#005: Lessons Learned In Celibacy - with Safiya Robinson

Dentist and author, Safiya, is celibate and a free spirit at heart. What I thought was going to be purely about sex and celibacy, evolved into a much deeper topic.We discuss:How Safiya choose celibacy. Was she going around having bad sex and gave up?Does she date and how it works?The difference between choosing it for you vs your beliefs.How sex positivity isn’t always helpful.Free choice and don’t look to others to validate itMarching to your own drum. Take ownership of your feelings, beliefs and body.Ask for what you want.What is intimacy and are we settling for mediocre sex instead?From believing no one could ever love me, to hell yeah, bring on the love!Why quirks are the best in loveKeeping it simple, not wasting energy on things that may never happen.Safyia’s take on expectations.I reveal why I’m so passionate about health and why I chose it as a business.Come find Safiya at https://www.39andcounting.comHer book at Everything is a Thing✨ Don’t be a stranger:🎙️ Thinking about starting your own podcast? My membership at getyourpodcastdone.com will help you actually do the thing - without the overwhelm.📬 Want the good stuff I don’t share anywhere else? Hop on my email list❤️ If this episode made you think, laugh, or roll your eyes (in a good way), you can support the show here. It helps keep the mics on.The podcast host I swear by: Captivate💌 Old school and want to just say hi? Contact me here*Affiliate link alert: I get a tiny kickback if you sign up. Think of it as buying me a fancy coffee. ☕️