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Send us Fan MailI’ve been sitting on a secret that made me feel shocked, giddy, teary, and honestly a bit wordless: I’m going to be a grandmother later in the year. The news landed just before Christmas, and it didn’t properly feel real until I found myself wandering into baby shops like I had some kind of built-in grandma radar, snapping pics of tiny clothes and imagining a whole new little person joining our family.But there’s more to this milestone than pure excitement. We talk about privacy and boundaries too, because my son and his partner are keeping things low-key and they’re choosing no social media of the baby. I share what it’s like to respect that (even when the “show the world” part of me wants to burst), and the moment their announcement finally became public through a beautiful reel that had me in happy tears.Then the chat turns to the bigger midlife truth that can sit right beside the joy: I’m also watching my dad’s health change as he gets older. Between specialist appointments, those sudden lumps in the throat, and the realisation that our parents won’t be here forever, I reflect on the circle of life and what it asks of us. It even pulls in my own experience of depression and burnout, because some moments are brutal and they still belong in the story.If you want honest midlife conversation about becoming a grandparent, caring for ageing parents, grief, mental health, and finding meaning in everyday moments, press play. Subscribe, share the episode with someone who needs a lift, and leave a review so more of us can find this little pocket of sisterhood.

Send us Fan MailEver felt like your world shrank to the size of a to-do list you couldn’t touch? I open up about depression, burnout, and the strange ways they show up—like a cardboard taste in your mouth, a face that forgets how to brighten, and days where getting dressed feels like a marathon. No gloss, no neat bow, just a real account of what helped: meds tuned with care, talk therapy that steadies the mind, and micro-wins that stack slowly into something like hope.We walk through practical tools that actually feel doable when energy is low—expressive journalling to organise tangled thoughts, voice notes on a quiet walk, and the permission to be radically gentle. I share why CBT still anchors me, how support that feels like mothering can change a day, and what it looks like to ask for one small thing instead of everything. There’s honesty about the messy trial-and-error of medication and the non-linear shape of recovery, because healing rarely arrives in straight lines.Then there’s the colour returning: revisiting childhood joys, picking up chunky yarn and knitting a bright scarf, trying painting and starting again with a coat of white when it flops, moving the body with kindness instead of pressure. Community plays a big part too. I reignited a warm corner on social media called Sparkle Sisterhood for women 50+, sharing local favourites, books, comfy outfits, and the kind of everyday humour that makes fitted sheets and grocery runs feel like shared stories rather than solo battles. By the end, we land on connection, craft, and a cheeky 80s wink—proof that lightness belongs even on heavy days.If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs gentle company, and leave a review so more women can find their way back to a little sparkle.

Send us Fan MailDeals that look done can vanish overnight, and the silence that follows can rattle your confidence. I share the unvarnished story of trying to sell my retail store three times, paying for fresh legal packs and profit and loss statements, and being ghosted at the death knock. When the numbers stopped making sense and the joy had already left the building, I chose to close, carry the lease, and fight for a transfer. After false starts and corporate landlord hurdles, a Pilates studio finally took over — and the relief was immediate.Behind the spreadsheets sat something bigger: an identity unspooling. I’d been the buyer and merchant for years, certain on the shop floor and quick on decisions. Letting go pulled me into a midlife reset shaped by sobriety, changing values, and the need to feel rather than outrun grief. That’s where burnout crept in. I had joined masterminds — some genuinely supportive — but also found myself in rooms selling bro marketing shortcuts and “10k months” timelines. The highlights praised wins from people in different markets, and I slipped into comparison, doubled down on perfectionism, and worked harder without gaining traction.I dig into what helped me step out of that spiral: filtering advice by business model, capacity, and season; choosing fewer, better actions; and redefining success beyond other people’s dashboards. I’ve shifted my creative focus to Instagram at Sparkle underscore sisterhood, back to community, play, and content that exists because it’s fun. Interviews are on the horizon via Instagram Live, a calm fit for my current bandwidth. If you’re navigating small business pressure, rising rents, and the myth of instant growth, this story offers practical relief and a reminder that closing a chapter can be a strategic win, not a loss.If the journey resonates, follow along, share this with a friend who needs the sanity check, and hit follow or subscribe. Your reviews and messages keep this space real — what hard choice are you glad you made?

Send us Fan MailA lighthouse walk, a twisted ankle, and a coffee cup of ice shouldn’t be a life lesson—but that small crack revealed a bigger story about ignoring signals until the body shuts everything down. We open up about a year of pushing through gastro, sciatica, and sinus infections, only to land in a deep, disorienting burnout that made getting out of bed feel impossible. What looked like resilience was really overdrive, and what felt like discipline turned out to be depletion.Across this candid conversation, we map the slippery slope from high-functioning stress to total crash. We talk through the perfectionism that kept us hustling, the guilt that kept us from resting, and the overwhelm that narrowed our world. We also unpack the practical side of getting help—how therapy revealed old patterns, why naming depression reduced shame, and what it’s like to navigate long psychiatry waitlists while trying to review antidepressant medication with a GP. It’s raw, sometimes wry, and deeply human.Most of all, we get specific about recovery. Micro-rests. Slower walks. Shorter lists. Letting imperfect be enough. Listening to tight jaws and clenched bellies before they turn into a siren. This is midlife mental health, nervous system care, and burnout recovery in real life—not a checklist, but a kinder rhythm. If you’ve ever pushed past pain or called exhaustion “normal,” this story offers a map back to yourself. Press play, then tell us: what sign from your body are you ready to honour today? Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review to help others find the show.

Send us Fan MailGrief can sneak up on you in the quiet after the routines end. When the youngest finishes school and the oldest turns 30, the house feels different, the weekends lose their map, and you start to ask, who am I now that no one needs me at the sidelines? I share the real, unpolished story of how those milestones pulled hidden threads—old Bathurst memories, a brush with postnatal depression, and the sting of feeling invisible—and how naming them helped me find steadier ground.We explore the subtle losses that come with midlife: the vanishing school drop-offs, the end of team sport Sundays, and the social glue of familiar faces. A 30th birthday at Pearl Beach brings pride and a surprising ache as childhood friends return as partners and parents. Digitising old VHS tapes turns into a time machine, making joy and melancholy sit side by side. Then a TV snippet of Bathurst reopens 1995, reminding me that trauma doesn’t need to be capital T to carve deep grooves. With support, I learned to call it what it was and to let grief be part of growth, not a sign of failure.This is a raw, solo passion project—no producers, no music, just honest reflection about depression, identity shifts, and the search for purpose when motherhood changes shape. I talk through practical ways to rebuild structure and community, from small rituals to creative work that restores agency. If you’ve wondered where you fit once the routines fade, you’ll find language here for what hurts and what heals, and gentle steps toward feeling seen again.If this resonates, follow the show so you get notified when new episodes drop, share it with someone who might need it, and email me your questions or topics you want me to cover. Your stories help us all find our midlife sparkle.

Send us Fan MailWelcome back to Midlife Sparkle — and welcome to 2026.In this solo episode, I share why it’s been a while, and what’s been happening behind the scenes. It’s an honest and vulnerable look at my personal journey through midlife depression, burnout, and the quiet unraveling that so many women go through — often without realising it.Late last year, I experienced a slow-building return of depression. I’ve faced depression before — including postnatal depression after the birth of my first son — but this time was different. Despite everything I know as a coach, speaker, and someone who should have seen the signs… I didn’t. Or maybe I couldn’t. It crept in quietly, disguised as busyness and burnout.As I look back, I can now see the signs of burnout in midlife: pushing hard in my coaching business, pivoting my niche, ignoring my own energy levels, and slowly disconnecting from myself. I was trying to “get it right”, especially after shifting from alcohol-coaching to focusing more broadly on midlife identity, change, and empowerment.The irony? The more I tried to niche, the more I lost touch with what lit me up. And what lights me up is this: supporting women to reconnect with themselves. Helping women who feel flat, lost, or invisible in midlife. Telling real stories. Speaking about the things we don’t say out loud — like feeling burnt out, low, or unsure of who we are anymore.This episode is the beginning of a series where I’ll unpack depression, burnout, recovery, and how to rebuild from that place. Today’s share is just the nutshell — a warm-up for what’s to come.If you’re a woman navigating midlife shifts — emotional, hormonal, career, identity — and wondering, “Is this just me?”… it’s not. You’re not alone.Topics in this episode:My personal experience with depression in midlifeWhat burnout looked and felt like for meThe signs I missed (and now see clearly)How my business pivot added pressure I didn’t expectWhy I’m shifting focus back to real connection, storytelling, and empowermentThank you for tuning in. More to come soon.

Send us Fan MailKeywordsmidlife, boundaries, self-care, achievements, workshops, Christmas, emotional well-being, personal growth, women empowerment, journalingIn this episode of Midlife Sparkle, Belinda reflects on the year 2025 and shares insights on navigating midlife challenges, particularly around the holiday season. She discusses the importance of setting boundaries, recognizing personal achievements, and taking time for self-care. Belinda also introduces upcoming workshops aimed at supporting women in their midlife journey, emphasizing the need for community and connection during this transformative stage of life.TakeawaysBelinda emphasizes the importance of community in midlife.Setting boundaries is crucial during the holiday season.Reflecting on achievements can boost self-esteem.Self-care is essential, especially during emotionally charged times.Workshops and retreats can provide valuable support.Journaling can help track personal growth and achievements.It's okay to feel a mix of emotions during the holidays.Taking small moments for oneself can make a difference.Belinda encourages women to embrace their journey in midlife.The next chapter can be a positive and fulfilling experience.Chapters00:00 Welcome to Midlife Sparkle01:01 Navigating Midlife Challenges02:58 Setting Boundaries During the Holidays04:46 Reflecting on Achievements and Self-CareIn this episode of Midlife Sparkle, Belinda reflects on the year 2025 and shares insights on navigating midlife challenges, particularly around the holiday season. She discusses the importance of setting boundaries, recognizing personal achievements, and taking time for self-care. Belinda also introduces upcoming workshops aimed at supporting women in their midlife journey, emphasizing the need for community and connection during this transformative stage of life.takeawaysBelinda emphasizes the importance of community in midlife.Setting boundaries is crucial during the holiday season.Reflecting on achievements can boost self-esteem.Self-care is essential, especially during emotionally charged times.Workshops and retreats can provide valuable support.Journaling can help track personal growth and achievements.It's okay to feel a mix of emotions during the holidays.Taking small moments for oneself can make a difference.Belinda encourages women to embrace their journey in midlife.The next chapter can be a positive and fulfilling experience.

Send us Fan MailIn this solo episode of Midlife Sparkle, I dive into one of the most common and quietly painful experiences for women in their forties, fifties, and beyond - losing our sense of identity.For so long, we’ve worn countless hats: mother, partner, school mum, business owner, team player, caregiver, organiser - the list goes on. But as life shifts - kids grow up, parents age, careers plateau or change - many of us find ourselves asking, Who am I now?I explore the emotional and practical realities of this stage of life - the boredom, loneliness, and uncertainty that can creep in - and why rediscovering your values is the key to reconnecting with who you truly are.Together, we unpack what values really mean, how they act as your inner compass, and how to start realigning your life around what matters most to you. Whether your values centre on family, freedom, creativity, or health, this episode guides you to reflect deeply and start finding your way back to yourself.You’ll hear how I help my clients (and myself) identify what they value most, using practical exercises to gain clarity, confidence, and direction. By leaning into these truths, you’ll rediscover joy and purpose in your next chapter - because midlife isn’t the end; it’s the perfect time to begin again.Key TakeawaysRediscovering your identity in midlife begins with understanding your core values.Your values act as a compass, guiding your decisions and helping you feel more connected to yourself.Reflect on when you’ve felt happiest, most fulfilled, or proud - these moments reveal what truly matters to you.Write down your values - with pen and paper - to deepen your self-awareness and accountability.Accept that values evolve; what mattered most in your thirties may shift in your fifties, and that’s perfectly natural.Actions You Can Take TodayTake 20 minutes to journal about a moment when you felt proud or fulfilled - what does it say about your values?Narrow your list of values to five that feel most important right now.Ask yourself, Am I living in alignment with these?Start making small changes that reflect what matters to you - whether that’s creativity, connection, or calm.Remember: midlife is your time to put you first.If this episode resonated, I’d love you to share it with another woman in midlife who’s navigating her own sense of self. You’re not alone in this - we’re all rediscovering our sparkle together.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Midlife Sparkle, I explore a familiar feeling for so many of us - anxiety. I call mine Anxious Annie, and she’s been with me most of my life. Annie has a way of showing up when things feel uncertain, whispering fearful thoughts about what might happen. She loves to predict the future, and in her world, it’s never good news.I share how anxiety can take hold when we face change - whether it’s a new job, a big decision, or even closing a business, as I did. I talk about what it felt like to be consumed by fear and self-doubt, and how I learned to manage Annie’s voice with practical, grounding strategies that really work.Through my own story and examples from my clients, I unpack how anxiety convinces us that disaster is coming - and how to gently challenge that thinking. We look at how to separate fact from fiction, bring ourselves back into the present, and use physical and mindset tools to calm our nervous system.You’ll learn how to:Recognise when anxiety is future-tripping and creating false stories.Use grounding techniques like deep breathing, shaking out your body, barefoot grounding, or immersing your hands in cold water.Calm your mind through humming, writing, or reflection.Challenge anxious thoughts by asking, “Is this 100 per cent factual truth?”Develop self-trust by doing the thing anyway - even when fear tells you not to.I also share a client story that beautifully illustrates how our minds can spiral into worry when the reality is often far kinder than we imagine. By naming our anxiety voice, we create distance from it, and by accepting it with compassion, we regain control.Key takeaway: You are not your anxiety. When you name it, challenge it, and soothe it, you take back your power.Action step: Next time your version of Anxious Annie pipes up, pause and ask yourself: Is what she’s saying actually true? Then breathe, move, or write it out. The truth is always calmer than the story in your head.

Send us Fan MailIn this solo episode of Midlife Sparkle, I dive into a topic that affects so many of us – comparison. I call mine Comparison Connie – one of the many little voices that have followed me through life. She loves to pop up when I’m feeling a bit uncertain or depleted and whisper things like “She’s doing better than you” or “You’ll never look like that.” Sound familiar?I explore how comparison shows up for women, especially in midlife, when we’re juggling so many roles and responsibilities and might feel a little unsure about where we fit in. Whether it’s comparing bodies at the beach, houses on Instagram, or career success at a dinner table, this habit can leave us feeling small and disconnected from ourselves.The truth is, comparison is an ancient survival instinct – our brains are wired to keep us safe and help us belong. But in today’s world, that wiring can backfire. The good news? We can rewire our thinking and create new pathways that focus on gratitude, self-compassion, and progress rather than perfection.In this episode, I share how to recognise when Comparison Connie is running the show, practical ways to quiet her down, and why naming her (yes, literally giving her a name) can help you detach from her voice. You’ll learn how to challenge those sneaky beliefs she plants, replace them with kinder truths, and redirect your focus to your own lane.We talk about:Why comparison is rooted in a desire to belong.How perfectionism feeds comparison and paralysis.The power of gratitude in shifting your mindset.Why sitting with the discomfort of comparison brings clarity.The importance of curiosity and compassion in changing old habits.If you’ve ever scrolled through social media and felt that sinking feeling, or found yourself measuring your worth against someone else’s, this episode is for you. You’ll walk away with tangible tools to help you stay grounded in your own story, silence that inner voice, and rediscover your confidence.Key Takeaway: Comparison is the thief of joy – and you can take your joy back by focusing on gratitude, progress, and your own beautiful lane.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Midlife Sparkle, I’m diving into a solo chat about a familiar voice most of us know far too well - our inner critic. Mine’s called Critical Cassie, and she’s been with me since childhood. Maybe you’ve got one too - that little voice that tells you you’re not smart enough, not thin enough, or not doing enough. I’ve decided to give mine a name because it helps me remember that she’s not me - she’s just a voice, and I get to choose how loud she is.I talk about how these inner voices form - from childhood influences, parents, teachers, partners, or past experiences - and how they can quietly shape the way we think and behave as adults. Cassie is the leader of my inner critic crew, but she’s got plenty of company: Anxious Annie, Guilty Gabby, Rejection Rebecca, and Comparison Connie are just a few of her sidekicks. They all have something to say, but it’s time we learned how to manage them rather than let them run the show.During the episode, I walk through a simple but powerful exercise to help you take control. It starts with closing your eyes, placing your hands on your heart, and visualising your critic speaking. Then you turn her volume down - literally imagine her voice getting quieter. It’s an incredible reminder that you have control over her, not the other way around.I also share how we can build a relationship with our critic instead of trying to silence her. When you accept her presence and even show her gratitude for trying to protect you, her voice starts to soften. She’s part of us, but she doesn’t define us. The real power comes when we start questioning what she says.A favourite strategy of mine - and one I use with clients - is to challenge those beliefs directly. Ask yourself, “Can I say without a shadow of a doubt that what she’s saying is 100% true?” The answer is always no. We can change these old beliefs; our brains are beautifully malleable thanks to neuroplasticity.This episode isn’t about silencing your critic completely - she’ll always be there - but about learning how to turn her down, understand her purpose, and live more freely.Key takeaways and actions: Start by naming your critic to separate her from your true self. Accept that she’s part of you but not in charge. Write her a letter, record a voice note, or even send her an email to express what you need to say. Then question her beliefs — are they facts or old stories? Finally, remember that building a kinder relationship with your inner critic gives the real you space to grow louder, stronger, and far more confident.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Midlife Sparkle, I sit down with Dr Filipa Bellette, or “Philly” as she prefers to be known. She’s the co-founder of the multi-award-winning health practice Chris & Filly Functional Medicine, an author, accredited clinical nutritionist, functional medicine practitioner, coach and trauma therapist. Alongside her husband, Chris, she has helped more than two and a half thousand clients overcome chronic burnout, fatigue and overwhelm through a deep root-cause approach.Filly’s passion for this work stems from her own experience with severe burnout. From fainting and fitting as a teenager to complete body shutdown after having children, her story is both relatable and eye-opening. She talks candidly about what it felt like to juggle motherhood, business and study while her body was breaking down - how she tried everything from nutrition and supplements to lab testing - and how none of it truly worked until she addressed the deep-seated belief that she was weak and incapable.Our conversation goes far beyond the usual wellness chat. Filly explains what body burnout actually is, how it differs from workplace burnout, and how chronic stress literally rewires our nervous system and physiology. She shares how stress hormones such as cortisol keep us stuck in fight-or-flight mode, and how that affects our mood, energy, hormones and gut health.We also unpack the root-cause approach she uses in her clinic - combining functional medicine with trauma-informed therapy. She outlines how every habit and coping mechanism (from overworking and perfectionism to alcohol or sugar) is linked to a deep-rooted belief about ourselves. Healing happens, she says, when we finally listen to what the body is trying to tell us.One of my favourite parts of our chat is when Filly describes how true recovery often comes from the simplest things - rest, grounding, sunlight and reconnecting with nature. She shares a beautiful practice: taking off your shoes, sitting on the grass, placing your hand on your heart and asking your body what it needs.Filly’s story is a powerful reminder that burnout isn’t a badge of honour - it’s a message. A message to slow down, listen, and rebuild from the inside out.Key takeaways and actions: If you’re feeling tired, irritable or unmotivated, don’t dismiss it as “just midlife” or “too many responsibilities”. It might be your body’s way of asking for help. Start by slowing down, even for five minutes a day. Step outside, breathe fresh air and tune into what your body is saying. Look beyond surface fixes - better sleep, nutrition and supplements are important, but the deeper work lies in changing the beliefs that drive your busyness and stress. Healing begins when you decide you are worthy of rest, health and ease.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Midlife Sparkle, I chat with my friend and powerhouse fitness professional, Nikki Ellis, about strength, health, and living alcohol-free in midlife. Nikki has spent more than 30 years in the fitness industry as a personal trainer, sessional academic at Victoria University, and founder of Cinch, a multi-award-winning boutique training studio in Melbourne’s northeast. She’s passionate about helping women discover their power through resistance training, movement, and mindful choices - including rethinking their relationship with alcohol.Nikki shares her refreshingly honest journey from “mummy wine culture” to living a mostly alcohol-free life. After a moment that made her realise how alcohol was holding her back, she stopped drinking completely in 2023. What followed was a deeper sense of clarity, confidence, and connection to herself.We talk about how alcohol affects women physically and mentally, especially in midlife. Nikki explains how alcohol impacts muscle recovery, hormone balance, sleep, and fat metabolism - all critical factors for women navigating menopause and beyond. Even small amounts of alcohol can reduce muscle protein synthesis by up to 37%, disrupt hormones like cortisol and growth hormone, and make it harder to lose fat and build muscle. It’s confronting but empowering knowledge that helps women make informed choices about their health.Our conversation also dives into the emotional and social aspects of drinking. Nikki opens up about the rituals tied to alcohol - pouring that glass of wine while cooking dinner or celebrating a big milestone - and how she found joy in replacing those moments with alcohol-free alternatives that still felt special. We discuss the growing movement toward non-alcoholic drinks, the need for more inclusive hospitality options, and how the cultural shift away from alcohol is beginning to mirror what happened with smoking decades ago.What I love most about Nikki’s story is her self-awareness and honesty. She admits moderation doesn’t work for her and that she feels better without it. Her story is about empowerment, not perfection - a reminder that small, intentional choices can create huge shifts in our wellbeing and mindset.Key Takeaways and Actions: If you’re rethinking your relationship with alcohol, start by paying attention to your habits and triggers. Notice when and why you reach for a drink, and experiment with swapping it for something alcohol-free. Keep your rituals - make them special - but remove the alcohol.If you train regularly or want to feel stronger, remember that alcohol affects muscle recovery, hormone balance, and sleep. Prioritise your energy, clarity, and strength instead. Finally, be patient and kind to yourself. Changing your relationship with alcohol is not about restriction - it’s about creating a life that feels good every day.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Midlife Sparkle, I sit down with my friend and straight-talking powerhouse, Shelly Horton - one of Australia’s most trusted voices in media, wellness, and women’s health. Shelly’s career as a journalist, presenter, MC, and founder of ShellShocked Media has made her a familiar face on Channel Nine and across countless stages. But today, she’s here to talk about a topic that’s been swept under the rug for far too long - perimenopause.Shelly’s new book, I’m Your Peri(God)mother, is Australia’s first comprehensive guide to perimenopause that blends memoir, science, and humour. She opens up about her own experience with the hormonal chaos that hit her in her forties - from brain fog and mood swings to sleepless nights and anxiety - and how she clawed her way back with evidence-based information, medical support, and a big dose of sass.We talk about what happens when your hormones stage a mutiny and why so many women, like Shelly, had no idea what was happening to their bodies. Shelly shares how she was initially dismissed by a GP, blamed herself, and spent months feeling broken - until one supportive conversation with her husband led her to a doctor who finally diagnosed perimenopause and prescribed the treatment she needed. Her honesty about navigating HRT, antidepressants, and trial and error offers comfort and clarity to anyone currently in the thick of it.Shelly and I also discuss the lack of menopause education for doctors, how systemic misogyny has impacted women’s health, and why self-advocacy matters more than ever. She shares practical advice for managing symptoms, from brain fog and hot flushes to shifting moods, and the importance of finding a GP who treats you as a teammate, not a problem to be dismissed.Her signature humour shines through as she talks about “craft” (can’t remember a thing), the joy of lists, the infamous We Do Not Care Club, and how laughter can make even the sweatiest of moments bearable.Key Takeaways and Actions: If there’s one message in this episode, it’s that knowledge is power. Educate yourself about perimenopause early, even before symptoms appear, so you can make informed decisions about your health. Don’t accept dismissal from healthcare providers — find one who listens, learns, and supports you. Be kind to yourself during the hormonal rollercoaster, and use humour to lighten the load. And if you find yourself walking into a room and forgetting why you’re there, remember — you’re not alone, and there’s probably a funny story in it somewhere.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Sober Sparkle, I sit down with the powerhouse that is Kim Payne - professional speaker, business mentor and podcast host. Kim has spent over 30 years in business, finance and personal growth helping entrepreneurs and professionals turn “what if” into “why not.” Known for her high-energy, straight-talking style, Kim delivers the kind of friendly wake-up calls that inspire women to make courageous choices.Kim shares her remarkable story of walking away from a dream job in the United States at the height of her corporate career, despite having built her life around that goal. That one decision became the catalyst for everything that followed - meeting her husband, creating a new business on her own terms and redefining success. We also dive into the realities of perimenopause, perfectionism, fear, and changing your relationship with alcohol.Together, we talk about the myth of “having it all,” the pressure of perfection, and the power of courage in creating a life you truly want. Kim reveals how she moved from working 35 weeks of the year to building a coaching practice that supports women to make bold choices, step into their power and manage their inner critic.We also discuss how her drinking habits changed over time - from daily wine to discovering that even small amounts were leaving her with hangovers. Kim shares how she cut back, the benefits she’s experienced and the challenges of socialising differently when alcohol has been such a default.This conversation is full of practical insights, honest reflections and inspiring ideas for any woman who’s standing on the edge of a big decision and wondering how to move forward.Key takeaways and actions:Redefine success on your terms. Kim’s story shows that even your biggest goals can change - and that’s okay. Ask yourself what really matters to you right now.Fear is normal. Every woman Kim interviewed about success admitted to feeling fear and self-doubt. The difference is they took action anyway.Celebrate your wins. Kim uses her “kick-ass list” to remind herself of past achievements whenever her inner critic gets loud. Make your own and revisit it often.Break up with perfectionism. Massive imperfect action will move you further than waiting until everything’s “just right.”Be mindful about alcohol. Notice how it actually makes you feel rather than following old habits. Give yourself permission to step back or try alcohol-free options, especially if you’re experiencing hormonal changes.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Sober Sparkle I sit down with award-winning patient advocate and podcast host Luan Lawrenson-Woods. After her diagnosis with invasive lobular breast cancer, Luan discovered just how overwhelming the health system can feel - the jargon, the choices, the pressure - and turned that experience into a mission to help women advocate for themselves with calm, clarity and confidence.We talk about why self-advocacy matters, what informed consent really means in practice, and how to prepare for appointments so I’m not walking out thinking, “I wish I’d asked that.” Luan shares her practical Six Steps of Self-Advocacy (her “SAS”) and shows how small changes - a written question list, a supportive “wing person”, and better filters for online information - can transform decision-making and reduce regret. https://www.luanlawriewoods.com.au/self-advocacy-resourcesLuan also explains her shift from private patient to public advocate, why community and lived experience are so powerful, and how respectful, values-led communication can sit comfortably alongside medical expertise. This conversation is a reminder that my healthcare is about me, and my voice belongs in the room.Key takeaways and actionsI have the right to ask questions and participate fully in my care. That isn’t being difficult - it’s being informed.Preparation helps under pressure. I’ll write my questions, bring a support person to take notes, and ask for plain-English explanations.I’ll “cut the CRAP” when I’m online: watch for conspiracy, requests for money, anecdotes in place of evidence, and check who published it.Self-advocacy can be respectful and values-based. If something doesn’t sit right, I’ll seek clarification or a second opinion. Here's the free resource. https://www.luanlawriewoods.com.au/self-advocacy-resourcesAfter appointments, I’ll check in with myself: did I feel heard, do I understand my options, and what do I need next?The Six Self-Advocacy Steps is SSAS (not SAS). Listeners can find it here: https://www.luanlawriewoods.com.au/self-advocacy-resources

Send us Fan MailIn this bite-sized solo episode of Embrace Midlife, I’m sharing a very real and unexpected part of my recent trip to Byron Bay - a sprained ankle, right at the start of our anniversary getaway. What unfolded after that wasn’t just a disrupted holiday but a powerful reminder of patience, presence, and how midlife has helped shape my mindset in the face of challenges.Turning 56, celebrating 20 years of marriage, and heading off to one of our favourite spots, Byron always helps us unwind - but life had other plans. From slipping down stairs to managing crutches at a health retreat (which, spoiler alert, we didn’t love), I found myself reflecting deeply on how we cope when life throws a curveball.I also talk about how stopping drinking has shifted the way I respond to setbacks, and how building new habits, whether it’s sobriety or recovery - truly comes down to small steps and a whole lot of self-kindness. The story isn’t just about an injury; it’s about the lessons that surface when we slow down, ask for help, and appreciate what we usually take for granted.If you’re navigating your own midlife transitions, struggling with patience, or just need a reminder that you’re not alone, this episode is for you.In this episode, I talk about:What happened on my Byron Bay trip and how it derailed (but also reshaped) the experienceThe surprising reactions from strangers - and how kindness can come from unexpected placesWhy physical recovery made me reflect on my sobriety journeyHow small steps and mindset shifts are everything in midlifeThe power of appreciation - for our bodies, our partners, and the simple thingsWhy I believe in compassion over criticism, alwaysLet’s connect: I’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode—feel free to DM me on Instagram @belindastark_ or visit my website belindastark.com for free midlife resources and coaching info.If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who might relate. You can also subscribe, rate, and review - it really helps grow our beautiful midlife community.Let’s keep embracing midlife, together.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Embrace Midlife, I sit down with the inspiring and energetic Tina Tower, a powerhouse in the world of entrepreneurship. We kick off the conversation with light-hearted chatter about breakfast routines before diving into the real meat of the episode: the common mindset blocks women face in business and how to overcome them. Tina shares valuable insights on imposter syndrome, self-belief, and the importance of self-compassion. We also explore the rapidly evolving role of AI in business, its potential benefits, and the ethical concerns it raises. To wrap things up, Tina reveals her dream dinner guests and her top tips for women looking to conquer their fears and succeed in their entrepreneurial endeavours.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Embrace Midlife, I’m thrilled to bring you part two of my insightful conversation with the wonderful Denise Duffield Thomas. This episode is truly special as we delve into Denise's fascinating money archetypes theory, which can be a game-changer in understanding our financial habits and mindset. I’ve always aimed to support midlife women through the ups and downs that come with this stage of life, and Denise’s insights are incredibly powerful in this mission.We kick off with an honest admission about a little mishap: I didn’t record our initial interview, but thanks to Denise’s backup, we’re able to share this valuable conversation with you. Denise explains the different money archetypes, such as the Accumulator, Alchemist, Celebrity, Connector, Maverick, Nurturer, Romantic, and Ruler. She breaks down their strengths and weaknesses, illustrating how knowing your archetype can help you make better financial decisions and live a more fulfilling life.During our chat, Denise uses real-life examples to show how these archetypes play out. We talk about everything from handling money more sensibly (even if it might mean facing analysis paralysis) to embracing one’s creativity and the challenges each archetype might face. Whether you're someone who saves every penny or you find yourself constantly getting stuck in the ideation phase, Denise offers practical advice on channeling these tendencies into strengths rather than setbacks.Denise also discusses her personal journey and how she integrates her top archetypes into her daily life. We explore essential topics like setting personal boundaries, finding balance, and understanding our intrinsic motivations versus societal expectations. I find Denise’s perspective particularly enlightening, especially how she uses her archetypes to manage her business and personal life effectively.Towards the end of this episode, we talk about the importance of accepting and loving all parts of ourselves. Denise shares a moving story about accessing her nurturing side during a video shoot, which brought her to tears. It’s a beautiful reminder of how powerful it can be to embrace every facet of our identity.

Send us Fan MailIn this special episode of Embrace Midlife, I sit down with the incredible Denise Duffield-Thomas, a well-known money mindset mentor and author of bestselling books like 'Lucky Bitch' and 'Chill and Prosper.'We dive deep into why many midlife women avoid confronting their finances, discussing societal conditioning and generational habits that make money a taboo topic. Denise explains the concept of money mindset, shedding light on how our personal experiences, family beliefs, and societal norms shape our financial perceptions. We also explore Sacred Money Archetypes and how these archetypes impact our relationship with money.We touch on how generational money blocks can influence our attitudes towards finances and the importance of being mindful when passing down financial beliefs to our children. Denise shares personal anecdotes, making our conversation relatable and insightful. Both of us emphasize the need for midlife women to develop a healthier, more empowering money mindset to confidently navigate financial challenges.This episode is packed with practical tips and thought-provoking insights, designed to help you reflect on your own money stories and uncover the underlying beliefs that may be holding you back. Join me and Denise on this journey to embrace a positive money mindset and step into a more financially empowered midlife. Stay tuned for part two of our enlightening discussion, set to drop next week.

Send us Fan MailJoin me, Belinda Stark, on Embrace Midlife as we explore the complexities of teenage relationships and how they affect family dynamics. In this solo episode, I share personal anecdotes about my sons' relationships and the emotional challenges that come with them, especially as they transition from late teens to adulthood. We touch on the heartbreak of break-ups not just for the teens but for the parents involved. Discussing topics such as setting boundaries, maintaining warm and open family interactions, and coping with emotional aftermath, this episode provides heartfelt insights into a common yet rarely discussed aspect of parenting. Tune in to connect, share your experiences, and gain new perspectives as we navigate the beautiful journey of midlife together. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review, and check out more resources on my website.

Send us Fan MailIn this heartfelt episode of Embrace Midlife, I share my personal journey and experiences from recent months. We delve into the joys and challenges of my Christmas break, including an unexpected connection with my son during his schoolies trip. I also discuss my life-changing decision to close my retail store following inspiration from Denise Duffield Thomas' book, 'Get Rich, Lucky Bitch,' which emphasises the importance of decluttering to manifest new opportunities. With raw honesty, I reflect on the emotional rollercoaster of this transition, the newfound mental freedom, and the exciting new chapters in my coaching career. This episode invites you to consider what you might need to declutter in your own life to make space for what truly matters. Join our conversation, connect with our supportive community, and embrace midlife with laughter and empowerment.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Embrace Midlife, host Belinda shares her personal experiences as her son finishes year 12 and turns 18. Belinda reflects on the emotional shifts and new phases that come with this significant milestone. She talks about the bittersweet nature of these changes, highlighting quality time spent with her son, upcoming valedictory events, and their family trip to Bali. She also invites listeners to share their own experiences and feelings about their children finishing school.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Embrace Midlife, Belinda shares her personal journey with breast cancer, emphasising the importance of regular mammograms, especially during Breast Cancer Awareness Month. She recounts her diagnosis in 2013, the subsequent treatment, and how early detection through a scheduled mammogram potentially saved her life. Highlighting the necessity of prioritising health and early screenings, Belinda encourages listeners to book their mammograms and stay vigilant about breast health.

Send us Fan MailIn this solo episode of 'Embrace Midlife,' host Belinda Stark dives into crucial topics that contribute to overall well-being during midlife. She discusses the importance of mindset, exploring how the stories we tell ourselves can shape our reality. Belinda emphasises the power of positive self-talk and self-compassion, encouraging listeners to treat themselves as they would their best friends. The episode also covers setting healthy boundaries and introduces techniques like Mel Robbins' 'let them' strategy to handle external opinions. Belinda wraps up by stressing the value of progress over perfection in habit formation and announces her upcoming course, 'Get your Sober Sparkle on,' aimed at helping individuals manage their alcohol consumption.

Send us Fan MailIn the exciting premiere of season two of 'Embrace Midlife,' host Belinda reconnects with her audience and introduces the concept of dopamine dressing—wearing clothes that boost your mood and confidence. She explains the science behind dopamine, the feel-good chemical, and how what we wear can influence our emotions. Belinda also touches on the potential downsides of seeking dopamine highs through alcohol. Additionally, she announces her new four-week course, 'Get Your Sober Sparkle On,' designed to help women embrace sobriety and enhance their midlife experience. The episode is filled with inspiring insights, practical advice, and a call to engage with the show and its supportive community.

Send us Fan MailIn this enriching episode of Embrace Midlife, host Belinda sits down with Kimberlie Furness, a dedicated chiropractor whose career was inspired by personal health challenges and a family commitment to natural healthcare. Kimberlie shares her compelling journey from experiencing debilitating migraines as a child to achieving her dream of becoming a chiropractor. Over the years, she has built Lotus Chiropractic, a thriving practice that focuses on holistic family care, pregnancy, and pediatric health. Kimberlie opens up about the joys and challenges of her professional life, including the expansion of her practice, as well as her personal life, highlighting poignant moments such as her mother's tragic accident and her husband's recent battle with blood cancer. The conversation also touches on the importance of self-care, the impact of menopause, and maintaining a work-life balance. This episode is a profound reflection on perseverance, family support, and the healing power of chiropractic care.

Send us Fan MailIn this solo episode, Belinda dives into the topic of the inner critic, the persistent negative voice in our heads. She shares her personal experiences and offers actionable strategies for quieting this critic, such as naming it, practising gratitude, and fostering self-compassion. Belinda also emphasises the importance of an 'inner mentor,' the positive, intuitive voice that supports and uplifts us. Tune in to learn how to replace self-criticism with self-love and understanding, and embrace a more positive and fulfilling midlife journey.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Embrace Midlife, Belinda chats with Megan Castran, also known as Jewel Chic. Megan is known for her vibrant presence on social media, showcasing her love for colour, creative jewellery designs, and her rainbow-themed lifestyle. The conversation delves into Megan's background, from studying primary education to her ventures in the fashion industry and jewellery design. Megan shares heartwarming stories of her family life, her experiences with Oprah Winfrey, and her passion for staying healthy and positive. The episode also touches on Megan’s creative projects and her dedication to living a vibrant, fulfilling life. Throughout, Megan's infectious energy and positive outlook shine, making for an engaging and inspiring conversation.

Send us Fan MailShelly Horton is confidence personified.  A journalist and TV presenter, Shelly’s opinion can be heard nationally a number of times each week with regular segments on Channel Nine’s Today, Today Extra and on 9Honey. She hosts Talking Honey, He Said She Said and is the host of Nine's official Married at First Sight podcast. She’s been at Nine for eight years and counting. Her previous career highlights include 11 years reporting for ABC Radio and TV, eight years as a presenter on Channel Seven, six years as a journalist at The Sun Herald and five years as the South Pacific correspondent for Entertainment Tonight USA. A proud peri-menopause warrior, her battle with her midlife hormones has led her to campaign parliament and to co-found Don't Sweat It a company educating workplaces to become menopause friendly.  As if that’s not enough she runs her own media training and speaker training company, ShellShocked Media. She teaches people how to shine on camera and how to build their confidence through Speak with Impact workshops. Basically, she helps people find their inner Beyoncé.  My open and honest chat with Shelly was an absolute delight.  She was incredibly open and talks all things media and her fave celebrities, being trolled, menopause and her Speak With Impact workshop which I have taken part in and highly recommend. Connect with her here: Website  www.shellshockedmedia.com. Instagram @shellyhorton 

Send us Fan MailJoin me as I discuss boundaries.  What they are, why we need them and strategies of how to create and improve better boundaries.  I give an example of a time when I didn't put a boundary in place and the consequence.  Plus Ive created an E-Book, "The Boundary Builder", and it's totally free!  Download your copy! Its on my website www.belindastark.com under FREE RESOURCES.  Let's learn to create better boundaries.  For any of Brene Brown's books head to https://brenebrown.com/

Send us Fan MailEnjoy a great conversation with Nikki Ellis, who is incredibly passionate about exercise and healthy living for women in midlife. Nikki shares her fascinating and honest growing up story, offering deep insights into her journey. In addition to Nikki's story, we discuss peri/menopause, the crucial role of protein for women in midlife, and provide excellent tips on how to increase your protein intake. Don't miss this informative and inspiring episode! Nikki hosts her own podcast FIND YOUR FIERCE and her instagram handle is cinch training.

Send us Fan Mail"EMBRACE MIDLIFE" celebrates the authentic stories of women in their late 40’s and and beyond, exploring midlife transitions through candid interviews and personal reflections. This podcast offers a space for support, insights, and community, highlighting the challenges and triumphs unique to midlife women. Join us for engaging conversations that connect and empower.