010: Whose Problem is it Anyway? Understanding Problem Ownership

As parents so often we get so wrapped up in issues- which aren't even ours to solve! Today, we tackle a question that every parent faces: Who really owns the problem—the child or the parent? Marjie and Paige explore the delicate balance between  our own problems, our kids' problems, and a shared problem. Once we are clear whose problem it is, we know whether we need to take action, offer support, or discuss solutions.  We see how getting clear on who owns the problem helps us respond in the most effective way—whether it's stepping back, offering guidance, or finding a solution together. Problem ownership helps us get out of convincing and over explaining. From forgotten soccer shoes to help with setting the table, we discuss how parents can determine when to step back and when to step in. Whether you're a parent of a toddler, teenager, adult, or somewhere in between, this episode offers valuable insights into raising resilient, independent children while still offering the love and support they need. Tune in and you might just discover it's not your problem!   Hosts  Marjie Longshore, Executive Director of Family Leadership Center Paige Trevor, Balancing Act Special thanks to editor Max Cotter and Wendy Tracy. Resources 📋Learn more and get on the waitlist for our upcoming Family Meeting Class ⁉️Having trouble ID'ing your problems? We'd love to help, send an email to: [email protected]  📒PocketGuide: Problem ID + Problem Ownership ⏰If you have the problem of Morning Mayhem, here's an affirmation for you! 🔍Check out Episode 009 for a refresher on Problem ID Stay Connected 📝Subscribe to the Family Leadership Center newsletter ⚖️Subscribe to Balancing Act's newsletter