(#016) Why ‘This Is My Year’ Keeps You Stuck

Every year, we do the same thing.We rush to get the year over with.We obsess over everything that went wrong.We declare, “Good riddance - next year will be better.”And then we crown January as a magical reset button.And honestly?It’s keeping people stuck.In this episode, I go off-script and get real about why the “New Year, New Me” mentality is actually creating a 12-month loop - not transformation.Because when you only focus on what was bad, hard, or disappointing, you don’t move forward…You just repeat.• Why treating January like a “fresh start” disconnects you from your own growth• How ignoring the good from the past year sabotages the next one• Why your past isn’t a problem — it’s data• The real reason people repeat the same goals every year (hello, gym sign-ups 👀)• Why copying what everyone else is doing keeps you disconnected from what actually lights you up• And my honest take on vision boards — why they can work, but often don’tThis isn’t about toxic positivity or pretending the hard stuff didn’t happen.You cannot change the past — but you can use it.When you don’t understand your history, you repeat it.When you don’t look at patterns, you keep reliving them.And when you keep “starting over,” you never actually move forward.Let’s just call BS on the whole loop.Your life doesn’t reset on January 1.It continues.And that changes everything.🖤 “Let’s just call bull to this whole loop.”🖤 “Look at the past as data points — not a life sentence.”🖤 “You cannot change the past, but you can stop repeating it.”If this episode cracked something open for you, leave a review.It helps this message reach more women who are ready to stop starting over — and start moving forward.