The Native Informant

In this final episode, I explain why Native Informant has reached a natural close. I reflect on how a show born from The Letters Project, built on honest conversation and cultural advocacy, found itself in a social landscape that now rewards performance over substance. I speak frankly about the rise of parasocial theatre, clout chasing, and the pressure to be constantly visible. She shares why authenticity, private service, and faith-centred integrity matter more to her than metrics, and why stepping back can be an ethical decision rather than a retreat. This is not a goodbye to public thinking, rather a reframe, new forms, new forums, same values. If you have ever found courage or clarity here, I invite you to take what serves you, read more, think harder, and act off camera. Thank you for listening.

On this week's episode, singer, actor, and creative practitioner Rashed Alnuaimi joins me for his first-ever podcast appearance. We explore the intimate balance between public visibility and private freedom, the courage to step away from industry pressures, and the childlike wonder that fuels authentic creation. Rashed reflects on his decade-long journey toward releasing his debut album, the paradoxes of hibernation and rebirth, and how art can act as a bridge, like architecture, between individuals and society. Together, we discuss the role of ecosystems and community, the radical act of setting boundaries, and the fears and joys that accompany vulnerability in art. This episode is both a personal therapy session and a meditation on what it means to reclaim creative integrity, find play in the process, and redefine success on one’s own terms.

On this week's episode, we dive into pretty privilege, confidence, and how these dynamics shape friendships, relationships, and situationships. A candid conversation on self-worth, navigating connections, and owning your presence.

On this week's episode, Walid Al Wawi interrogates the role of the artist amidst ongoing global atrocities, particularly the genocide in Palestine. He touches on the uncomfortable truths about institutional complicity, aesthetic performativity, and the myth of the neutral artist. Walid speaks with candour and conviction about the collapse of meaning in art that does not act, and the moral failure of those who remain silent under the guise of professionalism, detachment, or fear. We discuss the weaponisation of solidarity, the commodification of resistance, and the co-option of Palestinian grief into digestible, decorative formats.This episode confronts hard questions: Can art still matter in the face of catastrophe? What happens when institutions only welcome activism within acceptable limits? And what does it mean to truly act rather than perform?This is not a conversation about art as metaphor, it is about dismantling the frameworks that allow artistic identities to flourish while real lives are destroyed. It is an urgent call to drop the ego, abandon the pedestal, and choose the ground. Free Palestine. https://www.samt.co/

On this week's episode, we are joined by a return guest, Layla K. Saleh to help navigate the topic of betrayal. The betrayals we commit against ourselves in the name of love, loyalty, or fear of abandonment. Reflecting on friendships and romantic relationships, she explores how we abandon our values, silence our instincts, and shrink our truths to keep the peace or preserve connection. What does it mean to be loyal to yourself when that very loyalty threatens to end the bond? How do we honour ourselves without becoming hardened or closed off?

On this week's episode, we dive into the complexities of friendships, boundaries, narcissism, and emotional resilience. We discuss the fine line between being supportive and being emotionally drained, the role of victimhood in interpersonal conflicts, and the challenges of dealing with narcissistic family members. The conversation also explores masculinity, emotional intelligence, and the influence of Zionism in ideological discourse.

On this week's episode, we sit down with Torkia Mahloul, the co-founder of Ovasave, a platform providing accessible fertility and hormonal health tools—and redefining success on her own terms. As a French-Algerian entrepreneur in Abu Dhabi, we discussed her navigating her Arab identity and launching her business, as well as unpacking the stigma surrounding reproductive health, the struggles of balancing career aspirations with family goals, and the evolving role of women in society. This episode is a powerful reflection on empowerment, resilience, and breaking barriers.Check out Ovasave at:https://www.ovasave.com/

On this week's episode, we release a bonus episode that was recorded in 2022, the episode was with Jenniffer Crystal, the founder of 'Saudi Children Left Behind,' a groundbreaking website that has been transforming the lives of children and families for over a decade. With a heartfelt mission to reunite families and bridge cultural differences, Jenniffer sheds light on the unfortunate circumstances that often leave children disconnected from their fathers. Through open and honest discussions, Jenniffer addresses the experiences and sharing these stories, she aims to break the cycle of shame and guilt surrounding this topic, creating a safe space where others can find solace and support with how they navigate the complexities of their lost identity. Tune into Jenniffer's unwavering dedication to raising awareness sparking a conversation that challenges societal norms and fosters understanding.

On this week's episode, we share insights into the complexities of relationships and friendships, exploring the dynamics between men and women in dating, emotional intimacy, and the nuances of friendships. Together, we unpack why men may struggle with vulnerability, how women can navigate their non-negotiables in relationships, and why maintaining healthy female friendships can be so challenging. Through shared anecdotes and thought-provoking discussions, we delve into toxic behaviours, gendered emotional labour, and the journey toward self-actualisation in love and friendship. Plus, we tackle the age-old question: can you really be friends with your ex?Join us for a candid and collaborative conversation filled with wisdom, relatability, and a dose of tough love.

On this week's episode, we dive into the complexities of boyhood and manhood in the context of modern societal expectations and cultural nuances. Building on our previous conversation about womanhood, we explore how the idea that “boys will be boys” influences upbringing and emotional development. Through a critical discussion of emotional self-regulation, impulse control, and societal gender biases, we challenge stereotypes around masculinity. Join us as we unpack the effects of privilege, the "patriarchy," and generational conditioning on both boyhood and adulthood, questioning how these factors impact relationships, dating, and self-worth.

On this week's podcast, we sit down with Khadijah Safari, a remarkable figure who shares her journey of self-discovery, spirituality, and the founding of the UK’s first women's only martial arts club. Khadijah delves into her transition to Islam, shedding light on the power of intentional living, modesty, and authentic expression. Through candid stories, she explores the influence of social expectations, personal resilience, and faith in shaping a meaningful life. Join us as we unpack her experiences, navigating cultural complexities while remaining deeply rooted in faith.

On this week's episode, we sit down to discuss the aftermath of the Instagram suspension and the complexities of female friendships. We explore why they can sometimes be challenging, touching on societal pressures, the victimhood narrative, and the importance of accountability. Through personal experiences and candid reflection, we ask the tough questions about what makes these relationships difficult and how we can navigate them better.

On this week's episode, we delve into the intricate world of female friendships, exploring how societal conditioning encourages competition among women from a young age. From vying for attention and validation to the damaging effects of low self-worth, we unpack the emotional power struggles that often turn friendships into battlegrounds. Why do we measure ourselves against others, and how does this impact our ability to foster genuine connections? Join us as we explore how to recognise these patterns and learn the importance of self-worth in cultivating meaningful relationships. Expect a candid, eye-opening conversation about vulnerability, competition, and the emotional dynamics shaping female friendships today.

On this week's episode, we sit down Layla K. Saleh, where we unpack the conventional views on feminism, womanhood, and the intersection of religion and modern societal norms. Layla shares her views on the impact of Western ideologies on Middle Eastern perspectives, the concept of "trad wives," and the controversial discussion around masculinity and femininity in today's world. The episode also touches on sensitive topics like the Palestinian struggle, highlighting the deep emotional and spiritual connections to the ongoing genocide. 

On this week's episode, we welcome the insightful Rozan (Razan), an intercultural visionary who delves into the complexities of identity, belonging, and the power of self-awareness. Rozan shares her journey of navigating multiple identities as a Sudanese, African, and British woman, discussing the profound impact of colonialism, cultural expectations, and the importance of self-acceptance. The conversation explores the challenges of maintaining a multifaceted identity in a world that often demands simplicity, the significance of reclaiming one's narrative, and the ongoing struggle to decolonise our understanding of self and society. @iamrozan rozanahmed.com

On this week's episode, we chat with comedian Shawn Chidiac, known on Instagram as "My Parents Are Divorced," Shawn recounts his journey into comedy, beginning with his early attempts to make his stoic mother laugh, which ultimately inspired his career. He discusses his unique approach to comedy, focusing on the importance of relatable storytelling and cultural understanding in his skits and impersonations. The conversation explores the topic of cancel culture, challenges and rewards of his comedic career, including balancing his passion with handling public scrutiny. He reflects on how his upbringing, relationships, and personal experiences influence his comedy, giving listeners a deeper insight into the man behind the jokes.Throughout the episode, Shawn's charm and humour are evident, making for an entertaining and thought-provoking listen that delves into the intersection of comedy, culture, and personal growth.

On this week's episode, we sit down with Diana Hammadi, a Dubai-based lawyer specialising in family law in the UAE. Diana shares her journey in the legal profession and discusses the complexities of UAE family law, highlighting differences between laws for Muslims and non-Muslims. The conversation covers challenges in divorce cases, multiple wives and the impact of infidelity. Diana emphasises the need for legal reforms to ensure fairness and equality. Diana Hamade is a UAE licensed lawyer and advocate with the right to audience before all UAE Courts. She is recognised worldwide as one of the most prominent lawyers and a renowned UAE law expert in family law and private client practice. In the UAE, Diana has been involved in drafting legislation on succession planning.www.dianahamade.aehttps://www.instagram.com/dianahamadeattorneysatlaw/

On this week's episode, we sit down with Fadie Musallet, the Palestinian-American entrepreneur known for his philanthropy and multifaceted initiatives. Raised in Florida and deeply connected to his roots in Palestine, Fadie opens up about his life's journey, the legacy of his family's generosity, and his profound love for his homeland. Join us as Fadie shares touching stories about his grandfather's charitable deeds, the inspiration behind The Giving Family, and his personal struggles and triumphs. Discover how Fadie's faith and resilience have shaped his approach to life and giving back to the community. Fadie also candidly discusses the challenges of balancing a public persona with his introverted nature, the impact of social media on modern masculinity, and his unwavering commitment to his family and God. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of what it means to lead with compassion, stay true to one's roots, and find peace amidst turmoil. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that delves into the essence of philanthropy, the strength of the human spirit, and the enduring love for one's homeland.

On this week's episode, we sit down with Jet van Wijk, a dynamic digital entrepreneur originally from the Netherlands, to discuss her transformative journey from a corporate job in London to becoming a successful freelancer and digital marketer. Jet shares her experiences in the influencer industry, the mental health challenges it brought, and how she pivoted to a healthier, more sustainable "laptop lifestyle." She shares insights on the toxic nature of social media, the importance of authenticity, and the power of freelancing as a path to freedom. Jet also touches on the balance of masculine and feminine energies in business, her approach to building a fulfilling life, and her latest projects, including her involvement in the "Women Gone Wild" book series. Whether you're looking to escape the 9-to-5 grind or seeking inspiration from a successful digital nomad, find Jet's details below!@jettalks https://www.instagram.com/jettalks/@jetvanwijkx https://www.instagram.com/jetvanwijkx/@laptoplifestylemaster https://www.instagram.com/laptoplifestylemaster?igsh=YjVxY2NveTNlNXhq

On this week's episode, we welcome Dr. Saliha Afridi, clinical psychologist and chairwoman of The Lighthouse Arabia in Dubai. Dr. Afridi shares her personal journey and professional insights, diving deep into topics such as grief, moral injury, and the human capacity for empathy in the face of global atrocities. Through her compassionate lens, she discusses the psychological impact of the Palestinian plight and how to navigate personal and collective grief. This episode is a profound exploration of humanity, faith, and resilience in challenging times. Find Dr. Afridi through the channels below:https://www.instagram.com/drsalihaafridi/?hl=enhttps://www.lighthousearabia.com/people/Dr-Saliha-Afridihttps://www.linkedin.com/in/salihaafridi/?originalSubdomain=ae

On this week's episode, we speak to entrepreneur and podcast host Dana Alhanbali on multicultural identity, intersectionality, humanity, and activism. Through Dana's personal journey, she explores the profound impact of embracing one's roots in the face of global challenges and the role of individual stories in the collective effort for justice and change. As she unravels the complexities of advocating for Palestine and navigating the nuances of cultural identity in a polarised world, listeners are invited to reflect on the importance of solidarity, empathy, and resilience.Tune in for an episode that serves as a beacon of hope and a reminder of the strength found in unity and shared values, urging us all to lend our voices to the chorus of those calling for a better, more just world. Check Dana out on her podcast 'Something to Consider', and on social media: @dalhanbali

On this week's episode, we speak to communications expert Zenah Mattar, on the Arab Narrative through a Western perspective and the importance of navigating through the complexities of intercultural communication and identity. She shares her personal journey, igniting her passion to represent and voice the perspectives of Palestinians, Arabs, and Muslims. Zenah delves into the intersection of psychology and communication, exploring how deeply ingrained beliefs and societal messaging shape our self-perception and dialogue with the world. Zenah articulates the nuances of Arab communication, the challenges of being misperceived, and the power of asking the right questions to foster true understanding. Tune in for an enlightening journey into the importance of maintaining cultural integrity, advocating for one's rights, and the art of effective communication in a world rife with misunderstandings and preconceptions.

On this week's episode, we chat with the Dubai Matchmaker, Christiana Maxion. Christiana discusses her journey from starting an Instagram account, 'Dating in Dubai', to establishing a successful matchmaking agency with a 96% success rate and eventually developing her app. Christiana dives into the nuances of matchmaking, emphasising the importance of genuine connections over mere physical attributes. She addresses common misconceptions in dating, highlighting the need for self-reflection and real compatibility in forming lasting relationships.Stay tuned for thoughts on building meaningful relationships in a world increasingly dominated by fleeting online interactions! Find Christiana through her matchmaking services at www.ChristianaMaxion.com and her app, Maxion, available in the UAE and soon across the GCC.

On this week's episode, we chat with Nadir Nahdi, a storyteller and filmmaker with a richly woven background that spans London, Yemen, Indonesia, Kenya, and Pakistan. Nadir opens the conversation up to the heart of multicultural and multi-ethnic experiences, examining the fluid and often complex nature of identity in a world where cultures intersect and evolve. Nadir, known for his insightful perspectives and deeply rooted connections to his diverse heritage, his creative practice, and the search for belonging. He touches on the complexities of social labels, social media, Palestine and having a thick skin in the creative industry. Get ready to tackle sensitive issues such as colourism, racism, and the need for greater empathy and understanding across cultures!

On this week's episode, we speak to Abbey Hafez as she shares her life-altering experiences and the powerful instances of faith that inspired her conversion when she witnessed the unwavering strength of Palestinian Muslims amidst the adversities in Palestine. The ongoing plight of the Palestinian people sparked a curiosity that led her to explore the Quran, seeking answers and understanding. Abbey's candid discussion delves into her initial encounters with Islam, the spiritual awakening that guided her towards her reversion, and the personal transformations she has undergone since adopting her new faith.Tune in for an inspiring conversation that challenges perceptions and encourages a deeper understanding of one's beliefs through the powerful faith of the people in Palestine.

On this week's episode, we delve into the world of Emaan Abbass, the former founder and creator of KETISH. In this engaging conversation, she shares her journey of removing the stigma surrounding feminine wellness and self-love. Emaan's journey was marked by both triumphs and setbacks. She reflects on this challenging period with sensitivity and grace, highlighting the importance of learning and growth in adversity. In this episode, her story serves as a reminder of the importance of female solidarity, empowerment, and authenticity. Tune in for a poignant and inspiring conversation with Emaan as she shares her journey of resilience and self-empowerment.

On this week's episode, we chat with data scientist, law enforcement consultant, and social phenomenon writer Dr Vincent Harinam on the sexual marketplace, hypergamy and structural impediments within the dating landscape. Dr Harinam unpacks the drawbacks of simping, dominance hierarchy and the trends that exist within evolutionary science. We expand on the patterns that contribute to finding a viable mate and the alluring qualities of the ‘dark gentlemen’ the ‘chad’ or the ’khalood’.  Get ready to challenge preconceptions and structural impediments within the dating landscape.

On this week's episode, we chat with Ahmed Obaid Al Mansoori, founder of the Crossroads of Civilizations Museum (CCM) in Dubai. We unpack the importance of preserving the Arab narrative through art, history, enlightenment, and meticulous documentation. The museum aims to promote the peaceful convergence of civilisations and foster a rich understanding of who the Arabs were. His collection exemplifies the importance of cultural preservation and deep appreciation for the rich tapestry of Arab heritage and beyond.Get ready for an enlightening conversation as we explore the visionary world of Ahmed Obaid Al Mansoori.

On this week's episode, we sit down with Kori Lindsay, co-founder of Mentality, a platform that sparks compelling conversations that challenge societal norms and explore taboo topics. It inspires individuals to question ingrained social constructs, transcend gendered expectations, and embrace freedom of thought. Join us as we delve into topics of masculinity, manhood, and the manosphere and explore the complexities and nuances of vulnerability in the modern dating landscape.Get ready for thought-provoking discussions and calling into question gendered assumptions.

On this introductory episode, we delve into the content, context, culture, character, and culpa (conflict) surrounding cancel culture. Through insightful analysis and engaging conversations, we explore the influence of social media, the complexities of subjective reality, and the impact of parasocial relationships. Join us as we navigate cancel culture's intricacies, raising critical questions about accountability and redemption. Get ready to challenge your perspectives and gain a deeper insight into this pressing societal issue. Welcome to the Native Informant...

Just a disclaimer: Join me, Sarah Alagroobi, as I talk to guests from various backgrounds about social issues, beliefs, and opinions. Remember, your truth isn't the only one out there. Tune in and enjoy diverse discussions. It's going to be great!