020- Agree to Disagree: How "Being Right" Is Ruining Your Relationships

Host Sam and co-host Anthony talk about wanting to be right in a relationship. Typically, when feelings are hurt, people in relationships want their voice to be heard and end up making sure their partner knows it. But, what does it look like for couples to get to a point where they are heard without needing to "prove" that what happened in their mind was absolutely right? In this episode, you'll learn tangible ways to engage in relationship disagreements that don't leave either of you having to feel "right"... and everyone gets to be seen and heard. This relationship-changing tool will keep you happier, healthier, and having more fun. And it's not limited to couples; you can use this communication tool with anyone: friends, bosses, family, you name it. In the end, you get to share what happened from your perspective, they get to share what happened from theirs, and everyone gets to be "right". This resource is where a lot of this podcast's descriptions during conflict come from. John Gottman is a relationship expert who has contributed countless resources towards healthy relating from new to long-standing relationships. Gottman's PamphletThank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirlAre you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community? Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters! We love to hear from you, so please connect with us on Instagram: @houstontantragirl and @anthony._michael