The SoulFire Sessions

IntroductionThis Money Matters for Real People series is designed to explore the intersection of financial strategy, mindset, and long-term decision making. Each episode breaks down complex financial topics into clear, actionable insights to help individuals, families, and business owners make more confident financial decisions.SummaryIn this episode of Money Matters for Real People, Cristina Easterling and Joshua Montanez discuss the foundations of creating a financial plan and why understanding where you are financially is the first step toward building confidence with money. Together, they explore how to inventory your finances without judgment, identify personal financial goals, and create a plan that reflects your real life—not someone else’s. The conversation also breaks down Josh’s simple “bucket” approach to money management, covering cash flow, savings, investments, and the role credit can play in long-term planning. Listeners will learn why automation, consistent check-ins, and realistic goal setting can help reduce financial stress and create greater peace of mind over time. DisclosurePlease remember that all investments carry some level of risk, including the potential loss of principal invested. No investment strategy can assure a profit and does not protect against loss in declining markets. Indexes and/or benchmarks are unmanaged and cannot be invested in directly. Returns represent past performance, are not a guarantee of future performance and are not indicative of any specific investment.Members use Montanez Wealth Advisors as a marketing name for doing business as representatives of Northwestern Mutual. Northwestern Mutual is the marketing name for The Northwestern Mutual Life Insurance Company (NM) (life and disability insurance, annuities, and life insurance with long-term care benefits) and its subsidiaries, including Northwestern Mutual Investment Services, LLC (NMIS) (Investment Brokerage Services), a subsidiary of NM, registered investment adviser, broker-dealer and member FINRA and SIPC and Northwestern Mutual Wealth Management Company® (NMWMC) (Investment Advisory Services) , a federal savings bank. NM and its subsidiaries are in Milwaukee, WI.To view detailed disclosures regarding individual representatives, view their information at www.montanezwealth.com. Connect with Josh Montanez:Scheduling Link: 15 Minute Phone Call with Josh MontanezInstagram: Montanez Wealth Advisors InstagramFacebook: Montanez Wealth Advisors FacebookLinkedIn: Josh Montanez LinkedIn Keywords: Financial planning; money mindset; budgeting; savings; investing; retirement planning; emergency funds; debt management; financial goals; wealth building; money habits; financial confidence; financial wellness; financial literacyConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode, Alex sits down with Robert Rathje to talk about intentional living and what it really takes to reach your full potential. Robert shares how a defining belief from his childhood shaped his purpose of helping others grow, and how a major health transformation became the catalyst for deeper change in his life.That journey led him to create his Life Blueprint: a framework built around six core areas that help guide intentional decisions, habits, and long-term impact. Instead of focusing on temporary goals, Robert emphasizes the power of standards...the daily behaviors that shape who you become.Together, they explore the importance of reflection, personal responsibility, and building consistent habits that align with the life you actually want. This episode offers both mindset shifts and practical steps to help you move from potential to action. TakeawaysYour potential requires ownership: No one can want your growth more than you do Standards > goals: Goals are temporary, standards shape how you live dailyClarity creates action: Knowing what you want drives meaningful habitsSelf-actualization = potential + executionYou don’t have to do everything at once: Build your life intentionally, one area at a time Reflection is essential: Growth happens when you slow down and evaluate Life is seasonal: Your standards and priorities will evolve as your life changes Progress over perfection: Consistency matters more than doing it perfectly every day Community matters: Growth accelerates when you invite others into the process Intentional time creates transformation: Even 15–30 minutes of reflection can change everythingConnect with RobertWebsite:  https://www.optimyzedgrowth.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-rathje/Chapters00:00: Welcome & Episode Introduction 02:00: Robert’s Story & Early Influences 06:00: Discovering Purpose & Career Shift 09:00: Health Journey & Turning Point 11:00: The Life Blueprint Explained (6 Core Areas) 14:00: Goals vs. Standards: The Mindset Shift 18:00: Building Habits That Actually Stick 22:00: Reflection, Growth & Life Seasons 26:30: Finding What Sets Your Soul on Fire 29:30: Practical Steps for Intentional Living KeywordsIntentional living, life blueprint, personal growth, self-actualization, reaching your potential, mindset, habits, discipline, clarity, purpose, goal setting vs standards, self development, leadership, performance, productivity, reflection, life design, coaching, holistic growth, work life integration Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

IntroductionThe Sparks Series is a special series within The SoulFire Sessions.While our regular episodes explore a wide range of conversations around purpose, leadership, and growth, the Sparks Series is dedicated to spotlighting purpose-driven leaders who are creating meaningful impact in their work and communities. Each episode centers on their story, their leadership, and the moments that sparked the work they’re doing today.SummaryIn this episode of the Sparks Series, Alex sits down with Josh Montanez, founder and lead wealth advisor of Montanez Wealth Advisors, to explore how clarity around finances can create confidence, stability, and forward momentum in life.Josh shares how his journey began as a young intern and grew into a purpose-driven career centered on helping people connect their money to their life path. At the heart of his work is a simple but powerful idea: when people truly understand their finances, they gain the confidence to move forward.Throughout the conversation, Josh emphasizes that leadership isn’t just about ideas or advice…it’s about follow-through. It’s about showing up, doing what you say you will do, and walking alongside people as they navigate important decisions in their lives.From navigating business growth and family life to advocating for hydrocephalus awareness, Josh’s story is a reminder that clarity builds confidence, but it’s follow-through that creates lasting impact.Takeaways~ Clarity creates confidence: when you understand your finances, you can finally move forward with intention.  ~ Follow-through builds trust: leadership isn’t what you say, it’s what you consistently do.  ~ Money is personal: your experiences, emotions, and habits all shape how you manage it.  ~ Security changes everything: when you feel financially safe, you can take risks, grow, and step into more.  ~ Growth is ongoing: staying “green and growing” means always learning, both in life and leadership.  ~ You don’t have to have it all figured out: progress comes from showing up and staying committed.  ~ Passion can be built: sometimes what you love comes from sticking with something long enough to grow into it.  ~ It’s okay to pivot: changing direction doesn’t mean starting over, it means evolving.Connect with JoshWebsite: MontanezWealth.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/montanezwealthadvisors/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NM.JoshMontanez LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/josh-montanez-cfp%C2%AE-chfc%C2%AE-clu%C2%AE-crps%E2%84%A2-29162b52/ Hydrocephalus Association Website: https://www.hydroassoc.org/ KeywordsFinancial clarity; follow-through; financial security; money habits; financial planning; confidence; purpose-driven leadership; mentorship; family leadership; hydrocephalus awareness; resilience; emotional intelligence; decision-making; growth mindsetConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

IntroductionThis Money Matters for Real People series is designed to explore the intersection of financial strategy, mindset, and long-term decision making. Each episode breaks down complex financial topics into clear, actionable insights to help individuals, families, and business owners make more confident financial decisions. SummaryIn this episode of Mind Over Money, Cristina Easterling and Josh Montanez explore how our thoughts, fears, and habits shape our financial future. They discuss the powerful role of money stories and inherited beliefs in influencing everything from spending and saving to risk-taking and long-term planning.Cristina and Josh unpack the shift from operating in “survival mode” to a more intentional, strategy-driven approach. They explore how early experiences shape financial behaviors, highlight common limiting beliefs, and share how shifting those beliefs can lead to greater confidence and control.With over 14 years of experience, Josh is the founder of Montanez Wealth Advisors, where he leads a team delivering comprehensive financial planning across investments, tax efficiency, retirement, and risk management.Together, they bridge mindset and strategy to show how awareness and action create lasting financial change.DisclosurePlease remember that all investments carry some level of risk, including the potential loss of principal invested. No investment strategy can assure a profit and does not protect against loss in declining markets. Indexes and/or benchmarks are unmanaged and cannot be invested in directly. Returns represent past performance, are not a guarantee of future performance and are not indicative of any specific investment.Members use Montanez Wealth Advisors as a marketing name for doing business as representatives of Northwestern Mutual. Northwestern Mutual is the marketing name for The Northwestern Mutual Life Insurance Company (NM) (life and disability insurance, annuities, and life insurance with long-term care benefits) and its subsidiaries, including Northwestern Mutual Investment Services, LLC (NMIS) (Investment Brokerage Services), a subsidiary of NM, registered investment adviser, broker-dealer and member FINRA and SIPC and Northwestern Mutual Wealth Management Company® (NMWMC) (Investment Advisory Services) , a federal savings bank. NM and its subsidiaries are in Milwaukee, WI.To view detailed disclosures regarding individual representatives, view their information at www.montanezwealth.com.Connect with Josh Montanez:Scheduling Link: 15 Minute Phone Call with Josh MontanezInstagram: Montanez Wealth Advisors InstagramFacebook: Montanez Wealth Advisors FacebookLinkedIn: Josh Montanez LinkedIn Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of Soulfire Sessions, Alex and Cristina sit down with Scott Burgess, a human performance architect, to explore what it really means to rebuild your health from the inside out. After experiencing a major life pivot and health scare, Scott shares how he shifted from feeling depleted and disconnected to helping others restore their energy, confidence, and well-being.The conversation dives into the powerful connection between emotional patterns, physical health, and personal identity. Scott challenges conventional thinking around wellness, emphasizing that true healing starts by addressing internal imbalances, both mentally and physically. He also shares practical tools listeners can begin using immediately, including journaling, hydration, and small daily shifts that can create lasting change.At its core, this episode is an invitation to slow down, reconnect with yourself, and take ownership of your health, energy, and purpose.TakeawaysShifting your mindset to believe life is happening for you can unlock healing and growth. Healing starts in the mind!Emotional patterns and unresolved stress can directly impact physical health.Rebuilding confidence and personal authority is a key part of overall wellness.Simple daily practices like journaling and intentional hydration can create powerful change.True healing requires addressing both the mind and body—not just symptoms.Stillness and self-reflection can help you reconnect with your purpose and inner clarity.Connect with ScottWebsite: www.BalancedNaturopathics.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/scotteburgessnc/Book Recommendations: It Works by RHJ (https://a.co/d/01f1aR6q), and Three Magic Words by U.S. Anderson (Master Key Society: https://youtu.be/lJRs4O9u_E8?si=zyrAfAjD-ALjg1ic) Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/Chapters00:00 Welcome and introduction to the episode 01:16 What it means to rebuild health from the inside out 03:20 Scott’s turning point and path into wellness work 05:33 The role of mindset, language, and perspective 12:18 How stress, identity, and emotions impact the body 19:31 Practical tools: journaling, hydration, and daily habits 29:34 Nutrition, energy, and supporting the body’s systems 36:40 What sets Scott’s soul on fire 38:18 How to discover your purpose through stillness 41:20 Final thoughts, resources, and where to connect  KeywordsHealth, human performance, wellness, emotional health, stress, healing, mind-body connection, energy, journaling, personal growth, burnout recovery, anxiety, mental wellness, confidence, resilienceConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

IntroductionThe Sparks Series is a special series within The SoulFire Sessions.While our regular episodes explore a wide range of conversations around purpose, leadership, and growth, the Sparks Series is dedicated to spotlighting purpose-driven leaders who are creating meaningful impact in their work and communities. Each episode centers on their story, their leadership, and the moments that sparked the work they’re doing today.SummaryIn this Spark Series episode, we celebrate Amy Thompson, a steady, compassionate leader whose presence makes people feel seen, supported, and capable. Amy shares how her lifelong work in vision care is about more than eyesight: it’s about confidence, connection, and helping people see themselves and the world more clearly.We explore the values that shape how she shows up as a working mom, leader, friend, and “behind-the-scenes stage manager” who helps others shine. Amy opens up about career pivots that required courage, the power of trusting intuition, and why community is oxygen for our fire. She also shares practical self-care anchors (sleep, hydration, doing what you love when life gets loud), plus the books and voices that have guided her, including The Lazy Genius Way and Burnout.Takeaways~ A spark doesn’t have to be big. Small moments, nurtured with care, can become life-changing flames.~ Support is a leadership strategy: Amy’s goal is to help people feel seen, understood, and steady.~ Vision is deeper than eyesight. Helping people see can build confidence and reshape how they experience life.~ Courage shows up in pivots: choosing what’s right for you (even if it looks like a “step back”) is strength.~ Community is oxygen. Sharing burdens with trusted people makes them lighter and keeps your fire burning.~ Self-care isn’t selfish, so prioritize sleep, hydrate, and “do what you love” especially in stressful seasons.Connect with AmyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amy-thompson-1275a7193/Book Recommendations: The Lazy Genius Way by Kendra Adachi,  The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, Grace for the Good Girl by Emily P. Freeman, Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nagoski, and Awake by Jen Hatmaker Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/Chapters00:00 Intro 03:45 Quiet Kindness05:17 Vision & Purpose09:12 Family & Support13:01 Compassion in Action17:43 Behind the Scenes22:10 Courage & Resilience26:41 Community & Collective29:09 Self-Care Practices33:11 Books & Inspiration41:29 What Is a Spark?46:16 Closing  KeywordsAuthentic leadership, kindness in leadership, community impact, women in leadership, personal growth, self-care for leaders, courage and resilience, finding your purpose, emotional intelligencConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of The SoulFire Sessions, Alex welcomes Leanne Zaccar, an actress, author, spiritual medium, and award-winning speaker joining from Australia. As a medium, Leanne lives with a powerful awareness that life is short, and that truth reshaped everything after divorce left her feeling disconnected from herself and questioning where her spark had gone.Leanne shares how she rebuilt her confidence and identity by returning to a past passion: Latin dance. What began as a vulnerable, confronting first step in front of studio mirrors became her “moving meditation” and the catalyst for rediscovering her authentic self. From there, she found the courage to step into mediumship professionally after a decade of hiding that part of herself and to live a life aligned, brave, and without regret.Together, Alex and Leanne explore imposter syndrome, healing from old narratives, the fear of judgment, and the power of micro-steps to begin coming home to yourself again. Leanne also introduces her book, The Soul Nudge, and shares the message behind her award-winning talk, “Reignite Your Spark: The Secret Power of Authenticity.”The episode closes with Leanne’s simple framework for transformation: Be the ARTist of your life — Awaken, Reveal, Transform.TakeawaysYour spark can be rebuilt even after burnout, divorce, or identity loss.Life feels different when you remember it’s short you stop waiting to be yourself.Returning to a past passion can reconnect you to your essence.Courage grows through small, consistent brave steps.Imposter syndrome is often old conditioning—not truth.Authenticity may cost you some people—but it brings the right ones closer.Failure is feedback, not a verdict.Micro-steps (affirmations, quiet moments, simple action) can reignite big change.Be the ARTist of your life: Awaken. Reveal. Transform.Connect with LeanneWebsite: www.leannezaccar.com.au Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leannezaccar/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leannezaccarLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannezaccar/Book, The Soul Nudge: https://a.co/d/0hxeRjK2 Reach out to Leanne on her website or DM her with the word SOULFIRE, and she will gift you her ebook: "Reignite Your Spark: A 15 page Soul Guide to Remembering Yourself."Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/Chapters00:00 — Welcome to The SoulFire Sessions 01:36 — Losing the Spark and Hitting a Breaking Point 03:38 — Dance as Rebirth: Coming Alive Again 07:02 — Building Courage Through Community 08:59 — Living Without Regret 11:21 — Redefining Failure and Psychological Safety 14:21 — Stepping Into Mediumship + Imposter Syndrome 19:40 — Masks, Judgment, and Authentic Identity 21:07 — The Power of Micro Steps Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

IntroductionThe Sparks Series is a special series within The SoulFire Sessions.While our regular episodes explore a wide range of conversations around purpose, leadership, and growth, the Sparks Series is dedicated to spotlighting purpose-driven leaders who are creating meaningful impact in their work and communities. Each episode centers on their story, their leadership, and the moments that sparked the work they’re doing today.SummaryIn this SoulFire Sparks episode, Mariah Newman honors the people who became the wind beneath her wings...the mentors, family members, and quiet encouragers who helped her rise long before she believed she could, and who shaped her life and leadership.Through heartfelt stories and reflections, Mariah honors the sparks who showed up with belief, safety, and unwavering support during pivotal seasons of her life. From professional mentors who helped her see her courage and potential, to family members who stood in the gap during difficult chapters, this episode is a reminder that leadership is never a solo journey. This episode is a love letter to the unseen mentors, the ones who don't seek recognition but whose presence changes everything. Takeaways~ Not all mentors have titles—some simply show up and stay.~ Safety and belief can change the trajectory of a life.~ Being seen is often the first step toward courage.~ Our “sparks” help us rise before we know how to fly on our own.~ Gratitude deepens when we acknowledge the people who carried us through.Connect with MariahInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mariahnewman12321/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mariah.e.cline LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariah-newman-ed-s-05054071/ Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/Chapters00:00 – Introducing Sparks & the Power of Influence01:00 – No One Becomes a Leader Alone01:40 – Ken Henson on Courage and Leadership05:39 – Todd Carter: Courage in the Face of Change09:34 – The Ripple Effect of Being a Spark 11:25 – Seeing Yourself for the First Time 15:32 – Friendship, Authenticity, and Resilience at Work 19:20 – Miss Sharon: Love Without Conditions 25:02 – Family Who Stood in the Gap 27:50 – Persistence, Care, and Growing Up Too Soon 33:35 – Gratitude for the Sparks Who Raised Her38:37 – Messages of Love & Affirmation 39:37 – The Wind Beneath My Wings41:08 – Closing Reflection & Invitation to Honor Your SparksKeywordsMentorship, personal growth, life mentors, support systems, influential people, gratitude, belonging, leadership development, emotional safety, confidence building, courage, influence, community support, chosen family, the wind beneath my wingsConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

What happens when failure feels personal, and what becomes possible when a team feels safe? In this episode of The Soulfire Sessions, Alex and Christina are joined by Dr. Matt Daniel to explore psychological safety and why it’s one of the most powerful drivers of collaboration, innovation, and high-performing teams. Through real stories and practical insight, Matt unpacks what psychological safety is (and isn’t), how self-silencing signals an unsafe environment, and why failure lands so differently depending on team culture. Together, they discuss how unsafe teams turn mistakes into character judgments, while safe teams transform failure into shared learning, momentum, and creative problem-solving. The conversation also offers guidance for leaders looking to build a “bubble” of safety within unhealthy organizations, strategies for coping when leaving isn’t an option, and what it truly takes to repair trust once psychological safety has been broken. Takeaways~ In an unsafe environment, failure can feel like a personal indictment.~ Psychological safety makes it easier to share mistakes without fear of humiliation.~ Shared failures often lead to collaborative problem-solving and better ideas.~ Safe teams treat failure as temporary—and keep moving forward.~ Leaders shape team climate through modeling, coaching, and follow-through.~ Repair requires consistent positive interactions over time, not a one-time apology.~ Psychological safety fuels the brave work that bold teams need to innovate.Connect with MattLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattjdaniel/Free ACU Webinar Series, register here!If your organization is interested in partnering with ACU to provide your employees with tuition discounts and benefits, email Matt at [email protected] with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/Chapters00:00 — Failure, Safety, and Team Culture00:55 — Welcome to The Soulfire Sessions01:56 — Meet Dr. Matt Daniel03:33 — How Psychological Safety Gets Destroyed06:34 — What Is Psychological Safety?09:50 — Signs of an Unsafe Environment10:27 — Is It Just a Bad Manager… or Something More?11:22 — Courage, Silence, and Speaking Up14:54 — When Leaders Don’t Mean Harm16:27 — Why Psychological Safety Matters for Business18:57 — Encouraging Quiet Voices on the Team19:53 — Failure, Fast Learning, and Innovation20:39 — Failure as a Game, Not a Judgment22:42 — Coping in an Unsafe Workplace25:24 — Purpose as a Buffer Against Toxicity26:08 — Can Psychological Safety Be Repaired?29:41 — The Power of Positive Interactions30:19 — Creating a “Bubble” of Safety32:26 — Reflections on Leadership Responsibility35:21 — What Sets Your Soul on Fire?38:02 — Finding Your Own Soul Fire42Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of The SoulFire Sessions, hosts Alex and Mariah sit down with Jordan Tate, who opens up about his powerful journey through job loss, identity shifts, faith, and rediscovering purpose. He shares the emotional realities of being laid off, from self-doubt and grief to unexpected peace, and how community, courage, and stillness helped him navigate a year without traditional employment.Jordan reflects on listening to internal nudges, following unexpected signs (including tears in a 100-year-old house and a school hallway), and choosing authenticity even when it meant breaking norms. His story culminates in finding meaningful work that aligns deeply with who he is and how he wants to serve others. This conversation invites listeners to trust their path, honor their intuition, and stay open to purpose beyond what they originally imagined.Takeaways~ A layoff does not define your worth or identity. ~ It is normal to grieve the loss of a job and routine. ~ Asking “What did I do wrong?” can become a tool for growth rather than shame. ~ Rest and stillness can be deeply productive seasons. ~ Listening to your body and emotions can reveal direction and alignment. ~ Authenticity in how you present yourself opens the right doors. ~ Community and support systems are essential during transition. ~ Courage sometimes looks like doing nothing and waiting. ~ Faith, intuition, and sensitivity to “signs” can guide next steps. ~ The right partner can help “push back the darkness” during difficult seasons. ~ Purpose may look different than you originally envisioned. ~ You can emulate people who inspire you without trying to become them.Connect with JordanLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordan-g-tate/ Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/Chapters00:00: Introduction to The SoulFire Sessions01:18: Meet Jordan: friendship, background, and life before the layoff04:56: The layoff: first reactions, grief, and “What did I do wrong?”09:31: Identity, self-doubt, and navigating a year without work15:23: Rest, reflection, faith, and learning to be still21:11: Unexpected clarity: the house, the move, and following the pull to Ohio26:05: Coaching, community, and staying open to possibility28:30: The school, authenticity, and the honest interview32:49: A new calling: directing high school expansion and finding alignment40:49: Advice for anyone facing a layoff or big transition48:15: What sets Jordan’s soul on fire52:15: How to find what sets your soul on fire KeywordsLayoffs, career transitions, faith and purpose, identity and work, personal growth, courage, authenticity, community support, calling, spiritual direction, listening to intuition, life transitions, purpose discovery, resilience, mental health and work, job loss, Christian education, career pivot, rediscovering purposeConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of The SoulFire Sessions0, hosts Alex and Mariah engage in a heartfelt conversation with guest Ashley, who shares her inspiring journey of resilience and personal growth. They discuss the challenges of navigating corporate America, the impact of workplace culture on mental health, and the importance of self-awareness and authenticity. Ashley emphasizes the significance of mentorship, gratitude, and making radical choices to foster change in one's life. The conversation culminates in a reflection on what truly sets one's soul on fire, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique paths and find fulfillment beyond societal expectations.Takeaways~ Resilience is key to overcoming life's challenges.~ Work ethic and determination can shape your future.~ Navigating corporate culture requires self-awareness and authenticity.~ Fear can hold us back from making necessary changes.~ Leaving a toxic environment can lead to personal growth.~ Practicing gratitude can shift your mindset positively.~ Self-love is essential for personal and professional success.~ Finding your community can provide support and encouragement.~ Contentment does not equate to complacency.~ Identifying what sets your soul on fire is crucial for fulfillment. Connect with The SoulFire Collective:Website: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/Chapters00:00: Introduction to SoulFire Sessions01:23: Resilience and Work Ethic: Ashley's Journey06:02: Navigating Corporate Challenges and Personal Growth12:00: The Impact of Fear and Shame on Identity17:49: Making Radical Choices for a Better Life24:33: Choosing Yourself and Embracing New Opportunities25:37: Navigating Fear and Shame27:41: Grounding in Identity and Values30:44: The Importance of Community33:27: Self-Awareness and Defining Success36:44: Practicing Gratitude43:36: Finding Contentment and Authenticity44:42: Mentorship and ImpactKeywordsSoulfire Sessions, resilience, workplace culture, self-awareness, gratitude, mentorship, authenticity, personal growth, overcoming challenges, self-loveConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of The SoulFire Sessions, hosts Alex and Mariah engage in a deep conversation with their guest Casey about the significance of discipline in achieving personal growth and success. They explore how discipline serves as a foundation for emotional intelligence, the importance of self-love, and the journey of overcoming adversity, including health challenges. Casey shares his daily regimen, emphasizing the need for incremental changes (just 1% each day) and grace towards oneself. The discussion also touches on finding one's passion and purpose, with practical advice for listeners on how to start their own journey towards a more disciplined and fulfilling life.Takeaways- Discipline is essential for true direction in life.- Success is defined by personal growth and gratitude.- Daily routines can shape our physical and mental health.- Overcoming adversity can lead to personal transformation.- Small, incremental changes can lead to significant growth.- Emotional intelligence is crucial for personal stability.- Self-love is the foundation for loving others.- Comparison can hinder personal joy and growth.- Finding your North Star helps guide your journey.- Grace for oneself is vital in the pursuit of discipline.Resource from Casey:The Maxwell Daily Reader by John C. Maxwell: https://a.co/d/1dQ9Lby Connect with The SoulFire Collective:Website: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/Chapters00:00 Introduction to Soulfire Sessions01:10 The Importance of Discipline05:59 Defining Success and Personal Growth08:18 Overcoming Adversity and Health Challenges12:30 Taking Small Steps Towards Change18:48 Building Emotional Intelligence25:09 Finding Your North Star32:20 What Sets Your Soul on Fire?33:31 Advice for Discovering PassionKeywordsdiscipline, personal growth, emotional intelligence, health challenges, success, self-love, motivation, Soulfire Sessions, overcoming adversity, finding purposeConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of the Soulfire Sessions, hosts Alex and Mariah engage with guest JJ to explore the profound connection between physical health and mental well-being. JJ shares his transformative journey from struggling with his weight and mental health to embracing fitness and running half marathons. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community, accountability, and finding what works for each individual in their fitness journey. Listeners are encouraged to overcome self-doubt, prioritize their health, and seek out supportive environments to thrive both personally and professionally.TakeawaysPhysical health significantly impacts mental well-being.Finding an accountability partner can kickstart your fitness journey.It's important to try new things to discover what works for you.Community support can enhance motivation and commitment.Overcoming mental barriers is crucial for personal and leadership growth.Prioritizing physical health can improve leadership abilities.Start small and build up your fitness gradually.Surround yourself with people who inspire and challenge you.Consistency is key; showing up is more important than perfection.Failures are stepping stones to success; don't let them define you.Connect with JJ:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/j.j.widener/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshuaWidenerLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jjwidener/Connect with The SoulFire Collective:Website: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/ Chapters00:00 Introduction to Passion and Purpose01:51 The Impact of Physical Health on Mental Well-being06:39 Finding Your Starting Point in Fitness11:38 The Importance of Community and Accountability15:56 Overcoming Mental Barriers and Showing Up21:11 Balancing Physical, Mental, and Spiritual Health22:53 Navigating Mental Health in Cybersecurity24:55 The Importance of Physical Health26:53 Regulating the Nervous System28:44 The Power of Community and Accountability30:50 What Sets Your Soul on Fire?34:50 Advice for Igniting Your PassionKeywordsmental health, physical health, accountability, community, fitness journey, self-improvement, leadership, personal growth, wellness, motivationConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of the Soul Fire Sessions, hosts Alex and Mariah hang out with Cristina to discuss the transformative power of coaching, especially during times of change and uncertainty. They explore the importance of having a coach to provide clarity, accountability, and a safe space for self-discovery. The conversation highlights who can benefit from coaching, the role of stability in the coaching process, and the ripple effect that personal growth can have on others.  They also clarify what coaching isn’t designed to cover. The episode concludes with a reflection on what sets Cristina's soul on fire and the importance of pursuing passions without fear of failure. "What would you do if you knew you wouldn't fail?" During November 2025, we are offering a 50% discount on coaching! Use code GRATEFUL50 when booking. Book now: https://thesoulfire.com/coaches/ TakeawaysChange is a common experience for many people.Coaching provides a safe space for exploration.A coach helps clients gain clarity on their goals.Accountability is a key component of coaching.Coaching is not the same as counseling.Stability is important for effective coaching.Coaching can help with personal projects, not just career.The ripple effect of coaching can positively impact others.Self-awareness gained through coaching improves relationships.Pursuing passions can lead to personal fulfillment.Connect with Cristina:Instagram: www.instagram.com/cristina_ever_after Facebook: www.facebook.com/cristina.easterling LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cristina-easterling Connect with The SoulFire Collective:Website: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/ Resources:Maslow's Hierarchy of NeedsConnect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode, Brandi shares her powerful journey from being a school superintendent to facing public humiliation due to alcoholism and a traumatic experience. She discusses the spiral into addiction, the impact on her family, and the turning point that led her to seek help. Brandi emphasizes the importance of community, acceptance, and the healing process, ultimately finding purpose in helping others who have faced similar struggles. Her story is a testament to resilience and the belief that healing is possible, no matter how far one has fallen.TakeawaysBrandi's story highlights the importance of acknowledging trauma and its effects.Alcoholism can affect anyone, regardless of their background or achievements.Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.Community support is crucial in the recovery process.Acceptance of one's flaws is the first step towards healing.Brandi's experience shows that purpose can emerge from pain.Honesty and transparency are vital for personal growth and recovery.Shame can be diminished by sharing one's story with others.Recovery is a journey that requires ongoing effort and support.Helping others can be a powerful part of one's own healing process.Content Warning:  This episode includes discussion around sexual assault and healing from trauma. Please take care of yourself while listening. If you need to, pause, step away, or come back later. We’re sharing this story with deep respect for anyone who’s experienced pain like this, and with the hope that it helps remind you: healing is possible, and you’re not alone. Connect with Brandi:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pricebrandi  Connect with The SoulFire Collective:Website: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/ Resources:Substance Abuse and Mental Health National Helpline: https://www.samhsa.gov/ Women-Only Program: https://womenforsobriety.org/ Sober Mom Squad: https://www.instagram.com/sobermomsquad/ Alcoholics Anonymous: https://www.aa.org/Sexual Assault Hotline: https://rainn.org/help-and-healing/hotline/Celebrate Recovery: https://celebraterecovery.com/Suicide & Crisis Hotline: https://988lifeline.org/ Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of The SoulFire Sessions, Alex sits down with digital marketing specialist and owner of The Detailed Way, Cheri, for a powerful conversation about personal branding, online visibility, and the courage it takes to show up authentically in a digital world.From psychology to marketing, Cheri shares her journey and the lessons she’s learned about storytelling, self-promotion, and building genuine connections—without losing your authenticity. Together, they explore how personal branding has evolved, why it matters now more than ever, and how to bring your real self into the online spaces where you work, connect, and grow.What You’ll Learn:~ The difference between marketing for a business and marketing yourself~ How to find your authentic voice online (and avoid looking “AI-generated”)~ Why storytelling is the secret to connection—and how to start sharing yours~ How to use AI as a creative partner without losing your voice~ The role of community and networking in building your personal brand~ Why clarity doesn’t come before courage—and how taking the first step leads to confidenceConnect with Cheri:Website: thedetailedway.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedetailedway Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedetailedway LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/cdjohnson1002 Connect with The SoulFire Collective:Website: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of The SoulFire Sessions, hosts Alex and Mariah welcome Andrea—a gifted energy channeler, sound healer, yoga and meditation teacher—who helps people reconnect with their soul, calm their nervous systems, and step back into alignment with who they really are.Andrea opens the conversation by leading us through a short, grounding breathwork practice, showing just how powerful two minutes of presence can be. She shares accessible tools anyone can use—breathwork, gratitude, grounding, and meditation (in many forms)—to shift from stress and disconnection to calm and clarity.We also dive into:1) The difference between the voice of the soul and the voice of the ego—and how to tell them apart.2) Why grounding practices like bare feet on the grass or morning sun are more science than “woo woo.”3) How Andrea followed intuition from teaching high school to building a soul-led business in energy and transformational coaching.4) Why reconnecting to curiosity, creativity, and play is central to remembering who we truly are.Andrea’s story is a beautiful reminder that when we follow those nudges of intuition and passion, life unfolds with more peace, purpose, and possibility.Located in NW Arkansas, to book a session with Andrea, please email her at [email protected], or find her on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/andrea.peterson.speer/) or Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/andreasistiyoga/?hl=en). Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In our first solo session, Alex shares her personal journey of leaving behind 15 years in higher education to step into higher purpose with The SoulFire Collective (www.thesoulfire.com). She explores what it means to live in the gray space—the in-between of identity, faith, and the unknown. Through honest reflection, Alex unpacks the grief of letting go, the excitement of new beginnings, and the courage it takes to trust the process.Action Steps for Listeners:1) Name your gray space: Ask yourself, ‘What part of my life feels in-between right now?’ Write it down. When you put language around it, it becomes less of a shadow and more of a space you can see and hold. 2) Find one anchor: What practice, habit, or relationship keeps you grounded? It could be journaling, prayer, morning walks, or even a phone call with a trusted friend. Choose one and lean into it this week—something that steadies you when the gray feels shaky.3) Reframe the unknown: Instead of asking, ‘What if this goes wrong?’ try asking, ‘What if this goes right?’ Flip the story in your head, and let yourself imagine the best-case scenario instead of living in fear of the worst.Call to Action:What gray space are you navigating right now? Share your story with Alex and the SoulFire community, or tag The SoulFire Sessions so we can walk with you.Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this episode of the SoulFire Sessions, Alex and Mariah sit down with Robert to explore his bold leap from a 30-year career in corporate tech into full-time entrepreneurship with his wife's company, Aunt Susie’s Granola.Robert opens up about the fears, identity shifts, and hard truths of leaving a steady paycheck behind to chase this dream with his wife. From navigating financial uncertainty to grieving the loss of his corporate identity, he shares what it really takes to walk away from comfort and step into your calling.Listeners will hear how balance, grit, and authenticity carried Robert through the messy middle, and why pursuing what sets your soul on fire—even when scary—is always worth it.You can try Aunt Susie's Granola here: https://auntsusiesgranola.com/ Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

Your inner movements—those quiet nudges, emotions, and shifts—are your soul’s way of guiding you toward growth and alignment. In this powerful episode of SoulFire Sessions, hosts Alex and Mariah are joined guest Megan to explore how tuning in to these signals can ignite personal transformation.Through heartfelt conversation, practical insights, and real-life stories, we’ll uncover why honoring your inner world is key to living and leading with authenticity.Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/

In this first episode of The SoulFire Sessions, Alex and Mariah share the story behind SoulFire Collective—how it started, what it stands for, and why it matters. They open up about navigating the gray areas of life, uncovering purpose, and the values that guide their work: courage, authenticity, freedom, compassion, growth, and purpose.If you’ve ever felt stuck, searching, or soul-hungry—this episode is for you.Connect with The SoulFire CollectiveWebsite: thesoulfire.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulfireco/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61577017224180LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-soulfire-collective/