Trans and Transparent

Answering questions we never though we would on the internet… and getting drunk while doing it (which didn’t help)Disclaimer: We don't encourage underage drinking, We are both of legal age so keep this in mind Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Trans & Transparent, we read an email Benji got from a trans man who shares how the lotus position has worked for him, which leads us into a broader conversation about sex and figuring out what actually feels good in your own body.We also talk more generally about sex, expectations, and the different ways people experience intimacy, plus Benji shares what it was like going to couples therapy for the first time and what he took away from it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’re getting into all the noise around the new Harry Potter series and why we’re not buying into it. We talk about the baggage that comes with the franchise, how it affects trans people and the wider queer community, and why choosing not to watch is actually a valid (and sometimes important) choice. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After a little break, we’re back and catching up on everything we’ve missed, life updates, chaos, and what it’s like jumping back on the apps.In this episode of Trans and Transparent, we go through Hunter’s Grindr messages… and yes, the chasers did not disappoint. From bizarre compliments to major red flags, we read and react to some truly unhinged conversations.It’s funny, uncomfortable, and a real look at how trans people get fetishized online. Grab a drink cause this one gets messy.Edited by Neo Hand Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Trans & Transparent, we talk honestly about what it feels like when dysphoria becomes overwhelming. Sometimes it sits quietly in the background, but other times it can feel suffocating and impact confidence, self-perception, and everyday life.We share personal experiences, how dysphoria shows up for us, and the ways we try to cope when it feels heavy.We also share a quick update. After this episode we will be taking a short break while we move studios, but Trans & Transparent will be back soon. Expect episodes to be coming out in April again! Editor Instagram @neos.neon_sounds Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever catch yourself thinking you’re “not trans enough” or somehow doing it wrong? That voice might not actually be yours. It might be internalized transphobia.In this episode of Trans and Transparent, we talk about what that really means, how it shows up in everyday life, and what it takes to start unlearning it. This is an honest conversation about shame, comparison, and finding your way back to yourself.Editor Instagram @neos.neon_sounds Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if we had been born cis? In this episode of Trans & Transparent, we get real about the “what ifs.” From privilege and passing to identity, dysphoria, and personal growth, we imagine what our lives might look like if we were cisgender and how being trans has shaped who we are today.Editor Instagram @neos.neon_sounds  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’re breaking down what actually matters when it comes to sex and intimacy as a trans person. Just real discussion about it all! We cover communication, consent, dysphoria, dating, disclosure, pleasure, and unlearning the expected. Honest, a little vulnerable, and very on-brandEditor Instagram @neos.neon_sounds Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In todays episode we catch up on whats been happening lately in our lives. We also proceed to talk about how LGBTQ+ spaces aren’t always as welcoming as they’re meant to be. This episode explores the experience of feeling left out within queer community, why it happens, and how to cope with the loneliness that can come with it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Benji sits down with his girlfriend to talk openly about what it’s like to date a trans man. We discuss relationship challenges, communication, and supporting each other through top surgery, plus some honest, spicy conversations about intimacy... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today we get into Nicki Minaj’s recent very weird and disappointing transphobic remarks, why they matter, why they’re harmful, and why celebs keep telling on themselves online. Then, just when we think the episode can’t get any stranger, we read and unpack one of the most insane emails we’ve ever received.Editor Instagram - @neos.neon_sounds Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today we talk about funny signs that you might be trans! After that we have a fun segment where we take a "Am I transgender?" Quiz, tune in to see the results of it!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we catch up on what’s been happening lately and take time to answer questions from the community. The conversation then turns to an important and honest discussion about safety as a trans woman. Realities Hunter navigates day to day, and practical considerations for staying safe while being out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Benji gets real about dealing with acne while on testosterone and the question a lot of people quietly ask: is bad skin a reason to stop T? In this episode, he talks through his own experience, what testosterone actually does to your skin, and the frustration of breakouts that don’t feel “temporary.” We also catch up on New Year’s and chat about the party we had before diving into the topic. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A New Year’s special with champagne, listener questions, and real talk. We look back on the year that was and share what we’re manifesting for the year ahead! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode explores what it means to celebrate Christmas as a trans person. From navigating family dynamics and holiday traditions to finding joy, safety, and authenticity during the festive season, the conversation reflects on the emotional realities many transgender people face at Christmas. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we rewind to our teenage years when everything felt bigger, louder, and just a little more dangerous. What starts as a casual trip turns into a heart pounding moment where we honestly thought we were about to get robbed. We break down the chaos, the fear, and the way our teenage brains handled the situation while laughing at how dramatic it all feels in hindsight. Along the way, we reflect on the reckless confidence, close calls, and unforgettable memories that shaped who we are now.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we break down the latest Jeffree Star controversy and the remarks that have been widely criticized as transphobic. From harmful talking points to tired internet tropes, we unpack why these comments sparked backlash, how they impact the transgender community, and what this says about influencer culture in 2025.Join us as we fact-check, drag (respectfully), and dissect the chaos while highlighting the importance of real LGBTQ+ allyship. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Trans and Transparent, we unpack the phrase “Protect the dolls”—where it comes from, who it uplifts, and whether trans men feel left out of the love. We dig into community language, belonging, and how we can show up for each other with clarity and care. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Benji’s back fresh from top surgery and ready to overshare. We talk about the highs, the chaos, the pillow fortress that saved his life, and the moment he realized T-Rex arms are very real. We discuss the ups and downs so far and how Benji is doing since having his surgery 2 weeks ago!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode dives into the essentials of binding and top surgery, offering practical guidance, safety tips, and personal insights for anyone exploring gender-affirming care. We break down how to choose and use binders safely, what to expect throughout the top surgery process, and how to navigate the emotional and physical journey along the way. Informative, supportive, and grounded in real experiences, this episode is here to help you feel prepared and understood. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s a question that stirs up a lot of feelings in the community — so we’re diving in, transparently. In this episode, we unpack the stereotypes, privileges, and challenges that shape trans men’s and trans women’s experiences. No competition, just conversation. Join us as we talk nuance, share personal stories, and remind everyone that we’re stronger when we lift each other up. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s spooky season, and we’re getting transparent in the dark! Join us for a Halloween special full of ghost stories, giggles, and maybe a few goosebumps. From classic hauntings to personal chills, we’re sharing tales that blur the line between the seen and unseen — all with our signature honesty and humor. Grab your blanket and tune in… if you dare. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Trans and Transparent, we’re swapping stories about what it’s really like living together — the funny moments, the little annoyances, and everything in between. From late-night laughs to awkward roommate situations, we’re keeping it real and a little ridiculous. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we’re diving deep (and laughing hard) as we scroll through some of the wildest, sweetest, and most relatable trans stories Reddit has to offer. From chaotic coming-out moments to unexpected allies, we react, reflect, and unpack what these stories say about trans life online and in the real world. Expect a mix of empathy and giggles about hilarious stories. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we dive into the practical side of gender expression: packing and tucking. Whether you're exploring gender-affirming tools for the first time, curious about safe methods, or just looking for tips to feel more comfortable in your body, this guide covers the essentials. We talk about different options, the do’s and don’ts for safety, and how these practices can impact confidence and self-expression. Plus, we share personal insights and resources to help you navigate what feels right for you.Benji's favorite soft packers:https://www.ackoboms.com/products/ackobom-ftm-2-in-1-big-glans-le03a?ref=BENJAMINASTROM (code: BENJI)https://www.mormeprosthetics.com/products/morme-soft-packer-uncut?aff=58Benji’s favorite prosthetic for play (code BENJI10):https://peecockproducts.com/inflatable-peecock-7inch.html?tracking=68be5b6129160Packing Underwear:https://clothingstarboy.com/products/packing-boxers-x3https://www.dys4ick.com/product-page/transform-packing-boxers Hunter's Favorite Tucking Panties https://tuckituppp.com/?ref=HUNTIRO (Use Code Huntiro)https://tcomfifits.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorgF0rTPKVa7mqDk-Vxy16oPCiGKEg2KIazZNX7KPDtbgjHnjk-    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Talking about Anxiety when you are trans and how to deal with it! We dive into a bunch of different conversations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Trans and Transparent, we get real about anxiety and how it shows up in daily life, especially while navigating transition. We talk through the ups and downs of being on different hormone timelines, the progress we’ve noticed, and the challenges that come with change happening at its own pace. To lighten things up, we wrap up with a hilarious segment where Hunter plays a round of Fuck, Marry, Kill! Things get unexpectedly chaotic!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we are joined by Eliah Reber for a fun and honest conversation about the changes that come with testosterone. From voice drops to body hair, Benji and Eliah build a tier list of their favorite (and least favorite) changes, sharing laughs, stories, and personal perspectives along the way.Instagram @eliah.rbr  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode we cover two conversations. First we talk about the realities of being trans content creators, from finding a voice online to handling visibility and vulnerability. Then we turn to toxic masculinity, how it shows up in our lives, how it affects relationships, and what it takes to push back against it.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Benji finally tries the wig!! We also talk about what it really means to stay present during sex when anxiety keeps showing up. From overthinking and performance pressure to the ups and downs of dating and learning to trust people, we open up about how these struggles shape intimacy and connection. Honest, unpolished, and very real!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we dive into the world of ballroom! It's a space built on creativity, competition, and community. We’ll talk about how ballroom started, what happens at a ball, and why it’s such an important part of LGBTQ+ culture. From houses to categories to voguing, this is an introduction to the energy and history that make ballroom unforgettable. Featuring Swedish Princess Samantha Angels and Chicago Angels. Instagram@[email protected] at the end - Flute HA by Esengo Angels  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So… how do you actually know if you’re trans? In this episode, we get real about the big, messy, exciting, and sometimes scary process of figuring out your gender. We’ll talk about the little signs you might notice, what gender euphoria feels like, and why there’s no one “right” way to be trans. Whether you’re questioning, already out, or just starting to wonder, this is a safe space to sort through those “what ifs” and maybe find a little clarity along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we’re shaking things up with a grab bag of fun, random questions that have absolutely nothing to do with transness. Just pure curiosity and laughter. From quirky hypotheticals to everyday mysteries you did not know you cared about, we are letting the conversation wander wherever it wants. Think of it as a brain snack buffet, surprising, silly, and just the right amount of weird. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Benji’s just back from celebrating Pride in Berlin, and this episode has it all: birthday chaos, club adventures, and his first (unsuccessful) attempt at using the urinals.Hunter shares how she ended up with free drinks at the club, and we talk about what it’s like being misgendered in public (plus how we both correct people). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're eacting to some of the wildest, weirdest, and most unhinged transphobic comments we've gotten. Expect sarcasm, shade, and lots of laughing at people who clearly have way too much time on their hands. :)Heads up, no video this week (tech fail, sorry!), so it’s audio-only. But trust us, the chaos still comes through loud and clear. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we dive into the complex and sometimes contradictory feelings around gender envy, what it means, where it comes from, and how it can actually guide us toward a more authentic version of ourselves. We also explore passing: practical tips for those who want to shift how they’re perceived, without compromising who they are.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Trans & Transparent we talk about our experiences with gender affirming surgeries including the emotional and physical impact of both top and bottom procedures. We also discuss how hair, whether it's a buzzcut, a wig, or something in between, plays a powerful role in how we express and affirm our gender. It's an honest look at transition, identity, and what it means to feel at home in your body.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join us as Samantha Angels shares their experience of being non-binary versus binary trans and dives into the world of ballroom and voguing. We explore how ballroom culture empowers trans and queer communities, and what it means to live beyond the binary. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode is all about sex — the good, the awkward, the confusing, and the awesome — from a trans perspective. We’re talking pleasure, bodies, dysphoria, euphoria, and figuring out what actually works for us. It’s honest, funny, and maybe a little messy!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Trans & Transparent, we talk about what it’s like attending a wedding as a trans person and the pressure to pass in gendered spaces. We share some funny and eye-opening dating stories, and explore the frustrating reality of how trans women are often seen as side pieces rather than real relationship material. We also reflect on what it means to feel desirable and how to build confidence in yourself. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Hunter shares her experience from a recent trip to Finland. They discuss the struggles with long queues for trans health care and alternative ways (and why Benji has to travel to Finland every three months). They also go over the side effects of testosterone along with possible solutions, with a humorous touch ofc ;) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Benji’s flying solo(ish) this week, with a very special guest: his girlfriend! While Hunter’s away, they answer questions about sex, dysphoria, and the real stuff that comes with being in a long term relationship. This episode is full of honesty, laughs, and maybe a little oversharing.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We look back at our worst pre-transition outfits (there were some horrible choices) and share our experiences traveling as trans people. We talk about awkward airport security moments and discuss packing (the trans masc kind). It’s a light, honest, fun, and slightly chaotic conversation about style regrets and navigating travel while being trans. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Trans and Transparent, we dive deep into the everyday yet often stressful experience of using public bathrooms as trans people. From anxiety, being misgendered and to the real fears around safety and discrimination. We unpack the social and political landscape that shapes this issue. Whether you’re trans, questioning, or an ally, this episode offers raw honesty, relatable insights, and a call for compassion and change!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we dive into what it’s like dating as trans people while answering questions from you guys! Navigating disclosure, safety, dysphoria, and those rare but beautiful moments of real connection. We share what’s been hard, what’s surprised us, and what we’ve learned along the way. It’s honest, personal, and all about finding love while staying true to yourself.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to realize you’re trans—often slowly, sometimes all at once, and rarely in a tidy way. We share the early signs we missed (or tried to ignore), what it felt like to finally say it out loud, and how we approached coming out to the people in our lives. It’s honest, a little messy, and hopefully a bit helpful too. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this very first episode, we’re spilling all the tea on how two trans besties ended up here. We’ve known each other since we were six, used to “date” (whatever that meant in primary school), came out to each other twice (as gay and trans), and somehow stayed best friends through all of it.We’re talking awkward childhood memories, chaotic coming outs, and why this podcast even exists. If you like friendship, gender confusion, and mildly embarrassing stories—we got you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.