026: Why Christian Parents Need to Stop Praying for Stuff—and Start Asking for This Instead

In this episode, Brett encourages Christian parents to go "all in" on their faith by seeking the Kingdom of God with intentionality and depth. He reflects on his personal journey of learning to discern God's voice versus his own thoughts and emphasizes the foundational role of Scripture in that process. Rather than relying solely on emotional impressions or external voices, Brett urges listeners to immerse themselves in God's Word to allow true revelation to take root. A powerful moment of insight comes as Brett revisits Luke 11:9-13, a passage often associated with general prayer. However, he highlights a revelation that this specific scripture is actually centered on asking for the Holy Spirit. This shifts the focus from seeking material provision to seeking spiritual empowerment and guidance. Brett reinforces this by referencing a sermon by Mark Batterson, who suggests we should end every prayer by asking for more of the Holy Spirit. The episode concludes with a reframing of life purpose—not just as discovering passion or solving problems—but as preparing ourselves and others to walk with God forever. Brett ties this into the greatest commandments: to love God wholly and love others. Key Takeaways: Discerning God's Voice starts with deep, personal engagement with Scripture. Luke 11 reveals that "Ask, Seek, Knock" is ultimately about seeking the Holy Spirit. Our true purpose is to prepare ourselves—and others—to walk with God eternally. The Holy Spirit empowers us to live out our faith, overcome struggles, and grow spiritually.   FREE RESOURCES The Sower's Scorecard - Were you planted in good soil and bearing fruit or cast among thorns? Take this assessment to find out! My faith revival started with the  Oceans Church podcast. I have never been to a church that has such powerful teaching in my life and has made a huge impact on me. If you aren't attending a local church I highly recommend you start listening to Pastor Mark Francey.  Messenger X App - A great resource by Messenger International started by John and Lisa Bevere. You can watch videos and listen audio books for FREE to grow in your faith.  The John Bevere Podcast This is another podcast that is on my listening list as I have come to enjoy listening to the wisdom from John and his son.