You and me, both

Home doesn't stop being home just because you left it. But maybe, when you live abroad, you're not missing people's lives — you're bumping into their dimensions. Your best friend had a baby. Your cousin got married. and you're here, living a completely different reality, visiting theirs when you can.We talked about what it means to leave, to stay gone, and to make peace with both. Episode 2 is out now 🎙️

We spend so much time performing “fine” — for our families, our partners, our feeds. But what happens when we finally let someone in?In the very first episode of You and Me Both, I sit down with my dear friend Vanessa to talk about the real cost of achievement, the fear of being vulnerable, and what it actually means to have someone hold space for you.We talk about the good girl. The strong woman. The one who listens to everyone but never asks for help herself.This one is for anyone who has ever heard “why are you complaining? You have everything” — and felt something shift in their body.Come sit with us. 🎙️🤎#YouAndMeBoth #NewPodcast #VulnerabilityIsStrength #ChoosenFamily #DiasporaGirls #HealingJourney #WomenWhoFeel ps. some of these were recorded a while back but, well, life happened.