Scenic Reality

This week on Scenic Reality, Temi and Ise are joined by Rukayat and Wonuola for a conversation that starts casually but quickly spirals into something deeper, sharper, and unexpectedly revealing.From the streets to the systems, we take a hard look at design in Nigeria how something so creative has started to feel repetitive, almost monopolized, with everyone chasing the same aesthetic while truly local, meaningful design gets overlooked. It raises a bigger question: are we creating for expression or just for acceptance?That thought flows into the curious case of churches why do so many exist side by side, almost like competitors in the same space? Is it community, or quiet rivalry? And somewhere in the middle of all this, we touch on a heavier reality: bail. Who it really serves, who it leaves behind, and why fairness sometimes feels like a luxury.Wonuola brings a strong perspective on communication or the lack of it and how it silently fuels many of these issues. That opens the floor to a deeper introspection: where do these problems actually begin?But the heart of the episode settles on something even more personal manipulation, deceit, and dishonesty. We unpack the real impact of people who twist truth, especially when it comes from those who claim to care about us. How dangerous can they be? And how much damage do they leave behind?Then comes the twist: is manipulation always negative, or can it be a tool especially in business? What starts as a simple question turns into a full dissection, with perspectives clashing, aligning, and evolving in real time.It’s honest, it’s layered, and it’s one of those conversations that lingers long after it ends.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

This episode of Scenic Reality is a chaotic but honest reflection of what it really feels like to exist right now. From the unbearable heat and everyday frustrations to deeper conversations about how we cope, we unpack the different ways people try to survive the pressure.We talk about crowd behavior, individualism, and the subtle ways society pushes us into survival mode. The conversation also takes a turn into coping mechanisms both harmless and harmful including sex, escapism, and drug use. We share real-life encounters, question the normalization of certain habits, and challenge the idea that substances enhance creativity or make life easier.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Guess who’s back? Temi and Ise have dusted off the microphones and reopened the famous kobo notebook for a brand new season of Scenic Reality and yes, there are plenty of cases inside.In this episode, the duo returns with unfiltered conversations about Nigeria and the strange way we seem to be moving backwards instead of forward… even though we clearly have the power to change things. They also get into serious conversations about rape, molestation, and how society keeps sexualizing almost everything these days.And of course, the conversation somehow finds its way to the growing BBL era—beauty standards, pressure, and the things people are doing to keep up. Expect honest opinions, a few laughs, some “wait… what?” moments, and the kind of chaotic conversation you’ve probably missed.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

December is not just a season in Lagos, it’s a lifestyle, and on this episode, Ise and Temi spoke head-first into all the madness we love! From non-stop music blasting everywhere, back-to-back parties, sparkling decorations, and food that refuses to let you diet, we relive what Christmas in Lagos truly feels like.We talk about the joy (and drama) of traveling to the village, family gatherings that start calm and end loud, and the beautiful chaos that makes the holidays unforgettable. We also take a moment to reflect, celebrating our accomplishments, and acknowledging how far we’ve come this year.Most importantly, this episode is filled with gratitude. We’re thankful for you — every listener who tuned in, shared an episode, laughed with us, and kept this podcast alive. Your love and support mean everything, and we don’t take it for granted at all.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

On this episode of Scenic Reality, Temi and Ise reflect on the unpredictable rhythm of life in Nigeria, from the playful idea of buying a boat to prepare for rainy days, to the curious way people feel entitled to correct others simply because they disagree. They talked on how emotions shape our reactions, and why it’s perfectly human to feel vulnerable sometimes. It’s not every day you have to be tough; sometimes, what we really need is a gentle word and a bit of understanding.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

DESCRIPTION This week on Scenic Reality, Temi and Ise talk about that strange phase after finishing your B.Sc. Where everyone suddenly expects you to have life figured out. From the quiet pressure of “when are you getting married?” to the chaos of trying to make money and actually use it wisely, it’s a lot to take in.They also reflect on how government taxes and the weight of black tax keep shaping how young Nigerians think about success, family, and the future.It’s one of those conversations that remind you we’re all just trying to make sense of adulthood — one bill, one decision, and one reality check at a time.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

This week on Scenic Reality, Ise and Temmy had the joy of hosting their very first guest, the amazing,hilarious and famous Mankind! Together, we opened up conversations most people shy away from: those uncomfortable moments in communication where saying the truth feels harder than keeping quiet. We also laughed our way through the reality of seeing money in bulk but having no plans for it (because, let’s be honest, it happens to the best of us). And of course, we couldn’t resist sharing our takes on the impressions people leave behind and how those first vibes sometimes mislead us.Mankind were nothing short of amazing, and the episode was too real and it will be unforgettable.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Temi and Ise unpacked the complicated culture of gifting and the growing "billing mentality" in Nigerian society. From babes billing at the end of the month to the pressure on men to constantly provide and how financial expectations have blurred the lines between thoughtfulness and entitlement. A few gym agenda were spoken about, let us know about yours too. In light of this, grab your headphones, settle in, and let Scenic Reality guide you through the scenic routes of your ears to your heart.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Temi and Ise sat with comfort and leaned into the tension of opposing beliefs, and chatted on what it really means to coexist. From differing values and identity rights like the debate on queer people and bathroom access to how our systems, like driving schools, fail to teach us the basics of navigation and awareness… it’s all connected. So, grab your headphones, settle in, and let Scenic Reality guide you through the scenic routes of your ears to your heart.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Temi and Ise had conversations on “how we should all petition for weekends to have more days and how happiness is limiting especially when you work for certain organizations in Nigeria”. So, grab your headphones, settle in, and let Scenic Reality guide you through the scenic routes of your ears to your heart.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Temi and Ise had conversations about “How Nigerian goverment treats education like a Nollywood subplot and we use drugs has therapy because we cannot use clear eye to move forward anymore”. So, grab your headphones, settle in, and let Scenic Reality guide you through the scenic routes of your ears to your heart.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Temi and Ise chatted about feminism and women’s rights in Nigeria under Lagos’ sweltering heat.. “The heat’s relentless, just like the fight for equality.” So, grab your headphones, settle in, and let Scenic Reality guide you through the scenic routes of the heart. Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTikTok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=4108e1fe-f80a-4b4f-a0ee-3e19d4b585bf

Temi and Ise spoke about knowing your dating specs, but still staying open to surprises—love doesn’t always come in the package you expect.” They also talked on boundaries aren’t walls; they’re respect lines that keep the vibe healthy and drama-free,Because love is about the right vibe, not just the right person. So, grab your headphones, settle in, and let Scenic Reality guide you through the scenic routes of the heart. Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTikTok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Where do we find love? Is it in the serendipity of a chance meeting, the comfort of a long-term relationship, or the quiet moments of self-reflection? Temi and ise uncovered unexpected places where love blossoms—whether it’s in the glow of a sunset, the buzz of a crowded street, or the stillness of a quiet morning.With Valentine’s Day today, Temi and ise celebrates love authentically with their listeners ,beyond the clichés. So, grab your headphones, settle in, and let Scenic Reality guide you through the scenic routes of the heart. Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTikTok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=053d6961-f77c-4405-a478-ff55ccdfba11

This episode is a cocktail of reflections, laughter, and end-of-year vibes! We get real about how tough the year has been (because whew, what a ride!) while sharing the little pockets of gratitude that kept us going. Then, it’s all about Detty December—the parties, the jollof, and the unique chaos of holidays in Nigeria. Finally, we tackle the art of labeling people—why do we do it, and can we just stop already?Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://beacons.ai/scenic_reality_podcast/

From the subtle shade at family gatherings to the internal battles we carry daily, Temi and Ise spoke about how guilt and trauma manifest, and more importantly, how to break free and reclaim joy.Hit play and join the conversation—because carrying guilt isn’t your birthright, but healing is.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://beacons.ai/scenic_reality_podcast/

Join Temi and Ise as they dish out hilarious tales of drunken decisions, celebrate moments of brilliance, and dive deep into the world of food in all its messy, glorious forms. From midnight snack confessions to life lessons served with a side of humor.Perfect for anyone who’s made a questionable choice over dinner—or while holding a drink.They also chatted about how food is more than just eating; it's a journey through culture, history, and creativity. Every dish tells a story—of where it came from, who made it, and the emotions it evokes.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcastMake sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: scenicrealitywithtemmypodYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://beacons.ai/scenic_reality_podcast/

In this thought-provoking yet lighthearted episode, hosts Ise and Temi broke down why some people are naturally laid-back and how some others wear non-chalance as a personality badge, sparking everything from admiration to frustration.Is nonchalance a form of inner peace, or is it just a fancy mask? Ise and Temi explore how this attitude can impact relationships, self-image, and even career growth. They chat about the fine line between looking calm and coming off as indifferent, and few laughs along the way. Whether you’re naturally chill, or just trying to “look” like it, this episode will leave you with a fresh take on how nonchalance shapes the way we see others—and ourselves.Don’t forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcastMake sure to follow us:Instagram: scenicrealitywithtemmypodDon’t forget to share with us your introspective thoughts, in the link below their is a form for that there. We will love to hear from you.You can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://beacons.ai/scenic_reality_podcast

This is a special edition where Ise and Temmy talked about partial beliefs and introspection.

Temi and Ise speak about the life issues that have hit them lately and how people in entering and existing in ones life can affect them.

Temi and ise speak about the things that happened during their week,words gone wrong and the surprising effect it has on people.

Temi and ise expresses their honest opinion about certain issues and how they felt through out the week. You definitely need to listen.

Temi and ise speaks about the power of privileges and giggled all the way up.

Temi and ise spoke about their unwanted or wanted opinion about certain things and they had a blast.

Temmy and Ise spoke about their thoughts on feeding,spending,consumption and how it works with our body system. They also had fun talking about how their daily lives are also affected by these activities.

This was about the little part of how our week went and how people have had similar issues and how to deal with a some struggles here and there.

We analyzed a little bit of the world system according to our knowledge and we poured out our heart.

Spilling all the tea on what we have missed while we were on a break and few tips to make you get up on your feet. Missed y’all too😘

Life is in phases and I unlocked new ones this year.

Our opinions on the songs we listen to and what it entails.

In this episode I poured out a couple of thought and I unveiled how my week has been.

The world is not fair and not balanced but everybody tries to play their card in a way that suit them or by following others step,some need to talk it through and that is what this episode is about.

This episode reveals the highlight of how things were been done in the early stage of life,This episode is a mixture of two languages,stay tuned and enjoy.

Imposition goes two way and I will be talking about it this episode.stay tuned

We can’t always realize whatever we are struggling with at a go,but in a gradual process,I’m here to put us through one of them.

We all want money for a thing or another,so the bag is quite important but it always come with some pecks.Let listen to catch some of that.

Gist about the most hilarious place in Nigeria.

Sometimes we need to thread carefully so can throw our money at our fights.😂

We all would have one or two experiences while growing up,in this episode my guest shared her relating reality.

Has humans we are coming into the world to meet what we know nothing about and that is the beginning of us finding our selves.

We will be talking about some bad energy and the corresponding behaviors which comes after,signs that you should to keep your sanity.

Sometimes our body partially tell’s people about us,so let’s mold it into what we want and not what other think we should be. In this episode I will be spilling a lot of tea about this😎😉. #Building our body

We talk about our experiences growing up and how this gave us little idea on how our relationship with each other should be.This episode may bring controversies but everybody is a little flawed in this aspect. One love❤️

We will be giving tips on friendship and the downside of it. P.s:kaffy is also mobolanle. Enjoy the episode🤪

Welcoming you to a new year with us,we would be speaking on regulating these three criteria.

A time to look back at all the moments and achievements and be proud of ourselves because the best is yet to come.🎉

This is the breakdown of the latest M.I ABAGA’s album…..you guys are going to know what rap feels like after this.

Properly welcoming you into the phase that seem like heaven and hell at the same time😂 but has only one end result,you choose.

Our mindset about the other gender really matters because it dictates the way we are going to be treated. #BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE

Talking about a system that existed in the U.K by helping African parents that didn’t have a lot of time to take care of their children by giving them up for a temporary adoption and this is the story of ENITAN