Relationships & Sex Archives - The New Man Podcast

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Relationships & Sex Archives - The New Man Podcast

Tripp Lanier has coached Navy SEALs, best-selling authors, and entrepreneurs to align their lives with their career and relationships. He covers topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. Each episode consists of real world, practical advice so guys can get out of the rat race and live a life of purpose and meaning. Guests range from Tim Ferriss to Laird Hamilton to Navy SEALs to zen masters to “ordinary” guys living extraordinary lives. Topics include: mindset, purpose, power, relationships, sex, overcoming fear, lifestyle design, and spirituality. Read Tripp's latest book, This Book Will Make You Dangerous.

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    186 Conflict and How to Confront Somebody – Geoff Hanzlik

    Dealing with conflict or confrontation, how to confront someone, how avoiding conflict kills your business and marriage, basic steps for engaging a conflict

  2. 145

    185 The KKK, Race, and Awkward Conversations – W. Kamau Bell

    Comedian W. Kamau Bell talks about laughing with the KKK, racism, how humor heals, and how to have awkward conversations that initiate change.

  3. 144

    183 How to Build Your Own Life – Kute Blackson

    Kute Blackson discusses the power of commitment, stealing food to survive, and how he pissed off his father in order to build his own life. Kute Blackson You Are The One.

  4. 143

    182 When Ambition and Drive is Weakness – Group Coaching Call

    Why high ambition and drive is often rooted in fear and insecurity. A powerful mindset shift for lasting freedom and power.

  5. 142

    179 The Truth About Relationships – Neil Strauss

    Neil Strauss discusses the cost of dishonesty and what he’s learned from his journey through infidelity, sex addiction rehab, open relationships, polyamory, swinging, sex clubs, and now marriage and fatherhood. The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships

  6. 141

    176 When Do You Push and When Do You Course Correct? – Brian Johnson

    Philosopher Notes Brian Johnson discusses his business course correction, making a big change with your company or life and honoring the people you care about, the difference between quitting and course correcting.

  7. 140

    175 Career Transition: Will You Be a King or a Prince? — Marc David

    Is it time to make a career transition? Understand what makes a guy a king vs a prince plus how to find the next chapter of your career without losing it all. With Marc David of Institute for Psychology of Eating.

  8. 139

    173 Make Love Not Porn – Cindy Gallop

    Make Love Not Porn Founder/CEO Cindy Gallop — Porn vs real world sex, why you’re not satisfied sexually. Plus: making sex socially acceptable, the money to be made by gender equality in adult entertainment.

  9. 138

    172 What Makes Change Stick: Mind Your Body – Joel Harper

    Mind Your Body author Joel Harper (Dr Oz’s trainer) discusses why some get fit, make more money, and have better relationships — and why most won’t.

  10. 137

    171 How to Have Difficult Conversations – A Gay Man Comes Out to His Sons

    How to have difficult conversations. A gay man comes out to his sons. How he navigated addiction, building a family, divorce, plus switching careers.

  11. 136

    170 Build Confidence: How to Stop Playing it Safe – An Excerpt from a Live Coaching Call

    Are you playing it safe or going for what you really want? On this live group coaching call, Tripp coaches a man to take bold action and overcome limiting beliefs.

  12. 135

    169 Dating: Starting Over After a Long Term Relationship – Shana James

    Dating and starting over after a long term relationship. Starting conversations with women, sex and exclusive relationships, dealing with rejection.

  13. 134

    168 Listen to a Guy Beat Procrastination, Fear, and Self Doubt – An Excerpt from Live Coaching Call

    How to Beat Procrastination Fear and Self Doubt. Recording of coaching client taking action, confronting fear, self-doubt, and beating procrastination. Plus: Finding meaning by helping others.

  14. 133

    167 How to Handle Negative Emotions – Todd Kashdan

    How to handle negative emotions, fear, anxiety, guilt, shame. Become comfortable with what makes you uncomfortable with Todd Kashdan author of The Upside of Your Dark Side.

  15. 132

    165 Build Sexual Confidence – Christiane Pelmas

    How to build sexual confidence, how sex relates to success, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, masturbation, and more are discussed.

  16. 131

    164 An Escort Talks About Sex and How to Be Powerful – Cindy

    What can you learn about true power from a former high end escort? In this gripping true story, you’re going to hear how one woman refused to be a victim and found true power in a terrifying situation.

  17. 130

    How I Almost Got My Butt Kicked

    How I nearly made enemies out of people who were trying to help me. This is how I almost got my butt kicked in the process.

  18. 129

    163 How to Turn Your Life Around — Liam Casey

    How to turn your life around. True story of how Liam Casey got unstuck and learned how to deal with fear and his inner critic. Plus how this impacts his relationships and professional life.

  19. 128

    Tame Self Criticism

    Not enough money? Relationship in trouble? Life not what you thought it would be? Here's how to tame self criticism.

  20. 127

    Fear of Failure: Why You Already Know How to Beat It

    Fear of failure? What this is really about and why you already know how to beat it.

  21. 126

    Do You Have to Make Money Doing What You Love?

    Stressed out, grumpy guys says things like: “I have to find my purpose in the world. And I have to pay the bills doing the thing I was put on this earth to do!” This makes it sound like a guy can’t do what he loves unless he can justify it with a handsome, stable paycheck. But is this really true? In the fifth and last lesson of this mini-course, we’re going to explore what it means to live with a sense of purpose or passion and how money fits into all of that.

  22. 125

    A Simple Relationship Tool for Men

    Most guys are so busy they don’t realize that they’re neglecting the most important things in their lives — relationships. And it makes sense. Relationships are often the stickiest, most challenging areas we know. But what if you could learn a tool that would help you navigate any relationship with more confidence and ease? What if you could learn how to ditch the neediness and drama? In the fourth lesson of this mini-course we dive into relationships and what you can do — today — to improve every single one of them.

  23. 124

    How to Get Out of a Rut

    Are you in a rut? Have you ever been in a rut? Ruts (or plateaus) can be awful. They eat away at our energy and self-esteem. Days go by and the wheels just spin — no progress was made. Ruts can be professional or ruts can be personal. Regardless, in the third lesson of this mini-course, I’m going to share a simple checklist you can use to get yourself out of a rut.

  24. 123

    How to Avoid the Traps Most Guys Fall Into

    Part of being a coach means helping guys get out of traps they’ve created for themselves. But wouldn’t be better if you could avoid them altogether? In the second lesson of this mini-course, we’re going to explore: -- The 3 Big Traps that snag even the “smart” guys -- How to claim real power in your life -- How to feel less pressure and more relief

  25. 122

    Why Most Guys Hit the Wall

    TweetIn this series of short podcast episodes I’m going to share some of the big ideas I teach as part of The New Man 360 audio course. That said, let’s dive in and discuss why so many guys hit the wall even if it appears — from the outside — that their personal lives, their relationships, […]

  26. 121

    154 How to Own Your Power – John Wesley

    Prog rock badass John Wesley discusses how he redefined his career, claimed his power and stopped playing small. Also: Alex Lifeson, Porcupine Tree, new album Disconnect.

  27. 120

    148 How to Stop Fighting with Your Wife or Girlfriend – Marcus Ambrester

    Marcus Ambrester delivers tips for how to stop fighting with with your wife or girlfriend. Are you in a draining relationship because you love her or just because you don’t want to go through a break up and deal with the uncertainty?

  28. 119

    147 Understanding Women’s Emotions – Alyson Lanier

    Do you avoid the truth to keep the peace? Learn to understand women’s emotions and keep a discussion from turning into attacks, name calling and blaming.

  29. 118

    144 How to Get in the Zone – Kamal Ravikant

    Author and Silicon Valley renaissance man Kamal Ravikant discusses the dangers of being driven by fear. Plus a simple practice to build confidence and keep you in the zone.

  30. 117

    143 How to Develop an Unbeatable Mind – Fmr Navy SEAL Mark Divine

    Former Navy SEAL and SEALFit founder, Mark Divine shares how to reach your full potential with an unbeatable mind and why you're capable of 20 times more than you think.

  31. 116

    141 How to Admire Women Without Being Creepy – Pelmas and Bollt

    Are you afraid she'll see you checking her out? How does it feel from her perspective? Find out where admiring beauty ends and creepy begins.

  32. 115

    140 Is it Wrong to Check Out Women? – David Bollt

    How to appreciate a woman's beauty without repressing yourself. Are you perpetuating harmful expectations on women or is repressing attraction worse?

  33. 114

    139 Is Watching Porn Bad for You? – Gary Wilson

    Is there such a thing as too much porn? Could it be altering your brain chemistry and screwing up your life? And if you're addicted to porn, what's the solution?

  34. 113

    138 The Tools That Stop Negative Thoughts – Stutz and Michels

    Do you ever find yourself battling or giving-in to negative thought patterns? Learn practical tools to stop negative thoughts and beat procrastination.

  35. 112

    137 What’s Really Killing Your Mojo? Low Testosterone – Shawn Phillips

    Tired of the puffy face and belly fat? What's killing your mojo and has you feeling older than you are? It could be the effects of low testosterone. Here's why every man -- young and old -- needs to care about Low T.

  36. 111

    136 Are You Just Not That Into Her? – Cynthia Stadd

    Are you just not that into her? Do you ever nitpick how she looks? And does her physical appearance keep you from taking the relationship deeper? Cynthia Stadd shares practical insights about how to address the most dangerous discussion -- a woman, her body, and your attraction.

  37. 110

    135 Redefining the Alpha Male – John Romaniello

    John "Roman" Romaniello discusses Man 2.0 Engineering the Alpha, dangers of comparing yourself to others, hormone optimization, sex drive, and a path to confidence.

  38. 109

    134 How to Be Married to Laird Hamilton – Gabby Reece

    Gabrielle "Gabby" Reece author of My Foot is Too Big for the Glass Slipper discusses what men can learn from her marriage to Laird Hamilton, how they almost got divorced, sex, intimacy, why the fairytale ideal of success is BS, dealing with resentment, and how they make their relationship work.

  39. 108

    133 How to Approach Women Without Playing Mind Games – Shana James

    Dating coach Shana James discusses approaching women in our daily lives: 3 ways to start conversations without playing pickup artist games, what kills attraction, dealing with fear, revealing turn on, what she wants, what she's thinking, and why you need to get a life.

  40. 107

    132 Why You’re Stuck and What To Do – Sarah Entrup

    Sarah Ingier Entrup discusses the Soulprint of Creation, why we feel stuck, the Hero's Journey, Joseph Campbell, creating, healing, destroying old patterns, recognizing the cycles of life, meditation, Steven Pressfield, and resistance.

  41. 106

    130 Is Your Sex Life Where You Want it to Be? – Jim Benson

    Male sex coach Jim Benson discusses the most common issues guys have with sex, neediness, clingy-ness, ejaculation control, premature ejaculation, the friend zone, tantra, orgasm without ejaculation, Margot Anand, shame, pleasure, the Multi-Orgasmic Lover Online Training, and how religion impacts our sex lives.

  42. 105

    129 Fear, Failure, Family, and Fun – Laird Hamilton

    Laird Hamilton interview on The New Man Podcast with Tripp Lanier. Big wave surfing legend discusses fear, failure, motivation, inspiration, family, fatherhood, finding meaning, stand up paddle surfing, injury, recovery, and what's more important than nutrition and exercise.

  43. 104

    128 PMS and What You Can Do About It – Sara Avant Stover

    Sara Avant Stover author of Way of the Happy Woman and creator of Reversing Our Curse gives guys tips for all things PMS related: helping her cope, preparing for the storm, being supportive vs dismissive, and how PMS can even help her be happier.

  44. 103

    124 What to Do When Things Don’t Go Your Way? – Improv Wisdom

    Patricia Ryan Madson author of Improv Wisdom: Don't Prepare, Just Show Up discusses improv for your life, Saturday Night Live, Stephen Colbert, Will Ferrell, trusting yourself, accessing your true power, letting go of victim mentality, gratitude, zen mindfulness, and practical tools for dating or finding a job.

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    123 What’s Killing Your Money, Energy, and Time? – Kahuna Harry Uhane Jim

    Kahuna Harry Uhane Jim from Hawaii discusses men's issues regarding exhaustion, self esteem, overworking, giving up power, playing the victim, taking responsibility, gratitude and basic body practices to recover quickly.

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    122 Rejection and How to Stop Holding Back – Keith Martin Smith

    Keith Martin Smith author of A Heart Blown Open the Junpo Denis Kelly biography shares process of writing the book including: risking it all, selling his home, 300 rejection letters, multiple sclerosis, more rejection, the darkest days, giving it his all, and receiving the support of others.

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    118 Get Your Relationship Out of the Ditch – Mark Michael Lewis

    Mark Michael Lewis share practical relationship advice for men, why saying "yes dear" kills sexual attraction, feeling trapped, feeling stuck, why trying to win a fight is a waste of time, selling yourself out, speaking up for what you want, avoiding conflict, creating connection, depth, intimacy and attraction.

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    117 What You Need to Know About Women, Their Bodies, and Food – Marc David

    Marc David (Psychology of Eating) discusses women's bodies, emotional eating and how they are at odds with sex, dating and relationships. Also discussed: Dieting, marriage issues, relationship issues, sexual attraction, attraction loss, what is sexy, and practical advice.

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    114 Emotional Equations, Anxiety and Doing What You Love – Chip Conley

    Chip Conley author of Emotional Equations and Peak and CEO of Joie de Vivre Hotels discusses anxiety, workaholism, finding a calling, success and making sense of your emotions.

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    102 Is There Life After Genital Herpes? – A. Dale

    How one man reinvented his life after genital herpes held him hostage for years. Brene Brown, Authentic Man Program and Life Coaching are discussed.

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Tripp Lanier has coached Navy SEALs, best-selling authors, and entrepreneurs to align their lives with their career and relationships. He covers topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. Each episode consists of real world, practical advice so guys can get out of the rat race and live a life of purpose and meaning. Guests range from Tim Ferriss to Laird Hamilton to Navy SEALs to zen masters to “ordinary” guys living extraordinary lives. Topics include: mindset, purpose, power, relationships, sex, overcoming fear, lifestyle design, and spirituality. Read Tripp's latest book, This Book Will Make You Dangerous.

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