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Join us as we re-visit with Charity and Holly from season 7, but this time, we are talking all about soulmate love. Hear Holly share about bald eagles versus butterflies, Charity talk about the definition of home, and both talk about the importance of couples therapy early on. Corey discusses the difference between Earth-bound familiarity that can draw us to unhealthy patterns versus soul familiarity which draws us to our divine love, and Tracy shares about her journey from trauma vomiting to using ChatGPT to help her reflect. If you feel like you have met your soulmate or simply want to be inspired by their love story, tune in to hear all about “the knowing” that Charity and Holly have had since before they event met. Show Notes: Couples Therapy-Check out this documentary series about couples therapy. Trainwreck: Poop Cruise-Watch this film all about a luxury cruise that loses power and chaos breaks out. Episode 4: The Age Gap, Long Distance Love Story of the Late to Lez and the Gold Star with Charity and Holly-Tune in for our first episode with Charity and Holly.

Ever wonder what messages the other side is sending you? Check out this conversation with channeler and medium, Sandy Wesson, where we learn all about communicating with departed loved ones, spirit guides and angels. What they can share with us can be profoundly healing, which has benefits both for self-awareness, forgiveness, and love as well as being able to be healed enough to attract who we want in our life. Tracy again attempts to declare her soul’s intention from her kitchen, and Sandy affirms that Tracy will stop coming back to learn lessons once she has learned those lessons. Things then take a turn when Corey’s deceased mom shows up and affirms that she is indeed dropping pennies for her and her partner to find. This is an episode you won’t want to miss! Show Notes: Sandy Wesson-Learn more about her work and connect with her. Website: sandywesson.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SandyWesson-Channel Instagram: wesson.sandy The Light Between Us-Read Laura Lynne Jackson’s book about finding purpose.

What is the difference between effort and flow, and what is the significance of both in trying to live a soul-connected life? Hear Tracy share about the importance of doing self-work, Marie Kondo-ing your life, and finding peace in chaos, while Corey shares about the difference between waiting and patience, why remembering birthdays might be a dealbreaker for some people, and her decision to “deploy flow.” But, the real story is under the story…find out why Tracy brought a man living in his car to her home to be her roommate and how Corey is afraid of being mauled by Tracy’s dogs. No matter what, you will surely get some ideas on how to enhance your effortless life! Show Notes: Physical-Tune in for this show about an 80’s housewife’s journey to use yoga for escapism. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind-Watch this movie about erasing memories. The Light Between Us-Read Laura Lynne Jackson’s book about finding purpose. Misery-Watch this Stephen King thriller about an author being rehabilitated after a car crash by an unstable fan. Marie Kondo-Learn more about this famous woman’s process for creating space, and thus peace, in your life. The Break-Up-Watch this rom-com gone bad as a couple deals with a breakup in some of the worst ways possible.

Have you ever felt drawn to someone or maybe even drawn to a place, job, pet, or project? What about the opposite? Tune in as Tracy shares about the lady in her neighborhood she thinks is a witch, Corey talks about her “soul house,” and the two debate over whether or not Mrs. Brady helped Alice with housework on The Brady Bunch. On a more serious note, this episode will make you think about all those things in your life that you are drawn to at the soul level and the feelings associated with them so you can better open yourself up to receiving pings and intuitive messages about your soul connections. Show Notes: Life After Life-Check out this TV series all about past lives. The Light Between Us-Read Laura Lynne Jackson’s book about finding purpose. Elsewhere-Find out more about this fantasy book about alternate realities. Develop Your Psychic Abilities-Find out more about your psychic abilities in Litany Burns’ book.

Tune in for a conversation with Tomoko Uno, a Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique Level 2 Practitioner. Our conversation centers on Buddhism and Shintoism, energetic cords, past life connections, karma, and tapping into the subconscious. Tomoko goes into detail about how cord cutting works in severing energetic ties . . . even positive ones to “clear the slate for the next day” as well as QHHT as a practice to uncover memories we didn’t know we had so they can emerge and then dissolve. Tracy talks about her mom telling her she would have to keep reincarnating to learn the lessons she needs to and that a better alternative is to learn them during this life, while Corey discusses picking up someone else’s negative energy at Ikea and then spending the next couple days trying to shake it. If you are curious as to how to break patterns, learn soul lessons, and cut those energetic ties, you will want to take a listen and maybe even book a session with Tomoko! Show Notes: Tomoko Uno-Learn more about Tomoko’s work with Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique and subscribe to her newsletter on spiritual healing. Website: https://tomokouno.com Instagram: @healing_within_tomoko_uno Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1144854610590967/ TikTok: @modernspiritualliving Dolores Cannon-Find out more from the QHHT expert herself.

What does it mean that Tracy is a manifesting generator and Corey is a pure generator? It’s all in human design. Tune in for a great conversation with Kristen Alvarez, who is on the cutting edge of integrating human design with AI, where she uses a person’s birth information to derive a life manual or blueprint specific to that person’s life – including their calling, chemistry, alignment, gifts, and more. Learning this information about ourselves can make us feel seen, like Tracy experienced in real-time during this episode (after having talked about a picture of her in a box at age 1 feeling like a metaphor for her life in someone else’s box). Corey shares about her pent-up go-getter energy that was likely stifled in the 70s but is on fire now, and Kristen discusses how what she learned from human design has helped her better understand her son. Learn more about human design and its potential role in enhancing our self-awareness as well as strengthening our relationships – even the ones with our supposed soulmates. Show Notes: Kristen Alvarez-Learn more about Kristen and her human design work. Website: dualova.ai Email: [email protected] Brené Brown-Make sure to check out the books, blogs, and TED Talk on vulnerability. Carl Jung-Learn more about Jung’s views on shadow work.

Is there such a thing as right person, wrong time? Tune in to hear Corey and Tracy ponder ideas such as divine timing, trusting the universe, aligned action, being open to receiving, and the ripple effect. They both share personal experiences with timing and destiny, with Corey discussing how someone else’s snowboarding trip changed her life and Tracy’s admitting to holding onto some level of wickedness as a way to guarantee she will have a long life since “only the good die young.” If this isn’t enough to fill your brain with all sorts of thoughts, make sure to hear all about their views on whether or not they would take a “find out who your soulmate is” test and how AI avatars are changing the nature of dating. Show Notes: All the Way to the River-Check out Elizabeth Gilbert’s moving memoir on her experience with sex and love addiction. Brokeback Mountain-Watch this epic gay love story unfold as two cowboys fall for each other. Mormon No More-Watch this reality series about two Mormon women who leave their marriages to men, along with the church, to start a life as a couple. Develop Your Psychic Abilities-Find out more about your psychic abilities in Litany Burns’ book. The Light Between Us-Read Laura Lynne Jackson’s book about finding purpose. Tig Notaro and Laura Cleary-Check out Laura Cleary’s interview with famed comedian, Tig Notaro. Sliding Doors-Watch this film about a woman who lives two alternate realities. Ripple-Tune in to watch this show about four strangers whose lives interconnect. It Gets Better Project-Learn more about this storytelling project to support LGBTQIA+ youth. Wild-Watch this Reese Witherspoon film about a woman’s journey to find herself while hiking the Pacific Crest Trail. Love is Blind-Learn more about this dating reality show. The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On-Watch this reality series that follows couples teetering between breakup or lifetime commitment. Bachelor in Paradise-Tune in to watch former Bachelor and Bachelorette contestants vie for love. Soulmates-Check out this mini-series about the ethical dilemmas of a future-inspired soulmate test.

Join us for a fabulous conversation with master energy healing teacher and practitioner, Tammy Waldron, all about ancestral trauma, past lives, soul connections, and energy healing. We talk about the persecutor/victim/helper triangle, codependency, attachment styles, and magnetic attraction as they relate to soulmate connections. Tracy shares about her former fear of blank facial expressions, and Corey brings up how dating apps can trigger anxious attachments when you don’t get that wink in return. Tammy clarifies how our body is like having open apps that run for years and years behind the scenes and needs to release energy, often resulting in stress and burnout. If you are looking to address unhealthy patterns, unhealed parts of yourself, learn about energy healing, or just find your own self-love, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss. Show Notes: Tammy Waldron-Learn more about Tammy, her services, classes, and resources on energy healing. Website: https://www.towandawellbeing.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/towandawellbeing/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TowandaWellbeing Love is Blind-Learn more about this dating reality show. Age of Attraction-Watch this reality show about dating across age ranges. Brené Brown-Make sure to check out the books, blogs, and TED Talk on vulnerability.

Tune in to this amazing conversation with Marcelina Hardy, certified coach and past life regressionist, as we talk all about the myths, misconceptions, and mysteries around the notion of soulmates. Do we only have one? Are soulmates only romantic partners? When will we meet our soulmates? What do past lives and soul contracts have to do with our Earth-bound presence in the here and now? So many questions…but Marcie answers all of them, plus helps us better understand the power of hypnosis and meditation. And, interspersed in the conversation, we get to hear about Tracy’s pickleball game with a low vibe competitor and Corey’s past life memories of a flickering lantern and creaky wooden floor. Show Notes: Marcelina Hardy-Learn more about her, her services, and resources on soulmates. Website: https://intuitiveclarityhypnosis.com Instagram: @intuitiveclarityhypnosis Facebook: https://facebook.com/intuitiveclarityhypnosis Elsewhere-Find out more about this fantasy book about alternate realities. Eternity-Watch this show about one soul’s challenge in having to decide which eternity to choose. Life After Life-Check out this TV series all about past lives. Love is Blind-Learn more about this dating reality show. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind-Watch this movie about erasing memories.

What is the difference between a karmic partner and a twin flame? Or a romantic soulmate and a soul partner? Listen in as Corey and Tracy explore the different types of soul connections and their personal experiences with each of them. And, find out why Tracy wants to float on a cloud for eternity to avoid the dumpster fire she calls Earth and why Corey wants to continuously reincarnate so she can learn, grow, and go on her quest with one half medallion to find her soulmate carrying the other half. You won’t want to miss this great start to an incredible season! Show Notes: The Light Between Us-Read Laura Lynne Jackson’s book about finding purpose. Develop Your Psychic Abilities-Find out more about your psychic abilities in Litany Burns’ book. All the Way to the River-Check out Elizabeth Gilbert’s moving memoir on her experience with sex and love addiction. Elsewhere-Find out more about this fantasy book about alternate realities. Eternity-Watch this show about one soul’s challenge in having to decide which eternity to choose. Life After Life-Check out this TV series all about past lives. The Notebook-Watch this love story about two people from opposite social circumstances spend their lifetimes trying to reconnect.

The Soulmate Strategy Tune in for a chat all about Corey’s new memoir, The Soulmate Strategy: My Imperfect Plan to Conquer Heartbreak and Find True Love. Learn about the “event” that spurred the writing of this book, the role of the “Universe” in the path to healing and transformation, and the unwavering friendship that became the foundation for much of Corey’s journey in finding healing, peace, and love. Get your copy now at https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Soulmate-Strategy Show Notes: Life After Life-Check out this TV series all about past lives. Come See Me in the Good Light-Tune in to this moving film about a dying poet’s reflection on life. All the Way to the River-Check out Elizabeth Gilbert’s moving memoir on her experience with sex and love addiction. The Light Between Us-Read Laura Lynne Jackson’s book about finding purpose.

Tune in to hear Corey and Tracy chat all about risk-taking – physical, emotional, and professional. Corey shares about her unconventional coin-flipping strategy, whereas Tracy discusses her surfboard approach, which involves riding the waves of life! While they have very different approaches to taking risks, one thing they both believe is that unsolicited feedback, and those who play the role of naysayer or devil’s advocate can have both debilitating effects on one’s decision-making process and the relationship as a whole and thus, the key to finding support in deciding to take a risk rests in clarifying the type of guidance you want from someone! Show Notes: Come See Me in the Good Light-Tune in to this moving film about a dying poet’s reflection on life. Heather Browne-As a relationship expert, Dr. Heather Browne has worked with thousands of individuals and couples in psychotherapy. Rock That Relationship! Season 10-Learn more about getting unstuck.

How comfortable are you going solo? To dinner? Out on the town? On a vacation? And, is there a personal development benefit to doing these things on your own? Listen as Corey and Tracy ponder their own motives for spending time alone, particularly engaging in solo travel. From Corey’s seat 9A preference on a plane to Tracy’s hike ahead mentality on group treks, perhaps their conversation of contrast will help you better understand if and under what circumstances venturing out alone can be a transformative experience! Show Notes: Come See Me in the Good Light-Tune in to this moving film about a dying poet’s reflection on life.

What do all of these have in common: showering at Everest, the naked guy at the gym, diamond cubes, traits of fast walkers, and using AI for affirmations? Well, nothing really . . . but they sure are interesting topics for discussing the importance of reflection, processing, and meaning-making! Join us for an episode that is part “how-to” and part self-discovery as Corey and Tracy explore their vastly different processing styles – with one needing to repeatedly recount a situation until it is feels resolved and the other needing to speculate about all possible motives behind it in order to feel in control. Can you guess which style is Corey’s and which is Tracy’s? Show Notes: The Merry Gentleman-Watch this rom-com about a professional dancer staging an all-male revue in her hometown to save her parents’ event venue. Come See Me in the Good Light-Tune in to this moving film about a dying poet’s reflection on life. Traits of People Who Walk Fast-Check out this article about what fast walkers have in common.

Join us for a deep philosophical dive into the concept of joy, where we explore altruism, the Law of Polarity, the “Helper’s High,” “Interrupted Consumption,” and the genetic predisposition of people towards pessimism as an ancestral survival tool. Tune in as Corey and Tracy discuss these topics and the many ways to seek out, foster, and tap into joy – whether that is reflected in Tracy’s newfound glee in the holiday season or Corey’s late night reality show viewing. And, you won’t want to miss their take on Christmas rom-coms about CEOs, saving grandpa’s inn, and the local lumberjack. Show Notes: Tracking Happiness-Find out more about this study on how much of happiness is circumstantial. My Secret Santa-Check out this holiday rom-com movie. Love is Blind-Learn more about this dating reality show. Adam Anderson-Learn more about his study on the role of genes and pessimism. Elephant Nature Park-Find out more about this sanctuary in Thailand. Doctors Without Borders-Check out the work from this amazing non-profit organization. Surviving Mormonism-Tune in to this documentary about surviving Mormonism. The Truman Show-Watch this Jim Carrey movie about unknowingly being on a reality show. The Kardashians-Check out this reality show about the celebrity Kardashian family. The L word-Tune in to this multi-season lesbian drama. SNL Murder Shows Skit-Watch this hilarious skit on SNL about watching and enjoying murder shows.

Are you curious about what phrogging is, why Corey isn’t a fan of composter bins but Tracy can’t talk highly enough of her countertop one, and why people shouldn’t comment on social media if they don’t like cranberries? And, are you wondering how that all relates to wellbeing? Then, this is the episode for you. Take a journey with Corey and Tracy as they dive into the eight areas of wellness, exploring balance, priorities, as well as their learning edges and strengths, and how those relate to self-work, self-growth, and self-love. And, if you want to know more about your own wellness, be sure to take the quiz in the show notes. Show Notes: Wellness Wheel Quiz-Take this quiz to find out how you rate in the eight areas of wellness. Electric Composter-Learn more about the kitchen countertop composter Tracy raves about. Political Differences in Relationships with Shannon Watson-Tune in to listen to a past Rock That Relationship! episode on the Majority in the Middle. Phrogging-Check out this show to learn more about this phenomenon. Mel Robbins Podcast-Listen to this episode featuring an interview with Danielle Bayard Jackson on adult friendships.

Do you really know yourself? How do you manage triggers? Can you read the room? How compassionate are you? Hear all about how to become more emotionally intelligent through enhancing your skills in self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management. Hear about closed windows, “not my circus; not my monkeys,” Tracy managing her sickness on a flight from China, and how Corey deals with slow drivers and slow walkers. Learn some great strategies for developing your emotional intelligence, all while being entertained by both of their uniquely different approaches to it! Show Notes: Emotional Intelligence-Choose from four different EI assessments. Rock That Relationship! Season 5, Episode 6-Learn more about different self-assessments you can take by listening to this previous episode.

Wonder why Tracy in inspired by sea abalone-diving women or Corey doesn’t watch crime shows? It all has to do with mindset! Tune in for an amazing episode about shifting from negative to positive, scarcity to abundance, and fixed to growth mindsets. Whether it is by embracing Law of Attraction, interrupting worrying thoughts, doing an abundance inventory, or saying yes to opportunities, learn ways you can shift your mindset to one of more self-love. Show Notes: Legacy Project-Find out more about Dr. Karl Pillemer from Cornell University and his research project finding out from those in their 80s, 90s, and 100s what they would tell their younger selves. Check out this wonderful Mel Robbins podcast episode with Dr. Pillemer’s interview. Law of Attraction-This philosophy basically entails that a positive mindset will result in bringing in positive energy and experiences. The Last of the Sea Women-Watch this amazing documentary about South Korean female sea divers. Monster-Find out more about this Netflix miniseries about real-life serial killers.

This episode offers more than just a list of ideas for self-growth. Instead, it serves as a deep dive into whether or not we are always learning and growing as well as whether or not we should always be trying to. Listen as Corey and Tracy discuss self-growth by circumstance and self-growth by intention, covering topics such as unpacking triggers for self-awareness, reframing for enjoyment, overcoming fears, and self-learning versus task delegation. If you are curious why Corey enjoys creating text boxes on websites and Tracy doesn’t or the relevance of Tracy’s “babyish” responses and Corey’s “fun in a paper bag” to self-growth, this is the episode for you! Show Notes: Mel Robbins-Read about the Let Them theory and how to stop other people’s opinions and behaviors from affecting you. Divorce & Beyond-Check out this podcast hosted by a lawyer ready to help others through divorce.

What does valuing time actually have to do with self-love? A lot! Tune in as Corey and Tracy discuss everything from investing time into yourself to achieve both short-term and long-term goals, devoting time to self-care, prioritizing yourself, time blocking, and flow states. Hear Corey talk about her non-negotiable hour-long lunch and commitment to walking along with Tracy’s desire to multi-task everything! Their banter on getting into the flow is fascinating and might leave you wondering, what is so enjoyable that you lose track of time? For Tracy, it’s nothing. For Corey, it’s nearly everything. Show Notes: Unschooling-Find out more about the unschooling movement. Betty Reid Soskin-Learn about this 104 year-old woman who became a park ranger at 85 and retired at 100. Shut Up & Write-Get more information about this free writing community. Love is Blind-Learn more about this dating reality show.

Join us as we kick off season 12 talking all about boundaries, from physical to emotional and mental to financial. Hear Corey and Tracy talk about the importance of focusing only on things that fuel their passions or fills their buckets as well as drawing boundaries around friendships and relationships that are emotionally draining or detract from happiness. Corey discusses how limiting professional collaborations and time blocking having helped her productivity and mental wellbeing, while Tracy talks about how she wants no drama from others and doesn’t need to belong to a group but requires external accountability to stay true to time boundaries. More so, if you want to find out how Tracy can talk on the phone with a baseball mitt on one hand and bat in the other and why stickers caused Corey to decide to stop loaning out her car, you won’t want to miss this episode! Show Notes: All the Way to the River-Check out Elizabeth Gilbert’s moving memoir on her experience with sex and love addiction.

What can change in three months time? A lot! Just ask Corey and Tracy. On May 13, Corey told Tracy to mark her calendar for August 13 because she intuitively sensed that her life would be fundamentally different. Without hesitation, she marked the date, and the two regrouped August 14 to see what had transpired over those three months. Tune in for a discussion about the physical, spiritual, and emotional changes they both have experienced in just over a short period of time, from letting go to recalibrating, to cleansing to manifesting their desires. Show Notes: Bethany Nicole-Learn more about Bethany’s work with astrology, book a chart reading, and check out her book (and blog), Apologies I Never Got! Kai Bertrand-Find out more about Hawaiian energy healer, Kai Bertrand. Book a session, read her blogs and ebooks, and watch her videos. Mel Robbins-Read about the Let Them theory and how to stop other people’s opinions and behaviors from affecting you.

Hear from actor, writer, and public speaking coach, Miriam Katz, about her new podcast, Ex Appeal, where she interviews people she has dated in the past to find closure through what she calls her second breakups or relationship funerals. Listen as she shares about lessons learned, catalyst ex-partners, and meaning-making by examining what we are drawn to. Miriam shares how she felt serendipitously connected to some people, whereas others represented fleeting experiences that propelled her into her own self-understanding and life path choices. While Corey notes how difficult this process would be for her, Tracy points out that she has reached her best self and doesn’t care what other people think about her. Whether you feel you could actually embark on a “journalistic project” like this or not, you will love what Miriam has to say about her experience! Show Notes: Attachment Styles-Learn more about attachment styles – how they are formed and how they might impact your relationships. The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness-Check out this book all about decluttering and unlocking the past experiences that are holding you back. Miriam Katz-Connect with Miriam on Instagram at @theexappealpodcast, on TikTok at @exappeal, and on YouTube at @exappeal Ex Appeal Podcast-Check out the trailer on Apple or Spotify.

Do you ever see signs or symbols that just feel serendipitous? Do you follow what you see, reject them if they don’t align with logic, or use them as tools for validation for what you feel in your gut? Listen in as Corey and Tracy talk about the role of signs and symbols in their lives. Whether they show up more in the form of dreams and literal signs, like they do for Corey, or more as feelings of “knowing,” like they do for Tracy, signs and symbols are essential for both in their intuitive processes. And if that isn’t enough, you will definitely want to hear about the llama, the plane crash, and the lawyer card…all evidence of the power of signs and symbols. Show Notes: None

Tune in for this incredibly thought-provoking discussion with psychic tarot reader, Marv Machura, as we explore everything from the power of a willow stick to the invention of the printing press, and from Egyptian Pyramids to our transformational time in our humanity. We embark on a journey in real time, where Marv does a Tarot reading of Corey and Tracy, uncovering their past life connection in the 1300s in Europe. Listen as Marv shares about Corey’s role as a warrior and Tracy’s as a savior and how they have come back in this life to reconcile past mistakes together. Show Notes: Bethany Nicole-Learn more about Bethany’s work with astrology, book a chart reading, and check out her book (and blog), Apologies I Never Got! Edgar Cayce-Check out this book, Edgar Cayce on the Akashic Records, to learn more about Akashic readings. Aleister Crowley and Frieda Harris-Find out more about their partnership in creating the Thoth Tarot deck. Age of Aquarius-Learn more about this astrological age and what it means for the planets, the Universe, and humanity. Marv Machura-Check out Marv’s website where you can learn more about his book on Tarot readings, listen to podcast episodes, and book a psychic tarot reading. For those music lovers out there, be sure to check out his musical endeavors as well.

Did you know that Corey’s and Tracy’s astrological charts look so similar that they can get mixed up? As karmic astrologer, Susan Reynolds, points out, having several of the same signs and same houses in the same positions makes both Corey and Tracy tick in uniquely similar ways, which offers a shortcut in dealing with each other. Tune in as Susan shares about the intersection of astrology and past lives, reminding us that astrology doesn’t control us, as we have free will, but it can empower us, explain phenomena, or clarify things so we don’t have to “swim upstream.” Hear all about Tracy’s oneness with the Earth and Corey’s past life propensity to seek achievement but crave familial balance as well as how both use their energies to help, serve, and make an impact on others. Show Notes: Susan Reynolds-Learn more about Susan’s work as a karmic astrologer and get access to her free predictions, blog, and events on her website or sign up for a reading. You can also follow her on Facebook for the latest news!

Tune in to this special unscripted episode where Corey and Tracy explore the psychic prophecies they have received about their tandem lives. And, if you are curious about Corey’s 6th grade birthday party with the wallpaper astrologer or Tracy’s late-night experience in New York City, make sure to listen. This episode ends with some true epiphanies from both, live on air, and a joint cord cutting as a way for them to manifest peace in their lives. Show Notes: Bethany Nicole-Learn more about Bethany’s work with astrology, book a chart reading, and check out her book (and blog), Apologies I Never Got! Mel Robbins-Read about the Let Them theory and how to stop other people’s opinions and behaviors from affecting you.

“You aren’t meant to be cured today; you are meant to be awakened.” Tune in for this amazing episode with Akashic psychic intuitive reader, Robin Doxey, to learn more about Akashic records. We talk about soul circles, healing our lives now to heal for all of our lives, and the role of incarnation to gain experience and wisdom. Hear about Tracy’s soul desire to be Earthly grounded and her experience forgiving her murderer from a past life, along with Corey’s soul propensity to give love more than receive it and her role as Tracy’s parent during World War II. Tracy’s and Corey’s soul connection, though, transcends many lives and continues to keep them circling back around to help each other learn and grow. Show Notes: Edgar Cayce-Check out this book, Edgar Cayce on the Akashic Records, to learn more about Akashic readings. Linda Howe-Learn more about Linda Howe’s ideas on Akashic records through her book, How to Read the Akashic Records. Robin Doxey-Find out more and get in touch with Robin for an Akashic reading. Ninth House-Buy some crystals, get a reading from a medium, astrologer, Tarot reader, and others, or attend an event to hone your own skills. The Eleventh House-Take a class on human design, dreams, pendulums, spirit guides, and more!

Check out this fascinating episode with regressionist, Jill Hewins, to learn more about soul regression, spirit guides, and soul-self wisdom. Jill offers interesting insight about karma, unfinished business, travel pacts, and how to open yourself up to greater wisdom by quieting the rational mind. Corey shares about two of her past lives, including one where she lived in a boarding house and constantly brushed her horse, whereas Tracy talks about how she and Corey have an opposite magnetic push away from each other for dating but both have a deeper knowing about the other and their future before they do. This episode is one you won’t want to miss! Show Notes: Brian Weiss-Dr. Weiss is a psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, and past life regressionist who writes about past lives and reincarnation. Many Lives, Many Masters-Read about Dr. Weiss’s self-discovery after using past life regression therapy with a client in which traditional psychotherapy was not helping her in addressing her fears. Michael Newton-Dr. Newton is a spiritual regressionist and a “pioneer of afterlife exploration.” Linda Backman-Dr. Backman is a licensed psychologist and regression therapist who helped establish “The Ravenheart Center, a Mystery School in Boulder, Colorado, dedicated to guiding individuals to discover their soul path.” Carol McGlinchey-Learn about Carol’s own past lives and her work as a certified regression therapist, spiritual intuitive, and psychic medium. Check out her website and email her at [email protected] Bethany Nicole-Learn more about Bethany’s work with astrology, book a chart reading, and check out her book (and blog), Apologies I Never Got!

Join us for an intriguing episode with crisis and life transitions coach, Jenny Capella, who takes us on a deep dive into the metaphysical world. Her take on the simultaneity effect of past lives versus the chronological one and her thoughts on soulmates, soul connections, and karma will blow your mind! Hear more about Corey’s and Tracy’s tandem lessons as soul travelers and what having a soul connection feels like – is it familiarity, déjà vu, chemistry, coincidence, serendipity, or a subtle knowing? Finally, listen in as Jenny explains points of destiny, intention-setting to summon soul connections, and how the “soul is an explorer.” Show Notes: Parent Effectiveness Training Book-Learn more about this book on step-by-step conflict resolution for parents. Edward Mannix-Find out more about this spiritual teacher and his work. Compassion Key-Take the free 5-day course on clearing your karma. Joyce Izumi at the Institute for Transformational Movement-No additional information is available about her practice. Jenny Capella-Find out more at her website, on Etsy, and on Facebook. Email her at [email protected]

Mother and son during World War II, entrepreneurs meant to engage in joint ventures, married couple at the turn of the 20th century, spirit guides, jumpers . . . listen as Corey and Tracy share a taste of their past life connections and how their role in each other’s lives today has helped them learn parallel lessons and create ripple effects that have profoundly impacted their lives today. Show Notes: Bethany Nicole-Learn more about Bethany’s work with astrology, book a chart reading, and check out her book (and blog), Apologies I Never Got! Tyler Henry-Find out more about medium, Tyler Henry, particularly his interaction with Alan Thicke.

While Tracy is more prone to saw her arm off if she feels impending stuckness, whereas Corey is more likely to develop an upleveled version of plan B, both believe that getting stuck, in many cases, can be prevented. They stress having strong support systems, coping mechanisms, authentic self-reflection, and not entering into contracts, agreements, or situations likely to get you stuck. Learn about the friction audit, coined by Dr. Adam Alter, Tracy’s love for the show, Royal Pains, and Corey’s feelings about naysayers. If this isn’t intriguing enough, stick around to hear Tracy’s compelling story about “being the gum on someone’s shoe.” Show Notes: Attachment Styles-Learn more about attachment styles – how they are formed and how they might impact your relationships. Royal Pains-Watch this series about a concierge doctor in the Hamptons. Adam Alter-Tune in to the Mel Robbins podcast to hear from Dr. Adam Alter all about getting unstuck, and in particular, how to do a friction audit.

What do you do if getting unstuck doesn’t pan out like you planned? You either end up staying stuck or the outcome is worse than you imagined? Listen as Corey and Tracy talk about ways to be resilient after a setback, such as realistically anticipating the struggle ahead, keeping things in context, widening your heart, and leaning on others. Corey shares about tackling a tricky climb during her latest rock climbing endeavor, while Tracy discusses having been convinced multiple times to “not burn it all down” after a horrible breakup. All in all, they both agree that they grew up feeling a lot like the kid’s inflatable bottom-weighted “punching” bag from their childhood, in that getting up after a setback was not an option; you just pop right back. But, how they pop right back is very different – Tracy with her all-in, head-first approach and Corey with her recalibrate and reset approach. So, whatever works best for you, go with it! Show Notes: Edith Eger-Learn more about Holocaust survivor and New York Times bestselling author, Dr. Eger, and get a copy of her two books, The Choice and The Gift. Cassie Parks-Follow her on Instagram, check out her books, and discover all the great resources she offers on her website if you need a boost, particularly around manifesting money. Bethany Nicole-Learn more about Bethany’s work with astrology, book a chart reading, and check out her book (and blog), Apologies I Never Got! Viktor Frankl-Find out more about Viktor Frankl’s groundbreaking work on the meaning of life. Psychological Prehabilitation-Learn about how accurate and realistic patient education prior to surgery can positively impact recovery. Olivia-Looking for travel opportunities and cruises specifically for lesbians? Search no further than Olivia!

Tune in to our chat with Leah Lynn, parenting coach, and true high viber, for an honest conversation about elevating our vibrations to secure clarity and attract the relationships we want. We talk about readiness to heal, butterfly struggles, setting intentions, and forgiveness, along with co-dependency, breadcrumbing, and patterns. Tracy discusses the notion of hyper-independence, and Corey shares how trying to “transform” someone else is not always a welcome gift. If you are looking for ways to enhance your vibrations to move from being stuck in the same patterns to exploring higher levels of alignment, check out this episode! Show Notes: Attachment Styles-Learn more about attachment styles – how they are formed and how they might impact your relationships. Marshall Rosenberg-Learn more about his work on nonviolent communication. Co-Dependents Anonymous-Find out more about co-dependency and how to work through it. CoDA has meetings, resources, and other useful tools. Leah Lynn-Email her for parent coaching and check out her work with Bumper Crop Café, and her book, Conscious Parenting, on Amazon.

Listen as we chat with one of our favorite manifesting friends ever, Cassie Parks! We cover a lot of ground, from being truthful with ourselves in what we manifest to bridge manifestation and if there is such a thing as competing manifests. Cassie shares about the role of “being,” “choosing,” and “tolerating” in manifesting and how those behaviors influence what we actually end up manifesting. Learn about Tracy’s calling to be a healer, and Corey’s to be a teacher but how these continue to show up in their “being” space in personal relationships. Hear all about Tracy’s wounded deer syndrome, Cassie’s garage door metaphor, and Corey’s future role vetting Tracy’s partners based on how soft their skin appears. In all seriousness, though, the three explore the question of “What are you here on Earth for?” and how to align that answer through manifesting. Show Notes: Cassie’s and Ginny’s Rock That Relationship! Episode-Tune in for our first episode with them from Season 3 on manifesting. Attachment Styles-Learn more about attachment styles – how they are formed and how they might impact your relationships. Manifest it Now Podcast–Tune in to hear Cassie Parks and Ginny Gane talk all things manifesting. Cassie Parks-Follow her on Instagram, check out her books, and discover all the great resources she offers on her website if you need a boost, particularly around manifesting money.

Tune in for this vulnerable take on letting go – from Tracy’s recent romantic heartbreak to Corey’s story of coping with her mom’s death. Both share that you have to feel the feelings and then move on, and that stillness for extended periods of time can keep you in a place of unnecessary suffering. Corey talks about how letting go of the pain of her mom’s death was not her letting go of her mom, and Tracy shares about how harboring guilt only keeps us stuck. They discuss how balanced thinking, Law of Attraction, processing with a therapist, psychic, and/or astrologer, leaning on your friends, helping others, and expressing gratitude have been useful for helping them let go and move forward. This is an episode you won’t want to miss! Show Notes: Attachment Styles-Learn more about attachment styles – how they are formed and how they might impact your relationships. Mel Robbins-Read about the Let Them theory and how to stop other people’s opinions and behaviors from affecting you. Law of Attraction-This philosophy basically entails that a positive mindset will result in bringing in positive energy and experiences. St. Elmo’s Fire-Watch this classic flick about a group of young adults trying to navigate their lives in the 1980s. Coach Dorothy-Tune in to Dorothy Johnson’s podcast about getting past heartbreak. Bethany Nicole-Learn more about Bethany’s work with astrology, book a chart reading, and check out her book (and blog), Apologies I Never Got! Who Wants to Be a Millionaire?-Check out this long-running game show where contestants answer progressively more difficult trivia questions in an effort to win a million dollars.

Trying to find clarity around a big decision? Want to feel confident in your choice? Tune in to hear Corey and Tracy discuss strategies like the somatic response to coin flipping, meditation with the Notes app, tapping into intuition, doing a values rank, and identifying feelings over outcomes. Plus, hear about Tracy’s handwriting skills, Corey’s decluttering tips, each of their personal mission statements, and where they both see themselves in two years. If you are looking for some actionable steps to find clarity and ultimately get unstuck, this is the episode for you! Show Notes: Gift of Fear-Check out this book, which is all about trusting your gut instinct. Coach Dorothy-Tune in to Dorothy Johnson’s podcast about getting past heartbreak.

Join us as we talk with Nadine Corella, founder of the Facebook group, Lesbians of Arizona, and winner of the 2022 Dinah Shore DJ Contest. Nadine shares her story of working through the healing process after heartbreak – moving from a state of just trying to get up each day to engaging in self-reflection to helping others with their healing processes. Hear about the strategies she used to get unstuck from heartbreak, including using ChatGPT to deepen her understanding of herself. While Nadine shares what helped her get unstuck, it took a while for her to learn that the only person that can give you closure is you. Far more profound than Corey’s learning that love crystals don’t work for her to unstick herself from heartbreak, and talking to a tree seemed to go nowhere for Tracy. Tune in for great tips and inspiration if you feel like you are stuck in the healing process from a breakup! Show Notes: Attachment Styles-Learn more about attachment styles – how they are formed and how they might impact your relationships. ChatGPT-Try out these prompts Nadine used for deeper self-reflection. Act as a therapist who helps me cut through my patterns, not just soothe me. Ask me direct, uncomfortable, but revealing, questions. Help me see the subconscious beliefs, emotional habits, and survival strategies I’m stuck in. Focus on the real roots of my behavior, not surface-level advice. Be compassionate, but don’t sugarcoat it. BUT before we start, help me name what I’m actually struggling with. I’ve been called things like too much, too sensitive, controlling or dramatic but I want to get underneath those labels. Ask me a few clarifying questions to help me understand my real pattern before we go deeper. Nadine Corella-Connect on Instagram. Lesbians of Arizona-Check out the Facebook group for inspiration, events, and meetings through Clubhouse.

This episode might be more aptly called “Don’t Should on Me!” . . . even if only to make Tracy laugh. Listen in as we explore the many “shoulds” that impact stuckness. Whether they are based on logic, ego preservation, fear disguised as intuition, regret, or the idea that things “could” be worse, shoulds come in all forms – internal chatter, societal expectations, others’ opinions, trauma, comparison, and even unfinished past life business. Tune in for some great insight mixed with scintillating stories, like Corey’s recurring nightmare of accidentally quitting her job or Tracy’s past life trauma that gets in the way of her writing and publishing a book. And, if that isn’t enough, you can at least learn about cotton balls and orange juice. Intrigued? Then, you “should” definitely listen. Show Notes: Berkeley EdX-Check out The Science of Happiness, a free online MOOC designed help people integrate strategies for a “happy and meaningful life.” Self Magazine-Flip through stories from wellness magazine, Self. Manifestation Babe Podcast-Tune in to episode #264 to learn more about past lives and subconscious threats. Bethany Nicole-Learn more about Bethany’s work with astrology, book a chart reading, and check out her book (and blog), Apologies I Never Got! Charlize Theron-Check out movies by Oscar winner, Charlize Theron, including Monster. Selena Gomez-Learn more about blockbuster actress and the 2017 Billboard Woman of the Year, Selena Gomez. Stephen Stills-Listen to “Love The One You’re With” to hear the famous quote – “If you can be with the one you love, honey, love the one you’re with.”

Maybe it’s fear of failure or being dreamless, or fear of judgment or losing something . . . or perhaps it’s self-limiting beliefs or feeling overwhelmed by change. Regardless, we find ways to stay stuck. Some are real, and some are imagined. Some are external, and some are self-inflicted. Some hold us back from our dreams, and some keep us from leaving good situations only to become stuck in worse ones. Tracy discusses why, despite it being a dream of hers, going to med school at her age would make her stuck – a schedule she wouldn’t like, debt, and having to work longer to pay back loans, whereas Corey points out that sometimes being stuck for a short time, like when she took her job as a junior professor, can result in even better outcomes in the long-term, like getting promoted and earning tenure. Both agreed that you have to weigh the costs. Don’t try to unstick yourself to become even more stuck! But, don’t avoid getting unstuck just because you are fearful or hesitant of what the future could be! Show Notes: Moral Luck-Learn more about this philosophical principle in which outcomes out of our control often influence the extent to which people believe a decision was moral or good. Caitlyn Clark-Catch up on how this WNBA basketball phenom made her way to be one of the greatest. The Fire Inside-Check out this film about an American boxer who is the first to win women’s gold in the Olympics.

Maybe this episode should be called, “Why Do I Keep Getting Dogs? The Things We Do to Stay Stuck.” In this episode, Corey and Tracy share their thoughts and ideas about how changing your circumstances and/or your mindset can help you get unstuck. Hear about Corey’s new strategies for grading and Tracy’s journey away from wanting to chew her arm off and run when she feels trapped. Both talk about the power of seeking clarity and the importance of manifesting the feelings you want as ways to productively transition out of stuckness. If you are feeling stuck or have ever felt that way, this episode is for you! Show Notes: Attachment Styles-Learn more about attachment styles – how they are formed and how they might impact your relationships. Bethany Nicole-Learn more about Bethany’s work with astrology, book a chart reading, and check out her book (and blog), Apologies I Never Got!

Tune in for an amazing conversation with our good friend, Twyla, about her divorce experience – the good advice she got, the bad advice she didn’t take, and how she managed to get through the process, coming out the other side as a better person. She shares about her philosophy of being fair and just, not fighting over pots and pans, the value of therapy, and having divorce-free space. Twyla and Corey bond over the triggering nature of Christmas decorations, and she and Tracy connect around the idea of a pet custody agreement, perhaps because Tracy admits her longest relationship was with her border collie. This episode is chalk full of info on asking for help, drawing boundaries, navigating alone time, and overcoming fear. Show Notes: Love is Blind-Learn more about this dating reality show.

Listen as Corey, Tracy, and transition life coach, Ellen Rothstein, talk all about handling life’s changes, particularly divorce. The conversation covers a lot of ground . . . from keeping your eye on the prize, self-care, and healthy comfort to finding connection and fostering familiar routines. Ellen shares about the role of intuition and her Identify-Prioritize-Implement (I-P-I) method for dealing with transition, while Corey talks about profound moments with deer and Tracy compares bed bugs to divorce. You won’t want to miss this fascinating conversation about strategies to emotionally and tactically work through life’s transitions! Show Notes: The Poisonwood Bible-Pick up a copy of Barbara Kingsolver’s New York Time’s Bestseller about a family’s mission trip to Belgian Congo. Manifestation Babe Podcast-Listen to this amazing podcast about manifesting your dreams with Kathrin Zenkina. One Tree Hill-Check out one of Corey’s favorite teen dramas. Wild-Watch this Reese Witherspoon film about a woman’s journey to find herself while hiking the Pacific Crest Trail. Ellen Rothstein-Connect at [email protected], Ellen Rothstein Coaching on LinkedIn, or go to ellenrothstein.com.

Tune in for our interview with Judith Kaluzny, retired lawyer and mediator turned writer, for an insightful conversation about the impact of divorce and how to avoid the calamities that can occur through the process – on both partners and children. She shares fascinating statistics about the growing nature of mediation, the lack of logic in having to pass quizzes for every type of license except a marriage license, and what people might not understand about marriage that can impact them later during a divorce. She and Tracy both emphasize the importance of a pre-marriage agreement and how the way you deed your house with your partner can come back to haunt you, whereas Corey chimes in with her ideal partnership involving living next door in a duplex! Show Notes: Safe and Sane Divorce Project-Learn more about this “non-adversary task-oriented divorce process.” Love is Blind-Learn more about this dating reality show. Eve: How the Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Human Evolution-Check out this New York Times Bestseller by Cat Bohannon that recaps the evolution of the female body. Center for Judicial Excellence-Find out more about this nonprofit whose mission is to protect domestic violence and child abuse survivors. National Center for State Courts-Tap into the plethora of resources provided for families. Judith Kaluzny-Head over to judithkaluzny.com for resources on getting divorced. Marriage License Handbook-Pick up a copy of Judith Kaluzny’s guide to understanding the legal ins and outs of marriage.

Tune in as Tracy shares her perspective on conflict negotiation from a legal lens and Corey shares hers from an emotional intelligence lens . . . all to say much of the same thing! Hear them discuss the importance of knowing your goals, being honest, letting go of your ego, showing your cards to the right people, searching for an optimal solution for all parties, and simply being kind. And, if you want to know how Corey ended up buying a used car she couldn’t drive or what Tracy’s view on oscillating fans is, you won’t want to miss this! Show Notes: Attachment Styles-Learn more about attachment styles – how they are formed and how they might impact your relationships.

Ever heard of Baby Einstein, Inside Out, or Mom’s House, Dad’s House? Join us for a fascinating discussion about all of this and more with psychotherapist, Donna C. Moss, who specializes in working with kids and teens of divorce. We discuss the notion of the parentalized child, and Donna emphasizes the importance of buying a pair of shoes for each household, not nesting, maintaining consistency, and getting kids connected to therapy so as to not “lock up” their feelings and instead assert their agency. Both Corey and Tracy have a lot to share about their personal experiences, particularly Tracy’s haphazard approach to life and Corey’s assertion she came out of the womb with a to-do list. In the end, they all agree it’s important to pay great attention to children’s thoughts, feelings, and reactions during the divorce process and get any help or support you can for them as they move through their own journeys, contending with the monumental changes that divorce brings. Show Notes: Baby Einstein-Learn more about this brand of children’s interactive learning products, many of which incorporate classical music. Children’s Bill of Rights in Divorce-Read this list of rights asserted by children experiencing divorce. Internal Family Systems Therapy-Learn more about this type of therapy that helps people explore different wounded parts of their personality. Anger Wheel-Check out this book for kids called Sophia’s Anger Wheel of Choice to help children explore their feelings around anger. Feeling Wheel-Want to go deeper in your emotional exploration and find the words that describe exactly how you are feeling? Use the Feeling Wheel to get there! Mom’s House, Dad’s House-Check out this book with tools, resources, checklists, and more to help kids through divorce. The Co-Parenting Toolkit-Find out more about best practices in co-parenting. Inside Out-Check out this animated movie about how a young girl navigates her emotions after moving. Donna C. Moss-Learn more about Donna and her self-paced course for parents and therapists working with teens.

Check out our discussion with Modern Law founder and family law attorney, Billie Tarascio, where we explore everything from finding the right lawyer to emotionally processing the divorce, and making it through survival mode to the helpful or hurtful role of well-intentioned third-parties. Tracy chimes in with how her fear of doing her taxes is a perfect analogy for the frozen state some find themselves in when anticipating divorce, whereas Corey shares how having the goal of parents sitting next to each other at the school play can help center the child in divorce decision-making. If you are contemplating divorce or are curious about it from a lawyer’s point of view, you won’t want to miss this episode! Show Notes: Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs-Learn about Abraham Maslow’s theory of human motivation and needs. Love is Blind-Learn more about this dating reality show. House of Sand and Fog-Check out this New York Times Bestseller by Andre Dubus III. Modern Law-Find out more about Billie Tarascio and Modern Law. Navigator-Learn about Modern Law’s online group for people who need more wraparound support or are doing divorce themselves. The nominal monthly fee includes office hours with lawyers and law students, videos, mental health events, opportunities to discuss strategy, and more.

Tune in for this amazing conversation with attorney, mediator, and intuition coach, Jen Mitchell Love, where we talk about moving into more holistic, healthy, and transformative ways to divorce. While Tracy finds kinship in Jen’s approach, Corey finds solace in her messages. Whatever you might be seeking, you will find guidance in Jen’s words on transforming soul contracts, lineage healing, gratitude, and how to divorce with love. And, for a bonus, learn more about the (platonic) soul contract between Corey and Tracy. Show Notes: The Reality of Truth-Tune in to this documentary about spirituality and psychedelic drugs. Please note, however, that Rock That Relationship! does not endorse or recommend the use of any mind-altering substances. Please work with your healthcare provider or therapist to make these important decisions. Liquid Bloom-Check out this collection of rhythms and soundscapes for healing, meditation, and enjoyment. Gaia-This website is a collection of articles, series, movies, documentaries, and other resources aligned to achieve a higher consciousness. Jen Mitchell Love-Learn more about her and Solace Divorce Mediation, where she offers mediation services, a master class on divorce, and several resources to help couples who have opted to part ways. Shine, Soul, Shine-Check out Jen’s 30-day guide on finding your light. “Unlock Your Soul’s Path: Divorce with Love Master Class for Healing and Empowerment” Class by Jen Mitchell-Take the Master Class and get 20% with the coupon code: RockThatRelationship20!

It’s hard to prepare for divorce – the emotions, the logistics, the legalities. There is a lot to balance. Deciding between a DIY amicable split, a mediator, a lawyer . . . telling friends and family . . . getting your affairs in order . . . and getting emotional support can all be overwhelming. Listen in as Tracy shares her thoughts on balancing these competing roles, and Corey chimes in with how emotional it can be to divide assets that have meaning, like signing over the title to the car. They both agree that it’s important to separate the emotional and legal aspects of divorce, move quickly, strive for amicability when possible, and try to maintain no-contact while going through legal proceedings. Most importantly, they discuss what they have learned from their separations – that ending a relationship is not about failure, but instead about seeking happiness, that there is no shame in telling others, and that neither of them will ever share a Netflix account with a partner again. Show Notes: Conscious Uncoupling-Read more about Katherine Woodward Thomas and the power of conscious uncoupling. Raging from Within: De-Escalating Angry People-Learn more from author, Susan Magestro, about how to de-escalate conflict situations. Suze Orman-Find out more about “this one woman financial-advice power house.” Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs-Learn about Abraham Maslow’s theory of human motivation and needs.

Heartbreak, the Roller Coaster, Mending, Letting Go, and Moving On . . . these are the stages of divorce, according to psychotherapist, Oona Metz. Tune in for a conversation chalk full of great insight, like the power of prediction, letting go of the narrative, traumatic divorces, and how support groups can help people feel connected, validated, and accountable for their healing. Find out what Tracy means when she says, “Don’t fight the hypo,” or what Corey is talking about with the trigger of not trimming the tree. If you are looking for how to work through the stages of divorce and if a support group is right for you, then this is the episode to tune into! Show Notes: Elisabeth Kübler-Ross-Find out about the original 5 Stages of Grief®, which informed Oona Metz’s 5 Stages of Divorce. Club Lilles-Learn more about this group originally designed for Late in Life Lesbians, which has now grown to include all women-identified people. Tennessee Success Sequence Act-Read the law about Tennessee teaching students that marriage and children are part of the sequence of life success. Oona Metz-Connect on Instagram at OonaMetz or on the web at oonametz.com. Stay tuned for her book, Unhitched!