028: How to Unleash Your Humble Alpha & Reach Optimal Performance with Lane Belone

 "The moment that we switch optimal performance of trying to be somebody else to actually just being myself, then everything shifts. We start to find this beautiful flow, this beautiful dance with life to where we're just crushin' it because we're doing everything that we love to do."  – Lane Belone   What does it mean to unleash your humble alpha? Join me in this episode of The Modern Man as I welcome Lane Belone, a Curious Explorer, Curious Explorer, and Storyteller. Lane is a Special Forces Green Beret veteran who helps entrepreneurs achieve their purpose and reach optimal performance. His experience builds trust and adaptability within executive teams, forming them into laser-focused A-teams. Lane is also the co-author of the Unleash Your Humble Alpha. Lane has traveled to 40 countries, he's climbed the mountains and roughed the Arctic, and now he helps lead others to break through their unknown and step into their greatness. How? Unleashing your optimal performance and experimenting through imperfect action. What does that mean? Tune in to find out!   Key Takeaways / What You'll Learn: [00:54] About Lane Belone. [02:11] How do you find in clarity who you are, beyond what you do, and what direction you want to go in life? [05:54] How to monetize your skills and talents with experimentation through imperfect action. [09:48] The importance of embracing challenges in life & How to unleash your optimal performance or your Humble Alpha. [13:53] What does it look and feel like to operate in optimal performance?  [17:15] How to know you're on the right path in life. [19:49] Navigating challenges as a high-performing man. [24:15] THIS is what's holding you back from taking the next step… [28:28] Embodiment of presence helps you enjoy the entrepreneurial journey more! [32:20] Lane's shares the best advice he's ever received. [35:40] How to connect with Lane. [37:00] Lane describes how growing up without a father has enabled him to identify healthy masculine leadership.   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Unleash Your Humble Alpha by Lane Belone and Steven Kuhn: https://humblealpha.com/book Listen to episode 025: The Power of Owning Your Identity with Steven Kuhn: https://apple.co/3EU2Jpw  The Last Dance on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/watch/81002655    Connect with Lane: Visit his website: https://lanebelone.com  Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/increasefreedom  Connect with him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lanebelone  Visit Humble Alpha's website: https://humblealpha.com  Join their Advisory program: https://humblealpha.com/advisory    Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com  Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820  Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8  Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_modernman_show  Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg    About The Modern Man: "The Modern Man" is a series focused on discussing the challenges and obstacles men face in today's society. It is an open forum of discussion where thoughts, strategies, and ideas of men living happy and fulfilled life are explored.   The Modern Man aims to create a community of men not only sharing and connecting on a deeper level but also exploring how to thrive and tap into their limitless potential. This is done through intentional conversations strategically aimed at issues that men face in today's society.