Things That Matter with Martie McNabb

Join Martie McNabb as she welcomes gerontologist Jacob Kendall to discuss the stories behind meaningful objects. This episode explores how college football, family, and changing times shape our memories and values. * Jacob Kendall’s connection to Alabama football and his late father through a championship game ticket * The evolution of college football and its impact on lifelong fans * Navigating feelings about memorabilia, memory, and what we leave behind * The importance of traditions, stories, and community beyond physical keepsakes * Jacob Kendall’s work in gerontology and his Four Dimensional Aging model In this episode of Things That Matter, I, Martie McNabb, sat down with Jacob Kendall, a gerontologist passionate about reframing how we see aging. We kicked things off just like show and tell in elementary school, with Jacob Kendall sharing a deeply meaningful object—a ticket stub from the 2012 BCS National Championship game in New Orleans between “his” team Alabama vs LSU. He told me, “The special part of my fandom is my relationship with my dad,” recalling a lifetime of Alabama football games they attended together. Though his father wasn’t at that particular championship game, the ticket still serves as a powerful reminder: “Even when I see this ticket, even though he wasn’t there, I think about him because that was like a culmination of having grown up as an Alabama fan and I finally got to see them win a national title in person” We explored how the landscape of college football has shifted. Jacob Kendall reflected, “Because of these changes, do you find yourself liking the game less and less? My answer is yes. And all their answers are yes.” Despite his nostalgia, he’s faced with the reality that what tied him so tightly to the sport—his father and the shared rituals—have changed, and so has the sport itself. When I asked what should happen to this treasured ticket stub after he’s gone, Jacob Kendall was candid: “I don’t know that I really care especially… it’s becoming more and more of a memory and less and less of tied to a physical thing”. He emphasized that for his family, traditions and stories matter more than possessions. We rounded out our talk with Jacob Kendall sharing his approach to gerontology, challenging one-dimensional views on aging: “If we don’t embrace that reality, then we’re just not gonna be able to address, adequately address, the challenges that come with an aging population” 19:39. His work encourages us all to see aging through a broader, more positive lens—focusing not on decline but on life’s ever-shifting stories and connections. Don’t forget to subscribe for more thoughtful conversations about the things that shape our lives! To find out more about this beautiful human doing important healing work in the world visit: https://www.jacobevanskendall.com/ Or connect with him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacobevanskendall/ or Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jacobevanskendall/ Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen Here:

As I, Martie McNabb, settle in for another episode of “Things That Matter,” I’m joined by John Davey—a man whose family keepsake is as unique as his story. John sits across from me, a small, handmade rug on his computer screen. He smiles, recalling the Christmas morning surprise when his sister gifted him this hooked rug, unaware that she’d become somewhat of an artist. John describes its “beachy vacation scene” complete with a sailboat, hydrangeas, and a little green house—a nod to childhood vacations on Martha’s Vineyard. But at the center of it all is a detail that makes us both chuckle: a cat named Stripes and a tray of blueberry muffins. As John explains, Stripes had a mischievous habit during their childhood—taking a bite from every muffin left on the table, a story the family still laughs about decades later. We discuss how, now, this rug has been claimed by John’s current cat, Kitty, creating a new chapter in the story. John reflects on the connection between objects and memories, and how the rug, while modest in value, is rich with meaning and family history. It’s not just a piece of décor—it’s a reminder of family life, shared laughter & connection, and the stories that outlast us. Before we wrap, I share ideas for keeping the story alive, perhaps with a sewn-in label or even a QR code, ensuring that long after we’re gone, the tale of Stripes and the blueberry muffins will live on for future generations. Fun Fact: John & his wife Melissa both shared “rug” tales as their Things that matter. Last Oct 2025, I got a chance to walk upon the 100 year old Persian rug that Melissa shared the story of in Episode # I saw the hooked rug in front of their fireplace & just KNEW it told a story too…. I’m so grateful John was willing to be my guest. Family traditions & stories are woven (or hooked) within the very fabric of these pieces of art. John is trying his hand at photography in his third act …. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

In this episode of Things That Matter, I welcomed the ever-curious traveler John McKenzie to reminisce about the meaning behind the things we keep. We dove into the stories tucked inside John’s five well-worn passports, each bursting with stamps and memories from across the globe. As John said, “What better symbol to represent places and travel experience than a passport?” He shared how a “spur of the moment” college road trip to Canada kicked off his adventures, and how a special Peace Corps passport carried him to Uzbekistan—a transformative chapter that “would of course completely change my life.” We explored John’s passion for being present where history is unfolding, like his recent trip to Syria, explaining, “I want to see history take place in a place like that…it’s rare that you have that opportunity.” For John, these passport stamps are “powerful storytelling tools,” connecting his childhood dreams of stamp collecting to real-life experiences around the world. John’s travels have inspired his latest venture—CuriosiTrips—encouraging others to “just be more curious and take that little tiny step towards something that’s maybe not familiar or just outside of your comfort zone.” Through it all, we reminded each other that the real value isn’t in the Things themselves, but the stories attached. As I shared, “It isn’t that things matter really, it’s the stories that get attached to them that often do.” John McKenzie, aka John the Traveler, shares the stories behind the Thing that matter most to him —his passports and the transformation they represent. John shares how curiosity and collecting postage stamps led him to explore the world, one stamp at a time. What you’ll hear in this episode: The inspiration behind John’s lifelong passion for travel and curiosity Stories behind memorable passport stamps, from Canada to Syria How travel artifacts like passports can become powerful storytelling tools The impact of global events on travel decisions and collecting memories John’s latest project, CuriosiTrips, and how you can connect with his adventures Don’t forget to subscribe for more thoughtful conversations about the things that shape our lives! To find out more about this beautiful curious world wanderer visit: https://johnthetraveler.com/ Reach out directly to [email protected] And follow on Facebook & Instagram @johnthecurioustraveler Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

On a crisp Vermont afternoon, I sat down with my friend Rev Yolanda for a special episode of “Things That Matter.” I kicked things off by recalling our unforgettable first meeting in Prospect Heights—a tall, vibrant woman in high heels and a big wig who dashed across Flatbush Avenue and into my life for good. Rev Yolanda brought her “show and tell”: a custom children’s storybook called “Glen’s Adventures,” honoring her late husband Glen. As she shared the story, Yolanda described how she had been Glen’s perfect sidekick and how the book, filled with their shared love of sci-fi, helped her heal and keep his memory close. “It’s not a loss, it’s a change in our relationship,” she reflected, reminding us that the people we love remain part of our story. I was grateful, not being a parent, to have my first experience of listening to my beautiful friend read a children’s book for Drag Queen Story Hour. We spoke about the importance of preserving both personal and LGBTQIA+ histories—how our homes and collections become living museums, and why legacy matters. Before closing, Yolanda shared how listeners can connect with her music and creative work, inviting everyone to add their voices to the ongoing tapestry of stories that truly matter. And as always, our conversation ended with gratitude—and the reminder that it’s the stories we attach to things, and the legacies we leave behind, that shape history. Rev Yolanda is a trans femme gender queer singer-songwriter, interfaith minister & actor who lives on a piece of land in Vermont that she & Glen bought in 2022 to build their forever home. Yolanda is slowly building her life without Glen’s physical presence. He will be forever in her heart. Find out more & listen to her music here: Yolanda.net or RevYolanda.com Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Martie McNabb welcomed viewers with her signature warmth, beaming into the camera as she introduced her guest, Thomas Beutel. “Today on Things That Matter, Thomas is sharing a story about a very special boxcar—and the powerful memories attached to it.” Thomas held up a small HO scale boxcar, explaining, “My father gave me this when I was eight or nine. It wasn’t just a toy—it was my introduction to hours of tinkering on model railroads with him, and it sparked my lifelong passion for engineering and creativity.” Martie nodded, recognizing the depth of such connections. “So this one object represents your journey from curious kid to engineer—and now artist?” “Exactly,” Thomas replied, showing a shadow box assemblage he’d made featuring the car. “For me, it’s about the memories and what they inspired. The story matters more than the thing itself.” Martie closed with a reminder: “It’s never just about the things—it’s about the stories behind them. Thanks for sharing yours, Thomas, and inspiring us all to tell our own.” FYI: As with my guest Judi Varnai Aronson, in order to get ready for this episode of Things That Matter, he spent time looking for, finding & unpacking his boxcar. He had made his shadow box with a short piece of track for the car to ride freely on many months before… What do you have packed away that wants to be unboxed? Judi made a commitment when I invited her to be my guest to wear her grandmother’s engagement ring everyday, instead of keeping it in a safe deposit box. To learn more about Thomas the tinkering artist, check him out here: https://thomasbeutel.art/blog/ https://www.instagram.com/beutelevision/ & FB Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

In this episode of Things That Matter, Jonah Casale & Martie explore the objects and stories that shape our lives and legacies. Jonah shares personal memories tied to gaming, storytelling, and his journey as a multipotentialite, offering insights into how our belongings become vessels for meaning and connection. Jonah reveals the impact of gaming on his life, showing & sharing stories about his original Kingdom Hearts PlayStation 2 game and Dungeons & Dragons dice. FYI: He brought these objects with him when he moved to Montana for a short term job. He couldn’t bring much, but he tucked these away in his bags. The episode explores the concept of “personal museums”—how the things we keep and carry become symbols and stories we cherish. We spoke about how bringing personal history/memory objects with you is important for creating a sense of home in a new place. Jonah shares Insights into the world of multipotentialites, people with many interests and potential career paths, and how this identity has shaped his experiences. We had a thoughtful discussion about legacy, why it’s more than wealth or real estate, and Jonah’s hopes for passing down meaningful items and favorite games to his future children. Jonah talks about his current work with Native American communities in Montana, shares ways listeners can connect with him, and encourages exploring diverse interests. Connect with Jonah on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonah-casale-095ab113b/ Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

It was a sunny afternoon when Martie McNabb welcomed Dr. Karen Kramer onto her popular show, Things That Matter. The virtual studio was set up, mug in hand, and the air was tinged with curiosity and connection. Martie, ever passionate about the ways our cherished objects reveal the truths of our lives, caught up with Karen after their brief encounter at the 2nd Annual Grief Awareness and Education Conference in Hartford CT. As the conversation began, Martie reflected on the heart of her work: “It’s never really the thing itself that matters, but the stories we weave around them—how they become threads to our past, our loves, and our grief.” She introduced Karen with warmth, inviting her to “show and tell” like it was elementary school all over again. Karen beamed as she revealed her treasured item—one she’d owned since the age of eight: a pair of poi balls picked up during a formative family trip to Hawaii. She recounted her awkward, wonder-filled attempt to master the Maori-inspired dance and how that moment blossomed into a lifelong passion for Polynesian dance—a journey that ultimately shaped her health, identity, and career. With a touch of humor, she tried to demonstrate the poi balls in her small space, dodging her cat, Strawberry who had “pulled up a chair” to be part of the interview. Martie was instantly captivated. “I’ve never had a dancer bring in such an unusual accessory!” she exclaimed. Their shared laughter bridged parallels in their lives—both had found deep joy in dance and movement, and both understood how such passions anchor us during times of change. The discussion naturally shifted to Karen’s work as a grief alchemist and hypnotherapist. “Grief is everywhere,” Karen said. “It’s not just about death—it’s in the changes, the transitions, even in the birthdays and numbers on a scale.” She explained how her work, including her book Healthy Grief and a new Oracle card deck, helps people process both visible and invisible losses. Karen emphasized the danger of toxic positivity, and how important it is to acknowledge pain before hope can take root. Martie nodded in agreement, grateful for the clarity Karen brought to the conversation, and noted how our homes—all the things we hold onto—are personal museums filled with stories often left untold. She encouraged listeners to share the stories of the Things that matter to them now, so their meaning wouldn’t be lost to time. As the episode drew to a close, both women felt the quiet power of what they’d uncovered together: Every ordinary object—and every grief—tells an extraordinary story if only we take the time to listen and share. To learn more about Dr. Karen Kramer & her important healing work visit & connect with her here: https://drkarenkramer.com/ ; https://www.thevillavision.com/ ; https://www.facebook.com/DrKarenKramer ; https://www.instagram.com/drkarenkramer ; https://www.linkedin.com/in/drkarenkramer/ Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Martie McNabb settled into her seat, the sunlight spilling across her cozy workspace in Albuquerque where she first met today’s guest. She glanced over the Zoom screen at Jolynn Baca Jaekel, whose energy and warmth always seemed to fill any room she entered. Today’s conversation was set to be a meaningful one; as the host of “Things That Matter,” Martie loves exploring the personal stories behind the objects people chose to keep close. “Jolynn,” Martie began, smiling, “I’ve been looking forward to this. You always bring so much light to these conversations. I know you’ve had quite a year helping your parents sort through their lifetime of memories. How did you start deciding what stays and what goes?” Jolynn nodded, her eyes shining at the mention of family. “It was a big exercise in soul searching, honestly. My parents and I realized quickly some things mattered a little, some a lot—and some we just had to let go of. It pushed me to think about why we hold onto certain objects and what letting go really means.” Martie leaned in, curious. “Was there anything in particular that stood out to you in this personal process?” With a gentle laugh, Jolynn pointed to a small, shimmering golden tree positioned beside her. “Absolutely. This is my grandmother’s jewelry tree—a piece I had made with help from a friend who designs jewelry. My grandmother’s costume jewelry, most of it not worth much except to us, and my own pieces from over the years are all part of this tree. At its heart is a brooch set with the birthstones of all her grandkids.” Martie’s eyes widened in appreciation. “That’s beautiful, Jolynn. So it’s more than just an object—it’s a celebration of your grandmother, your family, and yourself. Do you think that’s what makes certain things matter? The stories attached to them?” Jolynn nodded. “Exactly. It reminds me every day of the strength of the women I come from—my grandmother, my mother, me, and now my daughter. That tree is more than just jewelry—it’s a daily reminder that I can do hard things and I’m not alone.” Martie smiled, the gears of her own memory turning. “You know, I think that’s the reason people sometimes struggle with passing things down. It’s not just about what the object is, it’s about what it means. Do you have thoughts on what should happen to the tree after you’re gone?” Jolynn considered the question thoughtfully. “I do. At first, I thought maybe my daughter wouldn’t want it because she never met my grandmother. But the tree represents our whole lineage—and I want her to have the choice. If it speaks to her, she’s welcome to keep it. And if not? At least she’ll know the story behind it, and that might be enough.” Martie’s matter-of-fact tone matched Jolynn’s. “And that’s what we’re all about here, isn’t it? Making sure the stories stay alive, even if the things themselves eventually move on.” Jolynn nodded, a smile playing on her lips. “Absolutely. And that’s something I carry into my work now—my journal, ‘It’s Your Day,’ is all about helping people celebrate the small wins and document their stories. And I’m launching a podcast soon to highlight women who do things their own way—solving problems, creating businesses, making bold moves without asking for permission.” Martie gave Jolynn a warm look. “You’ve found a way to keep those stories alive and empower others to do the same. Thanks for sharing a piece of your family’s story, and for reminding us that it’s the meaning—and the memories—that make things matter.” With that, Martie and Jolynn closed out their conversation, both filled with gratitude for the tangible connections to their past—and the stories that keep legacies alive. To connect with this beautiful human follow her at jbacaj on Instagram and Jolynn Baca Jaekel on Facebook. Keep an eye out for her upcoming podcast: Doing It Her Way. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

For over three years, I’ve been hosting the Things That Matter podcast and YouTube channel—listening to countless people share stories about the objects that hold meaning in their lives. But until now, I realized I’d never really opened up about the things I keep, the things that matter to me personally. That’s why I started “Martifacts”—a special new segment where I finally share my own treasures and their stories with all of you. One of my favorite rituals over the last decade has been inviting people to in-person and virtual events reminiscent of elementary school show and tell. I’ve never tired of the conversations—over 400 events!—and each story reminds me how our homes become personal museums, full of objects we’ve chosen or inherited. But now it’s time to switch roles and tell you about my own collection. One chapter of my story happened about eight years ago when I made the difficult decision to sell my Brooklyn apartment after 18 years. New York had given me so much, and I loved every bit of city life, but things were getting harder financially and logistically, and I felt the pull to go on a new adventure. That’s when I decided to try van life as a way to explore new places and find my next home—and yes, I named my van “Brooklyn” as a tribute. Before setting out on the road, everyone told me I needed a travel companion. While a dog was the popular suggestion, I knew from my own experience (and my mom’s anxious nature) that worrying about a pet might ruin the journey. Then, in a delightful coincidence, I received a package from my favorite quirky small business, Blue Q. Inside was a funny cardboard cutout cat, inspired by the family saying, “the only good cat is a flat cat.” I decided to name her Flatsy the flat cat, and she quickly became my perfect travel companion—worry-free and a constant source of joy as she journeyed thousands of miles with me across the country. Now I’m excited for the next phase: starting in spring 2026, I’ll be doing regular LIVES to share not just my stories but yours as well. Maybe you’ll join me LIVE for an episode of “Martifacts and Other Things That Matter” and tell me about the objects that have shaped your life. Thanks for coming along with me on this unusual—and very personal—episode. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch Here:  Or Listen Here:

In this episode of Things That Matter, host Martie McNabb sits down with nurse, grief facilitator, and author Wy Woods Harris for a deeply meaningful conversation about love, loss, and legacy. The two first connected during the early days of the pandemic through Let’s Reimagine, a space dedicated to open conversations around grief, death, and healing—making this reunion especially powerful. Wy shares the story of one of the most meaningful objects in her life: her late husband’s urn, adorned with butterflies chosen together as a symbol of transformation and hope. Their conversation explores the importance of having honest, proactive discussions about end-of-life wishes, cremation options, and what happens to our most sacred belongings—especially in blended families. Wy offers practical wisdom drawn from both her professional experience and personal loss, emphasizing the relief and clarity that written instructions can provide loved ones during times of grief. The episode also touches on storytelling as a form of legacy, including Wy’s published books and collaborative writing projects that preserve the voices and memories of those she loves. Together, Martie and Wy reflect on how stories—whether shared through objects, words, or rituals—allow us to keep people close even after they are gone. This conversation is a heartfelt reminder to treasure the people we love, put our wishes in writing, and continue telling the stories behind the things that matter most. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-thing… Watch here:  Or Listen here:

As the afternoon sunlight streamed softly into my mom’s basement—a place filled with stories tucked into objects on every shelf—I sat ready for another episode of “Things That Matter.” Surrounding myself with the things we collect, inherit, and adore, I welcomed my guest, Jeanette Leardi, whose inspiring work in aging and intergenerational connections had first caught my eye on LinkedIn. I kicked off the conversation with my favorite question: “Jeanette, what’s a thing that truly matters to you?” She smiled, reached behind her Zoom screen, and held up a small Chinese vase. Its elegant form was interrupted by delicate cracks, the traces of a story she was eager to tell. “I’m 73, and I want people to declare their age, not hide it,” Jeanette Leardi began. “Forty years ago, my best friend sent me this vase. It arrived in pieces, but I decided on New Year’s Eve to put it back together. The cracks aren’t flaws—they’re reminders of the process of repair.” As she spoke, I saw the vase differently: it wasn’t only a keepsake but a symbol of a challenging, healing process. Jeanette Leardi shared how that evening shaped her perspective on life, inspiring a blog post (link below) years later about four daily actions: creating, maintaining, repairing, and letting go. We talked about how not just objects, but our experiences, can always be mended and treasured. The conversation drifted to ideas from Japanese art—how imperfection elevates meaning, how bones heal stronger—and landed on the profound truth that our society overlooks the beauty and potential in aging. “With this vase, the legacy isn’t the item itself,” Jeanette Leardi explained. “It’s the lesson. If anyone hearing this applies the process of repair to their own life, that’s the real gift I’d love to leave behind.” I was struck by the matter-of-factness in her voice and the clarity of her mission. Through keynotes, workshops, and her book, Aging Sideways (link below), she urges us all to rethink aging—not just as something to survive, but as a right, a privilege, and a chapter full of a different kind of “productivity” perhaps and some wisdom too. As we wrapped up, I encouraged listeners to pause and look around. What do you keep close, and why? What stories do your objects tell about creativity, maintenance, repair, or letting go? “Thanks for sharing your story, Jeanette,” I said. “You remind us that the process matters—sometimes even more than the thing itself.” And as the episode ended, I felt grateful for this reminder that the real museum we build aren’t just collections of things, but of the stories and repairs that shape our lives. Here is the Ageful Living blog post (mentioned above) about creating, maintaining, repairing, and letting go: https://www.jeanetteleardi.com/post/how-should-we-change-aging-in-2015 To learn more about my incredible guest, social gerontologist & her important book visit: https://www.jeanetteleardi.com/aging-sideways-book Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-thing… Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Martie McNabb settled into her favorite chair, the one that cradled her through countless conversations, and smiled as the camera started rolling. Across the video feed, Ted Cragg seemed right at home, surrounded by art and little mementos—a fitting backdrop for an episode of “Things That Matter.” “Welcome, Ted!” Martie greeted him. “I always love to begin with how I met my guests. Your journey to this chair started through our mutual ties to Location Indie, Camp Indie & the Everything Conference in Minneapolis, MN … AND me stopping by on my way back to Vermont from Summer School at The Old School in Montreal!” Ted laughed, his eyes lighting up with the memory. “Absolutely. It was a real treat to connect, and now here I am, ready to share something a bit unexpected.” Martie leaned in, always intrigued by what people brought for show-and-tell. “So Ted, what have you brought for us today?” Ted showed his 1st library … well really video membership card and began to fan out a handful of library cards. “This is my accidental collection. Library cards from all over the world—Canada, England, Australia. When I look at these, I see my life mapped out in places I tried to call home, if only for a while.” Martie grinned. “I love that—a timeline told in paper & plastic. Did you always visit libraries as a kid?” “Oh yeah, all the time. And as I traveled, especially before widespread Wi-Fi, libraries became my connection to the world. You didn’t get a library card for a weekend visit; it meant you were trying to put down roots, at least for a stretch.” As Ted described each card, Martie listened closely. There was one from Peterborough, Ontario, where he grew up, and even one from a video rental store called Ted’s Place (another way to travel & his namesake). Each card—a physical ticket to another chapter in Ted’s adventurous life. “I notice you collect selectively. What do these cards mean when you think about your legacy?” Martie asked gently. Ted nodded, thoughtful. “I don’t want my kids to feel burdened by my stuff. But maybe these cards, with their stories, can trace my journey. If the stories matter to them, they can keep the cards, or just the memory.” Martie reflected on her own philosophy—things she keeps must have a purpose, or a story and ideally both. “If you share the stories, maybe the things themselves aren’t as important. Sometimes a photograph or a recording—like today—can be enough.” As the conversation circled toward its close, Martie invited Ted to share his own work. “Let my listeners and watchers know—what are you up to when you’re not collecting library cards?” Ted smiled. “I produce podcasts—Quick Edit Podcasts, to be exact. I thrive on variety and helping others get their stories out there, much like what we’re doing now.” Martie wrapped up with her signature encouragement. “Everyone, think about the things you surround yourself with—the stories they tell, and share them. Stories connect us, build community, and who knows—maybe change the world in small ways.” As the episode came to a close, the library cards, scattered on Ted’s desk, seemed to glow a little brighter, their stories remembered & shared. To learn more about Ted’s work visit: https://quickeditpodcasts.com/ & connect with this lovely human here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tedcragg/ Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

In these dark times, where some people are trying to erase history, telling our stories is an act of resistance. “Hello everyone, and welcome to another episode of Things That Matter,” she began with her trademark warmth. “Today, I have the privilege of speaking with Judi Varnai Aronson—artist, entrepreneur, and keeper of a truly remarkable family jewels story.” Judi smiled, her hands resting gently on her lap. “Thank you, Martie. I’m honored to be here and grateful to share this part of my family’s history.” Martie nodded. “We’ve known each other for over 20 years. Our connection runs deep with Brooklyn, but also with the stories of the treasures we carry. You mentioned something recently of Facebook—a ring, and the incredible journey it took that brought it to you. Would you share that with us?” Taking a deep breath, Judi opened her palm to reveal a delicate diamond ring. “This is my grandmother’s engagement ring. She lived in Hungary during the Holocaust, and though I never met her, her legacy is part of who I am.” Her voice was steady, but emotion flickered in her eyes. “She was offered the chance to escape by the brave Wallenberg, but out of fear and uncertainty, she refused. Instead, she boarded a train to Bergen-Belsen, and with unimaginable courage, she managed to hide this ring from the guards—despite their efforts to strip every last bit of gold from their victims.” Martie leaned in, visibly moved. “How did the ring make it out—how did it come to be yours today?” Judi nodded solemnly. “When my grandmother knew she might not survive, she entrusted the ring to a stranger and begged him to give it to her only son, my father, whom she didn’t even know was still alive. Against all odds, the man survived, found my father through refugee agencies after the war, and delivered the ring. My father kept it safe all his life, through liberation, loss, and a new beginning after we fled Hungary during the revolution. About ten years before he died at age 98, he passed it on to me.” Martie’s voice softened. “That’s incredible, Judi. With everything your father endured, to hold on to this one thing—a symbol of love, family, and survival. What do you hope will happen to the ring when you are dead & gone?” Judi smiled. “I want it to stay in our family. I’ve considered passing it to my daughter, or eventually to my three-year-old grandson. But even more important than the ring itself is the story it carries. In a world where there are still people who deny the Holocaust, passing on this story is my way of making sure the truth lives on.” The room was quiet for a moment, the weight of the story settling in. Then Martie gestured to Judi’s surroundings. “You’re also a talented potter and artist. How does your creative work tie into your family’s story and your own healing?” Judi turned her camera to showcase beautiful pieces of pottery—totem poles of raku ware, vases, and more. “For me, working with clay is healing. It’s a way to honor the past, find joy, and keep creating.” Martie closed the conversation with her signature reflection. “Thank you, Judi, for sharing this deeply personal story and for reminding us that it’s not just the objects, but the stories behind them that truly matter. To everyone watching or listening, remember to share your stories and cherish those Things that hold meaning in your own life.” With a final smile & a thank you, the episode ended, having woven together memory, survival, and the art of keeping history alive. It’s important for all of us to remember that our stories are always part of our collective history. There is no history without personal history. Keep on sharing your stories of the Things you keep, the Things that matter & the Things you will leave behind. Your stories matter! To learn more about & connect with this amazing artist: Find her on Instagram & Facebook by typing in Judi Varnai Aronson. Check out her gorgeous pottery & jewelry. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Martie McNabb glanced at her screen, a familiar spark of anticipation in her eyes. She loves hosting Things That Matter, a series devoted to the stories held by the objects in our homes aka our personal museums. Today’s guest is someone she’s admired for years: filmmaker Melissa Davey, a woman whose story embodies the very spirit of the show: connection, community & legacy. After a brief greeting, Martie smiled and put her trademark question to Melissa: “So, Melissa, what’s one thing that truly matters to you?” Melissa beamed. “I brought something a little unusual,” she said. She shifted her laptop to reveal a large, richly patterned rug sprawled across her living room floor. “I can’t exactly hold it up, but I hope you can see it. This rug is over a hundred years old and it’s been in my family for generations.” Martie leaned in, intrigued. “It looks beautiful! But what makes it special to you?” As Melissa spoke, the rug transformed in Martie’s mind from a simple floor covering to a living archive. Melissa shared how her grandmother had purchased the Iranian rug a century ago, how her mother inherited it, and how it graced every house Melissa lived in since childhood. Melissa’s voice softened with emotion, recalling crawling on its surface as a toddler, the laughter of cousins during family get-togethers, the quiet moments of reflection as the years slipped by. “It’s more than just a rug,” Melissa explained. “It’s a canvas of my family history—every generation has literally stood, walked, and played on it. Even now, my grandchildren and my cat find special spots on it.” As Melissa described the weight of memories bound up in the rug, Martie nodded. She too believed objects held energy—that stories could be woven into fibers, wood, or stone. “Some people say things don’t matter,” Martie reflected, “but clearly, this connects you to everyone who came before.” Melissa agreed. “Exactly. And when my mother passed away at 98, I knew this was the keepsake I wanted—a living legacy. I hope my own children, and their children, keep the tradition alive.” The conversation shifted, and Martie invited Melissa to share more about her recent work. With characteristic humility, Melissa explained how she’d started filmmaking at age 65—a nod to her lifelong love of movies and a realization that, if not now, when? “I made ‘Beyond 60’ about women over sixty doing extraordinary things, and then ‘Climbing Into Life’ about the oldest woman to climb El Capitan,” Melissa explained. “I learned so much—mostly, to never underestimate the stories people have to share, no matter their age.” As the interview wound down, Martie asked Melissa how viewers could keep up with her projects. “Just visit my website, melissadavey.com,” Melissa smiled. When the cameras were off, Martie sat for a moment, reflecting on the stories she’d just heard. She glanced at her own collection of keepsakes—wondering anew what stories they held, and what stories others still longed to tell. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

“Welcome to this episode of Things That Matter BL,” Martie began. “Today’s conversation is truly special. You reached out after attending a workshop I facilitated for Alexa Bigwarfe’s Women In Publishing community — well, technically, after watching the replay — and I was struck by your open embrace of the show and tell method I taught to help authors truly connect with their audience.” BL’s laughter was soft. “I felt the same, Martie. Your advice about storytelling, especially through the objects and memories that define us, really resonated. It’s what I do through my writing—but I’d never thought to show it with something as simple as a photograph.” She held up a picture: herself at a recent conference, arms crossed, the words “I kept dreaming” written boldly on her skin. The image wasn’t just a portrait, BL explained—it was a memory, an artifact from an exercise meant to symbolize lessons learned and dreams held dear. Martie listened, captivated, as BL recounted her young beginnings as a writer—a 13-year-old girl crafting fantasy worlds to escape life’s troubles. The first novel she ever completed, she’d handed to her father, seeking encouragement. His response, honest but perhaps not filtered for a young heart, was that it was good, but not great. The words stung, but they also lit a fire. Blair kept writing, kept dreaming, letting her imaginary worlds provide both escape and empowerment through adversity. The conversation turned to BL’s latest accomplishment: “Heroes of Another Age,” the prequel to her now-sprawling fantasy series. Martie’s eyes sparkled as Blair described magic, brotherhood, and coming-of-age adventures. Now that the show and tell section was complete, Martie turned our attention to legacy: “So, what do you want to happen to that photograph when you’re dead & gone?” BL smiled. She spoke of her two daughters, now 12 and 9, her biggest cheerleaders. “I want them to keep that photo as my final message—never stop dreaming, never stop growing into who you’re meant to be.” Their discussion circled back to connection—how life’s smallest moments and artifacts can spark the most powerful stories. Martie offered her support, inviting Blair to collaborate on future events to help other writers share their own stories through objects and memories. As the interview wound down, BL shared how listeners could stay in touch and find her award-winning book, inviting everyone to step into a world where magic and family intertwine. Martie closed the show with her signature warmth, reminding viewers that it’s not the things that matter most, but the stories attached to them—and that sharing those stories is the real legacy we leave behind. To find out more about my guest, author BL Mostlyn visit: https://blmostyn.com/ To learn more about Alexa Bigwarfe & Women In Publishing: https://alexabigwarfe.com/ https://womeninpublishingsummit.com/ Check out the workshop I offered, via WIP, to authors looking for unique ways to build & connect more deeply with their audience: https://womeninpublishingsummit.com/event/things-that-matter-connections-community-legacy-with-martie-mcnabb/ Are you an author looking to build your audience of readers? Hire me to host unique story-sharing gatherings as an alternative to typical book launches. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Martie McNabb straightened the stack of index cards on her lap, eyes sparkling with anticipation. “Welcome back to Things That Matter,” she greeted the invisible audience, her voice warm with genuine curiosity. “Today, we’re joined by Denny Daniel, the founder of the Museum of Interesting Things, a place where stories quite literally fill every corner.” Denny sat across from her, the afternoon sunlight glancing off one of the peculiar objects he’d brought—a tiny, exquisitely crafted shoe, a souvenir from his late father’s days as a renowned designer. Martie leaned in, sensing the significance. “Denny, let’s start at the very beginning,” she said. “Was there a single spark that set off your love for collecting?” Denny grinned, nostalgic. “Honestly, it began with show and tell in first grade. I would turn my house upside down every week, searching for something—anything—that could kickstart a story. Beetle records, Spider-Man comics, even batteries. I couldn’t get enough of sharing how these things fit into my growing world.” Martie nodded, connecting the dots. “So, in some ways, those early shows and tells shaped everything that came after—right up to your museum’s founding.” “Absolutely,” Denny replied. “Collecting always felt creative to me, a mix of storytelling, art, and honoring history. My dad was a shoe designer, so craftsmanship and narrative were family values. When my creative paths crossed with a desire for something deeper than filmmaking or DJing, the Museum of Interesting Things was almost inevitable.” Martie smiled. She, too, believed in the power of objects to tell stories. “And now your museum has these three lives—you bring history into schools and communities, offer private tours in your New York apartment, and host lively speakeasies even folks across the country can join. Denny, what is it you hope people carry away from these experiences?” “That the things around us aren’t just things—they’re vessels for connection,” Denny said. “When kids, neighbors, or visitors hold these objects, they feel the pulse of invention, creativity, and shared memory. And hopefully, they leave inspired, ready to see the stories in their own treasures.” Martie glanced around at the souvenirs framing Denny’s space, the sense of history tangible in the air. “And what about long-term? What happens to your collection when you’re gone?” Denny’s answer was matter of fact: “I want to donate the entire building and collection to New York. That way, these stories—mine, my family’s, the inventors’ and all the visitors’—become part of the city. They’re not just relics for sale online; they’re a living legacy.” Martie closed the interview with a smile, feeling the resonance of the objects and stories shared. “Thank you, Denny, for keeping history alive—not behind glass, but in our hands, hearts, and conversations.” As the cameras faded, the stories lingered, woven into the fabric of things that truly matter. To learn more about these beautiful interesting (never boring) human check out his website: www.museumthings.org or follow him on facebook.com/museumthings or instagram.com/museumthings And if you live in NYC or will be visiting, reach out to Denny to schedule your private tour of the Museum of Interesting Things at dennydanielx@ gmail.com Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Jen Allen sat down with Martie McNabb on this episode of Things That Matter to share a deeply personal story about loss and resilience. After unexpectedly losing her son Daniel to suicide, Jen found comfort in the objects he left behind—especially his skateboard(s), a tangible reminder of his passion and spirit. When Hurricane Helene hit Florida just over a year after his death, it destroyed almost all of Jen’s belongings, but miraculously, Daniel’s skateboard and a few treasured items survived. Throughout their conversation, Jen opened up about the unique pain of losing a child suddenly, without warning signs, and the importance of sharing these experiences openly to foster understanding and support. She explained how holding onto Daniel’s skateboard helped her feel connected to him amidst overwhelming grief, and emphasized that it’s the stories behind our possessions that truly matter. Determined to challenge the culture of grief avoidance she encounters, Jen has devoted her life to helping others feel less alone in their grief journey. She launched a YouTube channel, The Ashes We Keep, where she shares her journey, discusses the nonlinear nature of grief, and features conversations with others who have experienced profound loss. Through her voice and her work, Jen is building a new legacy for Daniel—one founded on compassion, honesty, and the power of storytelling. The Ashes We Keep: https://www.youtube.com/@ JenAllenAshes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ninjanursejen/ Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/   Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Tabitha sat across from Martie McNabb, the host of “Things That Matter,” prepared to open up about the small but meaningful keepsake in her hand. On the surface, the keychain looked ordinary—just a collection of trinkets bound together with a zip tie. But to Tabitha, every piece carried the weight of her journey: the travel bug that bit her when she chose French in middle school, leading to study abroad adventures in Paris and eventually to a career as a flight attendant where she discovered the world’s complexity, and met people from all walks of life. Her story took a new turn when Tabitha decided to become a mom—a decision marked by perseverance and hope as she navigated the path to parenthood as a member of the LGBTQ+ community. Within eighteen months, she welcomed three children into her life; all three were later diagnosed with autism. Living in rural Indiana, Tabitha quickly realized that resources for her children were scarce, so she created them herself, founding a nonprofit and a podcast to advocate not just for her kids, but for countless families like hers. At the heart of her journey was the memory of her grandfather, a farmer and the first feminist she ever knew. He encouraged her to do what was right, no matter what, and held onto her travel mementos with pride, hanging them from his rearview mirror as symbols of her adventures. After he passed, the keychain returned to Tabitha as a family heirloom—a simple but powerful reminder that advocacy, love, and courage can ripple outward, transforming not only her own family’s story but also the wider world. To learn more about this multi-passionate woman, check out her autism advocacy podcast by searching for Staring Down the Storm Autism Advocacy in America on Apple podcast, Spotify & YouTube. You can connect with her through most social media platforms by searching for her unusual name. Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Martie McNabb welcomed listeners to another episode of Things That Matter, a series dedicated to extracting the personal histories embedded in the special objects that fill our lives. This time, her guest was Alyson Wagner, a multi-passionate creative she’d met at the Everything Conference in Minneapolis (Aug 2024) —a gathering that celebrates people who refuse to be boxed into just “one thing.” Martie had been invited there to lead her signature show-and-tell experience, helping attendees spark deep conversation & connections through story-sharing about meaningful items they’d brought with them. During the episode, Martie invited Alyson to share her own “thing that matters.” Alyson, who’d been actively working to rekindle her creative spark by inviting more art and inspiration into her life, surprised even herself by choosing not a family heirloom, but a recently discovered thrifted treasure. She told the story of how, after a coaching session encouraging her to find a talisman for self-expression, she wandered into the Austin Creative Reuse center (www.austincreativereuse.org). There, her eye fell on a vintage owl locket—complete with turquoise beads, her birthstone color. She loved not just the symbolism of owls as wise creatures, but also the locket’s mysterious, unknowable past. Inside the locket, Alyson began tucking tiny affirmations she’d clipped from her favorite yogi tea bags. One had come to mean a lot: “Be fearless. Know that all will be provided at the right time.” Alyson explained that although the locket didn’t have a long history with her yet, it had quickly become a touchstone—something to ground her, help her slow down, and remind her to stay true to herself. Martie encouraged Alyson to consider what she might want to happen to the locket one day. Alyson reflected that while she didn’t have children to pass it on to, maybe her best friend—who’d initially come to mind when she’d found the locket—might one day inherit it. Or perhaps, it would eventually return to a creative reuse shop to await its next chapter with someone new. Either way, the importance was in the story and meaning Alyson now imbued in it, regardless of its origins. Toward the end of the episode, Alyson talked about her “Snail Steps” Substack blog, where she writes about finding meaning, slowing down, and recovering from burnout—a theme perfectly aligned with the gentle journey this little locket represented. Martie wrapped up the session, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own objects and the stories they carry. The episode proved once again that it’s not the monetary value of our possessions, but the stories, growth, and connections they represent, that truly makes them things that matter. Here’s a bit more info about my lovely guest Alyson in her own words: I’m a day-jobber who’s always exploring something on the side. My current ongoing side project is Snail Steps, a Substack newsletter about creating a meaningful life one step at a time. I started writing this in 2022 as a way to process the mid-life crisis I was experiencing including exhaustion, burnout, and uncertainty about where to go next in my life. I decided I needed to go back to the basics of essential self-care and focus on what it means to be fully human. My hope is that through the writing of this newsletter, not only am I learning how to cultivate deeper connections with myself and the world around me, but also I am encouraging those who read my newsletter to do the same in their own lives. You can read the full archive and subscribe at alysonwagner.substack.com. You can also find me on LinkedIn and Instagram (@alysonimagines). Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Zhu Shen grew up in China, where food has always been at the heart of family and tradition. Years later, living in the U.S., she found herself caring for her beloved husband, a Stanford-trained biotech founder and the family’s home chef, as he battled a tragic and ironic fight with cancer. One day, as Zhu prepared roasted red bell peppers—a dish he adored—she noticed a dark spot spreading on one of the peppers. The slow decay mirrored the painful changes she saw in her husband. As she cut away the rotten parts, she was overcome with emotion, realizing how closely food and grief had become linked in her life. During this difficult time, their twelve-year-old son Perry decided to process his sorrow by creating an animated film about his father. Inspired by Perry’s gesture of love and determined to honor her husband’s legacy, Zhu stepped out of her biotech career and fully supported her son’s creative journey, becoming the film’s producer. As she documented Perry’s growth as both an artist and a young man, Zhu found herself changing too—moving from the strict “tiger mom” she once was to a more collaborative and supportive “Zen mom.” Through this journey, Zhu learned that even in the shadow of devastating loss, there is still hope and inspiration to be found. Embracing family connections, creativity, and gratitude, she discovered new meaning in both grief and joy, proving that it’s never too late to begin a new chapter or make a cherished family dream come true. To learn more & connect with this amazing woman (& her son): Journey of a Thousand Miles: https://www.journeyof1000milesfilm.com/ Link with her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zhushen/ This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: My Favorite Thing (Kitchen Edition) for the Historic Green-Wood Cemetery. I’m a regular host of events for G-W for the purpose of building deeper connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

As the clock ticked into a quiet afternoon, I, Martie McNabb, welcomed my guest, Risa Zenno, to “Things That Matter.” From the moment we connected—prompted by a chance encounter at the Everything Conference in Minneapolis—I sensed our conversation would reveal something special. When I invited Risa, pronounced Lisa, to share her story, she smiled and held up a handful of colorful pens. “It’s hard to pick just one thing,” she laughed, echoing the multi-potentialite ethos of the conference where we first met. But behind her lighthearted tone was something deeper, and she began to explain. “These pens remind me of my grandmother,” Risa said softly. She grew up between countries—born in Japan, moving through Brazil, Seattle, New York, and Mexico City—and whenever she felt far from home, her grandmother bridged the distance through handwritten letters. “Before email,” she recalled, “writing letters was how we stayed connected. We shared stories, and pens became our bond.” Risa described her grandmother’s role as an English teacher in Japan, a fixture at her local stationery store, always offering discounts and bringing Risa the newest pens and erasers. “Japanese stationery is the best,” she insisted, with fond memories of mechanical pencils and mono erasers. “It wasn’t just about having nice pens. Every letter we wrote, every page I edited for her with our shared initials, was a thread between us.” As Risa spoke, I could feel the weight of memory in her words. She explained how sharing stories, as part of my Things That Matter playshop, at the conference unexpectedly triggered grief for her grandmother’s loss, but also gave her a chance to process it in a healing way. “Listening to others’ stories brought her back,” said Risa, “and now, telling mine helps me keep her close.” I asked Risa what she hoped would become of these treasured pens and memories after she was gone. She smiled, eyes shining, and spoke of legacy. Someday, she hopes to write her own story—maybe under their shared initials, RZ—so that the impact of her grandmother’s love, and the pens that linked their lives, will live on through words. Before we closed, we joked about the unique joys of Japanese stationery and how the right pen or eraser can change everything, even the way you remember someone you love. “I used every excuse for new pens as a kid,” Risa chuckled. “Funny how what we love when we’re young finds its way into our stories.” As we wrapped up, I invited listeners to connect with Risa—whose tangents, stories, and warmth leave an impression long after the last word is spoken. And I realized, once again, that the things that matter are rarely about the objects themselves, but about the bonds and memories they hold. To learn more about Risa connect with her on LinkedIn: / risazenno or reach out to her via email tcklisa @ gmail.com Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Jamie Brickhouse didn’t realize he was walking into a 9/11-themed storytelling event—he’d been preoccupied, already scheduled to perform elsewhere that day with a completely different story. But as the realization dawned, Jamie remembered he did, in fact, have a story connected to that date, rooted in both personal memory and collective tragedy. He began by sharing an object from his childhood: a unique “one way puzzle.” The puzzle, often thought of as resembling a skyscraper, had always been his favorite toy at his great aunts’ house—a house eventually destroyed by a hurricane. Years later, as Jamie sifted through the ruined remains with his father, he recovered the puzzle, holding back tears as memories of childhood flooded back. The act of finding this prized possession amid devastation echoed the heartbreaking scenes of people searching the wreckage of the World Trade Center. Shifting to 9/11 itself, Jamie recalled living in New York for over 30 years with his partner (now husband), Michael, an architect. That morning, Michael returned to work after a bad back kept him home—his first day back, and coincidentally the day he avoided a regular client meeting at the World Trade Center by sending a colleague instead. The colleague survived, witnessing the disaster firsthand and returning covered in ash. As the tragedy unfolded, Jamie was at his Midtown office, glued to the TV with colleagues. His mother called from Texas—hers was the only call he received all day, a small comfort amid chaos and isolation. He walked home through a sea of stunned New Yorkers, united in shock and seeking updates wherever they could. In the weeks that followed, as many left the city, Jamie and Michael stayed. They even considered moving downtown, tempted by apartments with outdoor space and affordable rents. One, with a spectacular terrace, overlooked the empty skyline where the towers had stood—a bittersweet view they ultimately couldn’t bear to call home. While Jamie didn’t lose anyone close, he witnessed the city’s resilience firsthand. He and Martie reflected on the powerful sense of community, the survivor’s guilt some friends still felt, and the ways objects like his childhood puzzle can hold complicated, healing memories. Through storytelling and shared remembrance, Jamie found connection and meaning—proof that even in trauma’s shadow, there are stories of hope and belonging. To learn more about this beautiful human, author & comedic storyteller visit: https://www.jamiebrickhouse.com/index.htm This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: Passed & Present (9/11 Edition) to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/   Watch here:  Or Listen here: Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/

Join us in this captivating episode where I, Martie McNabb, had the pleasure of welcoming the incredibly talented artist, Karin Edgett, to explore the intersection of art, energy, and the symbols that truly matter. Karin takes us on a journey through her fascinating transition from the world of advertising to embracing her true passion—art. Watch here:  Or Listen here: Karin opens up about her lifelong interest in communication graphics and how it eventually led her to explore the deeper realm of symbols and energy within her artwork. She shares how her art has become a medium to unleash the potential energy of symbols, like the infinity shapes and ankhs, which are recurrent themes in her creations. Each piece is not just an artwork but a story of life, movement, and transformation. We dive into Karin’s creative process, beginning with her unique necklace. This piece was crafted by a friend and serves as a personal totem representing an ankh that’s alive and in motion, symbolizing a blend of life and infinite possibilities. Karin’s painting of infinities, which she proudly displays, encapsulates the idea of creation, recreation, and limitless potential—an artistic expression of quantum physics’ principles. As we explore further, Karin discusses the delicate balance between structure and freedom. Her art encourages this dance, a balance that perhaps reflects our own life’s journey between maintaining structure and embracing creativity. She posits that true creation is born from the heart, driving the shifts and transformations we experience. This, she believes, is her living legacy—one already in motion, impacting those who engage with her work. Karin’s relationship with nature is another profound aspect of her artistry. She shares the story of a baroque black pearl from Moorea, incorporating the essence of wisdom and memory from her aquatic encounters. This connection to nature is also evident in her fascination with flowers. For Karin, flowers symbolize a pure form of energy—free from historical weight, offering fresh, vibrant messages from Earth. During our conversation, Karin reflects on the essence of legacy. She envisions her art not just as personal expression but as a conduit for transformation and expansion. Her work, she hopes, will continue to inspire and facilitate change, possibly even rendering itself unnecessary as society shifts towards an energized, freer existence. In conclusion, my talk with Karin Edgett serves as a reminder of the profound stories and energy encapsulated in the things we cherish. I encourage listeners to reflect on their surroundings and the stories they tell, much like the rich narratives Karin Edgett weaves through her art. Thank you for joining us on this introspective journey into the world of art, energy, and legacy on Things That Matter. To learn more about & to connect with Karin visit: New Botanical Vision Cards: https://www.karinedgett.art/new-earth-flowers-shop/botanical-vision-oracle-cards Karin Edgett Visionary Artist: https://KarinEdgett.com Instagram: / edgempress Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/

Once upon a time in the picturesque lakeside town of Grand Haven, Michigan, Jodi Bandy spent her childhood surrounded by the serene beauty of the water. As I sat down with Jodi on my podcast, I was captivated by her tales of those early years. She painted a picture of days filled with her father’s exhilarating adventures on the water, recounting how he was always at the helm of a boat, skimming across the waves. One of the standout stories she shared was about her father’s daring feat of towing an 18-year-old in a kite across the expanse of Lake Michigan to Milwaukee—a world record attempt that certainly left a mark. Though Jodi was too young to fully grasp the magnitude of these adventures at the time, the spirit of adventure undoubtedly took root in her, shaping her outlook on life. During our conversation, Jodi spoke passionately about her quest to gather pieces of her family’s history, especially after her father’s passing. She shared how she unearthed old photographs and reached out to those who had been part of her father’s thrilling escapades, piecing together a narrative that not only highlighted his daring deeds but also revealed his role as a silent partner in the local thrill show. Jodi’s insights were profound as she emphasized the importance of capturing family stories before they fade away. She shared her personal challenges in gathering stories from her mother’s side of the family, where fewer photographs existed. This only fueled her desire to preserve the memories she could, recognizing that each photograph and object held the potential to unlock a wealth of stories. As we wrapped up our conversation, Jodi’s passion for preserving family legacies was palpable. She encouraged listeners to view personal artifacts as keys to igniting storytelling and preserving cherished narratives, even after our loved ones are gone. Through her journey, Jodi reminded us all that every picture tells a story worth sharing. You can find more info about Jodi’s legacy work here: https://www.hoosierphotoorganizer.com/ And to find out more about The Photo Managers &/or to hire a photo manager near you go to: https://thephotomanagers.com/ Found on YouTube Whitey White Water Thrill Show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wc427XhWlzA This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tales hosted for The Photo Managers to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time.   Watch here:  Or Listen here: Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/

In this episode of Things That Matter, I had the pleasure of sharing my story of solo travel and exploration. I’m Annie Sisson, a traveler and explorer, and I embarked on a journey that truly changed my life. Back in 2015, I decided to leave my teaching job and travel to Europe alone, something I had dreamed of since flipping through National Geographic as a kid. With just a few nights of hostel bookings at either end of the trip, a rental car, and a backpack full of camping gear, I let inspiration and serendipity guide my path. Along the way, I picked up a little mountain man figurine named Krakonas in the Czech Republic. He became a symbol of my journey, reminding me of the mountains I climbed—both literal and figurative—and the strength I discovered within myself. That trip taught me so much about our shared humanity and how, despite our different cultures and backgrounds, we all seek the same fundamental things in life. Finally, I share my future plans, including writing a memoir about this specific trip and helping others create their own travel experiences devoid of big bus tours and cruise ships. My multi-faceted career, which I juggle with coaching and freelance writing, allows me to remain connected to my passion for exploration and living authentically. To find out more about this beautiful human, check out her website: https://intothebold.com/ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

In this poignant video, Philip Griffith takes us on a journey that spans across continents and decades, revealing a personal story that intertwines fate, love, and cherished memorabilia. Philip begins by showcasing a unique water buffalo bookend he acquired during his trip to South Africa. He shares how this sculpture, though seemingly simple, holds profound meaning in his life. The journey to acquiring it started with his participation in two conferences in South Africa, a trip that also included a thrilling safari where he encountered water buffalo in the wild. However, Philip’s story isn’t just about his adventures abroad. He candidly reveals the true purpose of his trip: his quest to find a wife. With a hopeful heart, he had even considered rekindling a connection with an acquaintance he knew from years past, only to discover upon arrival that she was already engaged. This twist of fate led Philip to an unexpected realization. After returning home, he met Susan, his future wife, right in his own neighborhood. Their meeting was serendipitous, facilitated by mutual friends who thought they should connect as she had just moved to the Boston area, only a block and a half away from Philip’s house. Philip regards the bookends as a symbol of this journey. It’s a reminder that sometimes, we must travel far and wide to recognize what’s been close to us all along. In his words, Susan is his “bookend”—a steadfast companion in his life story. As Philip reflects on this heartfelt journey, he emphasizes the importance of sharing personal stories and the cherished memories that bind us. The video concludes with reflections on love, mutual support, and the simple yet powerful artifacts that represent our deepest connections. This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tales hosted for The Photo Managers to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. To learn more about Philip & his photo management company that he runs with his wife Susan visit: https://psgphotosolutions.com/ Watch here:  Or Listen here: Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/

In the latest episode of “Things That Matter,” I invite you into a conversation with Ellerie Fuller, where the significance of everyday objects takes the spotlight. During their chat, Ellerie reveals the heartfelt narrative behind a simple, painted rock she received from her niece during the trying times of the pandemic. This rock, inscribed with the word ‘happy’, wasn’t just a token gift; it became a beacon of gratitude and connection, serving as a daily reminder of positivity and the bonds that keep us strong. Ellerie shares how this small rock has influenced her nightly reflections, encouraging her to end each day with thoughts of gratitude. This practice aligns with the philosophy of the Gratitude Rock, offering a tangible method to focus on the positive aspects of life. As the conversation unfolds, Ellerie expresses her vision for the rock’s legacy. She hopes its journey will continue with future generations, carrying its loving energy along. Her story transitions into her personal journey from a robust military career to embracing a new path in mindset coaching. Ellerie’s enthusiasm for her current work shines through as she discusses the potential of implementing coaching mindsets within federal government agencies, envisioning a future where positive leadership flourishes. Through her story, we see how one small object can encapsulate not only personal connection but also a broader mission of transforming lives and systems for the better. To learn more &/or to connect with this amazing woman: Courageous Whisper – Mindset Coaching: [email protected] Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

In the heart of New York City, as the world grappled with the onset of the pandemic, Jessica Lavoie, a seasoned model, found herself with an early understanding of the unfolding crisis. Her connection to overseas factories through her fit modeling work gave her an insider’s view as news slowly trickled in. Amidst the uncertainty, a new nightly tradition began that many New Yorkers embraced—clapping at 7 PM to honor essential workers. For Jessica, her husband, and their five-year-old son, this ritual took on special significance. As they joyfully banged pots and released bubbles from their one-bedroom apartment’s window, a friendship blossomed with their neighbors across the street, Flo and Jim. The couple, in their studio apartment, became their unseen companions, encouraging more bubbles and blasting cheerful tunes. Unknown to Jessica then, this connection would transcend the physical barriers, leading to an unexpected legacy. Jessica shared a photo of her view during a clapping session with a Facebook group, which later featured her picture prominently in a book that united global perspectives from windows worldwide. This moment captured not just a view, but a symbol of hope and human connection during trying times. As the story of her view crossed borders and reached an art exhibit in Brussels, it highlighted how even the simplest acts of kindness forge bonds that last. Back home, Jessica’s tale became a centerpiece at a local street fair, bringing her community together and transforming an extraordinary experience into a timeless story of resilience and friendship. I met Jessica LaVoie when I was in my early twenties and she was a teen! She always wanted to be a model! We lost touch after the ending of my partnership with her cousin, but reconnected when she moved to NYC a decade later. She still models, but in addition she’s a professional photographer. Her non-professional photograph was chosen as the front cover of a book that was inspired by a Facebook group, View from my window, that was created on 23 March 2020 by the Belgian Barbara Duriau during the lockdown of the Covid-19 pandemic with the aim of connecting people from all over the world. Thanks to the photos taken from their homes and shared on the group, members were able to travel and break out of their isolation. Find out more about VIEW FROM MY WINDOW here: https://viewfrommywindow.world/? This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: Artifacts & Totems (Pandemic Edition) to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. _______________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Hi everyone, Martie McNabb here, and I’m thrilled to share my conversation with the incredibly talented Noemi Beres on “Things That Matter.” Our paths crossed thanks to Keith McNally, the question guy on LinkedIn, who always connects with fascinating people through his deep, interesting questions. From our initial interaction, I knew Noemi had stories and insights worth sharing, and I couldn’t wait to dive into her world. Noemi joined me from Cyprus, though her journey started in Hungary and took her through Denmark and Ireland before she settled on that beautiful Mediterranean island. Her love for travel and adventure is evident in her art, particularly in the mixed media collage she shared with us. “I made this collage about the Canterbury Cathedral,” she began, showing a vibrant piece that captured the essence of autumn. She visited this iconic place at fourteen, on her first solo trip to London for a language school. It was a time of self-discovery and unforgettable experiences, which she beautifully encapsulated in her artwork with rich colors and textures, evoking the fall season she loves so much. Her passion for travel didn’t just stop there. “Since then, I just couldn’t stop traveling and I still love it,” she confessed with a smile. This love for travel is a gift she also passed on to her son, hoping he would hold onto the curiosity and wonder of the world as he grows. When I asked Noemi about the future of her meaningful collage, she envisioned it as a cherished piece for her son, a testament to their shared adventures and her creative spirit. “I would love to give it to him… and he will carry it along to his kids as well.” Beyond art, Noemi’s life is a blend of creativity and entrepreneurship. She runs Podcast Connections, a podcast booking agency that helps entrepreneurs and business owners share their stories. Her dedication to connecting people and her love for storytelling shines through in every project. Our conversation was a delightful exploration of Noemi’s multifaceted life—a world where art, travel, and business intersect seamlessly. I encourage you all to check out her work on LinkedIn, her mixed media art on Instagram, and explore her agency, Podcast Connections, for more inspiring stories. Thank you for tuning in and remember to always be curious about the things that surround you. They tell the stories of your life, the things that matter, and the legacy you leave behind. To learn more about this amazing woman check out ways to connect below: https://www.podcastconnections.co/ LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/noemiberes/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/noemi.beres Email: [email protected] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/noemi_beres_ ____________________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

When I look back on my life, one of the most pivotal moments was when I decided to embark on a journey across the United States on my bicycle. At the time, I was working a full-time engineering job in Connecticut, feeling stifled and yearning for something more. In the summer of 2017, I made a bold decision—I quit my job, packed my belongings, and set off on a bicycle trip that would span from Connecticut to Los Angeles, covering some 7,000 miles. The bike I rode, which I fondly think of as my trusty steed, became more than just a mode of transportation; it was my companion and lifeline. From two broken spokes to a cracked frame that needed to be replaced in North Carolina, this bike certainly went through its own set of trials and tribulations. But just like my bike, I too was put to the test. Each challenge, be it a steep mountain climb or a mechanical failure, was a lesson in resilience and resourcefulness. One of the highlights of my journey was dipping my front wheel in the Atlantic Ocean at the start and then in the Pacific Ocean upon completing my trip. There’s something surreal about realizing you’ve traversed an entire continent using nothing but pedal power. Along the way, I met countless generous and kind-hearted people. In places like Portal, Arizona, strangers offered me a place to stay and food to eat, their unwavering generosity making the long, arduous days on the road bearable. Though technically I wasn’t homeless, the open road and the kindness of strangers often made it feel like I was temporarily part of a larger, transient community. This trip was more than just a physical journey; it was a transformative experience that reshaped who I am. Riding that bike across the country showed me the best of humanity and the immense beauty of our nation, one pedal at a time. Now, as I look back, I’ve even thought about what I’d like to happen to my beloved bike when I’m gone. Ideally, I’d love for it to be passed down to someone in my family—someone who can appreciate it and perhaps find their own adventures on this trusty steed. If you’re curious about my adventures and want to see more, you can find detailed blog posts and daily recaps from my journey on my website, Try For Travel, or check out the videos I posted on YouTube. It’s a way for me to share my story and, hopefully, inspire others to seek out their own life-changing adventures. _____________________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

On today’s minisode my story-sharer, Wendy Green, shares her story of reinvention through the THING that matters to her, a microphone she asked her children to gift her for Mother’s Day. This is Wendy’s story: During the pandemic, my life took an unexpected turn. I was working as a center director at a Sylvan learning center, but as the world started to shut down, I knew my job was in jeopardy. By March 20th, my boss called to say we were closing, and just like that, I found myself unemployed at 66. It was a tough pill to swallow, but I wanted to stay relevant and find a way to make a difference. That’s when I decided to launch a Facebook Live show called “Hey, Boomer.” I had some experience from my Rotary Club days, but I still felt like I was diving into the deep end. Thankfully, a few friends agreed to be my first guests, and on April 13, 2020, we went live for the first time. My kids thought I was a bit crazy, but they supported me and even bought me a microphone for Mother’s Day. Since then, it’s been a whirlwind. I’ve learned how to simulcast to Facebook, LinkedIn, and YouTube, and I edit the audio into podcast episodes. I’ve had the privilege of meeting amazing people from all over the world, people I never would’ve met otherwise. Even though I haven’t made much money from it yet, the connections and community I’ve built are what matters most to me. On every show, I remind my audience that “you are never too old to set another goal or dream a new dream.” The journey has been incredible, and I feel more fulfilled than ever. And as a cherry on top, my one sponsor, Rhodes Scholar, even asked me to host a trip as an influencer. Who knew that losing my job would open so many doors? To learn more about this inspiring women visit Boomer Banter at https://heyboomer.biz/ This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: Artifacts & Totems (Pandemic Edition) to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. _____________________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

I’m Martie McNabb, and today I had the immense pleasure of sitting down with Deb Krier for an episode of Things That Matter. As many of you know, I am fascinated by the stories attached to the Things that matter in our lives and the legacy they create. Deb’s story is a remarkable mixture of resilience, humor, and inspiration. Deb brought something incredibly unique to our show-and-tell: a lavender-colored knitted pillow. At first glance, it might seem like a cute little cushion, but it represents something much deeper. It’s one of her “knitted knockers,” a prosthetic boob she affectionately named Lucy or Ethel. Deb was diagnosed with breast cancer and chose to undergo a double mastectomy without reconstructive surgery. Rather than wallowing in what she lost, she embraced her new reality with humor and grace, even naming her prosthetics. We delved into the reactions she encountered after her diagnosis. Surprisingly, some long-time friends disappeared, unable to confront her new reality, while others she barely knew stepped up as her biggest supporters. Her best friend needed time to process the news but came around and flew out to help her on multiple occasions. Deb’s infectious sense of humor became evident when she shared more about her journey. She has another pair of prosthetics named Thelma and Louise, the “fancier” ones covered by insurance. Her lighthearted approach not only helps her cope but also puts others at ease. For instance, in her medical records, her “other” name is Anastasia Beaverhausen, a moniker that lifted spirits even in the infusion room, where the staff started treating her like royalty. Deb’s initiative, “Trying Not to Die Live,” embodies her mission to help others in their cancer journey live life to its fullest. She encourages people to embrace their inner warrior, build a supportive tribe, and cherish every moment, whether they have five hours or fifty years left. Deb’s story reminded me of the power of humor and resilience in the face of life’s most challenging moments. Her knitted knockers, the stories they carry, and her positive outlook on life inspired me tremendously. Her journey is a testament to living life fully and joyfully, no matter the circumstances. As we wrapped up our conversation, I couldn’t help but think about the things that matter in my own life and the stories attached to them. Deb’s journey reaffirmed my belief in the importance of sharing these stories with our loved ones, creating a legacy of not just things, but the memories and emotions they encapsulate. Thank you, Deb, for sharing your story and reminding us all to laugh, live, and cherish every precious moment we have. Deb is not only a seasoned entrepreneur with a background in communications, marketing, and public relations but also a cancer advocate whose personal journey through Stage 4 triple-positive breast cancer and thyroid cancer has been truly transformative. In 2022, she founded tryingnottodie.LIVE is a commendable initiative empowering those navigating the complexities of cancer. Her unwavering commitment to turning struggles into strengths, fostering hope in the cancer community, and promoting resilience aligns seamlessly with the values of your podcast as the founder of tryingnottodie.LIVE and the host of “The Business Power Hour” podcast, Deb brings profound insights into holistic health, wellness, and spirituality. Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Join me as I sit down with Martie, the host of Things That Matter, to share my journey as a photographer and adventurer. My name is Jesse Morgan, and here’s a glimpse into the story of an old photo: I’m originally from Texas, but now I call Mexico City my home—a place full of vibrant culture and endless photographic opportunities. My journey to this bustling city was anything but ordinary, starting with my college years back in West Texas at Abilene Christian University. During one summer break, I faced the classic college dilemma: do I get a summer job or take extra classes? The summer before had been spent working as a property manager in Colorado, but this time, my older brother’s stories of commercial fishing in Alaska caught my attention. He had been going up there for a couple of seasons, and he encouraged me to give it a try. With little hesitation, I bought a one-way ticket to Cordova, Alaska, ready for whatever came my way. Arriving in Cordova was like stepping into another world. I’ll never forget the moment I got off the ferry and pitched my tent alongside a little river, where this photo was taken. For two weeks, I walked the docks every day, talking to captains and asking for a chance to be a deckhand. It was a challenging time, but it taught me a lot about resilience and perseverance. One of the most meaningful moments for me was captured in a photo from my first day in Cordova. Looking at that photo now, I see how far I’ve come—from a 20-year-old kid in a new world to a seasoned summer fisherman who’s done seven seasons in Alaska and is gearing up for my eighth. This experience has shaped my belief that nothing is too small or too big to tackle, a lesson that carries over into my work as a photographer and videographer. Sharing this journey with Martie was truly special. We connected over our shared love for the nomadic lifestyle and the idea that resilience is key to thriving in any adventure. From Texas to Alaska and now in Mexico City, my story is a testament to following unexpected paths and embracing every challenge along the way. You can find out more about Jesse here: https://www.jessewyattmorgan.com/about This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tales hosted for The Photo Managers to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. _____________________________________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

I recently had the pleasure of hosting MariBeth Decker, an extraordinary animal communicator, on my YouTube channel, “Things That Matter.” From the moment we met through a mutual friend, I knew she had something truly unique to share with our audience. Her ability to connect with animals and communicate with them is nothing short of remarkable. Maribeth started the conversation with a touching show-and-tell. She brought out felt creations of her late pets—two dogs named Tibor and Stella, and a cat named Mr Mac or Mac the cat. These little figures, handcrafted by an artist in Ukraine via Etsy, captured the essence and spirit of her beloved fur family. It was evident how much these replicas meant to her, especially after losing the animals in a short span of time. The detail in each piece was astounding, and Maribeth explained how her husband meticulously communicated with the artist to get every feature just right. As she shared stories about each of these pets, my heart warmed. Tibor, the once fear-aggressive dog who learned to trust and love thanks to Maribeth’s gentle communication, became a family member who loved snuggling and walks in the woods. Meanwhile, Mr Mac, the playful cat, was known for his antics, like bringing a ball to Maribeth to initiate a game of fetch. And then there was Stella, the sweet dog who charmed everyone she met by offering them gifts like leaves or twigs. Maribeth talked about how her journey in animal communication began after she became a Reiki master and started receiving messages from her dogs in spirit. Her practical approach to using this skill helps pet owners understand their animals’ behaviors, emotions, and even physical states. She provides insights that can be incredibly healing, whether it’s explaining a sudden change in behavior due to a household shift or detecting areas of discomfort within an animal’s body. Her depth of understanding extends beyond communication; she actively helps pets heal from past traumas and physical ailments. Her role, she says, is similar to that of a doula but for animals—helping both the pets and their owners navigate through the challenging times, especially during transitions. At the end of our conversation, Maribeth showed me her bestselling book, “Peace in Passing: Comfort for Loving Humans During Animal Transitions.” https://peaceinpassingbook.com/ The book offers guidance for pet owners facing the inevitable heartbreak of losing a furry friend, teaching them to honor their love and manage the grief that follows. Through our dialogue, Maribeth’s passion and dedication to her work were palpable. She radiated love and commitment, offering not just her skills but her entire heart to those she helps. It left me thinking about the things we keep and the memories we cherish. Each object, each story has its place, and Maribeth reminded me of how crucial it is to honor them. If you’re as fascinated as I am and want to learn more about Maribeth and her work, you can find her at sacredgrove.com. Whether you’re dealing with a current pet issue or the lingering grief of a pet that has passed, Maribeth’s insights could be the support you need. I feel incredibly grateful to have had the chance to share her story with you all. To learn more about my guests important healing work in the world visit: https://sacredgrove.com/ The sweet felt animals were made by Ukranian artist Natalia at Natsy Toys UA: https://www.etsy.com/shop/NatsyToysUA Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Look &/or listen as my guest Martie Mackay shares her pandemic story through her unique “nine things” photo design project. To cope with the isolation and emotional toll, Martie turned to something familiar yet unexpected — personal stories of the ordinary Things around her home during “lockdown”. First inspired by a striking image of the coronavirus, she began a unique art project that revolved around finding and photographing nine household items that resembled the virus. It started with simple things like a cactus, a dog toy, and an orange golf ball. She shared these on her @ juniperstudio Instagram and Facebook, and the response was overwhelmingly positive. People loved the humor and creativity, and it helped build a sense of community during isolation. Her daily posts quickly turned into something more. She started theming her posts, spicing up the pandemic with collections of spices or even showcasing tiara-worthy items, including a roll of toilet paper😂 It became a way for her to make people laugh and feel connected. One standout moment was when Martie shared her grandmother’s measuring cups at one of Martie McNabb’s story-sharing gatherings. Those cups, though simple, hold deep sentimental value. They weren’t just kitchen tools; they were a connection to her past, to family history, and to memories of love and warmth. We both agreed that everyone has a story worth preserving, and these objects are tools to connect us to those stories. As the pandemic pressed on, her “nine things” series grew into a collection of over 81 posts. Each post was a blend of creativity, humor, and personal reflection. It was Martie’s way of documenting this unique period in her life, and it resonated with many others. People found solace, laughter, and connection in those posts. It was more than just a project; it was a lifeline. Looking back, this period, though fraught with loss and uncertainty, also became a testament to the power of personal stories and connections. We both agree that these firsthand accounts and artifacts hold historical value, not just for us but for future generations. In a world that had slowed down, we found significance in everyday Things, and that realization is something we carry with us, even as the world moves on. To find out more about Martie’s creative work visit: https://www.juniperstudiophotography.com/ Fun Fact: I haven’t met another female Martie with the ie until her! AND we’re cooking up a fun collaboration coming soon to our mutual friend, Diana Place’s, 333 Collective & beyond!!! More info to come. ______________________________________________________________________________ Looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ Watch here: Or Listen here:

In this episode of Things That Matter, I, Jill Yesko, shared a heartfelt story about a cherished childhood photo and its unexpected journey back to me. I talked about my early life and my godfather, Uncle Jack. He captured a special photograph of me in 1972, a picture that went missing for 35 years. I described how the photo was significant to me, not just because it was a glimpse into my past, but also because it represented my contemplative, pensive childhood. My personality, quiet and serious, often left me misunderstood, even by my own family. Despite this, the photograph, always tucked away in drawers and never framed, held a deep place in my heart. Years passed, and after a period of estrangement from my mother, I believed I might never see that picture again. Then, out of the blue, during a visit to my ailing father in St. Louis, my stepmother handed me a package from Uncle Jack. Miraculously, he had found the negative and developed the photo, sending it to my stepmom because he didn’t have my address. Opening that envelope and seeing my younger self brought an overwhelming rush of emotions, transporting me back in time. Since then, the photo has taken its rightful place on my fridge, protected and cherished. I also reflected on how people often see me as an extrovert, while in reality, I am quite introspective. This mix-up is common, particularly within our community of photo managers, who understand the importance of presenting ourselves but know it doesn’t necessarily mean we live as extroverts. Sharing this personal story was a meaningful experience, and I hope it resonates with others who may have similar journeys. Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Hello, everyone. My name is Elizabeth Barbour. I live in Asheville, North Carolina, and I’m thrilled to be here today to share a story that is very close to my heart. I grew up adopted, raised in Connecticut by my wonderful adoptive mom and dad as an only child. When I was 29 years old, I found my biological parents. It was an incredible experience; not only did I find my birth mom and dad, but also eleven half-brothers and sisters. This past April, we celebrated 25 years of reunion together, and I’ve developed beautiful relationships with everyone from parents and grandparents to siblings, nieces, and nephews. My birth mom passed away last year at a young age, and the item I’m about to share holds even more meaning now because it comes from her side of the family. It’s a ring, an amethyst set in gold filigree, with a delicate rose in the middle. I have a deep love for jewelry; my first job was at a jewelry store when I was 16, and this piece is particularly special. When I first met my birth mom in 1999 and visited her again around 2000, I also met her mother, my maternal grandmother for the first time. As we were talking, my grandmother mentioned a ring. I was intrigued, unaware of the legacy behind it. The ring has been passed down through generations to all the Elizabeths in the family. It started with my great-great-grandmother, Anna Elizabeth. Her brother gave her the ring on the condition that it be passed on to every Elizabeth in future generations. And so it did, moving down the line to Catherine Elizabeth, Marie Elizabeth, and June Elizabeth. By the time it reached my generation, none of my biological cousins were named Elizabeth, and I had been adopted and named Elizabeth by my adoptive parents without them knowing anything about the family history. When I reconnected with my birth family, my birth mom and grandmother were thrilled to realize that I was next in line to receive this treasured heirloom. It felt like there had always been a space for me in the family. The ring symbolizes this connection, a tangible confirmation of my place in this lineage. You can find more about me and my work at elizabethbarbour.com or sacredcelebrations.com, where I also have a jewelry line that contributes to hurricane relief efforts in our region. Thank you for listening to my story and the legacy carried by this precious ring. It’s a reminder of our connections and the strength we draw from our roots. ______________________________________________________________________________ If you were asked “What Things would tell your life story?” What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself …. what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-things-story/ ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next virtual or in-person Show & Tales here: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Looking for a unique way to build deeper connections with your employees, volunteers, donors family, friends or alumni and conference or retreat attendees? Hire me or one of my story-sharing hosts: https://www.showandtales.com And if you are an artist, creative or service pro who identifies as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky etc and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Hi everyone, it’s Melissa here. I’m sharing my heartfelt story about navigating the challenges brought by the pandemic while caring for my ailing mother. Despite the hardships, I found unexpected blessings during this difficult time. At the start of 2020, I was working as a marketing independent contractor for a senior living community. Coincidentally, it was the same community where my mom was in the memory care unit, and her health was declining. By February, I had to ask if it might be time for hospice, and they agreed. As the virus started to spread, I was very concerned about it reaching the senior living community where my mom resided. By early March, a local case of someone not isolating after a positive test made everything feel all too real. The senior living facility began locking down in the first week of March, restricting both employees and residents from leaving their respective buildings. By the third week of March, they banned all visitors, and since I wasn’t an employee, I couldn’t visit either. However, with my mom needing extra care, they gave me the most precious gift by designating me an essential healthcare worker. This allowed me to spend as much time as possible with her during her last weeks. I even got to support other residents, who were also unable to have visitors. One of the highlights was hosting a Red Hat Society dance party on March 21 for my mom and the other residents. My mom had been the charter member of the Red Hat Society at this facility, and seeing everyone enjoy themselves, dancing and having fun, was absolutely amazing. Another special moment was over Easter when I brought in music to play Easter hymns for everyone since even religious services were halted. My mom passed away on April 20, and as hard as it was, I’m grateful for the time I got to spend with her. The experience of Covid leading to a shut down actually allowed me precious moments with her that I would not have had if I had been working as usual. It inspired me to give up my marketing career. I’m now a retired marketing professional and have transitioned to a new career in photo management. To find out more about Melissa’s services visit: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissasnyder/ This journey, though filled with challenges, showed me the silver linings and transformative experiences that can emerge from difficult times. Thank you for letting me share my story. ______________________________________________________________________________ This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: Artifacts & Totems (Pandemic Edition). ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next LIVE Show & Tales: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Hire me to host your next employee, volunteer, donor appreciation gathering, family, friend or college reunion, team building event & kickoff for your conference or retreat https://www.showandtales.com And if you identify as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky, etc., and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Hello, everyone. I’m Martie McNabb, coming to you from my mom’s basement. Today, I’m thrilled to share an incredible conversation I had with Paul Szauter, a man whose journey and work are both deeply inspiring. So, a while back, I embarked on a project called “Our Community in 30 Things.” I reached out to a group of 14-15 people, asking them to contribute objects that represented parts of their life stories. One of the first people to volunteer was Paul. He brought a particularly fascinating object—a plastic moon coin bank, a nod to his lifelong fascination with science and exploration. Paul’s story begins with his parents, who were World War II refugees. They immigrated to the United States in 1949, carrying with them a mix of Hungarian and Dutch heritage. Growing up, Paul’s parents emphasized the importance of education and curiosity. They often took him to museums, where his love for science began to take root. I vividly remember Paul’s excitement as he recounted the U.S.’s panic over Sputnik and how it ignited his passion for space and science. He even watched the moon landing in 9th grade, a moment that cemented his desire to pursue science and engineering. This passion eventually led him to become a geneticist, working with the groundbreaking Human Genome Project. But Paul’s career didn’t stop there. He founded a company called EquiSeq, which specializes in genetic tests for horses, leveraging data from the Human Genome Project. It’s fascinating how he managed to apply his expertise in human genetics to the realm of equine science. He likes to compare these ambitious projects to “moonshots,” emphasizing the importance of taking big risks to achieve great things. Paul’s involvement in my project was more than just contributing his moon coin bank. He helped bring the community together, shedding light on the importance of collaboration and support among scientists and entrepreneurs. His dedication to education is truly inspiring; he recently judged a science fair and constantly stresses the need to stimulate children’s interest in STEM fields. Listening to Paul, I couldn’t help but reflect on my own journey, from studying earth science and biology to teaching high school students in New York City. Our paths, although different, resonate with the same core values: the importance of curiosity, community, and the relentless pursuit of our passions. As we concluded our conversation, I thanked him wholeheartedly for sharing his story and for participating in “Our Community in 30 Things.” And I extend that gratitude to all our listeners today.  Stay curious and keep supporting one another. This has been Things That Matter with Martie McNabb, signing off. EquiSeq is an equine services company for people who want better horses. EquiSeq’s DNA test is a genetic screen that identifies horses at risk for a muscle disease before they develop symptoms. https://www.equiseq.com/ ______________________________________________________________________________ Let’s build more connections, community & legacy by sharing & listening to the stories of the Things that matter. Things don’t matter, but the stories that get attached to them often do. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next virtual or in-person Show & Tales here: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Looking for a unique way to build deeper connections with your employees, volunteers, donors family, friends or alumni and conference or retreat attendees? Hire me or one of my story-sharing hosts: https://www.showandtales.com And if you are an artist, creative or service pro who identifies as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky etc and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here: Or Listen here:

When I was 19, my mom had a major cerebral aneurysm. It was a life-changing event, not just for her but for all of us. Despite the struggle, she lived many more years, although different from before. Reflecting on those earlier days, she used to cook for our family of six every single day—my dad, herself, and us four kids. Interestingly enough, cooking wasn’t her passion. It wasn’t her creative outlet. She was just a good, plain cook who got food on the table for us. What she did love, though, was entertaining. It’s a bit ambiguous whether she genuinely enjoyed it since the events were often to promote my dad’s business. But I believe she did. She took it very seriously, keeping a detailed journal of who attended, what was served, and even who helped. She’d also note if a piano player came to entertain and how much they were paid—a figure not too different from today’s rates. Following a tradition from her side of the family, my mom’s kitchen doors were closed to us kids. Her mom never let her in the kitchen, so how she learned to cook remains a bit of a mystery to me. Maybe it was in home economics class in high school. Consequently, she didn’t teach me how to cook, and similarly, my daughter never showed any interest. We never cooked together, but somehow, everyone eventually learned on their own. However, when it came to entertaining, I did help my mom a lot, and there was this one particular object she used when baking or preparing special dishes. I hadn’t seen it for decades, but then about five years ago, it showed up again at my food co-op. My mom passed away in 2006, and although I still have some of her old wooden spoons, I didn’t have her original one of these objects which made its return pretty special. It was a vintage nut grinder. You take the grinder, open it up, place the walnuts inside, close the lid, and start grinding. The result? Perfectly chopped walnuts with fantastic texture—something a Cuisinart or blender can’t achieve without turning the nuts into mush. Back in the day, we used this grinder for various dishes. If you’re from New York or the south, you might know chopped walnuts as a garnish for red velvet or carrot cakes. For us, it was also essential for making haroset, a traditional Passover dish consisting of chopped apples, walnuts, and a splash of Manischewitz red wine. Finding this little device again filled me with joy; it was more than a kitchen gadget—it was a heartfelt connection to wonderful times spent with my mom. Thank you. FYI: I met Jezra 30+ years ago at a women’s co-working space & quickly realized we were neighbors in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn. She is a singer, author & speaker coach and I’ve been thrilled to hear her sing, read her books & experience her coaching. Find out more about this dynamic woman: https://speakupforsuccess.com/ ______________________________________________________________________________ This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: My Favorite Thing (Kitchen Edition) at Historic Green-Wood Cemetery. I’m a regular host of events for G-W for the purpose of building deeper connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next LIVE Show & Tales: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Hire me to host your next employee, volunteer, donor appreciation gathering, family, friend or college reunion, team building event & kickoff for your conference or retreat https://www.showandtales.com And if you identify as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky, etc., and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here: Or Listen here:

Look & listen as my guest shares part of her life story through her collection of Beatles albums & other memorabilia. Gloria spoke of her childhood in western New York, under the stern gaze of a Mennonite community where dancing was just a distant dream, yet the scaffold for her future vocation was set in those silent prayers and reflections. The thread of her narration spun from past to present, unveiling the foundation of “Reel to Reel,” her labor of love dedicated to capturing personal stories in the richest medium she knew—audio. I chuckled softly as Gloria recounted the makeshift Beatles fan club she pioneered in her youth, convened in an old chicken coop behind her house, of all places! What a vivid contrast to her conservative upbringing, I thought. Her passion for The Beatles didn’t just linger—it danced in the light of her eyes as she described her vast collection of memorabilia, from precious albums to a treasured Beatles purse, each item pulsating with melodies and memories. The conversation shifted seamlessly from Fab Four to digital files as Gloria detailed her work’s evolution with technology, from cassettes to the modern ease of flash drives and cloud storage. It was a reminder of the enduring power of storytelling, adapting through the ages yet always preserving the essence of our human voice & experience. Two & a half years ago, while I was in Portland, OR for the World Domination Summit, as part of my 5-month roadtrip, I met up with Gloria at a Capital One Café, where the buzz of modern life seemed to fade away as she began to weave the tapestry of her life’s tale into the air between us. We parted ways with gratitude, but it wasn’t just a farewell; it was an exchange of dedication to our craft. As Gloria left, I envisioned her voice carrying on, perpetuating her legacy, and those of countless others, into eternity. After all, in the world of personal historians, each story penned—or in Gloria’s case, recorded—is another heartbeat etched into the annals of time. To learn more about Gloria & her important “life” saving work in the world visit her website: https://real-to-reel.org/ ______________________________________________________________________________ Let’s build more connections, community & legacy by sharing & listening to the stories of the Things that matter. Things don’t matter, but the stories that get attached to them often do. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next virtual or in-person Show & Tales here: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Looking for a unique way to build deeper connections with your employees, volunteers, donors family, friends or alumni and conference or retreat attendees? Hire me or one of my story-sharing hosts: https://www.showandtales.com And if you are an artist, creative or service pro who identifies as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky etc and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here: Or Listen here:

Growing up & still living in my childhood home has always been a blessing, and every time I step into this kitchen, countless memories flood back. This isn’t just any kitchen—this is my mother’s kitchen. It didn’t always look like this; back then, there were no cabinets, but there was always a washer and dryer. Sure, it was a little messy, but it was well-used and filled with love. My mom, an Italian American, never wrote down a recipe. Everything she made, from meatballs to holiday feasts, had to be remembered or learned by helping her. One of my roles was cleaning shrimp. Yes, I have this odd obsession with cleaning shrimp—I can’t explain it, but I love it. This kitchen was the heart of our home. Every holiday, every celebration, was hosted here. We would cram 18 people around our dining room table, which seems impossible now. But somehow, we made it work. This house has history beyond my childhood. My father grew up here as well. So, this kitchen has seen the presence of my grandparents, and with each generation, it changed a bit. As my mother aged and her health declined, I started taking over some of the holiday preparations. When I got married and moved to my apartment, I took charge of Thanksgiving and Mother’s Day. My mom kept the bigger holidays like Christmas and Easter, but Thanksgiving was mine. The first Thanksgiving I took over, my mom handed me something very special—THIS turkey platter. I have to show you this. It’s not the prettiest platter, but it’s my mom’s, and I love it. She bought it from a small tchotchke store on Utrecht Avenue in Bensonhurst. Everything there was mismatched, but this turkey platter was her choice, and now it belongs to me. Whenever I cook in this kitchen, I feel my mom’s presence. I talk to her, especially when I’m trying to recreate her dishes. I don’t have many recipes written down, so I rely on my memory. This turkey platter is a testament to the love and traditions we’ve shared over the years. I even found out that someone else has a similar turkey platter bought from the same store, which makes it even more special. That’s my story—my mom’s turkey platter and the beautiful legacy of love and cooking that lives on in this kitchen. ______________________________________________________________________________ This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: My Favorite Thing (Kitchen Edition) at Historic Green-Wood Cemetery. I’m a regular host of events for G-W for the purpose of building deeper connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next LIVE Show & Tales: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Hire me to host your next employee, volunteer, donor appreciation gathering, family, friend or college reunion, team building event & kickoff for your conference or retreat https://www.showandtales.com And if you identify as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky, etc., and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

It all began with a slab of wood! **4 Keys You’ll Learn in This Episode**: 1. **Pandemic Passions**: How a couple turned daily walks during the pandemic into a meaningful collaboration with Marjorie, documenting over 50 trails across 17 towns! 🌳 2. **Accessible Adventures**: Marjorie’s dedication to creating guidebooks for easy walks, making nature accessible to everyone, including the visually impaired. 🌿 3. **Memory Magic**: The powerful impact of story-sharing events in community spaces and the touching story of a woman with dementia who found joy in sharing the stories of Things from her young motherhood home. ❤️ 4. **Writing to Coaching**: From writing people’s stories to coaching them to pen their own, learn about Marjorie’s work and her mission to help others tell their compelling narratives. 📝 To learn more go HERE **Fun Fact**: Did you know that Marjorie’s beloved grandfather found a slab of wood being used as part of a chicken coop? He traded his carpentry skills for it, giving the wood a new lease on life as a dining room table where countless family dinners & stories are shared. This “chicken coop” table has been passed down to the next generation and remains as a family heirloom. We hope you’ll find this episode as heartwarming as we did. Marjorie’s dedication to making the outdoors accessible and preserving precious memories is truly a testament to the power of stories and community. Don’t forget to check out Marjorie’s guidebooks available on Amazon: Here And if you love what you hear, please share this episode with your friends and family. Let’s spread the joy of easy walks and memory sharing! 📚🌟 ______________________________________________________________________________ Let’s build more connections, community & legacy by sharing & listening to the stories of the Things that matter. Things don’t matter, but the stories that get attached to them often do. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next virtual or in-person Show & Tales here: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Looking for a unique way to build deeper connections with your employees, volunteers, donors family, friends or alumni and conference or retreat attendees? Hire me or one of my story-sharing hosts: https://www.showandtales.com And if you are an artist, creative or service pro who identifies as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky etc and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Look &/or listen as my guest Rosie Grant shares the story of her Mirro cookie press! As she lovingly holds this old-fashioned cookie press, she tells of her unexpected wild ride to TikTok fame. While doing her cemetery internship at Congressional Cemetery her professor assigned the task of setting up a social media account. She half-heartedly started recording her journey, but then she came cross a special gravestone in my favorite cemetery, Historic Green-Wood Cemetery, in my old hometown of Brooklyn. It was there she came across the gravestone of Naomi Odessa Miller-Dawson. Etched into what looks like a cookbook opened to a page was Naomi’s favorite recipe for Spritz Cookies. Rosie fell in love with the idea of people leaving favorite recipes behind for their loved ones AND strangers alike. She decided to make these cookies, but had no real idea what a Spritz cookie was or how to make them. When she posted a video of her first bad attempt at making Naomi’s cookies she was flooded by beautiful stories of people sharing their grandmothers methods, family food traditions & MANY encouraged Rosie to get a cookie press for herself! She has since found 17+ “recipe gravestones” & travels the country visiting, baking & eating at the graves of the dead. She has done this with strangers, some who turned into friends like Naomi’s family who Rosie met a year ago at Green-Wood. Naomi’s grandson is the keeper of the family’s secret recipes & her son has her original cookie press. See Things are important! Because they connect us to the memories. Rosie is now sitting down at her ancestors graves, eating a meal & pondering how food connects us and nurtures us in so many more ways then the nutrients. Both her grandmothers died during the pandemic. She recalls fondly the yellow cake one grandmother made, straight from a box, for each of her grandchildren’s birthdays over the years. It wasn’t fancy, but she & her cousins miss those box cakes every year … they spoke about it at her funeral. Rosie makes it from time to time to remember her by & to feel her love which still lives on. You can tell how much she LOVES this cookie press just by the way she lights up when she holds it & looks at it! I don’t know about you, but I can’t get enough of this woman’s warmth, enthusiasm & exuberance! Follow her @ghostlyarchive on TikTok & Instagram This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: My Favorite Thing Kitchen Edition with Historic Green-Wood Cemetery (Nov 2022) to build deeper connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next LIVE Show & Tales: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Hire me to host your next employee, volunteer, donor appreciation gathering, family, friend or college reunion, team building event & kickoff for your conference or retreat https://www.showandtales.com And if you identify as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky, etc., and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Look &/or listen as my guests share the stories of the Things they keep, the things that matter, the things they’ll leave behind. The newest grannie, Marsha Rothwell, started us off with her unique show and tell. It’s a lamp she made many moons ago that sits in a place of honor in the living room of the family farmhouse on the coast of Massachusetts. One day years ago she & her family, including many young grandchildren, did what they often did… they went for a walk on the sandbars near their seaside home. On this particular day there was a super low-tide & a full moon. They had taken pride in the fact that their beach was always free of trash, but that day they came across a tire buried in the sand. Marsha & her family tried to remove it & when they did they found it wasn’t empty. As Marsha pulled on the tire a huge claw reached out! Sadly they weren’t able to dislodge the tire, but with the help of a young boy who was nearby they got the 4 pound lobster. After taking it to the shore and taking lots of family photos with it, Marsha cooked it and enjoyed every morsel. So what did Marsha do with what was left of the lobster? She decided she would create something to honor that beautiful day at the beach with her family! She took a gourd, paint & that lobster claw and made a lamp that represents the sand, water & sky. Every time she looks at the lamp she’s transported back to that sunny day, walking with her family, trying to cleanup the beach & the lobster who came to dinner. It’s quite a conversation piece when guests visit! Her family knows very well the story of this handmade lamp…they were part of it. Next up is grannie #1 Beth Sobiloff! I first met Beth in the summer of 2023 at an adult summer camp for location independent (vanlife, full-time travel, digital nomads…) people. Beth arrived in her Two Grannies on the Road van & impressed me with her warmth & passion for life! Beth brought a family of porcelain Siamese cats & a mouse to show and tell. She has had this set since she was a child. She grew up in Ohio, the 5th child of 6 to a tool & die maker Dad and a homemaker Mom. They didn’t take many family vacations, but this set was a souvenir from one special vacation on Put-in-Bay Island in Lake Erie. It was only an hours drive away but Beth & her family had a blast. Before leaving her Mom asked what she wanted to remember her time there and Beth chose this Siamese cat & mouse set. This set sits on a shelf in Beth’s living room as a reminder her of the wonderful family time she had. Family is super important to Marsha & Beth as is “travel”, whether to a sandbar nearby or only an hours drive away… it’s all about building deeper connections, community & legacy one town at a time. They shared how their parents & grandparents had thoughtfully passed down their Things that mattered to them. They keep those Things to this day! Marsha hopes her lobster lamp will remain in the family farmhouse after she dies…. the story will most certainly be passed down too! Beth wants to make sure her family knows the story of her porcelain cats. She wants to make sure they know its not just something to dust. Beth, inspired by my Things That Matter story-sharing gathering at Camp Indie, decided to give her oldest granddaughter her nesting owls (like the dolls) as a high school graduation gift. She, her siblings & cousins had played with those owls when they were little. Her granddaughter was thrilled to have it! She placed it on her desk at college to remind her of all the fun times she had with her granny. I TOTALLY enjoyed this conversation with the Two Grannies on the Road! Their love of people & places runs deep! I’m grateful to have met Beth at Camp Indie 2023! And I’ve had fun following along on their travels around my old neck of the woods. I lived in Northampton, Mass for 15 years before moving to Brooklyn. Check out these lovely & lively woman on their adventures HERE ______________________________________________________________________________ Let’s build more connections, community & legacy by sharing & listening to the stories of the Things that matter. Things don’t matter, but the stories that get attached to them often do. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next virtual or in-person Show & Tales here: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Looking for a unique way to build deeper connections with your employees, volunteers, donors family, friends or alumni and conference or retreat attendees? Hire me or one of my story-sharing hosts: https://www.showandtales.com And if you are an artist, creative or service pro who identifies as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky etc and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Look &/or listen as my guest, photographer Lisa Arnold, tells the story of her camera! But 1st, we’re both speakers at the 1st annual Quest 2024 May 6 & 7th in Bristol, Rhode Island. More info & link to register below. Though she didn’t keep her very 1st camera, a cheap, returned item, she shared the magic that happened when she took a photo of herself with it at the age of 17. She didn’t know a thing about photography then, but when she got the print back from the photoshop she became fascinated with the concepts of beauty & perception and how photography could both capture & change them. It was then that she started to fall in love with the artistry of photography. She realized back then that she didn’t really see herself. She certainly didn’t see herself as others saw her. Lisa remembers studying that photo and for the first time thinking “I’m not as weird looking as I thought I was”…. most of us don’t see ourselves the way others see us… especially those who love us. We all have insecurities… under Lisa’s guidance, warmth & eyes she helps her clients embrace & celebrate their intrinsic beauty. Her work is so intimate. It’s such an honor to be invited into her clients lives in order to reflect their beauty back to them. She shows her clients what she sees in them & what others see in them too… THIS is what Lisa was born to do! Through her portrait photography she does her important healing work in the world. The beauty she first saw in herself at 17 years old started her on the journey to reveal this beauty in others. And these legacy photos aren’t just photos, they are testaments to her clients journey to seeing themselves & embracing their real beauty. It’s the story these photos tell that truly is the legacy that is left behind. It is how the clients feels about herself during & after the session, when she sees these photos & how her family & friends experience them. Her legacy…. their legacy & Lisa’s too. Lisa’s great niece will inherit her camera & photography equipment! She sees her camera as a tool, but much more then that it is a way of looking at the world. She hopes her niece finds a way to express herself & perhaps she too will decide to reflect others beauty back to them. It’s sacred this work… Lisa echoes what Don Draper said in Madmen… images can bring us places… they can bring us back to the place, the feelings, the awe or the fear… they are time capsules. How do you want to be seen? This question fascinates Lisa & is the one question she asks her clients. Learn more & schedule a call: Schedule Call Here Follow her: HERE I’m super excited to be offering an interactive experience AND a workshop as part of the first annual Quest 2024 Celebration & Conference this May in Bristol Rhode Island! And Lisa will be a keynote speaker! Join us for this celebration & conference May 6 & 7th as we build deeper connections, community & legacy through the Things that matter. There are 20+ other speakers offering workshops on all kinds of things to help us continue on our journey of walking each other home. For more info & to register: HERE ______________________________________________________________________________ Let’s build more connections, community & legacy by sharing & listening to the stories of the Things that matter. Things don’t matter, but the stories that get attached to them often do. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next virtual or in-person Show & Tales here: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Looking for a unique way to build deeper connections with your employees, volunteers, donors family, friends or alumni and conference or retreat attendees? Hire me or one of my story-sharing hosts: https://www.showandtales.com And if you are an artist, creative or service pro who identifies as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky etc and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here: Or Listen here:

Look &/or listen as my friend Pauly shares his coming out story through a 1990’s mailer created by Out Youth of Austin TX. On it are the words “Love may surprise you” with a photo of a 15 year old Pauly and his photoshoot “boyfriend” Lance. You see Pauly was born & raised in Shiner Texas (Pop: 2,069), an hour & a half drive from Austin. Needless to say coming of age in this small town in rural Tx didn’t foster & clearly wouldn’t approve of Pauly’s growing feelings. He started having crushes on boys, knowing that he shouldn’t perhaps …. he even left notes in boys lockers as his desire to be himself increased. Pauly’s parents had divorced when he was 10. His Mom moved to Austin. He stayed with his Dad during the school year & went to his Mom’s during school vacations & summers. When Pauly was 14 he couldn’t deny his feelings. He realized it wasn’t safe to come out in his small town though and felt like he lived a double life. Playing straight on the outside, while being gay on the inside. The next summer he spent with his Mom in Austin. It just so happened that she was living with an older gay gentleman. He was the only gay person Pauly knew & he decided that he just HAD to talk with him. He was so nervous he almost couldn’t speak, so he wrote a letter. He waited until his Mom went to work and then knocked on the roommates door. His heart was beating out of his chest, he KNEW there was no going back. This gay gentleman kindly agreed to talk. He invited Pauly to sit down in the living room and after reading the note he ripped it up. He told Pauly he wouldn’t tell anyone and offered him pamphlets & brochures with local resources (pre-internet). Two that stood out were a letter exchange and Out Youth. Pauly returned to Shiner that fall but continued exploring his sexual identity even if only internally. He even tried the letter exchange program. So by the next summer he was MUCH more accepting of himself for being gay. He decided he was going to come out to his Mom! One night they were getting ready to go to bed & Pauly couldn’t hold it any longer. He was 15 & gay and he was about to burst. His Mom was so sleepy & he was SO nervous when he said “I’ve got something I need to tell you.” Once it was out, he was out …. his Mom said she had known all along. With sleep in her eyes she got up, opened a drawer & pulled out an envelop with more pamphlets, brochures and condoms and handed it to him. Pauly wanted to go to Out Youth & his Mom took the bus with him to find the place and meet some of the people. He attended peer counseling twice a week. There he was finally able to talk about what it was like growing up in Shiner as a gay person. It was June ’95 and it was Pauly’s BIG GAY summer. Doors opened, rainbow flags flew and he was surrounded for the first time in his life with people like him. A new friend introduced him to Priscilla of the Desert, Abfab, ABBA, Rocky Horror Picture Show & makeup …. it was gay, gay, gay all summer long. It was a whole other world & he was in love …. and having crushes left & right. He didn’t have to hide it anymore! When summer came to a close Pauly couldn’t fathom returning to Shiner. He told his Mom he was staying and she agreed. His decision to stay had a positive impact on her life too! Pauly smiled so deeply as he showed the mailer. He thought about his younger self, his crush on Lance that wasn’t returned …. but the photoshoot & this photo gave him a glimpse into the possibility of having a love like that. Young love, isn’t it grand! You can learn more about his beautiful man here. This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: Coming-Out Mementos & Stories for Out Professionals to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. ________________________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next LIVE Show & Tales: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Hire me to host your next employee, volunteer, donor appreciation gathering, family, friend or college reunion, team building event & kickoff for your conference or retreat https://www.showandtales.com And if you identify as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky, etc., and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here: < Or Listen here:

Look &/or listen as my guest & fellow location indie friend “The Jason” shares his Big Adventures over the past 5 years of full-time solo van life via his enamel pin collection! In particular two special pins. When Jason started his adventures he began thinking about how he would remember all the places & events he experienced. He wanted to find a Thing, a souvenir that would hold the memory of that time. He also knew that his tiny house (on wheels) living lifestyle limits his space for Things. So he began by collecting stickers & magnets. However, he found himself hesitating to adhere the stickers to any Thing. What Jason realized was that he wasn’t as attached to the Thing he’d put the sticker on as he was to the sticker itself. It was about one year into his adventures that he fell in love with enamel pins. It all started with a pin from Disney World. He learned of the community of Disney pin collectors & traders and was hooked on the collecting scene… but not to only Disney pins. He loved the small footprint of these mini souvenirs. The problem he’d had with stickers disappeared as he could move the pins from place to place, switch them around, trade or gift them easily. I learned that Jason does have home-base outside of Las Vegas, NV. “It’s more like a shed with an office”, Jason said, where he keeps his large collection of pins. He travels with a small collection of his favorites that he displays on a banner he got from Etsy. And of course he adds pins as he gets them along the road. He loves how this banner is all shiny & pretty with pins from all the places he’s been & events he’s attended over the years. When an event he attended didn’t make a pin he could purchase, Jason started designing and having them printed himself. He would make 50-100 to give out to other event participants. It was a small gift that brought many smiles.They too would be able to take this souvenir with them to remember their time at the event. The first pin Jason got after catching the travel bug was his Woodstock 99 pin. He was 18, living at home in Missouri, when he learned of a concert he desperately wanted to go to in NY. His Mom relented & let him go. He and some friends jumped in his car & took a road trip across the country. That was when he fell in love with life on the road. The second pin Jason shows us is the one he designed & had made for his next big event. He designed it to look like a porta potty with Burning Man 2023 printed in green glitter lettering. To spread the word about the importance of travel & adventure he has #JasonsOK printed on the back of all the pins he designs. The backstory of this hashtag: When he told his Mom about his full-time solo travel plans, she was worried. Jason knows he’s not always the best at keeping in touch & thought of a way to lessen her fear and keep his Mom informed of his being ok. He placed a sign on the back of his van that reads “My mom is worried, she never knows where I am, #JasonsOK for her!” She can now follow along on Jason’s Big Adventure, inspired by Pee-wees, and hopefully worry less. When asked what he wants to happen to his pin collection when he dies, he said proudly that he’s a 6 time uncle and would want his nieces & nephews to inherit them. I encouraged him to make sure he shares the stories with them too! It’s the stories our loved ones want the most when we’re gone! And of course, Jason spoke of his many friends and how they may want one of his pins to remember him & their friendship. Find out more about The Jason: HERE I first met Jason at the World Domination Summit in Portland OR in June 2022 & then again at Camp Indie in June 2023. We’ll both be bringing our vans next summer to Camp Indie 2024. He’s planning to host a workshop about #vanlife. Can’t wait to see him there! ______________________________________________________________________________ Let’s build more connections, community & legacy by sharing & listening to the stories of the Things that matter. Things don’t matter, but the stories that get attached to them often do. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next virtual or in-person Show & Tales here: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Looking for a unique way to build deeper connections with your employees, volunteers, donors family, friends or alumni and conference or retreat attendees? Hire me or one of my story-sharing hosts: https://www.showandtales.com And if you are an artist, creative or service pro who identifies as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky etc and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here:  Or Listen here:

Look &/or listen as my friend & guest Alison Pena aka The Bad Widow shares the story of family life & love through a little iron candle snuffer fondly called The Monk. The Monk has been a part of Alison’s family for over 100 years! She remembers fondly time spent with her grandparents at their home in Connecticut. Her grandfather was British. When her grandmother was on her grand tour of Europe, they met in Germany. He was in the army & stationed there. They fell in love and continued their romance via letters for over 2 years. After the war, they married and Alison’s grandmother returned to England with her husband. However that didn’t really work out, so her grandfather moved to the states. Alison recalls MANY Christmases & Thanksgivings around their table with its oil cloth tablecloth and an old iron candelabra. The family gathered around & lite the candles. The tablecloth, candelabra & a small iron candle snuffer had been brought over from England. Alison remembers her grandparents sitting at either end of the table, the expectation to behave & how formal it all felt. Her grandfather was a bit gruff & stern, but the love was always present. Since this snuffer looked like a monk, it became known as The Monk. After the meal was over and the children had cleared the dishes, one lucky grandchild would be invited to put out the candles. This was often Alison, since she was the first grandchild & often the favored one. Alison would go to the kitchen to retrieve The Monk & slowly with much delight extinguish each candle one at a time. Since it didn’t have a long “arm” & it was made of iron, she could feel the snuffer getting hot & how it would send smoke into the air. She was so honored to inherit The Monk & every time she sees it she’s transported back in time to that table with her grandparents, parents, siblings & cousins and even to all families…. To community, love & history. Alison loves her dead well. This candle snuffer pulls up the love, grief, joy & everything. To find out more about this amazing woman who’s doing such important healing work in the world: https://badwidow.com/ This minisode was clipped from a LIVE virtual Show & Tale: My Favorite Thing (Kitchen Edition) with Green-Wood Cemetery death education program to build connections, community & legacy one story of stuff at a time. ________________________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next LIVE Show & Tales: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Hire me to host your next employee, volunteer, donor appreciation gathering, family, friend or college reunion, team building event & kickoff for your conference or retreat https://www.showandtales.com And if you identify as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky, etc., and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here: < Or Listen here:

Look &/or listen as my guest, Elizabeth Lenherr, takes us along on her coming of age journey through the stories woven into the fabric of her beautiful sarees. On the cusp of turning 27, Beth, as she’s also known, was offered a work opportunity to move to a remote island in the middle of the Indian ocean called Mauritius. She jumped at the chance. She had moved around the states a bit, but had mainly lived in rural Kansas most of her life. Most people looked like her and came from similar ethnic & religious backgrounds. Though she’s proud to call it home, she knows she lived a pretty sheltered life there. This move was her first BIG adventure. These sarees represent all she experienced & learned in her two years on Mauritius. From the moment Beth set foot on the island her senses were on overload! The humid air hit her, the intense colors vibrated & the food flooded her with sights, sounds & smells she’d never experienced before. Mauritian food is a fusion of Chineses, African & Indian cultures. It was a bit overwhelming but in a good way. Beth fell in love immediately. She found the Mauritian people to be warm & welcoming. Several people offered friendship & took Beth in as family. She was invited to weddings & local festivals and for each one she bought a new saree & jewelry. Her new family loved to help her dress in traditional Indian fashion and enjoyed watching her love it in return. Each time Beth got dressed up for an event she felt like a princess. Though she lived on the island for such a short time, this experience changed her life forever. It was a cultural exchange extraordinaire. Beth learned a lot about the Hindu faith, their different sects and the Muslim religion as well. She was invited to share her Catholic faith as well all in a peaceful and curious manner. When Elizabeth arrived back in Kansas she brought her sarees with her. Her Mom asked how she planned to preserve them (Thanks Mom!) … a comforter storage bag was the solution. Beth has moved that bag with her over the past 14 years. It even traveled to Scotland when she was invited to a Maritian friends wedding there. These sarees tell the tale of Beth’s coming of age. Her quest to deeply know herself & the life she wanted to live. Her true journey of exploration began on this island in the middle of the Indian ocean. Up until her move to Mauritius she had never really thought deeply about herself or her life. What does a fish know of water? There she was able to ask herself important questions: Who am I? Who do I want to be? What do I want to do? She thought about her privilege as a white, female American and what living with integrity means to her. Elizabeth’s personal journey of exploration are woven into the very fabric of these sarees. They inspire & inform her work as an executive leadership coach where she invites clients to be curious about their lives. To live this one life without regrets, to the fullest. She wants to gift her stories & sarees to her Goddaughter who’s only 3 years old. FYI: She found that Mauritian people have a tough time saying Beth, so she uses Elizabeth too! Find out more about this amazing woman here: www.elizabethlenherr.com. She also offers yearly retreats in Japan with a colleague: Here ______________________________________________________________________________ Let’s build more connections, community & legacy by sharing & listening to the stories of the Things that matter. Things don’t matter, but the stories that get attached to them often do. ______________________________________________________________________________ Join me at my next virtual or in-person Show & Tales here: https://www.showandtales.com/events/ Looking for a unique way to build deeper connections with your employees, volunteers, donors family, friends or alumni and conference or retreat attendees? Hire me or one of my story-sharing hosts: https://www.showandtales.com And if you are an artist, creative or service pro who identifies as different, an outsider, outlier, quirky etc and want to join a community of fellow WEIRDOS (Where Every Individual Remembers Doing Original Stuff) learning to market themselves in a way that feels do AND does good…. check out my online community of Show & Tales story-sharing hosts. You CAN enjoy marketing yourself and invite in abundance. Find out more: https://www.showandtales.com/community/ Watch here: Or Listen here: