EPISODE · Apr 22, 2025 · 11 MIN
#015 - Setting Healthy Boundaries in New Relationships
from The Mature Male · host Wes Lambert
Situation Scripts: Setting Healthy Boundaries in New RelationshipsThe Biology Behind Boundary Struggles: We explore Dr. Stan Tatkin's concept of "mutual regulatory difficulty" - how our simultaneous needs for connection and autonomy create tension in early dating relationships.The 5-Step Framework: Learn Dr. John Gottman's "I appreciate when..." method for communicating boundaries positively while maintaining connection instead of creating distance.Practical Applications: We provide specific language templates for setting boundaries around physical intimacy, communication frequency, and personal space that sound natural and strengthen trust rather than pushing someone away.
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Situation Scripts: Setting Healthy Boundaries in New RelationshipsThe Biology Behind Boundary Struggles: We explore Dr. Stan Tatkin's concept of "mutual regulatory difficulty" - how our simultaneous needs for connection and autonomy create tension in early dating relationships.The 5-Step Framework: Learn Dr. John Gottman's "I appreciate when..." method for communicating boundaries positively while maintaining connection instead of creating distance.Practical Applications: We provide specific language templates for setting boundaries around physical intimacy, communication frequency, and personal space that sound natural and strengthen trust rather than pushing someone away.
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