Unholy Feminists

Not all men but 62 million website visits to a platform where men share ideas, images and videos on violating their wives and partners. Join us on this episode as we delve into;  1. What the rape academy is? 2. The backlash against it and how some people, especially men have been defending it 3. Why is this happening? Have men always been so awful? 4. Is it an all-men problem or some-men problem? 5. Are we doing anything as a society to stop this? 6. Male loneliness epidemic is justified 7. What should we, especially men, do about this? Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on feminism, dating, self-care, body and sex positivity and pleasure with your hosts, Cath and Gail. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, DEEZER, PODCAST INDEX, PLAYER FM, POD CHASER & PODCAST ADDICT.

Across cultures, men are encouraged to eat to be manly, while women are encouraged to eat in moderation to maintain their femininity. On this episode, we talk about; 1. When was the first time you've been made conscious about your body? 2. Have you ever had anyone comment on your eating habits? 3. Why does the patriarchy want us to starve? 4. What can we do about it? Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on feminism, dating, self-care, body and sex positivity and pleasure with your hosts, Cath and Gail. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, DEEZER, PODCAST INDEX, PLAYER FM, POD CHASER & PODCAST ADDICT.

When does "i'm just a baby girl" and being your authentic feminine self cross the line into infantilisation? On this episode, we delve into; 1. Can whimsy be an act of rebeliion to "strong woman" expectations or does it reinforce ideas of women as childlike and independent? 2. What actually is infantilization and why are some women so quick to label feminine as weakness? 3. When we attack women who lean into their softness what are we really centering? Is it her experience or the aesthetics? 4. Is princess treatment repackaged dependence or reclaiming femininity? 5. When and how can we draw the line between critique and internalized misogyny? Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on feminism, dating, self-care, body and sex positivity and pleasure with your hosts, Cath and Gail. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, DEEZER, PODCAST INDEX, PLAYER FM, POD CHASER & PODCAST ADDICT.

There has been a recent scare over how conservative Gen Z men are, compared to other generations. In this episode we talk about; 1. The new research on Gen Z men 2. Why are Gen Z men so regressive? 3. Is it beyond hope at this point to work with Gen Z men? 4. Where do we go from here? Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on feminism, dating, self-care, body and sex positivity and pleasure with your hosts, Cath and Gail. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, DEEZER, PODCAST INDEX, PLAYER FM, POD CHASER & PODCAST ADDICT.

The prison system is one of the most oppressive system to exist. But what alternatives are there for crimes such as sex offence, rape, sexual assualt? Is rehabilitation realistic? We delve into; 1. What the prison system in our country looks like? Do we believe in prison reform or abolishing prisons? 2. Can rapists of any age be rehabilitated? Can rehabilitation excuse harm? 3. Is there still space for survivor trauma if perpertrators are being rehabilitated? What will this look for survivors? 4. Are some sexual violence beyond rehabilitation? Are these people even capable of change? Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on feminism, dating, self-care, body and sex positivity and pleasure with your hosts, Cath and Gail. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, DEEZER, PODCAST INDEX, PLAYER FM, POD CHASER & PODCAST ADDICT.

We're man-haters and we mean this exactly as you think of it. But....are misandrists justified? Is misandry even as bad as misogyny is? Are we hating men to our full potential as women? On this episode we talk about; 1. What is misandry? Difference between misogyny and misandry 2. Why do women hate men now? 3. Is it so bad, really? 4. Is the divide something that women, men (and gender-diversed folks) can overcome? Do we even have to? 5. What do men need to do to be less hated? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

When you get radicalized, there's no veil. You see the dirtiest bits in habits, people and systems and it can get overwhelming sometimes. We unpack;  1. When we realized we were radicalized?  2. What has being politically aware given us?  3. Has it affected us negatively? 4. How we navigate burnout from knowing and seeing so much that many people wilfully ignore?  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Dressing for the male gaze goes beyond revealing clothes. In this episode, we talk about;  1. what dressing for the male gaze is 2. Define male gaze 3. What are the drawbacks to dressing for the male gaze? How can women walk the line between dressing for ourselves and staying safe? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Are liberals taking sex positivity too far? When does the line get blurred? In this conversation, we unpack;  1. What is sex positivity and how does it relate to feminism? 2. When does it stop serving women? 3. Can your sexual desires feel good personally and still uphold harmful systems?  4. What would the ideal sex-positivity feminism look like for women while ensuring their safety?  Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on feminism, dating, self-care, body and sex positivity and pleasure with your hosts, Cath and Gail.  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

The men complaining about the male loneliness epidemic probably deserve to be lonely because of their deep-seated disgust for women. On this episode, we talk about the trending usage of Grok and other AI models in image-based abuse of women on the internet. We;  1. Give context on how men have been undressing women using AI on Twitter 2. Why is this problem happening? 3.How will AI exascerbate this problem? 4. How can these men be held accountable? 5. What can we do about it? 6. Thoughts on the future of AI and how it can lead to more sexual violence Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

We wrap up the year by sharing lessons we learned in 2025. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Do you know conservative men are wokefishing as a way to break down feminists and liberal women? In this episode we talk about;  1. What is performative male allyship? 2. Seriously, what is wrong with these performative males? 3. How can we tell when a male "ally" is being performative? 4. Can men actually be feminists? 5. Okay, so how can men actually be good allies? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

In this episode we take a look at the nativity story with all the buzz around Christmas and it's significance.  We delve into;  1. A quick recount of the birth of Jesus in the Bible.  2. What are the predominant themes in the story? (purity, self-sacrifice, obedience)  3. What would the story read like if Mary had consent and autonomy?  4. How does religious conditioning shape how most families police women's choices? 5. Practical ways to claim your sense of self and autonomy and not be a "Holy Mother" this Christmas and festive season. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

If you get triggered by "All men", go sit in the corner and thing about why that phrase makes you so defensive.  In this episode, we unpack why "not all men" is BS and delve into;  1. Why is it harmful? 2. Are all men really bad? 3. What can men do? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

What were you wearing? What did you go there? Boys will be boys. He bullies you because he likes you. These sentences that enable victim blaming and rape culture has been normalized and we delve into the harm it causes in this episode.  1. What is rape culture? 2. In what ways does society reinforces, normalize and excuse rape culture? 3. How do power, gender, class and race play a role in who is blamed and who is believed? (victim blaming, public perception etc) 4. What will a culture that centres consent and accountability look like? (the role of men, the media and feminists) Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Ever heard the phrase, "Men will embarass you!" because they sure will!  Sit with us as we dissect the viral vogue articles and share our opinion on if and why having a boyfriend is embarrassing. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

What happens when feminism meets the boyfriend in modern dating? The 50/50 conversations, the emotional labor trap. Let's get into how patriarchy thrives on romance and what equality looks like between and beyond the sheets. In this episode, we talk about; 1. What does soft life even mean and who gets to live it? We can localize it... 2. Can you be a feminist and still want a provider partner? Or are you reinforcing patriarchal ideals by wanting it? 3. How do women unlearn the idea that struggle equals strength?  4. Are modern relationship only aesthetically feminist? How does finances look for you in your relationships? 5. How can we redefine comfort, care, and partnership in ways that don’t depend on patriarchy? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Is every choice inherently feminist? As much as sex workers deserve to have rights and the industry needs legalization, can we say it is an empowering choice? Why can't it just be a job?  In this episode, we delve into;  1. What is sex work? 2. The debate amongst SWERFs about sex work 3. Purity culture and its damnation of sex work 4. Is sex work exploitation or empowerment? 5. White feminism and how it ignores the context of sex work in lower-income countries 6. How do we make sex work safer for sex workers? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

How do we feel after having an orgasm? Do we feel post-nut clarity or something more glowing than that? And of course, we're also going to talk about aftercare as well, but a good orgasm has to end with a good aftercare as well. Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on pleasure, the big O, sex positivity and body positivity as a feminist with your hosts, Cath and Gail.  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminist and LISTEN to us on SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, DEEZER, PODCAST INDEX, PLAYER FM, POD CHASER & PODCAST ADDICT. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Existential crisis? Don’t worry, we’ve all been there!  This is a yapping session, no structure, no wise words, just women talking about how weird men are and why we are saddled with periods.  Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on pleasure, the big O, sex positivity and body positivity as a feminist with your hosts, Cath and Gail.  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Incel culture, Charlie Kirk, Misogyny we talk about the red pill "movement" and the adverse consequence of this on society and women. On this episode, we dive into;  1. What happened with Charlie Kirk 2. Charlie Kirk is a symptom to a bigger problem 3. What are red-pilled men 4. How does all this tie to the male loneliness epidemic 5. Honestly, should we even care if the men are lonely? 6. Call for male allyship Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

How many people have you slept with? Don’t worry, we don’t actually want your answer. But isn’t it funny how that number, your so-called ‘body count’ has become society’s favorite scoreboard? If it’s too low, you’re a prude. High, a slut. In this episode, we dive into;  What is body count culture and who's counting? The slut/prude trap (being called a prude when you're not sexually active and a slut when you are) How does sex shame affects desires? Discuss performative sex, the pressure to be good at sex influencing hoe phases, slut era etc How does one claim their sexual agency without drowning in all these misogynistic ideals? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Girlhood, friendships and platonic soulmates.... In this episode, we get into beauty standards, navigating body image with support people; 1. What were some of the first comments you remember getting about your body as a child or teen?  2. What beauty standards did you internalize growing up? 3. Tell each other what stands out when we look at the other person, could be physical, emotional etc and ask the other if they agree with it. 4. What are some ways in which we hide, shrink or perform confidence around people?  5. Has the other person done or said anything that helped shift your body-perception? Share  6. How can we reframe bad body days? Share tips Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Virginity is a social construct used to control women like so many things. Purity culture was born out of the need for men to feel like they fully own a woman. In this episode, we explore: 1. What is purity culture? 2. How did purity culture come to be and how does it serve patriarchy? 3. How does purity culture harm women? 4. What can we do to fight purity culture?     Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Men as romantic partners is a great concept but in reality, you always need to watch your back and your front. We explore the nitty gritties of dating men as a feminist and talk about;  1. How patriarchy shows up in relationships?  2. What are some red flags feminists and women in general can look out for when dating to avoid these men? 3. In your ideal world as a feminist, what will dating look like? 4. Things to do to avoid losing your sense of self while dating                Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Will the way people perceive sex change if it's looked at through a feminist lens? In this episode we delve into;  1. Bell Hooks - The will to change; men, masculinity, and love 2. How are boys and men taught about sex? 3. Sex and male domination 4. How the word "fuck" is used in a violent way, giving ways to violence in sex 5. How do we deconstruct all that Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Every girl/woman knows a pick-me. In this episode, we talk about pick me culture and give some pointers on how to beat the system and choose yourself. We delve into;  1. What exactly is a pick me? 2. Share personal experiences and how  internalized misogyny pit women against each other for male attention. 3. Ways in which pop-culture, media, class, race, politics and upbringing influences pick-me tendencies  4. Can feminists have pick-me tendencies?    5. Healing, unpacking shame and what choosing yourself and other women looks like.     Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

How dark does your sexual fantasies get? Do you ever wonder if you're crossing a line? Does it terrify you? In this episode we delve into this topic and why your fantasies can be problematic. We talk about;  1. Cybrothel in Germany 2. What are dark sexual fantasies? 3. When is it okay and when does it cross the line into real-life danger? 4. What's the difference between women and men having dark fantasies? Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

As girls, we are told to be likable to society. As women, we are told to be pretty but not too sexy and treated as ornaments for men and society at large. In this episode, we talk about: 1. What does good girl conditioning look like? 2. Sexual shame, Patriarchy and religion 3. Impact of sexual suppression due to shame 4. Ways to unlearn good girl conditioning and reclaim your sexuality. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Have you ever wondered how and why it's necessary for women to decenter men in their lives? Do you wonder how you can say f the male gaze while still pursuing romantic relationships with men? This episode is for you!  We talk about;  1. What is decentering men 2. Why should women decenter men 3. How do you decenter men when you still have to bang them Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Have you ever looked at your labia? Do you know how many holes you have down there? Let's dive into why you should.  As women, we are saddled with so many beauty standards and societal expectations of how we should look that sometimes we do not make time out to really see ourselves. Have you ever looked at your labia? Let's dive into why you should!  On this episode, we discuss;  1. How the beauty standard makes women insecure about their labia 2. Labiaplasty 3. Why does society shame women for knowing their body 4. What's the power in seeing and knowing your own labia 5. How can women and girls get to know their bodies better Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE, LIKE and turn on NOTIFICATIONS for weekly conversations on pleasure, the big O, sex positivity and body positivity as a woman with your hosts, Cath and Gail.  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

We’re not pros in kinks but in this episode, we delve into navigating power play kinks like submission, degradation and existing as a feminist. We discuss;  1. Whether being a submisssive makes you less feminist 2. ⁠Are all kinks internalized patriarchy?  3. ⁠How to center your pleasure as a feminist with kinks.  If you’ve ever been made to question your sexual preferences as a feminist, this episode is for you.  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

We talk about smut (all the different genres) and why men seem to have weird feelings about women who read. In this episode, we delve into: 1. The difference between erotica, smutty romance, and romance. 2. ⁠Is erotica porn?  3. ⁠Why are men anti-smut?  4. ⁠How erotica can help you discover your sexuality as a woman.  Whether you’re new to smut or an OG, this episode is for you!  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

On this episode, we have a candid conversation about s3x toys and dive into;  1. Our first time learning about s3x toys.  2. ⁠People's attitudes towards s3x toys in our countries. 3. ⁠Our experience using and buying them. 4. ⁠Why women should experiment with s3x toys.  Whether you’re a man, woman, or someone new to toys, we overshare in this episode to give you all the tips you need to use these essential aids.  Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.

Welcome to the first episode of our podcast with your feminist hosts, Cath and Gail, where we give you real, raw, unfiltered opinions on female sexual pleasure and sometimes overshare to get our points across.  Why is women's sexual pleasure stigmatized and overlooked? In this episode, we dive into:  1. Why female pleasure is so important 2. First time learning about female pleasure  3. Taboos around female pleasure (country context) 4. What women and girls can do to discover their sexual pleasure Whether you're a beginner to self-exploration or a veteran like us, this episode is packed with a lot of tea and zero shame! Find us on Instagram and TikTok @unholyfeminists and LISTEN to us on your favorite podcast apps.