The Common Veterans

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The Common Veterans

The Common Veterans is a podcast created by veterans, for veterans, exploring topics that matter most to the veteran community. From personal stories and shared experiences to deep dives into ethical, moral, and societal issues, each episode brings an authentic voice to conversations that resonate. Whether it's navigating post-military life, discussing mental health, or exploring subjects like ethics, morality, and religion, The Common Veterans is a place for open dialogue and community. Join us as

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    Season 4: Episode 7: Own the Damn Story

    What happens when Veterans stop trying to tell the “perfect” story and start telling the honest one?In this episode of Common Veterans, the table gets practical about the power of storytelling. Not storytelling as performance, but storytelling as a tool for resilience, connection, healing, and helping others understand what lived experience really means.Guest host SGT Eric Donoho, U.S. Army Retired, joins the conversation. Eric is a decorated combat Veteran, Purple Heart recipient, author of Canyon of Hope, and a national advocate for Veterans and military families. His work focuses on moral injury, healing after war, and helping others find meaning through truth and connection.This discussion breaks down real stories in real time: what to keep, what to cut, and how tone changes meaning depending on the audience. A story told to another Veteran may land differently than the same story told to a civilian, a spouse, a child, or a room full of strangers.The episode explores how Veterans carry stories, how those stories shape identity, and how lived experience can become more than memory. It can become a tool.In this episode:Why storytelling matters for VeteransHow resilience shows up through lived experienceWhat details make a story strongerHow tone changes depending on the audienceWhy owning your story can help others find their wayWhether you have told your story a hundred times, avoided telling it altogether, or are still trying to understand what it means, this conversation is about learning how to carry it with purpose.Guest Host: Eric DonohoProducer: Sarah Holmes#CommonVeterans #Veterans #Storytelling #MilitaryPodcast #VeteranSupport #Resilience #MoralInjury #PurpleHeart #HealingAfterWar #FreedomSystem

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    Season 4: Episode 6: The Stuff We Don't Diagnose

    The Stuff We Don’t Diagnose is a conversation about the weight people carry when life does not fit neatly into a label. In this episode of Common Veterans, we sit down with Reverend Pastor Mason Vieth to talk about the things that do not always show up in a chart, a report, or a diagnosis, but still shape the way people live, think, and relate to the world around them.This episode steps away from clinical framing and leans into lived experience. We talk about moral injury, guilt, anger, avoidance, silence, faith, and the long shadow certain moments can leave behind. Some experiences do not sit right with who we believe we are, and even when time moves on, part of us can stay caught there. That is where this conversation begins.Pastor Mason Vieth brings a perspective that is both personal and pastoral. As Kenny and Tony’s home church pastor, he knows them well enough to keep the conversation honest, grounded, and, when needed, from going too far off the rails. His role in this episode is not to hand out easy answers. It is to help make room for reflection, accountability, forgiveness, and hope without pretending every wound can be explained away.Together, this conversation explores what happens when emotions no longer move in straight lines. Anger does not always have a clear target. Guilt does not always fade with time. Avoidance can look like staying busy, shutting down, laughing things off, isolating, or refusing to revisit certain memories. On the surface, that may look like coping. Underneath, it can be evidence of something unresolved still asking to be acknowledged.One of the central ideas in this episode is that not everything needs to be diagnosed in order to be real. There are experiences that carry deep emotional and spiritual weight without fitting neatly into a category. That does not make them less important. If anything, it makes conversations like this more necessary.In this episode, we talk about:moral injury and the burden that can linger when an experience does not sit right with who you believe you areguilt, regret, anger, and resentment that do not always make sense on the surfaceavoidance, silence, and the ways people distance themselves from painfaith, forgiveness, and accountability without easy answersthe importance of being seen and heard without being reduced to a diagnosisThis is one of those episodes that does not rush toward a solution. It sits in the hard space on purpose. It makes room for honesty, reflection, and recognition. Sometimes the first step is not explanation. Sometimes it is simply naming what has been carried for a long time.Guest: Reverend Pastor Mason ViethPodcast: Common VeteransSlainte

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    Season 4: Episode 5: Permission to Fail

    Episode 5: Permission to FailVeterans are good at telling the version of the story that makes sense. Service. Transition. Forward movement. Progress. What often gets left out are the moments in between — the jobs that did not work out, the leadership decisions that fell short, the relationships that took a hit, and the seasons where nothing felt as steady as it was supposed to.In this episode, the hosts take a more honest look at what failure can mean after service. Not as a dramatic ending, but as part of the road that many Veterans quietly walk. This is a conversation about setbacks, identity shock, hard lessons, and the uncomfortable reality that growth often comes through struggle rather than in spite of it.Too often, failure is treated like something to hide or explain away. Veterans especially can feel pressure to present a clean, polished version of life after the military — one where discipline always wins, experience always translates, and the next step always makes sense. But real life is rarely that neat. Sometimes the plan falls apart. Sometimes the transition hits harder than expected. Sometimes what looked like the right move turns out to be the wrong one.FreedomSystem.org joins the conversation to talk about what they see in the Veteran community when those moments happen. They discuss the pattern of Veterans knowing help is there, delaying the reach for it, and then eventually showing up when life has pushed them to a point where something has to change. It is a real look at what failure can stir up — and what can begin when it is finally faced head-on.This episode is not about glorifying mistakes or pretending every setback is somehow inspiring. It is about ownership, reflection, and perspective. It is about understanding that failure does not cancel out growth. In many cases, it creates the conditions for it. The suck is real. The frustration is real. But so is the possibility that what felt like a breaking point was actually the beginning of a better footing.If you have ever felt like your story got messy after service, this conversation is for you. If you have ever looked back at a bad season and realized it taught you more than an easy win ever could, this one will hit home.We are The Common Veterans.Clink.

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    Season 4: Episode2: The Translation Lie

    IntroductionOne of the most common pieces of advice Veterans hear during transition is simple: “Translate your MOS.”The idea sounds reasonable. Replace acronyms with civilian terminology. Turn missions into projects. Convert leadership into management language. Take the language of the military and make it sound like something a corporate hiring manager might recognize.But for many Veterans, that advice never quite works the way it is supposed to.In this episode of Common Veterans, we examine what we call The Translation Lie — the assumption that transition is primarily a matter of converting military language into corporate language.The Limits of TranslationMilitary service is built around mission clarity, hierarchy, and shared expectations. Civilian organizations operate differently, often with less structure and far less shared context.When Veterans are told to simply “translate” their MOS, the result can feel forced. The words may change, but the experience behind them often becomes diluted. Leadership, responsibility, and decision-making shaped in a military environment rarely fit neatly into a few lines of corporate language.Real Conversations About ResumesIn this conversation, we walk through examples many Veterans recognize — resumes that sound impressive but say very little, LinkedIn advice built around buzzwords, and well-intended transition guidance that oversimplifies the reality of military experience.The result can be frustration on both sides. Veterans struggle to communicate what they actually did, and employers struggle to understand the depth of responsibility that service often requires.Bridging Two Different WorldsThe real challenge of transition is not just language. It is culture.Veterans benefit from learning how civilian organizations define responsibility, leadership, and accountability. At the same time, employers benefit from understanding the environments where Veterans developed their experience — environments where decisions are often made under pressure and leadership begins early.When both sides understand each other better, the conversation changes.Special ThanksThis episode also gave us the opportunity to sit down with Ty Bancroft of Bancroft Companies, who joined the conversation and offered perspective from the civilian leadership side of the table.We also want to offer a sincere thank you to Ty and the Bancroft Companies for their generosity in supporting the Common Veterans podcast. Their support helped us upgrade the video equipment used to record these conversations, allowing us to continue sharing these discussions with a wider audience.ClosingTransition from military service is rarely solved by a simple formula. It takes time, reflection, and honest conversations about how experience translates across two very different professional cultures.At Common Veterans, we believe those conversations matter. The more openly Veterans talk about the reality of transition, the more prepared the next generation will be when their time comes.If you are looking for community, resources, or conversations with others who understand the journey, visit FreedomSystem.org.Common VeteransWe are the Common Veterans.Slainte.

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    Season 4: Episode3: When the Uniform

    IntroductionWe begin the way we always do. Host roll call. A moment to recognize the voices in the room and the stories behind them.This episode is brought to you by Winter Oak Studio, who continues to support conversations that matter.Toast: “To the Uniform. There’s ceremony when you put it on. There’s paperwork when you take it off. There’s nothing in between. To the uniform that formed us, the silence that followed it, the mistakes that shaped us, and the purpose that still calls us. Slainte.”The Last DayWe take a slow walk through the final day. CIF turn-in. Signatures collected. Gear accounted for. A last formation that feels both significant and strangely procedural.Then comes the drive off post for the last time. No band. No closing speech. Just an open road and the realization that something structured and familiar has ended.It isn’t dramatic. It’s administrative. And somehow that makes it heavier.Expectations vs. RealityMost of us imagined transition would feel like relief. More freedom. Better pay. Less pressure.Instead, many of us found something else: silence. No rank on your chest. No clear chain of command. No defined mission.And eventually, someone asks, “So what do you do?”It’s a simple question. But when your identity was once summarized in a title, answering it can feel more complicated than expected.Identity ShockWhen the rank is removed, what remains? That question isn’t tactical. It’s philosophical. If identity has been tied closely to function, what happens when the function changes? Are you still the same man or woman without the uniform? Without the authority? Without the structure that once shaped your days? No checklist prepares you for that internal recalibration.Emotional CollisionTransition carries emotions that don’t sit neatly together. Pride in having served. Grief that it ended. Relief mixed with longing. You may find yourself missing people you once complained about. Missing routines you once counted down to escape. Missing the clarity of knowing exactly where you stood. And at times, standing in a crowded civilian space can feel strangely isolating.Mistakes We MadeSome of us withdrew. It felt easier to assume, “They wouldn’t understand,” than to risk explaining. Often some of us carried ego into rooms that didn’t operate on rank. We measured civilian life against military standards and quietly judged what didn’t align. Many of us resisted help. We expected structure to appear on its own, yet expected purpose to be assigned.Things Nobody Warned You AboutYour family built a rhythm while you were serving. Reintegration means learning that rhythm, not overriding it. Civilians do not organize their lives around mission clarity and ambiguity is normal for 'em. You will miss parts of service you once disliked. That realization can be unsettling; most importantly, brotherhood does not automatically continue. It must be maintained intentionally.Theology & Philosophy of TransitionFor many of us, service felt sacred. There was meaning in the discipline. A kind of liturgy in the repetition. Civilian life can feel ordinary by comparison; ordinary does not mean meaningless.The Warrior PrincipleA warrior without direction can become restless. Restlessness, left unattended, can turn destructive... the work of transition is not to erase the warrior. It is to redirect him. To rebuild tribe with intention. To choose a mission rather than wait for one to be assigned.This requires humility. And patience. And community.ClosingTaking off the uniform does not remove your calling. It simply changes the environment in which that calling is lived out. Our encouragement in this episode is simple: call one Veteran. Have one honest conversation. Admit one struggle out loud. Silence loses power when it is shared.If you are looking for community or structured support, FreedomSystem.org continues to build spaces where Veterans can reconnect with purpose.WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANSClink.

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    Season 4: Episode 4: Civilians are Watching

    Movies, television, and social media have created familiar images of Veterans — the unstoppable warrior, the haunted survivor, or the flawless patriot. While often meant to honor service, these portrayals can quietly shape how civilians view and interact with Veterans in everyday life. In this episode, featuring guest host Goose, the conversation explores how media-driven perceptions follow Veterans into workplaces, homes, and communities. The goal is not to criticize storytelling, but to highlight how simplified narratives can create unrealistic expectations for a diverse and complex community. From Screen to RealityPop culture often presents Veterans as one-dimensional characters defined by strength, trauma, or unwavering duty. While compelling, these portrayals rarely capture the full spectrum of Veteran experiences. Veterans return to civilian life as parents, coworkers, students, entrepreneurs, and community leaders, each carrying unique personalities and life goals.These portrayals influence how Veterans are treated professionally and socially. Some workplaces automatically view Veterans as natural leaders, while others may hesitate due to misconceptions about emotional stability. Within families, loved ones may walk on eggshells, unsure how to communicate or offer support. In public settings, well-meaning appreciation can sometimes be paired with misunderstandings shaped by fictionalized narratives. Community Impact and SupportOrganizations likeFreedomSystem.org and InVets frequently see the ripple effects of these perceptions. Many Veterans express interest in support services but delay seeking assistance, often believing they must handle challenges independently or avoid reinforcing stereotypes.At the same time, public respect for military service can open positive opportunities through employment initiatives and community programs. Education and open dialogue remain essential in helping civilians better understand the transition process and the varied realities Veterans face after service. Changing the NarrativeBreaking stereotype cycles begins with authentic storytelling. Encouraging Veterans to share their experiences — through writing, conversation, or creative expression — helps preserve history while strengthening connections between Veterans and civilians. How these stories are shared matters just as much as why they are shared, ensuring conversations remain honest, respectful, and meaningful.Reintegration is not solely a Veteran responsibility. Strong communities grow when both Veterans and civilians listen, learn, and support one another through real human experiences rather than scripted assumptions. The next episode will continue exploring life after service by examining identity changes, personal challenges, and the unexpected realities Veterans encounter when rebuilding civilian lives through reflection, philosophy, and lived experience. We are the Common Veterans.Clink.Sponsor: Winter Oak Studios

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    Season 4: Episode 1: That's Bullsh*t

    We’re not starting Season 4 quietly. We’re not easing in with a polite “welcome back.” We’re kicking off 2026 with a full-throttle “that’s bullsh*t!” and we’re doing it the only way we know how — loud, honest, and unfiltered.Welcome to Common Veterans Season 4.This season is going to be bigger, bolder, and more unapologetically real than ever. And we’re starting with the topic that every veteran, service member, and military family knows all too well:The Military Is Full of BSNot all of it. Some of it makes sense. Some of it’s necessary. But let’s be real — a lot of it is just nonsense. And we’re not afraid to call it out.In Episode 1, “That’s Bullsh*t!”, we dive into the stuff that makes you roll your eyes, laugh, and wonder how anyone ever thought this was a good idea. Pointless bureaucracy Training that exists just to fill time Orders that make no sense Traditions that are outdated but still mandatory Leadership decisions that are so ridiculous they’re almost impressiveAnd yes — we talk about the moments when you just have to embrace the suck because fighting it would be a full-time job.Why We’re Doing ThisBecause the military experience isn’t always heroic speeches and perfect discipline. It’s also: laughing at the absurdity surviving the nonsense learning how to keep your sanity intact even when everything around you feels like it’s falling apartThis episode is a reset. A “we’re back” moment. A reminder that we’re not here to sugarcoat anything.We’re here to tell the truth.The Best BS Moments From Episode 1Without spoiling everything, here are a few highlights that made us laugh and cringe at the same time: The paperwork that somehow takes longer than the job itself Training requirements that don’t apply to anything you’ll ever do Rules that exist just because they always have Moments where you realize the “plan” was made by someone who has never been in the roomIf you’ve ever been in the military, you know exactly what we’re talking about. And if you haven’t — you’re about to get a front-row seat to the most honest version of military life.What You Can Do About the BS (Real Talk)Here’s the thing — we can’t fix all the nonsense. We can’t change the system overnight. But we can control how we respond.In this episode, we talk about what actually works: When to push back When to shut up and do the job When to laugh so you don’t lose your mind How to keep your head above water when everything feels ridiculousIt’s not a guide to “winning” the military. It’s a guide to surviving it — with your sanity intact.Listener StoriesThis season is about real experiences, real voices, and real truth. So if you’ve got a BS story — we want it.Send us your wildest, funniest, most ridiculous military moments and we’ll feature them in upcoming episodes. Whether it’s a short voice clip or a text message, we want to hear it.What’s Coming in Season 4If Episode 1 is any indication, Season 4 is going to be louder, funnier, more honest, and more unapologetic. We’re not holding back. We’re not censoring the truth. We’re just telling it the way it happened.Listen NowSeason 4 of Common Veterans is available now on all major platforms: Spotify Apple Podcasts Google PodcastsIf you’ve ever said “that’s bullsh*t” in uniform — this season is for you.Welcome back. We’re starting Season 4 with a bang, and we’re not stopping.

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    Season 3: Episode 17 - Crossing the Generational Divide

    Veterans of different eras come together to share how military life and reintegration have evolved across generations. From early conflicts to modern warfare, this episode explores what has changed, what hasn’t, and how camaraderie continues to bind Veterans together. I. Introduction The episode opens with reflections on how service differs by decade while the core experience of wearing the uniform remains the same. Toast“A toast to those who came before, those who serve now, and those finding their way home.” Special guests from different services and generations are welcomed into the conversation to help bridge the generational gap. II. Boot Camp to Battle – Then vs Now Veterans discuss enlistment periods spanning several decades and how the military experience has evolved over time. What Has ChangedDiscipline and leadership stylesLiving conditions and military payEquipment and uniformsCommunication HomeLetters versus phone cards versus smartphonesBasic training calls homeCommunication from combat zonesThe shift from handwritten letters to emailsDining Facilities and FoodC-RationsK-RationsMREsModern DFACsIII. Coming Home – Then vs Now Reintegration into civilian life is examined across different wars and eras, highlighting how each generation faced unique challenges when returning home. Conflicts discussed include: World War IWorld War IIKoreaVietnamGrenadaIraqAfghanistanIraq (post-9/11)Modern conflicts and emerging global tensionsGear, Tech, and the Evolution of WarProtective gear and survivabilityThe role of media in shaping public perceptionWeapons systems and ammunitionCommunications, GPS, and battlefield awarenessIV. The Common Thread: Camaraderie Despite generational differences, one constant remains — camaraderie. Veterans discuss how brotherhood has endured while the way it’s expressed has changed between older and newer generations. V. Closing The episode wraps up with announcements and reminders about upcoming Veteran-focused events. Poker eventsBattle of the Bands (including sign-ups)InVets SummitsRemembering and honoring those who servedVI. We Are The Common Veterans No matter the era, the mission, or the uniform, the bond of service endures. This is The Common Veterans.

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    Season 3: Episode 16 - A Home Base

    Veteran HomelessVeterans face unique housing challenges that ripple through lives and families. In Michiana, the gap between need and available, affordable units is painfully real. This episode explores practical steps to find stable housing and rebuild the sense of home many of us carry with us from service.We begin by laying out the common barriers: rising rents, credit challenges, lingering service-related injuries, and the mental health struggles that complicate steady employment and stable tenancy. Rural and urban landscapes create different roadblocks—transportation and isolation in smaller towns, competition and higher costs in cities. Transitional moments like ETS, post-deployment, and retirement are high-risk periods where small setbacks can become long-term instability.Next we take a close look at local supports. Organizations like FreedomSystem.org and Mishawaka Troop Town work to connect Veterans to immediate shelter, case management, and community. Miller’s Veterans program at the South Bend shelter provides structured support that helps people regain footing, though funding, space, and staffing remain constant challenges.We also offer practical actions. Veterans should connect with county VSOs and nonprofit case managers who know HUD-VASH, SSVF, and local voucher systems. Consider creative housing: shared homes, micro-housing units, and modular builds can provide quicker, affordable options. Family and support networks remain vital—sometimes the path to stability is a shared roof while benefits and income get sorted.For property owners and neighbors, the episode outlines how small measures make a difference: flexible lease terms, willingness to accept alternative documentation, and partnering with local groups to vet applicants. Community volunteers can help with move-in assistance, furniture drives, and mentoring.Finally, we reflect on what “home” means: it’s more than shelter. Home is routine, safety, dignity, and a place to reconnect with purpose after service. The episode closes with resources, encouragement, and a call to action: build bridges, not barriers, and help Veterans find a place to belong.Listen, share, and join the conversation—because when a Veteran finds a home base, the whole community is stronger.Additional practical tips:Start with documentation: pull together DD-214, ID, proof of income, and any medical records that support disability claims. These documents speed up eligibility reviews for VA and local programs. If your credit report has errors, dispute them early; small clerical fixes can open rental doors.Emergency funds and stabilization: SSVF and local charities can provide short-term payments for deposits and first month’s rent. Ask about budgeting help and connections to employment supports to reduce future risk.Housing alternatives to explore: contact community land trusts, faith-based housing cooperatives, and nonprofit developers focused on affordable units. Shared housing networks, where Veterans rotate responsibilities, can reduce costs and build peer support. Tiny home villages and modular units are increasingly used as transitional or permanent solutions.Longer-term strategies: work with VSOs to pursue service-connected benefit claims, apply for supportive housing like HUD-VASH, and enroll in employment or training programs tied to stable income streams. Advocate for local policy changes: inclusionary zoning, landlord incentives, and funding for supportive services.Community involvement: volunteer at shelter programs, support fundraisers for local Veteran housing initiatives, and encourage local leaders to prioritize Veteran homelessness prevention. Landlords can partner with nonprofit case managers to mitigate perceived rental risks.Closing encouragement: finding a home base takes teamwork. If you’re a Veteran, reach out—help is available. If you’re a neighbor or community leader, consider how small, concrete steps can change a life, and let's make a difference!

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    Season 3: Episode 15 - From Rations to Recipes

    Episode Summary: This week, we’re talking about how Veterans transition from mess hall meals and MREs to home cooking. From field hacks and chow hall laughs to the joy of sharing a meal with family again — this one’s all about food, memories, and connection. “To the ones that were the best barracks cooks with the hot plate they weren’t supposed to have… to the Divine Intervention that got us through mess hall chow (unless you were Air Force)… to those that learned to eat and keep eating — to the Common Veteran!” WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANSMess Hall MemoriesWe kick off with stories from the good ol’ days — favorite chow hall dishes, ridiculous MRE hacks, and the never-ending battle of “edible versus questionable.” From Ranger pudding to cheese crackers in beef stew, we share how troops got creative when options were limited.Of course, every branch had its own version of “fine dining.” Army chow halls, Navy galleys, and the always-too-fancy Air Force DFACs — all came with stories, laughter, and a sense of family that food always seemed to bring.Cooking for the SoulAfter the service, many of us found that cooking became more than survival — it became therapy. A way to reconnect with family, community, and even ourselves. We talk about how food helps with healing, rebuilding, and finding a little peace in the process.Rations to RestaurantsFrom field rations to Friday night favorites, we shout out local restaurants that serve the community — and maybe warn about a few “stay away from” spots too! We also talk about national chains that give back on Veterans Day like Texas Roadhouse and Applebee’s. Food tastes better when it’s shared — especially with a good cause behind it.The Recipe ExchangeWe swap recipes, share some kitchen fails, and laugh through it all. Here’s one we mention in the episode: Barracks Jalapeno ChickenA field hack turned comfort food — ground beef, broth, veggies, and crushed cheese crackers for a crunchy twist. Quick, simple, and tastes like home (or at least the barracks on a good day). Find more recipes and submit your own at FreedomSystem.org or tag us on social media with #CommonVeterans.Closing ThoughtsShare a meal this week — cook something with family, invite a buddy over, or just eat together. Food connects us, heals us, and reminds us that we’re never alone.Upcoming: Don’t miss our Remember Event on November 8, 2025 — doors open at 1700 hours (5 PM), dinner at 1830 (6:30 PM). It’s going to be one for the books.Next Episode: A Home Base — we’ll tackle Veteran housing challenges with local Veteran Jim Metherd and explore what it takes to create stable homes at Mishawaka Troop Town. “From rations to recipes, it’s not just about what’s on the plate — it’s about who’s at the table.” WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANSSeason 3, Episode 15 • Produced by The Common Veterans • Find us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and at FreedomSystem.org

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    Season 3: Episode 14 - The Battle Within

    The Common Veterans – Season 3, Episode 14: The Battle WithinSome battles aren’t fought on the field—they’re fought within. The Common Veterans continue their candid conversations about mental health, PTSD, and the resources available to support those dealing with invisible wounds.Welcome Back to the FightCase of the Mondays: “This one’s for the Veterans who fight battles no one else sees.”Toast of the Week: “To those who wake up and keep fighting the day—even when they don’t want to.”Understanding the Battle WithinPTSD, trauma, and moral injury manifest differently for everyone. Invisible symptoms like anger, numbness, hyper-vigilance, and quiet guilt can creep into daily life. Stigma around mental health still keeps many Veterans from reaching out.Honest reflections from the Common Veterans dive into what it means to live with PTSD, Shell Shock, and Neurosis. As Friedrich Nietzsche said, The hardest enemy to face is the one that lives in your head.The Good, The Bad, and the Bar TabVeterans cope in various ways:Healthy outlets: fitness, peer groups, creative work, reconnecting with purpose.Unhealthy outlets: isolation, alcohol, pretending “everything’s fine.”Humor can help—but sometimes it hides the real struggle. Remember: coping is the start of the journey, not the end.The Front LineThe conversation turns to families and supporters—spouses, friends, parents, kids, and fellow Veterans. Trauma can impact relationships, communication, and trust. Guidance for supporters:Don’t try to “fix” the Veteran.Listen, stay patient, and take care of yourself.Programs like 4 Vets By Vets provide safe spaces for peer connection and healing. Camaraderie goes beyond friendship—it’s about finding a brother or sister in arms.Picking Up the Right WeaponsTherapy, group support, EMDR, mindfulness, mentoring, and faith can all play a role in healing. Veterans may resist counseling, feeling “impervious to psychoanalysis,” but modern methods sometimes help. And yes, getting your arse to church can help too.Resources for support include:VA programs, local community options, Veteran nonprofits988 – Veterans Crisis Line, then Press 1Healing doesn’t make a Veteran less of a warrior—it proves you still are. Remember, “Until Valhalla” is reserved for those who die in combat; surviving doesn’t diminish your service.Breaking the Cycle – From Surviving to LivingTrauma can echo into the next generation and community. Veteran social clubs often debate what counts as combat experience, highlighting generational differences. Breaking the cycle requires:Forgiveness of oneselfChoosing to think and talk differentlyPeer leadership and mentorshipSharing stories and guiding fellow Veterans helps create a cycle of support rather than isolation.The Battle Isn’t Over, But You’re Not AloneThe Common Veterans roundtable wraps up with a collective message: You’re not broken. You’re battle-tested. Reach out to a brother or sister in arms, talk, and connect.Next Episode: Episode 15 – From Rations to Recipes: Veterans share stories of mess hall meals, favorite recipes, and how they adapt cooking skills to civilian life.Closing Toast: “To the warriors still fighting the unseen war — we see you, we stand with you, and we’ll hold the line until you’re ready to join us again… WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANS!”

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    Season 3 — Episode 13: Veterans in Entrepreneurship

    Hosts: Kenny Holmes, Jeff Schrock, Tony BuoscioGuest: Ty Bancroft — The Bancroft CompaniesIn this episode we highlight Veterans who’ve built businesses and share practical tips for entrepreneurial success. We talk about stories and lessons from founders like Matt Best (Black Rifle Coffee), John Burk (Shell Shock CBD), Daniel Alerik (Grunt Style), and our guest, Ty Bancroft of The Bancroft Companies.Introducing Ty BancroftTy served as an Army Combat Medic and went on to build The Bancroft Companies — a Veteran-owned firm that delivers electrical and utility solutions, roadway lighting, and specialty directional drilling under roads, bridges, and rivers. We cover his military background, business journey, how family influenced the business (including his brother), and what drives the company’s commitment to integrity and quality.Deep Dive — Veteran EntrepreneurshipThe spark: Why Veterans start businesses — purpose, ownership, and using military-honed skills in new ways.Common challenges: financing, translating military experience to civilian markets, and building networks outside the military.Success strategies: what worked, what didn’t, and practical tactics for launching and scaling.Tips for aspiring Vet-preneurs: real, tactical advice from people who’ve been there.We invite listeners to follow, subscribe, and share. Join us at upcoming FreedomSystem.org events:Remember — November 8, 17:00Road Bike Ride — 9/27, Abshire Park, Goshen, IN, 10:00 AMMountain Bike Ride — 10/4, Bonneyville, 9:00 AMBridge the Gap — monthly, 1st Friday, INVets, 17:00ToastDelivered by Kenny with Jeff and Tony chiming in: “Here’s to the Veterans who traded their rifles for risk, their boots for business plans, and their battle buddies for boardrooms. May your mission always be clear, your coffee always be strong, and your success stories always inspire the next generation. To Vet-preneurs—cheers!” WE ARE THE COMMON VETERANSNext Episode — Episode 14: The Battle WithinWe’ll have candid conversations about mental health, PTSD, and the resources that support Veterans. This episode digs into trauma, recovery, and how friends, family, and communities can help. Perfect for anyone who wants to better support a Veteran facing internal battles.If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe on your preferred podcast platform, share with a friend, and drop us a review. Follow FreedomSystem.org for more events and resources for veterans.

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    Season 3, Episode 12: Don’t Stop Believing

    How Veterans can leverage military skills to build networks and navigate civilian careers.To the Veterans who never stopped believing — in themselves, in their brothers and sisters, and in the future. We’ve all been those “streetlights, people, livin’ just to find emotion, hidin’ somewhere in the…” well, usually the VFW or the local dive bar. May we carry the skills we earned in service into every new mission, building bridges, networks, and opportunities. Here’s to resilience, camaraderie, and never giving up on the journey ahead. Cheers!This episode of The Common Veterans is brought to you by Mission: Communicate, a Veteran-owned marketing company that helps businesses and nonprofits share their story, and by Winter Oak Studios, founded by T.C. Miller, author of BlackStar Ops, with our own Jeff Schrock contributing as co-author. Their support keeps this conversation alive.Veterans leave the service with powerful skills — leadership, discipline, adaptability, and teamwork — that translate directly into civilian careers. The real challenge is confidence: learning how to own your background, not downplay it. Many of us have seen how quick decision-making, problem solving, and grit gave us an edge in the civilian workplace. These qualities don’t just fade when the uniform comes off.But resumes alone aren’t enough. Networking is what opens doors. For many Veterans, this can feel uncomfortable — the fear of being misunderstood or stigmatized is real. Too often, companies say they’re “Veteran Friendly” when really what we need are organizations that are “Veteran Ready.” Veteran Friendly means the welcome mat is out. Veteran Ready means there’s a real plan: mentorship, resources, and pathways for growth. The difference is everything.LinkedIn is a great place to start. Build a profile that translates military service into civilian terms and join Veteran-specific groups to expand your circle. Local networking apps like Nextdoor can also open doors to jobs, services, and visibility for Veteran-owned businesses. Private communities matter too — FreedomSystem.org’s social site (currently on Facebook, soon moving to our website) offers a safe Veteran-only space. Platforms like Together We Served help you reconnect with old comrades and form new bonds. These networks work best when we don’t just log in, but actively show up and participate.Navigating the civilian career landscape also requires strategy. Informational interviews are a great way to learn about industries before committing. Mentorship is huge. Every Veteran benefits from both having a mentor and becoming one. Research organizations before interviews, tailor your cover letters, and don’t forget to follow up. Balance humility with confidence — don’t minimize your value, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Pride comes before the fall.And when it comes to mental health, remember that help isn’t limited to the VA. Programs like H.A.P.P.Y. provide independent psychological support without the red tape. Sometimes what we need most is someone outside the system who understands the challenges we face.Stories like John Burk’s remind us that refusing to give up and continuing to network can lead to meaningful civilian careers. Our tenacity and resilience carry us through, proving we never stop believing in ourselves or in each other.So here’s your call to action: reach out to IN Vets or similar organizations that focus on Veteran employment, and take a moment this week to update your LinkedIn profile. You already have the skills — it’s time to share them with the world.We are The Common Veterans — and we don’t stop believing.Next time, join us for Episode 13: Veterans in Entrepreneurship, where we highlight Veterans like Ty Bancroft and John Burk who’ve built their own businesses, and share tips to help you succeed as a Vet-preneur.

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    Season 3: Episode 11: With a Little Help from My Friends

    The Gap We’re ClosingTransitioning from military to civilian life can feel like stepping off a moving train. The speed changes, the rules change, and—surprise— and no one issued you a manual. That’s where mentorship and camaraderie step in. This episode digs into how Veterans can leverage local programs, especially county VSOs and groups like IN Vets and FreedomSystem.org, to build a real support network that lasts.Why Mentorship WorksMentorship isn’t a buzzword; it’s a battle buddy in peacetime. Peer mentors get the culture, the tempo, and the unspoken stuff. They help decode resumes, demystify interviews, and translate “I was NCOIC” into something hiring managers recognize. More importantly, they restore the rhythm of teamwork we miss after ETS/retirement.Trust: Shared experience builds instant credibility.Navigation: From VA claims to first civilian job, someone’s already walked that path.Belonging: The feeling of “I’ve got your six” doesn’t have to end at the gate.Making Your County VSO Work for YouA VSO—Veteran Service Officer—is one of the most overlooked resources in a county. They’re trained to help you navigate VA claims, connect to benefits, and point you toward organizations that can support you. But here’s the catch: they can only help if you actually sit down with them.Show up: Schedule an appointment and bring your DD214.Be specific: Tell them what you need—healthcare, education, housing, claims.Follow up: Paperwork isn’t glamorous, but persistence wins the day.IN Vets (and leaders like MSgt (Ret.) Victoria Molnar) partner with VSOs and employers to turn “good ideas” into working pipelines—mentors, job placements, and community supports that actually answer the call.LDRSHIP: Values that Still Punch Above Their WeightFrom the early 2000s playbook, the Army Values still apply off-duty and off-base. The full acronym is LDRSHIP:LoyaltyDutyRespectSelfless ServiceHonorIntegrityPersonal CourageThese aren’t just posters on a wall—they’re a roadmap for building trust in a world that doesn’t run on rank structure. Carrying these values forward keeps the uniform’s spirit alive in civilian life.One Team, One FightThere’s a reason “One Team, One Fight” sticks. No matter the branch, service era, or MOS, we share the same struggle in transition. It’s not about competing for resources; it’s about linking arms and reminding each other that camaraderie is still the mission. Whether you’re talking to your VSO, plugging into IN Vets, or sitting across from a fellow Veteran at the bar, remember: none of us do this alone.The Truth: Adulting is DumbPaying bills, juggling insurance, and learning how to “network” doesn’t hold a candle to a field exercise or a deployment tempo. Civilian life can feel like death by paperwork. But mentorship, VSOs, and camaraderie soften the blow. It may still be dumb—but it doesn’t have to be lonely.The Toast We MissedSomewhere in the episode, we forgot our toast—classic. So here it is now: "To the mentors who guide, the VSOs who fight the paperwork battles, and the friends who keep us grounded. One Team, One Fight. Cheers!"Till Next TimeSo whether it’s through ⁠IN Vets⁠, your local ⁠VSO office⁠, or simply reaching out to a buddy who might need it, remember: none of us have to do this alone. With a little help from our friends, we can continue to live with purpose, pride, and community.Until next time: PEACE

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    Season 3: Episode 10: Married to a Veteran (The Spouse Episode)

    Married to a Veteran – The Spouse EpisodeSeason 3, Episode 10 of The Common VeteransWhen we think of service and sacrifice, it’s easy to focus on the Veteran — but what about the ones who held the line back home? In this episode of The Common Veterans, Jeff Schrock sits down with two of those very people: Sarah Holmes (wife of Army Veteran Kenny Holmes) and Katy O'Toole (wife of Marine Veteran Adam O'Toole). And when Jenn Schlorke couldn’t make it, her husband — and our own Fred Schlorke — stepped up to represent their marriage and share his perspective on the Veteran-spouse dynamic.This isn’t just another military conversation — it’s the real, unfiltered experience of the military and Veteran spouse. From the stress of deployments to the chaos of solo parenting, from missed milestones to the small victories of surviving the homefront, these conversations give us a candid look into what it truly means to be married to a Veteran.The Other Side of ServiceJeff opens with a toast to the ones who made sure there was still a home to come back to. While the service member was away, training or deploying, these spouses became the cook, the disciplinarian, the financial planner, the home repair expert, and the emotional anchor for their families.Meet the Guests Sarah Holmes – wife of Kenny Holmes, Army Veteran Katy O'Toole – wife of Adam O'Toole, Marine Corps Veteran Fred Schlorke – filling in for his wife Jenn Schlorke, sharing the Veteran’s side of marriage dynamicsEach guest shares stories of family life, marriage, and the challenges and triumphs that come with balancing service and home life.Life Behind the ScenesWhat happens to a marriage under the strain of military life? How do kids process having a parent deployed to a war zone? How does a spouse stay connected to someone on the other side of the world — and keep a family running in the meantime?We explore all of these questions and more. The spouses — and Fred — discuss the long nights of worry, the exhaustion of being "everything to everyone," and the surprising moments of pride that come from being part of a military family.Reintegration and Post-Service LifeWhat happens after the uniform comes off? The conversation shifts to the complexities of reintegration — reconnecting as a family, adjusting to civilian life, and redefining family roles after years of deployments and duty stations.Real Talk and ReflectionsFrom funny stories about miscommunications and military quirks that never die, to heartfelt reflections on personal growth, each guest offers insights that any military family — or civilian curious about military life — will appreciate.Final ThoughtsThe episode wraps with reflections on what people often misunderstand about military and Veteran spouses, along with what each guest is most proud of from their family’s journey.Whether you’re a Veteran, a spouse, a family member, or just someone curious about military life, this episode offers a perspective rarely shared but deeply important.Listen now to Season 3, Episode 10: Married to a Veteran — only on The Common Veterans.Up Next on The Common Veterans:Episode 11: The VFW Episode — The Common Veterans dive into the VFW, the American Legion, and the DAV. What works, what doesn’t, and the quirky traditions that come with them.

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    Season 3: Episode 9: Game Night and Interview with John Burk

    Roll for initiative! In this high-spirited episode, the crew sits down to talk about the games that shaped them—on and off the battlefield. From heated rounds of beer pong in the barracks to late-night strategy battles over Axis & Allies, games have always been a part of the Veteran experience.But this week isn't just about dice and drinks—we're proud to welcome our keynote speaker for the 2025 Remember Event: John Burk. A no-nonsense Army Infantry Veteran, entrepreneur, motivational speaker, and gamer, John brings raw honesty, humor, and energy to everything he touches. Whether you're familiar with his “In the Arena” brand or just hearing him for the first time, you'll understand why we’re fired up to have him speak at Remember.Games: Then and NowWe talk about:Games we played during deployments (some regulation… some not)Drinking games that taught us more than just how to chugThe creative games that built morale when nothing else couldHow gaming has evolved into therapy, connection, and camaraderie in civilian lifeJohn Burk: In His Own WordsIn his interview, John shares stories from his time in uniform, insights into why play and laughter matter, and what fuels his passion for the Veteran community. He’s brutally honest, legitimately funny, and deeply committed to serving beyond the uniform.Gaming Communities & Veteran NonprofitsWe also spotlight gaming orgs doing real work:Alpha Nerds Guild – Co-founded by Kenny and John, connecting Vets through gamingWarrior Veteran GamersStack Up – Bringing mental health & gaming togetherLooking for Games?We suggest a few to get the party started at home: Cards Against Humanity, Axis & Allies, Dungeons & Dragons, and a few of our own twisted creations (like Leftdiculous).Remember 2025 – A TeaseGet ready: this year’s Remember Event is shaping up big.Keynote: John BurkLive music & community gatheringDinner from Chubby Trout & Smoking Fatties – two meats and a dessertChallenge to Our ListenersGot a wild game story or a custom Veteran-themed game idea? Send it in! Winners get Common Veterans swag or free Remember tickets.Next Up: “What Does the Wife Say?”Next week, we hand the mic to military spouses. Jeff Schrock leads a conversation about their role, resilience, and what it’s really like being married to the military. Don’t miss it.Cheers to the games that got us through, and the people we played them with.

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    Season 3: Episode 8: You Can't Do That

    For those who’ve served, transitioning to civilian life can feel like entering a different world. In Episode 8: You Can’t Do That, the hosts of The Common Veterans take a humorous but honest look at what doesn’t translate from the military to the civilian world—and how Veterans are forced to adjust.Field Habits Die HardFrom combat parking at Target to scanning rooms like a security team, old habits are hard to break. Military communication styles—direct and loud—don’t always fly in corporate settings. Even eating habits, like wolfing down meals in two minutes, raise eyebrows.Kenny zeroes in on his biggest pet peeve: posture. “Even my kids. Stand up straight—it’s not that hard!”Mentality MisfiresIt’s not just behaviors—it’s mindset. Mission-first urgency doesn’t always mesh with civilian workflows. Tony admits, “I have trust issues when people say they’ll finish something.” Without structure or hierarchy, projects get lost and leadership gets muddy.Fred adds, “Too many chiefs, not enough Indians,” calling out a common frustration in decentralized civilian teams. And while vulnerability is encouraged in civilian spaces, veterans are often wired to push through silently.“We were taught to suffer in silence. Civilians expect you to speak up.”“In the military, failure meant someone could die. Out here, it just means a reschedule.”Relearning the RulesFred sums up the emotional difference: “Bad things happen and you have to move on.” That kind of resilience is misunderstood outside the military. Dark humor, another survival tool, often misfires in civilian life.Jeff reflects on the struggle of forming trust and relationships. In a roundtable, each host shares something they’ve had to “unlearn” after taking off the uniform—things that helped in service, but don’t always help after it.What’s NextIn Episode 9: Game Night, the team shifts gears for a fun night of games and camaraderie. From strategy to laughter, it’s a reminder that joy and bonding still have a place in post-service life.Whether you served or support someone who did, this episode delivers truth, laughs, and insight you don’t want to miss.

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    Season 3, Episode 7: Trust Me, I Am From the Government

    The Common Veterans explores the seven most dangerous words in the world. In this episode, we dive deep into the promises, pitfalls, and realities of government systems affecting Veterans’ lives—blending candid discussions, expert insights, and real-life experiences. Sponsors Winter Oak Studios Mission: Communicate Setting the Stage Government programs have long been touted as a safety net for Veterans. From the GI Bill and VA Home Loan to the Vet Center and VA Healthcare, they promise opportunity, stability, and care. But how often do those promises match reality? What they should do: Provide support, healthcare, and reintegration tools. What they actually do: Often underdeliver due to red tape, underfunding, or misunderstanding. Navigating the Systems VA Healthcare VSOs can be a lifeline—or a liability. A caring VSO can save lives. An indifferent one can cost them. Breaking It All Down We examine the contrast between bureaucracy and humanity. Systems often forget who they are meant to serve. We ask: Who watches the watchers?We also tackle the civilian-military cultural divide—a source of many of these disconnects. What’s Working Faith-based and nonprofit programs that deliver real community outreach Pilot programs unburdened by legacy bureaucracy Enter FreedomSystem.org & Common Veterans FreedomSystem.org exists because the system wasn’t enough. Built by Veterans, for Veterans, we focus on: Suicide prevention Camaraderie Real-world solutions Final Thoughts Don’t wait for broken systems to fix themselves—self-advocate or find someone who will. Community over complacency: Have your Veteran connect with peers, even if they're Navy. Final Toast: “Here’s to the brothers and sisters we’ve lost—may their memories stay sharp and their legacies never fade. And here’s to those still with us—may we share laughter, carry each other’s burdens, and never forget the bond we earned. Sláinte.” Next Episode Episode 8: GAME NIGHTWe mix camaraderie with competition as Veterans and guests connect over games and good times—celebrating the unique bonds of service through joy and play.

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    Season 3 - Episode 6 - Time

    Through music, the Common Veterans reflect on the songs that helped them survive the suck… and maybe even dance in the rain with a poncho and an MRE.I. IntroductionIn this episode, we dive into how music shaped our military experiences—from boot camp blues to barracks karaoke. Shoutout to our sponsors: FreedomSystem.org, your go-to for veteran support, and whoever left that Bluetooth speaker in the latrine… thank you for your service.II. Setting the StageMusic during service wasn't just background noise—it was therapy, a hype man, and sometimes the only thing louder than our senior NCOs. From Metallica to Motown, it helped us cope, push through, and occasionally start unauthorized dance battles.III. Personal ReflectionsThe team shares personal tracks that carried them through the chaos. Warning: this part contains feelings… and Nickelback. Judge us, we dare you.IV. Stories Behind the Music and NeedsThen and Now: How “Fortunate Son” hit different during field ops. Even though it was a protest song!Resonance Today: These tracks still slap—PTSD-approved.New Civilian Jams: From war drums to dad rock.V. Final ThoughtsMusic connects Veterans across time and branches. Got a track that got you through it? Send it our way. Unless it’s the Barney theme—then we need to talk.VI. ClosingThanks for tuning in, sharing your earbuds, and not judging our playlists (too harshly). Next time, we’re tackling military portrayals in Hollywood—so expect lots of yelling at movie screens.To close this episode… we raise our canteen cups in a toast: To music, to memory, and to that one guy who thought “Eye of the Tiger” was a lullaby. Hooah.

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    Season 3 - Episode 5 - Hollywood

    Episode 5: Hollywood In this episode of The Common Veterans, we take on Hollywood and its portrayal of the military. What’s real, what’s exaggerated, and what just makes us laugh? Before we roll, check out FreedomSystem.org for upcoming events, including our charity poker night and cook-off fundraiser. Call to Action: Subscribe, rate, and share. Support Veterans by spreading the word. Sponsored by VFW Post 985, FreedomSystem.org, and local Vet orgs. What Hollywood Gets Right Camaraderie: Films like Band of Brothers show real brotherhood. Leadership Stress: Black Hawk Down captures the burden of command. Combat Trauma: Lone Survivor highlights emotional strain. Tech Advisors: When movies use real Vets, the details shine. What Hollywood Gets Wrong Combat Scenes: Infinite ammo and bad tactics? Nope. Ranks & Jargon: They mess this up constantly. PTSD Tropes: Not every Vet is broken or explosive. Stereotypes: It’s not all Rambo or sadness. Bad Examples: Jarhead 2, we’re looking at you. Favorite Military Movies Each host shared their favorites and broke them down: Full Metal Jacket – Boot camp? Spot on. The rest? Meh. Saving Private Ryan – D-Day opening still unmatched. American Sniper – Powerful but polarizing. We also laughed at a few ridiculous ones. Not naming names… yet. Hollywood vs. Reality Media shapes public views of Veterans. Unrealistic films cause real harm. We need Veteran voices in film to tell it straight. Honest storytelling helps with reintegration and destroys stereotypes. Outro Next Episode: Time – A look at the music that got us through it all. From deployment tracks to post-service playlists, it’s going to be deep. Shoutout to all supporting orgs, listeners, and Vets doing the work every day. Stay strong, stay proud, and share the mission.

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    Season 3: Episode 4: Honkey Tonk Bar Association

    Honky Tonk Bar Associations – The Common Veterans Podcast Honky Tonk Bar Associations – The Common Veterans Podcast Don't worry—we aren’t showing up in boots to ruin their black-tie affairs. But we do see these organizations for what they are, and in this episode, we break down the VFW, DAV, American Legion, and even our own FreedomSystem.org. What do they do well? Where do they fall short? And most importantly, how can they actually help Veterans? Breaking Down the Big Names VFW (Veterans of Foreign Wars) – Open to combat veterans, great for camaraderie and advocacy, but struggles with modernization. American Legion – Open to all who served, active in local events and scholarships, but some posts feel outdated. DAV (Disabled American Veterans) – Focused on service-connected vets, excellent for claims assistance but lacks the social aspect. FreedomSystem.org – Open to anyone with a DD-214, offering camaraderie programs (Combatives, Mountain & Road Biking, Youth Baseball, Common Veterans), plus unique events like Battle of the Bands and Battle of the Meats. Other Notables – AMVETS, Marine Corps League, VVA, and other niche veteran organizations. What They Actually Do for Veterans VA Claims & Support – Who actually helps veterans navigate the VA system? Camaraderie & Community – Some posts are thriving, others feel like retirement homes. Why? Legislative Advocacy – Which orgs are truly fighting for veterans in Washington? Financial & Emergency Assistance – What’s out there for vets who need urgent help? Employment & Transition Programs – Some are great, others barely exist. Who’s stepping up? Where the Disconnect Happens Why do so many of these places feel outdated and unwelcoming to younger veterans? The struggle is real when it comes to engagement, leadership stagnation, and adapting to the new generation of veterans. Making These Orgs Work for Us Younger Vets Taking Charge – How can we change these organizations instead of letting them fade? Adapting to Stay Relevant – What needs to change to bring these groups into the future? FreedomSystem.org Leading the Way – What we're doing differently to keep veterans engaged and supported. Final Thoughts & Next Episode If we don’t step up, these organizations either die out or continue the same cycle of irrelevance. So, what’s the solution? Tune in for our breakdown, share your thoughts, and get involved. Next Episode: Hollywood – We take on military movies, what they get right, and what they get horribly wrong. 🎧 Listen now on Spotify or your favorite podcast platform.

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    Season 3: Episode 3: Phreaks on a LEash

    Intro & BanterBefore we dive into the madness, a quick shoutout to our sponsor, Winter Oak Studio. If you’re looking for high-quality custom woodwork, whether it’s for your home, office, or something special, check them out!Now, let’s talk about why we’re here: Phreaks on a Leash. Yeah, it’s a nod to Korn, but more importantly, it describes the absolute circus that our military has become under weak and misguided leadership.Who is Pete Hegseth?Pete Hegseth is a former Army officer, Fox News contributor, and a staunch advocate for military tradition. He’s been vocal about the damage done by politically driven policies, calling for a return to warfighting basics.What Makes Him Different? Woke Policies in the Military – Hegseth argues that political correctness is undermining combat effectiveness. Recruitment Failures – The numbers don’t lie. The military is struggling to meet its quotas. Rebuilding Readiness – He’s pushing for a focus on physical fitness, discipline, and warfighting capability over social experiments.The ‘Phreaks’ Running WildRecruitment and Retention are Tanking Lowered Standards – Physical fitness requirements have been adjusted, discipline has weakened. Cultural Shift – Military culture has been diluted. Public Perception – The military is no longer seen as an elite institution.Fire Watch: What to Keep an Eye On Hegseth’s first 100 days – What immediate changes will he make? Recruitment strategies – Will we see a reversal in enlistment trends?Closing ThoughtsUncle Pete has a long road ahead, but one thing is clear: change is coming. Whether you agree or disagree with Hegseth’s policies, the military needs a course correction.Next Episode Teaser: ‘Honkey Tonk Bar Associations’We’re diving into veteran organizations like the VFW, DAV, and American Legion. Are they helping vets like they should? Final Toast & Call to ActionWant to support veteran camaraderie? Visit FreedomSystem.org, check out our upcoming events, and follow The Common Veterans podcast on all platforms.Until next time—stay sharp, stay strong, and never let the phreaks run wild. Cheers!

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    Season 3 Episode 2: Another, Another Brick in the Wall

    Breaking the Wall: Veterans and Career Transitions By The Common Veterans Reintegration into civilian careers can feel like slamming your head against a brick wall. For many veterans, translating military experience into civilian job qualifications is an uphill battle. Resumes get overlooked, HR departments misunderstand skill sets, and the struggle to fit into the civilian workforce becomes a frustrating ordeal. But here’s the truth: Veterans bring leadership, discipline, and problem-solving skills that businesses need—if they can recognize them. The Language Barrier One of the biggest challenges veterans face is how military experience is perceived. A squad leader isn’t just someone who “led a team”—they managed logistics, training, crisis response, and personnel development. A logistics officer didn’t just “move supplies”—they coordinated multimillion-dollar operations under extreme pressure. But too often, resumes filled with military jargon don’t translate into terms hiring managers understand. Cracking the Code The key to breaking this wall? Speaking the right language. Veterans need to frame their experience in a way that resonates with civilian employers. Instead of listing an MOS code, break it down into transferable skills: Squad Leader → Operations Manager / Project ManagerCombat Medic → Emergency Medical Technician / Healthcare SpecialistLogistics Officer → Supply Chain Manager / Procurement Specialist Resources for Success Veterans don’t have to navigate this alone. Programs like SkillBridge, Hiring Our Heroes, and Onward to Opportunity offer career training, internships, and direct hiring pipelines. Networking is another major factor—most jobs are found through connections rather than job boards. Platforms like LinkedIn can be an invaluable tool for making those connections. What Employers Need to Know For companies, hiring veterans isn’t about charity—it’s about tapping into a disciplined, adaptable workforce. Employers who understand the value of military experience gain employees who excel in leadership, teamwork, and problem-solving. The Next Mission The military trained us to complete missions under pressure. Transitioning to civilian careers is just another mission—one that requires the right strategy, tools, and support. If you’re a veteran struggling with career reintegration, remember this: You are not alone. Resources are out there, networks are available, and success is possible. For more insights and veteran support programs, visit FreedomSystem.org. Let’s break this wall together.

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    Season 3 Episode 1: The Reintroductions

    The Common Veterans Podcast: Season 3, Episode 1 The Common Veterans Podcast: Season 3, Episode 1 – The Reintroductions January 27, 2025 The Common Veterans Podcast is back for Season 3! In The Reintroductions, the hosts reintroduce themselves and discuss their mission alongside the work of FreedomSystem.org. Meet the Hosts Kenny Holmes: Medically retired Army veteran (Iraq 07-08), President of FreedomSystem.org, and a jack-of-all-trades. Jeff Schrock: Retired Air Force Chief Master Sergeant, former police officer, and author. Anthony Buoscio: Navy veteran, IT Director, and Bud Light connoisseur. Fred Schlorke: Retired Army Colonel, medical doctor, and FreedomSystem.org Vice-President. Casey Hendrickson: Syndicated radio host, former Army, with a background in CNC and 3D printing. Podcast Mission Helping veterans reintegrate into civilian life Bridging the gap between civilians and veterans Promoting camaraderie and veteran-focused programs FreedomSystem.org: Veteran Support Programs Veteran’s Baseball & Softball: Coaching and community engagement. Poker Tournaments: Fundraising and camaraderie. 4 Vets By Vets: Battle of the Bands, Battle of the Meats. Combatives Training: Self-defense and discipline. Mountain & Road Biking: Fitness and mental health support. Hometown Heroes: Honoring local veterans. The Remember Event: Annual gathering to honor fallen comrades. Why This Matters Strengthening veteran communities and helping civilians understand their challenges. Next Episode: "Another Brick in the Wall Part II" Discussing the transition from military to civilian careers.

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    Episode 15 : Let's Talk About Series - Religion

    Common Veterans: Episode 15 - Let’s Talk Politics Common Veterans: Season 2 Addendum Episode 15: Let’s Talk Series: Politics In this episode of The Common Veterans podcast, part of the "Let's Talk About" series, we break the rule: “Never talk politics, religion, or money at the dinner table.” We’ll dive into politics, its intersection with military life, and a political card game for a bit of fun (and maybe some chaos). Who Are We? Each host shares their perspective, kicking off with Casey explaining the rules of "Leftdiculous", a political card game. Before playing, we discuss what politics means to us as veterans, exploring its personal and military implications. Politics and the Military We explore how politics shapes the military through current events and historical decisions: Pete Hegseth: A potential DoD director pick by Trump. General Chris Donahue: His career has faced Senate roadblocks. Tulsi Gabbard: A former Congresswoman and Army officer as an intelligence pick. These discussions show how decisions in Washington impact military life. Politics Game Night We play "Leftdiculous", a game blending humor with political scenarios. Our rule is simple: Play the game or lose. It’s a fun way to explore political debates and spark productive conversations. Special Outpost: Stolen Valor We address accusations of stolen valor against one of our own. Every veteran here has been vetted, and we stand by their integrity. This segment explores what stolen valor means and how to counter misinformation. Season 3 Preview Season 3 will explore life after service, from transitioning to civilian life to advocacy and creative outlets. With 24 episodes, we’ll highlight how veterans thrive beyond their military careers. Thank you for supporting The Common Veterans. Politics can be divisive, but as veterans, we bring a unique perspective. Stay tuned for more as we wrap up Season 2 and prepare for an exciting Season 3!

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    Episode 14: Let's Talk Series - Ethics and Morality

    Welcome back to The Common Veterans podcast! We’re excited to bring you another episode in our "Let's Talk About" series, where we dig deep into issues that impact Veterans and service members. Today, we’re taking on the complex topic of Ethics and Morality—a subject that touches every part of life, but one that takes on unique meanings in the military and Veteran communities. Understanding Ethics and Morality in a Military Context When we talk about ethics and morality, we’re discussing the foundation of how we judge right from wrong and act accordingly. For many of us, these ideas are first shaped at home, through family, school, and community. But in the military, our understanding of ethical behavior often evolves, shaped by rigorous training, the demands of service, and the moral challenges that arise in situations most civilians will never encounter. In this episode, we’ll explore these foundational concepts and dive into what makes ethical behavior distinct from moral beliefs. For some, ethics are the rules or principles set by society or institutions, while morality often reflects our personal values. We’ll reference insights from our recent discussion on religion to frame these differences and understand how they’re viewed within military life. Facing Ethical Challenges in Service One of the most unique aspects of military service is how it presents ethical challenges that are rarely found in civilian life. In the field, service members may face difficult decisions that test their values and beliefs. How do you act when commands or circumstances push those boundaries? When is following an order the ethical thing to do, and when might it conflict with personal morality? Military codes of conduct are designed to provide structure and guidance during high-stress situations, but real-life scenarios often don’t fit neatly within any rulebook. Whether it’s a decision made in combat, a command that seems morally gray, or the ethical responsibilities of leadership, these experiences create moments that shape a person’s ethics and morality for a lifetime. Living with Military Ethics in Civilian Life After returning to civilian life, Veterans often find that the ethical framework developed during service doesn’t always align with what they encounter in the civilian world. The transition can be challenging, as situations that once seemed clear-cut in the structured environment of military life may feel complex and ambiguous back home. This experience is sometimes referred to as "moral injury," a term for the internal conflict that arises when a person’s actions—or the actions they’ve witnessed—violate their core moral beliefs. For many Veterans, moral injury is one of the hardest wounds to heal, but fortunately, there are resources and communities offering support. In this episode, we’ll touch on some of these resources and discuss ways that Veterans can find healing and adapt to their post-service lives. Looking Ahead: Politics To close out today’s episode, we’re excited to announce that our next "Let’s Talk About" installment will focus on Politics. It’s a topic that plays a significant role in military and Veteran life, influencing everything from policy to personal perspectives. In this next conversation, we’ll discuss how political issues impact those who serve, and we’ll share insights on the role of political beliefs within the Veteran community. Thank you for joining us as we dive into these meaningful conversations. Make sure to subscribe, share your thoughts, and stay tuned for our next episode!

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    Episode 13: Let’s Talk Series: Religion

    In this episode of The Common Veterans podcast, we continue our "Let's Talk About" series by diving into the topic of religion. We explore what religion means, its role within the military, and how it impacts the lives of Veterans. Whether deeply religious or not, we open the floor for a thoughtful discussion on how faith and spirituality intersect with military life. Introduction to the “Let’s Talk About” Series Our “Let’s Talk About” series is a space for veterans to explore important topics in a deeper way. We started with Religion, with upcoming episodes focused on ethics, morality, and politics. Each discussion brings forward the unique perspectives of service members and Veterans. Defining Religion Religion is a system of beliefs, values, and practices that helps people understand the world and their place in it. However, it’s important to distinguish religion from denominations—religion refers to broad traditions like Christianity or Islam, while denominations are branches within those religions, such as Catholicism or Methodism. Religion in the Military The military is a place of religious diversity, where service members from various backgrounds and faiths come together. Religion often provides a sense of comfort and strength during difficult times, such as combat deployments. In this episode, we explore how religion shapes service members’ lives and how the military accommodates diverse faith practices. Veterans and Faith After transitioning out of the military, faith continues to play a key role in the lives of many Veterans. Religion or spirituality often helps Veterans cope with challenges like PTSD or loss. Some reconnect with traditional religious communities, while others find solace in alternative spiritual practices like meditation or nature. Next Episode: Ethics and Morality Stay tuned for our next episode on Ethics and Morality, where we’ll dive into the foundations of ethical behavior and moral decision-making, especially in the military context.

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    Episode 12: The Burn Pit

    Welcome back to The Common Veterans! In this special edition of the blog, we’re introducing a new segment: The Burn Bit. This is where things get wild and we let the conversation flow, no script, no agenda—just pure, unfiltered thoughts on everything from politics to what made us laugh so hard we spilled our coffee this morning. If you tuned in to our latest podcast, you probably heard us go from discussing some serious political issues to cracking up over completely unrelated stuff. That’s The Burn Bit for you—it’s the chaos you never knew you needed. We kicked things off with a deep dive into politics—typical, right? What started as a rant about the latest headlines somehow spiraled into us questioning how politicians can argue for hours without ever answering the actual question. It's like watching a bad reality show—except we can't change the channel. But then, right when things got heated, we took a hard left turn into comedy, reminiscing about the weirdest things we saw while deployed. Someone brought up the time a guy tried to fix an engine with duct tape. No joke—he was dead serious, like duct tape was about to solve all his problems. Spoiler: it didn’t. The conversation quickly devolved into sharing the funniest, most ridiculous moments we’ve experienced in service (and trust us, there’s no shortage). But The Burn Bit wouldn’t be complete without a little philosophy sprinkled in, because why not? One minute we’re laughing about misadventures in uniform, the next, we’re pondering life’s big questions. How did we get from debating military policy to asking, “What is the meaning of life?” No clue. But when you’ve got a group of veterans together, that’s how conversations tend to roll—unpredictable, insightful, and often hilarious. We touched on everything—like how comedy’s become this battleground in today’s culture, and whether people are too sensitive these days. Can we laugh at the same stuff we did years ago? Is it all too serious now? Somewhere along the line, we decided that no matter what, humor’s got to be a part of the conversation. It’s what kept us going through the tough times, and it’s what keeps us sane today. And of course, it wouldn’t be The Common Veterans without a shoutout to our own crazy lives. From the “back in my day” stories to the “what are kids even talking about these days” rants, we covered it all. We even threw in a debate over which MRE is the worst—because somehow, food always sneaks into the conversation. And if you think we reached a consensus on that one, think again. (But we all agreed that anything labeled “meatloaf” was pretty suspicious.) That’s the beauty of The Burn Bit—it’s all over the place, just like life. One second you’re ranting about the state of the world, the next you’re cracking jokes about things that only veterans would understand. There’s no clean transitions, no neat conclusions, just a group of veterans talking about whatever’s on their minds, however random it may seem. And we love it that way. It’s real, it’s unfiltered, and it’s ours. So, if you haven’t yet, go check out the latest episode and join us in The Burn Bit. Who knows what we’ll talk about next week—maybe we’ll solve world peace, or maybe we’ll just keep debating the best way to make coffee in the field. Either way, you won’t want to miss it. Until next time, stay safe, stay caffeinated, and keep laughing. From Politics to PunchlinesPhilosophical TangentsThe Lighter Side of Veteran LifeEverything in Between

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    Episode 11: Bunker Banter

    Season 2: Episode 11 of the Common Veterans Podcast brings a new level of fun and unpredictability! In this episode, titled “Bunker Banter: The Common Veterans Game Night”, our hosts take a break from their usual deep-dive discussions to bring listeners into the world of Game Night. But this isn't just any game night—this time, AI joins the party, and things take an unexpected turn. In this special episode, the Common Veterans decided to embrace technology by using AI to help craft a unique game. What makes it even better? No one is held accountable for the things that come out of their mouths! Imagine a combination of quick-witted banter, unpredictable questions, and a rule that ensures whatever is said stays within the bunker. With AI generating random and often hilarious prompts, our veterans navigate a maze of absurd scenarios, surprising revelations, and hilarious conversations. Whether it’s sharing outrageous stories or coming up with unexpected answers to AI-generated questions, the game night keeps the fun rolling and the laughter uncontrollable. While Common Veterans typically focuses on topics like veterans' issues, stories from the field, and practical advice, this episode offers a refreshing change of pace. Sometimes, the best way to connect and unwind is through a lighthearted game with friends. And that’s exactly what this episode offers—a chance for listeners to laugh, relax, and hear a different side of their favorite hosts. Expect twists, turns, and plenty of unexpected moments, as our veterans navigate the AI-powered chaos. You won’t want to miss the unscripted hilarity that ensues! So grab a seat, sit back, and prepare for an unforgettable game night with the Common Veterans! Listen now to Season 2, Episode 11: Bunker Banter: The Common Veterans Game Night and experience the blend of camaraderie, comedy, and unpredictability that only AI and a group of veterans can deliver. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave us a review—let us know if you think you could handle the madness of game night in the bunker! A Game Unlike Any OtherWhy This Episode Stands OutTune In and Join the Fun!

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    Episode 10: The Truth Is...

    In this episode of The Common Veterans, the hosts dive deep into "the truth" about military life, veteran experiences, and how these realities are often misunderstood by the public. This episode aims to debunk myths, confront negativity in the media, and provide insights into what it truly means to be a service member. Here’s a summary for those who prefer reading over listening: The episode begins by defining what the military is: a structured, disciplined organization tasked with protecting and serving a nation. The hosts explain the different branches of the military and their unique missions. They emphasize the values that guide service members, like duty, honor, and commitment, which are foundational to military culture. What does it really mean to be a veteran, a combat veteran, or as the hosts call themselves, a "common veteran"? This section explores the diverse experiences of those who have served. From combat zones to administrative roles, every veteran has a unique story. The episode also touches on the challenging transition from active duty to civilian life, highlighting the complexities of reintegration and finding new purpose. One of the most significant topics is how civilians perceive the military. The hosts dispel several common misconceptions about veterans and military personnel, challenging stereotypes that often arise from media portrayals. Is there a civilian-military divide? The podcast explores this question, encouraging civilians to learn more about veterans' lives and foster greater understanding between both groups. The media’s portrayal of the military often leans toward negativity, with a focus on controversies and sensationalism. The hosts discuss the impact this has on veterans’ mental health and the public's perception of the military. However, they also share inspiring stories of service and heroism, which rarely make headlines. The episode calls on listeners to actively seek out and share positive stories about the military and veterans, offering a much-needed counter-narrative to the dominant media trends. Today’s military faces new and evolving challenges, from cyber warfare to peacekeeping and humanitarian missions. The hosts discuss how these roles have changed over time and the modern pressures that service members face in a rapidly shifting global landscape. They emphasize the need for adaptability and resilience among today’s military members. Looking ahead, the hosts discuss what the future holds for military service. How will new threats shape the way the military operates? What changes can recruits expect? They stress the importance of honoring the legacy of service while staying prepared for the future. In a lighter segment, the hosts tease the next episode: Game Night! Tune in to hear the veterans take a break from serious discussions to enjoy camaraderie over games, showcasing the strong bonds that military service fosters.

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    Episode 9 - What's Your Victor, Vector?

    The military has a unique culture and language, with acronyms being a significant part of it. These abbreviations are essential for communicating complex information quickly and effectively. For those outside the military, this can seem confusing. Here’s a brief look at why acronyms are so important in the military and some of the most common and humorous ones used. Why Are Acronyms Important? Acronyms are crucial in the military for efficient communication, especially in high-pressure situations where speed and clarity are vital. They condense lengthy terms into shorter, memorable forms, reducing the chance of miscommunication. For example, "High Mobility Multipurpose Wheeled Vehicle" is simply "HMMWV" or "Humvee." Acronyms also help create a shared language and identity among service members, reinforcing unity and camaraderie. Common Military Acronyms Here are some frequently used military acronyms: AWOL (Absent Without Leave): Refers to someone missing from their duty without permission. MRE (Meal, Ready-to-Eat): A self-contained meal for service members in the field. PCS (Permanent Change of Station): Relocation of a service member to a new duty station. IED (Improvised Explosive Device): A homemade bomb used by insurgents. ROE (Rules of Engagement): Guidelines for when and how forces can engage in combat. These acronyms are just a few examples, with each branch having its own set related to its specific operations. Humorous Military Acronyms Military life can be stressful, so service members often create funny acronyms to lighten the mood. These humorous terms reflect the everyday realities and frustrations of military life. For example, SNAFU means "Situation Normal, All Fucked Up," a humorous nod to chaotic situations. BOHICA stands for "Bend Over, Here It Comes Again," indicating a repeated, unwelcome occurrence. FIGMO ("Finally, I Got My Orders") expresses relief at a new assignment, often moving away from a less desirable post. Conclusion Military acronyms serve practical and cultural purposes. They simplify communication, reduce errors, and create a sense of identity and unity among service members. Whether serious or humorous, these acronyms are an integral part of military life, offering a glimpse into the unique experiences and camaraderie of the armed forces. Understanding them provides valuable insights into the complexities and culture of military life.

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    Episode 8: Meme Me: What’s Your Favorite Meme?

    In this episode of The Common Veterans, the hosts dive into the world of memes, exploring how humor plays a crucial role in the lives of veterans. “Meme Me: What’s Your Favorite Meme?”, this episode promises a blend of laughter, nostalgia, and insightful discussions about the unique sense of humor within the military community. I. Favorite Memes The episode starts with each host sharing their favorite memes and explaining why they resonate with them. Tony, for instance, brings in his collection of Gay (Navy) Memes, sparking a lively discussion about the background and context of these humorous images. The hosts delve into how these memes reflect various aspects of military life and veteran experiences, highlighting the shared understanding and camaraderie they foster. II. Humor in the Military The conversation then shifts to the broader role of humor in the military. The hosts discuss how humor helps service members cope with stress and difficult situations, referencing popular platforms like Vet TV and influencers such as CPT Wedley, John Burk, Drew Hernandez, and Jokko. Personal anecdotes and stories about using humor during their service add a personal touch, illustrating the unique sense of humor within the veteran community and why “nothing is sacred.” III. Memes and Mental Health The episode also explores the therapeutic potential of memes and humor for veterans dealing with PTSD and other mental health issues. The hosts discuss how sharing a laugh over a relatable meme can provide relief and connection, serving as an informal form of therapy. Tune in to The Common Veterans for a hearty laugh and a deeper understanding of how humor and memes play a vital role in the lives of those who have served.

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    Episode 7: Got Any More of those Deployments, Man?!

    Welcome back to another episode of Common Veterans, where we delve into the diverse and often untold stories of those who have served our country. In this seventh installment of Season 2, titled "You Got More of Those Deployments," we explore a theme that resonates deeply within the veteran community: the complexities of multiple deployments. For many veterans, the question "You got more of those deployments?" encapsulates both the camaraderie and the challenges of military service. Each deployment represents a chapter in the lives of these brave men and women, marked by duty, sacrifice, and a unique blend of emotions that only those who have served can truly understand. Throughout this episode, we will hear firsthand accounts from veterans who have navigated multiple deployments. Their experiences vary widely, from the adrenaline rush of combat zones to the quieter moments of reflection during downtime. We'll explore the impact of prolonged separations from loved ones, the evolution of camaraderie among unit members, and the personal growth that comes from facing adversity in different corners of the world. Moreover, we'll examine how each deployment shapes a veteran's identity and influences their transition back to civilian life. The challenges of readjustment, finding a new sense of purpose, and coping with the invisible wounds of war are themes that underscore the resilience and strength of our veterans. As we embark on this journey together, it's important to recognize that while each veteran's story is unique, their collective experiences bind them in a shared tapestry of service to our nation. Common Veterans strives to honor these stories, offering a platform for voices that deserve to be heard and insights that deserve to be understood. Join us as we explore the profound impact of multiple deployments in Episode 7 of Season 2, "You Got More of Those Deployments." Through these stories, we hope to foster a deeper appreciation for the sacrifices made by our servicemen and women and a greater understanding of the challenges they face long after their uniforms are laid to rest.

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    Episode 5: Proud to be an American

    The Common Veteran’s Season 2 Episode 5: Proud to be an American The Common Veterans are all United States Military Veterans. Pride in the country is pride in their service because they were willing to write a blank check to include up to their lives. The life of a Veteran often revolves around their service and how much they love their country. The Common Veterans discuss their love for God and country and the transition back into a noncombatant once back home… I) Correlation Often Relates to Causation a. Being an American i. Being proud to be an American often stems from upbringing and family members loving their country b. Becoming a Veteran i. Marketing or family heritage… Maybe something else 1. The Few… The Proud… The Marines 2. An Army of One 3. Aim High 4. Family Heritage – Dad, Grandpa, Uncle, etcetera were Veterans 5. College tuition 6. The recruiter saw you coming II) Service = Citizenship – Love of Country a. Becoming a soldier promotes love of country i. Have to love the country to be willing to die for it ii. Path to citizenship through the Green Card Program b. Any stories of war that can be told to III) American’s Take Veteran’s for Granted… or do they? a. Soldiers go to war and often come back loving their country more… i. Notwithstanding bad pullouts of combat areas ii. Provides love of Country because they don’t know what they have till they don’t have it anymore. iii. Americans love our soldiers, but don’t understand what Veterans did for this great country IV) Pride is Pride Not Your Knees or Flags i. There is one American flag 1. Flag code ii. Don’t take a knee over the National Anthem – that is a military anthem about the soldiers who died V) Next Podcast: Episode 6: Daddy’s Mad, or is He? a. The Common Veterans figure out and discuss having kids and how they teach their kids to cope with “Daddy’s Mad,” even though Daddy may not be mad, just dealing with PTSD.

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    Episode 4: Let’s Talk About War

    The Common Veteran’s Season 2 Episode 4: Let’s Talk About War “War, huh, yeah… What is it good for?” The Common Veterans take on war – the amount of Veterans that have fought in combat – or been to a combat zone, and why it is so hard to transition back into a noncombatant once back home… I) Defining War and Combat Experiences a. What is war? i. Is it just a state of mind or an actual state of being? b. What is considered a combat experience? i. Combat arms vs. Support 1. Define POG 2. Define Combatant II) What does war do to Veterans? a. Is it an all-one-size-fits-all situation? i. How much does one's mindset play a role in combat? ii. Does being physically fit change the mental aspect of things? b. Any stories of war that can be told to emphasize what it means to be a warrior? i. Combat explosions ii. Door kicking iii. Medical aspects iv. Support for… III) Transitioning back to civilians… Uh what?! a. Support systems that… well.. support! i. Family doesn’t always understand ii. Vet organizations such as VFW, DAV, American Legion iii. Nonprofits: FSO, Team RWB, Get Wet for a Vet. Etc… b. Linking PTSD to TBI to survivor’s guilt to readjusting to civilian life i. Mental health is not often right away IV) Continuing on, what’s next? a. Figure out your triggers are: i. What is a trigger? ii. How do we become the next level combatant? V) Next Podcast: Episode 5: Proud to be an American a. The Common Veterans are all United States Military Veterans. Pride in the country is pride in their service because they were willing to write a blank check to include up to their lives. The life of a Veteran often revolves around their service and how much they love their country. The Common Veterans discuss their love for God and country.

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    Episode 3: Free Lunch Day

    The Common Veteran’s Season 2 Episode 3: Free Lunch Day The Common Veterans discuss Free Lunch Day. Free Lunch Day is and was Veteran’s Day. The Common Veterans talk about their favorite meals and why it is now been adopted by this pet name. The dangers of it and the gratitude that comes with getting a free meal, or are they free? I) Free Lunch Day? a. Discuss the historical significance of Veteran's Day and how it has evolved into being referred to as "Free Lunch Day" among veterans. i. Veterans were not always recognized. ii. Soldiers start to expect it. 1. Overdo it – some go to many restaurants, and it becomes a lot b. Explore the reasons behind this shift in terminology and what it means to the Common Veterans. II) Favorite Meals and Restaurants a. Share personal stories from the Common Veterans about their favorite meals on Free Lunch Day. i. What changes when a Veteran dines with another Veteran? 1. Shared experiences ii. Traditions that last 1. Common Veterans is a time for us to eat, rehearse, record, then reminisce! 2. Changes hearts and minds. a. Caleb i. Best V-Day Ever. III) Gratis is Awesome, But Does it Attract Scammers? a. Examine the potential dangers of Free Lunch Day, including overindulgence and exploitation of veterans. i. Discuss the differences between restaurants that care vs those that create a “free meal” for marketing 1. Offer no drink. 2. Require to eat in a restaurant rather than eating at home ii. Does it matter that it is a “free lunch?” 1. Better to have a free lunch or get together as Veterans and brothers/sisters in arms? b. Discuss the stolen valor people that it attracts. c. Stigma of being, “Anyone would do what I did” (Not a hero.) IV) Next Podcast: Episode 4: Let’s Talk About War a. The War, huh, yeah… What is it good for?” The Common Veterans take on war – the amount of Veterans that have fought in combat – or been to a combat zone, and why it is so hard to transition back into a noncombatant once back home… b. Until next time

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    Episode 2: Navigate the VA

    A Veteran who needs to navigate the VA is frequently turned off by the lengthy process that is sometimes experienced. The Common Veterans discusses best practices on how to get started with the process and how to be your own best advocate.

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    Episode 1: The Stories Are Real

    The Common Veterans take on the stories that Veterans tell – are they real or lies? Do the fish get bigger by the year, or does the memory of the storyteller seem to tell some tales? The Common Veterans bring a fresh perspective on the whopper that got away…

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    Episode 12: Take This Job and Shove It

    Common Veterans Podcast SEASON 1 ADDENDUM Episode 12: TAKE THIS JOB AND SHOVE IT From getting out of the military to new jobs as civilians, the transition inevitably feels like it was forced! The Common Veterans take a stab at why everything seems so difficult to do in a civilian job. I. Introduction a. Welcome to the addendum to Season 2 i. Why we do what we do ii. Brief introduction to being a military member and the sense of humor and mindset that goes along with it II. I QUIT a. Leaving the military and returning to civilian life perspectives i. Initiative ii. Humor b. You don’t know what you don’t know… i. Specialized jobs such as combat arms have a different view on civilian employers ii. Logistics and public figures iii. Life in the background c. Can you trust your civilian counterparts like you trust your military siblings? i. Cops and firefighters ii. Doctors and social workers iii. General civilian contracting III. Entrepreneurial Spirit a. Veterans start their own companies… i. Bro shirts 1. GruntStyle CEO gets the boot 2. Other Veteran owned companies ii. Creative Companies 1. Craft companies a. Leather b. Graphic Design c. C&C and Printing 2. Podcasting and Public speaking iii. OnlyFans and other sex work 1. Veteran’s do this? iv. Chapter 30 Benefits – Section 4 IV. Retirement and Disability and other Benefits a. You earned it, get it i. Many Veterans don’t utilize their earned benefits because the process is hard. 1. Need to be your own self-advocate. b. College Benefits are more than just college i. Get a degree with the GI Bill ii. Chapter 30 VA Benefits through the VA 1. Helps entrepreneurs establish or get trained in a specific realm. a. Spouses can utilize it as well. b. Children, in the state of Indiana, can go to school for free if you have at least a 0% rating c. Retirement is not Retiring (for most) i. Retiring from the military a lot of times is not the end for military members. 1. No Golf 2. Work still a. Bored b. Not enough to live on V. TAKE THIS JOB AND SHOVE IT!!! a. What does it take to quit the military and why people get out if everything is so good. i. Review the redeployment process. 1. Not just for getting out of the military, but out of the country b. Becoming self-made i. Camaraderie helps and being relational ii. Having initiative to do what needs to be done c. Working for the “man”. VI. Wrap up a. Conclusion of being a Veteran b. End Season 2 Toast c. Common Veterans

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    Episode 11: Addendum 1: Oh Say Can You See

    Understanding Military Traditions: Exploring the Why Behind the What Introduction Welcome readers to the "Common Veterans Podcast: Season 1 Addendum," where we delve into the rich tapestry of military traditions, unraveling their deeper meanings and historical significance. We'll uncover why these practices endure, shedding light on the unique mindset and sense of humor prevalent among military members. The Purpose of Traditions Military traditions are more than rituals; they serve as threads weaving together the fabric of camaraderie, honor, and history within the armed forces. Understanding their origins provides a deeper appreciation for the cultural backbone of military life. Traditions Are Traditional The Salute From its roots in the Middle Ages as a gesture of peace to its modern-day symbolism of respect and recognition, the salute is a cornerstone of military etiquette. Taps and Reveille The solemnity of waking to a cornet's notes and the symbolism behind honoring the national colors being lowered underscore the reverence for duty and sacrifice. Covers (Hats) Outside Beyond fashion, these headpieces signify protection, camouflage, and a visible marker of rank, fostering a sense of unity and distinction among service members. Being Pinned The act of pinning, whether for rank or awards, represents a badge of honor earned through dedication, sacrifice, and the pursuit of excellence. It's a tangible symbol of one's journey and accomplishments. Because We Can Military balls, replete with unique rituals like the Army's "Grogg" or the Air Force's "Jeff," offer glimpses into the unit's identity and shared experiences, strengthening bonds among comrades. Walking the Line Physical Training (PT) and Uniforms Beyond physical fitness, PT instills discipline and preparedness, while uniforms promote unity and morale—a visual representation of a collective identity. Hazing A controversial practice that, in elite units, serves to test resilience and integration. Stories from these experiences illuminate the dynamics within these specialized circles. Battle Buddies and Group Dynamics Emphasizing the importance of teamwork, battle buddies epitomize the ethos of collective success and safety, forming the backbone of military operations. Deployments and Beyond Embracing More Traditions Exploring further traditions or quirks unique to different branches or deployments, highlighting the diversity and richness of military cultures. Conclusion Addendum II Teaser As we conclude this deep dive into military traditions, stay tuned for our next podcast, "Take This Job and Shove It," where we explore the service concept and possibly feature a special guest shedding light on their experiences.

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    Episode 10: Friends in Low Places

    Common Veterans Podcast Episode 10: Friends in Low Places VFW, DAV, American Legion, Marine Corps League, and other fraternal organizations are there for Veterans. This breakdown of the organizations talks to members about the benefits of these program's camaraderie. The Common Veterans represent FreedomSystem.org’s martial arts and mountain bike association.   I.                    Introduction                                                                i.      Friends in Low Places 1.      Introduce the standby Veteran Fraternal Organizations and their missions and why.                                                              ii.      Brief Overview of the benefits of the group 1.      Positives 2.      Negatives II.                  More Than Just Bars a.       Bartenders are there, but that isn’t the only reason for them to be there.                                                                i.      Drinking socially good? Or Bad? 1.      Opens up. 2.      Opens up too much.                                                              ii.      It’s a social club… 1.      Camaraderie is built here among Veterans from all different age groups. 2.      Not a lot of physicality 3.      Has to be open to the public or will not survive monetarily. b.      Some organizations are not attached to bars.                                                                i.      FreedomSystem.org is not a bar, but do meet at fraternal organizations that have them 1.      FSO focuses on fitness and shared experiences from military service. 2.      FSO supports fraternal organizations through shared goals                                                              ii.      Team RWB is a fitness organization 1.      Originally a totally Veteran organization, it now allows non-veterans to run their goals a.       Puts non-vets in leadership roles                                                            iii.      Fraternal organizations often have specific goals and only allow specific people to join them 1.      Marine Corps League 2.      VFW 3.      DAV III.                Stories, The Fish is Always Bigger a.       Members tell stories of their exploits.                                                                i.      Common Veterans share their military stories. 1.      Stories become what everyone needs. 2.      Shared experiences from different combat times help create more fraternization and become friends.                                                              ii.      Different organizations, different stories? 1.      Multi-members have different experiences in different organizations and go to different areas for different types of camaraderie. a.       VFW then to DAV, etcetera b.      Moose and Eagles c.       American Legions and Auxiliaries IV.                Join or nah? a.       Joining a fraternal organization can have its merits…                                                                i.      Positives                                                              ii.      Negatives                                                            iii.      Neutrals V.                  Conclusion a.       Recap fraternal organizations' essential role in supporting veterans and fostering camaraderie. b.       Encouragement for listeners to explore and support these organizations or similar initiatives in their communities. c.       Closing thoughts emphasize the importance of camaraderie in veterans' journey and the impact it has on their lives. VI.                Next Episode -  Next Season a.       Our next episode is or next season, but there may be a few more episodes this season that pop out of nowhere! Stay tuned.

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    Episode 9: Valhalla

    Common Veterans Podcast Episode 9: Valhalla The belief that dying in battle brings soldiers to the table of Odin. The Common Veterans take on the sensitive topic of suicide and PTSD. ** WARNING ** This episode discusses a very sensitive subject with Common Veterans. This episode discusses suicide, religion, the different beliefs of certain religions, and triggers that could be hard to handle. I. Introductions a. Which of us has experienced someone that has suicided or attempted suicide i. Fred ii. Jeff iii. Tony iv. Kenny II. Let's talk about life. a. Being a Veteran means that one has signed a blank check to the government for them to cash, up to life itself i. Being killed in combat is not suicide ii. Suicide is illegal in the military 1. Suicide is illegal in most of the United States and goes against the Constitution of the United States – “Pursuit of happiness…” b. Cannot separate body and soul i. Separating the soul from the body is death 1. Souls go where the body has been commended to a. Heaven b. Hell c. Purgatory (?) c. Religions do not condone suicide i. Christianity 1. Martyrism – certain death, but saving lives ii. Muslim 1. Suicide bombing to certain sects gets them Virgins iii. Judaism 1. Assisted suicide from a doctor to maintain iv. Shinto 1. Only as an act of selflessness III. Valhalla a. Valhalla, Old Norse Valhöll, in Norse mythology, is the hall of slain warriors who live there blissfully under the leadership of the god Odin (Encyclopedia Brittanica) i. Modern Day Interpretations are that this is the “Warrior’s Heaven” 1. Dying in combat sends you to Valhalla a. This was the old Norse thought b. Valhalla today is not always “combat related” IV. Modern Day Valhalla a. The interpretation often for modern-day Valhalla is that Valhalla is for anyone who sees combat and dies regardless of their death. i. This often includes suicide with the response of “Til Valhalla!” 1. This frequently glorifies suicide and states that you’ll be in a Heaven type environment once your soul is separated from your body 2. As we discussed earlier there is no religion that condones suicide b. Many people discuss that for it to be suicide you have to be in the right headspace and timing i. Anyone that creates suicide are not in the right headspace 1. Mental health illness is very real and usually puts people in the wrong frame of mind 2. Being depressed does not make you suicidal V. Suicide is Selfish a. Suicide is a selfish act and it doesn’t only take away from the suicided, but the family and love ones of the suicided i. Makes things difficult for people who loved the suicided 1. Trauma for whomever finds and/or cleans up the mess made 2. Loved ones wonder why a. Even with a suicide note on why there is often something left out and the reason is never really ever uncovered b. No suicide note = never having closure i. Speculation only ii. Renders any act of selflessness useless 1. Committing suicide is selfish and any aid that was given to others makes it useless VI. Closing up a. Review what has been discussed i. Life ii. Separation of Body and Soul iii. Religions iv. VALHALLA v. Selfishness b. Where to get help i. National Suicide Hotline 1. 988 2. 1-800-273-TALK(8255) ii. Veteran Suicide Hotline 1. 988 Option 1 iii. VetCenter iv. FreedomSystem.org v. 22 Until None vi. Other Veteran Organizations VII. Next Episode: Episode 10 Friends in Low Places a. VFW, DAV, American Legion, Marine Corps League, and other fraternal organizations are out there for Veterans. This breakdown of the organizations talks to members and the benefit of the camaraderie that these programs provide. The Common Veterans represent FreedomSystem.org’s martial arts and mountain bike association.

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    Episode 8: Old LA Tonight

    I. Introduction - Greetings from the Common Veterans podcast - Hosts: Kenny, Jeff, Tony - Topic: Military movies, their accuracy, and the downtime in the military for movie-watching II. Introducing Tony, the Resident Navy Guy - Tony's military background (8 years in the Navy, overseas service, instructor in Great Lakes) - Banter about Tony being a "bud light drinker" III. Military Downtime and Movie Watching - Discussion about the hosts' experiences with movie-watching during military downtime - Different perspectives based on the nature of their military roles IV. Movies and Camaraderie - Highlighting the camaraderie among military personnel - Banter about different branches (Army, Air Force, Navy) and their stereotypes V. Examples of Military Movies - Mention of popular military movies and TV shows: - **Tour of Duty (1987-1990)** - **Operation Petticoat** - **Gardens of Stone** - **Last Full Measure** - **The Great Beer Run** - **Where Eagles Dare** - **Eagle Has Landed** - **Men of Honor** - **Starship Troopers** VI. Notable Mention: Inglourious Basterds - Recognition of Quentin Tarantino's film as a humorous take on killing Nazis VII. Personal Reflections on Military Movies - Emotional impact and personal connections to military movies - Mention of tear-jerking moments and laughter-inducing scenes - Recognition of actors who delivered powerful performances in military roles VIII. Perspectives on Modern Military Movies - Common Veteran's emotional experience watching a recent military movie set in Afghanistan - Discussion on why individuals with military backgrounds watch such movies despite the emotional impact IX. Closing Thoughts - Recap of discussed movies and themes - Teaser for future podcast episodes and topics - Gratitude for listeners and encouragement to share feedback

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    Episode 7 All in the Family

    ·         The Common Veterans explore what it is to be a Veteran and use verbiage like “Brother.” Where blood ties are not necessary to be siblings…

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    Episode 6: All In The Family

    The Common Veterans explore what it is to be a Veteran and use verbiage like “Brother.” Where blood ties are not necessary to be siblings…

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    Episode 5: Just Do It

    In the military, members have to be something of an athlete to ensure combat effectiveness; in the same way, Veterans need to maintain some semblance of fitness to stay healthy.

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    Episode 4: The Wall

    Veterans always have slammed their heads against the wall on the reintegration into careers, mainly when translating their military career to civilian counterparts.  This week, the Common Veterans look at the transition to becoming a military member and why it’s so hard to transition back to civilian status.

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    Episode 3: Time in a Bottle

    Through music, the Common Veterans can look back and see what songs got them through the military.

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    Episode 2: Heroes

    The Common Veterans look back at their careers and describe the heroes they had in their careers.

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    Episode 1: The Introduction

    The Common Veterans introduce Kenny and Jeff as our hosts; they introduce the format and structure of the podcast, including what FreedomSystem.org is and why.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

The Common Veterans is a podcast created by veterans, for veterans, exploring topics that matter most to the veteran community. From personal stories and shared experiences to deep dives into ethical, moral, and societal issues, each episode brings an authentic voice to conversations that resonate. Whether it's navigating post-military life, discussing mental health, or exploring subjects like ethics, morality, and religion, The Common Veterans is a place for open dialogue and community. Join us as

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Kenneth Holmes | Jeff Schrock | Fred Schlorke | Tony Buoscio | Casey Hendrickson

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