The Coparenting Chronicles

Send us Fan MailFeaturing "Paul" the most annoying dog we love to hate.Disclaimer: This episode is completely unhinged. Much like our parenting styles.No one tells you how much becoming a parent will change you.In Episode 10, we talk about the versions of ourselves that showed up after kids—the ones we didn’t plan for, didn’t expect, and definitely weren’t warned about. From the parents we swore we’d never be, to the emotional shifts, softened edges, harder boundaries, and surprising strengths that came with this season, we unpack how parenthood reshaped us in real time.This is an honest conversation about growth, grief for who we used to be, pride in who we’re becoming, and learning to give ourselves grace along the way. If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, wow, I’m not who I thought I’d be—you’re not alone.Support the show

Send us Fan MailStepmoms get a reputation… and let’s just say, it’s not always accurate. In this episode, we’re unpacking the gap between the stereotype and the reality. From being labeled “too much” or “not enough,” to carrying the invisible mental load no one talks about—we’re diving into what it actually feels like to live this role day in and day out.Expect real talk, a little sarcasm, and the kind of honesty that makes you feel seen. We’re sharing the unspoken rules, the emotional balancing act, the wins that go unnoticed, and the moments that make you question everything (and then laugh about it later).If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, stretched thin, or like you’re writing your own rulebook as you go—this one’s for you.Support the show

Send us Fan MailEpisode 8: When Coparenting Styles Clash — Finding Middle Ground Without Losing YourselfCoparenting isn’t one size fits and when parenting styles clash, it can feel exhausting, frustrating, and deeply personal. In this episode, we talk about what happens when expectations don’t align, communication breaks down, and you’re left wondering how to compromise without abandoning your own values.We unpack real life scenarios, explore why these conflicts hit so hard, and share practical ways to find middle ground while still staying true to yourself. From setting boundaries and letting go of control to choosing your battles and protecting your peace, this conversation is for anyone navigating the messy middle of coparenting. Because collaboration doesn’t mean erasure and healthy coparenting starts with knowing who you are.Support the show

Send us Fan MailIf you grew up drinking Capri Sun and disappearing until dinner, this one’s for you. We’re comparing 90s parenting to parenting in 2026, exploring how a generation raised on independence (and questionable supervision) is now navigating gentle parenting, boundaries, and constant information overload. Was it neglect or did it make us resilient? We talk through the cultural shift, the pressure on modern parents, and what we’re keeping, changing, and laughing about along the way.Support the show

Send us Fan MailCo‑parenting isn’t one‑size‑fits‑all, especially when you’re juggling different ages, personalities, and blended family dynamics. In this episode, we break down how co‑parenting challenges can look wildly different with older kids versus younger ones, from communication and boundaries to loyalty conflicts and independence. We also get real about stepparenting: the expectations, the emotional labor, and the things no one warns you about. Whether you’re new to blending families or deep in the thick of it, this conversation is honest, relatable, and full of perspective for navigating it all with empathy and intention.Support the show

Send us Fan MailThis episode covers the complex realities of co-parenting after infidelity, pregnancy, and relationship challenges. Jenna and Chelsea share personal stories, insights on trust rebuilding, parallel parenting, and navigating new family dynamics, offering practical advice for difficult situations.Support the show

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Chelsea and Jenna discuss the challenges of navigating outside opinions and judgments in blended families. They explore the stigma surrounding blended families, the importance of handling judgment gracefully, and the difference between viewing children as 'baggage' versus recognizing their life experiences. The conversation emphasizes the need for acceptance and understanding in family dynamics, encouraging listeners to prioritize their family's happiness over societal expectations.Support the show

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Chelsea and Jenna discuss the complexities of co-parenting during a child's illness, particularly focusing on the experience of navigating communication, grief, and support systems. They share personal stories about their relationships, the importance of therapy, and the role of community support in times of crisis. The conversation highlights the challenges and triumphs of blended families, emphasizing the need for open communication and emotional resilience.Support the show

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we’re keeping it simple and getting personal. We’re sharing a little about who we are, how this podcast came to be, and what brought us behind the mic. Think of this as a casual introduction — the stories, perspectives, and personalities you’ll be hearing from each week. No pressure, no heavy topics, just a chance to get to know us and start the conversation. We’re so glad you’re here.Support the show

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we’re taking you all the way back to where our co‑parenting journey really began—the uncomfortable moments, the hesitant conversations, and the slow, sometimes messy, always human steps that took us from “umm… hi?” to becoming true teammates for our kids.We open up about the early days: the awkward energy, the uncertainty. We walk through the turning points, the small but powerful choices, and the moments of honesty and vulnerability that helped us start building trust.We also read and respond to some of the incredible comments and questions we received this past week. From listeners who are in the thick of high‑conflict situations, to those hoping to rebuild trust, to people just dipping their toes into blended‑family life, you showed up with so much heart, and we wanted to hold space for that.And finally, we talk about what “extending the olive branch” really looks like in real life. Not a big dramatic gesture. Not instant forgiveness. Not pretending things didn’t happen. But simple, steady steps: choosing kindness, creating boundaries, giving each other grace, and recognizing that peaceful co‑parenting isn’t just possible, it becomes powerful when everyone involved is committed to love, stability, and being a safe place for the kids at the center of it all.If you’ve ever wondered how to go from strained to supportive, or how to start slowly when you’re ready for change, this episode is your roadmap… and your reminder that it’s okay to take it one honest conversation at a time.Support the show

Send us Fan MailEpisode 1 - Sleepovers: The Co-parenting Battle No One Talks AboutWelcome to the very first episode of Co-parenting Chronicles! Thank you so much for tuning in. We chose sleepovers as our kickoff topic because of a recent situation between our two homes that had us thinking about co‑parenting and sleepovers. Navigating sleepovers can already be tricky, but add co‑parenting into the mix, and the rules and expectations can get complicated fast. In this episode, we dive into the big question: Should kids be allowed to have sleepovers at other people’s homes? And what happens when co‑parents don’t agree on the boundaries, comfort levels, or house rules? We’re breaking down, the challenges that pop up when rules don’t match, and how to keep things consistent, safe, and drama‑free for the kids.Since this is our first time recording and editing, it's not perfect, but we’re learning, growing, and getting better each week. Thanks for bearing with us through the early stages! We are excited to grow with you!We want to hear your stories.Send an email to [email protected]. Your real‑life experiences help us understand what blended families face every day, and we’ll be discussing them in future episodes.Be sure to come back next week for Episode 2: From Awkward to Allies — where we dive into how our relationship evolved and what it took to get there.We’re also bringing in other real life experiences, awkward moments, challenges, and breakthroughs you’ve shared with us, to better understand the real dynamics happening inside blended families. Your stories help us see the bigger picture and open the door for conversations so many families wish they could have. Thank you for listening!Support the show