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Simply Sapphic
by Amanda and Allison
Being sapphic is amazing, but it also comes with challenges that can feel a bit overwhelming. To help with this, Amanda and Allison share everything they wish they knew when they first came out of the closet. Each episode has tips, stories, and insights on everything from complicated family dynamics, sapphic dating, recovering from religious trauma, making queer friends, and more. With cozy, authentic, and often hilarious discussions, this podcast is your guide to embracing and thriving in your queerness.Watch episode videos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SimplySapphicPodcast
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21. Financial Coaching for Sapphics with Leah Coleman from Orchard Financial Group
Money conversations aren't one-size-fits-all, and for sapphic people, mainstream financial advice was never built with us in mind.To help bridge that gap, we sit down with Leah Coleman, founder of Orchard Financial Group, to talk about what financial wellness actually looks like for the sapphic community. Whether you're navigating finances as a couple, building wealth without family safety nets, or just figuring out where to start, this one's for you!We cover budgeting without placing shame on every expense, strategies for getting more money out of your money, investing basics for beginners, credit scores, and the unique financial realities that come with being part of the sapphic community. Leah Coleman wants you to leave this episode knowing that managing money is a skill, and like any skill, it can be learned.Wherever you're starting from, you belong in this conversation.Leah's work at Orchard Financial Group is rooted in helping marginalized communities build real financial autonomy and security on their own terms. If you want expert financial help from a queer-owned financial professional, we highly recommend reaching out to Leah!Orchard Financial Group: https://www.orchardfinancial.com/about-us/Watch this episode as a video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Nh-avsU566E
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20. Why Are Sapphic Breakups So Hard? with Lorri Sulpizio
Why do sapphic breakups hurt so deeply, and why do they feel so different from other breakups? And more importantly, how do we heal from them when they hit so hard? In this episode, we’re joined by queer relationship coach Lorri Sulpizio to explore why sapphic breakups hit so hard and what it actually takes to recover. We cover how to debrief yourself from a breakup, how to honor the depth of the relationship without losing yourself, and how to let the experience inform future love instead of hardening you against it.If you’re navigating a sapphic breakup or still healing from a love long lost, this episode gives you practical steps and advice for healing and moving forward. Sending everyone going through heartbreak right now a big hug. We hope this episode helps you heal and come out stronger on the other side. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3qkFhJSyOyoFind Lorri on Instagram @lorrisulpizio
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19. Hands, Toys, Knees, and Toes: Get Confident in the Bedroom featuring Whitni Miller
Feeling unsure in the bedroom? This episode of Simply Sapphic continues our sex education series with practical, confidence-boosting guidance for queer folks. We’re joined by Whitni Miller, queer couples intimacy coach and founder of BDE Moves, who breaks down everything you need to know about oral sex, hands, toys, and strap-on play. Whether you’re exploring your first queer experience, coming out later in life, or just looking to enhance your intimacy, this episode gives you actionable tips and insights.Whitni shares how to communicate about desires, navigate foreplay, and explore sexual roles, while debunking myths around lesbian sex and reclaiming labels like “pillow princess.” We also dive into the importance of consent, aftercare, and curiosity in building healthy, fulfilling sexual relationships. Plus, Whitni recommends inclusive resources, ethical porn, and ways to keep intimacy exciting over the long term.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3o0GScZWr7A Connect with Whitni from BDE Moves: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScZXGlrzcpxzNBZgFuyJsYAWOU3IIfTiiMbnTDxbzjTBaZWTQ/viewform IG: @bde.movesTikTok: bde-moves
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18. Going from Single to Dating More Intentionally with Coach Kita
Does your dating history include love bombing, mixed signals, commitment issues, or repeated patterns you swore you’d healed from? If so, this episode was literally made for you.We’re joined by Coach Kita (they/she), a queer dating coach known for their work on @queerconnections and @kitaadamscoaching, to talk about how to date more intentionally. They walk us through what to do before you even start dating so you can stop choosing the same types of people and instead build a grounded foundation for a healthy, lasting relationship the next time you meet someone.By the end of this episode, you’ll understand how to figure out what exactly you want and how to be ready to receive that real love when it shows up.If you’re ready to get off the dating hamster wheel and date with intention, you can find this episode on YouTube, Spotify, and anywhere else you get your podcasts.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/CUIpGbpLLLE
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17. The Sex Ed All Sapphic People Deserve with Planned Parenthood's Joan Miller
If your sex ed involved a banana, a condom, and zero mention of queer sex or trans bodies… this one’s for you.We’re joined by sapphic sex educator from Planned Parenthood, Joan Miller, to finally give us the sapphic sex ed we deserve. We dive into anatomy (do you know what’s actually behind the g spot?), safer sex (you can make a condom for trans men on testosterone?), sexy communication tips, sex toys, squirting, and all the different ways sapphic sex can look. We had a great time with this one and can’t wait for you to listen!We recommend watching this episode as a video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/h2We9bfVcMM
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16. We're engaged!!!
Allison proposed! This episode is us sharing our proposal story.Watch as a video on YouTube (as well as see additional pictures and videos from the proposal!) https://youtube.com/@simplysapphicpodcast?si=witpHnsAd7lXuLlj
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15. Our First Time at Dinah Shore
Surprise! We recorded a special off-season episode about our trip to the iconic Dinah Shore event in Palm Springs called The Dinah (the sapphic party featured on The L Word!) We talk about everything: Who/what Dinah Shore is, what to expect if you want to go next year, our personal highs and lows, and all the tea you missed if you weren’t there this year.Keywords: Dinah Shore, The Dinah, sapphic community, LGBTQ+, podcast, Simply Sapphic, queer culture, event experiences, season two, book announcement, community connectionsWatch this episode as a video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dNlmh-dTefA
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14. Season One Recap
We’ve reached the end of our very first season!First of all, we want to say THANK YOU to everyone who has supported us from the beginning (which is now!). We could not have done this without all the mentorship we’ve received and the incredible people we’ve met along the way.In our 14th episode, we’re recapping the season:- Reflections on what pride means to us as we close out Pride Month 2025.- Our biggest takeaways from each episode.- Things we learned from making our first podcast season.- What’s coming up for us during the off-season.- Plus, we end with some new sapphic events and new spots to check out around Austin if you’re local.See you in Season 2! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ijqJNteP_Sw
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13. You’re Not Going to Hell: Healing Queer Religious Trauma with Rev. Karen Woodworth
In this episode of Simply Sapphic, we talk with Reverend Karen Woodworth, a lesbian pastor, who shares why being 2SLGBTQ+ was never a sin. We unpack where those beliefs came from, how they’ve impacted us as a community, and what healing from religious trauma can look like. Regardless of where you stand with religion and spirituality, this conversation is about reclaiming your worth, your peace, and quelling the voice inside your head that repeats that you’re going to hell no matter what just because you’re queer.Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/83A7gbInl6A
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12. Sapphic Vocabulary
In this episode, Amanda and Allison explore the words and phrases that make up the sapphic lexicon, from futch to U-Haul and everything in between. Whether you're new to queer language or just want to brush up on the latest terms, we’ve got you covered. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/y_nnDMohOqo
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11. How to Navigate an Unaffirming Family with Celia Lugo, MA, LPC
In this episode, Amanda and Allison are joined by Celia Lugo (she/her), a licensed therapist with Sanctuary Counseling. We talk about how to set boundaries with your family, maintain your own well being, and why family can be so complicated for queer folks. As a bonus, Celia shares some awesome book recs if you want to dive into this topic more on your own time. Check out Sanctuary Counseling at: https://www.sanctuarycounselingaustin.com/ Resources from this episode: Set Boundaries Find Peace by Nedra Glover TawwabThe Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylorhttps://centerforbodytrust.com/book/ATX Therapy Resources OutYouth Waterloo Counseling Capital Area Counseling Scholarships for Counseling To Write Love on Her ArmsInclusivetherapists.comWatch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/2VzuOMPQuMg
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10. How to Feel Good in Your Body Again with Dr. Syd Young
In this episode, Amanda and Allison are joined by Dr Syd Young, founder of Out Wellness in Austin, Texas! Syd chats with us about all things queer wellness, the importance of joyful movement, practical tips for navigating body dysmorphia and dysphoria, and the story behind creating their incredible queer-centered wellness space! Check out Out Wellness at: https://outwellnessatx.com/And their Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/outwellnessatx/# What this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/H57R1_-oo2k
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9. How to Build Your Confidence as a Late Bloomer with Eva Bloom
In this episode, Amanda and Allison are joined by the brilliant Eva Bloom—sex researcher, educator, and queer late bloomer coach! 💖 We dive into confidence-building tips, the magic of queer time, and how embracing your unique timeline can be freeing. Plus, we dish on the songs that make us feel unstoppable. Whether you're blooming a little later or just need a little pep in your step, this one’s for you! 🌈💅🎶Find Eva Bloom:@WhatsMyBodyDoingWatch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/QZHDYcrR5qE
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8. Dating Off the Apps with Amanda DeFrees
In this episode, Amanda and Allison welcome their first guest, Amanda DeFrees, to discuss what it is like to navigate dating while single and intentionally choosing to stay off dating apps. Be prepared to experience into the joys (and awkwardly cringey moments) of getting picked up face-to-face, hear hilarious stories from Amanda’s time at a “pitch your friend” event, and hear why being a drummer is basically the ultimate pick up line. Spoiler: It’s all about the rhythm... and maybe a little bit of eye contact. Check out Amanda’s band, Anxious at the Disco: https://www.instagram.com/anxiousatthediscoAnd her podcast, Fem Forte! https://www.instagram.com/femfortepodcastWatch this episode as a video: https://youtu.be/3zx9q76LRig
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7. How to Build a Queer Dating Profile
In this episode Amanda and Allison discuss how to build a queer dating profile!Watch this episode as a video: https://youtu.be/jmSWHSPlAR8
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6. How to Flirt with Girls
In this episode Amanda and Allison discuss how to flirt! Watch this episode as a video: https://youtu.be/Uln_1t2WVKo
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5. How to Break Free from Comphet and Gender Roles
In this episode Amanda and Allison discuss what it takes to breakdown and break free from compulsory heterosexuality and gender roles. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/QO3YNvKpUBQ
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4. How to Find Queer Friends
In this episode, Amanda and Allison dive into how to find (and build!) local queer community while offering practical tips for forming meaningful queer friendships.Watch this episode as a video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/GgfZA1ra8h0
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3. How to Come Out to Your Family and Friends
In this episode, Allison and Amanda talk about how to come out to your family and friends and tell them that you're queer. Watch this episode as a video: https://youtu.be/h4turwIflfM
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2. What to Do After You Realize You're Queer
In this episode, Amanda and Allison talk about what to do after you realize you're queer. Watch this episode as a video: https://youtu.be/4k0Lxxyd3PU
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1. How Do You Know You're Queer?
In this episode, Amanda and Allison discuss why Googling "am I gay?" isn't that helpful if you’re questioning and offer alternative ways to recognize and affirm your queerness. Watch this episode as a video: https://youtu.be/SWoSqnhci9o
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Podcast Trailer
Watch episode videos on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@SimplySapphicPodcast —-Simply Sapphic's mission is to cover every aspect of living as a sapphic person from finding community to doing the deep work to embrace ourselves.—-We created this podcast because, while many spaces are dedicated to lesbians, few communities bring together every queer person born female or living as a woman—despite the many challenges and experiences we have in common. The Simply Sapphic podcast intends to create this inclusive community.—-In each episode, we’ll talk about things like...🧑🧑🧒 Navigating hard family situations💏 Sapphic dating and relationships🙇 Recovering from religious trauma👯 Making queer friends...and everything in between.—-So if you’re trans masc, trans femme, non-binary, or a cisgendered woman who identifies as queer, and you’re looking for community and conversations about everyday experiences as a sapphic person, come to our launch party and tune in to our podcast!—-🏳️🌈 WHAT DOES SAPPHIC MEAN? 🏳️🌈—-If you haven't heard of the word sapphic before, no worries! The sapphic community includes cis and trans people who were assigned female at birth (AFAB) who date women as well as trans women who date women.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Being sapphic is amazing, but it also comes with challenges that can feel a bit overwhelming. To help with this, Amanda and Allison share everything they wish they knew when they first came out of the closet. Each episode has tips, stories, and insights on everything from complicated family dynamics, sapphic dating, recovering from religious trauma, making queer friends, and more. With cozy, authentic, and often hilarious discussions, this podcast is your guide to embracing and thriving in your queerness.Watch episode videos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SimplySapphicPodcast
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