THOUGHTS OF THEONLYDIVAHERE

you ever walk into a room and forget why you're there? Do you tell your friends you love tgem with ease?

yalls president compared to a folktale...who's your biggest cheerleader? Who are you cheering for?

Jill Scott new music & tiny desk performance...T.I. awakening GenX. Hoodoo/voodoo practitioners on social media and how are you all handling adult children at home? yall alright?

Perimenopause is hard for us women but did you know about Andropause in men?

You are not the same person you were in your teens! Hell!!!you're not the same person you were a year ago

I'm not being Mean...I'm just not actively making you Comfortable!

what does choosing you wholeheartedly include? Saying No to what doesn't serve you and yes to you including peace and tranquility. Their stress is not your's...others standing in their peace but disrupting yours is not beneficial

this is the season of deep connections, real love, and choosing soulmate energy!

Are you in need of a Ho Shaman or a Therapist? Let's Talk About It!

talking about sex, sexual confidence and all the in between

in order for change to happen. let go!

Being a Feral Fucktose Intolerant Bitch and embracing that shit!

letting of things people and experiences...decluttering

falling in love with myself in 2025

summer hiatus, bring in Gratitude with one's self and avoiding the dark thoughts,spaces and places

summer hiatus, bring in Gratitude with one's self and avoiding the dark thoughts,spaces and places

Self reflection on being triggered. Allowing space and grace to get through the triggered moment.

Know the value of You! You time and energy means a lot to others...it's the reason they bother with you!

How do you start your day? How do you spend money?

Women being called Domesticated and Feral! Are we wild beast waiting to be tamed? Damn

Why are we playing in each other's faces? Why are we wasting our own time & hurting our own feelings? How to find "the one" without ignoring the warning flags

No matter how lonely you get on your journey,you will not reinvite toxic people back in your life!

Sometimes, jealous folks are critical they are the batteries in our backs that give us power to move. They may move with those Audacity having selfish bastards that seek attention

Choosing folks to be in your life that Choose You for you and not just how you benefit them

The struggle with being the bigger person, toxic and petty behaviors. There's also the struggle with being holy or ratchet or worldly...what say you? How do you conquer the struggles , the perils of adult life balance

How do you take up space? Whether in the office,friend groups , or any room.

Directing ourselves,matching energy...self care ish

Which one are you?

Sometimes, you just have to handle folx accordingly. The mirror effect...living from a distance...it all matters when it comes to self care

Idle gossip about me is none of my business...living to my full potential is important.

Our energy is the driving force behind out success. What's your vibe?

Living your best life now. Should we hide who we are from our adult children? Freaknik has sparked fear in a great deal of parents & prosperous career driven men and women. Should we be ashamed of being young or is this the perfect teachable moment?

These new kids are different. They have high expectations but refuse to work hard for anything! Are Gen X & millennial parents the new boomers?

What's your vibe? How do others see you?

Fulfillment & Joy

You like taking care of people because it heals the part of you that needed someone to take care of you

A part of self care is appreciating self

Self-care is hard. So is getting out of your own way to greatness

I'm back folks...Dating still sucks but what's new

The last coffee date with a middle aged guy from the upper Eastside...Phallic offerings and taking a chance again during Covid...

Have you ever just felt like saying I'm tired of bring miserable? Have you wondered why it's hard to get others to take a chance on you.? Have you thought to take a chance on yourself? Let's chat...hear me out

Religion,spirituality,therapy, a confidant during the tough times to hold us together. I explore a church family while thinking of my spiritual growth and battling anxiety.

Taking a look at yourself aging while on a Zoom call

AN EPIDEMIC & A PANDEMIC ...Why the words of James Baldwin are still relevant today