011 Step Grandparenting with Joy: Donald Wainwright on Integrity, Play & Presence

Step grandparenting is more than just a role — it’s a calling to love, listen, and show up with joy, even when the bond isn’t by blood. In this episode of The Grandpa Channel, Donald Wainwright opens his heart about stepping into grandfatherhood with integrity, intention, and a basement full of toys. Raised in Baltimore by teachers who taught him accountability and character, Donald shares how those lessons became the foundation for the kind of grandfather he wanted to be. From modeling what integrity and morals look like in everyday life to teaching grandkids that even “taking a hat back to the store” can be an act of responsibility, Donald shows us how small moments shape legacies. He reminds us of the importance of play — the magic of Legos on the floor, basketball in the driveway, or simply listening with full attention. For Donald, these playful, present moments are just as vital as the big lessons. And while his journey into grandparenthood came through marriage, not biology, he reflects on how love and presence matter far more than titles or lineage. Donald’s story is also one of listening and understanding — from volunteering in prisons to building bonds with 32 grandkids, he shares how truly seeing others transforms relationships. At its core, his wisdom is simple yet powerful: “Just be Donald.” Authenticity, presence, and joy are enough. Whether you’re a step-grandparent navigating your role, a parent curious about how integrity and play intersect, or simply someone who loves a good grandpa story, this episode will leave you smiling, reflecting, and maybe even a little teary-eyed. 👉 Pull up a chair and join us for stories that stick, laughter that lingers, and a reminder that family is built on love, not titles. Hit play — and let’s grandpa.