She Wears the Pants

Many entrepreneurs believe that if they work harder, launch more offers, or follow the next marketing tactic, growth will eventually break through.But what happens when the business keeps growing… and yet everything still feels heavier to run?In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland sits down with futurist, strategist, and Phoenix Growth Partners founder Kelly O’Neil to explore the hidden reason so many visionary entrepreneurs stall, something Kelly calls The Strategy Gap™.This conversation moves beyond surface-level business advice and into the deeper structural realities of scaling a company. Kelly shares why hustle culture, scattered tactics, and blueprint-style business models often create short-term wins but long-term ceilings.With more than 30 years of experience and $750 million in client results, Kelly has built her career helping founders redesign their businesses through Intelligent Growth Architecture™ a strategic framework that replaces chaos with clarity and builds companies designed to scale, sell, and sustain over time.Together, Ashley and Kelly unpack the difference between building a business that simply generates revenue and building one that is strategically engineered for longevity, alignment, and freedom.This episode is for the founder who has already achieved traction but senses that the next level will require deeper structure, clearer strategy, and a new way of thinking about growth.In this episode, you’ll learn:• What The Strategy Gap™ is and why even highly successful entrepreneurs fall into it• The difference between strategy and tactics — and why confusing the two stalls growth• Why hustle culture and marketing hacks often create short-term momentum but long-term instability• The warning signs that your business is scaling on tactics rather than strategy• Why so many entrepreneurs plateau around the seven-figure level• How to design a company that is scalable, sellable, and sustainableKelly also shares the philosophy behind her proprietary frameworks — including Fusion Paradigm™, FusionCore™, ProfitCore™, PartnerCore™ and Marketing to Millionaires™ and how they help visionary founders close the gap between bold vision and precise execution.If you’ve ever felt the tension between growing revenue and growing complexity, this conversation will help you rethink how sustainable businesses are actually built.Meet Kelly O’NeilKelly O’Neil is a futurist, thought leader, and founder of Phoenix Growth Partners, an advisory firm helping established entrepreneurs scale, sell, and sustain their businesses with precision.A master of business reinvention, Kelly created Intelligent Growth Architecture™, a strategic framework designed to replace hustle with clarity, structure, and freedom.Through her proprietary systems including Fusion Paradigm™, FusionCore™, ProfitCore™, PartnerCore™, and Marketing to Millionaires™ — she helps visionary leaders design scalable, sellable, and legacy-ready businesses.With over 30 years of experience and $750 million in client results, Kelly’s work has been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur, Fortune, and The Wall Street Journal, and she has shared stages with industry icons including Zig Ziglar and Tony Robbins.Her mission is to redefine entrepreneurship for a new era — one built on alignment, innovation, and intelligent design.Connect with KellyInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/officialkellyoneil/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/KellyONeilOfficialLinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/officialkellyoneil/YouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@KellyONeilFree Gift for ListenersKelly is offering She Wears the Pants listeners a complimentary resource:The Strategy Gap White PaperWhy Most Visionary Entrepreneurs Hit a Growth Ceiling — and What To Do About ItIn this guide, Kelly breaks down the hidden disconnect between big ideas and strategic execution — and reveals how founders can close the gap to build businesses that scale intelligently and give them their lives back.Download it here:https://thestrategygapwhitepaper.com/thestrategygap?am_id=ashleydelandContinue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

Confidence was never meant to come from winning.It’s revealed in how you move when things don’t.In today’s solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland reframes one of the most misunderstood elements of entrepreneurship: confidence. This is a conversation about identity, emotional regulation, and the internal stability required to lead when outcomes feel uncertain.Because every founder will experience seasons where things don’t land, and in those moments, the question isn’t whether you’re capable. It’s whether your confidence is built on results… or something deeper.If you’re navigating a slower season, recalibrating your strategy, or stepping into a new level of leadership, this episode will anchor you back into process, mastery, and self-trust, so your leadership remains steady, regardless of outcome.In this episode, Ashley shares how to:• Separate confidence from outcomes so your leadership stays stable in every season• Develop a process-led mindset rooted in preparation, discipline, and mastery• Apply the “next play” mentality to move through setbacks with speed and clarity• Strengthen emotional regulation so you can lead through uncertainty without collapsing• Revisit and refine foundational business skills that build long-term authority• Anchor into self-worth as the foundation beneath confidence and performanceBy the end, you’ll walk away with a recalibrated understanding of confidence; one that allows you to lead with steadiness, refine with precision, and continue building without questioning your identity.If you’ve been in a season where things feel slower, heavier, or uncertain… let this be your reminder:confidence is built in the continuation.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.→ https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

The identity of a millionaire is built long before the money arrives.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland is joined by Danielle Amos,  The Mystic Millionaire Mentor, for a conversation on self-image, energetic mastery, and the inner recalibration required to hold greater wealth, leadership, and expansion with integrity.A protégé of Bob Proctor, Danielle weaves ancient wisdom, mindset science, and Universal Law to help ambitious women transcend limitation, embody abundance, and create prosperity from the inside out. Together, Ashley and Danielle explore what happens when you stop chasing outcomes and begin becoming the woman who can sustain them.If you’re a founder navigating growth, visibility, and the responsibility that comes with your next level, this episode will meet you at the source and remind you that true wealth begins within.In this episode, you’ll learn how to:Strengthen your self-image so your results have room to risePractice radical responsibility as a leadership advantageUnderstand money as energy and build conscious wealth from alignmentUpgrade your internal paradigm so your external reality can followExpand your capacity to hold more without losing yourself in the processBy the end, you’ll walk away with a sharper understanding of how self-image drives success and the identity shifts that create lasting prosperity.Meet Danielle AmosDanielle Amos, The Mystic Millionaire Mentor, is a transformational teacher and guide for ambitious women ready to awaken their divine potential and live in alignment with Universal Law. A protégé of Bob Proctor, Danielle weaves ancient wisdom, energetic mastery, and mindset science to help women transcend limitation, embody abundance, and manifest extraordinary lives with grace, purpose, and power.Through her signature teachings and global movement, Danielle reminds her community that abundance is their birthright and that true wealth begins within. Her work is a fusion of the mystical and the practical, where spirituality meets self-image, and energetic alignment becomes the foundation for lasting prosperity.Find Danielle Instagram: @thedanielleamos Website: danielleamos.co YouTube: @thedanielleamos Free Facebook Community (Mastering Your Mindset): Mastering Your Mindset with DanielleContinue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

Success isn’t just about what you build — it’s about whether what you’ve built can hold the woman you’ve become.In today’s solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland dives into the shift that happens after a woman proves she can build — when the question is no longer how to generate revenue, but whether the business itself is designed to support her life, her energy, and her evolution. Before sustainable success, there is alignment. This is the work no one sees, but everyone feels — and it’s the work that determines the level you can hold.If you’re a woman navigating growth, expansion, or stepping into a higher level of leadership, this conversation will help you recalibrate your structure, reconnect to your purpose, and lead in a way that supports the life you’re here to live.In this episode, Ashley shares how to:• Understand how growth without aligned structure quietly leads to pressure, not freedom• Recognize when your business no longer reflects the woman you’ve become• Identify the difference between building from service versus operating from transaction• Apply the practice of “touching the dream” to reconnect with your deeper why• Strengthen your capacity to hold success without sacrificing your energy or life• Anchor into a leadership identity that evolves your business as you evolveBy the end, you’ll walk away with a deeper sense of clarity around what your business is meant to support — and who you’re becoming as you lead it. If you’re standing at the edge of your next level, let this be your reminder: the business is meant to expand your life, not quietly contain it.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.→ https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

Success doesn’t come from trying to impress everyone.It comes from finding your people and building with them in real time.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland sits down with entrepreneur, real estate investor, and EmpowerHER podcast host Kacia Ghetmiri for an honest conversation about building businesses through authenticity, transparency, and community.Kacia is known for creating one of the most relatable personal development podcasts for women, reaching more than 11 million downloads by speaking openly about entrepreneurship, identity, and growth in real time. Rather than positioning herself as someone who has everything figured out, she built her platform by inviting women to figure it out alongside her.Together, Ashley and Kacia explore what happens when you stop chasing external validation and start building a business that reflects who you actually are.From stepping away from a six-figure corporate career at Google to building multiple businesses, scaling a real estate investment portfolio with her husband, and navigating motherhood while evolving as an entrepreneur, Kacia shares the real lessons behind sustainable growth.This conversation is for the woman who is building something meaningful and wants to do it without performing, posturing, or pretending to have it all figured out.In this episode, we explore:• Why finding “your people” is the foundation of a powerful personal brand• The strategy and psychology behind building in public• How external validation and vanity metrics quietly limit growth• The difference between authentic leadership and performative authority• Pivoting your business when the version of you who built it begins to evolve• Creating wealth and freedom through real estate investingKacia also shares her perspective on motherhood, entrepreneurship, and why honoring the season you’re in is essential for long-term fulfillment.If you’ve ever felt the tension between the version of success you built and the one you’re evolving toward, this episode will remind you that growth often requires letting go of the way things used to work.Because the most powerful businesses are built by women who are willing to evolve.Meet Kacia GhetmiriKacia Ghetmiri is an entrepreneur, speaker, real estate investor, and host of the top-ranked EmpowerHER Podcast, a community-driven show focused on personal growth, business, and mindset that has reached over 11 million downloads worldwide.After leaving a six-figure corporate career at Google, Kacia built multiple businesses helping women launch podcasts, create community-driven brands, and step into entrepreneurship. She now focuses on real estate investing and helping high-income professionals create financial freedom through strategic property investments.Her mission is to empower women to build lives and businesses that align with who they truly are.Connect with KaciaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kacia.ghetmiri/Podcast: EmpowerHER PodcastContinue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.→ https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

The room you sit in will always shape the size of the dream you allow yourself to carry.In today’s solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland takes you inside her recent experience at South by Southwest in Austin — and more importantly, into the internal shift that followed. This is a conversation about proximity, energy, and the unseen ways environments expand or contract your vision as a founder. Before scale becomes reality, there is a shift in what you believe is possible — and that shift is often shaped by the rooms you choose to enter.If you’re a woman navigating growth, stepping into bigger spaces, or feeling the pull toward your next level, this episode will help you recalibrate your environment, your energy, and the way you approach expansion — so you can hold more without shrinking your vision.In this episode, Ashley shares how to:• Understand how environment shapes vision, standards, and the scale you allow yourself to pursue• Recognize when you’ve outgrown the rooms, conversations, and thinking you’ve been operating inside• Identify the difference between transactional networking and aligned, long-term relationship building• Apply a more expansive lens to your ideas by surrounding yourself with audacity-led thinking• Strengthen your capacity to hold both ambition and joy as you build and scale• Anchor into a leadership identity that expands possibility instead of unconsciously limiting itBy the end, you’ll walk away with a deeper awareness of how proximity, energy, and environment influence your leadership — and a renewed sense of what is available to you when you place yourself in rooms that expand your thinking. If you’ve been feeling the edges of your next level, let this be your reminder: sometimes the shift you’re searching for is found in the spaces you choose to step into.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.→ https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

You don’t need permission to build what you’re here to build…You need the courage to trust yourself.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland is joined by Alli Webb, New York Times bestselling author, beauty industry pioneer, Shark Tank guest and the founder who turned one simple idea, blowouts only, into Drybar, a category-defining brand. Together, they unpack what it really takes for a high-growth woman to build something iconic, lead at scale, and evolve without losing herself in the process.This conversation goes beyond the highlights. Alli shares why she doesn’t operate from fear, what she had to change about her leadership as the company grew, and what it looks like to release a business when the startup season ends, especially as life gets heavy behind the scenes.If you’re a woman building in real time, balancing ambition, identity, leadership, and the emotional cost of growth, this episode will help you refine your inner compass, strengthen your standards, and lead with more self-trust than noise.In this episode, you’ll learn how to:Trust your instinct as your most reliable leadership tool, and move without needing permissionLead people with clarity and steadiness as your company scalesRecognize when a season has ended, and exit with integrity rather than guiltSeparate your identity from outcomes so success never becomes your only source of safetyBuild what’s next from self-knowledge, not external expectationBy the end, you’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of the woman you’re becoming, and the internal leadership required to build what lasts.Meet AlliAlli Webb is a serial entrepreneur, New York Times bestselling author, Shark Tank guest judge, and beauty industry pioneer. She is the founder of Drybar and the creator of Messy, a haircare line designed to support healthy, lived-in texture and a more freeing relationship with beauty.Website: itsmessy.comInstagram: @alliwebbContinue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

Protecting Your PeaceThe Most Powerful Business Skill You Will Ever DevelopYour peace isn’t something you stumble into. It’s an asset you protect.In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland names a truth high-achieving women are rarely taught: protecting your peace is one of the highest forms of leadership and one of the most profitable business skills you will ever develop.Not in the surface-level “self-care” way.In the real, grounded, CEO way.Because the truth is: peace doesn’t just get stolen.We hand access to it - quietly, accidentally, and long before we realize we’ve started building from depletion instead of clarity.If you’re the woman everyone comes to - the one who holds everything together, carries the vision, puts out the fires, supports everyone, and still shows up to lead, this episode will help you identify where your peace is leaking and rebuild the standards that protect your emotional world.In this episode, Ashley shares how to:Understand why peace is the environment your highest self requires to operate at her bestRecognize the subtle “peace leaks” — softened boundaries, over-accommodating, normalized dysfunction, emotional over-accessIdentify when people in your business (clients or team) no longer align with the caliber and culture you’re buildingProtect your company’s internal temperature by becoming “slow to hire and quick to fire” with clarity, not guiltSeparate external triggers from internal control so your emotional state stops being dictated by tone, urgency, or other people’s chaosAnchor into high-worth leadership — grace, gratitude, and generosity — without sacrificing standards, boundaries, or self-respectAshley also shares a personal behind-the-scenes leadership lesson from early 2024 that redefined how she hires, leads, and protects the culture inside her brands and why what you tolerate quietly becomes what you live inside.By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with stronger discernment, cleaner boundaries, and a clearer standard for who and what gets access to you,  because when your peace & power is intact.You don’t have the luxury of leaking peace anymore.Not at the level you’re called to lead.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

Visibility is no longer optional. It’s a leadership skill.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland is joined by Rebecca Cafiero, visibility strategist, PR expert, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and Co-founder of PitchWell, a next-generation visibility platform helping founders earn credibility, get featured, and build authority with intention and structure.Together, they explore what it truly means to be seen as a woman in leadership and why visibility is less about chasing attention and more about owning voice, credibility, and identity. This conversation reframes PR as a discipline of leadership and positions earned media as a strategic asset for founders building legacy, not noise.If you’re a woman building something meaningful and feeling the tension between being capable and being visible, this episode will recalibrate how you approach exposure, authority, and influence.In this episode, you’ll learn how to:Shift visibility from a hope into a repeatable leadership practiceRelease outdated beliefs about PR that keep founders small and hiddenBuild credibility that leads to real opportunity rather than vanity metricsStrengthen your relationship with being seen as your leadership expandsApproach technology and platforms as tools for authority, not shortcuts to validationBy the end of this conversation, you’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of how to lead from your voice, position your expertise with confidence, and build visibility that supports the future you are creating.Meet RebeccaRebecca Cafiero is a visibility strategist, PR expert, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and Co-founder of PitchWell. Through her work, she helps founders, CEOs, and experts earn media, build authority, and establish credibility through systems that make visibility intentional, accessible, and sustainable.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.→ https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

Lead Your Business Like a Woman Who’s Already WonIdentity-Led ExecutionYou don’t rise into your next level through effort. You rise through alignment.In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland takes you into identity-led execution - the leadership standard that separates women who stay stuck in “trying” from women who move like they’ve already become the one who can hold what they’re asking for.This isn’t about working harder, pushing more, or forcing yourself into hustle disguised as ambition.It’s about leading your business like a woman who has already won,  not because the evidence is here, but because her identity is.If you’re a high-growth woman who knows she’s meant for more but keeps waiting for the fear to settle, the pressure to lift, or life to feel less full before you lead differently, this episode will bring you back to the truth:You don’t become her when it gets easier.You become her by choosing her now.In this episode, Ashley shares how to:Understand what identity-led execution actually is and why alignment creates more momentum than effort ever willAudit your day with honesty and recognize whether your life reflects alignment or avoidanceCreate one powerful CEO block each week to lead your money, your priorities, and your pipeline like the company you’re building towardMake clean, identity-based decisions without over-explaining, apologizing, or delaying what you already knowMeasure progress by inputs: consistency, capacity, standards, and integrity - not just outcomesAnchor into the spiritual and strategic truth of your next level: the woman who can hold it already exists, and you meet her in your daily leadershipAshley also walks you through what identity-led execution looks like in real life: the micro-choices that shape your boundaries, your standards, and your calendar, long before the world sees the results.By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with clearer internal leadership, cleaner decision-making, and a tangible way to structure your days like a woman who is no longer negotiating with her next level.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.

Strategy builds businesses. Regulation builds sustainability.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland is joined by Stefanie Willis, also known as Stef Skye, a high-ticket sales coach, business strategist, and founder of a seven-figure empire built completely from the ground up. Together, they unpack what it really takes for a high-growth woman to move beyond burnout, regulate her nervous system, and build wealth that actually feels sustainable.This conversation goes far beyond sales tactics and strategy. Stef shares her unfiltered journey from low-ticket MLM burnout and corporate survival mode to becoming a woman who can hold money, power, and impact without self-sabotage.If you’re a woman who feels called to more but knows something internal needs to shift before your next level arrives, this conversation will help you close the gap between strategy and self.In this episode, you’ll learn how to:Transition from low-ticket burnout into high-ticket leadership with integrityRegulate your nervous system so you can hold more money without fear or self-sabotageRebuild self-trust after burnout, guilt, and stepping away from visibilitySeparate your worth from your revenue so wealth stops feeling heavyBecome the woman who can sustain success, not just create itBy the end, you’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of who you need to become in order to hold the wealth, impact, and freedom you’re building toward.Meet StefStefanie Willis, known online as Stef Skye, is a high-ticket sales coach, business strategist, podcast host, and seven-figure entrepreneur. Through her coaching programs and signature sales systems, she helps ambitious women transition out of low-ticket burnout and corporate survival mode into profitable, regulated, high-power entrepreneurship.She is the host of the Call Her Coach podcast, where she explores identity, nervous system regulation, wealth, and leadership for modern women in business.Website: https://callhercoachpodcast.comInstagram: @stefskyeContinue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Emotional Mastery for CEOsLeading Yourself When Everything Is on the LineWhen the pressure rises, your identity isn’t proven by what you feel - it’s proven by how you lead.In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland takes you into the internal leadership that determines everything at the next level: emotional mastery. Not the soft, surface-level version. The real kind - the ability to regulate yourself in high-stakes moments, make clean decisions under pressure, and stay anchored in who you are when everything around you is shifting.You can have the right strategy.The right offer.The right mentorship.The right opportunities.But if you cannot lead yourself in the moments that matter most, your business will never move the way it could.If you’re a high-growth woman stepping into bigger rooms, heavier decisions, and higher visibility and you’re realizing that your internal state is now the bottleneck - this episode will help you build the emotional baseline required to rise with precision, not panic.In this episode, Ashley shares how to:Understand why your external results are always downstream of your internal environmentRecognize the difference between emotional maturity and emotional avoidance and why one builds powerStrengthen your ability to regulate your nervous system so you respond instead of reactCreate emotional neutrality in decision-making so clarity leads instead of chaosProtect your self-definition when doubt, projection, conflict, or misunderstanding tries to pull you off centerAnchor into identity-led leadership that stays solid even when everything is on the lineAshley also shares behind-the-scenes lessons from a season of intense pressure and high-stakes decision-making and the truth most women aren’t taught: leadership isn’t built in what you want to do. It’s built in what you choose to do.By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a steadier internal posture, clearer standards for how you lead, and a practical framework for emotional mastery that strengthens your business, your boundaries, and your capacity to hold more.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

The women who scale the highest aren’t the most confident. They’re the ones who’ve learned how to trust themselves after everything falls apart.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland is joined by Jaclynn “Jax” Brennan, founder and CEO of Creative Duality and co-founder of the Ayana Foundation. Together, they unpack what it really takes for a high-growth woman to build companies, communities, and impact without losing herself in the process.This is a raw, honest conversation about ambition, burnout, partnership breakdowns, identity loss, and the power of rebuilding from the ground up. Jax shares what social media never shows, the lessons learned from failed ventures and legal battles, and how self-trust becomes the most important currency as you scale.If you’re a woman navigating expansion, leadership, and the emotional cost of building something meaningful, this conversation will help you recalibrate your standards, trust your intuition, and build support systems that actually hold you.In this episode, you’ll learn how to:Build internal self-trust so your intuition becomes a reliable leadership toolNavigate partnerships, operating agreements, and red flags before they cost you everythingRecover from burnout without shame and rebuild your life and business sustainablyCreate a personal “life board of directors” to support both your ambition and your humanitySeparate identity from your business so setbacks don’t dismantle your sense of selfBy the end, you’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of what it really takes to lead, rebuild, and rise into the woman your next level requires.Meet JaxJaclynn “Jax” Brennan is the founder and CEO of Creative Duality, a next-generation brand and community agency working with global leaders like YouTube, Soho House, Bumble, and UBS. She specializes in creator-led ecosystems, immersive activations, and narrative-driven campaigns that turn brands into movements.She is also the co-founder and executive director of the Ayana Foundation, a nonprofit supporting first-time women founders building venture-scalable businesses through mentorship, resources, and community.Website: www.creativeduality.comInstagram: @jaclynnbrennanFoundation: www.ayana.orgContinue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

The Identity Architecture Behind Extraordinary WomenWhy Belief Is the Infrastructure of Your Next LevelYour vision isn’t too big — your beliefs just haven’t caught up yet.In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland takes you into the unseen architecture that determines how much success, visibility, and responsibility you’re actually able to hold.This is not a mindset conversation, it’s an identity conversation about self-trust, internal leadership, and the beliefs that quietly shape every decision you make.You can have the strategy.You can have the plan.You can have the opportunity.But if you don’t trust the woman executing it, the entire structure becomes unstable.If you’re a high-growth woman who knows she’s capable of more - yet feels a subtle hesitation between vision and execution - this episode will help you close the gap between who you’re building for and who you’re currently leading as.In this episode, Ashley shares how to:Understand why beliefs function as infrastructureRecognize the difference between intellectual confidence and embodied self-trustIdentify the three internal voices shaping your decisions: the Architect, the Analyst, and the AuditorRebuild belief through identity-backed patterns instead of surface-level motivationStrengthen the three layers of belief required for sustainable leadership: belief in self, belief in process, and belief in assignmentAnchor into internal leadership that allows your strategy, visibility, and opportunities to finally stabilizeAshley also names the cost of uncalibrated belief: hesitation, shrinking, over-functioning, and building momentum your identity doesn’t yet feel safe holding and why self-trust is not a personality trait, but a pattern built in the smallest moments when no one is watching.By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of the beliefs you’re currently operating from, clarity around what must be reconfigured, and a grounded sense of the woman you’re becoming — one who can finally rely on herself at the level she’s calling in.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.→ https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Your body is not a side project. It’s the infrastructure of your next level.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland is joined by Leah Van Dolder, award-winning dietitian, transformation coach, and top 10% podcast host. Together, they unpack what it really takes for a high-growth woman to feel strong, nourished, and deeply connected to her body while she builds a business that matches her calling.If you’re a woman who refuses to choose between ambition and well-being, this conversation will help you reclaim your energy as a leadership advantage - not a cost of success.In this episode, you’ll learn how to:Shift from toxic diet culture into sustainable nourishment that supports your goalsReframe movement as self-leadership, not punishment — and build consistency without burnoutApply Leah’s SHINE framework to strengthen habits that protect your energy and confidenceAnchor your identity and faith through fear, pressure, and uncertainty so you don’t abandon yourself in the processLead your life and business with standards that honor both your calling and your bodyBy the end, you’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of how to support your energy, strengthen your self-trust, and build success that actually feels good on the inside.Meet LeahLeah Van Dolder is an award-winning dietitian, transformation coach, and top 10% podcast host. With over 15 years of experience, she helps ambitious women dismantle toxic diet culture, elevate their strength and confidence, and reconnect to their bodies through integrative, identity-led nourishment.Website: leahvandolder.comInstagram: @leahvandolderLeah is also co-hosting the Bold Retreat in Costa Rica (February 14–20, 2026) — an immersive experience for women ready to reconnect with their bodies, deepen their leadership, and expand their vision in one of the most powerful environments on earth. Learn more here: https://www.shirleewilliams.com/bold-retreatContinue the Work with Ashley Step into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

The Woman Before the WinBecoming Her Before the Results ArriveYou don’t become her at the win.You become her long before the win ever arrives.In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland takes you into the most misunderstood, and most critical phase of leadership: the becoming. Not the applause. Not the breakthrough. Not the moment the evidence finally shows up. But the quiet, unglamorous, unseen middle where identity is forged long before results arrive.Before confidence comes proof.Before validation comes discipline.Before outcomes come identity.If you’re a high-growth woman who feels like she’s doing everything “right” but hasn’t yet seen the external confirmation - this conversation will anchor you into the truth that changes everything: You are not behind. You are being built.In this episode, Ashley shares how to:Understand why becoming matters more than arriving — and why the win cannot shape you if the woman isn’t built firstRecognize the identity work happening in the silent seasons when nothing seems to be moving externallyIdentify the difference between desire-led action and identity-led leadershipRelease the pressure to rush the process, bypass the middle, or perform confidence before it’s embodiedStrengthen the private standards, discipline, and self-leadership that create sustainable successAnchor into the future identity that makes the win inevitable — and sustainableAshley also speaks candidly about the loneliness, uncertainty, and internal recalibration required when you’re evolving faster than your life can keep up and why those seasons are not a detour, but the assignment.By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a deeper trust in who you’re becoming, renewed commitment to your process, and clarity around the identity that must be built before the results can safely arrive.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth. → https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram. → https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Burnout isn’t a badge of honour. It’s a signal — and it’s asking you to lead differently.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland is joined by Paula Stachyra, PR powerhouse, media personality, bestselling author, and high-performance coach. Together, they unpack what it really takes for a high-growth woman to build success without self-abandonment and to protect her peace while still leading at the highest level.If you’re a woman who is carrying a lot, building something meaningful, and quietly feeling the cost of constant output, this conversation will help you recalibrate before your body forces the pause.In this episode, you’ll learn how to:Recognize burnout early — before it takes you out emotionally, mentally, or physicallyRebuild your energy without diluting your ambition or lowering your standardsAddress imposter syndrome at the level it truly lives — identity, visibility, and leadershipCreate success rooted in service, community, and sustainability instead of pressure and overperformanceUse faith as an anchor for resilience and direction when leadership feels heavyBy the end, you’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of how to lead from alignment, protect your internal world, and build success that doesn’t require you to sacrifice yourself to sustain it.Meet PaulaPaula Stachyra is a PR powerhouse, media personality, bestselling author, and high-performance coach. Through her work, she helps high-capacity women lead with clarity, build resilience, and create sustainable success without burnout - so their ambition is supported by alignment, not chaos.Website: www.paulastachyra.comInstagram: @queenofthegrillContinue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.→ https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Becoming the Woman Who Can Hold ItThe Identity Work Required for Your 2026 VisionBefore you set another goal, you have to become the woman who can hold it.In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley Deland goes deep into the identity work required to lead at your next level.Not strategy.Not hype.Not performative motivation.But the internal calibration that determines how much responsibility, visibility, money, and calling you’re actually able to sustain.Before the breakthrough, there is a becoming.And before the results, there is identity.If you’re a high-growth woman entering a season that feels bigger, heavier, or more demanding than anything you’ve held before, this conversation will help you anchor into the version of yourself capable of carrying it without collapsing, shrinking, or outsourcing your power.In this episode, Ashley shares how to:Understand why your business can never outgrow the identity of the woman leading itRecognize when you’re performing a version of yourself designed for a chapter you’ve already outgrownIdentify the difference between readiness as mindset and refinement as identity-level workRelease survival-based identities built from scarcity, self-protection, and over-explainingApply internal standards that align your decisions, boundaries, and leadership with your future selfAnchor into the woman who protects her assignment instead of proving her worthAshley also shares a deeply personal behind-the-scenes season — a year that looked like momentum on the outside, but felt like dismantling, loneliness, and identity shedding on the inside and why what felt like unraveling was actually preparation.By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a grounded understanding of who you’re becoming, what you must release to rise, and the internal congruence required to hold what you’re calling in next.Continue the Work with AshleyStep into your next level: Explore Private Advisory, high-touch strategic partnership, and fractional leadership support for women scaling with precision and power.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireExperience a full-business transformation in one weekend: Apply for Ashley’s Executive VIP Experience — an immersive, in-person strategic overhaul designed to collapse timelines and accelerate growth.→ https://ashleydeland.com/inquireStay in proximity: For daily strategy, identity expansion, and behind-the-scenes insight, connect with Ashley on Instagram.→ https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/She Wears the Pants is where high-growth women come to build companies that match their calling. If this episode resonated, follow, rate, and review so more women can find these conversations.Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

What if success wasn’t about fitting into someone else’s box? What if it’s about building a life that’s entirely your own?On this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley sits down with Katie Sampayo, a transformational coach, elite strategist, bestselling author, and retreat leader, who has been fully nomadic since 2018, running her business everywhere from the beaches of Costa Rica to the backcountry of Utah.Katie helps entrepreneurs and high-achievers redesign their lives so they don’t just look good on paper, but actually feel aligned, fulfilling, and free. She’s living proof that freedom and success aren’t separate paths. They are one and the same.In this powerful conversation, Ashley and Katie dive into:Katie’s journey from corporate marketing to global entrepreneur and retreat leaderWhy waiting for the “perfect moment” will keep you stuck, and how to build your own table insteadThe importance of identity shifts when scaling a business and life you actually wantHow limiting beliefs around love and money are deeply connected, and what to do about itThe surprising role that simplicity and boundaries play in sustaining successKatie’s “flex week” practice that allows her to scale while staying grounded, creative, and energizedKatie’s story is a masterclass in courage, alignment, and intentional design. If you’ve ever felt like you were waiting for permission to start living the life you want, this episode is your reminder to stop waiting and start creating.Learn more about our guest:With over nine years of global experience and through dozens of retreats and coaching sessions, Katie Sampayo has empowered hundreds of high-achieving women to achieve deep fulfillment and lasting success.Website: https://katiesampayo.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katiesampayo/Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

What if scaling your business didn’t mean working harder, but working smarter?In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley is joined by Elena Daccus who is one of the world’s leading neuromarketing and high-ticket positioning strategists, who has bought and sold more than 50 companies worth over $10 billion.Elena is the quiet force behind hundreds of multi-six and seven-figure brands, teaching women how to simplify their business, sharpen their message, and build systems that create predictable sales without burnout.Tune in to hear Ashley and Elena break down:The three biggest blocks women face at six, seven, and eight figuresWhy consistent, predictable cash flow matters more than anything elseHow to step out of being the bottleneck in your own businessThe power of neuromarketing and how it creates instant buying desireWhy asking unapologetically is one of the most powerful tools women can claimElena’s blend of neuroscience, psychology, and strategy is a masterclass in building a scalable, sustainable business model that fuels both income and impact.Learn more about our guest:Elena Daccus is a sought-after strategist, speaker, and mentor who helps women founders scale with precision by combining neuromarketing, infrastructure, and high-converting messaging. Connect with Elena:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bossyhillsclubRemember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

What happens when your identity is built on achievement, productivity, and performance, and one day, it’s not enough?In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley pulls back the curtain on the lie so many women have been sold: that their value lives in how much they can do, achieve, or prove. With raw honesty, she shares her own journey of tying self-worth to success and the breakthrough that changed everything.Tune in to hear Ashley unpack:The hidden conditioning that teaches women to equate productivity with valueWhy success doesn’t heal self-worth (it only distracts you from noticing the gap)The signs you’ve tied your identity to your outputSimple practices to reclaim your worth outside of workSoul-level reminders for the high achiever who’s tired of running on emptyThis isn’t about rejecting ambition. It’s about remembering that you are the value, even when you do nothing at all. If you’ve ever struggled to rest without guilt or measured yourself by metrics and milestones, this episode is your permission slip to reclaim your worth and anchor back into who you are.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Money isn’t just numbers on a spreadsheet, it’s the story of your business, your beliefs, and your future. In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley sits down with Christine Labate, business finance coach, money strategist, and CEO of Good Measure Finance, to unpack what it really means for women to step into financial leadership.With over a decade of experience leading finance and operations for multi-seven-figure companies, Christine is now on a mission to help entrepreneurs cut through financial chaos, master cash flow, and build businesses that truly support the lives they’re dreaming of.Tune in to hear Ashley and Christine break down:The biggest financial pitfalls at the 5-, 6-, and 7-figure levels (and how to avoid them)Why cash flow is the ultimate measure of successHow money mindset and imprinted beliefs silently shape your bottom lineSimple, actionable steps to take control of your numbers todayWhat wealth really means beyond the bank accountChristine’s work proves that financial literacy isn’t just about survival, it’s about freedom, confidence, and power. If you’ve ever felt like your money was running you instead of the other way around, this episode will change how you see your business forever.Learn more about our guest:Christine Labate is the CEO of Good Measure Finance, where she helps entrepreneurs build profitable, scalable, and sustainable businesses through money coaching, financial strategy, and systems that make sense. She’s the creator of The Vault, a self-study program designed to help founders master cash flow and step into financial clarity.Connect with Christine:Website: https://www.goodmeasurefinance.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goodmeasurefinanceRemember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Your next level isn’t built in isolation, it’s built in the right room.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley shares why proximity isn’t just a concept, but the very catalyst for transformation. From mentorship to sisterhood to spiritual grounding, she reveals the three kinds of proximity every woman needs when building her business and herself.Tune in to hear Ashley break down:Why strategy alone isn’t enough to scale sustainablyThe difference between being in rooms that shrink you vs. expand youThe role of mentorship, sisterhood, and spiritual grounding in successHow proximity reshapes belief systems and identityWhy the “right room” doesn’t just change your business, it changes youIf you’ve been chasing more strategy but craving deeper alignment, this episode is your reminder: stop looking for the next answer, and start looking for the room that calls you higher.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Motherhood isn’t a setback, it’s a superpower.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley is joined by Cait Scudder, multi-millionaire CEO, TEDx speaker, and founder of The Millionaire Mother. From scaling her empire with three babies under four to pioneering a new paradigm of feminine leadership, Cait is proof that ambition and motherhood are not mutually exclusive.Together, Ashley and Cait dive into:How Cait went from burnt-out teacher to seven-figure CEOWhy she shut down a multi-six-figure mastermind to follow her true visionThe rise of The Millionaire Mother and the matriarch archetypeWhat it means to lead with intuition, audacity, and legacyWhy you never have to choose between motherhood and ambitionCait’s story is a masterclass in reinvention, surrender, and unapologetic ambition. If you’ve ever questioned whether you can do both, this episode is your proof that you were born for both.Learn more about our guest:Cait Scudder is a multi-millionaire entrepreneur, TEDx speaker, and host of The Millionaire Mother Podcast. Through her signature programs and community, she helps ambitious mothers scale their businesses without sacrificing their families or themselves.Website: https://themillionairemother.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themillionairemother/Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Before the world celebrates you, you have to be willing to see yourself.In today’s solo episode, Ashley gets raw about the inner identity work that happens long before the spotlight, the seven-figure milestone, or the stage.With a reality TV debut on the horizon and her voice about to reach audiences around the world, Ashley shares the very real fears of being seen, judged, or misunderstood, and the practices that keep her grounded in who she is before the world tries to define her.Inside this episode, Ashley shares:Why identity must be anchored before results arriveThe difference between shrinking to fit others’ projections and standing firm in self-definitionAshley’s daily rituals for setting identity before emails, meetings, or the world gets accessHow to recognize the nervous-system panic that comes before expansion, and why it’s often the sign you’re on the right pathThe role of embodiment, rhythm, and boundaries in holding success at scaleA powerful identity anchor exercise you can use today to step into the woman you’re becomingThis is not just about business strategy. It’s about who you must become to hold the success you’re building.If you are standing on the edge of something big and your hands are shaking, let this be your reminder: the stretch is the birthplace of your next level.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

What happens when the version of you that built the business can’t sustain the life you truly want? In this deep, soulful episode, Ashley Deland sits down with Ashleigh C. Henry, speaker, writer, life coach, and creator of Sacred Reorientation, to explore what it means to integrate your ambition with your aliveness.After years of guiding high-achieving women in business, Ashleigh experienced a sacred unraveling that reshaped everything she knew about leadership, grief, and success. Today, she helps women build harmony between achievement and embodiment so they can live a life they can actually inhabit.Inside this episode:The “death of self” and how it signals your next evolutionHow to recognize the symptoms of misalignment before burnout hitsThe truth about performance vs. presence (and why simulation can reveal what’s real)Reclaiming pleasure and how your body reveals where both joy and pain liveWhy women entrepreneurs must create from regulation, not adrenalineThe courage it takes to walk away from external success to create internal freedomAshleigh’s story is a masterclass in sacred reorientation, an invitation to stop performing wholeness and start living it.If this episode resonates, connect with Ashleigh. Enrollment is now open for her next Sacred Reorientation winter cohort beginning February 2026, with $300 off through the end of the year.Learn more about our Guest:Ashleigh C. Henry is a speaker, writer, life coach, and guide for women who are done performing wholeness and are ready to actually live it. She has  spent the last six years helping high-achieving women lead businesses, build legacies, and navigate seasons of identity, leadership, business and life expansion.Website: https://ashleighchenry.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleighchenry/Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

If you’ve ever found yourself exhausted by the chase, performing instead of leading, or stuck in the cycle of doing more just to prove your worth, this conversation is for you. Ashley shares the mindset shifts that moved her from hustling to holding, from proving to embodying, and from performance to presence.Inside this episode:Why chasing the “next thing” keeps you disconnected from who you already areHow to shift from insecure to integrated so your energy matches your messageThe difference between performance and presence, and why presence creates sustainabilityWhat it really means to “hold” success without burning out or disappearing in the processBecause it isn’t about doing more. It’s about becoming more of yourself; anchored, integrated, present, and powerful.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

What if wealth wasn’t just about money, but about being rich in every area of life?On this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley sits down with Jasmin Manke, Forbes 30 Under 30 entrepreneur, 8-figure mentor, international bestselling author, and the visionary behind the HypnoDance Method.Jasmin has built an eight-figure empire in her twenties, manifested a multimillion-dollar home in just three weeks, and helps women around the world create multiple six-figure cash months, all while staying unplugged, aligned, and deeply in flow. She’s not just building wealth, she’s redefining it.In this episode, we dive into:Jasmin’s early entrepreneurial roots and the lessons she learned watching her mother “wear the pants” in businessWhy saying no to misaligned opportunities is the fastest path to authentic successThe power of building wealth from alignment rather than pressureHow the HypnoDance Method combines music, movement, and mentorship to create transformational resultsJasmin’s “relaxed rich” philosophy, and why sustainable wealth is about joy, not sacrificeHer top three takeaways for becoming the woman who can hold the success you’re calling inThis conversation is a powerful reminder that you get to have it all—and that success built on alignment, fun, and flow is not only possible, but inevitable.Learn more about our guest:Jasmin Manke is a 8 Figure Mentor, Forbes 30 u 30 Lister, 1# International Best Selling Author, Speaker. Jasmin helps entrepreneurs get rich in all areas of their life inside the Wealth Being Members Club.Website: https://jasminmanke.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasminmankecoaching/ (DM her the word Ashley for a special gift)Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

The real reason you’re not hitting your goals? It’s not discipline. It’s not motivation. It’s foundation.In this solo episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley pulls back the curtain on why so many ambitious women stay stuck in the gap between vision and results. You’ve made the vision board. You’ve bought the planner. You’ve mapped out the steps. And yet, the needle isn’t moving.The truth? No one ever taught you how to actually anchor your goals into a structure that can hold them. That’s where this episode comes in.Ashley shares the exact five-layer framework she used to scale businesses, restructure time, and build systems that don’t just look good on paper, but actually work in real life.Inside this episode, you’ll discover:Why simplicity is the overlooked strategy that creates clarity and focusHow to build a strategy that aligns with your pace, resources, and season, not what’s trending onlineThe role of structure in turning shaky belief into consistent progressWhy specificity matters if you want your goals to actually landHow scheduling transforms “someday” into a non-negotiable realityThis isn’t about doing more, it’s about doing better. It’s about giving your goals a place to land so you can stop spinning your wheels and start moving with momentum.If you’ve been craving a way to bridge the gap between intention and execution, this episode is your permission slip to rewrite the rules of goal-setting and build a foundation that lasts.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

What if the real secret to success isn’t strategy, but radical self-expression?On today’s episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley is joined by Jennifer Spivak, CEO and founder of The Ad Girls, an all-female Facebook and Instagram advertising agency that’s unapologetically mission-driven and fiercely results-focused. Known as the “Conversion Queen” by Forbes, Jennifer has managed over $25M in ad spend and generated more than $90M in revenue for her clients, all while building a movement rooted in putting more money into the hands of women.From surviving an abusive relationship in her early 20s to becoming one of the most sought-after voices in digital advertising, Jennifer’s story is one of resilience, authenticity, and courage to break every rule that doesn’t serve you.In this powerful conversation, we dive into:How Jennifer turned a painful chapter into her life’s mission of economic empowerment for womenWhy authenticity is her ultimate secret sauce in businessThe evolving landscape of ads and why freebies are no longer the gold standardLeadership lessons from building and scaling an all-female team of 24How to cultivate self-trust, navigate challenges, and create systems that put you in control of your business growthWhat it really takes to hold success, visibility, and impact as a high-performing CEOJennifer’s journey proves there are no rules—only the ones we choose to make.This episode is equal parts strategy and soul. Whether you’re ready to scale with ads or simply need a reminder that you’re allowed to do business your own way, Jennifer’s wisdom will light the fire under you.Learn more about our guest:Jennifer Spivak is the CEO and Founder of The Ad Girls: An all-female Facebook & Instagram advertising agency dedicated to putting more money into the hands of more women. Website: www.theadgirls.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennspivak/Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

You don’t scale by doing more. You scale by becoming more.In this powerful third installment of her recent solo series, this episode is all about building your CEO Operating System, a personalized framework of routines, rhythms, and rituals that scale with your life and leadership.Ashley shares how to:Align your schedule with your energy, not just your to-do listCreate rituals that regulate and refocus your powerStructure your week like a portfolio CEOProtect your priorities with weekly CEO timeIntegrate your evolving identity into your monthly planningBuild a flexible, seasonal structure that supports your soulThis isn’t about productivity hacks, it’s about leadership design. If you’re ready to stop reacting and start creating, this episode will help you build a rhythm that reflects your reality and supports your next level.What part of your life or business needs rhythm more than hustle? What’s one ritual you can add, or remove, this week to support that?Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

On this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley sits down with Olivia Marie Pecqueur, a resilient entrepreneur and coach who knows firsthand that healing is more than just fixing what’s broken—it’s about transforming every layer of your life. After facing a devastating injury that left her navigating physical, mental, and emotional recovery, Olivia rebuilt her health, her confidence, and her business from the ground up.Tune in as Ashley and Olivia explore:How trauma and adversity can become catalysts for radical self-discoveryThe role mindset and emotional healing play in long-term recoveryWhy listening to your body is essential for preventing burnout and relapseTools and daily practices that support both physical and mental resilienceHow Olivia turned her personal healing into a platform for helping others thriveOlivia’s story is proof that healing isn’t linear—it’s layered, complex, and deeply personal. If you’ve ever faced a setback that shook your identity, this conversation will give you the hope, strategies, and fire to rise again.Learn more about our guest:Olivia Marie Pecqueur is a powerhouse mentor and speaker who helps high-performing entrepreneurs scale to seven- and eight-figure revenue with grace—not grit. Known as the "Nervous System Queen," she offers a transformative methodology that blends nervous system regulation, quantum strategy, and soul-aligned leadership.As the founder of Rich & Regulated CEO™, Olivia guides visionary leaders toward building wealth that feels luxurious both internally and externally—with ease as the new standard. Her clients go beyond cash flow; they cultivate calm confidence, magnetic presence, and sustainable momentum. She's also an angel investor and co-host of The Beyond Limits Show. Connect with Olivia:https://www.keepupwithliv.com/aboutlivhttps://www.instagram.com/keepupwithliv/Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Building a multimillion-dollar business while raising six kids? Julie Cole shows how it’s done.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley is joined by Julie Cole — recovered lawyer, mom of six, and co-founder of Mabel’s Labels, a wildly successful brand built from a basement 22 years ago. Julie shares her journey from legal aid to entrepreneurship, balancing motherhood with building a legacy, and rewriting the rules of success and family life.Tune in to hear Julie break down:How a missing product and a need for flexibility sparked an unexpected entrepreneurial journeyThe hard truths and humor of raising six kids while scaling a businessWhy saying “no” and setting strong boundaries saved her sanityThe secret to balancing productivity with motherhood without perfectionismHow her leadership style fosters empathy, independence, and trust at home and workThe highs and lows of co-founding a business with multiple partners—and lessons learnedHow building a family-friendly, flexible company culture became a game changerIf you’ve ever felt like you have to choose between being a great mom or a successful entrepreneur, Julie’s story will challenge that narrative—and show you how to have both.Learn more about our guest:Julie Cole is a recovered lawyer, mom of six and co-founder of Mabel's Labels. Julie is an award-winning entrepreneur, best-selling and award-winning author and media personality. Having appeared on NBC's The Today Show, CNN, HLN's Raising America, Breakfast Television, The Marilyn Denis Show, CP24, and CityLine, among many others. Her articles have appeared in The Huffington Post, Today's Parent, The Globe and Mail, Profit Magazine, Working Mother Magazine, and numerous websites.Connect with Julie:https://mabelslabels.ca/en-CA/juliecolehttps://www.instagram.com/juliecoleinc/Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

If you’ve ever set a big goal, sprinted toward it, and burned out halfway through, this episode will show you a better way.Ashley breaks down backwards goal building—a step-by-step method for starting with your future vision and reverse-engineering the steps, systems, structure, and stacked promises that make it inevitable.Tune in to hear Ashley break down:Why most goals fail (and how to make yours sustainable)The 5-step backwards goal building frameworkHow to define a vision so clear you can’t help but create itTurning vague ideas into specific, repeatable actionBuilding systems and structure that hold your successHow stacked promises transform intention into identityThis isn’t about doing more—it’s about building smarter, aligning deeper, and leading stronger. Your next level isn’t waiting for a “someday.” It’s waiting for you to start behaving like her today.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Forget the chaos of constant reinvention—true momentum is created through small, intentional shifts that compound over time.Tune in to hear Ashley break down:Why sustainable success is built in calm, not chaosThe stacked promises method for building self-trustHow micro-systems create massive results in businessA client case study: 5 tiny changes that led to $100K/monthThe power of alignment over urgency (and how to find it)You don’t need to overhaul everything to see real transformation. You just need to start stacking small wins that build the version of you who’s already ready for her next level.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

What if your wardrobe held the key to becoming the woman you’re meant to be?On today’s episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley is joined by Chellie Carlson—a transformational stylist, founder of The Method, and the visionary behind the Style Society membership. With over 25 years in the fashion industry, Chellie is redefining what it means to “get dressed” by helping women align their style with their next-level identity.Tune in to hear Ashley & Chellie break down:Why your closet might be the biggest thing holding you backHow investing in your image leads to quantum leaps in confidenceThe emotional connection between self-worth and styleWhy becoming her starts with putting on the damn pantsIf you’re ready to stop hiding in clothes that don’t feel like you—and start showing up as the woman you’re meant to be—this episode is for you.Learn more about our guest:Chellie Carlson is a transformational stylist, speaker, and founder of The Method—a signature 30-day style experience designed to help women shift their identity and align their wardrobe with the life they’re stepping into. With a luxe studio in West Hollywood and a thriving global community inside The Style Society, Chellie has worked with top-tier brands and been featured in The New York Times and Sports Illustrated. Her mission? To help women stop playing small—and start dressing like the woman they were born to be.Connect with Chellie:Instagram: @chelliecarlsonWebsite: www.chelliecarlson.comRemember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

In this solo episode, Ashley names what most people only whisper about: the anxiety behind high-achieving women who feel stuck. If you’ve ever overthought yourself into paralysis or confused control with confidence, this one’s going to hit deep.Ashley pulls back the curtain on her own journey with anxiety—not from a diagnosis or a trending reel—but from real life. From the space between ambition and action. From the loop of “what ifs” and the truth that finally set her free: courage is the cure.Inside this episode, we dig into:How anxiety shows up when your intelligence outpaces your courageThe three hard truths that helped Ashley break the cycle of overthinkingWhy fear in disguise can sound like “research” or “wisdom”The simple question that can interrupt your next spiralHow faith, forward motion, and a little fire can shift everythingWhat it really means to lead with bravery, not burnoutThis one’s part sermon, part strategy—and 100% permission to move, even if your voice shakes.If you’ve been stuck in your head, this episode will bring you back to your heart.You’re not too late.You’re not too much.You’re not broken.You’re just being called to rise—with courage.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

How do you become the kind of woman who builds a dream team?Through radically honest insights and hard-earned wisdom, executive recruiter, coach, and podcast host Meghan Houle, shares what it really takes to hire top-tier talent, grow a business you love, and show up with service—not ego—at the forefront.Inside this episode, we get into:Why “fast hires” often lead to expensive mistakesThe #1 mindset shift founders need before making their first hireMeghan’s advice on navigating LinkedIn, Upwork, and the modern job marketHow to stand out in a sea of sameness (whether you’re hiring or job hunting)The power of asking “How can I support you?”—and meaning itThis episode is your inside pass to the human side of hiring. It’s filled with strategy, soul, and straight talk that will help you build your business—and your legacy—with clarity and confidence.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

In this raw and radically honest solo episode, Ashley DeLand strips back the layers of perfection and dives into the truth behind her journey. What happens when the mask slips? When you stop performing? When you finally tell the truth?Inside this episode, we get into:The behind-the-scenes moment that cracked Ashley open and changed everythingWhy being unfiltered is often the most powerful thing you can doThe real cost of clarity—and the bold payoff that followsHow pain can introduce you to your power (if you let it)Why alignment—not exhaustion—is the real foundation of resiliencePermission slips every woman needs to hear right nowThis episode is a homecoming.It's vulnerable, potent, and laced with the kind of truth that doesn’t just land—it liberates.If you’re in a season of stretch, shift, or shedding, this one’s for you.You’re not too late.You’re not broken.You are Becoming.Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

How do you become a speaker the world can't ignore?In this episode Ashley is joined by powerhouse speaker, coach and TEDx producer Tricia Brouk, whose journey from professional dancer to award-winning director and speaker mentor has changed thousands of lives. Through her work with the Big Talk Academy, Tricia teaches thought leaders how to craft and deliver messages that move mountains, command rooms, and build unforgettable legacy.Inside this episode, we get into:How Tricia went from the stage as a dancer to curating stages for world-class speakersWhy your voice deserves to be heard—even if it's "been said before"The #1 mistake most TEDx speakers make (and how to avoid it)Tactical rehearsal strategies to reduce fear and own your storyHow to turn your fear of public speaking into power that captivatesThis conversation is a masterclass in claiming space, commanding presence, and amplifying your message. It's insightful, grounded, and packed with truth that turns possibility into action. Tune in and take the first step to becoming an unforgettable voice in your industry.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

In this deeply personal solo episode, Ashley Deland pulls back the curtain on the parts of her story most people never see.Before the awards, exits, and advisory work, she was scrubbing yoga studio floors at night, cold-pressing juice by hand, and running a vegan restaurant on four hours of sleep. From launching her first business off a yoga mat to building and exiting multiple ventures—including Canada’s first soy-free vegan restaurant—Ashley shares the raw, unfiltered evolution that shaped her into the founder she is today.She walks you through:The three businesses that built her foundationThe lessons each venture taught her about leadership, grit, and strategyWhy your messy middle matters more than you thinkAnd how to honor the version of you that built everything no one clapped forThis episode is a powerful reminder that no empire is built overnight. Every founder has a beginning—and this is hers.If you’re in the early stages of your journey, or navigating a season where nothing seems to be clicking yet, this is the one to press play on.—🎧 Subscribe, rate, and leave a review to support more stories like this.To work with Ashley, visit ashleydeland.comRemember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

What does it really mean to embody feminine power in business?In this episode, I sit down with Monica Yates—trauma healer, feminine-masculine embodiment coach, and CEO of a multi-7-figure company that’s rewriting the rules of wealth, energy, and womanhood.We talk about everything from trauma and triggers to polarity and power. And trust me—this isn’t just another surface-level convo about manifestation. Monica brings the heat, the depth, and the unapologetic truth about what it takes to build an empire without burning out, hustling in your masculine, or shrinking your standards to make people comfortable.Inside this episode, we get into:The real difference between feminine energy and performative femininityWhy trauma work isn’t optional if you want to scaleHow to hold duality: wealth and worth, softness and strength, heart and strategyMonica’s personal story of pain, polarity, and power—and how she turned it into millionsTactical shifts to attract more aligned clients, income, and intimacyThis is one of those episodes you’ll want to pause, replay, and sit with. It’s bold, it’s deep, and it will change how you lead.About Our Guest:Monica Yates is a New York Times bestselling author, trauma healer, feminine and masculine embodiment coach, and the host of Feminine As F*ck Podcast. She helps women get into their magnetic feminine energy, and men feel ecstasy and intimacy.You can find Monica at monicayateshealth.com and monicayateshealth on IG. Her NY Times Bestselling book is here.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire If you’re scaling something real – something legacy-level- you don’t need another coach. You need a partner. Someone who can step inside your business, see the full picture, and help you move faster, cleaner, smarter. My private 1:1 advisory containers are available in 3, 6 and 9 month commitments. You bring the vision. I bring the strategy, structure and support to help you lead it all. https://ashleydeland.com/advisory/ Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

In a world where attention is fleeting and competition is fierce, what makes people choose you?Your story.In this solo episode, Ashley breaks down the art and science of storytelling—and why it’s the most powerful tool an entrepreneur can master. It’s not about a polished performance. It’s about building trust, evoking emotion, and creating a brand people don’t just remember—but feel.Inside this episode:Why your story is your most valuable brand assetThe secret to emotional connection that drives brand loyaltyHow to craft stories that resonate with your ideal client’s pain pointsWhat it means to sell with soul, not just strategyIf you’ve ever struggled to articulate your “why,” share your journey, or stand out in your industry—this episode is your roadmap. Whether you’re building a personal brand or scaling a business, your story has the power to build legacy. Let’s make it unforgettable.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Dive into a powerful conversation with Carrie Colbert, Founding General Partner of Curate Capital, a trailblazing VC firm investing in women-led, women-serving companies. With almost two decades in the oil and gas sector and retiring at age 38, Carrie transitioned into an accidental—and now passionate—venture capitalist. She went from angel investor to launching Curate’s debut fund in 2021, oversubscribed by 50%, and filled with mostly women investors.In this episode, Carrie and I peel back the layers on:Her journey from petroleum engineering to purposeful investing in female foundersThe moment she realized her greatest impact would be through capital + advocacyWhat Curate Capital seeks in potential investments—and why authentic resonance mattersHow “by women, for women” capital is reshaping consumer marketsWhat she learned from her first major exit in CPG and how it shapes her mentorshipThis is more than strategy—it’s an invitation for female founders to see funding as a partnership rooted in shared vision, values, and voice.If you’re building, scaling, or considering capital—this one’s for you.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or that paralyzing fear that creeps in just before you make a big move—this episode is your reminder, your roadmap, and your reality check. Ashley shares real stories from her own journey, unfiltered insights, and actionable mindset shifts to help you build trust in yourself, take bolder action, and lead with conviction.Tune in to hear Ashley break down:Why belief isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you buildHow to use fear as fuel and confidence as a daily practiceWhy courage is a decision, not a feelingWhat to do when doubt creeps in (because it will)The truth about “readiness” and why waiting for it keeps you stuckWhether you're just getting started or you're in the trenches scaling your business, this episode will help you recalibrate your mindset and step into your next level with clarity and courage.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

You built it—now let’s talk about how to sell it (without losing your mind or your money).In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley sits down with powerhouse entrepreneur and exit strategy expert Carrie Kerpen to talk about what it really takes to sell your business. From productizing services to avoiding burnout, Carrie breaks down the exact mindset, systems, and strategies that led to her multimillion-dollar agency exit—and why most women never get there (but should).Tune in to hear Carrie and Ashley break down:The untold truth about preparing your business for saleHow to productize your services and increase your business’s valueWhy timing your exit while you still like your business mattersHow women can reclaim more equity and representation in exitsWhy “too good to be true” buyers usually areThis conversation is equal parts masterclass and myth-buster—packed with golden advice every female founder needs to hear, whether you're thinking about selling tomorrow or five years from now.About Our Guest:Carrie Kerpen is an award-winning entrepreneur, bestselling author, and unapologetic advocate for women building wealth. She co-founded and led Likeable Media, one of the first social media agencies in the world, which she successfully exited in 2021 to a 750-person global tech company. She's spoken on stages around the world, been featured in The New York Times, CNBC, and Forbes, and is the author of Work It: Secrets for Success from the Boldest Women in Business.Carrie now leads The Whisper Group, a company dedicated to helping women founders turn lifestyle businesses into life-changing assets. Through strategic Exit Planning, mentorship, and a collective of exited female founders, Carrie is closing the exit gap—one powerful whisper at a time. Learn More About Our Guest: https://www.instagram.com/carriekerpen https://www.wearethewhispergroup.com/ Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Success is sweet, but legacy? That’s next level.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley reveals how to build a business that doesn’t just survive—but scales, impacts, and lasts. Spoiler alert: you can’t do it alone. Strategic partnerships and smart investments are the secret sauce to sustainable growth.Tune in to hear Ashley break down:How to choose partners who elevate your vision—not just tag alongWhat to look for in an angel investor (and what to avoid)Why values alignment matters more than capitalHow to surround yourself with the right people for long-term legacyWhether you’re building your first offer or your future empire, this episode will help you think bigger and invest smarter.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

When representation meets innovation, magic happens.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley talks with Samreen Arshad—founder of Samreen’s Vanity—about beauty, business, and building a brand that speaks to identity and belonging. From postpartum depression to QVC and beyond, Samreen shares how makeup became both her healing tool and her empire.Tune in to hear Samreen dive into:Her journey from YouTube tutorials to international product linesHow identity and culture are woven into every aspect of her brandWhy representation in beauty goes far beyond shade rangesThe grit, grind, and glory of building a beauty brand from scratchThis isn’t just about lipsticks and liners—it’s about belonging, legacy, and making space for stories that haven’t been told.About Samreen:Samreen Arshad is the founder of a beauty brand, SamreensVanity (relaunching 2025 with a 360 rebrand) blending high-performance formulations with holistic South Asian ingredients and traditions to redefine inclusivity in the industry. Inspired by her journey from automotive industry to makeup artistry, she created the brand to offer products designed for women of color—fusing modern innovation with cultural heritage.Learn More:https://samreensvanity.com/ https://www.instagram.com/samreensvanity Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Before you build the empire, you have to build the mindset.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley breaks down why mindset isn’t just important—it’s the entire foundation. Forget chasing every new strategy on the internet. If you don’t believe in your success, no marketing plan is going to save you.Tune in to hear Ashley break down:Why your business will never outgrow your mindsetThree core mindset shifts that will change everythingHow belief is built (not found), and what that means for your growthWhy your biggest dreams are actually your biggest proofHow gratitude rewires you for expansionThis episode is a permission slip to stop waiting, stop doubting, and start becoming the version of you who’s already got what she wants.Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience

Being different isn’t a flaw—it’s the foundation of your empire.In this episode of She Wears the Pants, Ashley sits down with credit solution expert and powerhouse entrepreneur Micah Abigail to talk about what it really means to walk your own path. From battling peer pressure to facing down addiction and finding faith, Micah’s journey is raw, real, and ridiculously inspiring.Tune in to hear Micah share:Her transition from personal struggle to entrepreneurial powerhouseHow sobriety and faith became the turning point in her life and businessThe truth about what it takes to build a brand from your basementWhy embracing your uniqueness is the secret weapon to lasting successGet ready to feel empowered, inspired, and maybe a little weepy. This episode is a masterclass in resilience.About Micah:Micah Abigail is the founder and CEO of Micah Abagail, a boutique credit solutions firm that empowers individuals to overcome financial obstacles and rebuild their credit with clarity and confidence. With over a decade of experience in the credit industry, Micah has become a trusted expert known for her no-nonsense advice, compassionate leadership, and deeply personal approach to financial wellness.Learn More About Our Guest:https://micahabigail.com/ https://www.instagram.com/fitcreditdoctor/ Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.Be sure to rate, review, and subscribe!Grab Ashley’s free 5 Day Podcast Series, “The Unstoppable CEO Mindset”, https://ashleydeland.com/unstoppable-ceo-mindset Follow Ashley on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleydeland/ Schedule a Consultation: https://ashleydeland.com/inquire Mentioned in this episode:VIP Weekend Experiencehttps://ashleydeland.com/vip-weekend-experience