The Personal Philosopher

The first listener question came from a friend, and it goes: "Why do we censor our feelings to spare the feelings of others?". Thank you for the question, and please send more. Any critique, and feedback any challenges — all welcome!

This has been a long time coming. A primer on the Core Four human emotions, how they develop in children, and how to develop emotional regulation in ourselves and teach it to our children.

This was initially just a note for myself, that I decided to share because I like it so much and it contains some very useful ideas. Btw this is an insight inside my process: I think by talking, prefer talking to writing — philosophy is is a dialogue after all. Inside there are some very powerful insights on how we and why we choose illusions over the real thing, how we inherit false stories from our ancestors, and what to do to fix it all. Enjoy!

A particularly good one, I think — it started off as a personal note, one of many, not meant to be shared. But I liked it so much I thought I wanted to share it. So, here it is. Let me know what you think.

Using a story as a basis for today's philosophical discussion. Let me know what you think. #waketimeStories

How to deal with judgemental people.

The second piece of the growth puzzle is how you deal with mistakes. Listen in if you want to learn how to do that in the most useful manner possible.

The most powerful method for self-development I know, based on a ton of distilled wisdom (mostly from others), trial and error, and personal experience. Enjoy, and let me know if you have any questions on implementing it, I'll gladly help in the comments.

Some dreams are too big to be shared. I hope mine isn't. Consider this your invitation, I hope to see you in it.

For this one, I dot inspired by some really good ideas from a recent interview from Dan Koe & Devon Eriksen.

I only ask for one thing. Everything else is just a bonus.

This is a really important one. If you are a parent, or ever want to become one — or a better human being, for that matter, please listen to the ideas in this episode. It's all about reciprocity. how to teach kids right from wrong by showing them how to give and take. Instead of forcing kids to do things, engage their own interests by negotiating help children understand negotiation is the best way to get your needs met in a peaceful relationship.I show ways parents can build trust with their kids, which helps them work together better and teaches kids about fairness.

In today's show: Why are children so very sensitive to injustice, and how can parents respond effectively?How do the concepts of reciprocity and fairness play a role in parenting?How do children develop an understanding of fairness through their experiences?How can parents model fair behavior to teach morals effectively?The impact of hypocrisy in emotional censorship on relationships and communication.Why is open communication important in fostering healthy relationships?

Today, we're diving into a foundational topic—one that touches the very essence of human agency and fulfillment. We’re talking about power and responsibility and their intricate relationship with failure and helplessness. This might be one of our most ambitious episodes yet, so buckle up!

What is this? My workflow consists of recording myself while driving to work each morning, for that day's episode. Then taking the transcript of that recording and using it as a basis for creating a podcast script, which then I record, edit, enhance and publish. This is one of those raw recordings, I'm trying to figure out if people might prefer this raw format ito polished stuff.

Are expectations good or bad? Should we have them at all in relationships, especially in marriage? As with most philosophical questions, the answer is: it depends. In this episode, we’ll define what expectations are, examine how they shape our relationships, and explore why curiosity and perseverance are essential virtues when expectations go unmet.If you’ve ever wondered how to bridge the gap between what you want and what you get in life or love, you’re in the right place. Let’s dive in.

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Are Doctrines and Ideologies Evil? Where do they come from? Do they have any positive role? Can they be used for good? Should we avoid them entirely? Why? Answers to these questions and more in today's episode.

I really think this next entry in what appears to become a series of busting the common "wisdom" myths. So, what's wrong with keeping your eyes on your goals? Have a listen and find out, I really think you might learn something useful.

This was a tough one. The relationship between truth, beauty, and the nature of reality is one part of a triad that will set the foundation for what we're building here.

Today I tackle a common conversational copout: the excuse of not being "good at debating". Have you ever found yourself in a debate where the other party suddenly claims they need to step away to improve their debating skills? Tune in for a lively exploration of power, responsibility, and the courage to engage in meaningful dialogue!

New live format. I'm debunking the myth that parenting is primarily about what you tell your children rather than what you show them through your actions, and the misconception that children need constant verbal directives to behave correctly.I also answer:What happens when a child's perception of their parent's actions clashes with the outside world? How does leading by example influence a child's behavior compared to verbal instruction?What role does a nurturing family environment play in a child's desire for external acceptance?What are the differences between leadership and control in parenting?How should parents react to their child's behavior in a way that encourages growth without demanding compliance?

In this exploration of truth and pain, we challenge a widespread belief: that certain truths are inherently painful. By weaving together insights from neuroscience, Buddhist wisdom, and practical philosophy, we reveal how our resistance to reality—rather than reality itself—creates our distress. This episode breaks down the myth of "painful truths" while offering concrete steps for building e healthier relationship with objective reality.