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He found out he had cancer. That same evening, he had a show. He went on stage and sang his heart out, and nobody in that room knew. This is one of the most honest conversations we've had on The Dad Project. Jaz opens up about his Hodgkin's lymphoma diagnosis, losing his brother Harvey to brain cancer, the lifetime of suppressed emotion that he believes contributed to his illness, and how meditation, spirituality, and inner work have changed him as a man, a father, and an artist. This is not a story about survival. It's a story about what illness forces you to see. In this episode: Why he believes suppressed emotion made him ill How he managed his own cancer while caring for his dying brother Why he chose a holistic path over chemotherapy and radiotherapy The morning routine that keeps him grounded Losing his brother Harvey and learning to live with grief Generational wisdom, and why we talk about trauma but forget the strength Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction: Breaking the Silence on Men's Mental Health 00:02:57 Growing Up in Birmingham: The Emotional Regulator 00:06:21 Sent to India at 16: The Making of Resilience 00:12:48 From Shy Kid to Confident Artist: The Power of Visualization 00:19:32 The Day Everything Changed: Cancer Diagnosis 00:27:36 Performing Through Pain: The Show Must Go On 00:31:31 The Hardest Decision: Choosing a Different Path 00:30:57 Three Weeks Later: His Brother's Aneurysm 00:33:23 Becoming the Caregiver: Driving Between Two Cancer Journeys 00:34:54 The Inner Voice: Meditation, Fasting, and Finding God 00:47:14 Cancer Saved My Life: The Awakening 00:47:35 Losing Harvey: The Brother Who Was His Best Friend 00:57:07 Generational Strength: Drawing From Ancestors and Gurus 00:40:07 The Morning Routine: Two Hours of Sacred Time 00:40:40 Creator vs Consumer: Choosing Your Morning Energy 01:08:23 Sitting With Emotion: The Work of Not Distracting 01:19:32 From Pop Star to Purpose: Redefining Success 01:10:28 Savior: The Song That Became a Letter to His Brother 01:25:45 The Only Truth is Death: Detachment and Living Fully 01:26:51 Turning Darkness Into Impact: The Message of Hope The Dad Project is a podcast and community for men. You don't need to be a dad to be here. FIND HASSL Facebook Instagram Spotify TikTok YouTube THE DAD PROJECT www.thedadproject.co.uk Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok YouTube QUESTIONS THIS VIDEO ANSWERS Q: Can suppressed emotions cause illness? Jaz believes his cancer diagnosis was connected to a lifetime of suppressing his own emotions while being available for everyone around him. He links emotional suppression to physical illness and science is beginning to support the idea that what we carry inside us has a direct impact on our health. Q: How do men deal with grief after losing a brother? Jaz lost his brother Harvey to brain cancer. He describes sitting with his emotions rather than distracting himself, returning to spiritual practice, and writing a song as part of his healing. He says he doesn't think he'll ever fully accept the loss — but he has found peace in knowing he did everything he could. Q: How do you stay strong when someone close to you is dying? Jaz managed his own cancer while attending the majority of his brother's appointments, flying to Germany for medication, and performing publicly throughout. He credits his wife, his spiritual practice, and the discipline he built as a teenager in India with giving him the capacity to keep going. Q: What is a good morning routine for men's mental health? Jaz wakes at 5:30am, drinks water with lemon and ginger, meditates for up to an hour using 963Hz frequency meditation followed by a Joe Dispenza guided session, journals for 15 minutes, and does lymphatic drainage on a trampoline. He describes the morning as the window to create rather than consume. Q: How does spirituality help men through mental health challenges? Jaz found that meditation and spiritual connection gave him the silence and inner voice he needed to navigate cancer, grief, and identity. He draws on Sikh teachings, ancestral strength, and the idea that going inward, not outward, is where real answers are found.