EPISODE · Mar 16, 2026 · 20 MIN
006 / Your Newborn Doesn't Have Colic: The 30 Second Fix Your Doctor Didn't Tell You
from Held & Heard: Infant potty training, elimination communication & postpartum motherhood · host Heather Medlin, Ready From Birth
Your baby won't stop crying. Their belly is full and their diaper is dry—but nothing works. Is it gas? Constipation? Your pediatrician says "colic" and tells you to wait it out. But what if your newborn isn't colicky at all? In this episode, I'm revealing the one communication signal that almost every new mother misses—and why understanding it can transform those hours of unexplained crying into 30 seconds to relief. If you've ever felt helpless while your baby screams, convinced there's something wrong but unable to figure out what, this episode is for you. I'm breaking down exactly why the newborn phase (0-8 weeks) is actually the EASIEST time to start understanding your baby—not the hardest—and how tuning into this one overlooked need can help prevent the overwhelm, frustration, and postpartum depression that so many mothers experience. In this episode, you'll discover: The real reason your newborn cries that has nothing to do with gas or colic Why babies communicate most clearly in the first 8 weeks (and what happens when we miss it) The exact body language and facial cues that signal your baby needs help—before they start screaming How I went from hours of unexplained crying with baby #1 to peaceful, confident postpartum with baby #3 Why starting elimination communication from birth makes newborn care EASIER, not harder What a "30-second potty pause" looks like in real life (yes, even one week postpartum after a 4th degree tear) This isn't about adding more to your plate. This is about understanding what your baby has been trying to tell you all along—so you can finally help them, trust yourself, and stop second-guessing every cry. If you're pregnant or in the thick of the newborn phase right now, this episode could change everything. Ready to learn more? Check out the Born Ready course for a step-by-step system to start elimination communication from day one. 🌿Already practicing EC? Join The Listening Circle for real-time support and community ______________________________ 🐣 Learn more about natural infant toilet learning and elimination communication at readyfrombirth.com 🌱 Interested in sustainability and toxin free gear? Check out Hiro Diapers, the healthiest diapers you can buy (for your baby AND the earth) 📲Follow along on Instagram @readyfrombirth.ec
What this episode covers
Your baby won’t stop crying—but it’s not colic. Discover the one signal almost every new mom misses and how understanding it can turn hours of unexplained fussiness into calm relief in less than 30 seconds. The best time to start? From birth.
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006 / Your Newborn Doesn't Have Colic: The 30 Second Fix Your Doctor Didn't Tell You
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