013. Why Your Suffering Isn’t As Unique As You Think – Break Free From Yes-But-Tology and Impossible Problems

Why do some people always have an excuse for why nothing will work? In this episode, Dave Flenagan and Zoe Hirsch explore Dr. Stef Huber’s article on Yes-But-ology—the tendency to reject advice and frame problems as unsolvable. Huber explains how this mindset fuels self-pity and avoids responsibility. She shares strategies to handle Yes-But-ers—whether by steering them toward solutions or stepping away. The episode also touches on reactance theory and why some prefer to stay stuck. Dave and Zoe discuss how to recognize this pattern in ourselves and shift toward action. Tune in for insights on overcoming resistance and taking ownership of change! 🎧 Listen now and stop getting stuck in the "Yes, but..." loop! Read the full, original article here on Medium. Or visit Dr. Huber's website on www.stefhuber.com This podcast contains AI-generated content that has been reviewed to ensure accuracy and quality.