The Interest Led Path

He paced the room. Stimmed. Handed in a blank answer sheet.And then answered every question perfectly when asked verbally - with more depth and insight than the question even required.He also told his teacher, by the way, I am autistic and have ADHD. I process differently. Thank you for being flexible.Nine years old. No prompting. All him.When I shared this story a few family members pulled me aside with a concern: “You need to teach him to not leave the paper blank. He will not survive in the real world this way.”This episode is my response to that concern.Because I think they are asking the right question, and arriving at exactly the wrong answer.In this episode I talk about:— The full story of Yuvraaj’s Jainism year end exam — Why the blank answer sheet is not the problem — What the family’s reaction reveals about how we were taught to measure intelligence — Why the skills traditional education rewards are the exact skills becoming less relevant — What the future actually requires from our children — Why there is more than one way to show what you know — and why the future depends on us remembering that — What Yuvraaj’s moment in that exam room tells us about what nine years of interest-led learning actually buildsThis one is for every parent whose child has ever been missed by the system because their knowledge didn’t fit the format. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theinterestledpath.substack.com

It started with the color yellow.And it led to an encyclopedia knowledge of space, a bucket list of countries, a deep understanding of marine biology, and a curiosity that never stops finding new doors.In this episode I’m sharing the full story of Yuvraaj’s rabbit holes — from yellow school buses to wheels to Bumblebee to the origin of the universe — and what I almost did that would have stopped all of it.This episode is for every parent who has been told their child’s obsession is too much. Who has felt the urge to redirect, to rush, to move them along to something more educational.Don’t redirect them to what they should be doing instead.Here’s why.Topics covered:— The yellow school bus that started everything — and why it ended up on a wedding invitation— The wheels obsession and what it actually built— The Bumblebee moment I almost redirected — and what it became— What it means when a child owns knowledge rather than just memorizes it— How Aarin learns from Yuvraaj and then takes his own direction— How to drown out the noise when everyone around you questions the obsession— Why not stopping it is not enough — you have to feed it too— Why the child lining up cars is not doing it wrong— Why it always works out — always This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theinterestledpath.substack.com

Does your child still love learning?Not — are they performing well. Not — are they keeping up. Not — are they fine.Do they still love learning?In this episode I’m sharing every sign — the loud ones and the quiet ones — that tell you your child needs something different. Not just for neurodivergent children. For every child.The question that disappeared. The Sunday night dread. The homework battle every evening and what it’s really telling you. Living only for recess. The unchallenged child acting out. The clingy child. The child who has become somehow smaller. And the silent signs that make no noise at all.Your child is always telling you the truth. This episode helps you hear it.Topics covered:— Why the question your child stopped asking matters more than any report card— What Sunday night dread is really telling you— Why the homework battle is not about compliance — it’s about how we ask children to prove what they know— What the unchallenged gifted child actually looks like and why we misread them— The silent signs — the ones that make no noise but matter the most— Why this episode is not anti-school — it’s pro-child This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theinterestledpath.substack.com

What does interest-led learning actually look like on a real Tuesday?In this episode I’m bringing you inside our home — the real version, not the highlight reel. How our mornings start, what our must-dos look like, how the day opens up, and what happens when Aarin comes home from daycare at 4pm.Plus — something I want every parent to hear: the interest-led path doesn’t start when you pull your child from school. It starts the moment you decide to see your child clearly.Topics covered: — Why we don’t have an alarm and why that matters — What language arts actually looks like — organic, conversational, woven into life — The honest truth about math — we do it anyway, slowly, gently, without tears — What the open part of our day actually produces — Why Aarin is in play-based daycare and what that says about this philosophy — What changes when Aarin comes home at 4pm — Why the hard days are part of it too This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theinterestledpath.substack.com

This isn’t a homeschooling story. It’s a healing story.In this first episode I’m sharing everything — why I pulled my son Yuvraaj from one of the best school districts in Massachusetts, what masking actually costs an autistic child, what 8 months at home has given him back, and why the healing always has to come before the learning.If you’ve ever watched your child hold it together all day and fall apart the moment they walk through your door — this episode is for you.Topics covered: — What masking looks like in an autistic child at school — Why even excellent schools can’t always give a neurodivergent child what they need — What deschooling is and why it’s necessary — What 8 months of interest-led learning has produced — Why this podcast exists and who it’s for This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theinterestledpath.substack.com