Unfiltered Yaps

Routines aren’t just about structure, they’re about self-preservation. The quiet moments that remind us we’re allowed to care for ourselves, even when life feels chaotic. But somewhere along the way, routines started feeling like another thing to get right, another measure of discipline instead of peace. In this season finale of Unfiltered Yaps, I unpack my love-hate relationship with routines, what it really means to show up for yourself with grace, and how I’m learning to see routine as an act of care, not control.We’ll talk about your answers to “What’s the part of your daily routine that helps you feel most grounded?” from making the bed and brushing your hair, to stretching, tidying up at night, and planning for the next day. I’ll share how my idea of routine has shifted from rigid schedules to softer rituals, why I think grace is more sustainable than discipline, and the reminder that even imperfect consistency still counts as showing up.Plus, this week’s journal prompt to help you reflect on what peace could look like if your routine wasn’t built around productivity, and a thank you for being part of this first season for listening, engaging, and growing with me. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Parasocial relationships aren’t just about fandom, they’re about the illusion of connection we build with people who don’t actually know us. In a world where access feels endless, it’s easy to forget that admiration doesn’t equal intimacy, and that being online doesn’t make someone yours to dissect. In this episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I unpack the messy, fascinating space between connection and consumption, and what it means to create healthy boundaries in the digital age.We’ll talk about your answers to “What’s your opinion on parasocial relationships?” from “paying emotional rent to someone who doesn’t know I exist,” to thoughts on how social media makes it harder to keep distance, to the way creators can unintentionally blur those same lines with their own audiences. I’ll share why I think we can’t (and shouldn’t) eliminate parasocial relationships completely, how being both a creator and a consumer makes me rethink what “healthy engagement” looks like, and the reminder that connection doesn’t have to mean access.Plus, this week’s journal prompt to help you reflect on how you want people to engage with you and how you can protect your own energy when you’re the one engaging online. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Body image isn’t about vanity, it’s about the words and experiences that stick with us long after they’re said. Somewhere along the way, many of us were made aware of our bodies before we even thought to notice them, and those early comments shaped the way we learned to see ourselves. In this episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I share what body image has looked like across different experiences and why shifting how we feel matters more than trying to force ourselves to love every part of how we look.We’ll talk about your answers to “What was your first experience with body image?” from being called fat in the fourth grade, to classmates suggesting bangs to hide acne, to parents and family members making remarks that still linger years later. I’ll also share why body neutrality feels more real than toxic positivity, how choosing fits I feel good in has changed the way I carry myself, and the reminder that nobody is looking at us as hard as we’re looking at ourselves. Plus, this week’s journal prompt to help you release the narratives that no longer serve you. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Manifesting isn’t about sitting back and waiting for life to happen, it’s about setting a desire, trusting it, and moving in alignment with it. Somewhere along the way, many of us were taught to dream big but not always taught how to pair those dreams with action. In this episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I share what manifestation has looked like in my own life and why intention only works when you’re willing to show up for it.We’ll talk about your answers to “Have you ever set an intention, affirmation, or goal that ended up coming true?” from calling in love, to shifting your day with a simple affirmation, to putting in the daily work to land your dream career. I’ll also share how I once wrote down a job title in my notebook and made it real, why affirmations hit different when you say them in the mirror, and the reminder that faith without action is just wishful thinking. Plus, this week’s journal prompt to help you name what you want and take the first step toward it. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Understanding and healing our attachment styles isn’t always easy. Somewhere along the way, many of us learned patterns that helped us survive as kids — but those same patterns can leave us anxious, avoidant, or fearful when it comes to love, friendship, and connection. In this episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I share what it looks like to recognize your attachment style and start moving toward security: the lessons, the healing, and the reminder that you are allowed to ask for what you need.We’ll talk about your answers to “What’s your relationship attachment style, and why?” the childhood roots that shape how we show up as adults, my own journey of realizing I’m an anxiously attached girly and learning how to name my needs without shame, and this week’s journal prompt to help you reflect on what makes you feel safe in your relationships. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Finding and keeping hobbies isn’t always easy. Somewhere along the way, many of us traded the things that once brought us joy for endless work, hustle culture, or just survival mode. In this episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I share what it looks like to reclaim hobbies as a form of self-care: the joy, the healing, and the reminder that you are more than your productivity.We’ll talk about your answers to “What hobbies have you discovered that feel surprisingly therapeutic or healing, and why?”, the surprising ways coloring, gardening, baking, and even gaming can nourish your soul, my own journey of rediscovering reading, cozy gaming, and going back to the movies after burnout, and this week’s journal prompt to help you reflect on what truly lights you up simply for the joy of doing it. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Talking about money isn’t always easy. Most of us grew up without real financial literacy and learned our lessons the hard way: through debt, emergencies, or trial and error. In this episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I share what it looks like to face the emotions behind money: the fear, the shame, the impulse to spend, and the balance between saving for security and actually enjoying your life.We’ll talk about your answers to “What’s the hardest money lesson you’ve learned so far?”, the importance of emergency funds and financial independence, the hard truths about credit cards and co-signing, and this week’s journal prompt to help you reflect on the beliefs you inherited about money and the progress you’re already making. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Setting boundaries sounds simple, but actually holding them? That’s the messy part. In this episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I share what it really means to create boundaries that protect your peace, how to tell the difference between a boundary and a wall, and why choosing yourself isn’t selfish it’s self-respect.We’ll talk about your answers to “What boundaries do you have in place?”, the messy realities of saying no without explaining, why Do Not Disturb can be a form of self-care, how boundaries shift our relationships, and this week’s journal prompt to help you explore the lines you’ve been afraid to draw. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Feeling your emotions isn’t always easy. Most of us were taught to push them down, distract ourselves, or try to “fix” instead of letting them be felt. In this episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I share what it looks like to actually sit with your feelings, notice them in your body, and shift from a mindset of fixing to one of healing.We’ll talk about your answers to “What does feeling your emotions actually mean to you?”, the ways distraction and repression show up in our lives, how therapy and community can change our relationship with vulnerability, and this week’s journal prompt to help you pause and let your feelings be real. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Being single can be freeing, peaceful, and full of joy but it can also come with an ache for more. In this episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I share what it’s looks like for me to be single, whole, and thriving, and why wanting love doesn’t take away from being fulfilled right now.We’ll talk about your answers to “What has being single taught you about yourself emotionally, mentally, or practically?”, the lessons I’ve learned about self-worth, peace, and boundaries, and this week’s journal prompt to help you celebrate the parts of single life that actually feel good. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

Fear keeps us safe, but it can also keep us stuck. In this first episode of Unfiltered Yaps, I share how perfectionism, visibility, and vulnerability have held me back, and why I finally decided to “do it afraid.” We’ll talk about your answers to “If fear wasn’t an obstacle, what would you be doing?”, my own journey to pressing publish, and this week’s journal prompt to help you move through fear. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com

This podcast is for the strong friends, the feelers, the deep thinkers, and the ones healing in real time. We talk identity, boundaries, burnout, softness, and the messy middle of being human without pretending to have it all figured out.If you’ve ever spiraled in your Notes app, processed out loud, or tried to hold it all together while falling apart... this is your space.New episodes drop weekly, covering everything from being seen to setting boundaries to redefining softness on your own terms. Sometimes it’s just me. Sometimes it’s stories from real people like you. But it’s always real. Always messy. Always honest.🎧 Hit subscribe so you don’t miss the first full episode next week.💌 Share this with someone who yaps as hard as you do.🖤 And if this trailer hits, leave a comment or reply and let me know what you’re excited to hear. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit unfilteredyaps.substack.com