Untamed

What do a PhD archaeologist, an Israeli Army general, Harrison Ford, and a 4,000-year-old Egyptian measuring stick have in common? This episode.Kevin Dieckilman  has led 66 tours through Israel, earned his doctorate from Hebrew University in Jerusalem, survived missile attacks on the ground in Gaza, and once held a cup dug from King David’s palace in his bare hands. He sat across from one of the founders of the modern State of Israel — and what that man told him changed everything.You won’t hear this in a history class. Here’s what we uncovered:    ∙ The ONE piece of land on Earth that has never been stolen — and why it changes every modern argument about occupied territory    ∙ A secret chord King David played that, according to ancient Jewish tradition, will not be heard again until the Messiah returns    ∙ A 4,000-year-old Egyptian measuring stick that quietly contains the meaning of life — and redefines what success actually looks like    ∙ His unexpected connection to Indiana Jones — and the hat signed by Harrison Ford that started it all   ∙ A plan to produce the end of the world using AI in a way nobody has tried before    ∙ What it actually feels like to be underground in a bunker the day missiles are fired — and what he saw that the news never showed youThis conversation goes places we didn’t plan. Don’t miss it.Hit play. You’ll want to clear your schedule.Easter Presentation in Huntsville March 26-April 2! Website: imagineministries360.com Facebook Imagine Ministries — https://www.facebook.com/imagineministries360Facebook Personal Page —https://www.facebook.com/kevin.dieckilman.5

A true serial entrepreneur, Chris Gothart has built a construction business (Gothart Homes) a property management company (Gothart Property Management) with his wife and flipped more houses than he can count. THEN he and his wife felt called to open a restaurant — with no restaurant background whatsoever. What followed was one of the hardest seasons of their lives, and a beautiful new restaurant—Mo' Bay Beignet Co. in Harvest, AL. In this episode, Chris opens up about: ∙ The night he stood alone in an unfinished house and couldn’t take anymore — and what showed up at the window ∙ The moment holding his newborn daughter taught him something about God he’d never understood ∙ Why he says he was “a dark shell of a man” while everyone told him he was killing it ∙ What his wife pushed him to do that he absolutely did not want to — and how it changed everything ∙ The one discipline that completely rewired his home, his marriage, and his business ∙ The Wednesday night confirmation that came out of nowhere and sent them “guns ablazing”Whether you’re a person of faith or not — the way this man talks about risk, calling, family and knowing when to keep going will make you think.YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_TrtiQRE6U&t=2422s

What happens when you walk away from your job with no plan, no college degree, and nothing but a prayer?Nathan Jenkins found out the hard way.After leaving his job in a moment of pride, Nathan ended up crying on his living room floor, begging God for direction. He had no business experience, barely made it through high school, and was considered the least likely to succeed. But what happened next defies every conventional business playbook as God helped him build a company that now ranks in the top 1% of all US businesses revenue. But here’s the cost nobody talks about: While building from his garage to a 20,000 square foot warehouse, Nathan missed his kids’ early years. His daughter was young, his son a toddler—the ages when their entire personality forms. It’s his deepest regret, and now he warns every entrepreneur: don’t sacrifice the people who matter most while chasing what you think matters.In this raw conversation, Nathan reveals: 👉 The terrifying moment he realized he’d made a catastrophic mistake leaving his job 👉What God spoke to him during his darkest hour that changed everything👉The unusual “ask” that opened doors with vendors who had every reason to say no👉The COVID shutdown day when fear nearly destroyed everything he’d built👉Why scheduled a meeting to apologize to an employee for something they didn’t even know about👉The customer service secret that turns angry, cussing clients into loyal advocates👉How a book he read in one sleepless night became the catalyst for everything👉Why he runs a “customer complaint department” for his wife—and what it teaches about businessThis isn’t a “hustle harder” story. This is about a man who discovered that when you surrender your plans, God’s plans are infinitely bigger. Nathan now runs a thriving operation that still prioritizes its employees and their personal and spiritual wellbeing. Listen to him tell the real stories of what he’s learned about putting people over profit and maintaining extreme integrity when no one, but God, is watching.If you’ve ever felt underqualified, overwhelmed, or like you’re not “business material”… this episode will wreck you in the best possible way.The business lessons are gold. The faith lessons will change how you see everything.

You’ve built something. You’re leading. You’re providing. But there’s a gap between where you are and who you’re meant to become—and you can feel it.Most Christian businessmen hit a ceiling not because they lack drive, but because they’re missing something every high-performer needs but few actually pursue.Marc and Joel open up about the specific relationships that changed the trajectory of their lives, the uncomfortable conversations that shaped them, and why going alone isn’t just harder—it’s incomplete.In this episode:• Why a high school shop teacher’s brutal honesty led to a complete life transformation• The 3 types of men you need in your corner (and why most of us only have 1)This isn’t about networking. It’s about becoming.

Most men are burning hours trying to “keep up” with AI tools while their families wait for them to finish work. But what if the problem isn’t learning faster—it’s learning smarter? This episode reveals why chasing every new AI feature is killing your productivity and what actually moves the needle for dads who want to win at home AND advance their careers.

In this episode, we dive into the importance of having a cause larger than ourselves. Join us as we explore how finding purpose beyond personal gain can lead to greater fulfillment and impact, both individually and in our communities. We discuss practical ways to engage with others, foster connection, and inspire meaningful action in daily life.

You’re working your plan, but something feels… off.Marc and Joel dig into that nagging feeling so many men experience—the sense that your “purpose meter” is running low, even when things look good from the outside. We’re often living for gain, but need to live for something greater.In this episode, they expose the trap of living within your own four walls and reveal why even successful men feel empty when there’s no cause worth fighting for. But here’s what most guys miss: the solution isn’t always quitting your job or finding the perfect nonprofit.They break down a simple daily framework using two powerful “C’s” that can elevate your purpose meter today—whether you’re stuck in corporate, running a business, or navigating post-career life. You’ll discover how small, intentional shifts in your everyday interactions unlock the satisfaction in work that most men are desperately searching for.Stop waiting for the “right opportunity” to feel purposeful. The untamed few know that living for something bigger than yourself starts with what you do today.What’s your cause? And are you living for it—or just living?

Ever turn around to find nobody following? This episode’s for you.You’ve got the vision. You know exactly where you’re headed—with your business, with your family. But when you look behind you, why does it feel like you’re on the journey alone?Here’s the thing most men in leadership miss: knowing where you’re going isn’t enough. That’s actually the easy part. The hard part? Making sure everybody knows where they’re going and keeping them engaged for the entire journey when the destination is still miles away.In this fireside conversation, we unpack why even men with clear vision struggle to keep people moving with them. How do you communicate a destination in a way that actually sticks? Why do your team, your kids, your wife lose momentum after the first few steps? What’s the gap between you knowing where you’re headed and them staying energized about getting there with you?Marc shares a recent moment with his son where he thought he’d connected, only to realize the message didn’t land. We talk about what shifts in your 40s and 50s, and why leadership at this stage requires more than just having clarity yourself.This isn’t a formula. It’s an honest conversation designed to surface what might be missing in how you’re leading the people who matter most.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

You ever heard that Bible verse about God's plans to prosper you and give you hope and a future? Here's the brutal truth most pastors don’t like to talk about: there's an enemy to that promise, and it's not what you think. In this episode, we expose the silent killer that's sabotaging your marriage, your kids, your business, and your purpose—and why it feels so good in the moment. Marc and Joel reveal the uncomfortable truth about why some men see breakthrough while others stay stuck waiting for "someday." This isn't about working harder. It's about confronting the one thing standing between you and the life you actually want. Warning: this conversation  may make you uncomfortable, but maybe that discomfort is telling you something you need to hear! If you're tired of drifting and ready for something to finally change, you need to hear this.

Winning at work, and maybe even at home—BUT feel like you’re one bad week away from collapse?Marc and Joel reveal why most men are winning themselves into the ground—and the one shift that changes everything about how you sustain performance without burning outThis isn’t about “self-care.” It’s about a framework that’s been buried for centuries.In this episode: • The “fuel gauge” question every man needs to ask himself • Why your best weeks might be destroying you slowly • The pendulum principle (and why half-swings lead to burnout) • What ancient Hebrew culture knew that we’ve completely forgotten • The real reason six-packs are made in the kitchen • How to work from strength instead of clawing to the finish lineIf you’re tired of feeling depleted despite “doing everything right,” this one’s for you.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

You’re in your 40s and you can’t shake it—you should be further along by now. In your career. In your impact. You’ve worked hard, but you’re stagnant. Plateaued. And you can’t stop fixating on that gap between where you are and where you thought you’d be.Here’s what that fixation is actually costing you: while you’re obsessing over what you haven’t achieved at work, you’re missing your daughter at the dinner table trying to tell you she got hurt at school. Your wife needs you present, but your mind is somewhere else. You’re on that mountain bike ride or in the surf, but you can’t even enjoy it because you’re consumed by what you’re not accomplishing.Marc gets raw about his own struggle at 49—feeling stuck and how that FOMO around his career created a calloused, distant version of himself with the people he loves most. Joel breaks down the four quarters of life and why everything shifts in the third quarter. They talk about perfectionism, chronic dissatisfaction, and how guys trap themselves in cycles they don’t even realize they’re in.Then they introduce “the gap vs. the gain”—and it reframes everything about where you’re looking and what actually matters.If your work FOMO is stealing your most precious relationships—this conversation might show you the way out.

You've tried to push through it. You've prayed about it. You've told yourself to just focus on what you can control. But that low-grade anxiety—about your marriage, your kids, whether you're actually making the impact you thought you would—it's still there. Every morning. Every drive home. Every time you sit down to dinner and feel like you're a million miles away.Marc and Joel get it. They've sat across from guys who've built incredible careers but can't shake the weight they're carrying. In this conversation, they talk about a guy obsessing over his teenage daughter, a leader who couldn't let go of things outside his control, and a simple image—a red quarter in a field of silver ones—that shifts everything. Oh, and the balloon illustration might make you say, “oh, that’s definitely what I feel like.” They don't just validate the struggle. They walk through the questions they ask themselves (and the men they coach) when anxiety won't let go: Is this thought true? Is it helpful? Is it necessary? And they share what happens when you stop white-knuckling the things you were never meant to carry in the first place.This isn't about grinding harder or "finding balance." It's about identifying what's actually yours to hold—and what you've been gripping that's crushing you from the inside out.Don’t know what to do about that nagging low-grade anxiety you don’t like to talk about? Let us talk about it for you and help you think about what to do about it.

You’re exhausted. Your team doesn’t seem to care. And by the time you drag yourself home, your wife and kids get whatever’s left—which isn’t much. You keep thinking if you just push harder, grind longer, hit the next milestone, something will finally click and make this worth it. But what if hustle isn’t the answer?Mark and Joel share stories about construction bosses bringing their crews to prayer breakfasts, Thursday morning biscuits with employees, and leaders who made one shift in how they saw their work—and everything changed. Not their strategy. Not their goals. Something simpler that’s been right there the whole time.They’ll reveal why some business owners find deep fulfillment while others stay exhausted and empty, and what actually makes the difference.If you’re tired of working this hard and feeling this hollow, this conversation might show you what you’ve been missing.

Ever feel like you're crushing it in one area of life, but drowning in another? In this eye-opening episode, Joel Fritz (The Calling Coach) and Marc Lucas (The Authentic Impact Coach) expose the invisible force that's pulling successful men away from what actually matters—without them even knowing it.Through a gripping personal story from the crystal-clear waters of Hawaii's Kona coast, Joel reveals a profound metaphor that will forever change how you view your daily grind. You'll discover why that nagging emptiness you feel isn't about needing MORE success—it's about something far more dangerous happening beneath the surface.Marc and Joel dive deep into:- The shocking parallel between ocean currents and the forces shaping your life- Why your business metrics might be lying to you about what really counts- The three killer questions that reveal if you're drifting in your marriage- How a tragic story about a beloved TV star exposes the ultimate cost of ignoring this truth- The specific "fixed reference points" that separate men who thrive from those who merely surviveIf you've ever wondered why success feels hollow, why time seems to slip away, or why you're further from your dreams than when you started—this episode holds the answer.Warning: Once you understand "the drift," you can't unsee it. But that might be exactly what saves your legacy.**Listen now before another day pulls you further from shore.***For men ready to resist the drift and reclaim their destiny. Part of the Untamed journey.*

In the wake of this week’s shocking events that have shaken America to its core, we sit down for an urgent and deeply personal conversation about values, truth, and the growing divide in our nation. Drawing from a close personal connection to those affected, we explore what it means to hold firm to your convictions while still extending grace and empathy across the divide. How do we talk to our families about tragedy? What does citizenship in heaven look like when earthly citizenship feels so fractured? This isn’t about politics—it’s about the fundamental questions of human dignity, moral clarity, and finding common ground when it feels impossible. A raw, unfiltered discussion about huddling up with those we love and rediscovering what truly matters when the foundations shake.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

We all find ourselves in the waiting room at some point - that uncomfortable space between where we are and where we’re going. But what if the waiting room isn’t just something to endure? What if it’s actually where the real growth happens?• Joel shares his wild story of being trapped in Italy during the 2020 lockdown• Marc reveals the two life-changing questions he asks when everything feels uncertain•Discover why your most anxious moments might be your biggest opportunitiesFrom career transitions to unexpected detours, they share raw stories about wrestling with uncertainty and reveal the mindset shifts that can transform your most uncomfortable moments into your greatest breakthroughs.”

What if getting promoted isn’t just about crushing your numbers and being the best at your job?Marc and Joel share the insider perspective on what actually catches leadership’s attention. You’ll discover:the “stopwatch principle,” a simple three-letter framework top performers use, and why making your boss’s life easier is pure gold.Plus, real talk about when it’s time to find a better fit elsewhere—because sometimes the fastest path up is actually out.This isn’t about office politics. It’s about understanding what truly makes someone promotable and aligning your strengths with what organizations actually value.Ready to become the obvious choice for that next opportunity?

What if the very thing you're trying to hide is the exact thing preventing you from becoming who you're meant to be?Marc shares a disgusting (but brilliant) story about a dog walk gone wrong that reveals a shocking truth about successful men. We dive into why so many high-achievers feel empty despite their accomplishments, and uncover the "small embarrassments vs. big embarrassments" principle that could save your marriage, career, and sanity.You'll discover:    •    The real reason behind that nagging feeling that "something's missing"    •    Why the Coldplay concert scandal went viral (and what it teaches us about hidden mess)    •    The simple daily practice that's helping men break free from decades of carrying unnecessary weight    •    How to find the right person to trust with your real storyWarning: This episode might make you  a little uncomfortable. But if you're the man we know you to be, it might be just what you need.

How far would you go to make a buck? There's a $20 test that reveals something about you that you may not want to know. Are you willing to take it? Here's the brutal truth: The drive that made you successful might be suffocating the respect and fulfillment you crave.Do some of your achievements feel empty? Can it feel like your wife or your colleagues tolerate you more than respect you?In this podcast we talk about a secret ingredient that unlocks a life filled with PURPOSEFLOW! The men who are truly respected discovered it. The ones who leave great legacies knew its importance. In this episode:    •    The crazy $20 test that instantly exposes who you really are    •    The shocking story that made national headlines (Warren Buffett got involved)    •    Why success feels hollow and what's really missing    •    The secret ingredient that generates respect and personal fulfillment    •    Bedrock principle to build a legacy people will actually rememberHow important could this episode be for you?

Join Our Free FB Group- Helping Men to Find lasting Meaning, Purpose, and Success in their careers and personal lives!  / 1bbsv9tgze  Why do some men agonize over where to eat lunch while others make life-altering decisions lightning fast?Joel shares his story of surprise about how what should have been the hardest decision of his life—deciding who to marry—became the easiest. Meanwhile, Marc reveals the emotional traps keeping men stuck and his own stories and coaching experiences. Discover:• The 3-part framework that transforms overwhelming choices into clear action• Why “knowing where you’re going” changes everything• Marc’s “emotions driving the bus” breakthrough• The real cost of making “no decision”Plus: The band story that shows why we stay stuck in situations we know aren’t working.Stop letting indecision steal your momentum. Turn analysis paralysis into confident action.

Are you exhausted from making thousands of meaningless decisions every day while struggling when it really matters? You know the feeling - choosing what to watch on Netflix comes easy, but when faced with life-changing choices that could alter your family's future, you freeze up or make decisions you later regret.What if there was a simple two-word framework that could transform how you approach every meaningful decision in your life? In this episode of Untamed, Joel and Mark reveal the game-changing power of personal core values - not the corporate buzzwords you're tired of hearing about, but the deep, soul-level compass that successful men use to navigate life's biggest moments.You'll discover why most men unconsciously drift toward values that ultimately leave them empty (like chasing wealth or status), and learn a practical process for identifying the values that will actually create the legacy you want to leave behind. Plus, they share real examples of how to integrate these values into your calendar, conversations with your kids, and daily decisions.This isn't about perfect execution - it's about having clarity when clarity matters most. Whether you're leading a team, raising a family, or simply trying to become the man you know you're meant to be, this episode will give you the internal compass you've been missing.The cemetery exercise alone is worth the listen. Your future self will thank you for pressing play.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Ever find yourself in a conversation with your wife or kids, but you’re not really there?Your lips are moving, but your mind is stuck on:    •    Work deadlines    •    Future plans    •    Problem-solving the next challenge    •    Negative realities you’re trying to fixWe’ve all done it.And when we do, we miss the hearts and emotions of the people we love most.We become out of focus, distracted from:    •    The real, vulnerable connection our family is craving    •    God’s whispers of transformation    •    The check-in our own soul desperately needs    •    The beauty of a moment that will never come againKey TruthYou don’t need to chase the next thing to find fulfillment.You need to show up fully where you are—because this moment is the only place God can shape you.Call to ActionShare this episode with a friend who’s always stuck in “what’s next.”Then, this week—practice the discipline of presence.Put down your phone. Take a deep breath.Look your family in the eye and ask, “How’s your heart?”And listen. Really listen.

Join Our Free FB Group- Helping Men to Find lasting Meaning, Purpose, and Success in their careers and personal lives!https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BbSv9TGzE/Every day, we face pain, setbacks, and disappointments.Whether it’s a tough conversation, a lost opportunity, or simply the weight of responsibility — life is filled with negative realities. The question is: How do we handle them in a way that makes us stronger, not stuck?In this episode of The Untamed Podcast, Marc and Joel give you a clear 4-step process to face life’s hardest moments without running, numbing, or pretending it’s all fine.These 4 practical steps are tools you can use daily to build emotional resilience, spiritual strength, and mental clarity in the chaos:✅ The 4 Steps:    1    Assess: Don’t ignore or minimize the hard stuff. Acknowledge that pain is part of life.    2    Accept: You can’t control everything — but you can choose your response.    3    Process: Feel it fully. Let the emotion surface without letting it define you.    4    Control: Focus on what you can control in the moment — your actions, your mindset, your next step.This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck in anger, paralyzed by disappointment, or trapped in a cycle of reacting instead of responding.It’s time to stop pretending you're fine — and start building the strength to navigate the storm with purpose.🎯 Take Action:If this conversation hit home, don’t just listen — live it.👉 Head over to www.untamedfew.com (http://www.untamedfew.com/)for more resources, retreats, and coaching that help men like you take back control, walk in purpose, and lead with clarity.👍 Like this episode?🔔 Subscribe to the podcast.📤 Share it with a man who needs this message today.You’re not alone — but you do have a choice in how you respond.

Join Our Free FB Group- Helping Men to Find lasting Meaning, Purpose, and Success in their careers and personal lives!https://www.facebook.com/groups/56711...“Do you want your kids to be happy?”It’s the question every parent answers yes to — but very few take the time to define what happiness truly means… or what it actually takes to build it.In this episode of The Untamed Podcast, Marc and Joel get real about what happiness for our kids really looks like — and the four essential things we must model and teach if we want them to become resilient, grounded, and joyful adults.We break down:    1    Why Delayed Gratification Is the #1 Predictor of Long-Term Success    2    How to Build a Strong Work Ethic in Your Kids Without Crushing Them    3    The Power of Raising Contributors, Not Consumers    4    How to Cultivate a Biblical Worldview That Grounds Them for LifeYou’ll also hear:    •    Why modern parenting is slipping into “pleaser mode” — and how to break out of it    •    How Marc uses the acronym F.A.M.I.L.Y. to shape character at home    •    Why college interns with intentional parenting outperformed their peers in Joel’s program    •    The role of identity in shaping joy: "Who do you want to BE?" over "What do you want to do?"If you want more than surface-level happiness for your kids — if you want to raise strong, wise, grounded adults — this episode is a practical, no-fluff blueprint.🎯 Take Action:If you're ready to become more intentional as a father, and raise kids who live with purpose and joy — join our growing tribe of untamed men.👉 Visit www.untamedfew.com (http://www.untamedfew.com/)Explore coaching, community, and live experiences that will shape the way you lead your family.

In this raw and honest episode, Marc and Joel pull back the curtain on a topic most men are too afraid to confront — the grip of pornography. With over 40 years of combined experience coaching men, they reveal how porn isn't just a "private" issue… it's silently sabotaging your relationships, leadership, purpose, and spiritual life.80% of men today are struggling with porn — but few realize the full cost.It’s eroding intimacy. Diminishing your masculinity.And deadening your soul.They break down the 4 A’s that every man must walk through to break free:👉 Assess where porn is stealing from you👉 Accept the uncomfortable truth about your desires👉 Aim your life at a higher calling👉 Act with intention and courageYou'll hear personal stories, biblical truth, and practical steps to break the cycle of shame, lust, and false comfort.Porn will lie to you, steal from you, and leave you empty.But freedom is possible. Integrity is possible.And it starts today.🔥 What You’ll Learn:    •    Why porn is not just a lust issue — it's a leadership issue    •    The hidden spiritual cost of addiction (even the "mild" stuff)    •    How your brain is being rewired and what that means for your future    •    The enemy’s real plan: steal, kill, and destroy your identity    •    What “One woman is not enough” really means — and how to defeat that lie    •    How to take the first real step toward lasting freedom🎯 Take Action:If this episode stirred something in you — don’t go back to silence.Join a community of men who are tired of living tamed.Start your journey to freedom, clarity, and calling.👉 Visit www.untamedfew.com (http://www.untamedfew.com/)to connect, explore upcoming retreats, and step into the life you were made for.

Marc shares a vulnerable moment—looking in the mirror and realizing he was nowhere near the man he was during his peak physical form in 2020. What followed was a powerful conviction: your physical health isn’t just about looks—it’s about legacy.In this episode of The Untamed Podcast, Marc and Joel unpack the Physical Sphere—a foundational area of life that too many men neglect. They dive deep into why your body must support your calling, your relationships, and your mental resilience—and what happens when it doesn’t.You’ll learn:    •    Why the physical sphere is a cornerstone to success in every other area of life.    •    The 3-step framework to reignite your physical growth: Assess → Act → Aim.    •    How small commitments (like giving up one carb today) lead to massive change.    •    Why accountability matters—and how a promise to your spouse can shift your mindset.    •    The real power of life sports (think cycling, pickleball, boxing) to reignite community, joy, and motivation.    •    Joel’s story of signing up for mountain bike races—and how that decision reshaped his entire mental approach to fitness.    •    The physical challenge for all Untamed Men and how to join in (via LinkedIn or Facebook).    •    Why your "why" must be long-term: "Do I want to jump on the trampoline with my grandkids?"Plus:Get practical health challenges that you can start today, including one rule around meal spacing that could radically improve your energy and focus.This episode isn’t about guilt. It’s about reclaiming your physical edge so you can show up strong, focused, and full of life—for yourself and for those you lead.🔥 Join the Untamed Push-Up ChallengePick your level:1️⃣ 5 minutes of planks2️⃣ 100 push-ups daily3️⃣ 250–500 push-ups dailyPost daily with the 💪 emoji in the Untamed Few LinkedIn group or Facebook group. Let's go to work.Join our Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/567113909684629/?rdid=m7L1HkHfVbpmWycC&share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2Fg%2F193MKSY6yD%2F#Join us on our So Cal Adventure Retreat!https://www.untamedfew.com/adventure-retreats

🎙️ "Vacation Expectations Will Wreck You (Unless You Do This)"📖 Episode Description:
You ever show up to vacation thinking it’s gonna be beach naps, tacos, and spontaneous romance… and somehow end up arguing in a minivan about sunscreen and dinner plans? Yeah, us too.We show up singing the Spice Girls in our heads: “Tell me what you want, what you really, really want…” — and silently expect our wife, kids, or friends to just get us. But most of the time, no one’s on the same page.In this episode, Marc and Joel unpack the hidden expectations that sabotage our vacations and how to turn those missed moments into real connection, rest, and fun.You’ll walk away with 3 practical steps to plan a more meaningful trip — one that brings life to you, your wife, your family, and your friendships. From food and fun to rest and rhythm, this one will help you be more intentional without becoming that guy who over-plans everything.It’s not about control — it’s about clarity.You’ll learn:
✔️ How to identify what you, your family, and your spouse actually enjoy
✔️ The simple pre-trip convo that changes everything
✔️ How to follow through without killing the vibeLet’s stop wasting vacations. Let’s make them count.Click Here To Find Out More About the So Cal Adventure Retreat!

We conquer the mountain, plant the flag... and still feel nothing. In this episode, we unpack why men feel unfulfilled at the top—and how to redefine success across five key life spheres to finally live with purpose and joy.Why are we talking about this? Because too many men climb to the top of mountains they were told to conquer, plant their flag… and still feel empty.You’re not alone.
We’ve been taught success is the top of the mountain—money, titles, status—but real happiness isn’t found at the top. It’s formed inside of us. It’s found in how we serve, love, and live for something bigger than ourselves.In this episode, we explore: • Joel’s story of his grandfather’s legacy and the success lie he had to confront • Jeremy’s insight from working with thousands of men: the biggest internal battle men face today • Why we throw ourselves into work when it’s winning, and run from home when it’s not • The 5 Spheres of Real Success that lead to fulfillment: Career, Spiritual, Physical, Emotional/Mental, and Relational • Why you can have both happiness and success—in your career and your life • A FREE 2-Day Sample of our 21-Day Personalized Success Blueprint to help you slow down, gain clarity, and build a life worth living👇 Get the 2-day blueprint now and start redefining what winning really looks like.
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A high-performing executive can tell you his quarterly numbers down to the decimal.But ask him, “Are you a good husband?” and he pauses… “I don’t feel like I am.”We measure success in business with spreadsheets — but in life, we rely on vague feelings.That ends today.This episode will challenge how you define and track progress — and help you apply real metrics to what matters most: your faith, family, fitness, mindset, and mission.If you're ready to move from uncertain to unstoppable in the areas that matter most — this conversation is for you.👇 TAKE THE NEXT STEP:🔥 Subscribe to Untamed and share this episode with a man who needs it. This battle wasn’t meant to be fought alone.🧭 Join our next Untamed Men’s Retreat — where clarity and courage collide:👉 https://www.untamedfew.com/adventure-retreats📝 Download a free sample of the 21-Day Personalized Success Blueprint (just 10 minutes a day) Day 8 & Day 9 Only:👉 https://www.untamedfew.com/21-day-journal-days-8-9

Men’s 4 Core Emotions: Is that it? Happy, hungry, horny…angry. Do these four emotions make up the entire emotional spectrum of the majority of male’s experience?Accepting this limitation could be secretly sabotaging every relationship you care about.In this eye-opening conversation, Joel and Marc dive into why most men are emotionally constipated and how it's costing them in numerous areas of their life. While you're cycling through the same four feelings, the women in your life are operating with an emotional vocabulary that might as well be a foreign language.Here's what you need to understand:    •    Why your emotional range might be destroying your marriage without you realizing it    •    How being emotionally limited is limiting your success.    •    How your daughters are already more emotionally intelligent than you (and what that means for your relationship with them)    •    The real reason you feel like a stranger at your own dinner tableThis isn't about becoming more sensitive. It's about understanding why your limited emotional range is holding you back from greater success at home and career. If you've ever felt emotionally outmatched by your wife, or people at the office who seem to understand a language you don’t, it’s time to get unstuck and educate yourself on your broad emotional range. Resources to help you level up:    •    How We Feel App, howwefeel.org    •    Adventure Retreat Details http://untamedfew.com/adventure-retreats    •    Join the Untamed Few private Facebook group, FREE for a limited time. http://Untamedfew.com

"You’ve heard it a thousand times: 'Happy Wife, Happy Life.' But is it really true? Or is it quietly destroying your marriage without you even realizing it?"You’ve heard it a thousand times: “Happy Wife, Happy Life.” But is it true? In this powerful episode of Untamed, Marc Lucas and Joel Fritz expose the hidden dangers of this popular marriage advice — and reveal a better way to build a truly connected and fulfilling relationship.💡 Here’s what you’ll learn:✅ Why the “Happy Wife, Happy Life” mindset can actually harm your marriage.
✅ How to maintain your authenticity without losing your voice or values.
✅ Relational KPIs (Key Performance Indicators) for a thriving marriage: • Compliment your wife with intention. • Practice active listening — because “To listen is to love.” • Create a safe space for open, honest communication through feedback loops.
✅ How to overcome the “Fixer Mode” trap and become a better listener.
✅ 5 powerful questions to ask your wife that will deepen your connection.If you’re tired of feeling like your role is just to keep your wife happy — and you want to build a relationship where both of you thrive — this episode is for you.👉 Subscribe now and discover how to transform your marriage with true connection, trust, and authentic love.https://www.untamedfew.com/landingpage

🌲 Show Description:Are you grinding away day after day but feeling stuck — and disconnected from your true purpose? In this powerful episode of Untamed, Marc Lucas and Joel Fritz reveal how just one weekend of intentional adventure can create the kind of crystallized clarity that otherwise takes months to achieve.🚀CLICK HERE- Get On the List For Our September Adventure Retreat-

🧭 Core Theme:We were made for purpose — but distraction is the enemy of clarity. Our phones, constant noise, and hustle culture can drown out the voice of God and keep us from discovering our true calling.Hook: Meaning and purpose are core to who you are. So let us ask: What’s keeping you from stepping into yours?Many of us aren’t lacking purpose — we’re just too distracted to hear it.The Amazing Race analogy:Our lives mirror the show: fast-paced, high-pressure, full of checkpoints.But in the R.A.C.E., we often lose clarity.R.A.C.E. = Running Aimlessly, Chasing EverythingWe’re exhausted from chasing, but we’re not fulfilled.Distraction Kills Clarity:Phones and screens keep us reactive, not reflective.Without space to hear from God, we drift off course.Mini-Adventure Challenge:Take half a day this month — hike, bike, or sit in stillness.Ask God two questions:God, what is my calling?What is one step I can take toward it in this season?You can’t download your purpose from an app.Clarity comes through solitude and seeking God’s voice — not scrolling.Schedule your “mini-adventure” this week.Share this episode with a friend who’s feeling stuck or lost in the noise.Join our community of men pursuing clarity, courage, and calling.🔥 Key Talking Points:🙏 Spiritual Insight:📣 Call to Action:

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Are You Letting Fear Kill Your Dreams? | Untamed with Joel Fritz & Marc Lucas📋 Show Notes:
Episode Title:
Are You Letting Fear Kill Your Dreams?Description:
Fear is the silent killer of dreams. In this powerful episode of Untamed, Marc Lucas and Joel Fritz tackle one of the biggest reasons men stop dreaming: fear — fear of failure, fear of the unknown, and fear of not being "enough."Marc shares a vulnerable story about almost walking away from his true calling as a pastor because of fear—and how one decision to dream again changed the entire trajectory of his life (and led to Untamed even existing today!).You'll discover:
🔥 Why it's impossible to lead without a dream
🔥 How fear slowly binds us to comfortable mediocrity
🔥 Why leaders who stop dreaming lose their influence — and how to reignite yours
🔥 The 3 practical steps to dream again: • Visualize it • Write it out • Test it by sharing it with someone you trustPlus, a reminder that deep inside every man is a desire for Adventure, Battle, and Beauty — and it’s time to awaken it.Don't let fear win. It's time to dream again.👉 Subscribe Untamed for more raw, untamed conversations about life, purpose, and leadership.
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✍️ Podcast Show NotesEpisode Title: Drop the Mask: How to Heal the Wounds That Are Holding You BackDescription:
We all wear masks—but what are we really hiding? In this raw and redemptive episode, Marc and Joel explore how shame, wounds, and false identities have shaped how men show up in the world—and what it takes to break free.From Adam and Eve’s shame in the garden to the false label Skar gave Simba in The Lion King, we’ve all been wounded. Whether it’s a father wound, betrayal, rejection, or failure—these hurts often lead us to perfectionism, anger, addiction, or isolation.But here’s the truth: Jesus came to heal your heart, not just your habits.You’ll learn: • Why vulnerability is the birthplace of love (Brené Brown) • How to identify your “mask” and the wounds behind it • What it looks like to bring those wounds to God and begin restoration • Practical ways to show up mask-free in marriage and male friendships • The power of Proverbs 4:23 to revive your heart and restore your purposeKey Quote:
"In your journey to become a man, you’ve taken arrows to the heart. But you don’t have to carry the wound forever."Action Steps: • Recognize the mask you’ve been wearing • Identify your wound and bring it to God • Practice vulnerability with your wife and brothers • Stop guarding your heart—start healing it • Reclaim your warrior spirit and fight for the good in your life🔥 It’s time to drop the mask. You weren’t made to hide—you were made to live fully, freely, and untamed.

In this powerful episode of Untamed, Joel and Mark dive deep into the concept of the 1st Untaming, "awakening" – the crucial first step for high-achieving men seeking a better definition of success. Using the compelling story arc of Top Gun: Maverick, they illustrate how we often focus on being the best of the best in our careers, but ignore our most important internal struggles because they are difficult to deal with. YET, like Maverick, our lives stay ON PAUSE until we address our internal person UNTAMING us to become the best of the best at LIFE! Learn practical insights on how to cultivate this awakening in your own journey and finally hit “PLAY" on your true potential.

🎙 “The World Tamed Us & It’s Time to Break Free.”We were born wild — but somewhere along the way, we let the world tame us. This episode is about rejecting the lies of who the world told us to be and experiencing breakthrough, untamed version of yourself.🔥 Highlights:Remember who you are don't forget your identity. Have you had an identity heist? What it really means to live untamedJoin our Private Facebook Group

Stuck in Comparison? Comparison is the thief of joy, keeping us trapped in a life that feels safe but uninspired. In this episode, we dive into how comparison tames us, holding us back from living with clarity and courage in our purpose. Marc and Joel share two recent personal stories of playing it safe—and how they pushed back against the drift to stay untamed. We explore what it looks like to break free in every area of life—business, home, marriage, and community—so you can step boldly into the untamed life you were created for.Website: https://join.untamedfew.com/optin--7055f?new_run=trueFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/567113909684629Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/untamedfew/?hl=enTiktok:https://www.tiktok.com/@untamedfew?lang=en

Have you realized you've been drifting through life, influenced by external taming forces, and acknowledging the need for change to resist the taming forces and unlock your untamed potential.Questions to Ask Yourself:Have you defined reality in assessing where you are in life right now?Are you highly motivated, but something is holding you back from being clear on direction?Do you feel called to too many things and need to pick one?Do you have any friends that you can be honest with and tell them I'm not OK in this area of my life?Do you wish your wife and kids could see the man you know you are capable of being?

Could you be one of the Untamed Few?We're building a community of High Achievers who want to release their untamed potential! We'll challenge you, equip you, and stand shoulder to shoulder with you on the next wild stretch of life's adventure. What would the world look like if you were untamed and wholly you? Join the UNTAMED FEW- Get On Your PathFind your Untamed Few and embark on your bold adventure through our 5 Untamings that will release your Untamed Potential.