020: How the “Good Girl” Archetype Is Secretly Killing Your Relationship

What if the very behaviors that made you feel lovable are the same ones disconnecting you from intimacy, desire, and authentic connection?In this powerful episode of SIP with Summers, Jennifer sits down with relationship and feminine embodiment coach Bella Krutik to unpack how “good girl conditioning” quietly shapes women’s relationships, boundaries, sexuality, and sense of self.Bella shares her deeply personal story of reconciling with her ex-husband years after divorce, and how embodiment work, nervous system regulation, and radical self-awareness transformed not only her relationship… but her relationship with herself.Together, Jennifer and Bella explore:People pleasing and lack of boundariesWhy over-functioning kills attractionThe connection between authenticity and libidoNervous system regulation and intimacyEmotional safety vs. emotional avoidanceThe “roommate phase” in long-term relationshipsFeminine embodiment and reconnecting to your bodyHow “good girls” become emotionally unavailableWhy pleasure requires vulnerabilityPlus, Bella guides listeners through a beautiful grounding and presence exercise you can try yourself.This episode is for every woman who has ever felt disconnected, resentful, emotionally shut down, or stuck performing a version of herself that no longer fits.Connect with Bella:Instagram: @bellakcoachingHead to Bella's Instagram page and either book a discovery call or download her freebies (these include a Relationship Reconnection guide and Pleasure Playlist to help you move into pleasure before a date night).Connect with Jennifer: 🌐 Summers of Love🎙️ All of her social links and upcoming events