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EPISODE · Jun 14, 2025 · 48 MIN

#015 - ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing Up

from Thats my Time with Tolu Afilaka

🎙️ EPISODE 4 – ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing UpIn this deeply personal and hilarious episode of That’s My Time, I’m joined by three amazing guests who represent different parts of my journey:Modupe Cole – my cousin, whom I haven’t seen in 18 years!Increase – my university classmate from our Civil Engineering days.Favour Nelson – a top productivity expert with gems for navigating life and work.Together, we dive into what no one really prepares you for — ADULTING. From choosing where to live (Kwara vs Lagos), to food struggles, navigating NYSC, dating in your 20s, and figuring out if work-life balance is even real — this episode is a raw and relatable look at growing up in Nigeria.We talked about:The shock of responsibilities and managing life aloneMaking important life decisions, including relationships and marriageMy cousin dating my close friend 😅The painful lessons I learned in a past relationshipHow many kids we each want 😂Lagos traffic and housing madnessModupe’s inspiring entrepreneurship journey with her crocheting businessIf gospel artistes should charge for ministrationOur future plans, personal growth, and moreIt’s funny, emotional, honest, and full of life lessons you didn’t know you needed. Whether you're 18, 25, or 30+, you’ll find yourself in this episode.📌 Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro 2:00 – The struggles of adulting 10:00 – Family, relationships & unexpected confessions 20:00 – NYSC, work-life chaos & productivity 35:00 – Entrepreneurship as a young Nigerian 41:00 – Gospel music, controversy & future plans 47:00 – Outro & final thoughts💬 Drop a comment – What’s been your biggest shock about adulthood? 📢 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on the notification bell for more real, raw and refreshing conversations!📌 Follow us on Instagram for BTS & more: @ThatsMyTimePodcast | @ToluAfilaka#Adulting101 #NigerianPodcast #ModupeCole #LagosLife #That’sMyTime #WorkLifeBalance #FavourNelson #GospelArtistes #LifeTalk #CrochetBusiness #NYSC #Relationships #ToluAfilaka Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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