Reality Check: Love, Life & Little Ones

While one parent explored the buzzing streets of Hong Kong with the boys, while the other held down the fort at home—solo. In this episode, we reunite to swap stories from our very different weeks: her adventures, chaos, and discoveries abroad, and my surprisingly eventful (and occasionally lonely) time at home. It’s a candid, funny, and honest look at what happens when life pulls you in different directions—temporarily. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Growing up, a lot of things seemed normal… until we became adults. In this podcast, we revisit childhood memories, unpacks trauma, and shares both hilarious and serious stories about family, healing, and self-awareness.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

In this episode, we get honest about what’s been weighing on us lately — from daily pressures to bigger life stress. We talk about how stress shows up differently for each of us, how it affects our mood and day to day life, and the practical ways we manage and control it before it controls us.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

In this episode - we breakdown our Valentines day celebration and 12 year anniversary. We stayed at a hotel completely free with amazing goodies in exchange or marketing content - what better way to celebrate Valentines day and 12 years together as a family!  We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Spicing things up doesn't have to be R-rated. In this episode, we discuss how we can spicy things up in our marriage by doing practical, fun, and adventures ways while spending quality time with each other.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

School holidays are fun… until they end. In this episode, we talk about the mad scramble of going back to school—resetting routines, surviving lunch prep, and adjusting from holiday chaos to school-day structure. From packed lunches to tired parents, we share the honest, everyday reality of getting back into the school groove.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Ten years ago, life looked very different. In this episode, we sit down to reminisce about 2016—sharing personal memories, big life moments, and the events that made that year unforgettable. It’s a laid-back conversation about nostalgia, growth, and how time has a funny way of reshaping everything. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

 This week, we ask each other rapid-fire questions to get to know each other a little better—from everyday preferences to fun favorites (yes, including our go-to bubble tea orders). Get to know us better while having a few laughs along the way. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Just us, the couch, and a vision board full of dreams. We chat about what we want to create, what we’re calling in, and why dreaming together matters—keeping it light, fun, and very us. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Christmas ✔️ New Year ✔️ Still married ✔️ We’re talking holiday highlights, funny moments, and what we’re hoping (and slightly nervous) about for the year ahead. Join us for a relaxed, honest, and playful chat about life, goals, and doing it all together.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

It’s been a while — and yes, we have excuses. In our first episode back, we’re recapping 2025, laughing about how quickly life changes, and breaking down the chaos, growth, and surprises that came with moving houses. Expect real talk, light banter, and a lot of “how did we get here?” We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

This week, we're putting each other in the Reality Check Hot Seat 🔥- asking the controversial, funny, and brutally honest questions that every couple should answer (but most avoid).From love and marriage to parenting chaos and guilty confessions, we're keeping it real, raw, and a little risky. Because let's be honest - no matter how long you've been together, you can always learn something new about your partner.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

From spooky parties and matching couple costumes to chasing sugar-high kids through the neighborhood - we're talking all things Halloween! Tune in as we look back on our pre-kid Halloween adventures, our family traditions now, and how tick-or-treating hits a little different these days. More laughs, parenting chaos, and relatable moments coming your way every week!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

In this weeks episode, we reflect on the year that's passed since losing Mom and how it's affected our lives, and how we celebrated her one year anniversary. As we mark the one-year anniversary of her passing, we also celebrate Luca turning one—a reminder of how life and loss can coexist in the same breath. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

The weekend may be over, but school holidays are just getting started - and the chaos is real. In this episode we share the reality of keeping kids entertained, juggling routines, and trying not to lose ourselves in the madness. Parenting unfiltered, laughs guaranteed.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

"Are you gonna try for a girl this time?" - we hear it all the time. In this episode, we get real about the pressure to have more kids, the idea of a "complete" family, and how we're learning to shut out the noise. Whether you're one-and-done or still deciding, this is a conversation every parent will relate to.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

In this episode, we're diving into what we got up to on Father's Day. Then, we shift gears and talk about our quick weekend getaway: the good, the highlights, and the downright exhausting parts of travelling kids - from siblings fighting and not listening, we share the challenges we faced while on the road while keeping it real! We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

We're taking a trip down memory land - the songs that remind us of each other, the styles we love (and laugh about), and all the little things that make our story uniquely ours. A mix of nostalgia, fun, and real talk above love and partnership.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Parenting isn't all cuddles and cute moments - sometimes it's attitude, backchat, and behavior battles that leave you questioning everything. In this episode, we get real about handling kids talking back, navigating meltdowns, and trying to stay calm when patience runs thin. Raw, relatable, and full of honesty for every parent in the thick of it.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

We're back after a little pause - life got busy, our energy hit the floor, and training for the City2Surf took over. We chat about juggling it and how we're finding our way back. More laughs, real talk, and parenting chaos coming your way!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

We're officially back after a 4-month break - and we've got stories! In this episode, we're sharing the highs, hiccups, and heartwarming moments from our unforgettable trip to the US. From the buzz of New York City to the magic of Disney World, we reflect on what made this family adventure so special.Tune in for all the fun, laughs, and real talk - with more raw relatable parenting content coming you way soon!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

When plans fall apart, do we show up for each other or fall apart too? In this episode, we share a recent travel disaster and how going the extra mile (literally and emotionally) made all the difference.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

It's been half a year since losing Mom, and the grief still hits hard. In this raw and honest episode, we share what it's really been like - unexpected waves, guilt, signs from beyond, and learning to live with the ache.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Ever wonder why you love the way you do? In this episode, we’re diving into attachment styles—how they shape our relationships, where they come from, and how to break unhealthy patterns. Get ready for some eye-opening insights!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Bills, responsibilities, and never-ending to-do-lists - who signed us up for this?! In this episode, we're talking about why adulting is totally overrated and we're not even sorry about saying it, because it totally is!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

From social events to life milestones, FOMO hits differently as parents. In this episode, we talk about the struggles of feeling like you're missing out, how to deal with it, and finding contentment right where you are.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Think marriage is all sunshine and rainbows, never going to bed angry, or that having kids will improve your relationship? Think again! In this episode, we're busting some of the biggest marriage myths and getting real about what actually makes a relationship work (from our experience)!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Take a trip down memory lane as we relive the 90s Pinoy experience! From rocking baggy jeans and gelled-up hair to shooting hoops in barefoot, squeezing into jeepneys, and chasing the Taho vendor every morning—this episode is all about the sights, sounds, and vibes of growing up in the Philippines in the 90s. Get ready for a nostalgia overload!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Love is in the air… or is it? This Valentine’s Day, we’re talking all things love - grand gestures, awkward moments, and the reality of romance after kids. Whether you’re a hopeless romantic or think it’s just another Hallmark holiday, this episode is for you!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Step into a time when neon colors, boy bands, and Tamagotchis ruled the world. Join us as we take a deep dive into the most iconic decade — the 1990s! From the music that shaped our youth to the unforgettable fashion trends and pop culture moments that still influence us today, we’ll relive the magic of the '90s. Whether you were a grunge lover, a hip-hop head, or an animated series aficionado, "Back to the '90s" brings you all the nostalgia you need. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Can you really think your way to a better life? In this episode, we dive into manifestation, mindset shifts, and what it means to be a super attractor. From vision boards to real action, let’s talk about turning dreams into reality—no fluff, just real talk!Don't forget to give us a 5 Star Rating!!!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Parenting is tough, and the weight of guilt can often feel even heavier. This week we discuss the pressure of modern parenting without letting guilt take the wheel. From balancing work and family, the difference between 'mom guilt' and 'dad guilt', we share and offer insight with our experience on how we manage 'parent guilt' and offer practical advise for releasing the need to be perfect. Don't forget to give us a 5 star rating!!!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

This week we've been looking at Facebook memories and reflecting on previous events (cringy clubbing photos), milestones, challenges, and how it's shaped us today.  Through personal stories, candid conversations, and reflections, we explore how the experiences of our younger selves continue to influence our present and future. Don't forget to give us a 5 star rating!!!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Grief can be an overwhelming and isolating experience, but when it strikes a marriage, it can feel even more challenging. In this episode, we discuss how losing a loved one has impacted our marriage - for better and for worse while supporting one another. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Whether you're juggling work, home life, or simply trying to keep the kids entertained, we discuss the challenges and reality of how we've been managing this. Tune in for some laughs and all the real talk in this weeks episode!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Welcome to Episode 1 of Season 2! After some time off, we reflect on the importance of taking time off from recording episodes and the impact that life’s unexpected events can have on both personal growth and creative endeavors. Whether it's a break for mental health, family, or simply recharging, we’ll explore how these pauses allow for deeper reflection, greater clarity, and ultimately, a more meaningful return to what we love. Join us as we unwrap 2024 and look ahead to 2025!!We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Join us this week as we near the end of our Trip to Japan. In this episode we look back at all the challenges we've faced with travelling with two young kids, highlights and low lights. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

We are currently travelling around Japan as a family and live from Tokyo. Here's a recap of how it's going, mainly the challenges we've faced so far - from plane rides, tantrums and how we've coped.  We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Have you ever been in a "room mate" phase with your partner? This is where you begin to cohabit  in a platonic manner with your partner - without any physical or emotional attachment. You may have gotten comfortable with your partner or perhaps had an argument and left unresolved which led to this. We dive into our own experiences and how we've gotten out of it.**DISCLAIMER** - We had issues with microphone and audio so apologies in advance. We did not want to re-record as it was a raw and candid conversation. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

In this episode, we delve into the delicate, yet crucial topic of preparing for the inevitable. Whether facing illness or simply planning ahead, discussing end-of-life questions with your partner can be daunting yet profoundly meaningful. Join us as we explore the essential questions to ask, from legacy wishes to practical arrangements, helping you navigate this sensitive conversation with love, clarity, and compassion.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Join us this week as we are joined by a special guest as we journey through the world of Disney. We unravel the love of Disney, favorite movies, magical moments, rides,  and celebrate the nostalgia and wonder that keep us all coming back for more. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

This week we sit with a very special guest to discuss the contrast between the Boomer VS Millennial age, such as - dating, migrating to Australia and the cultural difference, raising kids then VS now and how technology has shaped today's world. This conversation offers insightful reflection on how our parents raised us and how we raise our children.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

As technology has become a integral part of this day and age, we discuss the impact of digital devices on our children and how it can be both rewarding and challenging. We share our experiences and how it's shaping our children's lives; from managing their screentime to how it's shaping their development.We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

We take a look at the essential and evolving role as a parent. From the role your parents took when you were a kid and how that changes or might change to when your an adult, and the role of being grandparents. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Have you tired our food from 'Get Shrimped'? We reminisce about the Hawaiian flavors, stories, and events that made 'Get Shrimped' - our first baby! We brough the spirit of Aloha to Sydney were we were fortunate enough to share the magic of Hawaiian food down under. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

Having just celebrated our 7th year wedding anniversary, we take a walk down memory lane in this heartfelt episode and look back on the last 7 years that we've been married. From the early days of romance and "honeymoon" phase to the challenges we faced, we look back at the highs and lows that have shaped our marriage and building a life together 💕👰‍♀️🤵‍♂️👨🏻‍👩🏻‍👦🏻‍👦🏻We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

We discuss the complexities of maintaining and making new friendships in adulthood. Whether you're juggling family time, work, and the fact other people are also living a busy life, we explore your own experiences on nurturing and maintaining our inner circle of friends. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

In this weeks episode we share our journey of bringing new life into the world. We share the anticipation of pregnancy, the challenges, and personal stories leading into the unforgettable moments of the birth of our two boys. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

We discuss the dynamics of parenting when children display contrasting behaviors with one parents versus both parents while offering insight into our personal challenges/experiences and navigating these differences. We share some of our strategics on how we handle these situations to create a harmonious environment. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!

This week we dive deeper into Filipino culture and how it has shaped our identity. From the stereotypical pinoy/pinay,  our traditions, influences,  beliefs and values, we provide first hand experience and insight into our lives and give our take of how Filipino culture shaped us. We'd love to hear any comments or feedback!