Why Won't You Love Me? - SYOK Podcast [ENG]

This week on Why Won’t You Love Me?, Bradley Simpson joins us for a heartfelt dive into his songs and the emotions behind them. We talk about meeting “the one” and all the what ifs—like how life might have been different if they had come a little earlier. We also explore how some people walk into your life at the exact perfect moment, just when you need them most. From lingering breakups to finding closure, this episode is all about love, timing, and the connections that shape who we are.

We’ve all had that “right person, wrong time” moment — the one who lingers in your mind, the one you almost sent a 3AM text to but (thankfully or not?) didn’t. In this special episode of Why Won’t You Love Me?, Yasmin is joined by Henry Moodie, who opens up about navigating the bittersweet reality of love and timing that just doesn't line up. His latest single, sunday morning, is out EVERYWHERE now — and his album mood swings drops on August 24th. #SYOKPodcast #WhyWontYouLoveMe

In this episode, we have Melissa Campbell and Carmen Soo from Astro Shaw's latest series 'First Wives' diving deep into the quiet resilience of female friendships — the emotional lifelines that often hold women together when romantic relationships fail to meet expectations. We explore the unique strength, empathy, and loyalty that women bring to each other’s lives, especially in moments of disappointment, emotional neglect, or when men opt out of the responsibilities that come with love and partnership.

Is staying friends with an ex a sign of maturity or just asking for trouble? In this episode, we explore the pros and cons of keeping that post-breakup friendship alive—when it’s healthy, when it’s messy, and when it’s best to walk away.

Yeah we definitely didn't freak out when we had our first ever live international artist interview with Miss Olivia Marsh. On this week's episode we unpack her debut EP, Meanwhile, and her thoughts on the themes of self-exploration and love that are found all throughout her music!

Falling out of love is hard—but watching someone fall out of love with us? Even harder. In this episode, we invite Qasrina Karim on to unpack the emotional rollercoaster of drifting apart, why it happens, and how to handle it with grace.

In this special episode, singer-songwriter Elijah Woods joins us to dive into the themes of love and relationships in his music. He opens up about the importance of loving people the way they need—not just the way we assume they do—plus the unexpected lessons he’s learned from past relationships.

They say distance makes the heart grow fonder—but does it really? In this episode, we’re talking about how time apart affects relationships, how often you should see your partner, and whether missing someone actually brings you closer or just drives you apart. Plus, we dive into the post-breakup feels—why we long for people and how we cope differently.

We’ve all felt that little green monster creeping in—but what happens when jealousy takes over? In this episode, we dive into the messy world of insecurity in relationships, why we feel it, and how to handle it without going off the deep end. Plus, our guests spill some hilarious stories about the questionable things they’ve done out of jealousy. (No judgment… we’ve been there too!)

Is honesty always the best policy in relationships? In this episode, we invited Asyraf Nasir and Kat Roshan to tackle the tricky topic of white lies. Should you tell your partner everything, or is it okay to hold back to protect their feelings? Plus, who really gets to decide that anyways?

Let’s talk about something we’ve all wondered: is it normal to find other people attractive while in a relationship? We’ll break down the difference between harmless admiration and crossing the line, why attraction happens, and how to deal with it while keeping your relationship strong.

We’re diving into the world of "work spouses" and what they mean for your actual relationship. Is it just harmless office banter, or could it blur boundaries and create real problems with your partner? We’ll explore the dynamics of these close workplace friendships, how to keep things respectful, and when it’s time to have the talk about what’s okay and what’s not.

In this spicy episode, we tackle the drama of finding out your friend is the "other person" in someone else’s relationship. How do you handle the betrayal, awkwardness, and moral dilemmas? Should you call them out, support them, or walk away?

On this week's episode, we're feeling a bit old, but that's because we have our 15-year-old intern Jasmin with us! We compare our perceptions of love and relationships, reliving nostalgic moments from our own past.

Ever wonder why some arguments feel like a game of dodgeball and others like a team huddle? We’re breaking down the most common argument styles, spilling the tea on why we fight the way we do, and sharing tips to argue smarter—not harder!

In this episode, Nura and Yasmin invite Hero Remaja alumni and walking green flag, Afiq Hamidon, to unpack the big question: how much is too much to sacrifice for your partner? From making compromises to setting boundaries, we’ll explore how to balance giving with protecting your own needs and happiness.

How much privacy should you keep in your relationship? We’ll dive into what’s okay to keep between you and your partner and when it’s healthy (or not) to involve family and friends in your relationship issues. From venting to your best friend to leaning on family for advice, we explore when sharing becomes oversharing—and how to set boundaries that protect your relationship while keeping a support system.

So, this week we've got none other than Miss Daiyan Trisha on the podcast?! We cover all the themes of grief, heartbreak and newfound self-love in her latest album, Lovelorn.

In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when your partner’s having a rough time mentally. From simple ways to show support to keeping your own energy up, we’ll give you tips and tricks for being there without losing yourself.

Juggling a career and a relationship can sometimes feel like spinning plates—one wrong move, and everything comes crashing down. Whether you’re climbing the corporate ladder, running your own business, or just trying to meet that next deadline, finding time for your partner can be challenging.

Nura and Yasmin invite on Borak Space co-founder Hakim Parker to talk about his experience dealing with familial issues that led to the breakup of a relationship he thought he could have seen through to the long-run.

What happens when your social calendars are out of sync, and your partner’s idea of a good time doesn’t quite match yours? In this episode, we tackle the tricky situation of being in a relationship where one person’s social life is a whirlwind of lepak sessions, late nights, and endless plans, while the other prefers Netflix marathons and quiet dinners at home. How do you find balance when your idea of fun isn’t exactly compatible?

Is it okay for your friend to develop feelings for someone from your past? Because when it comes to matters of the heart, finding the right balance between honoring your own feelings and respecting the bonds of friendship is key.

Are public displays of affection sweet gestures of love or cringe-worthy moments best kept private? In this episode, we dive headfirst into the great PDA debate, explore the spectrum of PDA and where society draws the line. Is it a romantic expression of passion, or does it make everyone else want to run for cover?

On this week's episode, we take a little break from our regularly scheduled program so that Yasmin can share some not-so-good updates on her relationship along with what she's learned from it. Every cloud has a silver lining ❤️

Maybe you’re dating someone who remembers rotary phones or someone who needs a history lesson on 90s pop culture, but either way, we’ve got you covered. Why is there a stigma behind age-gap relationships and is it always horror stories?

Whether it’s rekindling an old flame or fixing a recent breakup, giving love a second chance is like reheating French fries—never quite the same, but sometimes it just hits the spot. Are you thinking about rekindling an old flame? Make sure you think about it twice, if not thrice!

Saying the big three words "I love you" for the first time is both scary and thrilling. Soooo….when is the perfect moment to drop the big L-Bomb?

From minor annoyances to major red flags, what are the deal breakers that can make it or break a relationship for you?

PSA to all our nice guys out there, this one's for you! Are nice guys truly at a disadvantage, or is there more to them than meets the eye? Do nice guys finish last, or are they the real winners in the dating game? Featuring Aziz Harun, your nice guy next door.

We’re back for season 2! Get ready for wild ride as we kick off this season with the unwritten rules of Girl Code and Bro Code. Is it necessary? What is your personal code? And does it really work?

The pivotal question that often echoes through the chambers of a wounded heart. Is seeking closure a necessary step for personal growth, or can one authentically move forward without it?

A nuanced understanding of the complex decisions involved in knowing when to stay and when to gracefully exit. Is it a culmination of red flags, a gut feeling, or a profound realization that prompts such a decision?

The complex emotions that accompany the notion of 'the one who got away.' Is it a romanticized ideal or a tangible reality that shapes our understanding of love and loss?

One of the most profound questions that accompany every romantic journey: Is this person The One? Is there a universal checklist, or is the answer as beautifully unique as each individual love story?

What factors should one consider, and is there a universal 'right' time for introducing your loved one to your family? Whether you're in the early stages of a blossoming romance or pondering the timing of this pivotal moment.

Is there a magic formula for determining the ideal duration of a break, or is it a uniquely personal journey for each individual?

Is it possible to rebuild after the breach of trust, or does infidelity leave scars too deep to mend? With expert insights, diverse perspectives, and real-life experiences, we embark on a poignant journey through the labyrinth of love, grappling with the profound question of whether cheating can ever be truly forgivable.

We're fearlessly confronting the 'C' word – commitment. Whether you're a self-proclaimed commitment-phobe or someone yearning for a love that lasts, we're creating a space for open dialogue and self-discovery.

Can interracial relationships work? From understanding and respecting cultural differences to building a strong foundation based on love and communication, we'll uncover the keys to success or maybe the downfall of your relationship.

Is having friends of the opposite gender acceptable in a romantic relationship? We'll explore the nuances of maintaining meaningful connections with friends of the opposite gender while being in a romantic relationship. How do jealousy, communication, and societal norms play a role in shaping our perceptions? The boundaries you've set between your friends for the safety of your relationship with your partner.

In a swirl of contrasting personalities, quirks, and interests, we're delving into the intricate dance of love where opposites may just find their perfect match. In this episode, we explore the magnetic pull between individuals with differing traits, examining whether the old adage holds true or if it's just a romantic notion.

What to do when your friends don't like your significant other? It's not always smooth sailing when your love life and friend circle collide, and we're here to explore the reasons behind friends' disapproval. Are there valid concerns, or is it a clash of personalities?

As we dive into New Year's resolutions, get ready for some lively advice on breaking bad habits, improving on some of our toxic traits and injecting a dose of positivity into your love life for a fabulous year ahead.

Can love truly conquer distance? Long-distance relationships are not merely difficult; they are exceptionally challenging. So, the multi-million dollar question is: Is it sustainable, or does it inevitably go down in flames? Is it a romantic journey worth embarking on, or a perilous path filled with heartache?

The unique patterns and cues that reveal how we express our deepest emotions. From sweet nothings to heartfelt high-fives, Everyone have their own LOVE LANGUAGE. So......what is your love language?

Privacy isn't just a setting; it's a lifestyle. The line between privacy and secrecy is increasingly blurred. With dating apps, social media profiles, and relationship statuses broadcasted for the world to see, how can you maintain a private relationship without crossing into secrecy?

What happens when a cherished friend confesses romantic feelings that aren't shared, and how to preserve the bond while respecting honest emotions. Whether you've been in their shoes or yours, friendship can endure, even when love takes a different path.

Does love favour the bold, or is it a game of romantic roulette where anyone can spin the wheel of the first move? Should it be a grand gesture, a shy smile, or a clever message that ignites the spark? Whether you're a traditionalist, a hopeless romantic, or simply looking for a dose of inspiration, we're decoding the tug of war of who should make the first move.

Situationships are too common in this day and age, why's everyone so scared of commitment? Is it worth investing in a long-term partnership when you can enjoy the companionship and benefits without a commitment? This episode is your guide to understanding situationships (and why it's not for most people!).