SistaQuean Podcast: The Soul Weaver

Not every plan needs an audience.In this episode, we talk about the discipline of silence — why announcing your moves too early can weaken momentum, invite doubt, and leave you with half-finished goals. Sometimes the very people who mean well can unintentionally disrupt your focus. And sometimes, the people who seem supportive at first change when they realize you’re actually serious.We explore why over-talking creates false progress, how external opinions quietly interfere with clarity, and why protecting your plans is not secrecy — it’s strategy.This conversation is about:working in silence,protecting your energy,staying focused on execution,and understanding that not everyone who smiles is aligned with your growth.You don’t owe everyone access to your vision.People are with you — until they realize you’re truly moving forward.So stay disciplined.Stay private.Let results speak louder than announcements.Because sometimes the most powerful move is to keep your mouth shut and build anyway.

In this teaching, we explore why it’s so important to remain true to who you are — especially when others try to change, edit, or dim you. When you live authentically, you naturally mirror people, and that reflection can make some uncomfortable. Not because you’re doing something wrong, but because your alignment reminds them of who they’ve avoided becoming.We talk about how envy, resentment, and comparison often show up when someone is out of alignment with themselves, and why it’s not your responsibility to shrink, soften, or hold yourself back to make others comfortable. This episode is a reminder that you are the gift, and that there will always be people who appreciate and appreci-love you for being your true self.You’ll also learn practical steps for showing up for yourself consistently, staying grounded in your authenticity, and choosing growth over approval — even when others operate from negativity or misalignment.This conversation is for anyone who’s ready to stop participating in resentment, stop absorbing others’ projections, and start honoring who they are meant to be.Stay aligned.Stay authentic.And keep showing up for yourself — better every day.

Forgiving yourself is not optional — it’s essential. Until self-forgiveness happens, self-love remains blocked, peace stays fragile, and connection with others becomes strained.In this teaching, we explore what forgiveness truly is (and what it is not), why so many people struggle to forgive themselves, and how pretending to be strong, happy, successful, or spiritually “together” often hides deep exhaustion and silent despair. We talk about the cost of carrying guilt, shame, and self-punishment — and how those inner weights quietly drain joy, beauty, and clarity from life.This episode also breaks down how to forgive yourself, how to know when forgiveness has genuinely occurred, and how to live in a way that keeps you ready to forgive — so nothing lingers long enough to steal your peace of mind. Because forgiveness is not a one-time event; it’s a practice that protects your nervous system, your heart, and your future.This conversation is for anyone who has been hard on themselves, stuck in self-judgment, or trying to heal while still carrying blame. It’s a reminder that nothing — no mistake, no person, no past moment — is worth your peace.Forgive yourself.Release what no longer serves you.And allow your life to open in ways you never thought possible.“If this space feels supportive to you, you’re welcome to follow and stay connected.”Also check this out: https://www.sistatokblog.com/2020/07/stop-being-self-righteous-forgive.html?q=forgiveDr. B.

In this episode, we begin by grounding the space and setting clear energetic boundaries — not from fear, but from awareness. Because before any real conversation can happen, there must be clarity, consent, and self-sovereignty.We explore what it truly means to be “chosen” — not as a title of superiority, but as a call to responsibility, integrity, and conscious living. This episode breaks down the difference between spiritual maturity and spiritual performance, and why the path of purpose often comes with misunderstanding, projection, envy, and relational challenges.We talk honestly about how distraction, unhealthy attachments, competition, and lack of boundaries can derail someone who carries vision or leadership energy — and why these experiences are often misinterpreted as mystical attacks instead of psychological, emotional, and relational dynamics that require discernment and grounding.This conversation is not about fear, superstition, or blaming others. It’s about learning how to protect your energy through clarity, self-awareness, and healthy boundaries — and how to walk your path without mythologizing pain or romanticizing struggle.If you’ve ever felt called to something greater but confused by resistance, misunderstood by others, or overwhelmed by the weight of responsibility, this episode offers a grounded perspective: no paranoia, no shortcuts — just awareness, accountability, and growth.Because real power isn’t taken from others.It’s cultivated through clarity, discipline, and self-trust.

In this episode, we confront a hard truth many people avoid: calling yourself spiritual while judging others, competing with their growth, or tapping into their energy is not elevation — it’s avoidance.Stop Judging, Stop Competing, Stop Stealing — Activate Your Own Power is a direct conversation about how comparison, imitation, and energetic dependency quietly block personal growth. We talk about why watching others instead of building yourself leads to stagnation, why using spiritual tools on everyone else but yourself is a form of self-abandonment, and why true spirituality requires discipline, accountability, and self-mastery.This episode also introduces (bonus) ten practical steps to help you break the cycle of judgment, competition, and borrowed identity, and redirect that energy back into your own life. You’ll learn how to detox from comparison, stop outsourcing power, reclaim your focus, and begin activating your own purpose with clarity and integrity.This is not about shame or calling anyone out — it’s about calling you forward. If you’ve ever felt stuck, distracted, or overly focused on what others are doing, this episode is an invitation to come back to yourself and do the real work.Because real power isn’t taken from others.It’s cultivated from within.

So many of us were taught to live for everyone else — to be available, accommodating, strong, and selfless — while quietly neglecting ourselves. Over time, that way of living doesn’t make us more spiritual or loving; it makes us tired, disconnected, and resentful.In this episode, we talk about what it really means to start living for yourself while remaining spiritually aware, conscious, humble, and aligned. Why choosing yourself is not selfish, not egotistical, and not a betrayal of others — but an act of divine responsibility. We explore how to recognize when it’s time to pause, take a break, set boundaries, or walk away completely, without losing your heart or your values.This conversation is about reclaiming your time, honoring your limits, and understanding that caring for yourself allows you to show up more fully, not less. It’s a reminder that spirituality does not require self-neglect, and that living intentionally is one of the highest forms of awareness.If you’ve been taking care of everyone else while putting yourself last, this episode is an invitation to do better — gently, consciously, and unapologetically.Because when you honor yourself, you honor life itself.

Everyone has their own plan, their own timing, and their own calling — yet so many people lose themselves by constantly comparing their journey to someone else’s.In this episode, we talk about how comparison slowly lowers your frequency, disconnects you from your purpose, and keeps you stuck in cycles of doubt, impatience, and self-abandonment. How watching others too closely can delay your own growth, and why the only healthy competition is with the person you were yesterday.We explore why even people who seem “ahead” are not ahead of you, why success is not one-size-fits-all, and why even twins don’t share the same calling. This conversation is a reminder to breathe, slow down, and take your life one step at a time — without rushing, copying, or diminishing yourself.You’ll also learn how to recognize when comparison is affecting your energy, how to clear that low vibration, and how to return to alignment by honoring your own goals, your own path, and your own pace.This episode is for anyone who feels behind, distracted, discouraged, or tempted to measure their worth against others — and is ready to come back home to themselves.Because when you stop comparing, you stop shrinking.And when you honor your calling, everything begins to realign.

So many people could be far ahead in life — not because they lack talent, intelligence, or opportunity, but because they lost themselves trying to be someone else.In this episode, we talk about how judgment, imitation, chasing titles, and copying others can quietly derail your destiny. How identity-hopping, fear of starting over, and craving recognition without mastery keep people stuck — sometimes well into their 40s, 50s, and beyond.We explore the difference between evolution and confusion, between authentic growth and imitation, and why some paths naturally connect while others don’t. This conversation is not about shame — it’s about honesty. About remembering your calling, reclaiming your dignity, and understanding that it’s not too late to realign, refocus, and move forward with integrity.This episode is for anyone who feels scattered, delayed, disconnected from their purpose, or tired of watching others while neglecting themselves.It’s a reminder that:Starting over is not failure.Titles mean nothing without training.Authenticity always outlives imitation.And your life only moves forward when you do.Listen if you’re ready to stop copying, stop pretending, and finally commit to who you truly are.

SistaQueen: The Soul Weaver 🎙️✨ A sacred space for deep conversations, divine wisdom, and soulful healing. This podcast helps you reconnect with yourself, embrace your feminine power, and weave your soul back together—one insight at a time. Join us as we explore spirituality, self-growth, life lessons, and taboo topics in a relaxed yet powerful setting. Through raw discussions and guest insights, you’ll find guidance, motivation, and the tools to attract the life you truly deserve. Healing happens at your own pace. Tune in, align, and let your soul remember. https://amzn.to/3qNBp1E #Selfcarelove #bestpodcast #2025 #Reconnectwithself #SelfDevelopment

Don’t allow conditions to be god of your life You are still on the throne you’re still in control. Now rise up.

Focus on yourself. You deserve the absolute best.

practice affirmation regularly for best result be consistent

In this episode, we have a heartfelt conversation with a USA Artist of Haytian background. He’s a master teacher in the topic of how to find Light& Hope during life’s journey & in the darkest places. He’s a master painter for over 35 years. He’s a teacher in the arts world from painting, poetry, writing to pottery. He further strikes his painting brushes for designs on totes, bags, clothes & the likes. He’s a master creator where he uses his hands abundantly making a very fruitful, productive & successful artist. He’s a creator in many forms. In his pastime, he creates backup batteries & other efficient gadgets just for the fun of it. He also takes time to teach the youngsters of today about painting in its profundity. Mr. Herode Guirand you are a beacon of Light thank you for sharing your insights & wisdom with us today. We’re looking forward to having more enriching & inspiring discussion with you. Thank you Dr. Love 💗

It is important to know that you matter therefore, every single thing you do also matters. Now more than ever, you must be careful about how you invest your time, your energy, and of course, your money too! You must ensure that you protect your environment, your boundaries, and still your energy again! So be wise and stay wise, watch how you handle your life. Does it demonstrate that you care about yourself? Do you feel like you matter because over here you certainly do?  Enjoy! SistaQueen

Too many times SistaQueens, we end up burning out because we simply give so much of ourselves to others that often don't know how to love back or refuse to reciprocate kindness and empathy. So it is time for you to take a different approach to things, take a listen! - SistaQueen  Like Share & Subcribe 

Many times you may find yourself playing small because you don't want others to feel uncomfortable, left out or left behind. Today, it's time to take your power back. Let's take a listen to this wonderful message today.  Don't be shy, share with a friend. Be a good friend, and share! -- SistaQueen 

Many times in our lives, instead of asking the right questions about things, we instead wonder where are our answers. Meaning we want things done, and we want the outcome, but we reject the process. So in this conversation, I invite you to pick yourself through self-elevation as it is pivotal to your next phase in life.  So let's learn & grow together. Thank you for being part of my world! SistaQueen

It's so easy for us Black Queens to turn around taking care of everybody else while neglecting ourselves. Then the same ones we saved, turn around and laugh at us for our hair and nails not keeping up with Hollywood's standards.  We have given birth to humanity, we created humanity because without us there is no humanity.  Therefore, it is time for us to enjoy too just a little bit of our hard work so we're taking a break and we will go to lunch, and be like everyone else for once.  Let's see if we're not missed.  Be sure to share, subscribe, and tell a friend to do the same.  Peace, BlessUp, and keep it up.  SistaQueen.  Click here for the journal I am My sista's keeper It's a Gratitude Journal by My Littl' Workshop  Click here for more journals. 

Sometimes, people think they're laughing at you but, in reality, they're laughing at themselves. So, if you ever come across a situation like that. Be sure to act like you're deaf, and keep it moving.  Stay focus on yourself, otherwise, you will miss precious times that you won't be able to get back.  Be sure to listen completely, I have a surprise at the end, also share & subscribe.  Peace, BlessUp, and have the desired day you wanted. SistaQueen.

Many times, we worry about things that we cannot change or have no control over.  So I invite you to listen to this carefully and apply these suggestions as you see fit in your life.  Be sure to share and subscribe.  SistaQueen.

Let's talk about that feeling where you think you're the family or community shock absorber, but deep inside you're still hurting just as much as them or even more inside.  Let's take a listen. 

You know when you thought you met that someone that truly made you melt or almost in this case. And then they disappointed you at a time you least expected it.   So listen up and share with a friend. - SistaQueen.

Hang in there!

If you have any questions, feel free to send me a message. Thank you for stopping by!  Remember to go on Amazon and get a My Littl' Workshop Journal, they're wonderful and will be very helpful to your life.  Stay safe, be a blessing and stay blessed.  Your SistaQueen. 

Beautiful Poetry shared with you this moment. Hope you get to appreciate it. 

Regardless of what people have to say about you, always make sure to take good care of yourself, you are all you got.  When you're no longer convenient to them, they'll try to blame you and use other things against but don't go low, keep going high and take good care of yourself.

This is a great piece that you ought to get familiar with.  There is nothing more important than to have love, peace and blessings.  And without peace, there is only so much that you can accomplish.  That you want to achieve love, there must be peace.  If you also want to achieve success, at some point there must be peace because there's only so much you can accomplish in chaos.  Due to our teachings growing up and certain upbringings, there may be a myriad of things that have passed unnoticed by you until something happens.  Here, I am saying, no matter what you're going through always ensure that your intimate peace is not only never affected but also keep that piece of peace only for you.  Always leave a spot that belongs to you and only you.  Don't share it with anyone else, but make sure it is safe in a place where peace cannot be found easily, in your environment and so on.  You deserve to have peace but even when or what we deserve at times may be lacking, it does not mean that you can't strive for it.  So let's get into it.  Your SistaQueen, wishing you well especially peace of mind. 

Right now, many are shaking and very concerned.  Some are still very shaken and confused by everything that is taking place.  Some others never even knew what hit them.  However, in the midst of it all, amid this daily chaos, we are here.  No matter what is happening, we cannot take our time for granted.  So every day, we have to learn to be better and do better.   I command you if you are out there right now saving lives while endangering your own.  This is the ultimate price that anyone can pay and nothing can repay this precious act.  I pray that you stay safe with your family and I wish you well.  Please take a listen to this and share with your friends and family.  Be safe. Your SistaQueen.

Today Mark's three years since I had a terrible car accident, but I'm here. I'm still here. I wrote this poem to share my gratitude with you. Thank you for listening.

Especially during this challenging time, one must stay in gratitude.  Hearing that, so many have always lost a relative, a friend, or even lost their own lives while mining their business or interceding for others in need.  So we all lost someone or know someone who did even if it's not so personally, we are all in pain that we know it or not.  When you look at the news and seeing familiar faces that you might not know but still can relate to, is still a loss as if you knew them because we have similar stories and histories; single, married, divorced, or separated, or widowed; we have similar stories.  Therefore, we are more alike than we will ever know.  At this challenging and sensitive time, I can only challenge you to stay in gratitude as it is one of the way, if not the only way, to appreciate what is - which you're alive if you're reading this because thousands of others since the beginning of this year won't get to do such.  Therefore, you must remain in gratitude, it's an order.   Also, we're about to enter a new month, what a great way to start it.  You be safe if you must be out there as an essential worker that it may be at the hospital, rehab or nursing home, daycare, gas station or a food mart, we appreciate you.  Also, this is the last podcast for season 1 (January to March).   Let's get into it.  SistaQueen. 

I know there are a lot of concerns regarding this current virus that have devastated many families, multiple states and not excluding countries.  I am inviting you to listen to this and share with your friends and family.  In the meantime, let's also share some good news.  Someone shared the following and I thought it was perfect for this post.  Let’s talk some GOOD NEWS, shall we? It's reported that: China has closed down its last coronavirus hospital. Not enough new cases to support them.   Doctors in India have been successful in treating Coronavirus. Combination of drugs used: Lopinavir, Retonovir, Oseltamivir along with Chlorphenamine. They are going to suggest same medicine, globally.  Researchers of the Erasmus Medical Center claim to have found an antibody against coronavirus.  A 103-year-old Chinese grandmother has made a full recovery from COVID-19 after being treated for 6 days in Wuhan, China.  Apple reopens all 42 china stores.  Cleveland Clinic developed a COVID-19 test that gives results in hours, not days.  Good news from South Korea, where the number of new cases is declining.  Italy is hit hard, experts say, only because they have the oldest population in Europe.  Scientists in Israel likely to announce the development of a coronavirus vaccine.  A network of Canadian scientists are making excellent progress in Covid-19 research.  A San Diego biotech company is developing a Covid-19 vaccine in collaboration with Duke University and National University of Singapore.  Plasma from newly recovered patients from Covid -19 can treat others infected by Covid-19. So it's not ALL bad news. Let's care for each other and stay focused on safety of those most vulnerable. Focus on the positive, there are more alive than otherwise. SistaQueen.

A lot of times, we can say nice things about other people, but when it comes to saying "I am" in a nice and positive, and empowered way, we get scared.  We are afraid that people will think, we are too blunt, too raw, too proud.  However, if we are not saying "I am" in a positive way, so we are most likely saying it, in a negative way.   So learn to be bold and say your "I am" correctly.  This is your 5-minute podcast.  Regards, SistaQueen.

Many times, you are about to get what you need but for whatever reason, you get stuck with the past or that your hands are too busy, so you miss out on the opportunity to gain more since you're too afraid to let go.  You got to learn to let go of what's not working, let go of the past and other things that are not working.  Grow with the new things, open up to receive the new things and accept the new things.  Allow yourself to dream a bit.  DOn't fight for what might not be yours.  If there's any doubt, then, it's not for you.  However, whatever that's yours is yours.  No matter where you end up in the world, no matter what you do, no matter what you become; what's yours is for you.  There's no doubt about that.   What's yours is yours and it's getting closer but you're not getting nearer because you won't open up and take a leap.  A leap of faith, a leap of trust, a leap in receiving what you've been waiting for all along.  So open your mind to receive.  Regards, SistaQueen.

After going through everything that you've been through, you learn.  You get to learn the many lessons that came along the way.  Every day, you get to grow because you learned from your mishap.  Some may need to learn more than once or twice, but eventually, they learn, they have to for there's no other option.   This is an affirmation that you can use once you know that you're ready to move forward unto love, to share your life with someone.  The issue is that we often think that we need to be with someone, to behave like we are with someone, but the reality is, when you're manifesting the best, you act like you're with the best before the best even arrives.  So attachez vos centures (put on your seatbelts), let's go! Regards,  SistaQueen. 

Often times in life, some of us get hurt through the course of looking for love and someone to share our lives with.  Since the ache, we often stop looking and remain into solitary confinement, yet we are not jailed but we chose to cage ourselves like a little bird because we are afraid.  However, have we had the proper idea when we first started, have we had the proper background and support, we would have done better.   Just like it's never too late to do good, the same goes for, it's never too late to love.  All you got to do is stop, take a break, realize who you are, redefine yourself, take your time, learn and get to know yourself better than you ever did before, focus on moving forward and don't look back no matter what.  You are worth finding good love, and anyone who thinks otherwise does not deserve your friendship.  You made mistakes perhaps, or someone treated you wrong because you didn't know any better, but today you do, so get up, shake it off and get on with life and love.  There's so much more pending for you this instant. So let's get into it.  SistaQueen. 

The question is "are you in your life"?  Many times, we are looking for people to be in our lives whilst we are not even in our lives or we cannot bear to be in our own lives unless we are accompanied by someone else.  The reality is, if you're scared to be in your own life alone, how can someone else be comfortable in your space. If they run away, it's within reason because in reality, you too, are running away from your own self.  So in this podcast today, we discussed some questions to ask yourself and the potential other.  Also, we talked about some ideas when looking for someone.  Meaning, some ideas about what you want, who you want.  A lot of times, we want what we want but we are not able to verbalize it.  So let's get into it. SistaQueen.

When it comes to relationships, things come from simple to complex.  There may be many reasons for getting together but, at the end of the end, all you need is one to break up.  This is the case here, let's dive into it. SistaQueen.

Some are simply born nurturers, therefore, they are just ready to take of everyone at any time.  Don't you have one person in your life that you can think of as the caretaker for everyone?  Some people are just willing to.  I am one, but over time, I learned to do better and sometimes, I still fall prey to some trickers but I am still here.  I don't know where you are in your life when it comes to helping and assisting others.  However, this show is a great one, you should take some time and listen to it.  Feel free to share with others, I don't mind.  Thank you for your presence. Your SistaQueen!

I know that you too are looking for happiness because at the end of the day, isn't everyone or at least the majority; looking for something or someone to make them happy.  What if I told you that I knew where Happiness and I knew just the path to get there.  Would you come with me? Can you trust me for less than half-hour and let me guide you to the fountain of happiness.  It's always a pleasure serving you, remember to like and share, someone you know needs to hear this.  SistaQueen. Let's go!

There are times, we keep sheltering people that, at some points, we should have let out in the rain. Ok fine, maybe not the rain, but you're facilitating support, help and sponsorship to someone who is not only ingrate but careless about the whole situation as if you owe it to them.  No matter how much you do, it's never enough.  It's bad enough when it's children, not your mate too?!   I know it sounds cold coming out of someone like me to say but at what price will you keep saving people that obviously don't even want to be saved.  Is your part of your purpose or calling to save people, if so, how come you're not saving people because to date; you've only focused on your date, not humanity.  When you say something, listen to yourself as well; because a lot of times, people just say things to say so; not to accomplish anything.  Speak with purpose, do all you do with purpose and you'll find yourself regaining all of the time that, at some point, you thought you lost.  Close the rehab because it's full of toxicity and they're pulling you down.  They are not allowing you to grow properly.  You are worth it, you are special and a capable human being.  Don't get stuck in situations.  Don't be stuck on life's distractions.  You are better than that.  You are important too.  Thank you for listening and special thanks for sharing with friends and family, and even your clients too.  Best regards, let's dive in!  Your SistaQueen.

Many times in a relationship, we never really think of the day that we would part and then when it happens, it's as if it's the end of the world but it's not.  No, it's not.  It's not the end at all, instead, it's merely the beginning.  I want to challenge you in this podcast to take a break up as if it's a good thing or turn it into a good thing.  I challenge to make the best out of yourself after or because of it, or better yet because of yourself.  Make the best out of it.  When a storm or flood comes, it feels as though it took everything with it but that's not true.  It did not, it simply took the excess and now you're left with what you need.  Please listen to this patiently and with an open heart.  A break up is not the end of the world, it will not make Jesus come, I promise, life will go on and everything will continue to function.  Let's keep an open ear for this podcast, you're going to have so much fun! Take a listen.  SistaQueen.

Do you know or realize that in life, we tolerate way too much.  We allowed all types of craziness in our lives and therefore, when they misbehave we cannot say or do anything because we knew about the crazy and still move forward with everything.  So I know you did it too, was it worth it?  Would you do it again?  If anything or anyone is in your life and they're not producing anything good to you and for you, let it go.  Stop holding on to dead things thinking that you're Jesus cause obviously you're not him, they are still dead.  Let the dead be with the dead.  I remember one time, someone who could have done so much damage to my life talked about we can be friends again because they supposedly apologized, I was sure to reply "why are the dead speaking to the living" and I meant it.  When I look over what they've done, for someone who was as close to me to have done that, which was very petty; to me, you're not a friend and no we can't keep in touch.  Because obviously, he could see my potential and in case things blow up with me in a good way, he didn't want to miss out.  So the same goes, when you feel that someone is doing you good, speak LIFE over your life and walk away.  Sometimes, it's friends; other times it may be family.  It doesn't matter what it is that is dead in your environment, let it go; call the fumigator, the extinguishers and clear the smell that's suffocating you.   So many dare to speak negativity over your life but it's all up to you to know if you are going to accept it, or simply reject it.  Learn to let people know when you don't receive it so they know better next time such thought should parade their head.  Don't get comfortable in people's nonsense and toxicity.  Just know this and print this and put it on your door, your wall, your timeless, tweet it, and hell make tea with it if you must; "if they don't speak LIFE unto you, it simply means it's time for them to go.  Know that whatever you entertain today will eventually come to pass, so say no and walk away.  Speak life over your life and no one can deter you from your path, and eventually, if you ever do, you'll find your way again as if nothing ever happened.   So take a listen.  I won't be insulted or hurt if you share this with your friend.  SistaQueen 

Many times when we go to heartbreaks, no one likes or enjoys that feeling because it makes you powerless.  Especially if you're the one that's left behind.  It does not feel like there's anything you can do to make it work or have them change their minds.  So instead you're left wondering who are they with, who is that, that's better than you and so on.  However, must I be honest? That's not your job.  It's not your job to worry about what that person will do or is doing, but to worry about your own self.  When such a thing happens to you, it's time for you to learn to be self-full and do what works for you.  Stop focusing on saving the world but save yourself and the world will be saved through you.  So in their podcast, we will discuss the various things or steps that you can take when trying to cope with a breakup.   Please take a listen!  In case if it is easier to listen on Youtube, just click the link! SistaQueen.

In this podcast, I'd like to discuss relationship especially when it's not working out.  I am suggesting as the topic to STAY instead of running away.  Relationships can start so simple but somehow ends up so complex that we can merely communicate by the end of it.  This topic itself has so much information, so many branches, compartments, and so many opinions...  There is happiness that can be found when we share love but it's not going to happen unless you know how to. We are all sensitive our own ways, and none of us should not dictate to the other how to feel or how to be, and that's where lies a lot of the issues that eventually arise in relationships.  Do you ever wonder what would life be like if you decide to be happy?  If you dared to focus solely on things that made you happy, how and where would you be right now?  If you knew how to utilize your resources, where would you be? Many times when relationships don't work out it is not because the people in it, don't love each other but often times it's because they eventually dislike each other.  They just don't know how to like each other anymore, yet they most likely still love each other.  Have you ever challenged yourself to be happy no matter what?  Tell yourself that I'm going to be happy no matter what.  Many times, relationships don't work out because of the friends and family involved but when the two individuals are alone, all is well. When in relationship, if you want to work out, you must be the source of your happiness and the source of your own resources.  You must be in receptive mode to receive what else you're needing and when you don't skip over it.  You got to find your own source of energy flowing, you cannot count or blame another for the things you're supposed to do for yourself, you don't want to be dependent on things you can do yourself.  For example, if you're able to chew your own food because you're no longer a baby, would you let someone else chew your food for you?  You're able to hook to your own resource, so do that for no one is the source of your happiness, sorry to break it to you like this. So we are here to discuss, "when your relationship no longer works, STAY".   So listen up!!!  Also, share this link with another.  It is not easy to be the source of energy for anyone.  The same way you may not want to be that, the same way, another does not want that either. Best regards, SistaQueen Rev. Dr. Marie Brevil

In this podcast, I'd like to discuss relationship especially when it's not working out.  I am suggesting as the topic to STAY instead of running away.  Relationships can start so simple but somehow ends up so complex that we can merely communicate by the end of it.  This topic itself has so much information, so many branches, compartments, and so many opinions...  There is happiness that can be found when we share love but it's not going to happen unless you know how to. We are all sensitive our own ways, and none of us should not dictate to the other how to feel or how to be, and that's where lies a lot of the issues that eventually arise in relationships.  Do you ever wonder what would life be like if you decide to be happy?  If you dared to focus solely on things that made you happy, how and where would you be right now?  If you knew how to utilize your resources, where would you be? Many times when relationships don't work out it is not because the people in it, don't love each other but often times it's because they eventually dislike each other.  They just don't know how to like each other anymore, yet they most likely still love each other.  Have you ever challenged yourself to be happy no matter what?  Tell yourself that I'm going to be happy no matter what.  Many times, relationships don't work out because of the friends and family involved but when the two individuals are alone, all is well. When in relationship, if you want to work out, you must be the source of your happiness and the source of your own resources.  You must be in receptive mode to receive what else you're needing and when you don't skip over it.  You got to find your own source of energy flowing, you cannot count or blame another for the things you're supposed to do for yourself, you don't want to be dependent on things you can do yourself.  For example, if you're able to chew your own food because you're no longer a baby, would you let someone else chew your food for you?  You're able to hook to your own resource, so do that for no one is the source of your happiness, sorry to break it to you like this. So we are here to discuss, "when your relationship no longer works, STAY".   So listen up!!!  Also, share this link with another.  It is not easy to be the source of energy for anyone.  The same way you may not want to be that, the same way, another does not want that either. Best regards, SistaQueen Rev. Dr. Marie Brevil

In this podcast, I'd like to discuss relationship especially when it's not working out.  I am suggesting as the topic to STAY instead of running away.  Relationships can start so simple but somehow ends up so complex that we can merely communicate by the end of it.  This topic itself has so much information, so many branches, compartments, and so many opinions...  There is happiness that can be found when we share love but it's not going to happen unless you know how to.    We are all sensitive our own ways, and none of us should not dictate to the other how to feel or how to be, and that's where lies a lot of the issues that eventually arise in relationships.  Do you ever wonder what would life be like if you decide to be happy?  If you dared to focus solely on things that made you happy, how and where would you be right now?  If you knew how to utilize your resources, where would you be?   Many times when relationships don't work out it is not because the people in it, don't love each other but often times it's because they eventually dislike each other.  They just don't know how to like each other anymore, yet they most likely still love each other.  Have you ever challenged yourself to be happy no matter what?  Tell yourself that I'm going to be happy no matter what.  Many times, relationships don't work out because of the friends and family involved but when the two individuals are alone, all is well.   When in relationship, if you want to work out, you must be the source of your happiness and the source of your own resources.  You must be in receptive mode to receive what else you're needing and when you don't skip over it.  You got to find your own source of energy flowing, you cannot count or blame another for the things you're supposed to do for yourself, you don't want to be dependent on things you can do yourself.  For example, if you're able to chew your own food because you're no longer a baby, would you let someone else chew your food for you?  You're able to hook to your own resource, so do that for no one is the source of your happiness, sorry to break it to you like this.   So we are here to discuss, "when your relationship no longer works, STAY".   So listen up!!!  Also, share this link with another.  It is not easy to be the source of energy for anyone.  The same way you may not want to be that, the same way, another does not want that either.  Best regards,  SistaQueen  Rev. Dr. Marie Brevil 

Hello there, I am your SistaQueen.   This podcast was created to keep in touch with you after all this time. I have missed you and missed talking with you.  Here we will discuss lifestyle, inspiration, and motivation, in ways to have a better or improved quality of life.  This will be a safe place to discuss various challenges that we are confronting in today's world.  Hence while here, we will also share knowledge and information, again all in the hope to make our lives better.  You're welcome here! Rev. Dr. Marie Brevil

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