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Who do you want to be?

"Who Do You Want to Be?" is a podcast that speaks to women, especially mums, who are ready to explore their potential and find clarity in a tech-driven world. Each week, we dive into conversations at the intersection of AI and humanity, offering practical strategies and reflective stories to help you thrive personally and professionally. From designing your future self to building resilience, this podcast is your companion in embracing change and staying ahead. Join a community of like-minded women committed to intentional growth and transformation. Ready to step into who you want to be? Let’s begin this journey together.

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    2026 Episode 4 - How AI can help while everything seems to be falling apart

    Life doesn't stop throwing curveballs — and neither should your business.In this episode, Sabine and I are recording from Dubai in the middle of a pretty intense situation. Distance learning is back, our working hours have been flipped upside down, and motivation? Not exactly at an all-time high.But here's what happened: I built a brand new, 5-page website in under 3 hours using Claude — and it cost me nothing. No developer. No $1,000 template. Just me, an AI tool, and a bit of back and forth.We talk about what it actually feels like to try to run a business when life takes over, why AI has become my go-to when time is short, and the mindset question that always brings us back to centre — who do you want to be in the middle of this?If you've been feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your to-do list is completely out of control right now, this episode is for you.🔗 Free Claude Starter Guide: 

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    2026 Episode 3 - Staying Calm When the World Feels Uncertain

    When life suddenly feels uncertain, who do you choose to be?In this deeply personal episode, we talk about what happens when global events shake our sense of normality—and how we can respond with calm, presence, and intention.Over the weekend, unexpected geopolitical developments unfolded while we were simply going about our lives here in the UAE. Like many people, we experienced a moment of disbelief, uncertainty, and concern for our families and our future.In this conversation, we reflect on what it means to stay grounded when circumstances are completely outside our control—especially as mothers, professionals, and leaders in our families.We explore:How to manage uncertainty and anxiety during unpredictable timesSupporting our children when they sense that something isn’t rightFinding calm through small daily practicesWhy staying present is more powerful than trying to control the futureGiving ourselves permission to slow down, soften expectations, and focus on what truly mattersThis episode is a reminder that even when we cannot control the situation around us, we can still choose who we want to be within it.And sometimes, the most powerful choice is simply to stay calm, present, and compassionate—with ourselves and with those around us.

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    2026 Episode 2: When the Year Starts Differently than Expected: Re-Centering Yourself & Choosing Who You Want to Be in 2026

    2026 didn’t start the way many of us expected. Unexpected changes, shifting priorities, job losses, illness, and a general sense of uncertainty have left many women asking a powerful question:“Given everything that’s already changed… who do I want to be now?”In this episode, Sabine and I reflect on how to re-center yourself when life throws you off course and expectations—both internal and external—start to feel overwhelming. We explore how to pause, tune out the noise, and reconnect with what you truly want for yourself in 2026.We talk about:Why constant “shoulds” and external expectations pull us away from ourselvesHow to step back from reactive to-do lists and reconnect with your own visionA simple but powerful self-reflection exercise (“the why behind the why”) to uncover what truly mattersHow fulfillment, values, and purpose can become your North Star for the year aheadWhy some of the most important clarity work must be done without technology—and how to use tools like AI intentionally afterwardIf January didn’t go to plan, this conversation is your invitation to slow down, reset, and consciously decide how you want to move forward—on your own terms.✨ Take a walk, grab a notebook, and give yourself permission to reflect. 2026 is still yours to shape.

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    2026 Episode 1 - Reset: Focus, Energy & Saying No with Intention

    Can you believe it’s 2026 already? In this special New Year kickoff episode, Sabine and Abha reflect on the lessons of 2025 and set powerful intentions for the year ahead.They dive deep into the difference between time management and energy management, the challenge of staying focused in a world full of opportunity, and the power of saying “no” — even to things that excite you — in service of your deeper goals.This episode also marks a shift in the podcast: from reflective exploration to focused support, helping you actively become the version of yourself you’re aspiring to in this AI-first, fast-paced world.Topics we explore:Why energy management is the real superpower in 2026The emotional cost of saying yes too oftenHow to know which opportunities are truly aligned with your goalsWhat’s changing on the podcast — and how it will support you moving forwardThis episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and get intentional about the year ahead.

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    Episode 46: From a Spark to a Movement - What a Year of Showing Up Taught Us

    In the final episode of 2025, Abha and Sabine sit down to reflect on the journey of launching and sustaining their podcast, Who Do You Want to Be?—a project that started with a voice note and grew into a weekly ritual of intention, growth, and conversation.They share candid reflections on what it takes to start something without a perfect plan, how consistency and curiosity can move mountains, and why embracing "done over perfect" is key in a tech-driven world.You'll hear behind-the-scenes stories of how they made it work (hint: no fancy studios, just two mics and Zoom), the lessons learned along the way, and a gentle invitation for you to pause and acknowledge your own growth as 2025 comes to a close.Key themes:Starting imperfectly and still showing upReflecting on your year through small wins, not just big goalsRethinking productivity and presence in a fast-paced, AI-first worldMoving into 2026 with intention, clarity, and compassionPlus: a heartfelt message of gratitude to the listeners—and a sneak peek into what’s changing (and what’s staying the same) in 2026.

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    Episode 45: Are We Getting Too Close to ChatGPT?

    As 2025 comes to a close, we’re reflecting on just how deeply AI has integrated into our daily lives—and how that’s reshaping not only how we work, but how we think, connect, and even make decisions.In this episode, Sabine and Abha ask some big, bold questions:Have we become too dependent on AI tools like ChatGPT?Are we amplifying our intelligence—or outsourcing it?What does it mean to be human in a world where machines are increasingly our collaborators?With personal stories, surprising observations (yes, even the kids are talking to “Chetty”), and a candid look at how AI is shifting societal norms, this conversation dives deep into the tension between convenience and consciousness.🎧 Whether you're an AI enthusiast or feeling overwhelmed by tech’s rapid rise, this episode will help you pause, reflect, and ask: Who do I want to be in this AI-first world?

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    Episode 44: Sora 2, Creativity & the AI Imagination Dilemma

    What happens to our imagination when AI can imagine for us?In this thought-provoking episode, Abha and Sabine dive into the newly released Sora 2—ChatGPT’s video generation tool—and explore what it means for creativity, storytelling, and the future of human imagination.From creating fantastical videos with no prior skills to kids seeing their hand-drawn characters come alive, the possibilities seem endless. But is there a cost?Together, we ask:Are AI tools enhancing or eroding our creative process?What happens when we outsource our imagination to machines?How do we ensure our kids grow up with their creativity intact, not AI’s interpretation of it?And can fulfillment still exist when the process becomes effortless?Whether you're an AI enthusiast, a curious parent, or a creative professional navigating this tech shift—this episode invites you to reflect deeply on how we use powerful tools like Sora 2, and what it means for who we’re becoming.

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    Episode 43: Is AI Shaping Who Our Kids Become?

    As parents in a tech-saturated world, are we still the main influence in our children's lives? Or are algorithms quietly shaping who they become?In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we dive into the complex role of AI in our children's identity formation. From YouTube rabbit holes to hyper-personalized content, we explore how the algorithmic vortex may be narrowing their curiosity, subtly steering their choices, and even influencing their values.We also share personal stories—from vegan recipe spirals to YouTube subscriptions gone rogue—and offer tangible ways to stay connected, stay curious, and raise kids who can think critically in an AI-first world.🔍 In this episode, we explore:The invisible influence of AI on children's identitiesWhy our kids’ curiosity might be shrinkingHow to create space for critical thinking in your homeThe power of 5-minute daily conversations to counter algorithmic biasWhy human-to-human connection still matters more than ever📍 Key takeaway: AI isn’t raising your children—but if we’re not careful, it might start deciding who they think they should be.What’s one way you’re helping your kids stay curious in a digital world? Share your thoughts with us and join the conversation

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    Episode 42: Navigating Techno Stress in the Age of AI

    Are you feeling overwhelmed by the pace of AI and digital change?In this episode, Abha and Sabine dive into the rising phenomenon of techno stress—a very real psychological and physical response to our increasingly tech-saturated lives. From AI-induced information overload to inbox anxiety and digital fatigue, we explore what’s behind this stress and how to manage it consciously.Together, we reflect on the emotional toll of staying constantly connected, why awareness is your best starting point, and the mindset shifts that can help you take back control. With personal stories, real-life examples, and simple mindset tools, this conversation is your reminder that you’re not alone—and you do have a choice.🎧 Tune in to learn:What exactly is techno stress—and why it matters nowHow AI tools can both help and harm our mental clarityWhy "just-in-time learning" may be your best strategyHow to unsubscribe (literally and mentally) from digital overloadPractical ways to set boundaries and stay grounded Take five minutes today to reflect: Where is technology supporting you—and where is it stressing you out? Tag us or send us a voice note—we’d love to include your experience in a future episode!

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    Podcast episode 41: Are We Silently Surrendering to AI?

    What if the greatest danger of AI isn’t a dramatic robot uprising—but something far more subtle? In this episode, Abha and Sabine unpack a powerful insight from Sam Altman, CEO of OpenAI, about the “silent surrender”—the idea that we might gradually and unconsciously hand over our thinking, decision-making, and even creativity to AI tools like ChatGPT.Together, they explore:Why this surrender is so easy—and so dangerous.How AI is already becoming the new normal, especially in content creation.The impact on our self-confidence, creativity, and even our children’s ability to make decisions.Why self-awareness and intentionality are the only antidotes.This isn’t about rejecting AI. It’s about staying conscious in how we use it—so we don't forget how to think for ourselves.

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    Episode 40: AI at Work - Culture Shift or Communication Crisis?

    In today’s episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we dive into the growing presence of AI in the workplace—specifically how tools like ChatGPT are reshaping internal communication, collaboration, and company culture.Hosts Abha and Sabine explore the nuanced impacts of AI adoption in organizations. From silent brainstorming with chatbots to missed human moments and generational clashes, they ask: Are we becoming more efficient—or more isolated?We also unpack:Why employees are turning to AI for feedback and idea generationThe risk of bypassing real conversations for quick answersHow leaders can create intentional AI policiesThe importance of internal "AI evangelists" to guide ethical and effective useWhether you're an HR leader, manager, or team member navigating the AI wave, this episode invites you to reflect not just on how we use AI—but why.

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    Episode 39: Should 6-Year-Olds Use iPads? Raising Critical Thinkers in an AI World

    As schools introduce iPads to even the youngest students, parents are left asking: Is this helping or hurting our children’s development?In this episode, we dive into a very real moment from Sabine’s life—her 6-year-old son starting school and the emotional debate at the parent-teacher meeting about introducing iPads in Year One.Joined by her co-host Abha, they explore the broader question:How can we ensure our children grow up to be critical thinkers and not just passive consumers in an AI-first world?Topics they explore:The pros and cons of early tech exposureHow AI tools like ChatGPT, Khanmigo, and Synthesis can support or hinder child developmentThe risks of unchecked YouTube accessWhy parental involvement is more crucial than everHow to model curiosity, reflection, and tech literacy at homeThis episode is a must-listen for any parent navigating the digital age with young children. Because when it comes to AI and our kids, one question matters most:👉 Who do you want them to become?💬 What age do you think kids should start using iPads in school? Let’s open up this dialogue together.

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    Episode 38: AI vs. Human Tutors: What’s Best for Your Child’s Learning?

    As technology continues to reshape the way we live and learn, many parents are facing a new kind of decision: Should our children be learning from human tutors or AI-powered platforms?In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, hosts Sabine and Abha explore their personal experiences navigating this question. With both of their daughters showing strong math skills, one family opts for a traditional tutor while the other experiments with an AI tool called Synthesis.They dive into:The pros and cons of AI-based learning appsThe importance of human connection in educationHow to combine the best of both worlds for your childThe role of parenting in an AI-first worldThis is an honest, empowering conversation about intentional parenting, future-ready learning, and how to make thoughtful choices that align with your child’s personality and your family’s values.Whether you’re curious about AI in education or just trying to support your child’s potential, this episode is packed with relatable insights and practical reflections.

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    Episode 37: When is it okay to build relationships with artificial intelligence?

    In this deeply reflective episode, Abha and Sabine explore the emotionally complex and ethically nuanced world of AI companionship. From robotic dogs supporting dementia patients to chatbots offering solace in solitude, they examine the question: When is it okay to build relationships with artificial intelligence?Through personal stories—including Sabine's touching insight about her aging father—and thoughtful debate, they unpack the delicate balance between leveraging technology for support and maintaining the value of real human connection. What role should AI play in our relationships, especially when life becomes isolating?This episode challenges us to consider not just what’s possible, but what’s meaningful. As always, it circles back to the central question of this podcast: Who do you want to be in an AI-powered world?

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    Episode 36: Would you date an AI? Exploring the Rise of Artificial Relationships

    We all know AI can supercharge productivity, creativity, and even help us reflect on who we are—but what happens when we start turning to AI for connection?In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, Sabine and Abha explore the rising trend of using AI in human relationships, from online dating to emotional support, and even romantic companionship. Drawing on surprising research and personal reflection, they unpack the psychological implications and ask the big questions:Is AI making us better communicators - or more dependent?What are we losing when we substitute human touch with perfect algorithms?Can a relationship with AI affect our ability to be with real, imperfect people?If you've ever asked yourself whether convenience is starting to replace connection, this episode is for you.After listening, take a moment to reflect: what role should AI play in your personal relationships? Share your thoughts with us or tag a friend who needs to hear this.

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    Episode 35: Why We Miss the “Nice” ChatGPT

    In this episode, we explore a surprising shift in public response to the latest version of ChatGPT. With GPT-5 now more emotionally neutral and robotic, many users are missing the overly friendly, almost “therapist-like” tone of earlier versions. But what does that say about how we're using AI—and what we’re missing in our human relationships?Join hosts Abha and Sabine as they unpack: The rise (and fall) of the “sycophantic” ChatGPT Why people relied on it for emotional support and validation The risk of parasocial relationships with AI How self-awareness can help us avoid over-dependence on tech Why human connection still matters mostWhether you’re using AI to get things done or to get through the day, this episode will invite you to pause and reflect: Who do you want to be in a world where technology is always available—but real connection isn't?

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    Episode 34: What’s new with ChatGPT 5?

    Feeling lost in the whirlwind of AI updates? You’re not alone. In this episode of Who Do You Want To Be?, Sabine and Abha break down the major updates in ChatGPT-5—what’s changed, what’s better, and what you really need to know to stay ahead without burning out.From smarter writing and deeper thinking modes to its powerful new agent capabilities and app integrations, ChatGPT-5 is more than just an upgrade—it’s a glimpse into how AI will shape our daily lives. But with greater tech power comes bigger questions around privacy, productivity, and staying intentional.

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    Episode 33: Summer Unplugged - What a Digital Detox Taught Us About Tech & Being Present

    After a beautiful summer break, we’re back—and reflecting on what life feels like without screens, apps, and AI. In this episode of Who Do You Want To Be?, Sabine and Abha dive into their intentional digital detoxes, what their families learned from stepping away from tech, and how this quiet space opened up creativity, mindfulness, and presence.From board games and barefoot beach days to flights filled with guilt-free screen time, we explore how these moments helped us reconnect—not just with our children, but with ourselves.We also share how technology did play a role in keeping things running behind the scenes (hello, pre-scheduled podcasts and wearable tech), and how tools like Whoop and Ultra Human helped track our recovery—without taking over our lives.Key Takeaways:Digital detoxing can strengthen connection, creativity, and calm.Tech is powerful—but only when used with intention.Teaching children the value of boredom and free play is priceless.Wearable tech like Whoop or Ultra Human can support mindful recovery.Pre-planning content (and using smart tools) lets you rest without dropping the ball.Have you ever taken a tech break? How did it make you feel—and what did you learn about yourself?

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    Episode 32: Can technology help us slow down?

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we explore a counterintuitive truth: the same technology that helps us work faster can also help us slow down—if we let it.We talk about how AI and productivity tools can free up our time, but often end up driving us to do more, not less. Sabine and Abha unpack the myth of endless productivity, the limits of our brain’s energy, and how mindfulness—sometimes supported by technology—can help us reconnect to what truly matters.You’ll hear practical ways to use tech not just for output, but also for wellbeing, including tools like Muse, Ultra Human, and calming playlists that support meditation and reflection. Most importantly, we revisit the foundational question:Who do you want to be? A woman running on empty, or one who chooses intention, balance, and joy?

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    Episode 31: This is the easiest time in history to do anything you want to

    Have you ever told yourself, "I don't have the time… I'm not tech-savvy… I just can’t right now"? In this empowering episode, we’re calling out the excuses that have held us back — and exploring how AI has quietly dismantled them all.Join Abha and Sabine as they share personal stories and practical insights on how technology is leveling the playing field. Whether it’s launching a podcast, starting a business, or simply learning a new skill — the tools you need are at your fingertips.This episode will inspire you to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start becoming the version of yourself you’ve always imagined.Topics we cover:Why "I don’t have time" is no longer a valid excuseHow to use AI to take the first step toward your goalsThe connection between excuses and a fixed mindsetSimple mindset shifts to reclaim your confidenceWhy now is the easiest time in history to reinvent yourself

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    Episode 30: Reclaiming Wellbeing in a Digital Age

    Wellbeing is a buzzword, but what does it actually mean for you?In this deeply personal episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, Sabine and Abha explore how the definition of wellbeing is far from one-size-fits-all. From upside-down silks classes to sacred solo tea moments, we share what recharges us, and why tech tools like AI may not always belong in our wellbeing routines.Together, we ask:How do you define wellbeing in your life stage?Can apps and devices truly help, or do they distract from being present?What if wellbeing isn't a luxury, but a moment of awareness?Tune in for a raw and empowering conversation about reclaiming your energy, honouring your rhythms, and weaving small daily acts of care into your busy, beautiful life.

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    Episode 29: AI + Habits = Progress: A Smarter Way to Reach Your Goals

    Are your goals truly your goals — or borrowed dreams that don’t align with your values or lifestyle?In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be, Abha and Sabine dive deep into the heart of goal-setting in today’s tech-accelerated world. They unpack why so many goals go unrealized, the subconscious resistance we face when goals clash with our values, and how AI tools can help (or hinder) the journey.Topics We Cover:Why many goals fail—and what to do about itThe hidden tension between ambition and authenticityHow to use AI tools like habit trackers and project planners to stay aligned and on trackNavigating “app overwhelm” and avoiding digital distractionsHow to create behavior change with realistic daily habitsWhether you’re dreaming big or feeling stuck, this episode will help you build a roadmap grounded in what truly matters to you.

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    Episode 28: How to raise critical thinkers in an AI-first world

    Now that our children are growing up with AI in nearly every part of their lives—from homework to decision-making apps—how do we ensure they still develop essential life skills like empathy, critical thinking, creativity, and independent problem-solving?In this episode, Abha and Sabine dive into a deeply relevant (and personal!) conversation about parenting in the AI age. They reflect on real-life experiences—from decision-making dilemmas with their daughters to experimenting with AI-powered learning tools—and explore how we can strike the right balance between embracing technology and cultivating the human skills our kids will need most.Topics we cover:How AI is changing the way our kids make decisionsThe challenge of decision fatigue in a tech-saturated worldTeaching empathy, debate, and conflict resolution in an AI contextThe power (and limits) of AI in personalized educationWhy mindset and supervision matter more than everThere’s no one-size-fits-all approach—but by staying curious, intentional, and open-minded, we can raise children who are not just tech-savvy, but deeply human too.

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    Episode 27: Our Kids Are Watching: What Are We Teaching Them?

    In today’s episode, we tackle a quietly urgent question every modern parent should ask: What are we really teaching our children when we’re always on our phones?Abha and Sabine share honest stories and eye-opening moments from their own lives as mothers navigating the blurred lines between being present and being productive. From toddlers mimicking laptop work to the joy of handwritten invitations, this episode invites you to pause—and reflect on what your daily habits are modeling for your kids.We explore:How tech convenience, and now AI, may be costing us human connectionWhy your child’s cardboard phone might be telling you somethingTurning everyday tasks (like grocery shopping) into bonding timeThe mindset shift that helps set healthy digital boundariesWhat it means to prioritize attention, not just time🎧 Tune in for a warm, honest reflection on the little choices that shape our children—and ourselves and will continue to even more so in an AI first world. 

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    Episode 26: Is AI making us lazy? A deep dive into what an MIT study says

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we dive into a controversial new study from MIT that suggests using AI like ChatGPT might be making us mentally lazier. Sabine and Abha unpack the study’s methods, results, and limitations—while sharing a deeper perspective on how tools like AI can both hinder and enhance our cognitive growth.Together, they explore what it means to truly learn in an AI-first world, the science of neural connectivity, and how to use AI without switching off your brain. It’s not about rejecting tech—it’s about being intentional with it. Because at the end of the day, who do you want to be—someone who thinks critically, or someone who lets the machine do all the thinking?What we cover:What the MIT study really says about AI and learningHow your brain builds neural pathways (and why that matters)The difference between consuming and truly understandingPractical tips to stay sharp while using AI toolsThis week, challenge yourself: when reaching for ChatGPT, ask—am I using this to enhance my thinking or replace it? Ask ChatGPT

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    Episode 25: Can AI spark more imagination in our kids?

    What happens when we can use AI to further build the imagination of our children?In this episode, Abha and Sabine explore how we can help our kids are tap into their creativity, confidence, and problem-solving skills through tools like ChatGPT. From turning hand-drawn characters into animated stories to coding their own games and websites, this conversation touches the surface of what’s possible for our next generation.We share personal stories, surprising insights, and practical ways to support your child’s digital curiosity—while keeping them safe and empowered with AI.Episode includes:Real-life examples of kids using AI to create art, games, and even websitesWhy AI literacy matters for children—and how to introduce it positivelyHow tech can deepen parent-child relationships through shared curiosity What’s one way your child has used technology creatively? Tag us or message to share—we’d love to hear it!

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    Episode 24: Can AI-generated content still be authentic?

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, Abha and Sabine dive deep into the evolving definition of authenticity in a world increasingly shaped by artificial intelligence. From creating AI-generated B-roll to experimenting with digital clones, they explore the emotional and ethical complexities of using AI for content creation—especially as women who value connection, transparency, and intention.Abha shares her firsthand experience of building a digital clone and the uncanny realism it offers—raising important questions: Is AI-crafted content still you if it reflects your intentions? How much technology is too much when it comes to showing up online?Together, Abha and Sabine reflect on how to stay grounded, intentional, and authentic—while still leveraging the power of new tools. They invite you to ask yourself: How do you want to show up in the digital world? And more importantly, how do you want to feel about it?

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    Episode 23: How can AI help you with your personal brand?

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, Sabine and Abha dive deep into a topic that’s no longer just for entrepreneurs: building a personal brand. Whether you’re in corporate, self-employed, or somewhere in between, your personal brand matters—now more than ever.We discuss:Why a personal brand is essential in today’s digital worldHow video content (even the messy, unfiltered kind) builds trust faster than polished perfectionWhere AI tools can help—and where they cross the lineThe delicate dance between authenticity and automationPlus, we open a thoughtful conversation around AI-generated avatars, videos, and profile photos: When does helpful become misleading?Our key takeaway is, your personal brand is your story. Use tech to amplify your voice, not to replace your presence.

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    Episode 22: How to network in the age of AI

    This week, we explore one of the most common challenges in today’s fast-paced world: how to build meaningful connections—both online and offline—without losing time, energy, or authenticity.Whether you're new to the world of online networking, or looking to uplevel with new tools out there to grow your circle professionally and personally, this episode dives deep into:The mindset shifts needed for intentional networkingHow to use AI tools like Taplio and ChatGPT to amplify your LinkedIn presenceThe difference between collecting contacts vs. cultivating real relationshipsWhy giving before asking can transform your networking approachWe reflect on our own journeys and share practical tools, mindset shifts, and real-life examples to help you show up more powerfully in your network.In a nutshell: AI can help you save time—but you build the relationships. Learn how to keep your networking authentic, strategic, and aligned with the person you want to become.

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    Episode 21: Inside ChatGPT’s Sycophant Phase - When AI Tells You What You Want to Hear

    In this episode, we dive into the rising trend of using AI tools like ChatGPT for emotional and therapeutic reflection, and why that might be a dangerous shortcut. After a revealing dinner conversation about a friend's experience with ChatGPT's "sycophant mode," Sabine and I explore the limitations of AI when it comes to human nuance, conflict, and emotional growth.You’ll learn:Why ChatGPT may give overly flattering feedback—and the risks of relying on it for self-reflection.How reinforcement learning shapes AI behaviour.The importance of human awareness, emotional intelligence, and the dangers of confirmation bias when using AI for personal advice.Why true growth still requires real human feedback.Whether you're curious about AI’s role in our personal lives or navigating your own journey of growth, this episode will remind you to stay conscious, not just connected.What’s one moment this week where you caught yourself seeking external validation—was it human or AI? Tag us in your answer or DM us your thoughts!

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    Episode 20: From Overwhelm to Ownership: Using AI to Transform Your Money Mindset

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we dive into a conversation many of us are having these days - how to navigate rising living costs while staying grounded, informed, and empowered around our finances. From that "where did all my money go?" feeling at the end of the month to understanding the emotional undercurrents of how we spend and save, we unpack the essentials of a strong money mindset.In this episode, Abha and Sabine explore:What money mindset is and how it shapes your daily decisionsWhy clarity and transparency with money is more vital than everAI tools like YNAB (You Need A Budget) and Honeydue to help you manage finances solo or as a coupleHow AI is transforming financial visibility—and why usability and security matterSimple awareness shifts to help you feel more calm, in control, and intentional with your moneyWhether you're a full-time professional, entrepreneur, or managing your household, this episode offers real talk and practical tools to help you feel less overwhelmed and more empowered around your finances.What is your current relationship with money—and who do you want to be in that relationship?

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    Episode 19: AI at Work - Setting Boundaries in an AI-Powered Workplace

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we dive into how AI is transforming the workplace - and what that means for your time, boundaries, and self-worth. From freeing yourself from repetitive tasks to navigating the subtle pressure of doing more because you can, Abha and Sabine explore the dual challenge of embracing AI while protecting your humanity.You’ll learn:How to delegate low-leverage tasks to AI and reclaim time for meaningful workWays to use AI tools for creative brainstormingThe hidden emotional cost of always saying “yes” at work—even with AI saving timeHow to set healthy boundaries with colleagues and bosses in an AI-enhanced worldWhy your mindset, motivation, and human connection matter more than everKey reflection here: Now that AI gives you more time—how will you protect it?

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    Episode 18: Should 4-year olds learn AI? What the UAE’s bold move means for our kids

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, Sabine and Abha dive into a bold move by the UAE government: making AI education mandatory for children starting at age 4. What does this mean for the future of our kids, and for us as parents?They explore the conversation around early AI literacy, the double standards we hold around screen time, and how we can raise informed, empowered digital citizens. With real talk and thoughtful debate, this conversation is one that will need to continue.  AI is here to stay. It's not about resisting it, it's about learning how to engage with it consciously, for the sake of our children and ourselves. Take 10 minutes today to ask: What does meaningful screen time look like for my child? And, am I AI literate enough to support them?

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    Episode 17: When AI gets ugly - Parenting, mental health & digital responsibility

    In this emotional and thought-provoking episode, Sabine and Abha confront an alarming news story in the AI space: the tragic suicide of a 14-year-old allegedly influenced by a chatbot. Together, they explore the critical question: where does responsibility lie when AI and vulnerable minds intersect?From unpacking the developmental science of young brains to exploring how emotional intelligence and conscious parenting can act as safeguards, this episode offers guidance for navigating an AI-powered world with empathy and awareness. If you’re a parent, educator, or anyone who cares about the next generation, this conversation is a must-listen.

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    Episode 16: The truth about the "ChatGPT Hyphen"

    In this punchy and passionate episode, Abha and Sabine dive into a surprisingly hot topic: the infamous "ChatGPT hyphen" — more accurately known as the em dash. Abha shares her writer's perspective on why the em dash is not a telltale sign of AI content but rather a powerful storytelling tool used by great authors for centuries.Together, they explore:Why the em dash is trending in AI-generated writing.Whether we should judge content based on how it was made—or how it makes us feel.How to use AI tools without losing your authentic voice.A mindset shift: from fearing AI to focusing on content that adds value.Key takeaway: It's not about AI vs. human. It's about meaningful, high-quality writing—em dash or not.This week, reflect on your own content. Are you creating from a place of intention and value? Whether it’s with AI tools or not, what matters is the impact.Tune in, and tag a friend who’s still calling it the "ChatGPT hyphen" — we’ve got some educating to do :)

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    Episode 15: Is AI making us lazy leaders?

    This week on Who Do You Want to Be?, we unpack a fascinating—and slightly unsettling—experience from a recent AI conference in Bangkok. Sabine shares a story about a new app called Happily AI, designed to improve employee engagement and organizational culture in Asia. But what happens when leaders start using AI to avoid real conversations?Together, we dive into:Why AI feedback tools must enhance, not replace, human connectionThe danger of outsourcing emotional intelligence to algorithmsWhat Gen Z employees really want from their leadersHow we can use AI to support authentic leadership—not dodge itWe ask the big question: Are we letting AI tools distance us from our humanity?Key takeawaysAI is a tool—not a replacement—for real human leadership.Feedback is only meaningful when followed by real conversations.Younger generations crave emotional intelligence and mentorship.We must use tech intentionally to support, not substitute, our values.So this week, we urge you to take 5 minutes to ask yourself: “Am I hiding behind a tool when I should be showing up as a leader?” Reflect and share your thoughts with us or share with a friend who needs to hear this.

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    Episode 14: From idea-to-action: How AI makes it easier than ever to begin

    What if the only thing standing between you and your dream business is... you?In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be, we dive into the life-changing potential of AI and no-code tools that are making entrepreneurship more accessible than ever before. From launching side hustles in your spare time to pivoting your full-time career, the path has never been clearer—or faster.Abha shares her personal journey of leaving the 9-to-5 behind, and together with Sabine, they explore how the power of failing fast, testing ideas, and embracing new technology can unlock doors you didn’t even know existed. Whether you’re a full-time professional, a stay-at-home mom, or someone simply dreaming of something more—this episode is your sign to start.Key takeaways:Why AI and no-code tools have removed traditional barriers to starting something newHow to experiment with ideas without risking time, money, or energyThe importance of mindset, clarity, and self-reflection in today’s fast-changing worldHow to navigate the temptation of “shiny object syndrome” when everything feels possible What’s one idea you’ve been sitting on? Take 30 minutes this week to explore it—play, experiment, and see what’s possible. Then, share your experience with us. We’d love to hear from you!

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    Episode 13: Raising emotionally intelligent kids in an AI-first world

    As we enter an AI-first world, one big question keeps coming up:How do we prepare our kids for a future we can’t predict?In this powerful follow-up to Episode 11, we dive deeper into the complexities of parenting in an age where AI is becoming part of daily life—and childhood. From tools that help with learning to AI-powered conversations that blur emotional lines, this episode explores how to guide our children with intention, balance, and empathy.We discuss: 🧠 The difference between using AI and being AI literate 🧒 Why emotional intelligence matters more than ever ⚠️ The risks of children forming “relationships” with AI tools 🛑 How to set boundaries while staying curious and open 💬 Why soft skills like resilience, adaptability, and empathy are non-negotiable for the next generationThis is a conversation for any parent, caregiver, or educator navigating technology, emotional growth, and future readiness.🎧 Listen in to reflect on how we can raise strong, self-aware, emotionally intelligent children—in a world where the rules are still being written.

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    Episode 12: The truth about motivation -- it’s not what keeps you going

    Ever feel like you're running on empty, yet still pushing through your endless to-do list? In this raw and real episode, we open up about the days when motivation is nowhere to be found—and why having someone in your corner makes all the difference.We talk about:The quiet power of accountability partnersHow discipline often carries us further than motivationWhy AI might be saving us time... but also stealing our breaksThe trap of constantly doing, and how to actually refill your cupA surprising tool that acts like a virtual boss (and why we’re unsure if we love it or hate it)This episode is your permission slip to pause, reflect, and remember your "why." Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a mom, or someone navigating a busy season, you’re not alone in this.Mentioned in the episode: Boss As A Service (accountability tool) https://bossasaservice.com/🎧 Tune in to reconnect with your purpose—and maybe find a better way to stay motivated.

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    Episode 11: How do we talk to our kids about AI?

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we dive into an essential and timely topic—how do we talk to our kids about AI? As AI becomes a bigger part of our daily lives, our children will grow up in a world where it's second nature. But how much do they need to know? How do we balance their curiosity while ensuring they develop a healthy understanding of AI’s benefits and limitations?Join us as we share personal stories of explaining AI to our kids, explore the challenges of AI literacy for parents, and discuss how to foster the right mindset for the next generation. Plus, we tackle that all-too-familiar mom guilt—helping others embrace AI while wondering if we’re preparing our own children enough.This is a conversation every modern parent needs to have. Tune in and let’s navigate this together!🎙️ Have thoughts on this topic? Share your questions and experiences with us—we’d love to continue this conversation in future episodes!

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    Episode 10: How will we be hired in a future with AI?

    Are traditional resumes becoming obsolete? In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we dive into a crucial conversation about the future of hiring—one that prioritizes skills and adaptability over degrees and past employers.With AI reshaping industries, companies face a choice: replace workers with automation or empower employees to upskill and evolve. But how do we assess real talent beyond a polished CV? Sabine and Abha explore the growing demand for emotional intelligence, critical thinking, and flexibility—the human qualities that will define success in an AI-driven world.Plus, we tackle a key question: Is AI making us lazy, or is it pushing us to think smarter? Tune in as we discuss how to work with AI, not be replaced by it, and why your curiosity and lifelong learning are your biggest career assets.🎧 Listen now and ask yourself: Are you ready to adapt?💡 What are you doing to future-proof your skills? Join the conversation!

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    Episode 9: Do you always admit to using ChatGPT at work?

    In this thought-provoking episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we dive into the evolving relationship between AI and our personal integrity. Have you ever felt hesitant to admit you used AI for a task? Do you worry about being judged for leveraging tools like ChatGPT? You're not alone.Join us as we explore the stigma around AI use, why some people feel the need to hide it, and how we can shift the conversation from "Did you use AI?" to "Did you do the job well?" We discuss real-life examples, workplace attitudes, and how AI is reshaping expectations in job applications, business, and creativity.Should you feel guilty for using AI? The fine line between efficiency and deceptionHow to embrace AI while preserving authenticity and integrityThe future of work: Skill vs. tool—what really matters?Tune in for a candid discussion that challenges conventional thinking and encourages a healthier perspective on AI adoption. 💬 Have you faced skepticism about using AI? Share your thoughts with us!

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    Episode 8: Are you managing your content diet?

    Are you drowning in a sea of endless information? In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we explore the impact of information overload in our hyper-connected world. From mindless scrolling to algorithm-driven content consumption, we discuss how our digital diet affects our ability to focus, make decisions, and stay present in our daily lives.Join us as we reflect on intentional content consumption, the importance of setting boundaries with technology, and practical ways to regain control of our attention. Can we embrace technology without losing ourselves in the process? Tune in and discover how to build a healthier relationship with the information we consume every day.Call to Action: What does your content diet look like? Share your thoughts with us—how are you managing information overload in your life?

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    Episode 7: Overcoming imposter syndrome at the AI Everything conference

    Have you ever walked into a room and questioned if you really belonged there? In this episode, we dive into the powerful topic of imposter syndrome, as Ava shares her experience speaking at the AI Everything Conference in Dubai. From self-doubt to a packed audience eager for her insights, Ava reflects on the lessons learned about confidence, comparison, and the unique value we each bring to the table.We explore:✅ Why imposter syndrome creeps in—even when you’re an expert✅ The mindset shift that helps you own your place in any room✅ How taking action, even when scared, builds lasting confidenceWhether you’ve ever felt like an outsider in your own industry or doubted your expertise, this episode is a must-listen!🎧 Tune in now and remind yourself: You belong.

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    Episode 6: How to keep moving forward when life throws you off course

    Life doesn’t always go according to plan. Whether it’s an unexpected illness, a family emergency, or just the everyday chaos of balancing work and home life, we all face moments when our carefully laid-out plans fall apart. So, how do we adjust, stay intentional, and keep moving forward—without burning out?In this episode, we get real about navigating setbacks, re-evaluating priorities, and letting go of what no longer serves us, and how technology can support us in these times. 

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    Episode 5: Is it possible to future proof our lives?

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be?, we dive into a question that’s on everyone’s mind: How can we future-proof our lives in an era of unprecedented technological change? Instead of chasing an unpredictable future, Abha and Sabine explore the power of focusing on what is within our control—our health, mindset, and daily habits.From sleep tracking and wearable tech to setting intentional habits for well-being, this episode unpacks how technology can empower us without replacing our ability to think critically. Can we trust AI-powered health gadgets? How do we stay mindful in a world that moves at lightning speed? And most importantly—how do we design a life where we thrive instead of just keeping up?Join the conversation and take a moment to reflect: What can you control today to shape your future self?👉 Listen now and share your thoughts!

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    Episode 4: Using ChatGPT effectively & without overwhelm

    If you are feeling lost in the sea of AI tools and information, in this episode, we dive into how to cut through the noise and make AI work for you, without the overwhelm. Abha and Sabine discuss the explosion of AI adoption in 2024, why ChatGPT remains one of the most powerful tools available, and how to train it to deliver high-quality, personalized results. You’ll learn practical strategies for using AI effectively, when (and if) you should explore alternatives, and how to avoid the common pitfalls that make AI-generated content feel generic. If you’re ready to harness AI without getting stuck in endless tech comparisons, this episode is for you. Tune in now.Resource shared in episode: How to outperform 98% of ChatGPT users: https://creatormums.kit.com/chatgptguide

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    Episode 3: Beyond the Roles: Who Are You at Your Core?

    In this episode, Abha and Sabine dive into the journey of self-discovery, exploring what it means to truly connect with your core identity amidst the chaos of modern life. In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be, they reflect on the importance of values, intentional habits, and the balance between technology and humanity. Gain insights on how to prioritize, be present, and take small, meaningful steps to align your daily behaviours with the person you aspire to become in 2025 and beyond.

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    Episode 2: Tackling Tech Overwhelm by Embracing Curiosity

    In this episode of Who Do You Want to Be? we explore the growing world of AI tools like ChatGPT and how to approach them with curiosity, experimentation, and a growth mindset. Learn how to overcome tech overwhelm, start small, and use tools to complement your abilities, not replace them.We highlight the importance of using AI as a brainstorming partner and time-saver.Together, we discuss the key to navigating rapidly evolving tech: staying open, adaptive, and unafraid to experiment.Tune in for actionable insights to help you embrace change, take the first step, and discover who you want to be in this exciting era of possibility.

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    Episode 1: Who Do You Want to Be in 2025? Mindset, AI, and Embracing Change

    Welcome to the first episode of Who Do You Want to Be? for 2025! Join Abha and Sabine as they explore the powerful intersection of mindset and technology in the year ahead. This inspiring conversation dives into how artificial intelligence (AI) can help you achieve your goals faster, adapt to change, and balance multiple roles—whether you're a mum, entrepreneur, or lifelong learner. Together, they discuss how to embrace AI as an opportunity, maintain your humanity in a tech-driven world, and reflect on the person you want to become this year. Tune in for actionable insights, thought-provoking ideas, and motivation to design your best self in 2025.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

"Who Do You Want to Be?" is a podcast that speaks to women, especially mums, who are ready to explore their potential and find clarity in a tech-driven world. Each week, we dive into conversations at the intersection of AI and humanity, offering practical strategies and reflective stories to help you thrive personally and professionally. From designing your future self to building resilience, this podcast is your companion in embracing change and staying ahead. Join a community of like-minded women committed to intentional growth and transformation. Ready to step into who you want to be? Let’s begin this journey together.

HOSTED BY

Abha Malpani Naismith & Sabine Karunanithy

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