Talking With The Benzis

In this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald talks to Kenzie about nothing really. This is a good passing the time kinda episode. Grab a drink, have a drag and sit back and enjoy a hangout session with these two drinking buddies of yours.

On this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald and cohost Kenzie dive into the lighthearted — and sometimes unexpected — tradition of April Fools’ Day.Gerald kicks things off with a childhood story that left a lasting impression, sharing a prank that genuinely frightened him and ultimately shaped his decision to steer clear of celebrating the day altogether. His story brings a surprising depth to what is often seen as a playful holiday.Kenzie follows up with her own memories, reflecting on growing up in a household where pranks were part of the fun. She recalls one unforgettable trick pulled by her mother that still stands out to this day, offering a contrast to Gerald’s experience and highlighting how differently the tradition can be lived.As the conversation unfolds, the two explore common traditions associated with April Fools’ Day, from harmless jokes to more elaborate setups, and where the line should be drawn between fun and fear.They wrap up the episode on a meaningful note, recognizing that April 1st holds an even deeper significance for Gerald — it’s also his daughter’s birthday — adding a heartfelt layer to a day often known for mischief.

In this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald talks to co-host Kenzie about the current world view on women and how their strength is perceived. The conversation ends with a take on the current status of the manosphere. Join Talking with Benzis for a fun conversation that also addresses important issues, if want to be part of this fun podcast you can email at: [email protected]

In this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald and cohost Kenzie kick off Women’s History Month with a heartfelt and flavorful conversation about one of the foundations of their relationship—food.The episode begins with the couple reflecting on their shared connection through meals and the role food has played in bringing them closer together. Kenzie shares how deeply she values Gerald’s cooking and how his meals have become a meaningful expression of love and care in their relationship. She laughs about how much she enjoys being on the receiving end of Gerald’s home-cooked dishes, while Gerald gives Kenzie credit for helping expand his palate over the years. He shares how her influence encouraged him to try new things, especially seafood, which he once avoided but now enjoys exploring.In celebration of Women History Month, they dive into a book Kenzie finished reading recently. This episode is focused on empowering women and shining the light on the abuse women experience in relationships. The Book is called Why does he do that? by Lundy Bancroft. Enjoy some snippets from the book and a candid conversation between these two hosts. Happy Women History Month!

In this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald sits down with cohost Kenzie during their final week of celebrating Black History Month. Together, they honor the richness of Black stories, knowledge, and legacy—starting right at home.Kenzie opens up her personal library, sharing a special collection of children’s books centered on Black history—stories that affirm identity, celebrate culture, and plant seeds of confidence in young readers. From vibrant illustrations to empowering narratives, she highlights why representation on the bookshelf matters just as much as it does in the world. Kenzie then dives into some of her favorite autobiographies, drawing inspiration from figures like Malcom X.This episode is a celebration of stories, growth, and the enduring power of reading. As Black History Month comes to a close, Gerald and Kenzie leave listeners encouraged to keep learning, keep listening, and keep seeking truth—because liberation begins in the mind.

In this first ever video episode of Talking with the Benzis, Gerald and Kenzie lean into reflection, awareness, and action as they center their conversation around Black History Month.Kenzie shares how her school intentionally honored the month with daily themes dedicated to celebrating Black excellence, resilience, culture, and leadership. Gerald jumps in asking which themes resonated most deeply with her and why — leading to an exchange about education, and the importance of representation.Together, they unpack the idea of patriarchy and systemic power — reflecting on how influence ultimately lies with the people, even when the majority may not recognize their collective strength. They close the episode with a unified message: Black history is not confined to a month, and social justice requires continuous advocacy.

In this episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald and cohost Kenzie unpack their recent viewing of Frankenstein and find themselves completely captivated. From the jaw-dropping makeup artistry to the way the director’s bold vision unfolds on screen, they share their awe at how the film brings a classic story to life in such a striking way.The conversation about the cinematic and literary interpretations of Mary Shelley's Frankenstein goes deeper as Gerald and Kenzie compare their recent reading of the book to the movie. They explore the timeless and somewhat parallel narrative at the heart of Frankenstein—the tension between creator and creation. They reflect on how this theme still resonates today, sparking thoughts about responsibility, identity, and what happens when our creations no longer align with our intentions.It’s a thoughtful, conversation—perfect for movie and book lovers alike.

In this episode of Talking with the Benzi’s, host Gerald sits down with his cohost Kenzie to reflect on a powerful shared experience—watching Hell’s Kitchen, the Broadway play by the legendary Alicia Keys. Together, they unpack their thoughts on the production and celebrate the artistry behind it. Kenzie takes a heartfelt trip down memory lane, recalling how her mother introduced her to the artist, while Gerald shares his own teenage discovery and growing awareness of Alicia Keys during her rise.

In this episode of Talking with the Benzi’s, Gerry and Kenzie play a thought-provoking game sparked by the chaos of the real world. Gerry asks Kenzie to imagine what a perfect world would look like if she were the creator—what stays, what changes, and what she’d leave behind. Later, the tables turn as Gerry has to answer the same question himself. What starts as a creative exercise becomes a coping mechanism, offering moments of reflection, humor, and honesty. As always, the conversation is sprinkled with the relatable moments of a real couple navigating ideas, emotions, and each other as the episode unfolds.

In this episode of Talking with the Benzi’s, Kenzie and Gerald dive into a thoughtful conversation about Pocahontas and the impact the story has had over the years. Gerald shares his honest reactions to the film, expressing disbelief and questioning the validity of the story as it’s been presented, especially when viewed through a brown person's lens.Kenzie responds by reflecting on how young she was when she was first introduced to the movie and what it meant to experience the story at that stage in her life. She also highlights the role Disney plays in introducing sensitive and complex stories to the public, making them more approachable and consumable for wide audiences. Together, they explore how perspective, age, and storytelling shape the way we understand these narratives, making for a reflective and engaging episode that blends nostalgia with deeper conversation.

In this episode of Talking with the Benzi’s, Gerald and Kenzie sit down to share their expectations for the new year and what they’re hoping to step into next. Kenzie opens up about one of her biggest goals yet—becoming a homeowner—and what that milestone would mean for her. Gerald joins the conversation by weighing in on where he sees them planting roots, comparing their current neighborhood with another area they’ve had their eyes on.As the conversation flows, Kenzie takes a fun tangent into the world of Disney, bringing up Pocahontas—a movie Gerald surprisingly hasn’t seen yet. The moment sparks laughter, curiosity, and a shared decision: they’ll finally watch it together and break it down in the next episode. It’s a thoughtful, lighthearted conversation about dreams, decisions, and the little pop-culture moments that make planning the future even more fun. 🎙️✨

In this festive BONUS episode of Talking with the Benzi’s, host Gerald sits down with cohost Kenzie to reflect on how they’re celebrating Christmas this year. Kenzie shares how she decided to gift herself an unforgettable experience centered around her favorite singer and actor, embracing the joy of doing something meaningful just for herself. Together, Gerald and Kenzie soak in the nostalgia of the season, reminiscing about their very first Christmas date and how it shaped their love for holiday traditions. Gerald also highlights the Christmas shows and movies they enjoy watching every year—and teases which ones have made it onto their watchlist this season. It’s a reflective conversation full of memories, traditions, and holiday cheer. 🎄✨

In this heartfelt holiday episode of Talking with the Benzis, host Gerald sits down with co-host Kenzie to reflect on their childhood Christmas traditions and how different worlds shaped their experiences. Gerald opens up about growing up with a “third world” Christmas, where the season looked and felt very different from the more traditional “first world” holidays Kenzie experienced as a child.Together, they explore how those contrasting upbringings influenced what Christmas means to them today. As a married couple, Gerald and Kenzie share the traditions they’ve created for themselves—intentionally borrowing pieces from their past while leaving others behind. This episode is a thoughtful conversation about gratitude, growth, and blending two histories into one shared holiday season. 🎄

In this nostalgia-filled episode, hosts Gerald and Kenzie take a trip back to the entertainment that shaped their childhoods. Makenzie looks back on her star-child era—so well-behaved and impressive that her parents thought, “Let’s run it back!” and decided to have more kids in hopes of recreating the magic.Gerald, on the other hand, recalls his mischievous mission to infiltrate his mother’s circle of friends just to score some juicy grown-up gossip. From living-room antics to early reality-TV stakes, nothing was off-limits.The duo also bond over their shared love of The Proud Family, which they’re currently rewatching together—rediscovering the humor, heart, and cultural impact that made it a childhood staple.Tune in for laughs, memories, and the Benzis being their authentic, entertaining selves.

Episode Title: I Am Closer to MyselfPodcast: Talking With The BenzisHosts: Kenzie & GeraldAfter a long hiatus, Talking With The Benzis is back. In this reflective and honest episode, Kenzie and Gerald open up about the major life changes that have unfolded since their last recording.Kenzie shares what it’s been like transitioning from the private sector into public service — the surprises, the challenges, and how the shift has reshaped her sense of purpose. Meanwhile, Gerald talks candidly about closing his trucking company, the emotional and practical weight of that decision, and his search for a new career path that feels more aligned with who he’s becoming.Together, they explore what it means to grow, to pivot, and to get closer to your true self, even when the journey feels uncertain. It’s a warm, thoughtful return — and a reminder that change, while difficult, can also be deeply clarifying.Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that marks a new chapter for both the hosts and the podcast.