019. Wild nights, Daddy issues & the Ex Factor ft. Rome de Luce

What happens when you sit down with your ex, turn on the mic, and refuse to censor the past? In this episode, Rose Heartsong and former lover Rome Deluce dive deep into their shared history, wild nights, open love, creative fire, and the moments that cracked them open. From their first sex parties to their evolution into conscious collaborators, this conversation is proof that endings can be beginnings in disguise. Find Rose @ https://www.instagram.com/roseheartsong/and https://www.roseheartsong.com/Schedule a complimentry consulation - https://calendly.com/roseheartsong/complimentaryconsultation?back=1&month=2025-08Find Rome @ https://www.instagram.com/romedaluce/Get yourself a splash blanket and use the discount code "roseheartsong" at checkout for 10% off https://splashblanket.us/00:00 – Introduction and Personal GrowthRose opens with a raw reflection on how the past shapes the lovers and artists we become. 00:17 – Welcome to Follow Your HeartsongSetting the tone: a space for truth, desire, and unapologetic conversation.00:54 – Nervous Beginnings and Special Guest IntroductionMeet Rome Deluce, ex-lover, creative co-conspirator, and someone who’s seen Rose's path of refinement. 02:25 – Reconnecting with RomeHow years apart and personal evolution made this reunion not only possible, but powerful.03:36 – First Encounters and ChemistryThat first spark magnetic, electric, and just a little dangerous. 06:15 – Navigating Jealousy and Open RelationshipsThe messy art of loving more than one, without losing yourself (or your mind).08:10 – Exploring Play Parties and Ethical Non-MonogamyFrom first nervous steps into a sex party to creating a container of trust that made wild exploration safe and hot. 14:36 – Defining Relationship ContainersWhy clear agreements and boundaries aren’t buzzkills, they’re the secret to sustainable passion. 22:58 – Challenges of Modern Dating and Hookup CultureWhy swipe culture is numbing us and what real connection asks for instead. 24:52 – Importance of Communication and Self-DiscoveryTurning awkward conversations into erotic intimacy.26:28 – Reflecting on Ethical SlutThe book that cracked open their perspectives27:27 – Navigating Boundaries and EthicsHow saying “no” can make your “yes” even sexier.28:45 – The Nice Guy DilemmaRome’s journey from “too nice” to confident dominance and what women really crave.30:04 – Exploring New Dating AppsAdventures, disasters, and why no app can replace real-world chemistry.30:31 – Dominance and Leadership in RelationshipsThe evolution of power, leading with attunement, self-mastery, and integrity.33:11 – Harnessing Sexual Energy for CreativityTurning desire into music, art, and radical self-expression.35:47 – Healing and Self-DiscoveryThe breakup-to-breakthrough process that turned pain into possibility.42:49 – Art, Music, and FriendshipHow they transformed romantic love into an unshakable creative bond.45:40 – Concluding Thoughts and ReflectionsWhy they wouldn’t change a thing and how loving fully, even when it ends, is the ultimate win.✨ Resources & Special Offers ✨🌹 Explore more at www.roseheartsong.com🛏 Splash Blanket - 10% off with code ROSEHEARTSONG → https://splashblanket.us/