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Good day. This is a follow-up from last weeks podcast.  Besides the low birth rate, people are just not having sex like they used too.  The internet has biased dating to a few specific individuals, and everyone else is just '"shit outta luck." Even married adults are not having sex! What are the solutions, if there are any.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

People have been talking about the declining birth rate for years. So, why do these same people ignore the fact that people are not having sex like they used to? The last time I checked, people needed to have sex in order to make babies.  I wonder if there is a connection?  Well, DUH. Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Good day. If you remember about 30 years ago, a book about Love Languages was extremely popular.  A few years ago, the idea of Lust Languages appeared.  Some think there are 4 Lust Languages, others five. In this podcast, I take a look at a few of the more popular Lust Languages. Personally, I believe there are more than 10! Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick.

Good day. I stumbled across an old article that basically said that men who are nagged by their wife die earlier.  Well, thats how the information was presented in the media.  After reading the actual study, the devil is in the details. Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Hello again. An article in Cosmo detailed certain trends in dating. I have so say, some of these things are down right mean and evil. Maybe this is where we are as a society.  Enjoy, if you can. Dr. Nick M. 

Good day, Dr. Nick.  Have you ever wanted to try something new in the bedroom and were afraid to bring it up? Believe it or not, there is a technique to it.  But the most important thing you must do is talk about it.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

The Heritage Foundation, a right-wing think tank, created a 250 plan for America.  It include marriage bootcamps, no on-line dating and limited IVF.  Of course, there is a push to revive old "Blue Laws," a focus of marriage and having as many babies as possible. I wonder if the color of the babies also matter? Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Hey. In this podcast, I decided to return to a topic I discussed a few years ago. Well, MGTOW is still around and in certain circles, its even expanding.  Lets take a shallow dive into the world of MGTOW.  

Yes, I know its March already and this is still an important topic.  Plus, it gives me an extra week to work out the "kinks" in my ol' setup, setting and get my voice back.  With that said, I still say you and your partner(s) should try something new.  You might like it. Enjoy, Dr. Nick. 

Well hello again. Its been more than 2 years. I'm trying again so please bear with me.  So to get this podcast restarted, here are 12 things women say turn them on.  #BilingualOrgasm?

It seems that people are having sex in the back seats of self-driving cars.  Well, if you get pulled over, simply ask the officer to talk to the driver. #Katt

Hello there. Its been far too long.  Let us start of 2024 with a few sexual resolutions for better sex in 2024.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick . 

After watching the documentry on Amazon Prime called Shiny Happy People about the Dugger clan, I also discovered a movement called "Trad Wives," or traditional wives.  On the surface, it seems benign but, if you dig deeper, you'll discover racist beliefs and spousal abuse.  Thanks for listening. #Duggers #ShinyHappyPeople #TradWives

Here is a quick PSA today.  With the more people having oral sex, this increases the chance that you will contract HPV.  Luckily, there is a vaccine that can protect you.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Yes, laughter during sexual activities is a good thing...a great thing.  So, when something "awkward" happens, be sure that you do not laugh at your partner.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

This is another PSA for sexual side effects.  In this podcast, I discuss Zoloft, another popular antidepressant.  Please talk to your doctor if you are having side effects that affect your sexual health.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick.

Well, hello.  Its been a while. In this podcast, I discuss the 2023 GQ Survey on dating, porn and sex.  With only 600+ participants, take what you will and still, the results were concerning. I did not know people's "body counts" were a concerns.  Thanks for listening, NM.  PS: Sorry for the 'morning voice.' 

After a lifestyle party, couples typically take time to reconnect with each other mentally, and in some cases, physically.  This act of reclaiming/ reconnecting is a crucial element of their relationship.  Some couples even have a ritual they use to reconnect with each other.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #lifestyle #reclaiming

More and more people are coming out as asexual.  In this podcast, I provide a few tips on being in a successsful relationship with an asexual.  For starters, you both have to be honest with each other.  Thanks for listening. 

In the United States, there was a situation where a hotwife was fired for having sex with her fellow officers.  Granted, some activity took place at police headquarters, but she and other officers were fired.  With the ever increasing number of people in the lifestyle, are the policies behind the times? 

Here is an oldie, but a goodie sex position.  Now, it has a new name, but with the same results.  If you are flexable, give it a try.  You just might like it.  Enjoy, NM. 

Sexuality is everywhere and some of us struggle to talk about sex, especially with intimate partners.  Why is this a hard conversation to have?  I believe in order to have good sex, we have to talk about it.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Medications are known to have severe sexual side effects. In this PSA, I discuss Wellbutrin, a common antidepressant with surprising sexual side effects.  Thanks for listening, NM. #wellbutrin

Well hello everyone.  Its 2023 so, I wanted to take a quick look back at the top podcasts of 2022.  One PSA made it to the list.  I recommend revisiting these top podcasts.  Thanks for listening, NM. 

In a country with over 275 million people, this is going to be a major change.  Why would they make this change? People typically do not like it when the government comes into their bedroom.  #Indonesia #Adultery

This year is coming to a close and a new year begins. Time to make a few sexual resolutions for 2023.  Essence Magazine had a few good suggestions to get you started in the right direction.  #resolutions 

Time to spread the holiday cheer and the sexual pleasure to each and everyone.  These 'stuffers' will actually fit in a stocking too!  Be sure to buy plenty of AA batteries. #sextoys

An increasing number of married couples are living in seperate locations.  According to an article in the New York Times, women are driving this movement.  Can couples really find a way to make this work? 

Sperm counts have been dropping all over the planet, with a consistent decrease starting after 2000 (Y2K?)  So, what is really going on?  Gentlemen, we really need to really monitor what we put into our body, including medications.  

In the lifestyle, the cuck & bull relationship is nothing new.  Being a black bull with BBC can be an amazing experience for some men.  At what cost?

Many people are in sexless marriages, while there are options out there.  Ladies, if your husband asked you for an open marriage, what would you say? #lifestyle #openmarriage

Some women are involved in a man sharing situation and do not have a clue.  Could an open relationship solve this issue?  Maybe, if everyone is aware, agree to a set of rules and has the opportunity to make an informed choice.  #dating #mansharing

To go along with the previous podcast, here are a few more suggestions for sexual fun while trying to keep things quiet. Happy holidays.  

Its that time of year when we spend time with inlaws, friends and family.  Trying to find alone time for sex can be difficult, but it can be done.  Here are just a few tips to help you out.  (Plus, its a fun podcast to listen to and share with friends while you are waiting for the turkey dinner.)  

This is another internet movement which needs to stop.  This madness is getting out of hand.  How and why did this "holiday" appear in the first damn place? #NoFap #NoNutNovember

The web has become a hostile place for sexual health information.  Sites are shut down or just vanish overnight.  What caused this to happen and a better question is what can be done?  #shadowbanning

With so many looking for love online, what can you do to make your profile stand out among the crowd?  Hint: Do not follow the crowd!  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

You ever had sex right after a heated argument?  I bet it was rather hot and passionate, right?  Make up sex can be fun but of course, you can only have so much make up sex.  Please do not start an argument for the make up sex either.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

One in five women can orgasm without any clitoral stimulation.  Some women can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone.  What other forms of pleasure can lead to sexual excitment and orgasms for you? #orgasms #pleasure

Some men enjoy a prostate massage, which in known to increase orgasmic pleasure.  Is it for you? 

Believe it or not, most women do not like a mouth or nose full of pubes.  They like their men groomed but gentlemen, please avoid cutting a landing strip.  #groomed

My first sponsor...Manscaped!  Women prefer men with groomed pubes.  Thank you all for your support, Dr. Nick.  Get 20% off @Manscaped + free shipping with the promo code SCF20 at MANSCAPED.com  #ad #manscapedpod

Some men are allergic to their semen.  Imagine having a severe allergy attack right after you orgasm and ejaculate.  Luckily, help is easy to get as long as you are not misdiagnosed.  

Yay...Halloween is almost here.  There are dozens of great horror movies out there, while some have strong sexual themes running throughout the entire film. Here is a quick list of sexy/ scary movies for you to enjoy during this time of year. 

Many things can cause low sexual desire including stress, anxiety and even medications.  Stells Anna Sonnenbaum, a sexologist based in London, offers a few unique solutions to this issue.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #TheSun #London

Apparently, women judge men on other characteristics based on their penis and pubic grooming habits.  Well...if you "manscape," you're more outgoing.  Who knew?  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Many men want to experience prostate pleasure during their sex play, but have an issue with the most "direct" route to massage the prostate.  External prostate massage may be just what those men need to increase their sexual pleasure.  #prostateplay #prostate

Due to a lively conversation in the private Facebook group, a moderator (Keri) suggested the topic for a podcast should be on sexual sexual symbols.  You've seen them all over the place and yet, you did not know what you were looking at.  Today, I disucss the symbols of the Swinging community.  #lifestyle #Swinging #hotwife #pineapples

According to Marie Claire, these are the top 5 sex toys for women.  It seems even with all of the choices available, one type of toy stands above the rest.  Time to go shopping.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. 

Is honesty always the best policy?  You would think yes, but some experts are saying no.  Is cheating the one thing you should take to your grave?  Get ready for an interesting podcast.  Thanks for listening, Dr. Nick. #cheating #confessing #trust