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Tea at Four
by Four Nine
Hi, and welcome to Tea At Four, where Lauren, Christie and Billy take conversations beyond the group chat. Featuring guests, from celebrities to leading experts, our hosts dive deep, spill the tea, and ask the questions Gen Z and millennials genuinely want answered. Enter the chat every Thursday... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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I Run A Brothel, This Is How We Keep Women Safe...
What really happens behind the red lights of one of Europe’s biggest legal brothels? This week on Tea At Four, Billy and Lauren sit down with Catherine De Noir, a psychology graduate turned manager of a massive, 100-room "ethical" brothel. From the strict “8-Second Rule” that keeps every woman safe, to the mind-blowing reality that top earners are making €50,000 per month, Catherine pulls back the curtain on an industry shrouded in stigma.Connect with Catherine:Instagram: @catherine_de_noire
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I Was Addicted To Chemsex, Then OnlyFans Saved Me
In this unfiltered episode of Tea At Four, Mason shares how the "Chemsex" epidemic nearly cost him his life, the reality of "slamming" drugs, and the surprising way OnlyFans became his road to recovery and sobriety.We dive deep into the taboo side of the gay community that no one is talking about, from the "Tina" (crystal m*th) crisis to the dangers of GHB and the rise of breeder parties. Mason reveals the physical toll of a 4-year addiction, including the sepsis scare that changed everything, and how he retrained his brain to experience intimacy without substances.Follow Mason here: https://linktr.ee/masoncrossxxx
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"My OCD made me think I was a paedophile" - the dark intrusive thoughts nobody talks about
TRIGGER WARNINGWhat happens when your own mind becomes your worst enemy? Today on Tea At Four, Billy and Christie are joined by Molly Lambert (@mollambert) for an unfiltered conversation about the side of OCD the world rarely sees.Molly opens up about her journey with POCD (Paedophilic Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), a theme of OCD characterised by distressing, intrusive thoughts. At 15, Molly believed she was a "monster," leading to a terrifying spiral of "suicide or prison."In this episode, we break down:⭐️ The difference between OCD and General Anxiety.⭐️ Why OCD isn't just about "being clean."⭐️ How Molly moved from "mental torture" to recovery.⭐️ The stigma men and women face when speaking about intrusive thoughts.
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Being A Woman In The Royal Navy: Missions, Travel & Social Life
What’s life really like as a woman in the Royal Navy for 33 years? From staying fit and navigating life at sea, what cabin life is like and the challenges of being a woman in a male-dominated environment, Warrant Officer Angie Cheal MBE joins Lauren and Christie to share her experience!In this episode, we explore:The truth about "Military Discipline"How the Navy unlocks huge travel & sporting opportunitiesThe "8% Woman" RatioFrom "Coddled" to MBE: How the Navy makes you resilient.Inside the cabins: Wi-Fi, makeup, and "suitcases."Find out more about the roles in the Royal Navy here: https://www.royalnavy.mod.uk/careers?utm_source=fournine&utm_medium=paidsocial&utm_campaign=+Burst_2_2025&utm_content=VT_Carousel
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I'm An Escort Who Helps Disabled People Explore Intimacy
What happens behind the closed doors of a "Dungeon Boudoir"? Today on Tea At Four, Billy and Lauren sit down with Spicy Saurora, a sexologist and dominatrix who is redefining what it means to be a "healer."From navigating sex with spinal cord injuries and muscular dystrophy to the viral world of inflatable fetishes, Saurora shares the unfiltered truth about her work. We ask the question; should intimacy be considered a part of human care?
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I'm A Botox Doctor - The Truth Behind Celebrity Botox and Ozempic Face
Why are celebrities suddenly looking "natural" again, and what exactly is "Ozempic Face"? We’re joined by London’s top aesthetic doctor, Dr. Motox, to spill the tea on celebrity filler secrets, the dangers of backstreet procedures like penile filler, and the skincare that actually works. In this episode of Tea At Four, Lauren and Billy sit down with Dr. Mo (Dr. Motox) for an unfiltered look into the world of cosmetic procedures in 2026. From debunking the myth that filler "dissolves" to revealing the truth behind Kylie Jenner’s Golden Globes look and Molly-Mae’s lip transformation, no topic is off-limits.We dive deep into:The "Clean Girl" Aesthetic: Why celebrities are lying about being "natural."Ozempic & Weight Loss Jabs: How rapid weight loss is changing the face of beauty.The Risks: From blindness to lip necrosis - what your injector isn’t telling you.Taboo Procedures: The wild reality of penis filler and why Dr. Moe refuses to do it.The Prescription: The exact skincare brands (Medik8, Sarah V, La Roche-Posay) that actually produce results.👇Follow Dr. Mo👇❤️ https://www.instagram.com/dr.motox/?h...⭐️ https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.motox?lang=en
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I'm a 73 year old escort after being celibate for 40 years...
From 40 years of religious celibacy to becoming the UK’s most famous 73-year-old escort. Caroline Vee is pulling back the curtain on the things that usually stay in the group chat.In this episode of Tea At Four, Billy and Lauren sit down with the iconic "Busty Granny," Caroline Vee. After a lifetime in the church and struggling with her mental health, Caroline had a sexual awakening at 57 that changed everything. Now, at 73, she’s sharing the unfiltered truth about the escorting industry, her youngest clients, and the bizarre requests that even shocked us.We’re talking everything from "poo sandwiches" and "dead mother’s nighties" to why sex actually saved her life. This is a masterclass in confidence, pleasure, and living life on your own terms, no matter your age! Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Should you reveal your identity on a first date? Trans woman answers your dilemmas
We’re back with Lauren and Billy, and joined by special guest Seana Momsen, a Trans Bengali woman who’s keen to share her journey from being born a boy in a culture that doesn’t accept her true self, to becoming the first Bengali Trans woman in a Bollywood film.We talk about whether you should reveal your identity on a first date, and how to deal with discrimination in day to day life. She has an inspiring story and outlook on life, and isn’t afraid to dive deep into how she found her chosen family through the world of online gaming. Seana opens up about the most invasive questions she gets asked ("What's between your legs?"), navigating intimacy with men who don't know, and the heartbreaking moment a man followed her around a club to expose her identity. We also dive into family dynamics, cultural expectations, and navigating the world of sex work.Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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"You’re Not A Real Lesbian" - Leigh Harris Chats The Toxic Backlash Since MAFS UK
We're back! And today on Tea At Four we're spilling all the Married At First Sight UK tea with Leigh Harris. We're going past the edit to find out what happened when the cameras stopped rolling, why Leigh got so much hate and how she'd dealt with the backlash, and why people think she's 'not a real lesbian'.We also dive deep into toxic dating life, and the shortage of masc lesbians right now...Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Pixie Lott spills on her pop nostalgia and her new Christmas film with Bend It Like Beckham icon
It's never too early for Christmas on Tea At Four, and Pixie Lott feels the same! The 00's pop icon joins Lauren and Billy to discuss her new Christmas film, Christmas Karma, and they get into the spirit by diving into Pixie's ghost of pop past, present and future.We talk about the nostalgia that Pixie's music brings up, from X-Factor to walking the school halls with the girls. Pixie tells us how she can't believe it's been so long, and who her pop icons were back in the day. We also cover Pixie's current Spotify playlist, and the TV show opportunities that almost were...Christmas Karma will land in cinemas 14th November across the UK & Ireland.Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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David Harbour's bizarre letter to Lily Allen, problematic Kardashian lollipop & meeting our icons
This week we have loads of spilled tea, from Billy’s recent inside scoop about meeting icon Kim Kardashian, to uncovering David Harbour’s red flag letter that he sent to Lily Allen.We debate the Kourtney Kardashian’s latest lollipop release, is this helpful or is it anti-feminist? Are runners less annoying to date than smokers, and is it worse if someone checks your phone versus hides theirs?Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Taylor Swift's controversy, Sabrina Carpenter rumours & The Traitor’s iconic moments
It's a new week on Tea and we've got some new celeb goss to be yapping about - from Taylor Swift's new album (do we hate it or rate it?), to Sabrina Carpenter's new rumoured love-interest. Lauren, Billy and Christie also discuss The Celebrity Traitors fart-gate, which leads to a discovery of a rogue group chat with thousands of members...Our fan-favourite game of Don't Spill the Tea is back too, so stick around for lots of wild internet confessions and tea spilling.Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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What do modern ghosts look like and scary secret habits we all do...
It's officially spooooky season on Tea At Four - and Lauren, Billy and Christie are spilling all the haunted tea. We cover everything from debunking London ghost stories, involving a girl falling in love with a man she met in a past life, to a safeguarding ghost on the Night bus.We also question why there are never any modern ghosts, and what outfits we would pick to wear for eternity. Send us your own personal spooky stories! Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Can anyone be Psychic? Energy Healer reveals how to unlock your hidden abilities
Energy Healer, Psychic and Medium, Katy Whyte joins Lauren and Billy today to unlock their inner magic. With Billy on the sceptic side, and Lauren as a believer, Katy helps us learn how to discover our spirit guides....Ever wondered if you could be low-key Psychic? Katy reveals the signs to look out for and the ways to improve your abilities. We also go through the power of manifestation and what people get wrong when trying to manifest themselves a life partner.Katy also shares what it's like to be a Medium when walking through busy areas like London train stations, and how unsettling hospitals can be. Give it a listen to understand how to use the power of manifestation to it's true potential...Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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“I joined a cult that ruined my life” - surviving exorcisms, brainwashing and coercion
Today Lauren and Christie are joined by cult survivor, Rachel Reign, who wants to raise awareness of the horrible things going on in the Universal Church of the Kingdom of God.She describes being ‘recruited’ at age 13, having exorcisms every Friday and the dating rules that would keep you from falling into sin. From both a religious and non-religious perspective, we explore what makes a cult a cult, and what are the warning signs you should look out for.Follow @survivinguniversaluk for more information on cultic and spiritual abuse.Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Migrant Protests, Cosplaying Prison and Why Gen Z Stopped Ironing
This week we're coming in HOT with our piping hot takes... From migrant protests to victorian orphans, we cover a LOT. What country are we really fighting for? And do millennials really wish they could be victorian orphans?We also debate why this generation stopped ironing, and if meal-prep is actually like being in prison.Send us YOUR hot takes, we'd love to discuss them xSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Georgia Steel shares dating red flags after scam experience
On today’s episode, Lauren and Christie are joined by Love Island’s Georgia Steel to discuss the aftermath of her scam experience where she was duped into giving away £32,000. After explaining why it's so important now more than ever to encourage safety online, we discuss which red flags to look out for with dating and how to stay smart on dating apps. Georgia also shares her advice for our audience with stories of dodgy first-date invites, and clingy behaviour.Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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The ‘Bratification' of Wuthering Heights, 90s nostalgia and do you chat BEFORE a first date?
This week on Tea we dive into everything from how everything was so fun to bite in the 90s, and why lending money to friends can become an issue…Lauren takes back her wish for cosy season since trying to do her makeup by torchlight, Christie gets quizzed on whether she’s team Conrad or Jeremiah, and Billy debates whether we need to keep remaking films.We discuss the saucy new trailer for Wuthering Heights, and if the Bronte sisters would be offended by the new take, and try to give our best dating advice from a girl wondering if pre-date chat is dead...Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Taylor Swift's engagement, Fantasy Football is Tarot for boys & send all men to the North Sea
On this week’s episode, Christie is BACK! We’re talking about the cheap perks of baldness, the terrifying return of black mold season, and why some men don’t even deserve prison – they deserve the North Sea. In Celebri-tea, we cover Millie Bobby Brown stepping into her mamacita era, while Taylor Swift’s engagement has us debating gym teachers, asking “who is Travis Kelce?” and wondering if she secretly listens to this podcast????We’re also diving into some hot takes – from fantasy football being compared to tarot cards (is it just Top Trumps for grown men?) to whether single women should get the same gift-registry treatment as brides.Let us know YOUR niche hot takes by sending to [email protected] or DM us @teaatfourpod, and make sure to give us a follow for all the tea xSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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We need to talk about the Sudan Crisis: A Story on loss, displacement & life as a refugee
On Today’s episode, Lauren and Billy learn are joined by Basma Khalifa who shares the heartbreaking story of losing her family in the Sudan conflict and how they have turned their grief into action.Right now, 12 million people have been forced to flee their homes in Sudan in order to find safety. Refugees from Sudan urgently need our support. Together with @unrefugeesuk, we’re raising awareness of a crisis that has received only 29% of the funding it desperately needs.Find out more about the crisis in Sudan and donate here: https://unh.cr/b7EDZeSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Gay vegetables, Camp Rock 3 & the Tinder hair collector
This week, Billy and Lauren are back with maximum chaos.From crashing the Real Housewives of London premiere (and spotting Tracy Beaker in the wild ) to debating which fruits and veg are gay, straight or bi... In true us fashion things escalate fast.Add in an Armie Hammer cannibal tangent, a finance-class identity crisis, Zara Larsson stanning and one truly cursed Tinder hair collector story and you’ve got yourself the full Tea at Four experience xP.S. Got a story, dilemma or confession for our “Don’t Spill The Tea” segment? Send it to [email protected] and don’t forget to follow us on YouTube, Spotify and Instagram at @teaatfourpod.Enjoy the ep!Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Matt and Emma Willis' unhinged love language and how they met at Matt’s WEDDING
Matt and Emma Willis join us on Tea At Four today to discuss the goss from the new series of Love Is Blind UK, and their own relationship.From how they first met at Matt’s other wedding, to Billy calling Emma “scary” and Matt declaring she has “no bad bone in her body,” we cover love languages (piss-taking and farts), bizarre rumours Emma’s here to debunk, and the strange things people will put on a coffee cup. Plus, Emma’s tips for making everyone feel at ease. Love Is Blind: UK series 2 is available to stream on Netflix now.Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Harry Styles' Sex Toys, Hannah Montana's 2026 Tour and Is Sydney Sweeney A Feminist?
This week, Billy and Lauren (while Christie's gallivanting in Glasgow) chat all things pop culture, from Harry Styles' new saucy business venture to the Sydney Sweeney controversy...Whether we're defending the Lionesses, unpacking the ethics of vibrating butt plugs in Asda, or plotting to bankrupt ourselves on a potential Hannah Montana tour, it's unhinged, usually insightful, and never ever dull. Pull up a chair, grab your no-secco, and let’s see it all.Make sure to give us a follow on Spotify, YouTube and Instagram (@teaatfourpod), and if you want to share any unhinged stories with us, please do: [email protected] xSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Trisha Paytas’ baby conspiracy, Charli xcx’s budget wedding, and sexting ChatGPT
Lauren, Christie and Billy are reunited for the first time in our fresh new set, and they’ve got a lot to catch up on! Trisha Paytas’s new baby name causing outrage, disbelief over Charli xcx’s wedding being in Hackney and is Christie’s new studio space fit for Bonnie Blue??We also play our old fan favourite Don’t Spill The Tea - filled with festival poo stories, wedding fails and raunchy conversations with AI...Please send us any anonymous stories for us to read out, we love hearing your tea! Send to [email protected] us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Life with TWO vaginas - Annie Charlotte on OnlyFans, Fertility and Sex
Ever heard of someone having not one, but two vaginas? Well neither had we, but Annie Charlotte joins Billy and Christie to tell them all about it...She shares how her rare condition sky rocketed her OnlyFans career, how she discovered it and how it's effected her love life.We talk freshers week, double periods and having to use two tampons, you won't want to miss this ep!Give us a shout if you have any guests you'd like to see on our next ep @[email protected], and don't forget to follow our Insta @teaatfourpod xSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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"How I made 60k with toenail fetishes"
We have a spicy episode today with Adult creator Latiesha Jones, who joins Lauren and Christie to discuss how she makes her big bucks every month. She explains how she found her 'paypigs', how she has to treat them and why they like to be financially dominated. She also makes more money by selling all sorts of wild things, including her spit and her braids. She even reveals her clients with video game and toenail fetishes…Latiesha also feels strongly about teaching women to do this safely, how you can set your boundaries and how she vets her ‘piggies’.If you have any guests you’d like to see on the podcast, let us know in the comments! Or DM us on @teaatfourpodSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Dating in drag, being a sober queen and Drag Race gossip spilled...
How do drag queens tuck? Do they find other drag queens attractive? Can you really be a drag queen and be sober?In the final episode of our series where we invite people from the LGBTQIA+ community onto the podcast to learn about their experience, we have drag race icon Kitty Scott-Claus on for a super open and hilarious chat.She covers how to choose your drag name, why becoming sober was so difficult in her industry and all the behind-the-scenes goss from Drag Race UK.Billy learns all the answers to the internets most burning questions about drag queens, so get a cuppa and settle in…Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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What does asexual dating look like and why are Gen Z avoiding sex?
To celebrate Pride this year on Tea At Four, we’re inviting people from the LGBTQIA+ community onto the podcast, to learn about their experience in a super open, honest, non judgemental, nothing off limits way for a 3-part series. In our second episode of the series, Christie is joined by Yasmin Benoit, an asexual activist and alternative model. She takes on the most googled questions such as whether asexuals date, feel attraction and enjoy self-pleasure…We discuss hot-takes like if Gen Z are having less sex, why we feel peer pressured to lose our virginity and do we treat people we’re attracted to differently?Let us know if you have any questions or dilemmas, send to [email protected] or DM us @teaatfourpod xSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jamie Windust on non-binary dating life, microaggressions from women and dressing for yourself
To celebrate Pride this year on Tea At Four, we’re inviting people from the LGBTQIA+ community onto the podcast, to learn about their experience in a super open, honest, non judgemental, nothing off limits way for a 3-part series. For the first episode in this series, Lauren is joined by Jamie Windust, an award-winning non-binary writer, public speaker and model.They take us through non-binary slang words that we might not know, and points out the 'trendy' ones. They share their journey in trying to label their sexuality after coming out as non-binary, what compliments come across as microaggressions and why dating apps for non-binary people are a struggle.Let us know if you have any questions or dilemmas, send to [email protected] or DM us @teaatfourpod xSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jameela Jamil reveals who brought her to tears, why men need a curfew and behind the scenes secrets at T4
Today Lauren and Billy are joined by none other than Jameela Jamil, as she sits down to chat about her role in Disney Pixar’s new film, ‘Elio’, she also reminisces on her T4 days.She remembers which of the celebs she met were the biggest divas, and says how it feels weird for her to have come this far since T4... She gives her advice for parents; how to surround themselves with the right kind of role models for their children and why kids should remember that school isn’t their 'whole world’(she remembers feeling like the ‘freak’ herself). Disney’s Elio is available to watch in cinemas now.Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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The devastating cost of being a queer parent
Our countries birthrate is decline but what if you're queer and want a baby? From sperm donor catalogues to medical discrimination in marginalised communities, in Part 3 of our Future of Fertility series, we talk to LGBT mummies co-founder Laura Rose about how the declining birth rates has a domino effect on everyone - whether they're childfree or not. 🫖 Follow Four Nine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fournine/🫖 Following Four Nine on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine/Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Fertility expert reveals leading causes of infertility; iPhones, protein shakes and today's dating scene
Why aren't we having babies anymore? We asked a fertility expert and the answers might surprise you...From PCOS and endometriosis to dropping sperm counts and shocking racial disparities in healthcare, part 2 of our 'Future of Fertility' series unpacks the health barriers behind today’s falling birth rates.On Tea At Four we chat why ‘fertility and fajita nights’ are slightly problematic, the lifestyle factors that could be impacting conceiving and the stats around choosing to have a baby in your 30s.Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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“I had 9 failed IVF attempts, now I’m happier without kids” - endometriosis, declining birth rates and what needs to change
In the start of our Future of Fertility series, we have guest Emma Kemsley on to chat about why she is childfree by choice. From thousands of failed IVF attempts, to severe endometriosis not taken seriously by doctors, Emma opens up about her journey through trying to have children, including a heartbreaking experience in lockdown. Now that she’s living her best life, she talks to the Tea At Four team on why making the decision to be child-free was the best thing she could have done for herself. The Tea At Four team ask the important question - why is it so taboo to be childfree by choice, and how can we make women more comfortable to do so?Send any questions or submissions to [email protected] us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ella Morgan reveals why she’s scared for trans people, spills the tea on Love Island and her secret crush…
This week on Tea at Four, Billy and Christie chat with iconic MAFS star Ella Morgan about life after the recent Supreme Court ruling on the legal definition of a woman. She opens up about media backlash, online hate, and what it’s really like navigating fame, dating, and conversations as a trans woman IRL in the UK today.Ella opens up about the pressure of being seen as a representative for the trans community and why she’s tired of being a ‘token trans moment’, speaking candidly on being banned from bathrooms, trolls, and fake allies — she holds nothing back.We couldn’t have Ella on without getting the tea on MAFs and Celebs Go Dating, and which celeb she’s currently got her eye on. Plus, she shares her hopes, and concerns, as the first trans woman prepares to enter Love Island and challenges everyone to speak up: “you post what you had for breakfast, why not post your support for trans people?”If you've been affected by this or want to help please use and support these resources:- Trans+Connect: https://notaphase.org/trans-connect/ - Mindline trans+ : https://www.gires.org.uk/tranzwiki/groups/mindline-trans-helpline/Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Can we trust guy group chats and is Find My Friends a toxic app? We answer your dilemmas
In today’s ep, Billy and Christie yap about all the latest celeb tea and answer some of your dilemmas.Christie confuses David Hasslehoff with Pedro Pascal, Billy has to explain who Chris Hughes is and why him and JoJo Siwa are in the headlines. They’re both also shocked by some savage Ryanair slander of Penn Badgley…Also, Billy shuts down a dilemma about a boyfriend not wanting his girlfriend to chat b*tch about him to her friends, and they also discuss whether Find My Friends is a toxic app.Let us know your dilemmas and we’ll read them out anonymously! Send to [email protected] or DM us @fournineSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Amanda Holden spills the tea on cheating, BGT and being the ultimate hun
In this special episode, Lauren and Billy are joined by ultimate hun Amanda Holden, where she spills all about her new show 'Cheat: Unfinished Business', why she’s stopped judging people who do the dirty and helps with your relationship dilemmas.ALSO, Amanda reveals some Britain’s Got Talent secrets, the weirdest rumour she’s heard about herself (which involves Diana Ross…) and why she’s forever grateful to Cheryl Cole.Cheat: Unfinished Business is available to watch on Netflix from the 30th April Let us know if you have any dilemmas or confessions send them into [email protected] Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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The rise of erotic fiction, why we love fairy p0rn and which town is the horniest?
In this episode, Billy and Christie are joined by Rosie, our Tea At Four founding father. We start off with Celebri-TEA, gossiping about Justin Bieber, JoJo Siwa’s big brother debut and that disturbing Piper Rockelle documentary.ALSO, Rosie and Billy, being huge fans of ACOTAR, dive into why fairy porn is so addictive and the fact that erotic audiobooks are the way forward. Christie gets nostalgic over old-school fan fiction from her Bebo days. With some stats to back us, we find out which town in the UK is the spiciest (who listens to the most erotic fiction) and which generation are loving the spice the most…Let us know which books are your fav in the comments, and if you have any submissions or dilemmas please send them into [email protected] us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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'The Sensible Generation' - Are Gen-Z changing festival culture?
This week, the team explain why mercury in retrograde was causing them chaos, what Christie has given up for lent and how much Lauren and Billy are spending on Glastonbury. They also wonder if Gen Z are becoming bored of festivals, and how Reading and Leeds have implemented new organisations and features at their events to encourage the younger generation to get involved. Safer spaces for women, get ready with me areas and quiet zones - do we like these new changes or are Gen Z ruining a British culture staple. Lauren, Billy and Christie give their thoughts. We also read our favourite comments from a TikTok trend, from hilarious lies told by exes to wildest scandals that happened in hometowns, the outrageous comments give us a proper laugh.If you have any confessions or dilemmas, we’d love to know. Send them into [email protected] or DM us @teaatfourpodSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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'Can I come out to my mum with a Oujia board?' - we answer your dilemmas
Billy takes Tea At Four solo today, discussing why he thinks Snow White is flopping, and defends Rachel Zegler. He also can’t contain his excitement for Miley Cyrus’s new album dropping. We bust some wild conspiracy theories going around about Katy Perry, and answer two audience submissions. One asking for advice on whether they should come out to their dead mother through a ouji board… Billy gives his thoughts on this bizarre but emotional dilemma. Don’t forget you can send us anonymous submissions to [email protected] or DM us @teaatfourpodSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Times men didn’t realise they were sexist - we react to brutal confessions
In this highlight episode, we revisit the game of brutal where women confessed times in their life that they were subtly discriminated against. A dad buying a half pint, male friends at a pub quiz and mistaking women for being pregnant… Can you relate to any of these stories?If you have any confessions or dilemmas we can use in our future eps, no matter how wild, please send them to [email protected] or DM us @teaatfourpodSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Age-gap relationships, Lily Allen’s post-break up tea and is going to a strip club cheating?
This week, we dive into some Celebri-tea, including Louis Tomlinson’s new rumoured relationship, Lily Allen’s risky comments about her ex and how Cruise Beckham’s new girlfriend looks a bit like his mum…This leads to debates about if age-gap relationships are acceptable, and if gender plays a role with this. Also, should we be bad-mouthing our exes? Lauren, Christie and Billy also tackle two dilemmas, one regarding a girl who’s boyfriend lied about going to a strip-club. Should attending a strip-club be considered cheating? If you have any dilemmas or confession you want us to read out anonymously, please send into [email protected] or DM us @teaatfourpodSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Everyday sexism, should female footballers be paid more and how can we celebrate women?
It’s International Women's Month, so naturally we get into a chat about how we can celebrate women everyday...Lauren debates whether friends should be supporting each other on social media, as well as in real life. Billy wonders if female footballers should actually be paid more, and our audience members share with us hilarious but infuriating times that men have accidentally been sexist. Also, Christie does what she does best by not knowing Sabrina Carpenters song and getting Glastonbury festival confused with The Simpsons, and Lauren and Billy share their huge disappointment in the lineup this year. If you have any confessions or dilemmas you’d like us to read out anonymously on the pod, send in to [email protected] or DM us @teaatfourpodSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Family vlogger controversy, will Rihanna headline Glasto and oversharing online
In today’s episode, Lauren and Billy cover some of the headlines of the week including Bonnie Blue’s latest antics, and the hate Millie Bobby Brown is getting recently. They dive into the debate of how much we’re sharing of ourselves on social media, and the dangers this could lead to. As well as touching on the recent controversy around family vloggers, Lauren has always been a fan of watching them, but is it to put a stop to it?We also read out a confession from a fan, sparking chat around parents getting intimate after they’ve had children…If you have any confessions you’d like to share with us, please send them to [email protected], or DM us on Insta @teaatfourpodSend us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Is Drake irrelevant, why Rebecca Goodwin is right and is SNL officially dead?
In this episode, we discuss Drake's attention seeking motives deciding to headline every night of Wireless this year, but equally the more important questions -- is 30 too old to even be attending that festival? We have another week of Christie confusing famous names, in this edition, is it singer Lola Young or footballer Lionel Messi that's been coined the latest viral nepo baby?We’re also joining in on the conversation around OF Creator Rebecca Goodwin and her treatment on the ‘bully’ Reality Check podcast, as well as giving our brutally honest opinion on Brits who find American skit-show ‘SNL’ funny…You won't want to miss our media recommendations of the week either! With Lauren and Christie's EastEnders’ 40th anniversary episodes and Harry Hill's TV Burp on the cards, you’ll be left wondering whether it’s 2025 or 2005. Be sure to send us your confessions to react to for our next ep at [email protected] us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Sending postcards to your ex, cheating with your girlfriend's mum & wild house party confessions...
Welcome back to another Quick Cuppa where Lauren, Billy and Christie are rating some BREW-tal confessions. We have one cringey anecdote about a girl sending a message to her ex through old-school methods. As well as a savage story involving a man and his girlfriend's mum....We also play our fan-favourite game of Don’t Spill the Tea with some grim internet stories. Pleaseee send us any confessions or dilemmas to [email protected] and we'll try to feature you anonymously 🫶 Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Kinks caught in the act, Kanye West's humiliation fetish and a lottery revenge story…
This week we talk a look at a couple celebrity headlines for the week, deliberating if Kanye West’s recent behaviour suggests he has a humiliation fetish, and why Leo Woodall says he can’t take the tube anymore.We also rate two hilarious confessions on our Brew-tal meter, both with a Valentines Day swing.A boyfriend gets revenge on his cheating partner by using the lottery, and a woman is traumatised by discovering her sister’s kink.Lauren and Billy discuss what straight men talk about in group chats, and Christie also shares her own embarrassing family story…Send us any confessions or dilemmas to [email protected] us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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"My boyfriend's best friend is cheating... should I tell her?"
We answer not one, but TWO dilemmas in this highlight episode. A woman battles with her moral code when her partners best friend admits he's cheating on his girlfriend. Should she tell her, or is it not her place?We also discuss the age old debate of girl-best friends. Lauren and Billy give their opinion on when you should worry if your boyfriend is hanging out with another girl...Send us YOUR dilemmas anonymously and we will try our best to give our advice on the podcast: [email protected] or DM us @teaatfourpod on Instagram.Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Why our obsession with our appearance is causing 'Beauty Burnout'...
This week we are chatting about how society still has unachievable beauty standards for women, and the ways in which we can protect ourselves from these ideals.Lauren discovers the term ‘beauty burnout’ and vulnerably shares how she relates to it, while Christie recalls how growing up in an all-girls school has shaped how she looks at herself today. We also look at how views of women have changed from the 90s, when 'heroin chic' was a celebrated aesthetic, and celebs would speak of the body shaming that they experienced regularly. Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Dating a mummy’s boy, conspiracy theories online and Love Island personality types
This week, we’ve got celeb tea to discuss including the inside goss that one of Bonnie Blue’s clients shared and that wild story of how AI scammed a woman. With Love Island All Stars restarting, Lauren, Christie and Billy discuss why influencers would want to go back on the show, and what type of personality you’d have to be to accept that invite (we reckon it involves Dubai and clubbing).We also look at some of the insensitive and bizarre conspiracy theories that have surfaced since the LA Fires, getting ourselves into an internet hole full of evil AI, celebrity cover ups and P Diddy’s secret tunnel...Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Will Molly-Mae regret getting back with Tommy Fury? We discuss cheating, girl best friends and toxic boy code
In this episode of Tea At Four, Lauren and Billy reunite for the first time in 2025.They discuss why New Years resolutions are toxic and what their moods for this year are, including taking up niche activities and how to say no to people more.They chat about the Molly-Mae and Tommy rumours, delving into which celebs have had cheating in their relationships in the past, and what the success rate is once they’ve gotten back together. Our audience also ask for our hosts advice on cheating-related dilemmas. One girl debates whether to tell a friend that she knows has been cheated on, and another wonders if her boyfriend’s female friend has alternative motives.If you have submissions or dilemmas, please send them into [email protected]. And don’t forget to follow our Insta!Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to [email protected].💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Hi, and welcome to Tea At Four, where Lauren, Christie and Billy take conversations beyond the group chat. Featuring guests, from celebrities to leading experts, our hosts dive deep, spill the tea, and ask the questions Gen Z and millennials genuinely want answered. Enter the chat every Thursday... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Four Nine
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