The Sane Single

I’m back after 2 yr hiatus, here’s a quick insight on what I’ve been thinking and also hear my real time expression around my feelings of rejection at this time in my life. Disclaimer: excuse my noisy dogs.

Sometimes the thing we think we want will harm us. Your wanting is valid but remember that even your wants should be evaluated constantly.

On this journey of self discovery we may sometimes feel as though we are going backwards. When in reality we are right where God needs us to be….submitted and still. Even when it feels like we’re suffering in a pool of emotions.

Navigating the dating world can take a toll on you sometimes. But it’s so important to make sure you’re outlook is healthy. It’s easy to blame someone else and it’s even easier to self sabotage. Let’s talk about it

I had to recognize my own bias recently but it also brought about an even bigger conversation I think we are all ready to have so let’s talk.

Sometimes there’s an overwhelming amount of emotions you just can’t explain. They just happen, no trigger no warning just raw emotions. And that’s ok. Blog : https://www.gimmesomeoven.com/life/single-just-feels-hard/

The road to contentment should be completed before you get the thing you’re waiting for, not after. If so, you’ll always be looking for something to complete you, and that my dear is not healthy.

There are things you need to remember. 1. You did not create yourself. 2. God loves you so much. 3. It’s time to humble yourself and stick to the plan, regardless of how you feel.

Ever wonder why you keep doing the same things over and over and feeling like you can’t get out of the loop called mistakes? Because they’re choices now….choices.

Be careful how much energy you give to something now, you nay now have enough later. Your best is need not what left.

There are things that we all want but let’s not neglect the things that come before our own desires.

Society is telling us now that the older we get the more we should accept the fact that everyone has children. Now we know this isn’t true, but we should dig a little deeper and think about this question. As a single, do you prefer to date someone with children or without and vice versa for singles that already have children. Are you going to let time, your age or frustration dictate your choice? I sure hope not. Join us in the conversation. Follow will on IG : @worldwide_will_

The things we do in private will be exposed in public. Master your thinking so you can master your tongue.

“The stages of dating” - we have redefined what dating is over and over again. This week we’re gonna talk about it and really dig into what it looks like now and if it’s really hurting us as a generation.

We’ve all been there, let’s talk about it.

Listen God knows where we are and where he wants us. It’s best to listen now than to listen later and be damaged, heartbroken and carrying weight you were never supposed to hold.

Don’t let the length of the wait be the reason you settle. Stand firm. You’re not asking too much. Wanna join my small group? Email me: [email protected]

Make a demand on your life. Own up to yo ish. Be wise in what you do, what you say and how you react. This episode is about unlearning. For you.

This episode is gonna take a little longer than usual. I had to show up for myself this year. Really show up. Which led to me facing things I thought I beat already. I hope this episode frees you as much as it freed me. Let my experiences empower you to take those scary steps to show up in every area of you life. Sometimes we get so busy waiting on others to show up for us and show themselves to us we neglect the important part- preparation. Let’s unpack that. Book: https://www.amazon.com/Art-Showing-Up-Yourself-People/dp/1615196617

It’s time to change our perspective in singleness. Yes, these negative feelings are valid but they don’t bring us closer to our desires. Follow us on social Messi @_twrpodcast. Article mentioned : https://www.elitedaily.com/p/being-single-when-all-your-friends-are-in-relationships-can-suck-but-heres-how-to-deal-17903572

Processing some things in this episode take a listen and hear my heart

Relationships evolve. The right ones test you. They make you look at yourself and confront some things. But how often do you consult God? Do you trust his counsel? Briefly we will talk about personal experiences with a special guest Terrance Shipmon Jr. follow him on social media! @shipmonjr

Sometimes you just need to stop and reflect.

Walking with Christ not only means being obedient but it means consulting with him in everything you do.

Sometimes circumstances will try to rename us. Let me share with you another spirit I was fighting during the beginning of this pandemic. I hope it helps someone.

Too much of anything can be detrimental. Careful how much time you’re putting into things and neglecting the art of mastery.

Why do we continue to stand in our own way when we already have enough life challenges. Let’s learn how to identify and deal with this before it keeps us from purpose. Take the self sabotage quiz now! http://thefordinstitute.com/selfsabotagequiz

Any of you dealing with just not feeling motivated lately? Me too...let’s talk about it.

I just wanted to come on and encourage your guys this week.

I just had a few words on my mind that I needed to get off my chest just to help charge you up to look up in this season.

Join me on this episode as I pray for you, for me, our friends and family, those on the front line and everyone in the world as we deal with this virus.

Shoulda , Coulda , Woulda terms we should really eliminate in our vocabulary and the events hat are happening now are giving us a chance to do just that.

God slowed us all the way down didn’t he?

Why do we insist on living life as if we have a choice? When we surrendered our lives to Christ and asked him to use us we also decided to enter into a relationship with him. What type of relationship lasts without communication? Also check it this video I talked about in today’s episode : https://youtu.be/NCiSpxF1GeA

Ever found yourself in a situation that had you completely floored? Smh. The things we do when we arent paying attention can cost us so much time and energy. Lets talk about it.

The fear of missing out. But we only feel like we missing out when we aren’t doing anything productive with our lives. Who you spying on? Who you comparing yourself to? How is this helping you get to where you wanna be? The only thing you missing out on is your future because you’re looking in the wrong direction. Bible Study Help: -VXV (verse by verse). -The bible project

We all have vices, the question is how long are you gonna let them distract you from the real problems you are facing? Join my good friend Lola and I as we dive into this topic. Follow her on IG : @apnetcolumbus and @fufuforthought to connect with her and the amazing projects she is doing here in the city!

We all have vices, the question is how long are you gonna let them distract you from the real problems you are facing? Join my good friend Lola and I as we dive into this topic. Follow her on IG : @apnetcolumbus and @fufuforthought to connect with her and the amazing projects she is doing here in the city!

A new year showed up. But did you? It’s so easy to say you have a new vision in this year but did you bring something else with you unknowingly?

This is the last episode of 2019 season 2. Just wanted to come and talk to you guys about the past couple of weeks and encourage you all to be strong in this wait. I’m still with you.

How does God communicate to you?

Sometimes we gotta tell it like it is. Be real, in some form or another we have a issue with sticking to our own business and involving ourselves in the lives of others.....I mean what else would you do while you wait? Observe others right?

Sometimes God has to tell us “you’re going the wrong way” and I’m okay with that.

Season 2 Episode 5: It’s that time of the year...our friend SAD is slowly creeping up on us...let’s talk about getting ahead of the game this year and conquering this beast we call depression. Read more about SAD here: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9293-seasonal-depression

The church is always teaching and preparing the woman to be a wife......no one talks about the real meaning behind Proverbs 31, and let me tell you,baby I'm done. Just want to share some of my studies 😁

Your posture is a manifestation of your maturity. It’s time for a little self check!

Let’s be real. No one likes to be ghosted..... But what if it’s you doing the ghosting? I promise man you can get so caught up showing up for others you forget about you. How do you come back from that?

The wait will have you in a million different places mentally. Today I’m gonna talk about some issues I’ve faced in this short break. Ya girl wanted to say FORGET THIS PROMISE!

6 months left until 2020 is here. Where did the time go!? what did I get or didn’t get accomplished? Crazy how we can spend all day online talking about what we want to do yet we haven’t moved....or have we

Accountability & Relationships. Let’s talk about the unsung heroes...our friends/family. Those that keep us sane while we’re waiting.....and if you don’t have it count me in as someone in your corner!