Should We Just?

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the final episode of season three, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Riley talk about The Love Club, matchmaking, first date etiquette, and more.GIVEAWAY DETAILS: Enter for the chance to go on a blind date, sponsored by The Love Club, Engine Room Pub, and Should We Just? Podcast. Giveaway is open from March 18 - March 25, 2026. Must be 21+ to enter.ENTER THE GIVEAWAY HERE: https://www.instagram.com/p/DWB-fiklH2h/?igsh=MWI1NXNycmc2MTBpNg==FILL OUT YOUR QUESTIONNAIRE HERE: https://forms.gle/HxoXxW5fxj4Cpbjp8Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the eleventh episode of season three, Erika and Brenna share some of their dirtiest secrets, including: sex dreams they still think about, the most simp thing they've ever done, their biggest relationship crash outs, and more.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the tenth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk all about marriage. Join them as they debate the pros and cons of getting married and share their thoughts on proposals, elopements, and weddings.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the ninth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk all about kinks. Join them as they share their feelings on BDSM, cuckolding, voyeurism, and more.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the eighth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna debate having sex on the first date. Join them as they weigh out the pros & cons and then share some of their related experiences. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the seventh episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk all about kissing. They share their first kiss stories, debate what makes a good kiss, and discuss their best and worst make out stories.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the sixth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk about their experiences getting back into dating, ideas for making their own dating app, and their dos and don'ts for going on dates.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the fifth episode of season three, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Victoria discuss consent, scissoring, lesbian porn, u-hauling, and more.TRIGGER WARNING: This episode includes graphic accounts of sexual misconduct and coercion. It may be triggering for some listeners.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the fourth episode of season three, Erika and Brenna discuss sex toys and self pleasure. Listen in as they talk about different types of toys, stats related to masturbation, using toys with partners, and how they feel about the toys in their nightstands.SWJ recommends:⁠Empress Suction Toy from Vush⁠⁠Halo Ring from Bellesa⁠⁠Anal Training Kit from Bellesa⁠Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the third episode of season three, Erika and Brenna discuss love triangles in pop culture. Join them as they share their thoughts on Twilight, The Summer I Turned Pretty, The Vampire Diaries, Stranger Things, One Tree Hill, and other shows & movies.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the second episode of season three, Erika and Brenna talk all about sex positions. Join them as they rate the most common positions and share which ones are their favorite and most hated.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the first episode of season three, Erika and Brenna interview Erika's dad, Jose. The trio discuss marriage, sugar daddies, pegging, how dating has changed in the last few decades, and what advice he would give the younger generation.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the twelfth and final episode of season two, Erika and Brenna answer previously submitted listener questions.Tune in as they discuss past exes and situationships, giving head, the best sex of their lives, and more.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠Submit a topic suggestion for season three here.

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the eleventh episode of season two, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Katsi Peña share their most controversial dating takes, debate toxic habits in relationships, and swoon over fictional characters in pop culture. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠Submit your question for the season two finale ⁠here⁠!

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the tenth episode of season two, Erika and Brenna discuss dating shows and reality tv.Shows mentioned: The Bachelor, Love Is Blind, Love Island, Too Hot to Handle, Are You the One?, The Ultimatum, and I Kissed A GirlWarning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠.Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod⁠Submit your question for the season two Q&A ⁠here⁠!

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the ninth episode of season two, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Jayme Worden talk all about girlhood, friendships, and relationships.Join them as they play would you rather, do each other's tarot readings, and share their thoughts on female friendships, friendship breakups, and more.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠.Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpodSubmit your question for the season two Q&A here!

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the eighth episode of season two, Erika and Brenna debate the concept of friends with benefits, whether men and women can just be friends, and the rules for keeping things casual. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the seventh episode of season two, Erika and Brenna discuss faking orgasms, squirting, performance anxiety, post nut clarity, and things that are potentially better than sex.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the sixth episode of season two, Erika and Brenna share how they lost their virginities and discuss things they find overrated/underrated about sex.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the fifth episode of season two, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Erika Myhre talk all about sexuality and queerness.Join them as they share their thoughts on coming out, labels, bisexuality & pansexuality, gay awakenings, and more.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the fourth episode of season two, Erika and Brenna discuss sexting, dirty talk, sending nudes, and the size debate.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ @shouldwejustpod⁠.Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod ⁠TikTok:⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the third episode of season two, Erika, Brenna, and special guest Kayt Tucker talk all about cheating.Join them as they play "cheating or not cheating" and then discuss home wrecking, emotional cheating vs. physical cheating, and whether they've been unfaithful.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠.Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the second episode of season two, Erika and Brenna dive into all things porn—including their kinks, most watched categories, icks, and pornstars.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ @shouldwejustpod⁠.Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠TikTok:⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome to a new season of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. In the season two premiere, Erika and Brenna discuss Valentine's Day, masturbating, first dates, and more. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online @shouldwejustpod. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the twelfth and final episode of season one, Erika and Brenna answer previously submitted listener questions.Tune in as they debate girl’s girls vs. guy’s girls, top vs. bottom, butt play, calling men daddy, and more.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the eleventh episode of season one, Erika and Brenna discuss the worst things they’ve experienced while dating, homie hopping, threesomes, and more.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the tenth episode of season one, Erika and Brenna discuss going no contact, getting closure, doing it for the plot, and The Unsent Project.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpodDon't forget to ask us a question for the season finale Q&A: https://bit.ly/3LLzx6I

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the ninth episode of season one, Erika and Brenna discuss toys, sex positivity, and thoughts on casual sex. They also share a few of their best and worst hook up stories. Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpodDon't forget to ask us a question for the season finale Q&A: https://bit.ly/3LLzx6I

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the eighth episode of season one, Erika and Brenna share their craziest ghosting stories featuring exes and casual flings.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpodDon't forget to ask us a question for the season finale Q&A: https://bit.ly/3LLzx6I

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the seventh episode of season one, Erika and Brenna share their thoughts on birth control, abstinence, revirginizing, and Julia Fox.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the sixth episode of season one, Erika and Brenna discuss toxic relationships, exes, and starting over after breakups.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the fifth episode of season one, Erika and Brenna discuss underwhelming first dates, Challengers & Bridgerton, and how pop culture has ruined dating.Shows mentioned: One Tree Hill, Gossip Girl, and BridgertonMovies mentioned: Little Women, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, A Cinderella Story, and High School MusicalWarning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the fourth episode of season one, Erika and Brenna talk about getting catfished and their biggest turns offs & red flags.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the third episode of season one, Erika and Brenna discuss their dream guys, zodiac sign compatibility, and liking younger men.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome back to another episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. On the second episode of season one, Erika and Brenna talk about the do's and dont's of dating. Join them as they rank their favorite dating apps, talk about first date anxiety, setting boundaries on dates, and more.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod

Welcome to the first ever episode of Should We Just?—a show about girlhood, dating, and sex. Get to know your co-hosts, Erika and Brenna, as they share the inspiration behind the podcast, the challenges of dating in Utah, starting over in their twenties, and what they’ve learned since moving from the east coast.Warning for explicit content. All opinions our own. Connect with us online⁠ ⁠@shouldwejustpod⁠⁠.Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shouldwejustpod⁠ ⁠TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@shouldwejustpod