting your gut📖 Revenge is Forever (But So is Love) — Coming soon💫 Book a reading with Daylee🔮 Follow Daylee on InstagramThanks for tuning in!Make sure to 🎧 listen on your favorite platform:Spotify: Random Candace Thoughts on SpotifyApple Podcasts: Listen on AppleAmazon Music: Listen on Amazon PodcastsiHeart Radio: Listen on iHeartYouTube: Watch on YouTubeOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram (Candace): @justamarketingchickInstagram (Charlie): @gardening.with.charlieTikTok: @justaflchickFacebook: Candace MonicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business?Check it out here: https://justaflchick.comJoin The Social Circle VIP CommunityGet the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence:https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/aboutDisclaimer:This video was not created for children under the age of 13.Some links may be affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission if you purchase through them, at no additional cost to you.This video is not sponsored.

Identity Evolution and Personal GrowthIn this episode, I’m getting honest about identity—how it shifts, how it gets buried under everything we’re “supposed” to be, and how freaking messy it can feel when you realize… you don’t even know who you are anymore.I open up about my own journey through motherhood, grief, burnout, business, mental health struggles, and how those seasons forced me to question everything. The truth? You’re allowed to change. You’re allowed to not have a 10-year plan. And you’re allowed to evolve without explaining yourself to anyone.We also get into:- Why you don’t need to have it all figured out by 25 (or ever)- The pressure of personal branding and why it’s lowkey exhausting- What self-discovery really looks like (yes, including crying in your car with fries in your lap)- A Mindset Minute reminder that being a work-in-progress doesn’t make you any less worthy- And a heartfelt Oliver’s Light reflection on identity, love, and why just being here is enoughThis episode is for anyone in the in-between. The people who are unpacking, evolving, and trying to make peace with the version of themselves that’s still becoming.Thanks for tuning in!Make sure to 🎧 listen on your favorite platform:Spotify: Random Candace Thoughts on SpotifyApple Podcasts: Listen on AppleAmazon Music: Listen on Amazon PodcastsiHeart Radio: Listen on iHeartYouTube: Watch on YouTubeOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram (Main): @justamarketingchickInstagram (Gardening): @gardening.with.charlieTikTok: @justaflchickFacebook: Candace MonicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business?Check it out here: https://justaflchick.comJoin The Social Circle VIP CommunityGet the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence:https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/aboutDisclaimer:This video was not created for children under the age of 13.Some links may be affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission if you purchase through them—at no additional cost to you.This video is not sponsored.

In this raw and real episode of Random Candace Thoughts, I open up about the side of entrepreneurship that rarely gets airtime: when you’re doing all the “right” things, but the money still isn’t there!!Let's talk about the doubt, the exhaustion, and the moments when it feels like giving up would be easier. But I also share what’s helped me keep going, why redefining success matters, and how learning in the dark has been just as powerful as any paycheck.You’ll also hear:What no one tells you about online business timelinesWhy comparison will crush your confidence if you let itHow I'm experimenting with monetization (and what I’ve learned)A personal reminder from Oliver’s Light on why presence matters more than profitThis one’s for anyone in the thick of it. Keep going. It’s not just about money...it’s about becoming!Let’s stay connected:📲 Instagram: @justamarketingchick📲 Threads: @justafloridachick🎧 Listen + subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.📩 Got a random thought of your own? Drop it in my DMs or the comments!Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple PodcastsAmazon PodcastsiHeart RadioYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts OFFICIAL LINKS:www.youtube.com/@justtheblendedwells Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale.  This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

Thinking about quitting your job to go full-time as a content creator? Before you make the leap, let me pull back the curtain on the real side of content creation, the stuff no one tells you.I had no idea what I was getting into when I went all-in, and today, I’m sharing the 5 biggest lessons I wish I had known before becoming a full-time creator. From dealing with brand deals and algorithms to burnout and the reality of running a business, this episode is for anyone looking to turn content creation into a career.Key Takeaways:Content creation is a business, not just making videos. You’re also your own manager, marketer, and accountant.Brand deals take negotiation skills. If you don’t know your worth, you will get underpaid.The algorithm is unpredictable, diversify your platforms and income.Burnout will happen if you don’t pace yourself. Quality vs. quantity.Selling yourself is part of the game, embrace it and own your value.Oliver’s Light Segment: Honoring my grandson Oliver by sharing what truly matters, our time, our energy, and how we use them.Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1u...Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f...iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/268858041/ YouTube: Random Candace Thoughts    • Random Candace Thoughts  OFFICIAL LINKS:@justtheblendedwells Instagram:   / justamarketingchick  Instagram:   / gardening.with.charlie  TikTok:   / justaflchick  Facebook:   / candace.monicaa  Want to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle...* This video was not created for children under the age of 13*Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

Narcissists follow the same playbook; love bombing, gaslighting, control, and manipulation. And when kids are involved, it’s a whole different level of hell.In this episode, I’m sharing my personal story of surviving a 16-year relationship with a narcissist, the lessons I learned, and how you can protect yourself. If you’ve ever dealt with emotional abuse, toxic co-parenting, or a manipulative ex, this episode is for you.What You’ll Learn:- The narcissistic abuse cycle: love bombing, gaslighting, control, and manipulation- How narcissists use children as a tool for control- The reality of co-parenting vs. parallel parenting- How to recognize narcissistic abuse and detach emotionally- Why the best revenge is moving on and protecting your peaceOliver’s Light: In honor of my grandson Oliver, I share a listener’s story about the power of saying a child’s name after loss.If you’re dealing with a narcissistic ex, you are not crazy...no matter how much they try to make you feel that way!Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Amazon Podcasts | iHeart RadioYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts OFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

For 21 years, I dedicated my life to the Air Force. I climbed the ranks fast, I gave everything to my career, and I believed in the system. But when I needed the system to be fair, it failed me.In this episode, I’m telling my full story; how I lost my stripes, how my mistakes played a part, and why I’m still fighting for justice today. I take full accountability for the choices I made, but I also know I was punished far more harshly than others. This is about leadership, accountability, and the reality of what happens when the military gets it wrong.In This Episode:My journey from fast burner to Chief Master SergeantThe challenges of my assignment at Incirlik Air BaseThe mistakes I made and the decisions that led to my downfallThe investigations—what was fair and what wasn’tMy fight with the Air Force Board for Correction of Military RecordsHow I found strength despite everythingOliver’s Light – A reminder that even in darkness, there is still hope🎙 Listen & Subscribe:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Podcasts | iHeart Radio💡 If you’ve ever been in a situation where you were unfairly punished or felt like your voice didn’t matter—I see you. Your story deserves to be told.If this episode resonates with you, send me a message or share it with a friend who needs to hear it.📩 Want to connect?YouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:@justtheblendedwells Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale.  This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

Motherhood, Messiness & Raising Teens...If I could go back and tell my teenage self one thing about motherhood, it would be this: You think you know love, but you have no idea.Raising a teenage daughter is a special kind of challenge—one that reminds you of yourself in the best and hardest ways. In this episode, I dive into the raw, beautiful, frustrating reality of motherhood, reflecting on what I wish I had known back then and the lessons that come full circle now.🔹 The teenage rebellion cycle (yes, we were them once)🔹 The push-pull of parenting—guiding vs. letting go🔹 Love in the messy, unspoken moments🔹 What I would say to my younger self about motherhood & lifeAnd in Oliver’s Light Segment, I reflect on unseen love, the love that exists even when it isn’t acknowledged.👉 What’s one thing you’d tell your younger self about life, love, or parenting? Drop it in the comments!Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:@justtheblendedwells Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

Ever felt like you had to play a role to fit in? Like the real you wasn’t enough?I’ve been there! But here’s the truth; when you embrace who you truly are, that’s when everything changes.In this episode ofRandom Candace Thoughts, I’m diving intowhy authenticity wins every time;in life, business, and content creation.From my journey in the Air Force to rebuilding my life after a toxic marriage, I’ve learned firsthand that success isn’t about fitting in, it’s about standing out by being yourself!What You’ll Hear in This Episode:✔️ The pressure to conform & how I held onto my identity in the military✔️ Leaving a 16-year marriage to a narcissist & rebuilding my confidence✔️ Why perfection is overrated & how embracing imperfection changed me✔️ Practical tips for showing up authentically online & in life✔️Oliver’s Light – A new segment honoring my grandson, Oliver, & sharing positivity💡Want to share a positive story for Oliver’s Light? Send me a message!📢Loved this episode? Share it with a friend & leave a review, it helps so much!🎧Listen here & subscribe:🔹Spotify |Apple Podcasts |Amazon Music |YouTube📌Join The Social Circle VIP Community! →https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about📌Follow me on social:YouTube |Instagram |TikTok

This is not an episode I ever imagined recording, but it’s one I need to share. On January 29, 2025, my grandson, Oliver, was born sleeping at 32 weeks. 💔There are no words for this kind of loss... only waves of grief, moments of love, and a deep desire to make sure his name is never forgotten.In this episode, I share Ollie’s story, the pain of watching my daughter lose her child, and what I’ve learned about grief; especially what grieving parents need most from the people around them. If you’ve ever wondered what to say (or not say) to someone who has lost a child, I hope this helps.If you or someone you love is going through a similar loss, you’re not alone. Here are some resources that may help:💙 The Compassionate Friends – Support for families after the loss of a child (www.compassionatefriends.org)💙 Postpartum Support International (PSI) – Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support (www.postpartum.net)💙 The TEARS Foundation – Financial and emotional support for families who have lost a baby (www.thetearsfoundation.org)💙 SHARE Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support – Support groups, resources, and community for grieving families (www.nationalshare.org)Oliver was here. He mattered. And he will always be loved. Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community;:https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about A place filled with guidance, motivation, collaboration, and understanding from two chicks with years of experience in Digital Marketing.** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

Ever feel like you don’t belong, even when you’ve worked hard to be where you are? Like someone’s going to call you out as a fraud at any moment? That’s imposter syndrome, and it’s way more common than you think.In this episode, I get real about my own struggles with imposter syndrome; from my military-to-entrepreneurship transition to my first coaching session where I felt completely out of my depth. I’m sharing the mindset shifts and practical strategies that helped me push past self-doubt, take action, and own my space...so you can do the same!What You’ll Learn:- What imposter syndrome really is (and why it’s not proof you’re failing)- How I reframed my self-doubt and started showing up with confidence- The power of tracking small wins (and how it rewires your brain)- Why finding a supportive community is a game-changer- How to take action even when you don’t feel ready- Listen now and take the first step toward believing in yourself. And don’t forget to check out my full article on Bold Journey for even more insights🔗 Read the article here: https://boldjourney.com/meet-candace-wells/Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community;:https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about A place filled with guidance, motivation, collaboration, and understanding from two chicks with years of experience in Digital Marketing.** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

ocial media is evolving fast, and 2025 is shaping up to be a game-changer! This episode dives into five key trends shaping the future; short-form video, niche communities, authenticity, AI in content creation, and multi-platform strategies.What’s covered in this episode:🔹 Short-Form Video Dominance – Why bite-sized content continues to take over.🔹 Niche Communities – How targeted engagement builds deeper connections.🔹 Authenticity Over Perfection – Why being real matters more than ever.🔹 AI-Powered Content Creation – Tools like ChatGPT, Canva AI, and more that simplify the process.🔹 Multi-Platform Presence – The importance of expanding reach beyond just one platform.Practical tips include creating short-form videos (5-10 seconds), using niche hashtags like #FloridaChick, and leveraging AI for brainstorming and content creation. Plus, hear how a content repurposing strategy helped grow a YouTube channel to 80,000 subscribers and generate revenue.Looking for more insights? The Social Circle VIP offers exclusive resources and strategies to stay ahead in the ever-changing social media world.👉 Tune in now, and don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share your thoughts in the comments!Hello everyone, we’re so glad you made it to our channel!OFFICIAL LINKS:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@justtheblendedwellsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community:https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about A place filled with guidance, motivation, collaboration, and understanding from two chicks with years of experience in Digital Marketing.** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

In this heartfelt debut, I’m diving deep into my personal journey of resilience, growth, and self-discovery. From my time in the military to my entrepreneurial adventures, I share the unfiltered truth about navigating life’s challenges and coming out stronger on the other side.🌟 What You'll Hear in This Episode:🔹 My Personal Journey of Resilience:I reflect on my experiences as a Chief Master Sergeant in the Air Force, my rapid rise to E-9 rank, and the obstacles I faced—including struggles with mental health and balancing life as a mom and a Nana.🔹 Overcoming Life’s Challenges:I open up about some of my hardest moments: dealing with mental health hurdles, navigating a teenage pregnancy in my family, surviving the pandemic while stationed in Turkey, and losing my career and close relationships.🔹 Embracing Growth:I talk about why starting over—while difficult—is often the key to unlocking new opportunities. I share how failures in work, parenting, and relationships have taught me life-changing lessons.🔹 Celebrating Small Wins:Resilience doesn’t come from monumental successes—it’s built through small, intentional victories. I discuss how breaking big goals into smaller, manageable steps and celebrating progress can create momentum for long-term growth.🔹 Introducing “Random Candace Thoughts”:This new content series is all about sharing my unfiltered perspective on life, business, and everything in between. New episodes drop every Tuesday, so hit that subscribe button and join me for a real and relatable conversation each week!🌟 Tools and Tips You Can UseI share actionable advice to help you on your journey:🖋️ Journaling: Track your progress, recognize emotional patterns, and celebrate personal growth.👥 Building a Support System: Surround yourself with people who uplift and empower you.💪 Finding Your Inner Strength: Remember, you’re stronger than you think, and every challenge is an opportunity to grow.🌟 Why You Should Tune In:This isn’t just my story—it’s a space where we celebrate resilience, the beauty of imperfection, and the power of starting over. Whether you’re dealing with personal setbacks, professional struggles, or just looking for a relatable and inspiring conversation, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone.🌟 Let’s Connect!I’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts, stories, or takeaways from this episode in the comments below. Don’t forget to hit the Subscribe button and leave a review to help more people discover Random Candace Thoughts!✨ Stay true to yourself, celebrate your wins, and remember: starting over can be the beginning of something beautiful.AND...Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button.