EPISODE · Apr 25, 2025 · 17 MIN
012. The hidden cost of dating apps (no one talks about this)
from Decoding Wisdom · host Sachin Jha
Dating apps are fun… until they’re not.We were promised love at scale - but what if all we got was dopamine addiction, surface-level swiping, and a generation that’s scared to fall in love the real way?In this episode, I dive into why I’ve never liked dating apps - and why neuroscience might actually back me up. Inspired by Arthur Brooks’ conversation on Modern Wisdom, we’ll unpack:The 5 chemical stages of falling in love (and how dating apps keep you stuck in the first two)Why most of us are looking for a mirror, not a match — and don’t even realize itThe psychology behind why modern dating feels so transactionalWhat hookup culture, bioengineering, and ancient wisdom all have in commonI’m not saying I’ll never use them again. But I am saying this: you can’t swipe your way to soul-level connection.And if you've ever felt like something’s missing in today’s dating world... this episode might explain why.🎧 Inspired by: Arthur Brooks x Chris Williamson – Modern Wisdom Episode (Click here to check it out)🎯 This one’s real. Raw. And might just change how you look at love forever.Get in touch in the comments below or head to...Instagram: @sachin.jha23Twitter: @sachin_jha23Email: [email protected]*Disclaimer: The views, opinions, and thoughts expressed in this podcast are my own and do not represent those of any employer, organization or affiliate. I am not a licensed expert, and all discussions are based on personal experiences, insights, and publicly available information. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as professional advice. Always do your own research and seek guidance from qualified professionals where necessary. Listener discretion is advised.
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Dating apps are fun… until they’re not.We were promised love at scale - but what if all we got was dopamine addiction, surface-level swiping, and a generation that’s scared to fall in love the real way?In this episode, I dive into why I’ve never liked dating apps - and why neuroscience might actually back me up. Inspired by Arthur Brooks’ conversation on Modern Wisdom, we’ll unpack:The 5 chemical stages of falling in love (and how dating apps keep you stuck in the first two)Why most of us are looking for a mirror, not a match — and don’t even realize itThe psychology behind why modern dating feels so transactionalWhat hookup culture, bioengineering, and ancient wisdom all have in commonI’m not saying I’ll never use them again. But I am saying this: you can’t swipe your way to soul-level connection.And if you've ever felt like something’s missing in today’s dating world... this episode might explain why.🎧 Inspired by: Arthur Brooks x Chris Williamson – Modern Wisdom Episode (Click here to check it out)🎯 This one’s real. Raw. And might just change how you look at love forever.Get in touch in the comments below or head to...Instagram: @sachin.jha23Twitter: @sachin_jha23Email: [email protected]*Disclaimer: The views, opinions, and thoughts expressed in this podcast are my own and do not represent those of any employer, organization or affiliate. I am not a licensed expert, and all discussions are based on personal experiences, insights, and publicly available information. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as professional advice. Always do your own research and seek guidance from qualified professionals where necessary. Listener discretion is advised.
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