The Healing Exchange

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The Healing Exchange

The Healing Exchange is a podcast centered around authenticity and healing. Jacquilla McFarley is a trauma survivor whose mission is to help the traumatized through wisdom. Jacquilla will bring her truth, humor, and insight on trauma, mental health, relationships, and more. Jacquilla will share wisdom and knowledge based from biblical principles and experiences. “Let’s heal together through confession and conversation.”

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    Part 1: I Want God but I Don’t Want Church.. feat Karla Jones

    Episode 3 is one of those conversations that a lot of people feel… but don’t always say out loud.This week, we sit down with Karla Jones to unpack the tension between loving God and feeling disconnected from church culture. From church hurt, disappointment, expectations, and healing — to rebuilding a real relationship with God beyond performance — this conversation is honest, vulnerable, and necessary.If you’ve ever found yourself asking: “Can I still love God while struggling with church?” …this episode is for you.We’re not here to bash the Church. We’re here to talk about healing, truth, accountability, and finding our way back to God with honesty.🎙️ Episode 3: I Want God but I Don’t Want Church Featuring: Karla JonesSupport the show

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    The Egypt Mentality

    Episode 2: The Egypt Mentality 🏜️Have you ever been physically free… but mentally still stuck?In this episode, we talk about what it means to carry an “Egypt mentality” — fear, complaining, doubt, comfort in bondage, and struggling to trust God even after He brings you out. Just like the Israelites in the wilderness, many of us are delivered externally but still battling internally.This conversation dives into healing, obedience, mindset renewal, and the process of becoming who God called us to be. Freedom is more than leaving Egypt — it’s getting Egypt out of you.Support the show

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    Wrestling with God

    There are moments when faith doesn’t feel peaceful—it feels like a fight. A tension. A back-and-forth between what you feel and what you believe.In this first episode, I open up about the internal struggle of wanting to say “no” to God… but choosing to stay anyway. The questions, the frustration, the silence—and what it means to wrestle without walking away.If you’ve ever felt confused, distant, or even resistant in your relationship with God, this conversation is for you.You don’t have to have it all figured out to stay in the fight.Support the show

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    Season 3 FINALE

    Tune is as Jacquilla recaps season 3. Thank you to all of the supporters and new subscribers for making season 3 a huge SUCCESS! This is not goodbye, just a “see you later”… DM or email your feedback from this season! WE LOVE YALL!!!

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    A Tough Conversation with the Little Girl in me.

    We all have an inner child within us that sometimes screams for help depending on the trauma that was experienced! How often do you talk to your inner child? Does your inner child hinder your adulthood!m? Tune in as Jacquilla has a tough conversation with the little girl within her. 

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    A Tough Conversation with my Biological Mother

    A wise man once said that just because it’s your truth, doesn’t make it THE truth! Tune in as Jacquilla has a tough conversation with her biological mother, Angela. They each got to share their perspective which brought clarity & a HEALING exchange!

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    The Pain of Waiting

    Sometimes, waiting becomes disappointing if you get weary. However, KEEP WAITING because God is shaping you into the BEST version of yourself!  Oftentimes we compare & give ourselves lack of grace. But, God constantly reminds us, “But those who wait on the LORD Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint. Isaiah 40:31Tune in as my special guest, Isaiah Johnson, keep it real authentic & share his wisdom!

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    “From the Street to the Pulpit” (Part 2)

    Oftentimes, God chooses the unlikely one to help build His Kingdom on earth. No matter how ugly your story is, you are not EXEMPT from God calling you into His will & purpose for your life. Run YOUR race & not compare yourself to others. Tune is as my special guest, Eddie Acker, shares his testimony about how God call him (the least likely one) to the kingdom of God! 

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    “From the Streets to the Pulpit”

    God usually call those whom seem to the world but the MOST qualified in the KINGDOM! Tune in as special guest, LaTasha Bogan, shares her experience in the street life & how God led her to Him!!!

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    Divorced; Now What?

    Building yourself back again after a Divorce can weigh heavy on you mentally, emotionally, & physically. During this process, NO ONE wins… but have you given God those broken pieces? On this episode, special guest Samantha McCarthy will share her experience with divorce & how she found TRUE love afterwards.

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    “I Give Up!”

    We all have had moments of wanting to QUIT, rather silently or publicly. But… even those moments are okay to have. The best thing you could do to fight these moment is to be honest IN that moment…

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    The Monster Inside of Me

    It’s easy for us to judge those that are being exposed as “monsters” through the media… but, if we be honest, how different are you from them? Have you truly dealt with your demons & dark places? When was the last time you evaluated the dark secrets in your heart? Do you believe we all have “monster” moments to where we act out on our trauma to hurt others? For context, please be sure to watch the entire episode.

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    A Beautiful Mess

    True growth happens from the INSIDE out. The inner man is what’s most important in God’s eyes. Have you checked your heart lately? What are some of the reoccurring thoughts that you meditate on? How are you taking care of your soul❓

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    It’s a New Season

    “To everything there is a season,A time for every purpose under heaven:.” Eccl. 3:1

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    Season Two Finale

    Cheers to Season 2! Tune in as Jacquilla does  a recap of the topics discussed within this season & some exciting news for the upcoming season! Thank you for your support! 

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    Operating from Wounds

    How often do we respond from our pain instead of responding to the reality of the situation? Tune in as Jacquilla shares her personal journey regarding this topic. Are your responses based on facts or feelings?

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    Grieving; with God (The Final Part)

    Tune in to the final part of our series regarding grief. Jacquilla & Kimberly processes the emotional ups & downs with grief & how God makes it work for our good if we include Him in our pain.

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    Am I hard to love… Or do I make myself hard to love?

    Tap in as Jacquilla shares her testimony with toxic “love.” Many times people show up in the name of “love” but it’s not love at all! Are you making yourself hard to love & blaming it on your trauma? Let’s find out! 

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    Grieving; with God (Part 3)

    Tune in as special guest, Annalisha Beauford shares her testimony surrounding the unexpected death of her 16 year old son. Jacquilla & Annalisha will talk through another facet of the grieving process & the pain behind it all! 

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    Grieving; with God (Part 2)

    Tuwanan Ware shares her story surrounding the murder of her son, Antwaun Miles. Tune in as Jacquilla & Tuwanan unpack their personal processes of grief. 

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    Grieving; with God (Part 1)

    “Grief is LOVE that has no place to go.”-Regina King

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    Processing the “Process”

    Most people always emphasizes the “process,” but there is a process within the “process” that isn’t talked about enough. Tap in as Jacquilla breaks down God’s idea of being the potter as we are the clay during the process of BECOMING! 

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    “To thine own self be TRUE”

    Tune in as Jacquilla & her special guest, Coach Kristi Owens, shares the meaning behind being your TRUE authentic self. Coach Kristi shares her personal journey & practical steps to start the journey to the true YOU! 

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    I was a porn addict….

    Mature Audiences Only.. Jacquilla shares her testimony regarding pornography. Stay tune as she breaks down the effects of pornography & how to come out of it. There is freedom in authenticity! Let’s get free together! 

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    Let’s talk about SEX!

    Have you ever struggled within the area of sex & pornography? Welp! Me too! Tune in as my special guest, Jerry D. Owens shed some RAW truth & clarity regarding this topic. Jacquilla will ask open ended questions & Jerry will answer them biblically & practically. Let’s get FREE together!***Mature Audiences ONLY***

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    God’s Will or My Will?

    Welcome to Season 2 of the podcast!! Tune in to episode one as Jacquilla breaks down how to differentiate between if it s God’s will or your will. Sometimes our desires don’t match God’s desires but ultimately God WINS! Let’s dive in on why should accept God’s will over our will.

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    Season Finale

    Cheers to season 1! Thank you all for your support! Tune in as Jacquilla does a recap of the season. Don’t worry, this is not goodbye! Season 2 will be bigger & better!

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    The Bondage of Family Secrets

    You ever heard the saying “What goes on in this house stays in this house”? This episode will be a hard one to process but we can do this together! Tune in as Jacquilla talks about the bondage wrapped in family secrecy & how to get free from traumatic generational cycles! 

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    I was sexually abused…

    Tune in as Jacquilla & special guest, Porsha Nelson, unpack their trauma of sexual abuse. Trigger Warning! We are going real DEEP on this episode with no restrictions or filters! 

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    Forgiving the Unforgivable

    Have you ever had to forgive the unforgivable? On this episode, Jacquilla & special guest Shantel Scott break down the difficulties with forgiveness! They will share personal battles & testify as to what forgiveness has taught them individually.

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    The Beauty of “Goodbye”

    Tune in as Jacquilla talks about the reasons why “GOODBYE” is a blessing in disguise. Often times, we view the ending as a negative thing. However, God blessed the beginning and the END! 

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    Purpose: Why the heck am I here?

    Have you ever wondered, “what the heck am I here for!?” Tune in as Jacquilla and Karla dissect the meaning of PURPOSE & how to discover it within your own life.

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    The Deception of Attractions

    Tune in as Jacquilla explains how some of our  attractions can deceive us. Jacquilla will explain the feeling of attraction & help shed light on how to manage them on a daily basis.

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    “Church Hurt”

    Tune in with special guest Erica Bradford. On this episode Jacquilla and Erica will share their personal experiences with “church hurt” and how it has shaped their walk with God.

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    Enforcing healthy boundaries

    Jacquilla will break down the steps she took in enforcing healthy boundaries. 

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    True Love

    On this episode, Jacquilla will shares the definition of TRUE love! She will break down how to give and receive true love from a healthy perspective. Tune in! 

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    Purposeful Pain

    On this episode, Jacquilla will be sharing the purpose behind your pain & how it aids you to your PROMISE! 

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    After Effects of Trauma

    On this episode, Jacquilla will be sharing the effects that trauma had on her life and the steps she is taking to overcome! 

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    Testimony Time

    Can I testify? On this episode, Jacquilla is telling ALL of her business! Trigger warning! 

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    Introduction

    Let me introduce myself! 

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

The Healing Exchange is a podcast centered around authenticity and healing. Jacquilla McFarley is a trauma survivor whose mission is to help the traumatized through wisdom. Jacquilla will bring her truth, humor, and insight on trauma, mental health, relationships, and more. Jacquilla will share wisdom and knowledge based from biblical principles and experiences. “Let’s heal together through confession and conversation.”

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