unSUCKcessful Podcast

In this episode of unSUCKcessful, we sit down with Jessalyn Wanlim — actress (you’ll recognize her as Jenny from Workin’ Moms), real estate agent, home builder, and content creator — to talk about the messy middle of life, reinvention, and redefining success on your own terms. Jessalyn shares the behind-the-scenes truth about being let go after season one of Workin’ Moms (and coming back anyway), the pressure of navigating Hollywood politics, the struggle to be taken seriously in multiple careers, and the power of embracing the “and” — actor and realtor and builder and creative. We cover: The realities of working in TV (and getting fired for saying no) Letting go of ego and learning to pivot Perimenopause, identity shifts, and finding clarity in your 40s Why it’s okay to suck — and still keep going Why we need to stop asking, “So what do you do?” Jessalyn gets candid, hilarious, and totally relatable in this empowering conversation about choosing yourself, even when the world tells you otherwise. 📍 Follow Jessalyn: Instagram → @justjessinnashville 🎧 Like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who’s figuring it out — one sucky moment at a time. The podcast where we suck, and so do you... but that’s okay.

This week on unSUCKcessful, we’re joined by entrepreneur and membership business expert Paige Vandy, who gets real about the unexpected road that led her to build a 7-figure business. 🚀 From being sent away to a therapeutic boarding school as a teen to growing a powerhouse brand that empowers women to scale with memberships — Paige shares how trauma shaped her drive, and how healing became part of her success strategy. We dive into: Paige’s boarding school experience and how it changed her life Building a values-driven business that scales Overcoming trauma while growing an empire What success really means (spoiler: it's not just money) How to create recurring revenue and impact through memberships ✨ Get ready for a raw, inspiring, and totally unfiltered conversation about entrepreneurship, healing, and embracing your whole self along the way. 👀 Learn more about Paige at paigevandy.com or follow her on Instagram @themembershipmuse 🎧 Don’t forget to like, follow, and share — this is one you’ll want to send to your business bestie.

This week on unSUCKcessful, we’re joined by Ashlyn Gunderson—podcaster, fitness coach, entrepreneur, and reality TV competitor—for a real, raw, and energizing conversation about what happens when life doesn’t go as planned. Ashlyn opens up about the challenges of juggling business and motherhood, the unexpected twists in her journey, and how she built resilience through some of her toughest life moments. From losing almost everything to stepping into the spotlight on Canada’s Ultimate Challenge, Ashlyn shows us what it means to rise, rebuild, and lead with authenticity. She shares her unfiltered thoughts on: Redefining success after setbacks Building emotional and mental resilience What it’s really like to be on reality TV Being a mom and business owner without losing yourself This episode is for anyone who’s had to pivot, push through, or pick themselves up again—because sometimes success starts with falling apart. 👉 Don’t forget to follow, rate, and share the show with someone who needs to hear this today!

This week on unSUCKcessful, we’re diving into a juicy one—commitment issues. From tattoos to relationships, business decisions to burnout, we explore why commitment can feel so dang terrifying. Jenny and Brandi share personal stories, reflect on family dynamics, and unpack the emotional baggage behind the fear of permanence. We’re talking small “t” and big “T” trauma, control issues, the dreaded “ick,” and how commitment (or the lack of it) shows up in business, love, and life. If you’ve ever overcommitted and resented it later, or if even picking a paint color feels overwhelming—this episode’s for you. Don’t forget to like, follow, and share with a friend who can’t even commit to weekend plans. 🙃

In this episode of UnSUCKcessful, Jen and Brandi dive into the world of personality tests and ask the tough question: Are you still defining yourself by a test you took 10 years ago? From Enneagram numbers and Myers-Briggs types to love languages, astrology, and DISC assessments—this episode explores the tools we’ve used to define who we are and how we relate to others. But have these helpful tools turned into limiting labels? And what if you’ve actually evolved? We talk self-awareness, identity shifts, emotional growth, relationships, and why it’s totally okay if your old results don’t fit anymore. Because personal growth means not staying stuck in a personality box. ✨ Highlights include: • When personality tests help—and when they don’t • How identity shifts with motherhood, business, burnout & healing • Why your old “type” might be holding you back • Fun, honest, real-life convos—with the usual laughs and truth bombs 🎧 Don’t forget to follow, share, and review the podcast! 📲 Screenshot and tag us on Instagram @unsuckcessful.podcast

This week on UnSUCKcessful, we’re digging into time blocking, organization, and why none of it is helping if you're still feeling like a crispy little burnout biscuit. Jen and Brandi talk productivity systems, calendar color-coding, mental load juggling, and why even the best time management can’t fix emotional overload. If you're trying to do it all and still feeling behind, this episode is for you. And spoiler alert—Jen drops a mic-drop moment at the end that might just change how you look at burnout forever. 🙃 ✅ We cover: Time-blocking vs. energy management Burnout myths and why moms and entrepreneurs are especially vulnerable Emotional labor and hidden expectations The mindset shifts that might matter more than your planner 👇 Don’t forget to: ✨ Like ✨ Subscribe ✨ Take a screenshot of your favorite moment and tag us on Instagram @unsuckcessful.podcast Because UnSUCKcessful is the podcast where we help you suck… just a little bit less.

In this episode, energy healer Cindy Tradewell joins us to talk about emotional healing, grounding, trauma, and using energy work to redefine success. From Reiki to spirit guides and the frequency of healing, this one’s a soul-deep listen. You can find Cindy at her website: https://www.healingenergy4all.ca/  

In this episode, our husbands Nick and Brent take the mic to share their perspective on what it’s like living with two emotional, entrepreneurial women in midlife. From burnout and grief to parenting, hormones, and holding space—they bring honesty, humor, and a lot of heart.

Brandi’s longtime friend Shonna Dexter joins us to talk about the mental, emotional, and hormonal rollercoaster of midlife—and why she chose sobriety in the middle of it all. This is a raw, honest look at success, wellness, and the power of listening to your body.  

In this episode, we’re getting real about mental health—from anxiety and depression to our personal experiences with SSRIs, therapy, and the emotional pressure of trying to hold it all together. If you’re struggling, this one’s for you.

In this powerful episode, Crystal Noell shares what happens when leadership gets lonely, business relationships break down, and success doesn’t look the way you thought it would. From betrayal to financial mistakes, this is an honest look at entrepreneurship, identity, and growth through the suck.

We’re joined by Rob & Gary of The Journeymen Collective to talk about rock bottoms, spiritual breakthroughs, and the deep, intentional work of healing through psilocybin plant medicine journeys. This one is powerful, unexpected, and life-changing.

Ever feel like asking for help means you’re failing? 😬 You’re not alone—and you’re definitely not weak. In fact, studies show most people want to help—you just have to ask.

This week we’re going deep into limiting beliefs—what they are, how to identify them, and a step-by-step way to start shifting the stories holding you back. From self-doubt to subconscious sabotage, this episode will help you call it out and move forward.

Ever feel like the more you try, the more you suck? In this episode, we’re unpacking the concept of Beginner’s Mind—what it means, how to embrace it, and why showing up as a beginner can actually be your biggest asset. From impostor syndrome to learning new things in your 40s, this one is full of truth, laughs, and mindset shifts.

Women aren’t built for hustle culture—but we’ve been conditioned to push through exhaustion anyway. This week, we’re diving into how the feminine cycle impacts energy, productivity, and business—and why men need to understand this too. What if success wasn’t about doing more, but about syncing with your body?

Have you ever felt like the harder you try, the worse you get? We’re unpacking competition, pressure, and why effort doesn’t always lead to success. Plus, Hobbes the dog makes a surprise (and slightly disruptive) guest appearance. 🐶

Brandi’s spent years chasing success—but was it really what she wanted? From banking to beauty to having what she calls her "spare baby," this episode is all about breaking free from people-pleasing, perfectionism, and massive identity shifts.

Losing my dad wasn’t the hardest part—it was the two years after. Anxiety, panic, and an identity crisis had me ready to walk away from my business and everything I’d built. In this episode, I open up about what grief really looks like, how I almost lost myself, and how I found my way back.

Ever sworn you’d never do something… and then did it anyway? That’s exactly how this podcast started. In this first episode of UnSUCKcessful, we share how this crazy idea came to life, why traditional success is total BS, and how failure, burnout, and even crying in the car can lead to something better. Love this episode? Screenshot & tag us @UnSUCKcessfulPodcast! New episodes weekly—subscribe now!