The Challenger Podcast

In this episode, Dave Glaser shares his personal journey of transitioning back into a new role after a five-month employment gap. He explores the challenges and growth opportunities for Enneagram 8s, emphasizing the importance of awareness, connection, and intentional leadership during transitions. Key  topics Enneagram 8 and sense of control Transition and adjustment in new roles The importance of awareness and connection in leadership Developing resilience and humility during change The edge of leadership: knowing when to challenge and when to listen Takeaways Unrefined Enneagram 8 energy can come off as intensity without connection. Transition requires adjustment, not domination. Leading with awareness pairs natural intensity with presence. Growth happens when you meet your edge with constraint, not just intensity. Leadership includes connection, not just direction. Chapters 00:00 The Journey After the Struggle 02:41 Transitioning Back to Purpose 05:54 Leading with Awareness and Connection 08:41 Building vs. Proving: A Leadership Mindset

Who are you when control is gone? Who am I without my job? Control and being "armored up" are illusions. In this episode, Dave Glaser shares a personal journey through job loss and its impact on an Enneagram 8. He explores themes of vulnerability, control, identity, and growth during challenging seasons, offering insights and practical advice for navigating uncertainty. Key Themes Impact of job loss on identity and control Pitfalls of overcompensation in Enneagram 8s The importance of vulnerability and asking for help Growth through self-awareness and emotional depth Takeaways Vulnerability is the key to growth, not weakness. Control and armor are illusions that hinder progress. Separating identity from circumstances fosters resilience. Authentic strength includes awareness, flexibility, and connection. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Identity and Job Loss 04:37 The Pitfalls of Job Loss for Enneagram Eights 09:02 Vulnerability and the Journey of Self-Discovery 14:07 Recalibration and Moving Forward  

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores how different Enneagram types run from their patterns through movement, control, and comfort, offering insights and practical challenges to foster self-awareness and growth. Key  topics Enneagram types 7, 8, and 9 and their patterns of avoidance The role of movement, control, and comfort in self-sabotage Practical challenges to build consistency and awareness Takeaways Type 7s stay busy to avoid discomfort but need to stay committed longer. Type 8s use control to resist vulnerability but should focus on sustainable effort. Type 9s avoid conflict by disconnecting, and small actions can create momentum. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Patterns and Enneagram Types 01:18 Type Seven: The Enthusiast's Avoidance Patterns 03:25 Type Eight: The Challenger's Resistance to Vulnerability 06:10 Type Nine: The Peacemaker's Disengagement from Self 09:00 Conclusion: Awareness and Action Across All Types    

In this compelling interview, Traver Boehm joins Dave to discuss the importance of accountability, morality, and conscious masculinity in addressing societal issues like child trafficking, sexual misconduct, and personal growth. He shares insights on power dynamics, the role of men's groups, and how men can live with integrity and responsibility. If you're struggling with life's issues and are seeking support, connect with Traver directly at manuncivlized.com or on Instagram @traverboehm Key  Topics The importance of speaking out on societal issues The role of men's groups in accountability Understanding power dynamics and morality Addressing child trafficking and sexual misconduct Living with integrity and responsibility Chapters 00:00 Reconnecting After Six Years 01:25 Taking a Stand Against Injustice 05:51 The Political Nature of Abuse 11:26 Self-Reflection and Accountability 18:47 Civilization vs. Uncivilization 32:06 Understanding Power Dynamics 32:34 The Nature of Power 35:17 Understanding Power Dynamics 40:47 The Ethics of Power 46:49 Accountability and Growth 53:05 The Importance of Sharing and Community  

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the deep-rooted patterns that sabotage health and personal growth, focusing on the Enneagram types four, five, and six. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and actionable steps to build trust and consistency in your health journey. Each Enneagram type has unique needs and benefits from tailored approaches to nutrition and training, leading to improved health and emotional well-being. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at [email protected] for help with any questions you may have. What you'll get is a workout program you can use in any gym, anywher or even your home gym/workout area with body weight exercises.  Plus, you will get a meal prep challenge workshop that will fit your desire for healthy recipes that save you time and money by cooking once or twice per week. Key Topics Enneagram types 4, 5, and 6 and their sabotage patterns The importance of self-trust and consistency in health Practical challenger moments to build trust and discipline Action Items Identify your type and its sabotage pattern. Choose one challenger moment to build trust this week. Follow through on one health habit for seven days without modification. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Self-Sabotage in the Enneagram Types 02:51 The Type Four: The Individualist's Emotional Journey 05:40 The Type Five: The Investigator's Quest for Clarity 08:05 The Type Six: The Loyalist's Struggle with Trust    

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores how the nine Enneagram types unconsciously sabotage their weight loss journeys. He provides practical insights into each type's core fears, sabotaging patterns, and personalized strategies for healthier habits, emphasizing self-awareness and self-compassion. Each Enneagram type has unique needs and benefits from tailored approaches to nutrition and training, leading to improved health and emotional well-being. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at [email protected] for help with any questions you may have. What you'll get is a workout program you can use in any gym, anywher or even your home gym/workout area with body weight exercises.  Plus, you will get a meal prep challenge workshop that will fit your desire for healthy recipes that save you time and money by cooking once or twice per week. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Self-Awareness and Patterns 02:52 Understanding the Enneagram and Its Impact 05:47 Type One: The Reformer and Perfectionist 08:35 Type Two: The Helper and Giver  action  items Identify your Enneagram type and core fear. Practice self-compassion and avoid shame-based self-criticism. Schedule three workouts as non-negotiable appointments. Eat one meal not on your plan and observe emotional responses. Reflect on when you last did something purely for your health.  

In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, Dave Glaser explores the intersection of fitness, nutrition, and self-awareness through the lens of the Enneagram. He discusses how aligning these elements can lead to significant physical and mental transformations, emphasizing that true results come from understanding oneself rather than following external blueprints. Each Enneagram type has unique needs and benefits from tailored approaches to nutrition and training, leading to improved health and emotional well-being. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at [email protected] for help with any questions you may have. What you'll get is a workout program you can use in any gym, anywher or even your home gym/workout area with body weight exercises.  Plus, you will get a meal prep challenge workshop that will fit your desire for healthy recipes that save you time and money by cooking once or twice per week. Takeaways Self-awareness is the foundation of change. Aligning nutrition and training with your Enneagram type yields results. Consistency is key to achieving fitness goals. Mental benefits often outweigh physical results. Emotional regulation is crucial for long-term success. Each Enneagram type has specific strategies for success. Personal growth is a byproduct of alignment. Stop self-sabotaging and blaming external factors. Your Enneagram type can be leveraged for personal growth. Commitment leads to greater life satisfaction. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Enneagram and Fitness Alignment 06:43 The Transformative Power of Self-Awareness and Alignment

In this episode, Dave Glaser discusses the crucial role of self-awareness in achieving weight loss goals, emphasizing that the real challenge lies not in knowing what to do, but in understanding the underlying patterns that hinder progress. He explores how each Enneagram type can gain insights into their behaviors and emotional triggers, ultimately leading to healthier habits and sustainable weight loss. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing and breaking negative patterns, fostering a proactive approach to personal growth and fitness. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at [email protected] for help with any questions you may have. Takeaways You don't fail at weight loss because you don't know what to do. Self-awareness helps you adjust instead of quit. Type ones need to notice their perfectionism. Neglecting yourself as a type two isn't generosity. Type threes attach their worth to outcomes. Type fours romanticize struggle and need consistency. Action builds confidence for type fives. Type sixes need to act in spite of fear. Type sevens find freedom in discipline, not escape. Type nines must prioritize their own needs.  

In this episode of the Challenger podcast, Dave Glaser discusses the importance of habits in achieving fitness and nutrition goals, particularly through the lens of the Enneagram personality types. He emphasizes that lasting change comes from understanding how habits work, rather than relying solely on willpower. Each Enneagram type is provided with tailored habits that can help them build a sustainable lifestyle, along with cues, routines, rewards, and anchor phrases to reinforce these habits. The episode concludes with key takeaways from Charles Duhigg's 'The Power of Habit', highlighting the significance of systems over goals in personal development. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at [email protected] for help with any questions you may have. Takeaways Workouts and meals won't change your life; habits will. Lasting change comes from understanding how habits work. Type Ones should focus on scheduled check-ins, not self-judgment. Type Twos need non-negotiable self-care blocks to protect their energy. Type Threes should track processes instead of obsessing over outcomes. Type Fours benefit from identity-based rituals for emotional stability. Type Fives should simplify choices to avoid burnout. Type Sixes thrive on consistent structure for safety and confidence. Type Sevens need planned flexibility to enjoy life without chaos. Type Eights should prioritize recovery as a discipline for strength. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Power of Habit 01:08 Healthy Habits for Enneagram Type One 02:37 Healthy Habits for Enneagram Type Two 03:21 Healthy Habits for Enneagram Type Three 04:19 Healthy Habits for Enneagram Type Four 05:16 Healthy Habits for Enneagram Type Five 06:12 Healthy Habits for Enneagram Type Six 07:10 Healthy Habits for Enneagram Type Seven and Eight 08:03 Healthy Habits for Enneagram Type Nine 09:22 Key Takeaways from the Power of Habit

In this episode, Dave Glaser delves into the concept of limiting beliefs that hinder personal growth, particularly in fitness and nutrition. He explores how different Enneagram types have unique narratives that affect their ability to achieve their goals. By identifying these beliefs, listeners can begin to dismantle them and take actionable steps towards their fitness aspirations. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the need to confront and name these beliefs to regain control over one's journey.   If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at [email protected] for help with any questions you may have. Takeaways Once you know the right workout, it's about belief. Every Enneagram type has a core story that limits them. Type 1s stall due to high standards, not lack of discipline. Type 2s neglect their needs, thinking they must prioritize others. Type 3s equate effort with identity, risking burnout. Type 4s struggle with consistency due to fluctuating emotions. Type 5s fear depletion, leading to delayed action. Type 6s overthink and seek reassurance instead of progress. Type 7s avoid discomfort, equating commitment with loss of freedom. Type 9s procrastinate, downplaying their impact on outcomes. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Limiting Beliefs in Fitness 02:45 Exploring Enneagram Types and Their Challenges 05:37 Overcoming Personal Barriers to Fitness Goals

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the intersection of nutrition and the Enneagram personality types, providing tailored dietary strategies for each type. He emphasizes that successful weight loss is not solely about willpower but about aligning nutrition plans with individual personality traits. Each Enneagram type has unique needs and preferences that can significantly impact their ability to adhere to a nutrition plan. By understanding these differences, individuals can choose strategies that resonate with their personality, leading to more sustainable and effective weight loss outcomes.  If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at [email protected] for help with any questions you may have. Takeaways Weight loss isn't about willpower; it's about personality alignment. Type Ones thrive on structured, rule-based nutrition plans. Type Twos benefit from accountability and relationship support. Type Threes need results-driven, metric-based approaches. Type Fours require flexible, emotionally aware nutrition styles. Type Fives prefer minimalist, efficient meal plans. Type Sixes succeed with safe, consistent, and guided nutrition. Type Sevens need flexible, variety-friendly diets. Type Eights respond best to performance-focused nutrition. Type Nines benefit from gentle consistency and low-friction habits. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Nutrition Through the Enneagram 02:56 Nutrition for Type One: The Reformer 05:47 Nutrition for Type Two: The Helper 08:29 Nutrition for Type Three: The Achiever 11:11 Nutrition for Type Four: The Individualist 14:01 Nutrition for Type Five: The Investigator 16:47 Nutrition for Type Six: The Loyalist

In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, host Dave Glaser dives into the intersection of fitness and personality by exploring how different Enneagram types can find the best workout routines tailored to their unique motivations and characteristics. He emphasizes that the most effective fitness plan is not necessarily the most popular or scientifically optimal one, but rather the one that individuals can commit to consistently. Throughout the episode, Glaser breaks down the fitness preferences for each of the nine Enneagram types, offering insights into what styles resonate best with their personalities and how they can avoid common pitfalls associated with their type. If you're looking for more support in your fitness and nutrition joureny, reach out to me at [email protected] for help with any questions you may have. Starting with Type One, the Reformer, who thrives on structure and measurable progress, Glaser moves through each type, detailing the ideal fitness styles for Helpers, Achievers, Individualists, Investigators, Loyalists, Enthusiasts, Challengers, and Peacemakers. He provides practical advice on what to watch out for, such as overtraining for Type Ones and burnout for Type Threes, while also encouraging listeners to embrace their individuality in their fitness journeys. The episode concludes with a reminder that fitness success comes from aligning workout plans with personal motivations and stress responses, rather than forcing oneself into a one-size-fits-all approach. Takeaways The best workout is the one you'll actually do consistently. Type Ones thrive on structure and measurable progress. Type Twos need community and connection to stay motivated. Type Threes are driven by performance and visible results. Type Fours require emotionally engaging and expressive workouts. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Enneagram and Fitness 03:45 Type Two: The Helper 04:40 Type Three: The Achiever 06:32 Type Four: The Individualist 07:58 Type Five: The Investigator 09:21 Type Six: The Loyalist 10:18 Type Seven: The Enthusiast 11:14 Type Eight: The Challenger 13:28 Type Nine: The Peacemaker 14:24 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the complexities of Enneagram Type Seven, known as the Enthusiast. He discusses their vibrant energy, optimism, and the challenges they face in relationships, including their fear of commitment and tendency to avoid pain. The conversation highlights the importance of emotional resilience and offers advice for both Sevens and their partners to foster healthier relationships. Takeaways Sevens bring energy, adventure, and optimism to relationships. They have a deep fear of pain and limitation. Healthy sevens are emotionally resilient and adaptable. Sevens can struggle with commitment due to fear of loss. They often distract themselves from pain instead of facing it. Unhealthy sevens may numb their feelings and avoid conflict. Sevens can feel chronically dissatisfied when unhealthy. Practicing presence and emotional awareness is crucial for growth. Partners of sevens should encourage follow-through and safety in conversations. At their best, sevens remind us why life is worth living. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Enneagram Type Seven 02:51 The Good Side of Enneagram Sevens 05:30 The Bad and Ugly of Enneagram Sevens 07:50 Advice for Sevens and Their Partners

In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the Enneagram type 6, highlighting their loyalty, courage, and commitment in relationships. He discusses the challenges they face, particularly when operating from fear and anxiety, and how these can sabotage their connections. The conversation also delves into the darker aspects of type 6 behavior, including distrust and self-sabotage. Finally, practical relationship advice is offered for both Enneagram 6s and those in relationships with them, emphasizing the importance of trust and emotional safety. Takeaways Sixes bring unshakable loyalty and commitment. They make the world safer for their loved ones. When struggling, sixes operate from fear and anxiety. Small conflicts can escalate into larger issues for sixes. Sixes often test relationships for reassurance. They may struggle with trusting their own judgment. At their worst, sixes can become paranoid and distrustful. Fear can distort their perception of safety in relationships. Grounding techniques can help sixes manage anxiety. A regulated six is a devoted and loving partner. Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Enneagram 6: Loyalty and Commitment 02:22 Challenges Faced by Enneagram 6s in Relationships 04:16 The Dark Side of the Enneagram 6: Fear and Distrust 06:37 Relationship Advice for Enneagram 6s

In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, host Dave Glaser explores the complexities of Enneagram Type 5, known as the Investigator. He discusses their strengths, challenges, and how they navigate relationships. The conversation delves into the good, the bad, and the ugly aspects of being a Type 5, emphasizing their need for space, their intellectual depth, and the importance of understanding their emotional landscape. Glaser also provides insights on how Type 5s can grow and engage more fully in their lives while maintaining their unique qualities. Takeaways Type 5s are known as the investigators, driven by a desire for knowledge. They bring depth of thought and problem-solving skills to any situation. Fives respect boundaries and provide space for others. In relationships, fives may withdraw when overwhelmed, not out of disinterest but to protect their energy. Fives can struggle with emotional expression, often analyzing rather than feeling. When unhealthy, fives may become isolated and paranoid, retreating into their inner world. Fives show love through actions, such as learning about their partner's interests. To connect with a five, give them space and time to process their thoughts. Encouraging fives to ask for help can foster deeper connections. Type 5s are complex and loyal, deserving patience and understanding.  

In this conversation, Devon Neisen joins Dave and explores the complexities of the Enneagram Four personality type, focusing on themes of perceived brokenness and the quest for self-worth through uniqueness. The discussion delves into how these beliefs shape emotional health and relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's intrinsic value beyond societal expectations. Takeaways Enneagram Fours often feel inherently broken. The belief of being broken can stem from childhood experiences. Uniqueness is seen as a way to fill the void of self-worth. Parental communication plays a crucial role in shaping self-perception. Feeling unique can lead to a sense of worthiness. The journey of self-acceptance is vital for emotional health. Understanding the Enneagram can aid in personal growth. Self-worth is not contingent on external validation. Emotional health is intertwined with personality understanding. The Enneagram offers insights into relational dynamics. If Devon's message resonated with you, please follow his podcast on Instagram and Tiktok  @theimperfectdadspodcast on TikTok and Instagram 

In this episode of the Challenger Podcast, host Dave Glaser explores the Enneagram Type Three, known as the Achiever. He discusses the strengths and challenges of Type Threes in relationships, emphasizing their motivation, charm, and goal-oriented nature. However, he also highlights their struggles with vulnerability, emotional presence, and the tendency to prioritize achievement over intimacy. The conversation concludes with insights on how Type Threes can grow by embracing authenticity and redefining success in love. Takeaways Type 3s are driven, confident, and inspiring individuals. They bring energy and ambition into their relationships. Type 3s set goals for their relationships and work hard to achieve them. They can struggle with emotional presence and vulnerability. Type 3s may prioritize work over love, leading to emotional distance. At their worst, they can become manipulative or deceptive. Their relationships can feel transactional rather than genuine. Growth for Type 3s involves embracing authenticity and vulnerability. They need to redefine success in relationships beyond achievements. Type 3s are worthy of love just by being themselves.  

In this episode of the Challenger podcast, we will explore the complexities of Enneagram Type 2, known as the Helper. We discuss the positive traits of Type 2s, such as their warmth, generosity, and ability to empathize with others. However, he also delves into the challenges they face, including over-giving, hidden expectations, and the potential for manipulation when their needs are neglected. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-care and setting boundaries for Type 2s to foster healthier relationships and personal growth. Takeaways Type 2s are known for their generosity, empathy, and big hearts. They bring warmth and care into every relationship. Type 2s can be over-giving and neglect their own needs. They may have unspoken expectations for appreciation in return. A partner who is a Type 2 may keep score of their giving. At their worst, Type 2s can become manipulative or controlling. Their need to feel indispensable can lead to clinginess or jealousy. Self-care is crucial for Type 2s to avoid emotional burnout. Healthy boundaries help Type 2s express their needs directly. A healthy Type 2 shows up as generous and loving without needing anything in return Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Enneagram Type 2 00:14 The Good: Generosity and Empathy of Type 2s 01:23 The Bad: Hidden Strings and Over-Giving 02:49 The Ugly: Manipulation and Emotional Burnout 04:35 Conflict in Relationships: Type 2 and Type 8 Dynamics 06:01 Path to Growth: Self-Love and Healthy Boundaries

In this episode of The Challenger Podcast, Dave dives deep into the Enneagram Type 1 — also known as The Reformer or The Perfectionist. We explore how Type 1s show up in life and especially in relationships through the lens of the good, the bad, and the ugly. ✨ The Good: Integrity, responsibility, and being a dependable partner. 😬 The Bad: High standards, self-criticism, and nitpicking tendencies. 😈 The Ugly: Harsh judgment, control, and emotional rigidity that can damage connection. You'll also hear practical insights on what helps Type 1s move toward growth: self-compassion, flexibility, and celebrating progress instead of chasing perfection. Whether you're a Type 1 yourself, in a relationship with one, or just curious about how this personality type shapes connection, this episode offers powerful takeaways. 🔑 What You'll Learn in This Episode: How Type 1s bring integrity and stability into relationships Why their inner critic can create tension with partners The shadow side of perfectionism in love and intimacy How grace and play can transform their relationships 📌 Resources & Next Steps Subscribe to The Challenger Podcast for more Enneagram insights. Share this episode with someone who loves personality growth. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it helps us reach more listeners! Follow Dave Glaser: Instagram: @coachdaveglaser TikTok: @dave.glaser

The Enneagram 9, often called The Peacemaker, is known for their calm, grounded, and accepting nature. But what does this really look like in a relationship — when it's healthy, when it's struggling, and when it turns downright messy? In this episode, we dive deep into the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of the Enneagram 9 in relationships. You'll discover: The gifts a 9 brings into love — peace, empathy, and loyalty The struggles they face — indecision, conflict avoidance, and complacency The ugly shadow — passive-aggression, emotional withdrawal, and explosive anger when pushed too far If you or your partner identify as an Enneagram 9, this episode will help you understand how to nurture connection, navigate challenges, and avoid the traps that lead to disconnection. Whether you're an Enneagram enthusiast, in a relationship with a 9, or exploring your own patterns, this conversation will give you practical insight into building healthier, more intentional love. Why Enneagram 9s bring calm and harmony into relationships The hidden dangers of conflict avoidance and self-erasure How numbing and passive-aggression can damage intimacy Practical growth paths for Peacemakers in love Subscribe to The Challenger Podcast for more Enneagram and relationship insights Share this episode with someone who loves the Enneagram as much as you do Follow along on social media for daily reflections and updates

This episode explores how the Enneagram 8 shows up in relationships; the good, the bad and the ugly with real life examples from remodeling a bathroom to fostering a dog... all in the same week! As a follow up to last week's episode, host Dave Glaser invites The Challenger to look inward for answers and growth to enrich the relationships in your life. Don't know your type? Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected] If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life. Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now! The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern masculinity through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

As an Enneagram 8 father, you're wired for strength, protection, and relentless loyalty to your family. But what happens when that loyalty causes you to neglect your own needs? In this episode, we explore the powerful—but often invisible—pattern of the self-sacrificing 8 dad. You'll discover why putting yourself last can actually make you less present and connected—and how shifting toward self-care, boundaries, health, and discipline can completely change the way you show up as a father. We'll cover: The myth that strength means pushing through Why routines and exercise ground the 8's intensity How healthy boundaries model emotional safety for your kids Practical self-care tools that sharpen your leadership at home This is your reminder: caring for yourself is not weakness—it's the foundation of sustainable fatherhood. 👉 Take action: Pick one self-care habit to commit to this week. Your family will feel the difference. Don't know your type? Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected] If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life. Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now! The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern masculinity through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

As an Enneagram 8 father, your strength and protectiveness are incredible gifts—but not every child experiences that big energy the same way. In this episode of The Protective Leader, we explore how children of all nine Enneagram types perceive a Type 8 parent—and what they need to truly thrive. From sensitive Type 4s to enthusiastic Type 7s, discover practical strategies to adapt your parenting style while staying true to who you are. Learn how to turn your power into presence—and help each of your children feel safe, valued, and deeply understood. In This Episode, You'll Learn: ✅ Why Enneagram 8 fathers sometimes clash with children who have different core fears and desires. ✅ The core motivations of each of the 9 Enneagram types in kids—and how they might react to a Type 8's leadership style. ✅ Specific ways to help your children feel seen, heard, and safe, no matter their personality type. ✅ How to adjust your tone, communication, and emotional presence for each child without sacrificing your authentic self. ✅ Real-life tips for handling conflict, big feelings, and creating deeper connection across all types. Highlights & Key Takeaways: ✨ Type 1 kids need gentle correction and praise for their efforts, not just results. ✨ Type 2 kids flourish with heartfelt appreciation and consistent emotional connection. ✨ Type 3 kids want to be valued for who they are—not just what they achieve. ✨ Type 4 kids thrive when their emotions are validated rather than dismissed. ✨ Type 5 kids need space and respect for their privacy, even in close families. ✨ Type 6 kids seek reassurance and consistency to soothe their anxieties. ✨ Type 7 kids crave adventure and freedom alongside loving boundaries. ✨ Type 8 kids need honesty, mutual respect, and freedom to be strong. ✨ Type 9 kids benefit from soft, patient energy that invites them to share their opinions. Favorite Quote from the Episode: "Your strength is a gift—but your willingness to see and honor your child's true self is the greater gift."

This episode explores parenting and nuturing your child's indivuality through the powerful lens of the Enneagram Type 8—often known as "The Challenger." Known for strength, assertiveness, and protectiveness, Type 8s are dominant parents, typically. But how does this personality navigate the emotional landscape of parenting, especially when trying to lead with understanding, patience, and non-attachment? We'll unpack how commnicating directly with your children allow Type 8 parents to transform their strength into a grounded, empathetic presence—and how embracing the perspectives of their children enriches both nuturing and parenting. Don't know your type? Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected] If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life. Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now! The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern masculinity through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

This episode explores how Enneagram 8 fathers can build deeper emotional connections by developing trust, tenderness, and emotional fluency—without feeling like they're giving up strength. It's a vulnerable dive into what happens when the protector becomes present, not just powerful. As a follow up to last week's episode, host Dave Glaser invites The Challenger to look inward for answers and growth to enrich the relationships in your life. Don't know your type? Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected] If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life. Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now! The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern masculinity through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

This episode explores fatherhood and leadership through the powerful lens of the Enneagram Type 8—often seen as "The Challenger." Known for strength, assertiveness, and protectiveness, Type 8s are natural leaders. But how does this personality navigate the emotional landscape of parenting, especially when trying to lead with empathy, grace, and growth? We'll unpack how self-leadership and inner work allow Type 8 fathers to transform their strength into a grounded, empathetic presence—and how embracing the perspectives of other Enneagram types enriches both leadership and parenting. Don't know your type? Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected] If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life. Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now! The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern masculinity through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

In today's episode, I will walk you through how to use the Ennegram as a tool to show up more authentically at work, with family and in relationships. Have you heard of The Enneagram?  Today, I will guide you through how to learn about yourself through your Ennegram type using The Peacemaker, type 9, as an introduction to the fun and amazing tool for self-awareness. Don't know your type? Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected] If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life. Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now! The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.  

In today's video, I will walk you through how to use the Ennegram as a tool to show up more authentically at work, with family and in relationships. Have you heard of The Enneagram? Today, I will guide you through how to learn about yourself through your Ennegram type using The Peacemaker, type 9, as an introduction to the fun and amazing tool for self-awareness. Don't know your type?  Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected] Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life. Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now! The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness. If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

Do politics and dating go together? Some would say avoid talking about politics at all costs on a first date. Others may try to convince you that discovering that about your date as early as possible saves you time and heartbreak. What are your thoughts? On today's episode of the podcast, I lay out a few answers to those questions and so much more. For starters, I cover how the Enneagram 5, the Investigator, shows up on Hinge and which prompts they may want to go with to start conversations. From there, I dig into politics in modern dating and how to vet a date for alignment with values based questions. Reach out if you have any questions about your own personal dating and relationship journey now! The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness. If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they're looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to heal your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out my Tiktok Page @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @coachdaveglaser

Kyle Weiger, hand balancing coach and good friend, joins me on the podcast today to talk about the home buying process, moving, job changes, sobriety and the Presidential Debates. If his message resonates with you today, please connect with him on all social media platforms @kyleweiger or kyleweiger.com Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build your relationship while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me. Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs, engage with me on Instagram @thechallengerpodcast

How do you set your intentions before you begin online dating? My top seven recommendations are available on today's episode of the podcast.   We dig deep in this episode and how you would choose Hinge prompts if you're an Enneagram type 4, The Individualist.  Are you a 4 or dating an Individualist?  These prompts will help you understand yourself and others when dating online in the modern world. We close out today's episode by talking about the recent Presidential Debate between Trump and Biden while digging into the comparison between how they approach staffing their administrations. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build your relationship while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me. Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me on Instagram @thechallengerpodcast

How do you spot red flags on a dating app? The top six answers are discussed on today's episode of the podcast.   More topics in this episode are Hinge prompts for the Enneagram type 3, The Achiever.  Are you a 3 or dating an Achiever?  These prompts will help you understand yourself and others when dating in the modern world. We close out today's episode by talking about Cults; specifically the Cult of Donald Trump and the MAGA Republican party. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to build your relationship while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me. Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me on Instagram @thechallengerpodcast

How to tell if someone is scamming you or are a bot on a dating app? The quick answer is to ask them to spell "potato".   The real answer is much more complex and I am here to share five signs of a scammer on a dating app!  I have also discovered a few tips on what to do to prevent being scammed or victimized financially when dating online. More topics in this episode are life updates you may not have seen on Tiktok and I end up talking some major smack about Bumble in a brand new segment on the podcast. Finally, I close it out with Hinge prompts you can use and learn from for the Enneagram Type 2, The Helper. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?   Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me.  Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @thechallengerpodcast

The Reformer or Moral Protagonist, type 1, on the Enneagram is likely not the most creative or vulnerable person on your dating app.   What are the likely prompts you'd see on Hinge for the Type 1, Reformer?  In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 1 would choose to show their authentic self on Hinge.  Plus the answers they may come up with to have fun when dating online. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?   Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me.  Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @thechallengerpodcast

What are the best responses to popular Hinge prompts for the Peacemaker?  In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 9 would choose to show their authentic self.  Plus the answers they may come up with to have fun when dating online. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?   Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me.  Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @thechallengerpodcast

Having a hard time picking prompts to use on the dating app Hinge?  In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 8 would choose to show their authentic self.  Plus the answers they may come up with to have fun when dating online. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?   Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me.  Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @thechallengerpodcast  

In this episode, we delve into the intricate details of the Match.com class action lawsuit, exploring the implications and repercussions of the legal battle on modern dating. Join me as we uncover the impact on users and the broader implications for online dating platforms. Tune in for a comprehensive analysis of this high-profile case that has sparked conversations about data privacy, user protection, and corporate responsibility in the digital age. The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness. If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Community, and help others find the self-awareness they're looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate? Are you looking to heal your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out the private group and join me today for a free week trial of the life changing program.  Connect with me on my Tiktok Page @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @coachdaveglaser

The top three reasons you may be getting FRIENDZONED are: Agreeableness, availability, and accessibility can potentially decrease attraction in dating due to various reasons: 1. Agreeableness: While being agreeable is generally seen as positive, excessive agreeableness can sometimes be perceived as lacking individuality or assertiveness, which may reduce attraction. Dr. David Buss, a prominent evolutionary psychologist, suggests that this perspective is rooted in evolutionary theory, which proposes that certain traits and behaviors have been favored by natural selection due to their reproductive advantages. In this context, assertiveness may be seen as a signal of confidence, social dominance, and the ability to protect and provide for a potential mate and offspring.  2. Availability: When someone is too readily available and constantly accessible, it can create a sense of predictability and diminish the excitement or chase that often fuels attraction. 3. Accessibility: If someone is always easily accessible and does not create a sense of mystery or occasional unavailability, it can lead to complacency and reduce the perceived value or desirability. It's important to note that these factors may not universally apply to everyone, as individual preferences and circumstances can vary. Communication and finding a balance between these traits can help maintain attraction in dating. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?  Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline.  No gimmicks.  No fluff. Just real, authentic dating advice.  Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram  

Can we be too attached to our money? On this week's episode of the podcast, Jordan Pendleton joins me as guest host where she interviews me on how our attachment styles show up to influence our relationship with money.   I truly enjoyed this conversation with her on her podcast ⁠REAL Money Talk⁠ as she asked great questions about my journey from scarcity to abundance in life, money and relationships. Please take a moment to leave us a review of the podcast on your favorite platform as it really helps us spread the message shared on the podcast about modern dating, texting, social media and dating apps.  Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Follow me on ⁠Tiktok⁠ for a candid look into modern dating, relationships and life. Subscribe on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ | ⁠Spotify⁠ | ⁠YouTube⁠ For more episodes and programs engage with me at ⁠DaveGlaser.com⁠ | ⁠Instagram

On this week's episode, I lay out ten things to look out for on a first date that can tell you that your date has an avoidant attachment style.  In tune last week's episode, I'd like to encourage everyone to be mindful in how they approach making assumptions about their date and instead of writing them off as red flags, get curious about what you see and label the behavior. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?  Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline.  No gimmicks.  No fluff. Just real, authentic dating advice.  Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram  

On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Samantha Graham, cohost of Where's Our Participation Trophy podcast, to talk about modern dating from the lens of attachment theory.   The title of this podcast comes from viral videos and memes on the internet which can feel confusing for daters in the modern world being told that the right person would be able to read your mind and just give you everything you need, without being asked.  Sam and I dig into what is behind this overused phrase that perpetuates the toxic "throw away" culture of modern dating. If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Sam on Instagram ⁠@_samanthagraham_⁠ and check out her podcast ⁠here⁠.  Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they're looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out my ⁠Tiktok⁠ Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ | ⁠Spotify⁠ | ⁠YouTube⁠ For more episodes visit me at ⁠DaveGlaser.com⁠ | ⁠Instagram

On this week's episode, I walk you through 10 signs that your date or partner may have an anxious attachment style.  Attachment theory research has been evolving since the last 60s and I discovered its impact in my life about five years ago. After a couple of bad breakups in 2017, I decided to make a change and took ownership of my role in the ending of those relationships.  I sought out a counselor and began to interview experts in relationship theory and practice on this podcast.  Tune in today to learn how to spot an anxiously attached date while learning tools to grow through this lens of self-awareness. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they're looking for. Are you looking to for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram  

On this week's episode of the podcast, Talia Bombola joins me for a follow up conversation to share with you why you may be attracted to and attracting emotionally unavailable people.  Previously on the podcast, Talia and I dug in to attachment styles, masculine and feminine energy dynamics and so much more.  This time around, I asked three questions that are most common in our community of authentic daters. Why do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Why do I push people away when dating? How do I date (earn security) as an anxious/avoidant attachment style?  If Talia's message resonates with you today, please check out her brand new group study program beginning May 9, 2023 to download all of her dating advice and expertise by following her on Instagram @taliabombola Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?  Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline.  No gimmicks.  No fluff. Just real, authentic dating advice.  Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram  

This week, we have a quick hitting, solo episode where I dig into this popular quesiton from one of our audience members from a recent Tiktok Live. Should a woman ask out a man on a date?  Listen in on this six minute episode and reach out with any questions you may have about flirting with the masculine in a playful to let him know you're interested. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?  Welcome to The Club, a private, members only community where we connect, support and learn from one another on how to show up as out authentic selves. Just real, authentic dating advice.  Click here to Join The Club. Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram  

On this week's episode of the podcast, we continue on with our series on first dates with a real life dater Becky Bradley.  I am so impressed with her bravery to come speak with me on the podcast about dating after divorce with an anxious attachment style. We dig into Becky's life story beginning with a medical condition as a child that left her feeling alone in school and isolated from her friends.  Fast forward to her life now with children and a challenging marriage, she describes her first few relationships afterward with openness and tremendous self-awareness. If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram or Tiktok at gatekeeper_prob Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they're looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out ⁠The Club⁠ and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my ⁠Tiktok⁠ Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ | ⁠Spotify⁠ | ⁠YouTube⁠ For more episodes visit me at ⁠DaveGlaser.com⁠ | ⁠Instagram

How do you define the relationship?  This week's episode is a live conversation originally recorded on Tiktok with our community contributing questions as we dig into the definition of a relationship agreement vs defining the relationship with terms such as boyfriend and girlfriend. The conversation turned to attachment theory and the differnces of how defining the relationship impacts the nervous systems of the anxious and avoidant attachment styles. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?  Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline.  No gimmicks.  No fluff. Just real, authentic dating advice.  Click here to Join The Club. Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram  

What is "Nice Guy" Syndrome?I've seen the Nice Guy show up in my past and have experienced a lot of growth in the past few years when facing those tendencies and integrating that part back into my psyche.     On this week's episode, Traver joins me to educate us on how the Nice Guy shows up for men in relationships. Traver Boehm @traverboehm is a former MMA fighter, a Challenger on the Enneagram like me, and the author of Man Uncivilized.  It is a ground breaking work of poetry, thoughts, and an honest portrayal of the challenges men face in the world today.   What does it mean to be a man? Why do men numb out to deal with internal conflict? These questions and more will be answered by my guest Traver Boehm, author, speaker, and facilitator of the Uncivilized Nation.    Traver and I focus on how we can solve what needs all of our attention in our modern world; that it's ok to be a man. what I took away from our conversation is too much to list here, so tune in to the full conversation on your favorite podcast app and leave us a 5 star rating and a written review.     To stay connected and get more information on coaching with me, click daveglaser.com now and sign up for a free week! I am giving away one copy to a lucky listener on our instagram account this week so please connect with me @coachdaveglaser on social media to ask questions, provide feedback, and go deeper in the conversation with us.

Recored live on Tiktok, I am joined this week by real life dater, Britt Leilani from Boise, Idaho.  Britt and I discuss a growing phenomenon in modern dating; Facebook groups connecting people over whether or not they are dating the same person. Are you a member of one of these groups in your area?  Britt is a member of two groups as she travels 6 months out of the year between D.C. and Boise where her three children live.  We discuss mental health and dating with bipolar personality disorder and attachment styles.  If her message resonates with you, please connect with her on Tiktok or Instagram @brittleilani Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they're looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?  Welcome to The Club, a private community where we connect, support and learn from one another on your timeline.  No gimmicks.  No fluff. Just real, authentic dating advice.  Click here to Join The Club. Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

I'm celebrating 250 episodes with a replay of one of the most popular epidoses!  On this week's episode of the podcast, we welcome back GS Youngblood to the program to talk all things embodiment and how men show up in relationship.  GS is the author of The Masculine in Relationship and is set to dive deeper into embodiment practices with his new work.     Before we recorded, I polled our listeners and asked them to submit questions they may have about how the masculine shows up in the modern world and the two questions we dig into do not disappoint!     If his message resonates with you, please connect with GS on Instagram @gsyoungbloodmir or on his website at gsyoungblood.com I have two limited availability spots for one on one coaching and if you're looking to get clear on life, love and relationships, please connect with me on Instagram @coachdaveglaser or via my website daveglaser.com   Please subscribe to the podcast or on YouTube and share this episode with just one person you feel would get value out of the conversation today!      

What red flags do you see showing up within yourself and others? Do any of the red flags discussed in this live video resonate with you?   Grab a pen and paper because in this live recording from Tiktok, I talk really fast and deep about Red Flags that show up in modern dating.   If you're looking for more support in your dating journey right now, try out my group coaching program free for one week. Ask me anything and receive the support you're looking for with the rest of the group! Click The I Believe Group Coaching to apply now.   The Dave Glaser Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness. If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.   A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.   Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they're looking for.   Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?    Are you looking to heal your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?   Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating.   Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube